people are drawn to authenticity , you have a new subscriber
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Thanks so much!
@JoelUldrych-kh2sc29 күн бұрын
Same.. By the way, I'm in Minnesota, central standard time. Merry Christmas blessings!
@BrianHornak29 күн бұрын
We tend to confuse alone and lonely.... the one good thing about the holidays alone.. peace and quiet
@DanielleComesBack29 күн бұрын
Yes. I plan to make a video about the good aspects of living independently--not just at this time of year, but all year!
@cinnamon-spiceАй бұрын
You have a beautiful smile 😊. I'm in the UK and your channel popped up in my feed. Like you, I'm alone but not lonely... well, I have my little dog. I love a quiet Christmas.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
I'm looking forward as well. What kid of dog do you have? I figure a dog is good for walks and getting out, which is good for your health. Thanks for the complement about my smile.
@cinnamon-spiceАй бұрын
@@DanielleComesBack He's a 7.5 yr old Yorkie. I adopted him 2 months ago after my beautiful American Cocker had to be put to sleep. He's been a real comfort during my grief and I've fallen head over heels in love with the little tinker.
@AllanMoffat-p5dАй бұрын
Hi, I've just found your channel and subscribed.😁. Sometimes its just nice to be in your own company and thoughts, no matter what day it is. Anyway, I'm loving.your content and will hopefully say 'hi' from Scotland on Christmas day. In the meantime, thanks and enjoy the season.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Hi! Nice to meet someone from Scotland. I've met a couple people from Northern Ireland. I have an affinity as a Canadian, being part of the Commonwealth. Anyway, thanks for the subscription and the comment! Glad you're here.
@loribethel9005Ай бұрын
I am alone for Christmas and the 2nd video seeing here. Please continue the videos.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Sounds like a good plan! Nice to see you!
@ingridfitz5677Ай бұрын
I wouldn’t mind taking a Christmas off. I would like to decorate, order take out, and read a book. 🤗
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
They often have Chinese buffets on Christmas, which is so great because you can eat like crazy (if you're so inclined) and there's no cleanup! Taking it easy is definitely my speed as well.
@learbear99Ай бұрын
Love your videos. I live in the U.S in South Carolina. I totally feel everything you have talked about in the last several videos. I myself have been through what you have been through and here at the holidays its hard after divorce and dad not here and other factors but we can be here for each other and all discuss our situations and share our hearts and minds to lift us up and encourage each of us. Life is so short fast and unpredictable. Thank you for sharing and look forward to your next video. Its 5am I saw this video wanted to comment. 🙂Please take care of yourself and have a happy Blessed day!!🙏
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Wow, the Carolinas sound great. I've not traveled much at all in the US, so I'm not sure what it would be like there. That was the goal of making this kind of video: finding space to discuss with others all the same stuff we all go through. Glad to meet you and that you're enjoying the videos! Have a good one!
@sabrinamawlong584029 күн бұрын
Im always alone at Christmas time n its hard but i get over it.I sleep early in both Christmas n New year..without my mom n my brothers,Christmas is not Christmas anymore for me but i love playing Christmas classics n put up a tree just to make the place merry..lol..I give thanks to the lord n pray for Peace on Earth cz i hv been following the wars in ukraine n middle east n all the chaos in this world n so I pray that God will take care to all the people, all over the world particulary the homeless n the orphans n the widows..Happy Holidays to you n have a wonderful Christmas..Greetings frm Shillong, India.🌲🍁🌲
@DanielleComesBack29 күн бұрын
Thanks for the well-wishes! It definitely helps keep things in perspective when remembering that it is not a good time right now in many areas of the world. Geopolitics are very complex and seemingly volatile, to put it mildly. It's always good to be aware of those in vulnerable places; you're right. Nice to meet you!
@BeerBikesАй бұрын
thanks for the clarification, "alone but not lonely"😊 Xmas is just another day. coming to you from the PNW. Peace!
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
That’s not far from me! 🙂
@allanwilson2742Ай бұрын
What a great smile. Greetings from Northern Ireland.
@paulamartin6049Ай бұрын
Hi allan another northern irelander to its a small world indeed px
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Northern Ireland! Amazing! Thanks for the complement about my smile.
@pattydixon6510Ай бұрын
We found you! I'm glad this time of year isn''t hard of you. I most definitely am lonely, full disclosure! But there is a lot of us out there and we appreciate you.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Well, sounds like going live on the 25th is a useful idea, then! I'm really touched that people are out there.
@robin2858Ай бұрын
I am in the pacific time zone too. CA. Just saw your feed and am enjoying it. Thank you
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
California! Cool! Not terribly far from me, in the grand scheme. Glad you're enjoying yourself and it's nice to meet you.
@johnhigginbotham8291Ай бұрын
I'm in the UK
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Excellent! You're 8-9 hours ahead, which can be good, too.
@djp2234Ай бұрын
Hi Danielle. I'll be alone on Christmas Day. Long story short. We lost Mum back in 2011 from lung cancer. My brother and sister in law live a few hundred miles away. I will be with Dad on Christmas Eve, then chilling by myself on Christmas Day. Feels good, doesn't it?!! I live in the UK..I'm eight hours ahead of you. If you go live, I will pop in and say hello. Take care!!!
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
It does feel good! I'm getting two whole days off in a row after working Christmas Eve. Where are you in the UK? I've always wanted to visit places like Wales, Ireland, and Scotland as well as England. I have a soft spot for it; I'm Canadian.
@djp2234Ай бұрын
@DanielleComesBack I live in Essex, about 30 miles north east of London. I grew up in London, but all the family live in Essex apart from my brother and sister in law. Yeah, I've watched a few of your videos. Canadians have a reputation for being friendly. You would fit in just fine if you ever visited here.
@A93-qg9xjАй бұрын
If you’re live when I’m awake I definetely will be there. I’m from the Netherlands. Second Christmas alone.. So I definetely found my tribe.. Very happy that I’m not alone in this…
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
The Netherlands look so pretty! And no, you're not alone here. Hopefully I'll see you on the live.
@CreateSparklesStudioАй бұрын
Glad people found your video. Mine didn't get the crazy views yours did, but I'm happy you got a bunch of views!
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
It was an accident, I swear! I never expected that video to go anywhere, as none of my earlier ones did. I’m sure the same will happen for you, too. You work in a book mobile-that’s gotta mean good luck is on your side! ☺️
@CreateSparklesStudioАй бұрын
@@DanielleComesBack I wish being on the bookmobile could bring me some KZbin luck. 💖
@coralsworld4327Ай бұрын
Hi Danielle your video of being alone at Christmas just popped up today I totally understand you I would love a peaceful Christmas it's not too hectic there's me and my husband and son then our daughter and partner and grandson which don't live with us so will probably see them at some point on the day I get so overwhelmed being too busy I'm in the UK lots of people live on their own through choice so they are not lonely my sister is on her own , I think Christmas is so overrated you should be doing this and doing that no it's whatever you want it to be anyway I've rambled on enough 😂 lovely to meet you 😊❤
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Yeah, the hectic nature of the holiday is just the worst because it's touted as being "family values." I disagree very much, but I know some feel differently. I'm really liking the process of choosing my foods to eat and which treats to prepare--just for me! I don't have to worry about this person not liking this or having that dietary restriction. I can just make what I want. Boy is it liberating! Nice to meet you too!
@toddbelanger1923Ай бұрын
Love from Boston Massachusetts area...Merry Christmas little Dudette...Cheers forever
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
LOL I've not been called a "dudette" in at least 30 years! Massachusetts sounds lovely and I've always wanted to go there one day. Nice to meet you!
@toddbelanger1923Ай бұрын
@DanielleComesBack lol, Nice to meet you as well...I stumbled on your channel somehow and I'm glad I did..I'm always curious how others live life...and where they call home.. it's fun..and yes I'm showing my age with the little Dudette thing,😂
@geecee4724Ай бұрын
Hi Danielle, your channel found me this evening. I 100% know where you are coming from. My view on Christmas is similar to yours and I have been having solo Christmas’s for more years than I care to say. It is very overrated in my opinion. The one thing that I do every Christmas is buy myself a present - that one thing I really want (Amazon has done well out of me over the years😂). The problem is I am running out of wants🤔❤ Geoff (UK)
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Oh yes, getting yourself a gift (or two or three ☺️) is always a good thing!! I have a couple ideas for that. Nice to meet you.
@A13JMCАй бұрын
Cicero, NY 3 time zones away. Keep me posted. Just found your youtube channel. I am forgetting my manners. Je m'appelle Jim. I call myself jim, Danielle. Sneaking a bit of french in here, since I am learning the language, and have ancestors that lived in southern Quebec, one actually was in the Amerian Revolution. Are you in the Vancouver area? The youtuber Danger Cats relates there are meditation drum circles in that area. That person had put out some funny but raw videos about Canada. Any truth to that? The video about Canadian accents is hilarious, especially about French Canadians that try to speak English. Just started catching your videos today. Merry Christmas and happy New Year Danielle.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Yep, you'd be a few hours ahead of me here, at least. Thanks for hanging out.
@cheryl1338Ай бұрын
This is a great conversation, I think you have a really good attitude. For some of us, being alone is fine, it doesn't mean we are lonely :) I have been reading the comments others have left and they are all very encouraging and supportive which I really appreciate.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Indeed! I've been pleasantly surprised about everything! It's nice to meet so many other people who are "alone" but not "lonely" as well.
@cynthia216Ай бұрын
I'm not lonely,I love my space,my independence,and yes I am very introverted and even tho I workout 3 days a week I am not a socializer.I don't know what your business is,are you in sales.🇨🇦🙋♀️
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
I have been a salesperson before, but not as of late. Right now I work in a commerical bakery. So, not public facing, but definitely still customer service. I've never been a big time socializer, even as a kid. I used to have birthday parties that were with one friend, maybe two at most. Too many people is overwhelming; I get it.
@TravisDoingLifeАй бұрын
Congrats! You deserve it! I'm grateful our paths have crossed here.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Well, well, it's Travis! Hi! Glad you're here too.
@cynthia216Ай бұрын
I'm not lonely either I LIVE alone but I value my time alone and very introverted.I do workout 3 times a week and that would be my "Socializing".I'm ok on my own.But I do miss my Mother....I'm in New Brunswick Canada.Yup East Coaster.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
I've never been to the Maritimes! Always wanted to go! Do you speak French or is there lots of English there? I know in Quebec it's pretty French. I went to French immersion as a kid so I could probably get by just fine.
@cynthia216Ай бұрын
@DanielleComesBack The French here is for the most part in Northern New Brunswick,some in Moncton but mostly northern New Brunswick, that's where I am.🙂🙋♀️
@cynthia216Ай бұрын
@DanielleComesBack I can when I have to,like in those parts of the my Province.(Speak French that is)
@Vwgls28 күн бұрын
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@donaldduncan7095Ай бұрын
Your interesting & pleasant face just popped up on my algorithm last week, so I clicked on it since my algorithm seems to know me well or it must have concluded that because I'm single I must be lonely.😉 I agree with you, I'm just fine just being with myself, not everyone is meant to be paired up (unless you're Adam & Eve and need to populate the world)😉 My comments can also be directed at others here since Xmas time can be a lonely time for many. I Enjoy your insights and comments. When I do get down or bored, I like to put on my headphones and listen to 80s & 90s music, I recently found a KZbinr "Moreno J Mixes" ,that makes amazing videos by coordinating dance & movie clips with his pop music remixes. (the next best thing to a time machine for those of you that miss the 80s and 90s). Bye for now.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Yep! Some folks do need a lot of personal space and that's not a bad thing! Glad you found a cool music channel that you like. I like listening to records when I get overwhelmed with the world. It's just audio being amplified through a needle. No internet. Just sound. It might make me sound like an old fogie, but it is my favourite thing to do! Anyways, glad you're here and you clicked on my face.
@shauncasey8295Ай бұрын
I know the feeling of being alone but not necessarily lonely. I hope you keep the videos going I enjoy listening to you! But will understand if you don't because I think we are alike lol. I live in the central time zone but stay up late if i'm not working the next day. Have a great day!
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
I have no intentions of quitting! I have in the past because I've felt like "this isn't happening...nobody's seeing this...ugh" but that's literally the only reason. You're my first Central time zone respondent! This is great!
@A13JMCАй бұрын
4pm to 8 pm eastern time, can catch you 1 to 5 pm your time.
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
Sounds great!! Thanks for letting me know.
@RussellRoberts-or2ne28 күн бұрын
Saint Louis Missouri
@Autumnsoullane29 күн бұрын
New subscriber excited to support ❤
@DanielleComesBack28 күн бұрын
Nice to see you!! Thanks for coming along! ❤️🎁
@Irishgrl65Ай бұрын
Im in florida
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
What's it like in Florida at this time of year? Just a curious Canadian over here...
@Irishgrl65Ай бұрын
Hey Danielle new subscriber here have you thought about volunterring on the holiday it really makes your heart feel good to be there to help someone else ❤❤❤
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
If I have the energy I will give it a try. Considering my job and my club foot, I do have to take it easy when I can, unfortunately.
@Irishgrl65Ай бұрын
@DanielleComesBack yeah it's tough when we work all the time trying to do other things ❤️❤️❤️
@Vwgls28 күн бұрын
Wyoming
@BrianHornak29 күн бұрын
I still cant believe last Christmas..things werent great between myself and my ex girlfriend.. as a final gesture of goodwill.. i bought her a new tv..and got physically attacked by her... as a December baby..this is my favorite time to of year..Hoping the trauma wont impact this year
@DanielleComesBack29 күн бұрын
I hope you have a good holiday this year too!
@robin2858Ай бұрын
Check out the book by Anna Runkle called Re.Regulated. This is a book I am working through and might be helpful to you as well. This comment also should be posted on your post re shop story. Enjoying your channel
@DanielleComesBackАй бұрын
That sounds like a good idea. Is it a self help book? Thanks for hanging out here on the channel! Nice to meet you!