Wedding Days: Best Moments, Biggest Regrets, and What We Wish We Knew Before Tying the Knot | Ep. 16

[@HeatherCameron-s9o]

The rude comments disgust me. These two ladies are sharing their friendship/ relationships with us through stories and giggles. The fact that people feel the need to comment on someone touching their hair chewing gum their clothes looking pregnant or the way they talk with each other is beyond. Just be kind!

[@SweetPea6348]

Who looks Pregnant 😅 ??

[@BLUVELVET-p5i]

Who cares about your opinion

[@amymac41890]

@@SweetPea6348nobody looks pregnant! Who said that? Weird, huh?

[@SweetPea6348]

Someone said it in a comment.

[@SweetPea6348]

That's why I said ,, Who looks Pregnant. I was kind of disagreeing with that person who had posted it.

[@missy6399]

You girls should have the boys on so we can hear their wedding day story. I think it would be awesome to get both sides of that day. Love you girls ❤

[@ShaunaLewis1]

Yasss

[@mansquatch2260]

When I got married in 2009 my wife was so excited that she was squeezing my hand nearly to the point of breaking (not really, but it felt like that). When the minister started to ask her if she would take me as her husband, she jumped ahead and said, "I DO!!!". The best part of weddings can sometimes be the things that don't go as planned.

[@wanderandwonder5717]

Sarah great job on the questions asking lo during her wedding story! You asked what we all wanted to know.

[@CharlieBuckets-j1f]

I would love to hear a podcast on your religion! I’m Christian but I love learning about different beliefs! Love you guys

[@emmakick6352]

Same here!!!

[@conchitacolez]

Since they don't even say "Mormon" or "Latter Day Saints" or "LDS", I doubt they will actually wade into the "unique" theology of their faith. I also see this trend, of just saying church, with other influencers who are Mormon. I understand their church gives them guidelines and talking points and this is coming from church leadership.

[@sweetsapphiresunseed]

I've heard their KZbin videos on it its interesting. All I could find out about the book of Mormon is something about Jesus coming to America. I truly saw a bunch of different stories but that one was consistent.

[@shionajoseph3248]

They said they won’t talk about politics or religion

[@meganderry3985]

@@conchitacolezno one gives talking points- but there are some many stereo types and most of them are half truths. There’s so much hatred online for LDS members so can you blame them?

[@laurenhinman8861]

Just curious why you girls tip toe around identifying your religion. You seem to be very intentional to not say Mormon or LDS as if we don’t all (or most) already know what religion you’re referring to. Is it bc you are no longer a part of the church? If so, that’s something I’d love to hear y’all talk about. But if you’re still a part of the church, why do you guard it? Obviously, you don’t owe any of us any private information you aren’t comfortable sharing. I totally respect that. Just thought in case you were open to sharing, I’d let you know I’d be interested in hearing your stories.😊

[@robinberrett1530]

yes I would like to know as well as I noticed no garmets on Lo.

[@sydneyhadfield807]

always referring to it as the church “we grew up in” suggests to me they’re no longer active

[@Lwaite999]

It's their lives they get to choose what to share.

[@laurenhinman8861]

@@Lwaite999 Of course it is!!💯 And that’s exactly what I said. However, if they are open to sharing, I see no problem with letting them know that I’d be interested to hear their story. There’s no demand. And even if I had, they aren’t required to divulge anything they aren’t comfortable with, so it’d be a moot point. But since they are publicly sharing their lives, I see ZERO problem with politely, respectfully inquiring. If you read something else, that’s on you.

[@cherylbleyl1924]

@@robinberrett1530 neither one ever wears their garments. Look at how they dress - there is no way they can wear them

[@cld2378]

Y'alls podcasts have made me go back and watch y'alls KZbin videos to remember...my two faves are D&S going home for Christmas when Jack was new.... And T&L celebrating Ts birthday and i also loved D&S going puttputt with Ds parents and sisters while asking questions to Ds parents. And...love anything where L&S get the laugh attacks. You two are so blessed to have each other and yalls families. God bless

[@hstar2946]

So great to hear these lovely stories ladies! I for one would have loved to see some of the pictures!! Such beautiful memories and I’m trying to picture your dresses in my mind but it’s so hard!! I’m sure you both were absolutely stunning brides!

[@tamarakoehn6305]

Oh my goodness! My husband and I went to an all inclusive resort in Puerto Vallarta! I think it was The Occidental. Such good memories! 2005. Since then it's been torn down and they built a new resort hotel. We swam with dolphins, went zip lining, rented a jet ski, went para sailing, lots of beach time. We also had waited until the honeymoon for any intimacy. Not even holding hands until after the wedding. We discovered everything in Puerto Vallarta. 😊 My most awesome after- the- first- time memory was looking out at a gorgeous sunset and seeing the pirate ship silhouetted against that gorgeous sunset, and hearing the boom of it's cannon. We had such a good view from our window! The most wonderful memories!

[@kathyjohnson5097]

The ONE thing I would have changed for my wedding was to let my husband buy the top hat. It was $200, and I said it was too expensive. He's been gone 20 years now, and I wish our wedding pics would have had him in a top hat. Our cake topper groom had a top hat, precious moments. I regret being "cheap" for just $200

[@monicaalvarez5696]

Your stories are so interesting and different from my own! I wonder what my life would’ve been like if I was expected to wait until marriage. I met my husband when I was 20, both in college, living at home. We dated on and off (mostly on) for 7 years before he finally proposed, and got married before I turned 29. Had my first baby the following year. By then, we were already well into our careers, had purchased our first home, went on amazing vacations while we were still young. And now our lives revolve around our home life, kids & animals. We did all the fun stuff before settling down. I really don’t think we would still be together (it’s been 24 years) if we hadn’t had that time of just the 2 of us to grow up and become the people we are now.

[@simirasnannie]

My hubby and I will celebrate 38 years of marriage this year. I get up every morning at 4 AM and make him a smoothie before he goes to work. He’d be bummed if I’d only done that for a week😂😂😂😂😂 Y’all are so cute! You two and Tanner and Derek. God Bless You and all your little Sweethearts!!

[@melissathomas7402]

I'm dying when Lo said "I questioned if I was still a virgin!"😂😂

[@camilapc5669]

I think it’s important that you guys make the distinction between Utah culture and “church culture.” Personally, I don’t thing there’s such thing as “church culture.” I’m originally from Chile (I’m also a Latter Day Saint) and the pressure of getting married at such young age does not exist over there. People get married at around 28-30 and, as far as I know, this is also something common in South America/Central America countries. Our leaders in the church recommend us to get to know our partners very well before getting married and are against rushing into it. I just consider this important to clarify as a way to prevent ignorant comments about “crazy Mormons” or “Mormonism.”

[@kaylabruner1045]

This is very interesting! Thank you for sharing!!

[@savannahstace101]

I’m from Utah and church culture is the same as Utah culture here because most of the state is Mormon and influenced by the church.

[@ristopherobbins]

Church culture is Utah culture. Once you reprogram and deconstruct the Mormon religion you can see how much it influences just living here. It takes getting out of the cult to see how much it’s a part of everything here 😅 I too once thought there was a difference and it’s not meant to be derogatory. There’s just a lot of manipulation and shame that’s perpetuated through a lense of righteousness or “good morals”. Anyways. Who knew Emma smith was Joseph smiths 22nd wife sealed to him? Not me😅

[@laurenskee2665]

It's not ignorance if it's facts.

[@BrisaAshley]

Listening to the podcast, to me the "pressure" comes from the expectation to not have sex until marriage. So it is more the couple themselves not wanting to wait several years to not have sex. Because like Sarah said, her parents were a little shocked she wanted to get married at 19. I'm Christian, not Mormon but the same belief of waiting until marriage exists which causes a lot of couples to get married sooner rather than later.

[@faithclifford5893]

Your honesty is so refreshing. You both have done very well. It's not always easy. Just take care of your family and yourselves.

[@deemarie5054]

I tell you, the two of you have my heart❤. I love all your stories and I want to thank you for all the wonderful smiles and laughter you bring me😊. I don’t comment hardly at all but I felt I needed to this time. Always stay true! Love watching your podcast and both your family videos! 😊❤

[@jenfehr1]

Wooooo hooooo!! I’m excited to listen!! You two and your families bring my soul so much joy. 💗

[@ambernicole1734]

Yall should definitely have 10 year Anniversary vows and ring exchange for all that you want there. So very happy for both of you as well as for your awesome families. Sending much love and many blessings your way from me n my fam in NC❤

[@vickyCA1643]

Speaking of the iPod set. There needs to be a bit of color in the corner behind you where the tiny table is. A tall plant, a splash of color, Something pretty to add to the grey walls and two white chairs.

[@madisonbessonny1225]

I love the podcast! It would be so great if you guys would share photos (either on social media or included in the videos) of the things you mention when talking about things like your wedding dresses, fun times in your life, etc!

[@monicaalvarez5696]

Yes! It would be so nice if they edit their videos with pictures.

[@GSCORH]

I was literally wheezing laughing while driving by myself listening to this!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cebuyond]

Love that tip Lo! My friend thanked me for getting a video of her walking down the aisle on my phone. She said days later after the wedding it was the first time she saw a vid of her walking down the aisle. Of course I did it discreetly.

[@Louisescarr1972]

Love this pod. I've been married for 31 years this month i actually got married 3 weeks after my 21st birthday and 3 days before my best friends 21st birthday. was engaged for 2 years beforehand but he had a car so we didn't wait until we were married lol We had our wedding videoed but it's now so faded with being watched we had it made into a dvd we don't watch it anymore as there's so many special people on it that's sadly no longer with us and it gets too upsetting. Sending love from Northumberland UK

[@shellzzabat5950]

Totally do the vow renewal with a ring ceremony for friends and family that couldn't be at the Temple Marriage Ceremony.

[@justted8554]

Y’all are getting better and better every episode!

[@kimmieconway8038]

I just got married this past Saturday, so hearing your experiences and now having my own experiences was perfect!

[@Liz4799]

Congratulations

[@chillin.like.a.villain3357]

Love this podcast! Perfect mix, light hearted fun and trauma lol ❤

[@iknowlinda]

I highly recommend that you all question many of the strange and arbitrary rules of your religion. It seems a little odd to me that the rules can be changed when convenient for the church. When you step back and look at some of the rules, they don't make any sense in the first place. All I'm really saying is that it's a good idea to question everything, and then think for yourself.

[@Adri-oj3yt]

These two, Lo and Sarah, they are just freaking beautiful ❤.

[@Julia_8605]

That 🎶Ricola🎶 at the beginning tripped me out so hard, as it sounded so German😂👍❤

[@jill7717]

A lot of young people from my country (in Europe) go to like an island of Spain, or island of greece or to a part of Italy and make sure that the flights are not to expensive. Rent a big house so everybody can stay over (and in Italy I had a massive mansion but on that ranch there was also a small “grandparents” house a little further on the ranch so the kids and grandparents could sleep their, so the noise did not wake them 😂 and then there was a “club” house/building at the ocean where we partied 3 days with everybody 24/7 and everybody could do everything they liked! And I’ve you go for 4/5 days don’t get married on the 1st or 2nd day! Do it on the 3th day! Day 1 everybody arrives and it is sweatpants day 😂😊 and a buffet from 4till 8, relax at the pool, everybody get to talk and meet each other, day 2 lunch all together at a big table at the ocean! At night a rehearsal diner 😉 day 3 wedding day! And day 4/5 relax day!!! Best experience ever!!! And in Europe you have so many of those kind of accommodations!

[@hiitsrea]

You guys should get a couple plants to be in between you both 😊 and maybe some photo frames of you with your families/together on the wall!

[@Franciellestephanie]

I like the clean background

[@lisabennett2490]

I could never have my Wedding without my Dad. I’d have changed the whole situation around. My Dad was everything to me. My Best Friend!

[@I.pray.to.George.Carlin]

Same girl same..there would be no wedding if my dad couldn't attend!

[@alexatucker611]

It will be so cool to hear both of your stories about going from wedding photographer and videographer to where you are now! What was it like, moving your lives online? I think it will be inspiring to hear how you made and handled the transition😁

[@alejandramesajaramillo8663]

I do enjoy watching your perspective of live. You guys live such a different life. I've lived in South America, Europe and Australia. And there is already such a contrast and difference in cultures and communities in those continents. However, I hadn't encounter people still living like society used to live 2-3 generations ago. You guys sound like you are living in an old fashion-modern patriarchy, following so many peer pressure rules, avoiding frowned upon (by your society) situations. It is interesting. Most of the places I've lived in couples live together and have physical relationships before getting married to see if they are the right fit for each other. They get to test ride the relationship and to explore and experience different versions of themselves before committing for life and enjoy kid-free life a bit longer to gain maturity to raise children. (Mainly in Europe and Australia). When I hear you guys talking, I hear a 20 something old version of my mum and how she saw the world in the 70's. It is fascinating!

[@NiiCanDo]

Lo! Maybe do a renewal of your vows… me typing this at 12:30 then hearing Sarah lmao I concur you both should!!!

[@samanthalloyd85]

I got engaged 2 days before my 20th birthday back in 2005 , got a little girl, moved into our first proper home , fell pregnant , had my son in 2008, aged 23, got married 2009 aged 24 , coming up for 15 years in august

[@M_leiva06]

I would love to hear more about your religion and what you have adopted to carry on for your own children and what you don’t want to incorporate for your children ❤

[@paytonhaws]

My KZbin channel is all about my experiences as an Utah mom in the Mormon church & then leaving. This video idea is actually on my list! I’ll film it soon now that I’ve seen a comment interested in this! I hope you check it out! 🥰

[@Loveydo4u]

Thanks for sharing your experiences but I wish you would have posted some pictures of your weddings at the end. ❤️

[@pointblankperiod8310]

Wow, i had tears in my eyes when I heard Lo say the Temple wouldn't allow her father in to see her get married?!?!? I dont know much about religions (especially theirs) but I know if a church ever told me my father was not allowed in because he didn't follow the religion or because he didn't go to church, Id tell them to kiss off and I would get married somewhere that accepts everyone....I'm truly sad for her and her father😢

[@Sunflowers36]

Exactly! Such a cult.😢

[@deannazampa5286]

My mom couldn’t see her grand daughter get married. Had to wait in another room So sad.

[@A2Caz]

Hi! As a member myself, I appreciate the empathy you’re showing for the situation. In the LDS faith, temple weddings are considered sacred ceremonies where certain standards are upheld. This is because in our faith, temples are revered as the most sacred places, dedicated as houses of God where ordinances like sealings take place. To witness a live sealing, individuals must be endowed members, having made sacred covenants with God and received specific instruction. This requirement reflects the belief in the sanctity of the temple and the importance of spiritual preparation. It's not about exclusion but ensuring reverence for these ordinances. Ultimately, the goal is for all God's children to enter His temple, but certain standards are believed necessary for receiving the highest blessings, and we need to be taught and prepared for these before being ready to receive them, including sealing families together for eternity, aligning with our belief in eternal progression and joy. It’s not about excluding anyone but rather about maintaining the sanctity of the ceremony. Heavenly Father wants all His children there. Hope this helps understand it a bit more. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask! 🤍

[@I.pray.to.George.Carlin]

​@@A2Cazthat's still wild that a mother or father of a bride couldn't attend. I'm catholic but not everyone has to be a practicing Catholic to attend a wedding. Such cult vibes the LDS

[@A2Caz]

@@I.pray.to.George.Carlin I have lots of family members who are catholic and I understand your perspective. It's true that different religions have varying practices regarding wedding ceremonies. In our faith, temple weddings are deeply rooted in our beliefs about eternal families and the sanctity of the temple. While it may seem restrictive, it's important to understand that temples are considered sacred spaces, and certain standards are upheld to maintain the reverence of these ceremonies. It's not about excluding loved ones but about upholding the sacredness of the occasion. I would appreciate your openness to learn more about different beliefs, and respect towards other Christian churches especially as a Christian yourself. Lots of love.

[@sabrinafantini9974]

Mormonism is WILDDDD

[@stephlcase]

I wish they would talk more about it! It's crazy and interesting

[@kylierussell0207]

As an exmo hearing their stories about their weddings made me sad. 😞 very relatable. You gotta play by the rules, not necessarily what you want.

[@Rst98763]

They also rarely say the name lol it’s always “our religion,” like they don’t want to isolate their fan base by saying it. I wish they would do an episode of things they do/do not agree with about Mormonism. For example, I know Sarah supports LGBTQ people and I thought it was cool that she briefly made that distinction about herself so publicly when talking about her brother. Religious people are nuanced whether others like it or not and I think it’s ok for them to lean into that. There’s also a large history of racism and white supremacy in the Mormon church and I wish they would denounce that as well as some other things that are objectively problematic, because they have such a large platform. It makes me wonder what they do or do not believe and I think if you are keeping things intentionally ambiguous then you are more concerned about losing followers than following a religion. And what does that say about that religion?

[@Juli-ge4yp]

​@Rst98763 I'm not sure that they're being ambiguous about their religion. I just didn't think that was the direction they wanted this collaboration to go.

[@Rst98763]

Yeah I get that this wasn’t the time to get into it and it’s their choice regardless but I think this about a lot of their other content too

[@deVrieco]

The virgin moment. Lmfao. And the way you guys laughed. ❤

[@janicaribeiro6350]

I don’t mean to be disrespectful, but how cruel that you have to be deemed worthy to enter a temple , and that your worth is associated with people being a virgin/ or a believer .

[@jenc3259]

Cult think. It's gross.

[@utuberhoda]

It’s not disrespectful to point out that something is inherently stupid.

[@isingsingsing]

I would love to hear a podcast on stories of how other people met their SO or spouse! That would be so cute!

[@sngray11]

That would be awesome! 💗

[@marissasmith9231]

I need an entire redo for my wedding! It was the middle of COVID, I broke my foot 6 days before, surgery 4 days before. I was so drugged up on pain killers that day… I just wanted to get it over and go home!

[@hh987ish]

❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂 love hearing your stories!!!! Sooooo fun. Utah girl here.

[@sidneyscameraroll586]

My husband and I did a first dance, and also a last dance where it was just us two and all the guests had gone outside. Our last dance song was Tenerife Sea!!

[@mickiejonesy1712]

Love your wedding stories! Great podcast, always! 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@ceezee9179]

Are you guys 'Mormon Lite' or something? Why follow all that stuff for the wedding, but not follow the rules now (undergarments, drinking alcohol, etc.). As a viewer, it is confusing.

[@jisu222]

They don’t drink alcohol…

[@barbarap8580]

Sarah is talking on top of Lo so much. 😮

[@emilybrookharrison7562]

Show wedding pictures next time, first looks pictures as well 👍 that would have help us picture what your talking about and bring us in more

[@Anza_karim]

Exactly i was thinking of the same it would have been great if they shared pictures as well.

[@taylourreed5560]

If they’re Mormon then they’re not allowed to show pictures

[@emilybrookharrison7562]

@@taylourreed5560 they have a podcast and KZbin channel how can they not show pictures? KZbin is pictures

[@taylourreed5560]

Look it up. Mormons are not allowed to show pictures of their wedding.

[@paulasowards8549]

@@taylourreed5560 the pictures that are taken are able to be shown! You can’t take pictures in the temple but outside the temple is VERY common! Most people do a first look too that are shareable and several keep pictures up in their homes. I don’t think first look was as common when they got married however :/

[@cookingwithsherry5570]

I don’t care what religion you are. It’s nice to see that you’re happily married and have joy in your life because life is short and you never know when around the corner you’re going to be seriously sick or I have someone in your life be seriously sick so have joy as long as you can

[@marcelarice3025]

I love you two together. I don't care how Sara keeps talking over Loe.

[@cindiallain8542]

I really enjoy your podcasts. It’s always and funny. Thank you.

[@shreyadave2411]

Make up thing is so relatable 💯💯💯 I would also like natural makeup than too much for sure

[@anisazaha]

Loved this vid! I would love to see a podcast of you guys talking about marriage, advice, personal experiences etc… I know for a fact a lot of people go through marital problems and feel alone. I would totally love to see this type of video from you guys just kind of sharing advice and your perspective on marriage ❤

[@foreverrnicolee]

Will you guys post some wedding photos on the Fairly Odd insta?? Would love to see! Also would love to hear the horror stories from weddings you worked!

[@sngray11]

Replay crew! 🫶🏽 Thank you for sharing your wedding experiences with all of us. 💞

[@user-sf4wq6mz5v]

It is far more than just being worthy or unworthy in order to enter the temple. It is about wanting to make deep, sacred covenants - understanding why and then making those choices that will allow you to be inside. A lot of people are not ready for that step and that is ok too.

[@ristopherobbins]

That’s what’s you’ve been told. But you’ve been groomed. Emma smith was the 22nd wife sealed to Joseph smith. And this is before d&c 132. Also you have to practice polygamy in heaven. 😅 It is just about control and being “worthy” is a form of control. Jesus loves everyone.

[@alibellep]

Sarah literally boiled it down to worthiness and just left it at that. I wish they had explained temples better since it really is about the sacredness of the temple. I feel like them trying to not talk about their religion but still talking about it without explaining temples, modesty, the difference between Utah culture and actual church doctrine really gives a bad look to the church and honestly confirms a lot of peoples views of the church.

[@user-sf4wq6mz5v]

@@alibellep I think if they felt / understood it at that level they probably would have shared it but, I think most young people see it as simply a “judgment” and rules that must be kept / followed in order to get married in the temple. I do hope and 🙏🏻 that IF they ever choose to speak about the church that it will be fair and respectfully done.

[@alibellep]

@@user-sf4wq6mz5v yeah I totally agree!

[@haruhianderson4019]

There’s a lot which is mentioned but not explained in this, that people outside of their culture don’t understand: why didn’t you walk down the aisle? What was the wedding ceremony like then? You went outside for your wedding night? What was your sister and mother setting up outside?

[@CocoTheDiamond]

marriage in the LDS temple is not like a traditional marriage ceremony. it's supposed to be kept private what happens inside the temple so they aren't really supposed to explain it. but the ceremony is different, you can look it up on KZbin or google. there is no walking down an aisle. they also don't wear traditional wedding clothes for the temple ceremony. it's interesting, look it up. they had a reception after the wedding which was held outside. mom and sister set up the reception outdoors for them so they only had to show up. at the reception there is usually some finger foods, cake and a cake cutting with the bride and groom, then dancing and music with family and friends. it's a way to celebrate the marriage. not all receptions are outdoors. many are held at a church or in a rented venue.

[@h3tur]

i suggest you watch alyssa grenfell’s video on lds weddings if you’re interested on specifics :)

[@ashleym1565]

1:29 I definitely have one floating around in my bag!

[@makedabrown215]

😂😂you know…you’d think Lo is the adventurous 1 but Sarah we see you 😂

[@PrinceCharmingsMom2930]

I can’t get enough of you girls, I love you so much! Living vicariously thru you at 66 years old 🩷💚

[@Sunflowers36]

Who is not “worthy” to enter the temple??? I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t get married in a place where my dad was not welcome to walk me down the aisle.

[@maliasmith3927]

Such a tender gift.💖💞 thanks for being a happy place.

[@notenoughrope]

Worthy?!..The Mormon faith is wrong on so many levels!

[@jenc3259]

You misspelled cult. 😂

[@notenoughrope]

@@jenc3259 😂😂🤣

[@paytonhaws]

My KZbin channel is all about my experiences as a Utah mom in the Mormon church & then leaving 🥰

[@LisaReisinger-p4w]

It would be awesome if you guys could post pics of stuff you are talking about as a reference...like the wedding makeup, dresses, etc

[@thehadleyhouse33]

I hope you understand how culty and crazy lds sounds when you say it out loud. Everyone is worthy.

[@discopuma]

you said this so nicely, I said it sounds like their church sucks.

[@ambermiller3845]

@@discopuma Yes!!! I don’t want to come on their post and be ugly…but the LDS is crazy….

[@bestdaysahead921]

absolutely crazy.. the fact her dad couldn’t come in the temple .. how bizarre 🤯 that’s not right.

[@lilleoelle]

Yes, the temple and “not worthy” stuff made me sad, that is so not the heart of Jesus!

[@Adanyamazz]

When Jesus died on the cross the temple curtains were TORN. Giving us all access to God through Jesus dying on the cross for us. His sacrifice justifies us. Not our works. Truly not the heart of Christ to exclude someone from coming into a temple. So sad.

[@angelasanford8814]

I really think you guys should do a vowel renewal together… Maybe in Hawaii ❤️ love the podcast and all your other content 😊

[@gram5963]

And they could say “A, E, I, O, U!”

[@kylas4969]

Omg I’m dying it this reply ⬆️ 🤣😂🤣. A vowel renewal 😂😂😂😂

[@gram5963]

@@kylas4969 do you think that the renewal would be some random in the back yelling out “AND SOMETIMES ‘Y’!”? 🤔

[@laurenskee2665]

Im sorry, i think its really odd that the church told you your friends and father couldnt come and you didnt question it.

[@jenc3259]

Screams CULT!!!

[@smowka]

@@shmuberthadouken What is weird is that you stay a part of it even after you realize how sketchy it is…. No one is saying you can’t be religious or spiritual, we are saying that Mormonism is a cult.

[@kimmystar88]

My husband and I have just celebrated our first year anniversary. We've been together for 11 years and engaged for 4 years. We planned our wedding in 4 weeks, due to my Dad's health. We only found out 3 days beforehand that it was definitely going ahead. We had to get permission from the Archbishop due to the church being out of our local area. My sister and I also had our children christened after our ceremony. It was a lovely, family day!

[@Iviematthews_]

Not me going to Asos to look at their wedding dresses, haha! I'm married but I honestly wish I had done that, lol.

[@alibellep]

I feel like them trying to not talk about their religion but still talking about it without explaining temples, modesty, the difference between Utah culture and actual church doctrine really gives a bad look to the church and honestly confirms a lot of peoples views of the church. It’s super disheartening to see influencers try not to talk about their beliefs but when they do, they don’t explain it and give a bad name to religion- I’ve seen it in relation to other religions as well, not just this one they talked about

[@bleu8134]

Would have liked to have seen both of you in your wedding dresses!!

[@BB91603]

Not being “worthy” to witness loved ones getting married is one of the biggest things wrong with LDS. So sad

[@smowka]

That and the racism and homophobia lol

[@elenas5946]

As a 21 year old... Getting married at 19 sounds crazy, even worse while not having money saved up! I've been with my bf for almost 5 years and there's no way we'll get married in the next few years! But it was interesting to hear your perspective on getting married so young :)

[@sarahd.9865]

I love hearing you guys talk❤

[@lutvankerckhoven7148]

I really used to enjoy your clips separately but you keep talking over each other and that continues giggling..just a hint maybe its just me ?

[@MikeGibson-l5e]

Yeah too much talking over each other for sure

[@lisae3663]

It was really bad at beginning of this podcast, I had to pause & come back later to finish.

[@CocoTheDiamond]

yes!!! too much giggling and talking over each other!!

[@noreendye8957]

That’s judgemental in my book. Not allowing people to be worthy to watch you get married. Gods words say judge not.

[@melisa8256]

To be fair they don’t really follow god. They follow creepy men who deem themselves “prophets” so…

[@sofiaholub6513]

What’s sad is that the religion believes their salvation is dependent on the in temple and “worthy” ceremony so it’s a really heart breaking choice the church kind of forces onto its members. Esp bc they were so young and born in the religion

[@maggieruth]

The APPROVED BOOB GRAB 😂😂😂

[@helenedanielsen3948]

I love your pod!! It is so funny to watch and listen. I am from Norway, and do not know your whole story, maybe you can talk some about your religion? What religion are you/were you a part of when you got married? Are you still inn it?

[@kristinaarp9144]

As someone who does not dance, a dance party sounds mortifying. 😂😂

[@jennyhill1287]

Jesus Christ is The Way The Truth and The Life. God is so good, he delivered me from drugs and alcohol & after i was clean for 2 years. Im 37 and my whole life I was always told i couldnt have kids. My Jesus made that happen. I had a little girl in November of 2022. Im not judging anyones religion. But, following Jesus has been the best decision i have ever made. I worry about nothing anymore. God loves you so much. He will make sure his children are always taking care of. PRAISE JESUS 🙌🙏

[@BarbaraBraue]

Thank you for your testimony. I agree with you 100%, so happy you are blessed with your new life and baby🥰

[@valeriefowler2594]

Still married 47 years it’s great 👍

[@lagoonlover10]

My husband and I didn’t have a dance floor and didn’t want to do dances at all. 😂 we did a lot of unconventional things at our wedding XD

[@DorisA21-21]

Their religion is a cult...people need to do their research .Go look at what their beliefs and who they follow and then someone explain how that is a religion...because its not.

[@Beckymadden30]

One thing that I’d change was the weather we live in Scotland and it’s rare to have sun, for a month before we got married it was roasting hot. The week of the wedding it was torrential rain. So our photos weren’t fully what we wanted

[@jodil1209]

Sarah, where did you find that pinkish blanket? It is so cute and looks cozy.

[@hayleeclayton6919]

You guys should post your wedding videos so we can visually see everything you guys talked about!

[@maliasmith3927]

I love you guys! Watching for years. I’m glad your memebers of Jesus Christs church. I am too💕💞 such a special gift.

[@cuteprincess441]

Imagine not having your own parents at your wedding?! What a wild cult.

[@ToysandtalesgaMing]

Does sarah even hav a mic for the podcast bcz apparently it js invisible for me only

[@hfrisch007]

You need to have some bandaids and some kind of pain reliever of some kind and tissues, every where you go plus some life savers or suckers cough drops . It's a must. If you don't have them You'll need them.❤

[@DeadKisses]

U literally described my purse..!!

[@paranormalinvestgations]

I was married in 1987 and I was so excited to marry my best friend..❤

[@Liz4799]

Sarah always talks over Lo!

[@Brittney923]

I’ve never been here this early ❤

[@DorisA21-21]

Her own father wasnt worthy to be in the temple and his daughter accepted that...on what earth is that normal?That is absolutely disgusting considering she had 2 men on the go and wasnt sure who to marry...if they got nothing to be ashamed of in following a cult then why dont they discuss their religion and not tip toe around it...says alot about a person when they stand by while their own father is kept out of a temple....says alot about the so called religion too

[@paytonhaws]

My KZbin channel is all about my experiences as a Utah mom in the Mormon church & then leaving 🥰

[@KaylaKukla]

I cannot imagine believing in a religion that doesn’t deem your father as, “worthy”.

[@meaganbarberry1240]

Do you think it’s important to explain that your clothing choices don’t represent what is expected in most wards? I think transparency is important, and wouldn’t want people to think this is the norm in LDS communities. 😊