Weekend Vlog | Dating As A Single Mom Chit Chat | Girls Night Out | Lunch

[@Tlc_lele]

"What you want exists, no matter what society tells you". That's all i needed to hear today!!!!!❤

[@khanyisagura4377]

That's THEE WORD!!

[@Tlc_lele]

@@khanyisagura4377 Period

[@Chis_Choice]

I don’t have a child but watching your content has 1) made me trust GOD more, because you move by faith. Being unemployed, moving from Durban to JBG and back, all while saying and living the fact that you won’t downgrade your children’s lifestyle. You’ve taught me how to have more faith in God. 2) you’ve taught me how to be more confident in myself. I used to be bullied for the way I look as I was growing up, and when a guy shows interest in you, people expect you to be grateful that a man is even paying attention to you. You have taught me that because I have good intentions/heart the things I want aren’t realistic I pray that God and your ancestors continue to work in the background and allow your visions to come to fruition ❤❤❤ Thank you so much for creating your channel, even though the way it came about wasn’t really that great ❤❤

[@sibusiledlamini2653]

I love this so much ❤

[@oleratokitsoyaone4586]

POV you’re a 20yrs old learning alot from the channel 😢😊..you’ve started watching it at the age of 18 and never looked back 😍👌.Thanks mommy ❤

[@Lifewith_Lwa]

I started watching when I was 16 I'm 19 now😭❤️

[@accoucher0]

Your reasoning for not wanting to date a man with kids make so much sense. I support youu❤I feel the same

[@accoucher0]

I’m so happy for Thato, I don’t know what she is and had been going through but I wish for her strength to go through it day by day, sending love,light and peace in all days. I love her please, she is such a hot mama whuuggg🔥😍I am always amazed by your friendship how you all show up for each other, Please don’t stop, it’s really beautiful ❤❤I love the era you’re in, please continue enjoying it, you deserve it and more beautiful things in your life, you deserve love,peace and stability. Happy for you sana. The glow mama 🔥🤩🙌🏻beautiful. So sorry for what you going through on the side, I hope it gets better as always ❤ It’s all love here ❤❤

[@keleGM]

I love the Amanda Jakes talks please ❤. I love the era you are in and true story, what you want really does exist.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤

[@mulayoserakoana2080]

Mandy, I've been so embarrassed to comment because i know i owe you something, but i felt that i need to say something today. You are an amazing mom, and a friend, you have inspired me to LIVE my life and through watching you, I've begun the inner work that is helping me do more than exist outside of the roles i play in my loved ones lives. You are special, and i low key want to be your friend, but we'll have this conversation another time 😅. I pray that God heals you where you need it and continues to strengthen you to continue empowering other mommas and women at large. You, my love are a power house!

[@nomfundondlovu7183]

😂😂hi guys don't mind my sunscreen blah blah ,ulele kuphi? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Eyi 😂😂

[@uuka652]

You dont know mandy doesn't sleep at home lately, ❤❤❤😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@phindile_mangethe]

If it’s not by her sister,it’s by her man😂😂😂.love this for her❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@phindile_mangethe my house is too far 😂😂

[@ayandanicole2720]

​@@TheMillennialMom1😂😂

[@ccrose7179]

You just spoke to me and ngiyabonga. I'm a single mom and I had given up. Thank you Mandy❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Don’t give up mama. Pls ❤❤

[@hlengiwemathenjwa1371]

Its been a year that I left my marriage, going back home to start from Zero was a scary thought but man oooooh man, I didn't see love in my cards and just as the year was about to come to an end Maaaan I am soooo loved its a new thing but the way that man shows up for me is INSANE....Lesson DON'T drop your standards.

[@mementoafrica22]

We are at the stage in our lives where we are not only soldering for our own sanity but have to equally be there for friends, parents, offsprings and society at large. Love that you have your groove back and wish the same for Thato, may she also not write herself off. To friends 🥂❤️

[@Kwa_Masilela]

Yoh mama here I am watching your vlog, listening to u and I'm teary . I'm a single mom of the kids two different father's. Thanks for giving me the hope that one I'll find the man who loves me for who I am

[@TheMillennialMom1]

He exists mama and you deserve the love you freely give to others ❤❤

[@Kwa_Masilela]

@TheMillennialMom1 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@siyamthandazimu313]

Oh, how I love you, Mandy. In my twenties,don't have kids. love your content, you're an inspiration ,a mom that I would have loved have ❤❤❤

[@LungileMabaso-on2jp]

15:59 Amanda Jakes😂😂❤. Am happy that you were able to pull your self out of the tranches. Yooo kunzima mentally ngapha you have to parent ai kuningy

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤

[@seteemandymothapo7080]

Mandy 🙌🙏 you are truly a blessing to most of us, you restore faith in us. Ever since I became a single mother I started doubting myself. After your words at the beginning of the vlog, I know believe someone to love me and my child is out there. I love you so much Bitso ❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@seteemandymothapo7080 oh Bitso. Being a mom doesn’t change anything. You are still very much worthy of the love you got before having a child. Pour into yourself and your baby and love will definitely find you ❤️

[@oleratogausitwe2422]

That chitchat felt like a warn hug from a big sister that I longed for 🥺🥺❤️

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@oleratogausitwe2422 huggsss lil sis 🫂🫂🫂

[@michellemasehla1545]

I'm going through a heartbreak, and all I wanted was you to cheer me up😢 Hope I will be fine cause right now I'm just so hurt ,confused, and lost. I love you Manda, I might as well be single too

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Michelle baby. You’re going be okay. Feel the emotions, go through them. Cry, scream, allow yourself to feel everything. You’re gonna be ok ❤❤

[@michellemasehla1545]

Thank you Manda❤

[@SibsM93]

You will definitely be okay. I went through heartbreak in Dec/Jan of 2022 and it was hell but it passed. It will pass for you too. Take heart momma❤

[@zamambomkhize2390]

You're not alone but kuzodlula

[@gugulethunyoni4398]

You are addictive. I love the chit chats. You are so eloquent and you make so much sense❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you babe 🥹🥹

[@FezekileOMagagula]

The results of working out are showing! You are snatched,these outfits sis 🤗🤩😍 even your skin is skinning 🧡

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you baby ❤❤❤

[@dearlisa7328]

I always say that to my friends and eish they don’t listen… now I’m their SOS when the same men I told them about ba bagila… I love them still. I’m still married however I ran for my life last year October when the same man that promised to love and protect me changed within a period of 3 months. Two trips to Mozambique and the man came back acting like an animal. Mr “ I wanna be rich”. I recently reconnected with someone I know and I’m so happy. I have a daughter and I’m not interested in men with kids okay 😂😂. Thato I wish you all the best mommy. Welcome to the return soldiers club. I know it isn’t easy, it won’t be however it’s gonna get better in time. You look amazing 👌. You’re a born again 🥳🥳🥳. Thank you Mandy for being such an amazing human being, mother, friend, stranger, KZbinr… etc we appreciate you. You have CARRIED ME through hard times 💐

[@carolkabot]

Oh Mandy thank you for this vlog. I really needed to hear this that as a single mum what you want actually exists cos wow but i appreciate it. I must also say that love looks good on you sis ❤❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

What you want exists mama ❤❤

[@ncumisaliwela]

Ngenani bafazi, Mandy has blessed us❤❤Your hair looks soo healthy mama🥹😍

[@TheMillennialMom1]

😅😅😅😅

[@NonhlanhlaTshabalala-o9g]

Stay strong cc sinawe omawakho akahlulwa yilutho ongabonwayo siyani follower all the way nomandlangisa ningabethu siwa la niwa khona ngemikhuleko tnx.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉

[@Mabontle87]

It pains me to hear you say you're not okay, I wish you peace and happiness Mandy...just know that this too shall pass, our situations are temporary and things will change for the better. Trust God and he will see you through🙏 and regarding the chit chat earlier, I heard you babe loud and clear, I needed to hear that thanks. I get you Mandy and I understand you perfectly well...what you shared with us was so profound. Really enjoyed the vlog, wishing you well Mandy❤

[@preciousemakonese]

I was watching you the other day and i said to myself the man that mandy is dating is making her happy ....we can see ukuthi u happy nawakhe..❤❤❤

[@iamtumi]

Never have I cried so much for a stranger. Sending love and hugs to Thato. Awesome to see women reclaiming their power back. 😍🥰🥰🥰

[@murenndi]

One thing about you? You mind me every video that this thing called life has no manual and it's meant to be lived. ONE THING ABOUT YOU? You live this life!!! I love you so much for this ❤

[@Madame_MeMe]

The biggest truth!

[@qaqambafuzile5967]

Thanks Mandy for this chat ❤means a lot as a mom to 2 girls as well with 2 different dads whose still battling the feeling of leaving my 2nd baby daddy because of lot of reasons I’m not happy about . But also wondering how will dating life be after this relationship as I already know that it will definitely end cz I’ve checked out already emotionally but need to physically leave.

[@zuvarashe289]

yhooo Mandy, funny enough i just had a conversation right before i clicked on this and this guy was telling me that now just because i have a child i need to lower my standards and be ok with just being wanted for tlof tlof. I had been so down about this cause i was like what, just because it didn't work out with the father of my child i need to take what i can get. Thank you for this talk, i could feel myself slipping into a depression.

[@Tlc_lele]

That guy is a bum!

[@TheMillennialMom1]

That guy is trash mama. He’s just projecting. You’re worth so much more. They love telling us to lower our standards. Raise them even higher mama.

[@nkhensanimhlongo9206]

Wishing Thato all the best❤️

[@shatadiwamoroko]

"What you want exist "Amanda jakes signing out 💃

[@aliciamphothulo776]

Yhoooo you bring back the life in me❤❤❤ I love you ❤

[@claudia_ram]

I’m a single mom and I started dating this year and I’m genuinely happy,sometimes it’s overwhelming because he treats me like a princess which is something I’ve hardly ever experienced but I’m enjoying it wholeheartedly.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@claudia_ram enjoy and embrace that princess treatment mama. You wholeheartedly deserve it ❤️❤️

[@kgopotsolegoabe4659]

Thank you sbali wethu for making sure that our queen is great 😊😊

[@mphonamane7679]

A beautiful vlog Mandy ❤ wow your hair is beautiful. Indeed happy New year to your friend Thato❤

[@tebogondebele913]

😊😊😊😊yazi I needed to hear this mandy❤❤ what I want really exists

[@TheMillennialMom1]

It’s out there baby ❤

[@asivegaxa9788]

Heeebana! Ofcourse I don't mind your sunscreen mama but I do mind where you coming from😂😂😂😂😂.... Ohh big sis you're the hill im willing to die on😍

[@TheMillennialMom1]

🙈🙈🙈🙈

[@sanelisiwepromise]

The Only Channel That Make Sense ❤😂

[@noteswithyolanda]

Loved the vlog …. Inlove with the relationship you have with your girlfriends 🤎 miss my chommies in CPT 😢

[@LethoHali]

I’m divorced and didn’t wanna date a divorced man. I changed my mind about that for several reasons. Well… I and now dating a man who’s never been married lol. And he wants to marry me 😊.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@LethoHali look at this mama. 😍😍😍. I’m so happy for you. Pls invite me to the wedding hle

[@LethoHali]

@@TheMillennialMom1 🥰

[@modiehitshiloane634]

Hi Amanda ❤❤Thato is so lucky to hv all of u guys ,i am still in tht road ,pray for me to end ,i know hw thato was feeling i will be done soon❤it is nt easy but we are more stronger than we think

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@modiehitshiloane634 all the best mama. You’ve made the right decision. I hope you have a great support system during this time ❤️

[@thinkandactlikeaman8147]

Dali with time all will be better...so work on your self and take it day by day

[@Sethu785]

Awkhule Amanda. I have enjoyed watching you grow. Thanks for letting us in. ❤️😊

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Oh Sethu. What a compliment. Thank you sis ❤❤

[@tumibaloyi2915]

Oh Zwonaka. That woman is a man. A beast but very soft. A PK but WOW. A preacher of note👌🏾

[@TheMillennialMom1]

What a beast. Also what a small world. She rocked my world with her prayer. Shuuu 😢

[@tumibaloyi2915]

@TheMillennialMom1 that's how she rolls. I could follow her from church to church on Sabbath just to be blessed by her because WOW. God uses her.

[@NOTHABISOMASANGO]

Notification sana... I knew u won't disappoint.... Missed

[@TheMillennialMom1]

🥰🥰🥰

[@BeccaMojapelo]

Yessssss, thank you for uploading Mandy😃🫶🏾✨

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤

[@louiscanthyshakela88]

Thank you very for the speech at the BEGINNING, THANK YOU MANDY❤❤❤❤

[@naturalhairtee]

Speech😂

[@thulilemtshisa6222]

What do you call the karaoke place you were at?

[@nontandomasilela8415]

i enjoyed the vlog so much mommy...hope you feel better soon..

[@NonhlanhlaTshabalala-o9g]

Uyathandeka mandlangisa stay as you are lol.❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you sis 🥹🥹

[@LeratoChuene-c6k]

Mandy truth be told I ❤u , keep riding till the wheels fall off, u inspire the voiceless

[@TheMillennialMom1]

🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@PamelaNandiMgoza]

What u want still exists ❤❤❤

[@itumelengmofokeng4266]

The only channel that i don't skip the ads 😂 i don't have children but you always made my day everytime i watched your Vlog i love you mommy ❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Oh baby. Thank you 🥹🥹🥹

[@Nonkosi_M778]

Yey Signing in ❤️ Happy Monday ❤️

[@TheMillennialMom1]

My love ❤❤

[@mosimaseshibe489]

I’m happy 🎉 what is this thing that you are busy applying on your hair?

[@TheMillennialMom1]

It’s gel baby ❤❤

[@liciouslicious6808]

Your channel is lit, not fake or whatsoever ❤❤❤❤

[@NonhlanhlaTshabalala-o9g]

I'm happy for you nu sitshele kuphuma kithi ukuthi you take it or you leave it period.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉

[@Viktri_r]

Your hair looks beautiful ❤❤. I wish I had it

[@Anah-n2d]

Your natural hair ate mama🔥🔥🔥🥰❤️❤️

[@dearlisa7328]

I’m an early bird ke… sorry that a lot has been happening and your sis is not around. Hopefully you get to a place where you’re finally okay. I’m sorry that you’re going through it and it’s not Mjolo chileee 😂. It’ll pass in due time thank you for sharing your life with us 🙏 💐💐💐

[@axabmas]

Nee man, ous Mandy, now I want a man. Lemme quickly go check there by the archives if there are any potentials 😂😂😂. To your friend, it's better to be divorced than being unhappy. Put yourself first. You are very beautiful oc. Too bad you're not Namibia, that divorce party would have been an engaged party.😂😂😂😂

[@queenethhapeey6683]

I had to leave everything that i was doing just to be here....the addiction is on another level😂😂❤️

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Appreciate you 😅😅

[@thandodladla532]

Take care sisi❤ konke kuzohamba kahle

[@vuyomtshali]

Brb 😂😂😂 Hey Mandz❤ happy Monday.

[@BeccaMojapelo]

7:58 🥺🥺 oh Mandy 💜💜

[@philelszondani3448]

Semhle Mandy 1:19 skin and hair be GIVING 🔥 1:40 you really are on cloud 9 7:45 😊😊❤I don’t have a child and I don’t want a partner with kids , lapho I love kids so much 15:24

[@PaulinaModjadjie-ce2pk]

Beautiful.vlog mandy. You really heal us as a single mom ❤❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@nokuthula_q]

I took that thing that, what I want exists and I have been using it for my dating and I'm still single but I've seen dating differently, told my friends the same thing as well ❤

[@liciouslicious6808]

Oh Mandz, gowa and come back. Love you lots ❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Ngizobuya baby 😅😅😅

[@liciouslicious6808]

@TheMillennialMom1 ♥️♥️

[@minni-K]

Amanda Jakes❤... yes babe what you want exists!!!

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤

[@maletsatsihlekelele]

❤❤❤❤❤ was definitely not expecting this after the Instagram post that i saw Thank you Mandy❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

I got bullied into posting 😂😂😂

[@maletsatsihlekelele]

@TheMillennialMom1 well for the first time i might have to say Thank you to the bully🤣🤣🤣

[@keleGM]

​@@TheMillennialMom1thank you to the bullies 😂, otherwise we were going to put Milani on you 🤣

[@ursulamasinga274]

Weh Mandy😂😂❤love this for you

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you baby 😅😅😅

[@Charity97]

Hey Mommy 😊 thank you so much for the vlog ❤

[@nolubabalomajala]

Exactly what I needed right now! Thank you Mandy ❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Hope you enjoy it babe ❤❤

[@jacquelinegobile3325]

@@TheMillennialMom1thank you so much for talking to me on the first part of the vlog I needed it so much.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@ you deserved all the love mama ❤️❤️

[@raberabelani5283]

Notification gang ❤❤😂😂

[@varietywithnandy]

KZbin streets were soo dry...

[@TheMillennialMom1]

🥹🥹🥹

[@miss-velani]

What you want exists🙌🙌🙌word

[@TheMillennialMom1]

100%

[@louiscanthyshakela88]

Beginning of the video to 16:00,Mandy you are speaking to ME,THANK YOU DEAR. I APPRECIATE YOU A LOT.I LOVE YOU MANDY❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ntombikayise_herjourney9648]

They way I have anxiety attacks when I don't see an upload from your channel 😂 hey girl hey❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@ntombikayise_herjourney9648 no anxiety attacks this week 🤩. Hey girl hey

[@Naizabae]

Your natural hair please🥰

[@vickynhlengethwa3242]

Your hair is so beautiful 👌😍❤️, please give us tutorials of how to take care of your hair, I have I njibs yomhlaba😢

[@LethoHali]

Mandy where do you put all the clothes??? I feel like ur always buying clothes 😅.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

This is a good question 😭😭😂😂

[@LethoHali]

@ 🤩😍

[@itumelengselowa3563]

Notification gang❤🎉

[@TheMillennialMom1]

🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@phindile_mangethe]

Yippee I made it to be first 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤

[@BMalakhiwe]

😢😢😢😢eish iv given up on love yes I hv 2kids,I feel like no one will love m with 2kids from different fathers iv written myslf off in tht department, the way society labels us hurts .this video Mandy cuts deep😢😢😢😢

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Mama please don’t write yourself off. Please ❤

[@BMalakhiwe]

@TheMillennialMom1 eish mommy

[@nomzamomahlinza9910]

Notification gang is here 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤

[@mapulalucia9712]

First one in. Halala 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤

[@rochelledebeer21]

Really appreciate you❤

[@Msunsungdots]

Such beautiful hair Manda❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you baby ❤❤

[@shatadiwamoroko]

When Manda said "if my pancaa doesn't come out well it because of you" I replied and said okay 😭 bathong ke rata ditaba and Manda is the best when telling them🤣🤣🤣

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@shatadiwamoroko I talk too damn much and I knew it was gonna mess up my hair 😂😂😂😂

[@BeccaMojapelo]

O be right ausiyaka, I hate it when you’re sad😔🫂

[@cyliamotsoenengzengele]

I have not been here for such a long time. ♥️♥️♥️

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Welcome back baby ❤❤

[@Kwena-gc2ib]

Hey Mandy, why did my spiteful self think your man is Mimi's dad? Dying!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@Kwena-gc2ib helllll noooo 😂😂😂😂😂

[@thenjiswamakhaba1440]

I drop everything I'm here

[@accoucher0]

Thank you for the vlog mama ❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Hope you enjoy it babe ❤❤

[@ntombenhlengwane2800]

Uyangibhora wena Amanda coz I could be watching anything on TV but the moment I see your notification, I leave whatever I'm watching and tune in 😭😭😭. What about other kids' channels? But dont stop it coz I like it 😅😅

[@TheMillennialMom1]

I won’t stop 😂😂😂

[@adelaidemoloto4231]

Day made, thank you Mandy❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@A.Jay.Skylar]

Girl my friend just got married last weekend to a Man without kids while she got two kids.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@A.Jay.Skylar love this 😍😍😍

[@Mankosi30]

Thanks babe dating is hectic

[@nomzamomahlinza9910]

We Mandy wenzanjani kuthi ibaca yakho masuqedile ingabimhlophe plz help

[@TheMillennialMom1]

I think it depends on the gel you use babe. I use the eco styling one and ayibimhlophe

[@tebogondebele913]

❤❤❤❤umgoyo otlo feta hang in there my love

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤