We've Failed! A Painful Reminder 💔

[@ourselfreliantlife]

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[@stellabrown5034]

I wish I could read and write so I could subscribe to all your stuff I know that smart when it comes to technology my phone does most of the work for me thank God

[@baddog9320]

PLEASE HELP ME What town did you get your straw in? I'm over here in Southern New Mexico and NO ONE SELLS STRAW IN BALES HERE. Tractor supply sells tiny bales like 12 inches by 16..And they want way too much. like $20 for those tiny bales. I asked a couple weeks ago and I guess it was over looked. I really need some straw. Never seen a place that doesn't have straw until here. PLEASE TELL ME WHERE YOU BUY YOUR STRAW.

[@desertedenblooms]

I had to stop the video and say...I know it sucks to have that damage, but you have to , you must be a bit kinder to yourselves. You wouldnt like it if some troll came on here and say, something like suck it up, you did this, bla bla bla BUT HERE YOU BOTH are saying it was your fault, you could of , would of...well no. You did a great job, you had no way of foreseeing a massive storm, crap happens when we plan and God laughs! hindsight is always great but its not accurate! Wouldnt you rather have this happen now , than when you think your done ? or what if during a storm you had been in there when it happened ? injuring or worst one of you ? I think it was a God send to have this happen. I realize , its a lot more work now, the cleaning up you did, the stuff to do it again, the apprehension that if you miss something it could happen again and worst. But you have accomplished so much and have made incredible engineering feats with that home and you will accomplish this too. But stop bashing yourselves ... perhaps in your sphere of friends, family , on you tube videos, you will find the ultimate , best, most indestructible solution and some helping hands! Some Universities have engineering and architectural students that trouble shoot this kind of thing, they get credit and they like to help.

[@jeffcook8501]

Good morning to my favorite Dirt Bag Couple. You guys got this I understand how upsetting and discouraging a set back can be. Keep your heads up and remember it can always be worse just take it one step at a time and before you know it you will be past this set back and further to completing your dream. We are here to support you even during your failures. So try not to get to discouraged.

[@joeymayes9140]

Hang in there, guys. My buddy owns a missile silo near you guys. We'll have to meet one day.

[@FrugalOffGrid]

How many people build a huge amazing earthbag home? It's those successful risk takers who have several small failures along the way, that succeed in the end. In the big picture you both are a success. What an amazing home you have built.

[@msbevking]

You could use the collapsed dirt from your root cellar for the cobbing. It’s already sifted. Two birds

[@patpetersen7645]

just stop and look how beautiful the desert is.

[@jdcjr50]

Cheers! Thank you for sharing your life.

[@PatricesProjects]

Decluttering can really help one to feel lighter overall. It's a relief when things are organized and clean.

[@fallbrkgrl]

Amen Sister!

[@cynthiacrawford6147]

If the person isnt over organizing. A mausoleum is very hard to live in. Over organizing makes others feel like they are in a space where they are not wanted. Several of my friends were afraid to breathe in the house. I felt bad for them. Mom on them every second about the house. But on a happy medium everything with a place and everything in their place is nice :)

[@brusselsprout5851]

I agree. In my kitchen I’ll get busy making a lot of clutter. Then before I move on I clear it out, and clean it up. It lifts the spirits and gives a feeling of accomplishment. Their dome home is turning out beautiful. Now we can really see it in its style and decoration. 😊

[@PatricesProjects]

@@cynthiacrawford6147 I totally agree. I have been in showcase homes and didn't feel comfortable at all. Also sterile homes where the spaces are too clear and precise don't feel usable either. You don't want to mess anything up.

[@belumptuous]

So true

[@peterwaroblak166]

I experimented with soil cement for a floor in a shed, it's still holding up after 40 years.

[@mzimmerman1988]

I'm impressed with how that bit of roof is holding up. Very promising!

[@zeds.6783]

Jim, you need to help that good woman seal up the exterior! Start doing the cob/stone/plaster at the bottom, while she works from the top. Or not. DO what y'all think best, I suppose. lol God bless!

[@ericjohnson1008]

I'm glad you know what Jessica loves and can give her what she needs. Keep it up y'all.

[@ericjohnson1008]

Glad she gave you that kiss you were looking for.

[@MelissaMalzahn]

We learn from failing, the dome looks awesome.

[@marensaffell8864]

cheers guys. watching you work through adversity is inspiring. we all believe in you

[@paulehney4581]

It is really nice to hear you have gotten to the point that you get to experience how much the thermal mass of the dome does for your comfort. It's going to be an amazing home when it is finished!

[@joshuanicholsjr5327]

I can't believe I have been watching you guys all this time right from the beginning stay the coarse god bless

[@flyoverurbangarden4315]

You've come so far, it looks great.

[@lanec5672]

Your attitude/optimism/work ethic is rare & should be greatly admired. I just wish you had more help, could get & stay ahead of these setbacks.

[@garyamos5799]

It might be a good idea to put up a guard rail around or a plywood door over the gaping hole in the floor. I'd hate to see anyone get hurt! Congrats and keep on the good work.

[@Susie_Spann]

You two are truly inspirational. Working together, building and rebuilding with a calm and intelligent attitude: Thank you for sharing your journey with us. ❤️😁

[@0Hillbilly]

Is it defeat or opportunity? Time for improvement or redesign. Glad you're back on a positive path. God Bless y'all.

[@13MoonsOverMayhem]

Excited to see what you do with the inside of the dome, its looking great so far! You guys have come a really long way, mostly without help. I think if you planned a couple work parties, you'd have a small army of volunteers there in no time, and could knock out a couple of big tasks quickly and get your mojo jump started again (cobbing the inside, maybe?). Its admirable and impressive how much you've done by yourselves, but it does take a lot more time. I have to imagine it starts to feel endless at times. Sending you virtual hugs and motivation energy.

[@KrisG66]

You guys are so precious together! Love the progress you're making. Hang in there!

[@mcooper5929]

It’s not a failure. It’s a learning experience. Heard years ago “ That’s why there’s erasers on pencils. You both are very inspiring. By the time you get done you can definitely give others inspiration and advice on their builds❤❤👍👍

[@kurtcurtis2730]

Thomas Edison once said : I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. Just keep moving forward.

[@sequoiawarner6756]

Way to toast a renewed beginning. God bless you with that lighter heart, and new strength.

[@leeboerner6681]

I had a GM tell us in a meeting that a cluttered desk was a cluttered mind. I asked, then what is an empty desk?

[@SCU3A_S7EVE]

A clear mind.

[@garbaldy9926]

Einstein's desk was a cluttered mess, Soooooooo. BS!

[@cynthiacrawford6147]

An empty spot with no ideas

[@CJLeTeff]

😂😂😂😂😂😂👍👍

[@56radioboy]

I heard something similar at a job...that manager got his walking papers...just because your overly anal doesn't mean you accomplish anything.

[@tweetiepooh2001]

So glad you have gotten yourselves regrounded in the project. You're doing well and are now more excited about the future. We send our love, prayers and good thoughts as you progress. Just take each day as it comes.

[@gayle4804]

We all learn from our mistakes and we strive for the best

[@creinicke1000]

The house outside and inside need to finished.. then work on that cellar.. it's going to be fine. Love the view of the dome from the flyover.. it looked "bejeweled".

[@rickmunson8317]

Never get upset when you fail. It's ok to fail. Use it as a teaching moment and lesson learned. Love you to. It's tough to be around each other at long times, but you both have weathered the storm. Continue to love, trust and learn from each other.

[@HalsPals]

Lluvia is blossoming! It is because of your good energy between the two of you. That's a fact. Bad energy would have made her insecure and dangerous. Love you guys and your positive influence! p.s. Jim, I never got the third Superman license plate. :( Victor

[@johnbornschein5525]

Looking great ,that dome is really tall Jess looked so small when she was at the top Howdy Jim you guys are so hard workers

[@thomastroub4563]

I am going through a similar build and mixed emotions....lots of bad weather, no-work days, failed attempts and material shortfalls. Psychologically, it helped me a lot to start coating the inside of my dome and do as much of the floor as possible. Try to take your mind of the immediate problems and do something that gives you a feeling of success 🙂

[@brusselsprout5851]

Yes, seeing the dome taking beautiful shape is a boost to the spirits.

[@belumptuous]

Great advice.

[@chriscallaway6993]

Bottoms up. Good work. 🙂

[@elsie3550]

Keeping a neat project site makes you want to work and also know what has to be done.

[@KimandFrank]

Great job you too have a great rest of your day

[@FoodForestPermaculture]

Cheers fellow earthlings

[@tworebelsoffgrid]

The inside of the dome looks great! So glad to see you are taking your setback and moving through it by learning and healing ☀️You guys are doing a great job, together!

[@philliperskine4986]

wow was wondering why you didn't turn on that ceiling fan to dry the inside out more. Great work. Jess I know it will be worth all the struggles. Keep up the good vibes. God bless you two and your fur babies too.

[@rosaolbera8768]

You both are very strong to keep on working on your house keep your faith awesome video

[@candaceaustin4258]

Excellent!

[@lsalinas2573]

You two are too cute 🥰 and Inspector Crew 🐕 was so thorough in his examination 🔎of the floor..... Looks like you all passed inspection! 🐾 LOL

[@micahwatson9017]

You guys have come a long way! I know the mental battle with a huge project that. I built my own house from the ground up with a little help from friends occasionally. The mental aspect is far more difficult than the physical and often overlooked by people. Good for you on recognizing what’s needed to rejuvenate your mental health! Please think about this little insight I’ve gotten from 25 years in construction. 1 person working alone gets work done at “x rate”, 2 people working together on a task will get work done at 2.5 times the rate of a single person. It is much more efficient to work together on a task than the “divide and conquer” approach. Keep up the good work guys! Now get that dome exterior finished!! 😊

[@lucy545lou9]

YES !!!!!! LET GO OF THE BAD ENERGY'' MOVING ON FORWARD IN POSITIVE ENERGY, HELPS THE MIND,BODY AND SOUL REVIVE NEWLY. GOD BLESS YOU AND PEACE OF MIND, Y'ALL CAN DO THIS'' HAVE FAITH AND GOD WILL LEAD YOU BOTH IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION..

[@shirlymullis1699]

Your not gonna have to worry about what isn't done or the state the inside is in if the outside isn't sealed before the next monsoon hits next year!! One task completely finished always makes one want to move on to completion of another.

[@stevethomas5209]

The Donner party had bad weather to but they had something to get sad about. You guys got allot of unexpected rain ...live and learn and keep going your doing great guys.

[@ericjohnson1008]

Sometimes it is hard to keep going, tragic events make it hard to keep going but you just have to do what needs to be done that get excited to continue on. Y'all got this keep going, y'all will get it.

[@albertdehn8381]

Thanks for sharing 👍😀

[@PAINFOOL13]

Imho get the out of the dome finished 🙏🏻🌟

[@builtontherockhomestead9390]

Nice seeing the progress you are making.

[@harrylaygs1]

It's a rough journey you 2. We just spent our 1st night in our off grid home we built after a year of struggles here in AZ. We are all inspired by you!

[@fredk4136]

Great progress. From inside the dome you can see much better how beautiful those windows are.

[@arjanvogel6444]

Thanks for your vid 😇💟💟💟 Love you guys, interested in building the inside and out side love the dogs.

[@cadcad4974]

Perhaps, too many side projects didn't allow you to concentrate & prioritize your efforts! However, we still love you both & your K-9 comrades! 😃

[@robinmarie5180]

It's a learning process, 😌 sometimes I like to think , how many people will my mistake help? Y'all are awesome, one day at a time , one step at a time. You got this. Much ❤ Florida Grown Gma

[@deborahparnell8862]

Omg!!!! Ya'll made me cry..cause that's where I've been..a state of failure..resignation..shock..sadness..negative yukiness..thank you for being sooooo honest and real..just.....ty..xoxo 🥰🤟✌🖐

[@mrnobody8540]

It was not a failure - it was a setback thru a lesson that has given you a chance to improve your home

[@neillawson2578]

When talking about the basement stairs you took my line Jim, "You can't uncut it" Stay positive and keep going. You guys are an inspiration.

[@abcvdfa]

Thanks for keeping it real . We thank you for taking your viewers for the privilege of sharing your journey. Your vulnerability. Is healing and I admire both of you for your dreams and honesty

[@markstrahl5399]

Congratulations on getting thing organized in the Dome

[@judyherman1249]

All through history you know that as long as you have the courage to continue that failures only bring greater successes. So with your determination you will make you root cellar even better.

[@kimbercollins6982]

There is no failure-only feedback. You have learned the lesson!!! Keep on keeping on!!! Showing up is winning! Moving towards your goals, even with setbacks (there is always some setbacks!), IS SUCCESS. I’m grateful it didn’t happen to the dome - and it won’t!!! Go, go, go!!! I know y’all will; it’s how you’re built!!!

[@severussnape9388]

Y’all need to finish the house and rebuild the cellar. The domes y’all build will withstand those storms

[@angelskeepkerry]

Keep it safe and put railings around the opening to the bedroom. Don't get hurt by just stepping back working in the dome.

[@christineherrmann205]

Good luck getting the outer coating and inner wall coating done!

[@middleway1885]

Keep up the great journey! I can't wait to see more of the ups and downs...

[@affordabledesertliving3487]

Great video folks. For so many that question whether rainwater is safe and workable I like that your toast at the end.

[@davidowen888]

Coming along, sorry about the root cellar ☮️❤️

[@rongray4118]

It is the hard lessons that teach us the most! Keep up the great Teamwork!

[@medaily57]

This whole build is a learning experience. We learn from our mistakes. Don't beat yourselves up too much over the root cellar. The failure was a huge Iesson in what improvements you can make in the future. Lessons learned are never bad, no matter how hard they hurt at the moment. Onward and upward!

[@DesertNails]

We all admire your dedication and stick to it strengths. Best wishes!

[@marymccowan6629]

I am waiting for the inside walls to be done and flooring put in.

[@mariebeam9381]

I felt just as devastated as you guys when the root cellar caved in, I am praying for you both and that you both are overcomers and will accomplish whatever you set minds to do !

[@eaccristo]

Nice to clean up. Refreshing. Don’t be too hard on yourselves.

[@markbrooks5278]

Aint nuthin but a thing , kids!! It will all be ok!! Learning is painful and precious all at the same time, now if you lose your love for each other, you will have lost it all!!

[@stellabrown5034]

You guys are awesome You're going to make it it's going to be beautiful I already know I pray for you to have a happy and prosperous life I love you guys sources with you God bless in the living room light over the one crew creator you guys are going to make it I wish I could do more stay strong and stay safe blessed bless you

[@telern5681]

You’re both amazing, intelligent and talented people. Your understanding of how precious the earth and nature is serves you well. Keep up the good work.

[@xterraoverland4380]

I feel you man. The weather this year destroyed my roof and I am going to have to redo the entire thing next season. 🙏

[@thomfont8594]

Guys, You just started. The best is yet to come. I know you will succeed.

[@girdygolden7041]

You're doing great! Keep pushing forward ! 🤩

[@patrickhammontree3211]

You guys are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your dreams and progress with us. Keep up the good work and it will all come to fruition for you.

[@anamokena-nicol4247]

Thanks!

[@carolwright7503]

Life has many phases of areas of failing, thank goodness there are other areas that are good. ♡. Finding new ways to do things we didn't know about before helps. You two as a team are wonderful.

[@SonniesPlace]

It's so easy to keep pushing yourself to keep going and moving when you really need to take time to refocus and regroup after a major setback. Good on you guys for seeing that and allowing yourself to rest and learn from it. Cheers to progress and continued growth.

[@randypratt2887]

You haven't failed until you give up so don't give up I enjoy checking on your progress I think it's great that people still strive for independence and alternative ways to build I would probably prepare for heavier rains if you make your root cellar a dome as well you could bury it and it would hold

[@StoneKathryn]

This was cute guys. I'm glad to see you're rebounding from the heartbreak of the collapsed root cellar. Thanks for this GDP!

[@ingridbond3432]

hey j & j... how about covering the hole with a natural toned canvas. that would change the whole deal for the time being. make the cover an art project :) love you guys, all the best.

[@patriciacarrero7721]

Keep in mind if you never make mistakes you will never learn! So it’s not a failure, it’s a teaching moment. You two are amazing and you are truly working your nether regions off, give yourself more credit and days off! I can’t wait to see the dogs playing together!

[@fisherus]

I really don't think that I will live long enough to see your project built to fruition. I'm also not very sure if you both will ever complete it either. If you ever do, you are going to be too old to live in that environment and will be living in what you spent your lives trying to avoid.

[@mapbike]

Good job guys... yall kept my heart warm and a big smile on my face throughout this video. God Bless you both and stay safe as you live and build yalls dream together.

[@CBsGreenhouseandGarden]

Live and learn my friend is the only way to go. Don't kick yourself to hard over the mistakes. Stay safe and have a great weekend!

[@perlygatekeeper]

Nice to see the Jim we've all come to love peeking out at the end. It's absolutely ok for you to have your down times Jim, but I do miss the vicarious joy and mirth you supplied.

[@chandrasutton4669]

Love the progress!!!

[@fraslavko1]

good to see your dome becomeing a home! can't wait to see the walls become ponted with limekrete and art work start to appear everywhere! you go kids, maybe make a sleep loft above since the temps even themselves out ! downstairs can still be your root cellar! much love Annmarie

[@TheUltimateAcresllc]

I am beyond impressed 👏🏿 and very proud of you two. #Bravo #Keepupthegreatwork

[@judyofthewoods]

I iechyd da (a toast "to good health"), as we say in Wales 🍻

[@moreron545]

Learning is never failure.. pushing on despite set backs is winning.. staying happy together in life is the goal not any building project.. yall are winners..

[@ReeceesHandmade]

My question is if you guys would do one project together to get it done then you would be finished faster instead of her doing the roof and you doing the floor you both do one of the other like the roof to finish it that way you could collect water off of your roof if you guys both would do the roof it would be finished already

[@sandypratt8951]

What are you going to do with that metal dome, still waiting for your reply.🙏

[@WiSeNhEiMeR-1369]

THANKS COOP ...

[@smokingfoxx]

Cheers beautiful people! 🍻

[@carolynmoody9460]

Blessings ❤️