WEDDING PLANNING MONEY SAVING TIPS FOR YOU! NIGERIAN WEDDING!

Event planner I used: Ms. Ope instagram (@Elixiroyalevents_)
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[@GodsTreasure]

I'm not even getting married anytime soon. But I watched the whole video😂😂

[@BemiBadmus]

Totally Totally agree with everything you have said! Don’t go broke because of a wedding. There is life after the wedding, there is the marriage. Can’t lavish on a wedding and be soaking garri after the wedding.

[@obukola]

Hmmm...this is so true. One thing that reiterates with me is 'Be true to thyself' no matter the pressure. I have two married sisters and their weddings were sooooo different. The first had a really big wedding and that's because almost everything was sponsored. Their outfits, honeymoon, hall was free etc. Even Davido and friends came to perform at the wedding. My other sister however did not even think to follow the trend. Her wedding was so different and unique. She and her husband sis exactly what they wanted. No alaga for intro. We prayed a and sang opening and closing hymn, an Uncle from both families introduced the families and we ate. White wedding was on a Thursday, about 25 people, and dinner after. Trad was on Saturday. Very few people too. It was beautiful and very intimate. They were sure they wanted to spend their money on their honeymoon. I went to visit them recently for the first time and their house is so beautiful too. I am getting married soon and mehn... I have catch plenty sense. I didnt think of DIY but now, I am soo going to DIY. Thanks a lot for your videos. They are really insightful and edifying. Remain blessed. Cheers

[@olusholaadejumo7603]

Waoo I love dis comments Am also preparing f my wedding too In my own case no one is ready to spent money f us I mean our both parents bco of there standard It's bco of d money we have not do it over 3years now We don't even no how to go abt it I think am in love wit ur second sister idea..God bless u sis as you share dis wit us

[@MERCYSOLUTIONZ]

25 guests! That’s absolutely beautiful and intimate, Love et! ✨

[@ifeoluwaolaseni-soetan6651]

You killed me at "behold the sun" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ifunanyavera6353]

I watched this video 3yrs ago and now I’m watching again because, my wedding is ina couple of months and I’ll just say God bless you!!!! This is very much insightful for me . Thank you😊❤️

[@inhisimage5648]

Can't take my eyes off the wig- lovely👌👌

[@kimo6584]

"Its a wedding not a carnival" Powerful statement! I am in the process of wedding planning myself. This video resonated with me so much. So good to hear someone else think the same way. You and hubby are the only ones there at the end of everything. can't be over exerting yourselves for ppl who may never even check on you and your marriage after.

[@OnyinyeUmeh]

my husband has not found me yet o but when he eventually comes to his senses and locate me, we will watch this video together. lol. learnt so much from this. thanks for sharing

[@oyincs9275]

"I don't need 5,000 balloons falling on me" 🤣. Neither do I sis hahah

[@thefavourrichard]

Thanks sis for this video. My wedding is in July and I've been feeling a little overwhelmed. Though the HolySpirit has being doing an amazing job in calming my nerves. We're on a budget too and praying so hard for the grace to spend really wisely. God help me with the bling bling desires.. 🙄lol. With this video, I can go back to my list and gain power of acting wisely and accordingly. Thanks Tosin. You're so inspiring.

[@kashody]

I kept screaming "PREACH!!!" watching this video... I totally share your views on this. I had my church wedding three months ago, on a wednesday with less than 30 people in attendance. I did my hair and makeup myself, got my dress on a budget and I got compliments on how stunning I looked. The saturday after we did our traditional wedding and then our parents were able to get the"Lagos Owambe" reception they wanted but it was all on a budget... No gbese starting our marriage!

[@UniceTv]

i wish you have a youtube channel and explain /advice on how you saved money . i'm feeling your ideas. thanks

[@kashody]

@@UniceTv😍 Thank you. I really want to, but I haven't really gotten myself to do it. I will try to put that into the plan for the new year... 😊

[@ranitasparks]

Wow

[@GraceBanks]

First time watching your video and I'm totally in love! My wedding was 2years ago n I was just like you in my thinking. Matter of fact, the money we were sprayed got stolen right at the reception ground, husband n I just smiled cuz we had no expectations. I DIY my bridal train too n so many other things. Wedding is only but a few hours, when the dress is taken off real work (marriage) sets in. It's worth investing more In making a marriage work than making a few hours of a ceremony flamboyant. ...Wisdom is profitable to direct ...

[@AlmaNgur]

Standing ovation for you Tosin. This reminds me of the blog post I did after my wedding as well! So apt!

[@TosTosTV1]

Looool “oh wow behold the sun” 😂 I’m enjoying this! Much needed video! Thanks❤️

[@abiolaoluwaseun8997]

😂😂😂 she said "...oh wow behold the 🌞" Spitting truth

[@angienene]

Sis this video is awesome and so informative. Pastor B is so wise. “Just because you have it doesn’t mean you should spend it”!!!!! That’s a word right there👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.

[@TheLizzyO]

Very very lovely video. I love how you said what is important to you!? Know your budget and work with it. Side note: you look lovely!

[@MjayOdus]

Mehn i love this video, the funny thing is I thank God for my parents, I would rather a simple wedding, but my father will not have it. so even if i have my own budget, they have theirs. and I will get everything i want and more. but the video makes so much sense die, ppl go into debt after wedding, and it just sucks. right now I know that my father (GOD continue to bless him) will take 90% of the expense, so i and my hubby are focusing our finance on getting a good living space and furnishing the place.

[@FaraBrown]

I truly thank God for your life Tosin! I’m only 8 minutes in and I’m already blessed! ❤️🙏🏼

[@fisayoade]

Been watching your videos all day. You’re amazing 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@maryidabor9442]

Thanks for this video. I wish I could redo my wedding sha. Everytime I remember how much was spent I become sad because the wedding planner cheated us.people who are preparing to get married need to watch this👍

[@dominiongideon707]

I actually perceived the depth from which you were speaking. Thank you so much. I'm not getting married anytime soon but I actually had been thinking of a lot of DIY for my wedding but I felt people would think I'm stingy but with this video, I can go on with my plans.

[@kimbibrenda2892]

Choi Tosin....Truth is bitter but must be spoken, wow...you said everything "Its a wedding not a Carnival" wow wow....You are having a wedding for a marriage and not the other way round!!!

[@LifewithNanya2]

Lots of wisdom flowing from your mouth, sis. Thank you so much... You are a life saver. ❤💓 cut your desires according to your budget.

[@melody1854]

After the wedding u still remaind like smiling. Am planing my wedding using your tips hun!

[@fisayo.z.salamisalami176]

"behold the sun" part killed me, aunty T this video is my best ...... thumbs up, our cloth won't tear hehe

[@Ifeyinwa]

I’ve never planned a wedding but so much of what you said resonated with me! I’ve never understood the reasoning behind spending a fortune on weddings whether you have the money to spend or not, it’s just one day! Anyways I’ve added this video to my favourites to save for when the appropriate time comes lol x

[@chinwenduanozie4057]

Informatively, you will be given prime minister of information..this was soo dished out honestly and soo on point..

[@sandraafriyie3479]

First to comment! I love u girl. Very helpful

[@lolablackofficial]

You definitely hit the nail in the head on this one. These were all the things my husband and I thought about and we figured we were not ready just yet and it was not worth it for us at the time so we just went to court...did the needful and started our lives together. However, that's a hard pill for our families because they definitely want the big party so we are planning a do over when we go to Nigeria. I appreciate our culture and how important celebrating a union is but we can definitely cut down the unnecessary expenses because when you marry and you are not happy nobody will be there to sob with you.

[@uchechiagwu1182]

Wow, i am about to get married and I just came across this instructive and wonderful video, I quickly brought out my note pad and pen and by God's grace I am sure I would plan my wedding well, have a good time and not be on deficit after the wedding. Thank you, Tosin you were God's answer to my prayer.

[@renniealli6254]

Super helpful been thinking about wedding budget too with the way extravagance is now a standard for naija weddings thanks Tosin

[@amarachiajuwasculptures4521]

Thank you so much for this video. My partner and I are planning to have our wedding at the end of the year and we both want a small but remarkable destination wedding but my family is being very easy by Gods grace. This video has helped me in so many ways. Thank you very much for sharing this information.

[@ladee169]

My sis move iT, move the wedding dat part got me 🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣

[@graceajakaye239]

You're amazing!! I love the way you spoke with lots of wisdom. We need more people like you to help talk to young ladies!! (especially the ones without savings)

[@TemmyKade]

True... Like this should be on everyone's daily play of video.

[@gio_designs]

You are sooooo real am sure God is always like thats my gurl 😊😊😊 .

[@lateefatshinaba9955]

This video is great! All that glitters is not gold indeed! Frivolous, impulse spending is the easiest way to waste money so thank you for this!

[@meetthedumuijes8574]

Thank you for these tips. We are preparing for our wedding and these tips are just super amazing and powerfully useful

[@lifewithuzi]

You really hit EVERY NAIL ON THE HEAD!!!🤩👌🏽👌🏽

[@Rareisbeautiful]

Educative video as usual. Would appreciate a savings video for young people like saving in general

[@pf2199]

I love you. Always inspiring me to find new ways to manage my life.

[@awowede_kemi]

Wow , thanks so much for sharing this with us, Infact, you just made my day cuz I have been thinking of how I will save money and set my priorities straight for my wedding. You just made my day 😍😍😍

[@EbunOluwoleTV]

I learnt!! My wedding next year in Jesus name. Thanks so much for sharing sis....and that excel sheet you mentioned will be highly appreciated if you are permitted to share it... Thanks again!

[@CanadianTobs]

Thanks for making they video Tosin. I totally dig it.

[@sisiadebanke5007]

You’re sooooo realistic and truthful cheeers

[@TemmyKade]

Thank you so much for the video, so insightful... Using this as a guide, it is a wedding not a carnival....

[@aderimikelala9730]

The "You are not serious" part at the end got me 😂

[@abiolaosinulu879]

I absolutely agree with you Tosin. My wedding is in 2 weeks and the best decision I made regarding the whole wedding planning was choosing an event planner I can easily relate with and talk to, she took a whole lot of stress off me. She would even stay awake past midnight just so we can talk at a time that was more convenient for me due to the time difference thingy. Thanks for this video.

[@Ronnie580]

Hi, please which event planner did you work with?

[@adedoyinsowemimo]

Thank you so much, loads of helpful tips here that I definitely would utilise 🤗🤗

[@abrahamsophia6061]

I just got engaged and planning my own wedding thanks for the tips I will really love to get that excel tnx 💋

[@cynthiaamadi1884]

Wow Tosin, this is very good. God bless you for sharing

[@abiolaelemikan3742]

She said oh wow! Behold the sun❤❤❤😂. This was so on point

[@SeunShalom]

Watching this video 4 years after and too many wisdom Getting married very soon and I'm glad I found this video Thank you so much 🥰

[@ambohruth9729]

The video was so helpful. I look forward to applying all the wonderful tips. Thanks 😘

[@sisiadebanke5007]

You’ve sooo much wisdom honestly , feels like I hv a big social media sis 👍

[@balogunnafisat5372]

this is really enlightening..let those who have ears hear

[@PilotAnu-PrincessAnuTv]

I have learnt more than enough thank you so much.

[@deborahola3903]

I'm totally following all the points. They're all points I agree with. Thank you so much

[@Wofanie]

The car did not change anything. Lol... behold the sun ☀️. 😂. Women need to get wiser!

[@bisolaola9557]

Wow.... Sist this is timely 😀😀😀God bless you

[@awelewaoluwadunsin5845]

wow! i'm a new subcriber💃😁 and this video came at the right time... thanks so much Tosin

[@omoladeadewusi7471]

Sis glowing 😍😍😍

[@laurethtv8733]

hmmm! I just love you for sharing this. I did same for my wedding.

[@Home-of-Royals]

Word for the wise . Thanks so much ma'am

[@princesshephzibah9187]

Thanks a lot Tosin. God bless to for sharing. Very helpful tips.

[@feddyhub4207]

thank you for these details... this is a great eye opener.

[@Hadehbisi]

Thank you tosin my wedding is next year by God's Grace and we don't want to run debt because of wedding .Your information is helpful .

[@alexinenansinla6109]

I love you so much Girl and all your videos because you touch every aspect of my life. God bless you.

[@ItsMaerii]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 thank you very much, I am definitely taking all these into consideration, btw your wig is so beautiful 😍

[@TosinAlabi]

Awww Thank you for watching !

[@hafamily7938]

Thank you for this video💓 I hope it stays up by the time I’m planning for my wedding lol

[@annpaul1963]

I enjoy watching your videos. I always learn something new from you

[@sharonabak3987]

Aunty Tosin, you gave really helpful tips. I have up to 2 pages in notes from this video.

[@vivianejike3631]

Totally loved this video. Thanks a lot. 🤗

[@lizzieaide2444]

Thank you for being truthful. I love you already.

[@nnennaoji449]

Those of us that don't have a wedding to plan but are watching, can we gather for a picture?

[@josephine3738]

Wow God bless you for this

[@winifredatusue3912]

God bless you so much for this video!

[@FelicityEffa]

Thank you so much for been very honest I find this very helpful May God bless you abundantly

[@blessedkenue3440]

Permit me call you distance mentor 😆. For some reason i feel like learning more even when I'm not in a relationship yet .Don't mind just preparing for the future.

[@floxyngozi5101]

You are amazing, this is sooooo helpful 👏👍😍😘

[@Fisayoo]

Woowww, So glad your video came up while searching for this topic!! ❤️ Extremely on point and helpful!! Pleaseee can I get the Masterlist planner?! 🙏🏽

[@bernice043]

Fantastic. You came at the right time.

[@techworldgadgets8434]

Thanks So Much Mama...My wedding is in less than 4 months ...Learnt a lot♥️

[@ikaniameh5562]

this is beautiful. can I get the master checklist if its possible so I can use the copy as guide for my wedding plan. I see this as an eye opener as it has really given me what I need to do. Great work

[@TMYB]

Thank you for this sis -it is helpful for my fiancée and I.

[@thebarlux]

Hello Tosin, honnestly...I needed to hear this. I literally slept ZERO last night because I was driving myself crazy about silly things that I don't even care about. Listening to you made it clear to me...I no go kill myself because of "pictures" perfect wedding.

[@Cheryltheresa]

I love this video. Yeah it’s pretty ridiculous that we worry more about our wedding than the actual marriage. Trying to impress whooooo?! I can’t wait to share my experience and lessons learnt from my wedding(s). This was an honest and informative video Tosin 👍🏽

[@rubyokeudo3781]

awesome video learnt a lot

[@Pdaramol]

Video is awesome and so informative.

[@mzira85]

Thanks so much for this I really enjoyed your video

[@toyinFajuyi]

i have told a couple of my friends that were getting married to do basic things like get your inspiration from social media and get the exact things done in the market yourself....they refused simply because they want to tag the vendors and ended up spending almost all their life savings.....May God give us wisdom

[@oluwatosinbabalola653]

Oh my! All for IG tags...

[@umohjoanna6797]

Wow so wonderful, but really wished there was to see pictures or video's of what you where explaining

[@uzunnajiikechukwu403]

sister ure on point indeed

[@inioluwaelesho5184]

Hello, this has really been helpful I'll like to get the master list for wedding planning if it's still available Thank you

[@DeraConsumables]

Hmmm thank God I decide to check on KZbin wow thanks ❤️❤️❤️

[@atem7231]

Very insightful video 💕💕

[@mariam.f.abdullahi3191]

weldone Tosin!!!

[@happinessada1198]

Thanks, thanks, thanks. You just empowered my decision

[@audiepearl832]

You look Beautiful sis

[@blessingnwachukwu9268]

Tosin thanks for the good tips....