Just remember to try all styles even if not what you want. So many women change their minds on a style when they try that style on. Seeing the gowns in different fabrics, styles, bling, lace completely change what style you may think you don’t like!
@PinkPaws882 ай бұрын
So true..I wish someone told me to be open minded when it came to the dress because I was dead set on mermaid style in blush pink or baby pink for my wedding dress and I tried one on and was like no and was so disappointed I hated it and the dress I ended up getting is literally nothing like anything I ever liked
@janiceh45212 ай бұрын
@@PinkPaws88 absolutely so many have their exact gown style picked out but when trying it on, they don’t like it but in their minds they don’t want____, so they put off trying it become very frustrated then finally step out of their original minds eye and find the dress that makes them feel beautiful, stunning & is their perfect gown! Glad you found yours! 🩷🩷
@sarah-phillips2 ай бұрын
It IS really overwhelming and stressful (because it "has to be perfect!!!!") but just take your time. Try on all different styles because you never know what you might like or what works for your frame. I'll be honest: even when I tried on the dress I ended up getting, I never got a "feeling" other than "I like this one the best and it's in my price range and the silhouette I wanted" so I slept on it, came back and got it. And it's okay to not have "THE FEELING". Just so that you feel good in whatever you try on. I look back at my pictures (21 years later - eek!) and I still really like the shape of it and what I see in pictures. A dress paired with a veil/headpiece/pretty hairdo/jewelry, etc. is what makes it. And Dario will love whatever you get because it's you! PS, I've only been following you for about a year but am so glad I was recommended your channel because it's just so fun and also, I like gelato.
@uiwspursgirl2 ай бұрын
I agree so much @sarah-phillips! It is 100% okay not to have that “feeling”. I feel like everyone (the people helping me at the store, family, friends) wanted me to get emotional and cry when I found my dress and I just didn’t lol. I feel like people and society in general trying to force a super emotional response onto the bride makes it so much more stressful. I hope you find what you love and feel comfortable in Kacie!
@tet_talks85682 ай бұрын
The second to last one looks soooo gorgeous on you! Definitely keep in mind that style for when you walk the red carpet some time :)
@PirateFrodoPotter2 ай бұрын
I had the same kind of experience getting my wedding dress!! I tried on a total of 12 (the last two were kind of more for killing time than anything), but I ended up picking the 5th dress I had tried on. Going from pictures and trying to figure out what will suit your body and style is SO DIFFERENT than actually trying them on. Glad this experience helped and best of luck with finding your dress!!! 🤩
@kiragarvieАй бұрын
YES. it took me over 6 months of appointments to find my dress. Boutiques, online, Davids Bridal... I felt like I had exhausted every option before I found one I felt good in... I feel like SYTTD gives us the impression that we will find it on the third dress and burst into tears, but that just wasn't the case for me.
@MaryMullarkey19772 ай бұрын
It is stressful but after you find the dress that feels just right for you... so many other decisions won't seem as stressful. Happy shopping and fill out that journal. 💞
@idreamofparis72332 ай бұрын
I hated wedding dress shopping so much a family member of my husbands gave me her dress to wear. Her dress was second hand so she was kind to let me borrow it.
@Lisa-sr9xn2 ай бұрын
I loved the wedding dress shopping 💖 I had a completely different idea (simple and not white) as well and ended up with a sparkly white dress with a hoop underneath 🥰🥰🥰
@alisaishere2 ай бұрын
I think going in with no idea and just trying on a variety is a good start. Even if all you're doing is figuring out what you don't want, that at least makes it easier. One of my friends worked at _the_ wedding dress store in NYC, you know which one, and her advice was to eliminate options instead of trying to hone in on your dream dress. Once you have that list of what you don't want, it makes it easier to hunt for dresses that may work. For example, instead of saying I want a pure white dress, try on a variety of shades to see if any work and note the ones that don't. Now you can go to any store and say that you've attempted all the variations of ivory and off-white, but they don't work, which will eliminate half your options.
@Jade_Deja2 ай бұрын
I wasn't looking forward to wedding dress shopping and didn't like any of the ones I tried on, so I had mine made 😍 it was perfect
@katherineburtt25022 ай бұрын
So excited for you! I always thought I wanted a really streamlined, simple dress with bell sleeves (LOTR but make it fashion) then I ended up with a pink floral print ballgown with bishop sleeves, and I couldn’t be happier.
@ivylovesrunning2 ай бұрын
Sometimes the idea in our heads doesn't translate when we try on the dress. I was lucky that the dress I bought online was perfect adter bust alterations. Otherwise, I would have had to go find another dress in the stores as I really hate shopping for clothes.
@xanthippikipou25312 ай бұрын
Really that happened to me too, getting in the bridal store with another idea in mind and getting out of it with such a different idea😁
@jessicajean74272 ай бұрын
Many congrats on a successful hunt Kacie ✨️❤️. For both me and my mom - she was my bestie for dress hunting ❤- the most stressful thing about wedding dress shopping was the overly chipper/upbeat personality of the attendant helping us😅. Pls understand, this gal was wonderfully nice and definitely in the right place but my mother and i r both pretty introverted and we were just wanting a nice chill appt trying on dresses. This gal was constantly trying to hype us up and being so bubbly. My fault 4 not saying anything but I didn't know how to tell her she was making us uncomfortable without hurting her feelings. She WAS overall wonderful ❤
@lisastenzel57132 ай бұрын
I agree with the no's very much. The third one especially 😅 It's good to know what you don't want! And I get it, I would feel the same. I hardly wear dresses anymore and I have no clue what looks good on me
@kacierose2 ай бұрын
They were beautiful but just not for me!! I’ll find one that fits my style soon 🤞🏻
@janelleh2 ай бұрын
The place I went to did such a good job of helping me try different styles that suited some inspo pics I’d sent them ahead of time. They had a rack of about 8 dresses, and after the first two she asked me to pick my favourite and then we compared all the following dresses to the evolving top pic and I came away with two I loved the most and picked between them. Such a good experience! It looks like they did a great job of showing you variety while in the styles you had in mind.
@jennyh40252 ай бұрын
I went dress shopping with one idea: either a simple cut or a simple fabric. Well actually two: I didn’t want to look like a big piece of meringue. I ended up with a not quite mermaid dress (the skirt flared out a little bit higher, I have no idea what they are called) with a brocade fabric. Good luck with your dress shopping!
@ninjabgwriter2 ай бұрын
I have some sensory issues and all the lace on wedding dresses always looked like a nightmare to me. Half considering just learning to sew my own so I don't have to deal with that one day.
@deannad91052 ай бұрын
Trying on bridal dresses is such a unique experience experience! I don't think you can predict how you will feel, until you actually do it. My suggestion is to go into it with an open mind and have fun❤ (And the 'Say Yes to the Dress' recommendation- Do NOT try on a dress outside of your budget. Because if you love it, nothing else will compare and you will hate all the options that you can afford! And you will be disappointed!)
@TropicLuv2 ай бұрын
Don’t worry, you will find the one that is right and when you put it on, you will instantly know it is the one. ❤
@elliebakalova12392 ай бұрын
I went in for the appointment with a list of 4 dresses I thought I loved when seeing them online. Tried them, hated them, changed my mind completely, tried 3 more and left having placed the order for the most beautiful and perfect dress I could have imagined. All in one hour. One place, one appointment, one hour. That's all it took. Mind you, I was feeling super overwhelmed when going into the appointment and I find it very hard to choose anything really. So it's doable, hang in there. ❤
@josettehoughton85182 ай бұрын
Simplicity is always beautiful and classy ❤
@heatherhult58382 ай бұрын
Sweetie, you're in NYC. Go see Randy at Klienfelds.
@TheCheshireCat44692 ай бұрын
Get the dress that you can’t stop thinking about (it might even be the first dress you try on) and it doesn’t need to be white. My mum got married in a red wedding dress.
@jenleigh42122 ай бұрын
I think the stress is the expectation of feeling pressured by the staff to choose something that day. Or at least that’s what it would be for me.
@pile3332 ай бұрын
1:05 it always happens like that. 😄
@tcm0872 ай бұрын
While everyone is different, just know it’s okay to do what’s most comfortable for you and your future spouse. Weddings quickly become about other people, which is unfortunate.
@Oliana2012Ай бұрын
This is happening to me right now… the whole process is super stressful instead of being exciting. And the dresses I like look weird on me and of course my mum don’t like them so I’m keep looking. No fun at all
@gebruikersnaam.312 ай бұрын
GO TO RANDYYYYY🎉
@RubyChiang2 ай бұрын
You're getting married?! OMG! Congratulations!
@kacierose2 ай бұрын
Haha yes! Thank you ☺️
@jtpadilla12 ай бұрын
I was excited or so I thought picked out a few dresses got in the dressing room got a dress on and immediately was flood with so much anxiety and dread that I started sobbing it was bad my friend had to strip me out of the dress and the panic attack was lasting. We took a minute or 20 calmed down and she told me put on a completely different dress just for fun something that doesn’t scream wedding at all. And it was exactly what I needed and it ended up being my wedding dress.
@kacierose2 ай бұрын
Oh I love that. I’m so glad it turned out to be a great experience ♥️
@JSJSpeaks2 ай бұрын
Get married in a fancy ass pantsuit!
@pipertarin682 ай бұрын
Kacie, When did you get Engaged? Congratulations to you both 🥂❤💐 Blessings & Love to you all, Piper & Singer a.k.a. My Kitty. P.S. Welcome back Home!
@kacierose2 ай бұрын
Hi!! In May :) there’s some videos around that time if you go back!♥️
@doloreskrisky167021 күн бұрын
Great idea going alone, especially for the first experience. Let's you take your time wo anyone else trying to influence your decision.
@Siegorius2 ай бұрын
Now you need to make sure Dario doesn't watch this video!
@kacierose2 ай бұрын
Bahahaha nah it’s fine, I sent him pictures of the no’s 😂
@chicagolc70222 ай бұрын
It would definitely stress me out.
@pepper11882 ай бұрын
City hall, $50 and a white suit, doesn't have to be a big deal if you don't want it to be
@stephgreen30702 ай бұрын
Oh yeah. The going in with one idea and coming out with a completely different dress is totally normal.