Weekly Vlog - This Was A Mistake, Moving Too Fast, Single Life of Dad

Yo, what’s up welcome back to my channel for another weekly video. It is absolutely no secret. That parenting is hard work. Well, I’m gonna show you a little bit of my life as a single father. Since I was a young lad, I remember always cleaning up first it was my parents, and then it was us. From sweeping, mopping, vacuuming, washing dishes, to cleaning our room. In some form or fashion we were being taught to clean

[@royalbloodline2430]

I must admit that in the past, I didn’t have a very good opinion of you. But, I am loving the energy that you’re in right now. 💯 It’s a great blessing for baby boy to be able to spend time with his siblings. I had 3 boys. The older 2 had each other, but my last one is like an only child. I feel for him and wish I had 4 boys so he wouldn’t be alone. 💙

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Welcome aboard!

[@keturah8040]

This Cleaning video was very therapeutic

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Glad you think so!

[@celiashort6246]

Cleaning and taking care of a child will teach men several things... A womans work is a lot, appreciate her. I hope more men watch this video

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Well said. A man’s worth is a lot. Appreciate us!

[@shayb.3450]

It goes both ways.

[@forlandoc]

Yes, stop that gender chauvinistic narrative that one is over the other. Both parties' worth is a lot in its own right! Carry on smh lol

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

@@shayb.3450yeah it do, but it’s RARE that a man cleans like this on the daily like the majority of women

[@darnellwolfe5389]

Lil man LOUNGIN in that bed like he know he doesn’t have to pay a bill 😂😂😂😂

[@nikkirogers8541]

You have grown alot over the years that i have been watching your vlogs u should be proud of your growth.

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you so much 😊 and we will continue to grow and evolve. I enjoy the journey.

[@melissamae5935]

If you truly want her keep proving her that you only have an eye for her and that you take it seriously and won’t back away when it gets hard. Don’t give up you’ll win her back

[@forlandoc]

Lord, they both have to work hard if that's what they want .... these comments are taking me lol

[@TaurusVibezz20]

You sincerely look like you enjoy cleaning, definitely a blessing having an organized and clean man that will do it without having to ask! You’re a great father and I started watching Life of Kiara last year and obviously started watching your channel after the fact, but I love you two, no matter what you e been through in the past if it’s meant it will be and if not you’re stronger together on coparenting and your new profound friendship which is great for the kids. Winning! My vote is to see you bigger back together!! Life is hard and we learn as we go!!! ❤ Team Kiara and Desmond and beautiful kids!!!!!!

[@zimkithaaplom4130]

I take my hat off the house is spottless❤

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you for watching

[@kellyhearna]

Great video Dez. I love watching you as a Father. If anyone hasn’t told you already, you are doing great. Keep it up ❤

[@iamdesmondcassell]

I appreciate that. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️

[@bklyn9239]

YESSSSSSS SIR LOVE THE CLEANING VIDEOS ❤ YOU DOING A AWESOME JOB WITH LITTLE MAN WHTS UP WITH THEM COOKING VIDEOS WE NEED MORE OF THEM SIR LOL

[@iamdesmondcassell]

More to come!

[@TheBolesTheBeautiful]

We just moved to the Hampton Roads area and I was telling my husband the official smell of VA is 🌱. Glad I’m not trippin😏

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Aye! 😎 It’s very friendly here 💨

[@zimkithaaplom4130]

Doing a great job Dez

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@donnab2863]

Hey Dez and Family. Great Vlog. I love these cleaning and family videos

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@evelyncarr8730]

Dear mr dez . I Been following since Alaska..I also went bk to some old video . The ones when kieea was giving birth to kalea when she qas in pain the love u gave her then u looked at hr and said ur beautiful..that was so sweet ..I never gave up on u dez .and life make no mistakes . No ones perfect better days are coming..I just love the way u both have grown..blessings 💕 Welcome back to the candy shop..kiera isbur baby😊

[@carmenrivera2663]

What a family man..loving it🙂...never change, you're doing a great job👌

[@lisettegilliam5373]

Happy belated Fathers Day Dez! its a blessing to be able to celebrate Fathers Day with all of your children everyday. They all are growing into beautiful, ambitious, smart, and respectful children. You and Kiara have made sure that happens. Along with her beautiful and supportive family. I used to totally disagree with the way you handled things back in the days with your family, but you have grown into a man that can can be respected and modeled after. Keep on doing what you are doing. Supporting, nurturing, and loving your family. I love your food videos, and im starting to love the cleaning videos....keep giving us the great content1

[@unitaburns4869]

Great job Dez Kobe is just too cute I love cleaning videos 🙏👍👏👊😊🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rosemarquez3949]

Awesome cleaning video

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you 😊

[@rosemarquez3949]

Your welcome

[@CindiRuViolet]

I clean the same way. When I start it just turns into a whole project lol. I'll get every nook and cranny. All of your kids are beautiful, but Kobe I cannot stand. He's too adorbs. He looks so happy.

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Kobe’s energy is unmatched. I’m grateful for all my beautiful blessings

[@ITSKARENBABY]

So nice to see you and the family in a Great place! If it's meant to be it will be! I remember watching ya when you guys were in Alaska! Blessings to you and the whole family💙

[@rushdahossain6166]

Great stuff bro again im so proud of you

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you so much 🙏🏾 The journey continues

[@usomexmartin220]

For the Newbeez: DEZ has always been a "Clean Freak" Lol 😂😊❤ This guy will clean while ur still in the bed. Haha 😂😂 Good to see you're cleaning vids back agian bro. 😊❤❤

[@reneeanne9995]

Amen ❤your a real one

[@loralissasmith]

Love ur videos ur a great worker, u know Kiara, greatly appreciates all u do, i pray that u get what u desire ur definitely working for it. I Kiara, isn't sure about getting back with u. But i can see ur smart and can see clearly. Nothing but BLESSINGS ❤

[@luladavis4671]

Great job Dezzzz👊🏾💪🏾

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you

[@gildasimmons2107]

Great Job Desmond 👍

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thanks for the visit

[@Mitigger1]

Cleaning videos are so soothing and chill. Great quality videos Des! And yes toddler life is a whole other monster...I have a 1 yr old..not a single mother..but Im EXTRA tired all the time...lol

[@iamdesmondcassell]

You got this! That no sleep is no joke. I’m grateful for everything but sometimes I’m just like good gracious lol

[@MiscellaneousMichelle]

Awesome job

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@sunrisedesign3267]

I always like cleaning. The bathroom sly has to be scrubbed with Clorox & Pine SolI. Make a big big bucket and grab other bucket with brushes, cleaning rags, foam spray for windows & mirrors. You do a lot of chores 🎉

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Hell yeah. I get that bucket and I’m cleaning everything from top to bottom

[@ninadabro6633]

Well Done on co- parenting ❤ you are definitely blessed with four kids! My husband works 7 days a week and I’m a full time mum with 9,8,6 and a 11 months old baby 😂😂 it’s definitely like a full time and over time job 😊

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Oh wow! That’s a lot going on. Working 7 days a week is ridiculous but to each it’s own. God created the earth is 6 days and took the 7th day to rest. Ijs

[@luchielu1649]

You and your love of CLICKBAIT, Desmond! 😹😹😹

[@CR24k]

Good you experienced what a single dad life is. Imagine what a single mother who works 5 days a week 40 hours a week. You did a pretty good job cleaning. I’ll say it again thank god you are there. You are taking care of things that don’t get done on a regular basis. May I suggest you clean up everyday because you have a full house things get messy I know this because I have a full house. You are right everything has a home. I’m sorry to say Kiara doesn’t clean up.

[@iamdesmondcassell]

What’s the difference between a dad working 40 hours and a mom working 40 hours?

[@CR24k]

@@iamdesmondcassell no difference just just putting it out there for other ppl to understand. It’s not easy .

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

@@iamdesmondcassellI hate the way yall always turn it into something it’s not! Just bc you’re not working currently. Statistically speaking, women stay home, cook, clean, care for the kids. Regardless of how yall feel like it should be

[@alicewonders570]

Dez ya a great father and a great person you dont have to live there to show you are a great father you are dont let her use you like that you still can see ya kids and be a great father Dont let no one put you down Godbless you Take ya time in life Des life is short koby is adorable just open ya eyes you are a smart man

[@nylotisslaughter7385]

Great video I enjoy every single bit of it you did a great job of cleaning the house it takes two people to keep the house clean and to adults on living there so I thought that was really sweet of you to do it when she's not there and she do it when you're not there that's what you call teamwork just saying.❤❤

[@sdw8116]

Nice video 😊

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Thanks for the visit

[@carolinebarron8330]

Are you gonna eventually get your own place and coparent?

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Yeah, that’s the plan

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

He’s coparenting right now

[@rosiemontoya4093]

I liked the cleaning video.

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Happy Monday Rosie ❤️ Thank you for watching

[@cristyle124]

I knew you 🍃 💨 😂

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Eagles 🦅 Feet 😆

[@cristyle124]

@@iamdesmondcassell lol we know our kind 🤭

[@SweetNina]

Oh yea most def already knew that!! Military life aint no joke and insomnia is a bisssshhh!!!!

[@LovelyKee89]

❤❤❤

[@peacehappiness3118]

Growing that Philly beard

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Something like that but This crap ain’t growing right lol

[@snugglybear7379]

If you guys do get back together never leave her and your kids see all kids you grow old together she is a good woman your kids mom family love should tell something the care all your kids that's good families some families don't like the person that came to their daughter life you truly blessed man take your time she take her time to did text kids mom told get back married thought about I'm tell you and her take slow one. day at time.

[@gabriellecusson1400]

No days off no sick time

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

Does he work?

[@Two19A_M_]

13:39…😂😂😂😂 #Realest

[@iamdesmondcassell]

💯💯💯😆😎

[@V.gomillion27]

😂😂😂

[@missgiovannaable]

Get your ass up and finish cleaning lol you smoke me feeling yourself you funniest and yes you got a lot to offer we see that and we know that you a great man one day you will find it one person and I hope this Kiara

[@gabriellecusson1400]

Yup shit ain't no joke no for the weak. I am a single mother of a 5 year old son. No help absolutely no breaks 24/7 I am on.

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Where is Dad? You don’t have family either? It sucks doing it yourself but sometimes it’s just better that way. I prefer a partner but hey

[@gabriellecusson1400]

@iamdesmondcassell He maybe comes once every 2 weeks for maybe 2 hours. I have my sister but she lives about 30 minutes and has 2 jobs. So that's how it is.

[@clopez917]

Just a suggestion; be careful with the fumes using cleaners they can be harmful to children and pets. . Awesome vlog 👍🏽

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Ok thanks!

[@kellyhearna]

For Bleach and Fabuloso?

[@clopez917]

@@iamdesmondcassell of course. My son had asthma. The doctor advised me to be cautious of any chemicals I used. Just use accordingly. The bottle should give you ratios. 👍🏽💯

[@clopez917]

@@kellyhearna it creates chlorine gases just be careful

[@rodrzlex3760]

Where is corey?

[@yolandawilson6619]

He lives in a different part of VA and is likely in summer workouts.

[@jackieb4072]

And she says that she wants to find herself and make yourself happy and she doesn't want to date anyone anymore right now that's full of shit because she j7st wants to let you down easy because she doesn't want anything to do with you

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Did you even watch my video?

[@jackieb4072]

Yes l did

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

Your opinion is WILD 😂 WTF

[@jackieb4072]

lve been watching you for a long time and lve seen all the changes in growing that you've been doing and no one else sees that no one else appreciates that just take care of your little son and start your life with him and just forget about your life you're in now because it's not going to change

[@iamdesmondcassell]

What? 👀 Thanks for watching and commenting

[@jackieb4072]

You're welcome

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

Take care of ALL HIS KIDS. tf

[@jackieb4072]

She states in a video that she's ad family and friends and they told het it's not a good idea to get back together with you l wouldn't help her anymore l wouldn't clean her house l wouldn't do anything for her she's just using you so you can watch the kids and so she can go on trips and live her life and have you there for the babysitter cuz she really doesn't care about you your benefiting het you're nothing's been infinite you and you should go move on and find someone else that would love and care about you because obviously she doesn't and obviously she's just playing a game with you

[@Desert_Dreamin024]

Also, has she not been “babysitting” Kobe? 😅😅😅

[@SweetNina]

She also stated that they came to the agreement that it would make more sense for him to live there, 1 to be around the kids as he wanted, 2 yes to pay her rent instead of him trying to find somewhere to live in Va, 3 yes he also said he wants her to be able to get out and do things that she wants as she had been holding it down by herself for years, and 4 they both have stated that they have had some serious conversations deep conversations, I am sure them getting back together was a topic. She isn’t using him. Dear Jesus!!!

[@jackieb4072]

l understand now

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

Wouldn’t help HER? what’s he doing aside from living in HER HOME, taking care of HIS CHILDREN. you act like he’s her source of income and saving grace. FOH

[@elizabethpaz493]

She's OK with you smoking in the the car?

[@lisamurray6380]

Pls take Kiara n buy new curtain ..curtains ahould be cance 2 -3 times a year

[@BellaDionisioo]

What is that stain on the bed?

[@bbgurl3493]

You cook and clean but you're broke, still at 40 yrs old

[@iamdesmondcassell]

Ok 👌🏾 Thanks for watching 😎

[@freddieismyman]

Crashing at his exs house.😂

[@donnab2863]

@@iamdesmondcassellI don’t see how you deal with these negative ass people

[@kellyhearna]

I’m convinced that you all will find any reason to be ignorant

[@dianabaez2285]

@bbgurl3493, how you know he's broke?! Mind your business, TROLL.

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

You’re not a single parent. Kiara helps out, as well as her family. The other Baby mama also helps too. Y’all are all a village. Single parents have NoOne. Ppl focus too much on relationship status.