*Wedding Planning 101* Details about my upcoming wedding! 👰🥂💗

[@tightfitrightfit]

What about food? What caterers are you using? Your menus? Open bar? Cash bar? Cocktail hour? Table settings?

[@ChicOnTheCheap]

Hi! Those are great questions: Our venue has catering onsite and the food is amazing! We are doing a plated meal, wedge salad, crab cakes and filet mignon. We are doing an open bar and the cocktail hour will have some fun appetizers. Around the end of the night we’ll have some snacks available for our guests. ❤️ Table settings will be white with pretty candles and a floral centerpiece. We are so excited!

[@tightfitrightfit]

Sounds very beautiful. You have everything planned out so nicely. I pray God’s blessings over your marriage and a dream wedding.

[@seaglass1111]

@ChicOnTheCheap Sara Jane, that sounds so wonderful. When I got married I would say my favorite thing was just having my couple of bridesmaids with me and the food lol. What I REALLY didn't like at all or to this day was the flash of so many cameras. It was like the paparazzi! After the reception we went to our hotel room exhausted and overwhelmed with flashes of lights (from those cameras)seared into my brain and eyes lol. We had about 300 people. If I ever am blessed to get married again (we separated and this past December he passed away) I definitely want small!

[@michellet3237]

What are you doing for your favors, invitations, what type of place is your rehearsal at? Everything sounds so great but you HAVE to tell us which dress you picked. I think it is either the middle one or the one on the far left as I am facing the screen!! I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU! Every moment will be just fantastic…mine was!

[@toritory5037]

I love your selections and venue idea. For the wedding dress, I would choose number 5. 💛

[@mommygarcia9137]

Girl ! Don’t worry about what people think ! It’s your wedding you do what you want to spend as much money on your wedding as you want ! It’s your special day ! Congratulations !

[@marciarogers1298]

Hi Sarah Jane! I just want to say I feel that having a great photographer is one of the top most important things to have for your wedding. I've been married 43 years, and we still like to get out our wedding album from time to time and look back on that say. After the cake is gone, the guests have left, and the day is over, your pictures will last a lifetime. I know your wedding will be beautiful!!!

[@kayannhorn233]

Beautiful!❤ #5 Dress?It's your day to shine!🌞The two of you just take in all the love and well wishes from family and friends on that day and HAVE FUN!🎆

[@janinahartman5282]

I never liked the throwing of the bouquet 💐. What we did was ask all the married couples to get on the dance floor. We chose a very nice song and everyone started to slow dance. Then the deejay would make an announcement and say "Anyone that was married today, please leave the dance floor" so my husband and I did. Then he would ask that anyone married less than 5 years to leave the dance floor. He did it incrementally until he was able to say "Anyone married for more than 60 years please stay on the dance floor." By this time, the only 2 people still dancing were my grandparents who were married 65 years! Everyone stood around the dance floor and that was when I gave my bouquet to my grandmother. It was perfect!!

[@wendysmobilehomesweethome423]

I absolutely LOVE this!! What a beautiful way to honor your grandparents! Thank you for sharing this, I'm sure it was a very wonderful event. ❤❤

[@susanmorgan647]

I love it❣️👍🏻

[@jesseka77]

I did a very similar thing. It was a great thing to honor my mother's cousin who was married 50 years the month before. One of my favorite memories, seeing her smile.

[@mbweis1012]

#5 is beautiful and elegant but they’re all pretty and you will look amazing!!

[@marieteresa2781]

I wore ballet-style slippers as shoes under my wedding dress too!! Almost 43 years ago! It was wonderful to have comfortable feet all day and all evening! You'll be so happy with that decision! Your wedding plans sound so beautiful!

[@amandahose7230]

We had a May wedding too! Such a perfect month to wed! The best part is coming together in a lifelong union with your best friend in front of God and all of your favorite people! The worst part is missing those who've passed on before us. God bless you, Sarah Jane!

[@melissapeavy6778]

Sara Jane , it's your special day and should be EXACTLY the way you want it!! Our wedding was 6 years ago on Memorial Day weekend. The absolute best thing about our day was seeing my husband's face as I was walking down the aisle!! I wouldn't have changed a thing about our day!! Congratulations to you and your fiancé!! I'm so happy for you bc you deserve it!!❤❤😊

[@somonewhite6732]

Agree about the worst part. I would have loved for my mother to have been there but I know she was in heaven blessing me with love and beautiful weather , we had a June wedding in a park

[@mimismegalife4976]

I was a 16 year old pregnant bride. My husband was 17. Our parents were at odds and only my Mother and 2 of my sisters and my husband's aunt attended. I don't think I would have changed my wedding day. It was memorable. We were married for 38 years. My husband died 5 years ago. I am thankful to God I have our daughters and grandchildren who love me and I love them. Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials.

[@Beatrix7004]

OMG I’m so sorry for your loss! But it’s so nice that you were married so long. God bless

[@juliebolduc802]

So sorry for your loss.

[@heleneg525]

God bless you and your husband for such a lengthy marriage. So odd to see today.

[@kristischutt6993]

I got married! The best part was the venue. The regret was the day went so fast. the detail we put into it really didn't seem to be such a big deal in the end. I loved the day, but it didn't need ALL the thrills I thought we should have. If we scaled down a bit it would have been just as fun. Congratulations!!! 🎉

[@jenniferingram4861]

So happy for you, Sara Jane! My wedding was 46 years ago but still such happy memories! Something with go wrong but don't sweat it. The sweetest thing is being enveloped in love- your new husband's, and family and friends! It's all about you and your groom. Good advice from my mom and dance teacher "keep smiling " and another one about mistakes- "no one will notice on a galloping horse!" God bless you in this fantastic, new chapter of life!

[@ChicOnTheCheap]

Great advice thank you so much Jennifer!

[@monicaschultz890]

The favorite part of my stepdaughters wedding in February 2024 were 3 things: Ring blessing where the rings are passed to the bridal party & immediate family to say a prayer, blessing, well wishes over the couple before the ring exchange. The church bell was rang right after the couple was announced as husband and wife to signify to the community they were now married. Lastly, during the father/daughter dance & son/mother dance, after the first verse & chorus of the song, guests were invited to join the dance meaning any father/daughter could come dance together for a special dance or mother & son could share a special dance together. It was beautiful they shared that moment. Such a lasting memory! Congratulations 🍾 on your upcoming wedding!!!! Blessings to you both 🎉❤

[@gingergould2864]

I love the idea of having guests father/ daughter pairs join in with you (and mother/ son pairs)… what a great moment!

[@AshleyLopez55]

Make sure you enjoy your wedding food and cake. After all of the dancing and fun at the reception we were starving so it’s a good idea to see if they caterer makes a to go box meal for you and the groom to enjoy after as well

[@jenniferlisow2901]

We did the samething with our venue that provided on-site catering. We went home with a good amount to eat the following day before we went on our honeymoon. It was delicious.

[@NannyNettie]

Best, small, great food, winter wedding! It was cheep too. If I would have done the food I would have saved more. Worst the weather. Snow then rain ice than warm up and fog!!!! All in 48 hours. But people still talk about it. Most surprising was the young guy in my hubbys band, he still says it was the best wedding. Congratulations and Manny blessings for a beautiful life!!!

[@janiceh4521]

I had some great tips from a event planner when I got married so here you go: A basket with safety pins, Bobby pins. Mini sewing kit, Advil, spot remover, lint roller. tissues anything you could possibly need (if came in so handy with bridesmaids, MIL, MOB even groomsmen) Even at sit down dinner you and your husband are in high demand and you don’t get to eat fully have someone (pick a specific person) to make a Togo bag for when you get to the hotel and are starving! Also great tip for me Pictures: it’s great to have the photographers but have the disposable AND ask quest to take pictures. Years later I go to all the ones given to me by friends & family over the stages photos and love seeing my grandparents all who have since passed laughing, talking, dancing it priceless! Lastly nothing is ever wrong! It may not be what you planned but this is a day of celebration of love, family & friends don’t stress about things bc it isn’t exactly what you planned, roll with it, no one else will know it’s not exact and you deserve to enjoy every moment of this once in a lifetime event! ❤ it flys by and it’s a blur just because so breathe deep, relax and enjoy

[@debrahorst8154]

Your mountain wedding will be stunning! Dress #5 is simply elegant, and #3 is magical!

[@dianav.97]

We save money in everyday life for dreams like this!! Congrats!! 🎉

[@MelissaAlexander1958]

You're wedding plans sound beautiful. I'm sure it's going to be an amazing day for you, and a day you will always have in your memories to cherish forever. Our wedding was small, but we had it outside in a Gazebo overlooking the ocean, at sunset. It was very pretty. 30 years of marriage and still going strong. I wish you the very best of everything.

[@karenrobinson5900]

I am so happy for you and your man! I love #5 dress it looks like you. Love the idea of you being thoughtful of your bridesmaids and allowing them to pick what they are comfortable in. I've heard lots of ladies hated their dresses, won't be in your case. ❤best wishes for your special day!!

[@crystalgardner7277]

My daughter was married last year and my son five years ago tomorrow! I was shocked at how much everything had increased in price! It had tripled! I’ve always heard that your guests will remember the food and fun, or lack there of, the most. Congratulations and best of luck on your big day!! 😊 I see you in dress #3, although you would be stunning in either of the dresses.

[@yrasemadiaz4948]

If you have kids at your wedding , definitely make sure they have access to the disposable cameras . Kids take the funniest pictures from an entirely different perspective! As far as my favorite wedding memory , a 4 year old guest thought I was a real princess and she followed me all night fluffing my dress and making sure I had water . It was the sweetest thing to see her eyes light up in awe ❤

[@MelissaCox]

I loved the disposable cameras from our wedding, but a few pre-teens got their hands on several and we ended up with at least 12 rolls of BAD bathroom selfies. :(

[@ellengalbavy538]

I wore slippers exactly like the ones you plan to wear under your wedding dress when I got married 32 years ago! Huge congratulations to you!!

[@kathyfrederking2298]

All of the dresses are so beautiful, but I think you chose Number 3. Gorgeous and rich looking, so beautiful.

[@reneflorimonte4283]

The only thing I knew about that didn’t go as planned on my wedding day was one of the groomsmen was given the wrong style of tux when he picked it up. Right size and color, but not the right style. The other thing that I was not expecting was that I was extremely nervous walking down the aisle with all the eyes on me. Thankfully my Dad kept me calm. The best thing I liked was that my Family and close Friends were able to join us in our celebration. My food served was also amazing. It was actually all cooked by my Family, so it was a major hit! Congratulations to you both! Wishing you a happy life together. 🤵👰‍♀️💍💐🥂

[@sandyjackson1089]

Best thing for wedding is not expecting everything to be perfect. Expecting hiccups and embracing and loving the story behind them :)

[@heleneg525]

Imagine saying: "I," [hiccup] "🤣do."

[@sheriluft]

Your day will fly by. Enjoy every moment! Congratulations!

[@susanwhite3007]

My favorite moment was the look on my husband’s face when he saw me, the world went away, it was only us for those moments. I’m going to tell you things will go wrong, no matter how much you plan for the perfect event, stuff happens. Don’t get sidetracked, your guests don’t know what you have planned and will have a great time, so enjoy your day, it will be over in the blink of an eye.❤️

[@maryd8393]

Best wedding was having my hubby come home from the military to marry me!!! The worse is my precious hubby passing away in 2021 after 36 yrs being married. It sucks to be a widow! Our wedding was awesome! Over 300 people and it was Dec 28th. Tons of snow!!

[@shannonhenning1177]

Oh my gosh, I am so thrilled to hear that you’re wearing slippers under your wedding dress. Comfort is everything especially at your wedding. The slippers are amazing!!Way to go girl!!!

[@constantineangelgutierrez1851]

Congratulations 🎉hope you guys have a magical day.

[@ChicOnTheCheap]

Thank you so much!

[@karinday6128]

Sara Jane you do you! Comfort is important on your wedding day- I love how thoughtful you are with your bridesmaids- what about photography- did you mention photographers? I’m over the moon excited with you !! Your Fiance is one blessed man 💐

[@ChicOnTheCheap]

Thank you so much! We will have a team of photographers/videographers and we will be doing a majority of the photos ahead of the ceremony.

[@pamelaflores6592]

My daughter has the first outfit with pants, she wore it to a party, she looked Gorgeous. Can wait to see what you picked for your wedding gown, all that you posted are beautiful .

[@keepingitreal3304]

Have a wonderful wedding and honeymoon. May your wedding day be everything you dreamed of. Congratulations to you both.

[@CarolinaSevilla68]

I think you chose either dress #1 or #5 😊. Why am I getting teary eyed watching your video? So happy for both of you.

[@darsig3317]

It’s your day - do it the way you want!! I’d wear dress #3 or #5. You’ll be a beautiful bride.

[@AfricanLissy]

I am excited to see how your wedding day comes together! Way to go on the decision on wearing the slippers and then comfy heels, I know that will make a big difference for you to be there in the moment with one less distraction!

[@clairisalong126]

My biggest regret was not hiring someone to help organize everyone and everything on the day of. I didn’t really need a planner throughout the whole process, but having someone on the day would have made sure that everyone was doing what I thought they were doing, and a lot of things didn’t get done that got paid for still. My favorite memories to look back on are when my older family members got to participate in small ways by reading a quick poem, or just getting a quick bit of recognition.

[@alexandyesisarria4764]

Everything sounds so lovely!! ❤ The wedding dresses are all dreamy! I would say #3 would be my choice. It’s elegant, modest, timeless, so feminine and the ball gown skirt ads such romance. With my wedding, my sister in law told me to make sure and absorb each moment of the day because it goes so fast. The part I love most is that I did just that. I slowed down and took mental photos of the smiles and love. My least favorite was because of a lack of budget I did not get a video, send off or photography through the night. But all in all, I loved my wedding! Wishing you a blessed day!

[@groovyhippiechick]

My favorite part was seeing the look on my husband’s face when I walked down the aisle. Congratulations on the nuptials!

[@mitamita2551]

Your day is going to be magical! I love the fact that you let your bridesmaids pick out their own style and design for THEIR body type. I’m excited to see pics!

[@pastda3]

Wow! I'm sure your wedding will be beautiful. I love the clean and elegant theme. I personally really like Dress 3. How exciting for you.

[@toniurbauer3865]

Dress number 5! You are going to be a beautiful bride! Congratulations 🍾🎈

[@jw6504]

My wedding was an expensive one too but it was one to remember! My dad was an immigrant Italian that worked hard to support his family and was success in business so this was his choice to take care of all his relatives and feed them well. Beautiful cocktail hour with open bar all night long and no one got crazy so maybe open bar doesn’t work for some but our celebration was fabulous. Five- course meal followed with a Venetian dessert table that out shined my wedding cake. I’ll always remember that day and will be forever thankful to my dad who sadly is no longer with us. My only regret is if you need to bussel your wedding dress, hire someone to do it right!

[@barbaraclanton-px9wi]

Good luck.Wish you much happiness, laughter,friendship and most of all everlasting love.

[@jennilevin9586]

Make the day/ ceremony/reception all about the two of you!! Do NOT go table to table to say hi, everyone can come to you out on the dance floor. Also pic ALL of your songs for your special moments, throwing the bouquet, taking off the garter, throwing the garter, cutting the cake etc. It’s YOUR day enjoy yourselves. Enjoy your cocktail hour with your guests as well. I didn’t have any bad things from mine only great memories. Been married 24 years and going strong. Have a blast!!

[@kimstaggenborg3928]

Excited for you, I know you will be a stunning bride and the wedding will be amazing. I would pick dress 3 for me but dress 5 looks like you IMO, but they are all very pretty. You will look fabulous no matter what, excited to see pictures. Enjoy your special day and soak it all in.

[@minervadiaz2934]

Your wedding is going to be fabulous we all would love to see a video of your wedding ❤

[@AnnEaton-xj6ic]

You are going to be the most beautiful bride Sara Jane!!🥰

[@Crystal-ci1pc]

I also had a wedding in the mountains-Great Smoky Mountains. We had a small gathering at a chalet with the mountains in the background. It was beautiful! Just make sure your guests know how to get to your destination in the mountains for your special day. The preacher for our wedding was lost on the way to our wedding destination. My mom was stressed🥴 I hope everything goes wonderful for you and congratulations!

[@joycehobbs7564]

I love Etsy! I used them a lot when my son’s got married. Got signs for rehearsal dinner & their wedding showers plus items for favors.

[@kathleendoud]

congrats on your up coming wedding 💐🥂🍾🎉💍

[@Brandie8fam]

I did slippers under mine too! Best choice!

[@kellieroth1710]

My best and worst wedding experience.... best... we got married on the beach of lake Michigan in Beverly shores, Indiana. Worst.... my hubs was very cranky at the reception cuz he was hungry and tired of all the pictures 😆. He passed away 4 years ago this December. We were married 12 years. I miss him every day! Thanks for sharing all your planning and the upcoming wedding videos! It's going to be beautiful! ❤❤❤ much love from Oklahoma ❤❤

[@marianenetten3067]

My favorite parts of my wedding were seeing my husbands face walking down the aisle and hearing how everyone was having fun, enjoying the food, the music etc. Also that I made my dress, and all of the decorations for the church and the hall, quite proud of that. Everything came together in 2 months which was great. The least favorite part was the rain and cool weather that started during the reception (we got married at the end of October.) I wish you and your future husband the greatest wedding day and lots of love and happiness!

[@joanneagee6736]

I love everything you have chosen! So beautiful and elegant! I pick Dress #5 for you.

[@sherri4295]

🩵 💟 congratulations! Everything is going to be magical and beautiful! Can’t wait to hear more about it… Love the idea of all the bridesmaids wearing the blue jammies and slippers, so so cute! Smiling face emoji enjoy your day and do whatever makes you happy! I can’t wait to see what type of flowers you select, your bouquet, and also, I cannot wait to see what your dress will be! so exciting have amazing time. Good luck and God bless! 💕

[@kathrynn3936]

So exciting! Can’t wait to see your pics! Have fun!

[@LindaKayHolevas]

I am in love with wedding dress #3, but they are all absolutely amazing. You will look incredible in whichever one you chose. I am so glad you are staying true to yourself & doing things the way you want them done. I was a wedding planner for over 12 years & the one thing I always would say is “it is your wedding, not mine”. It was always my goal to help my brides stay as true to themselves as possible. 😊

[@M.m.k.8877]

❤I am so excited for you! Ever since you announced your engagement you have just been glowing! I have always appreciated your honesty and videos. Your wedding day is yours. You spend how much you want on whatever you want!! My advice is: do it all together. Laugh, cry, pray, be brave, eat the dessert first, skinny dip and have each others backs no matter who is wrong or right. Love to you BOTH!❤

[@annagia153]

Your Wedding,, Your way!! all the very best to you both!!

[@toodymouse]

It looks like it will be a gorgeous wedding! Congratulations! I liked dress #3 the best.

[@acrsims8989]

Congratulations 🎉 Make sure to do what you want and what you can afford. Do not please any one else but you and your spouse! I hope you enjoy your day! Favorite parts of my wedding was the entertainment: live music, DJ and photo booth. Regrets: not getting all the pictures I wanted bc I did not make a detailed list

[@grisellescakes]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Everything looks FABULOUS like you!!!!! The dress will be 3 or 5 their are fabulous!!

[@patriciawhite9668]

Best wishes Sara Jane on your wedding. Prayers you are blessed with weather as beautiful as the venue. I think you would look beautiful in any one of the dresses but I feel you chose number 3. We had the wedding dance toward the end of the reception, where the guests lined up to have a short dance with the bride or groom. That gives a specific time of the night for guests to personally talk with the bride and groom for a few seconds and maybe a picture with just them. Looking forward to the rest of the plans and the BIG DAY! 🥂🔪

[@colorcrayon54]

My husband & I planned & paid for our entire wedding. It’s been 28 yrs but I still love the venue we had. This was a second wedding for both of us & my husband gave me anything I wanted (my first was not that way). Everything was perfect, as yours will be! Everything you’ve shown us has been beautiful & classy & I can’t wait to see your actual photos. I did have one question….where are you going on your honeymoon? Somewhere just as beautiful as your wedding I’m guessing. ❤️

[@douglasmcbryan3705]

Disposible cameras at every table is fun. Nancy

[@natalieangelo54]

My wedding was a beach 🏝🏖🌺 wedding , and we all had a fabulous time, it will be four years august that ive been married , just have a good time , breathe , and make great memories , ❤❤❤ happy Wedding day Sarah Jane🍾🥂😂💞

[@annjohnson543]

Sara, you have really planned!! It's going to be fantastic. Hmmmm. What dress will you wear? I'm guessing dress #3. Can't wait to see if I'm right. One thing, if you are in the mountains in the evening maybe think about a small wrap for the bridesmaids. It could be a little chilly. Also I love that you are having different dresses for them. Makes things more interesting and they will be more comfortable, too. Enjoy it all, and Congratulations to the both of you!!!

[@danareilly8474]

They are all beautiful but i think 5 is my favorite. I’m sure you will be beautiful in any of them.

[@nancyabercrombie5052]

We've been married 52 years. Our wedding was perfect. Wouldn't have changed a thing. Congratulations to you! Went to the Bahamas on our honeymoon. It was perfect too!!

[@Lea2008-k8b]

It was our second marriage. We did a very small, small wedding on the beach. A reception at the place where we had our first date, where he proposed, and we had a small intimate lunch with family and friends. We go back each year on our anniversary. It was the best day ever!

[@victoriachanel2493]

Same❤

[@ruthbesterman9497]

It's not about the wedding or reception, it's about the vows you say to each other. They are the most important thing of the day!

[@princesse5043]

The makeover trial run looked amazing!! I wish you a very happy wedding day. May God bless you and your future husband and provide you with all that you need in your married life. May He keep you both in good health and that you have a long happy marriage.

[@barbmertes-o7k]

You are going to be the most Beautiful Bride. Congrats!!!!

[@caroljohnston3715]

Dress#3 is so romantic ❤❤have a beautiful wedding ❤❤

[@reneemedford6887]

The mountains look like my home-The Great Smoky Mountains! Wherever it is, it it a beautiful backdrop for your wedding!

[@staceyshaffer2892]

On our wedding day I wore a red white and blue dress from Walmart with a pair of low heel black velvet boots and I styled my own hair and wore a fancy headband I made my floral decorations that I bought from Michael's craft store and dollar store table clothes we just told everyone in our church the day we planned on getting married my bridesmaids wore dresses they already owned My best friend walked me down the aisle And our pastor married us in our church My husband made my favorite dessert blueberry pie We had someone play the piano Our 6 year anniversary is July 14th Your wedding is going to be amazing ❤❤❤😊😊😊

[@shelleythomas1811]

#5 is absolutely beautiful

[@lucilleward806]

Loved dress #2 & 5. Sounds like a wonderful time for all. Don’t sweat the little things that may go wrong. Just have a fun and memorable day.

[@terrisimmons17]

Congrats! Wishing u a Wonderful Wedding Day!🤗

[@debysandoval4596]

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. God bless you both

[@kalanimiller2560]

Love all the choices you have made so far. I love dress #2 or #3 but all are gorgeous! Thank you for sharing with us😊

[@user-cj9ed2dg8k]

Love your choices...definately you! Just remember to really stop and remember the vows you share and look at the people all around you the whole day. Such a special meaning in each part. Breathe!❤

[@jamiehill3220]

It’s going to be beautiful! Your wedding, your style. Congratulations!

[@sandycook4140]

I think you’ll wear #5 ! That’s my favorite!

[@tammygunn7073]

Also my daughter is getting married and planning and all the things I’m so excited to hear about how ur doing urs so ur tips will help tremendously thank u

[@lyngartin318]

It sounds lovely and I'm sure everything will be fabulous. Best Wishes!

[@carmpasquariello6014]

Congratulations and best wishes for your special day!!

[@mspwally1]

Oh sweetie, I’ve followed you since you were in Florida. This makes me sooo happy! I am over the moon happy for you!🥰🥰

[@terrirojas]

Wedding days are the best! What a couple splurges and saves on in their wedding budget is what makes their wedding unique to them, and no one else's business. Wanting to throw a grand party for your family and friends is a beautiful thing 💕 Remember to steal private moments with your groom to take it all in - all the love, family and friends there to celebrate you, the fun, and all of your planning coming to fruition. That being said, know that guests will do what they want regardless of what you planned for their enjoyment/entertainment. Let them, and enjoy your day for you. Everything goes by in a blink, and thankfully, there are photos and video to watch after. My wedding was small, 48, including bride and groom. We drove to the venue together and picked up our flowers on the way! ha ha ha, I just remembered that! 🥰 We took our photos before the ceremony and got to greet guests as they arrived. With a short guest list we were able to take formal photos with all of our guests after the ceremony. The reception was held at a family style Italian restaurant and we ate for 3 hours. It was glorious! 🍝 Instead of wedding favors, we surprised our guests with a salsa 💃 dance lesson from the instructor who was teaching salsa where my husband and I first met 5 years before. To my great surprise, most of the guests participated! Even a friend's husband who "doesn't dance".🕺Unfortunately, as the salsa lesson was intended to get and keep guests up and dancing for the evening, the instructor wanted to do a "showcase" for everyone after the lesson, so everyone sat back down to watch and that was that 😔Regardless, we're still married 13 years later 😜 Enjoy your day, enjoy your honeymoon, and just make the decision when you wake up on your wedding day that everything is going to be perfectly you and your groom 💕Congratulations and best wishes! 🥂

[@carola.hoffer5777]

You will look gorgeous which ever dress you choose….i believe it is #5…it captures your femininity, the color is amazing with the beautiful lace sleeves, it will go perfect with your hair & complexion. I can’t wait to see your wedding pictures, much happiness to both of you! ❤️💍

[@kittycat888]

Oh my goodness!! I am so happy and excited for your upcoming wedding!! You will be such a beautiful bride!! I love dress #5 the best. So beautiful and elegant!! You will look gorgeous in any of those dresses!! Thank you so much for sharing your wedding plans!! Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials!!

[@peggymarsh6569]

Looks like your wedding will be magical. My daughter got married Dec 2020, yes a covid wedding. The venue had an outside area & we checked the sunset time to plan the actual wedding ceremony. Her’s was magical & yes we spent a ton of money but we only had one daughter & they still talk about what a wonderful wedding they had.

[@sandymcquestion3824]

I was so happy to see that you will be wearing ballet slippers under your dress, I used to do the same thing when I went to Prom in high school! So comfortable and I wasn't taller than my boyfriend when I wore them! I can't wait to see pictures of your special day. The dresses all look gorgeous but I think you chose dress 5! Good luck with everything the scenery looks beautiful for your wedding!

[@pamelaeberling1519]

Do not worry about what people think ! You do you and a big Congratulations to you and your husband!

[@leslienarveson1176]

I don’t think anyone can regret spending more money on details that will make it a special day for you. We splurged on an experienced photographer and now thirty tears later we have beautiful and amazing photos to remember our day by. We also put disposable cameras on the tables for the attendees to use to take photos. Nowadays I realize everyone has a camera! Encourage close friends to send you pics they take with their phones

[@cynthialugo3401]

How exciting! I agree is the wedding of your dreams and God willing the only one, so yes go all out! Blessings and wishing you all goes smoothly xoxo 😘 🤔 dress #3

[@cherylg5002]

I’ll be married 8 years on May 21st! The best part was seeing all my friends and family having an amazing time … least favorite was how fast the day flew! It literally goes by so fast! I’m soooo excited for you! ❤️

[@delisaseals9707]

Best wishes for the most magical day ever! You are a beautiful soul and he is lucky to have found you!❤

[@reneezubaty7926]

Congratulations Sara Jane. Wishing you a lifetime of love, happiness and laughter! You woll be a stunning bride no matter what dress you wear! 💘💖💗💓💞💕 Salute