Weekend Vlog | Night Out | Another Co-Parenting Rant | Breakfast With Milani

Hey friends
Welcome to another vlog, hope you enjoy it

[@skinnygal1956]

🌺I am looking up to you mommy. As a 23 years old lady raising my brother's daughter bcoz the mother is addicted to alcohol, it's not easy but GOD is giving me strength🥰

[@luleka9113]

Ei Mandy sisi, yall were fine without this man in the picture, now he's disorientated your lives and you're allowing it... Myeke maan Amanda, you don't have to prove to anyone that you're a good and trying mom, your kids know that 100% and THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS... Suzibizela idrama mtase, you already have enough on your plate... Raise those girls alone, uyeke lendoda to deal with his own demons pha kude from you please maan... Y'all were doing just fine without this inconsistency... You wanted coparenting before, God granted that but now uyabona it's not working out... MYEKE! put those girls and their feelings first... uYehovah akhonto angayiboniyo! Remove yourself from this please... You have enough to deal with as is... ❤❤Uberight.

[@journey2health280]

@checkers owes you a campaign

[@rochelledebeer21]

@@journey2health280 i agree, Checkers needs to pull through

[@nwabalisa2674]

Actually 60/60 fast

[@user-gx6qv3uu9t]

long overdue sana!

[@sibuleledwakaza]

Yessss!!

[@missramz207]

Exactly

[@tshiamor22]

An absent father is better than an inconsistent one I agree sherm! My dad was so inconsistent he would promise to come check up on me n he wouldn’t come that would be so heartbreaking im still traumatised sana! 🥺 You are such a strong woman Mandy ❤️

[@Ziphozonke98]

An absent father is better indeed Sisi,coz my dad was absent my entire childhood until I matriculated and I became nosy and found him yooohh biggest mistake of my life it hurts more when you know that he is choosing not to be there even worse he has other kids that he takes care of .

[@adelinanyirenda4476]

Our big sis Mandy giving us the real realities, us child free women are taking notes. It's all worth it tho, those parts of the vlogs were it's just mummy and daughter 😢😅 best energy ever, keep up the great parenting 🎉❤

[@carolkabot]

Hi sisi, thanks for another beautiful weekend vlog. I know that at times as mothers we want the best for our kids but now all this that is happening with Milani's dad not keeping up won't it affect her later? Honestly speaking it was better when he was absent than being there and now bringing excuses that because of the wife he couldn't come to see whose child, his obviously. He chooses the other side rather than also making efforts for his daughter as well. Now baby girl is hoping to see him at her concert and chances are he might not come and who will end up with a heartbreaking the daughter. I wish in all we would be considerate of how the child is feeling with a dad not being there and not answering calls when he is needed. Wives need to first learn to accept that some of this men have children outside their marriages and as much as they enjoy the men present in their kids lives can they also move from their insecurities and let the men be also present to the kids outside their marriage. This whole thing just breaks my heart and as a single mum it hits hard cos yes some of us when the father said it's either our relationship or you abort we chose to rather loose the relationship than loosing the baby and oh yes it's hard sometimes but at the end I'm glad I chose my kids over any relationship or marriage. Be strong sis and always if our dad's are present fathers they'll be present fathers for our kids as well.❤❤❤

[@nikkihlangu8103]

My son's dad was only present when we were together but when we broke up he was out completely from my child's life. Kubuhlungu because I know ukuthi eventually my son will ask about ubaba wakhe, but knowing how much he lies and make empty promises, I don't even want him near my son. Deadbeats must remain as deadbeats.The more you give them chances, the more they hurt you!

[@lynettenene9218]

That is the honest truth I agree with you 120 %

[@JoyceMpaloane]

this hairstyle on milani? yoh she looks really good!😍😍

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you love ❤❤

[@thandodladla532]

Bengithi mina asiphume kumlisa ngoba vele konke kuhamba kahle noma engekho. Love and light to you mommy

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Ngivumelana nawe mina

[@nonozi4147]

true futhi uza ne-drama engenasdingo. kungaze kulimale ingane yethu.

[@boitumelosenwelo1816]

"Milani is loved..." Momma, this is so true 🥹week after week we see this in how the people around you treat you both, actually your WHOLE squad? WHOLESOME 🥹❤️ Dead beat or no dead beat, uMilani is gonna be raised like the Princess she is

[@abongiledlulisa6533]

@checkers do right by Mandy... the loyalty top tier sana

[@iamtumi]

Amanda, you and Milani have such a full life filled with love and family and friends. Rather focus on yourselves and leave that guy out of it. He is messing with your peace, tswang mo go yena. Sending you guys hugs and love.

[@Lue-Ndlovu]

😂😂 I didn't want to say anything about eyebrows in the other videos but since you brought it up.. Your make-up is great all you need to do is start by doing your brows then apply foundation. That's the trick 😉

[@MOMONAMISSION798]

An absent father is better than an inconsistence father, from experience, if they cant have the mother, they don't feel the need to put so much effort, that man will disappoint Milani terribly . let him support the child financially from a distance. it comes with peace of mind and zero expectations. He will stagnate your life and that of Milani.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@MOMONAMISSION798 you’re 100% right. It’s coz I’m not giving him access to me, this is why all this is happening and I hate it for my child 😢

[@zaakirahmyles5293]

I'm so sorry​@@TheMillennialMom1

[@MOMONAMISSION798]

@@TheMillennialMom1 exactly, my baby daddy would stop feeding his kids simply because he can't have access to me, they do this to prove a point, and make you beg.....in his mind, I was still his, deep down my mind was made up,we are co parenting, I had made peace with that...if he can't have his way he'll frustrate the kids, the goal being to hurt me.

[@afikahiga-fikxchoreography]

Ads! Ads! Ads! Please NO skipping ❤

[@WetsoMogorosi]

YES MAM.

[@NtombizaneleGambushe]

Amen to thay🥰

[@liciouslicious6808]

Oh mann Mandy. You've tried your best, we've seen that 😢. All i can say other people will be be happy seeing you hurting yourself this much. They know you will rant about it on your channel, there's a lot going on in that house and you have no idea. Let it be the last time mentioning the co-parenting on your channel. Your eyes can tell how disappointed and hurt you are. Take care of your beautiful heart. Love and Light to you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-ww2he3ss8q]

Angimazi nanamhlanj ubaba wami ngingu mama of 2girls my first born ukwakhe exanadu nature resort estates enorth west living her life to the fullest ilast born unami la evosloorus 2nd year doing electrical engeneering abo cc ngi strong i dont know umkhulu wabo umama uthulile nanamuhla uthi ngingu ngobese when asking about my dad ngino60 years iminyaka yami ngathi ngiyitshitshi uma ungangibona ngishadile god is with you dont stess stay strong twana sinawe we will always love you supporting you amandlangisa anawe amen.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉

[@sibuleledwakaza]

Thank you for another beautiful vlog Mandy, I just love hearing Milani interrupt you 😂😂 and you so calm about it. Love that😢❤❤❤

[@BeccaMojapelo]

Sparkling water girls world wide. I need to get myself a soda stream machine ASAP😍

[@ivypholosi1348]

You owe it to yourself to heal and you owe it to yourself to move on. You've tried, God knows you have. From here on end, let go and let God. You are giving him more power than he should over your mental health. Be mommy and daddy. You're capable! Love & Light sweetie 🤗

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you my love ❤

[@mbalimsimanga5110]

I just love your vlogs. Easiest to watch.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you my love ❤❤

[@nthabisenghalahala3979]

Loved seeing how milani smiled when she saw you 🥹🥹❤️😍 ohh my heart melted 😂

[@Lethu_Sereme]

My love please hurting yourself it hurts me, youre doing a perfect job raising those girls. You have too much on your plate currently to be worried about him being in baby girl's life and now it breaks my heart that she wants MOMMY AND DADDY BOTH AT HER SCHOOL CONCERT 😢😢😢. Why do some men fail us and dads fail their kids? Yaz ngihlezi ngithi if yiure a father and you choose your spouse/partner over igazi lakho uyoyisola one day. I love you and always watch each vlog, dont skip ads, comments and likes. ❤❤❤❤ #keep it on Mandylele 😊

[@sharontshamano7679]

The gift that keeps on giving🎉🎉🎉❤

[@kagisosejeng6896]

❤ you deserve all good things that are coming your way, Thankyou for being an awesome single mom and showing that it's possible

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you so much my love ❤️❤️

[@Charlotte22434]

Milani is so adorable 🥰 I like the way she says "hey vlog"😅

[@joeydlaminivlogs]

I hate when adults disappoint kids and sadly I know the pain of growing up with either the resentment or abandonment issues. I pray that won’t be the case for Milani 😢. She will always know that she is loved

[@rochelledebeer21]

Mandy always selling man candy to the single mamas club 😂😂😂 We love you ❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

I love you guys and want all of us to be within ❤❤❤

[@TsholofeloMolamu]

Im here to tell you that i love you loads Cc..May the good Lord bless and bless you more..I enjoy ur vlogs🎉❤

[@thenjiswamakhaba1440]

Hi mandy I'm watching your vlog plz don't cry cc you are coming a long way raising your kids alone don't feel your self small the on and off parenting that is happening now must not change you keep on being a gud mother to Milimill you are doing a gud job God will give you strength more luv ❤ gal in cape town

[@NokulungaNqwiliso]

Mntase ingase ndimlume my baby daddy is literally the same he shows up when it is most convenient for him and the moment there is the slightest inconvenience he’s out the door sana which is sad for us moms cos we have to be there to pick up the pieces and making up stupid excuses sana honestly I don’t know what the best option is where entertain the dad or cut him off until the child is able to notice the bad vibes from the father but you are doing great as a mom and you should never feel otherwise

[@MrsSkhotheni]

Niyashesha guys. Ingena nje I Vlog senigcwele la😂😂❤

[@liciouslicious6808]

We don't play ngoMandy 😂😂❤

[@phumezamanci7973]

Come to think into engiyizela la uyena 😂❤

[@vuyomtshali]

😂😅😅

[@nwabalisa2674]

We are serious about life babes 😂

[@mamellomoalusi4214]

We love thoughts! And rants! Here for it mama❤

[@victorianameneverner8922]

Yes the rants also and the life updates and the Vulnerability and Milly mills and Wawa' s spinning hugs I gave up co parenting its not worth being dragged and traumatised further. 🎉❤❤❤❤

[@MsLolaDube]

Spot On Darly - an absent father is better than an inconsistent one. A deadbeat will always be a deadbeat. 11 years later my daughter still has to deal with inconsistency.

[@mahlatsethelele2348]

True mama that’s what my son is going through inconsistency

[@missTee708]

Thanks for the wonderful vlog. It's so sad to end it chopping onions, though, but what can we say😢💔

[@kukhanyancube8734]

I love Milani's hair style, hey vlog 😂😂😂

[@nothandomdleko3696]

Ohh im here for the rants ke mna sana😂 love em. I learn and importantly I heal from them.

[@nthabelenginreallife288]

The ishiya conversation neh.. I feel you guys 😂😂

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Kubi 😂😂

[@she_lee]

Hey Mandy, I felt it when you said your therapist said you might end up resenting Milani because of the sacrifices you made for her to have a father it a sad possibility😢😢 I wouldn't want that for you n Milani❤❤

[@rachelbare4198]

keep the vlogs rolling mama, I can't believe I just watched the other one yday I'm enjoying

[@nomvulamabaso3487]

1st time commenting mommy. Been watching for the longest time...and hey,you will be ohkay...it's a good thing that you have proof of all this. I honestly that it won't get to a point you resenting your little human being. I send strength and calmness your way. You doing a great job at raising your kids keep sane,you killed me when you said the P.....word. take care

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@nomvulamabaso3487 thank you so much my love ❤️

[@GomolemoMosarwa-fm3hm]

Mandy I believe God will bless you with a Man who will love you and your children😢it breaks my heart hearing you sharing what you are going through with the the father of your kids it's just a matter of time God will bless you with that husband 🙏 keep trusting him

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤

[@boipelomotshoge4957]

"Hey Vlog ❤️"😂😂❤❤ Mimi , You are doing an amazing job 🎉❤

[@zelokuhlegina5886]

Manda I am so sorry about what is happening with Milanis father .and yes you are right Milanis father is the one who is supposed to fight for the relationship

[@BeccaMojapelo]

24:56 it's hunter's dry or nothing 👌🏾👌🏾 I can definitely party with you!

[@BeccaMojapelo]

24:14 I'm sure o tshwana lenna, best dancer sitting down 💃🏾💃🏾 loving the moves!

[@accoucher0]

Thank you for the vlog mama. You will be just fine❤️❤️❤️I love youuu

[@preciousdokwana]

My fave❤ you got good friends

[@tshenoloagnes881]

Hey Mandy you really did you best in raising Milani She'll grow up and see how her father disappointed her and you gave the father many chances to make things right but failed dismally

[@life_with_tish1]

Lovely vlog Mandy🤩🤩🤩

[@user-ww2he3ss8q]

Uyeza akezi awushodi ngaye you stay strong babes no mili.❤❤❤🎉

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@user-ww2he3ss8q angishodi 🥹🥹🥹

[@siviwekulu6996]

Auntie Ayanda and Ncanee ❤😊

[@user-cx4ud4ci4d]

Girl!! God is greater than this we also ❤milani she is our community child ❤❤

[@Tumi_Lebeta23]

❤

[@jumaksilvia5740]

❤❤

[@philelszondani3448]

Take us everywhere 😂😂❤❤ 1:47

[@oleratokitsoyaone4586]

When you took out the second wine I said 2 for something something before you even said it 😹😹😹❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

I need to stop 😂😂😂

[@Michelle77Va]

I came from your enemployment video. I hope you found a new job that you love by now?🎉❤

[@bathabilepoppy6585]

Hey Love we're here❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤

[@sajobleads]

How different is the sodastream from the bottled water ? I want to get it for someone that LOVES sparkling water

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Please buy it for them babe, they will love you for life ❤❤

[@nokwethembandlela5124]

We are here❤️

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Love you friend ❤❤

[@rachelbare4198]

Ayanda speaking in the background it's killing me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@HlengiweDube-Bookkeeper]

I was rooting for this man SM for the sake of Milani but manje ngithi I support you if uphuma kuye Amanda...Also a woman who will do anything for indoda, waiting outside a BM house for 4 hours is a crazy individual that you need to stay far away from...Some women will go to scary lengths for umfana and it's just not worth your sanity and safety. Keeping you in my prayers 🙏

[@user-ig3wb4cv4b]

Morning Wena owaphekwa netshe itshe lavuthwa kuqala ngiyakuthanda mntanami

[@khumalolungile973]

I was about to say don't tell the baby when he promises to come ngoba I know how it feels, my dad was so inconsistent. I only found peace and happy when he became fully absent. With parenting you are either fully there or not there at all because inconsistent parenting does more damage.

[@njabulondlovu2367]

Mandy... uzamile dade yabona ama deadbeat will always be leyonto ngikhuluma from experience you can give the guy 10 chances kodwa at the end you as the mom and the child will always be heartbroken and drained atleast you are trying and Milani also sees the patterns so one day uzozwa esesho yena ukuthi ubabakhe is hardly around she will have that convo with you mina my son wangitshela at the age of 6 he said his dad is never here even when you call him so nje nawe don't be too hard on you I swear Milani sees it all kuyohlezi kukhala wena nengane bese kuthiwani nge peace yenu ne mental health

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Ngizamile oe 🥹🥹

[@tebogomphahlele7331]

Prayer 🙏 ❤

[@user-nn4cg8mc8f]

Sorry maarn gal if it's not working out co parenting yiyeke nono...I'm actually laughing how u say that 'Poes' word u saying perfectly!! I love you ke vhaa ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@liciouslicious6808]

How do we tag @checkers on this platform?

[@user-rf1ju8ke1b]

😊notification gang❤

[@linha7708]

Milani had grown so much .the talking hayi shame uyathetha ..😅

[@louiscanthyshakela88]

33:54 true❤❤❤

[@BuuujeJwaaa]

I love your sis she's so beautiful ❤❤❤

[@hopesobazile1784]

All shall be well sisi❤❤❤

[@londyndebele9857]

Sending love from Empangeni❤❤

[@kayscee]

Yhoo am tired for you too Amanda , man this sh*t is haaaard ,you have done all you can , let him send the money and be at peace with that

[@rachelbare4198]

the pork ribs look yummy I love ribs

[@thabisotumelo3007]

I just watch all the ads just for you to get chankura❤

[@melissamorris-kumalo994]

Another one baby is on track

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Hope you enjoy it baby ❤❤

[@BeccaMojapelo]

Lol also had my first sleepover when I was in grade 12😂

[@leratosebetoane8333]

My son is 6. I told him sleepovers will start at 18.

[@NothandoLove623]

Had my first at 21

[@mapasekamosea9158]

All the way from Lesotho I love you so much ausi Mandy❤❤❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Dumela ausi ❤❤❤❤😅😅

[@CossiekhosiN]

❤❤we are spoiled shame 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

[@preciousdokwana]

Babe your music sana yhuu haike

[@rachelbare4198]

the arch is not arching 😅I don't even know how to do my brows

[@sparrow62210]

Mandy at least you tried.I never even bothered with the father of my kids. I am of the view that you cannot remind a grown individual what their duties are towards their kid(s).He comes once in a while and he goes I do not even care his existence is limited to the monthly maintenance.My kids are thriving in all aspects of their lives which is what matters the most.You got this mommy never doubt that ❤

[@thatoM3]

I just ended a relationship with the father of my kids. Not sure if i want to do this co parent thing or even know what it looks like.

[@tebalelomarobane8496]

Co parenting looks hectic,i wonder how other ppl get it right.

[@tafadzwamataruka7939]

The fact that he didn't respond to her voice note that hurt😢

[@rachelbare4198]

you went out to go and see? I missed that whisper 😅

[@Sinah92]

Consistent hun 🎉🎉❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤❤

[@sindysibanda1841]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@PaulinaModjadjie-ce2pk]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@katloletlotloserole5654]

Trust you to have a coffee machine and still make yourself coffee the traditional way!

[@bongekiletshomela8157]

❤😊❤

[@thandekilesambo2775]

But this wife kodwa, I'm starting to blame her yoh

[@TheMillennialMom1]

She’s a lot but it’s still up to him to stand up for his own child.

[@luyandasimelane5070]

🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@jodyamupala2069]

Love love❤ Where is Alwande???

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Ma’am? 😂😂. Where have you been?

[@jodyamupala2069]

@@TheMillennialMom1 😂😂😂😂I’ve been off the media for sometime 😭I’ll catch up🥰

[@BeccaMojapelo]

26:14 😂😂

[@lindiwemasango573]

I hope u checkers uyabona ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nelisiwemasango7284]

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