What A Healthy Relationship Looks Like 😔

#viral #sad #love #pain #real #cheater #interview

[@dondollaz1832]

Go through her phone and this whole phony story goes out the window!! 😂

[@bellavampirella]

@@dondollaz1832 💯 when you ain’t gots nothing to hide, then the trust gets even stronger 🙌

[@adil15]

Even men aren't men anymore 😢

[@ChickasawMal28_]

Straight facts. Mf went along with her bs. That's one of two my deal breakers

[@theexperiment8498]

Well said

[@T3KNACORP]

If Simpin had a face...it's him 🤦‍♂️

[@zeetoceet2880]

Hes focus on his digs wants. Its ok until hes bluffing and not damage himself and have fun with that thing to his left

[@marlenegil3578]

It's cuz of men like him cuffin ho3s. They give these ho3s the audacity to think they should be treated like queens 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

@@zeetoceet2880 right. He’s probably in it for the short term so if that means sharing her that’s his call.

[@darkonone5158]

speaking of faces I have no idea what race either of them are...

[@phumelelambuli3673]

Speaking for all real men out here...WE DON'T CLAIM HIM.

[@Tonyextreme27]

This guy deserves what’s coming.

[@taylord1558]

No one deserves to be cheated on. HOWEVER, he shouldn’t be surprised if she does..

[@OTAKU_HERE_Zw]

Definitely ​@@taylord1558

[@mrjonesandme8848]

This isn't healthy. Bet they aren't together anymore.

[@StillWaters101]

If they arent its because she dumped him or he realizes he can't compete with all the simps out there ready to be the fool he is for her.

[@joaoguedes907]

That dude ita weak, lets pray for him

[@ututheavenger]

F him and praying...stop being foolish...

[@BenjaminStoulen]

He is prey but it’s too dumb to realize

[@Vixen.111]

His answer says it all… “he should be ok with it” but he isn’t.. smh to each his own

[@zeetoceet2880]

No man is. They just keep quite for their own advantages

[@stephenferarnandofernandez1611]

She's a wrong example for young girls of this generation

[@JustinCarr904]

Sadly for modern day women this is the norm.

[@strangerboy4676]

Women nowadays lack common sense i mean it.. they be dressing like that for a reason... girls night is just a way to cheat. What a sad world we live in..

[@luislandino9247]

1 he's a simp or 2 he's just with her to f and he's not taking her seriously or he has other girls and that one is just a side chick

[@kirkasmith12]

Facts

[@ESPARTAN-ci7de]

I BEEN IN THAT GUY SHOES... I NEVER CARED CUZ I HAD 2 MORE... NEVER PUT MY HEART ON THE LINE🙄🙄🙄

[@HussnainMughal-r5g]

Nigga you talking about my uncle and hes still whit her so shut your dumd ass up

[@MAYBE673]

I agree with his 1st answer. You met a girl in the club and she dressed provocative, and then yoi want to date her. Guess what if ypu dont like how she dress, go to church and pick a girl from there or look for a girl that is more modest. Dont date her and then expect her to dress differently

[@cjgamer2140]

Good point. You will get what you look for I guess.

[@carlolindo5884]

25 and 26 wait till when your 40 your view will change....

[@ashnicole6096]

Yall are weird. My man lets me dress how i want because he knows nobody can approach me 🤷🏻‍♀️ i bartend huge music festivals and i dress how i want to there and he does it with me and will be at totally different bars away from me the whole time, and has no issue with my attire. Im 33 years old and we have been together 6 years and are in one of the most healthy relationships ive seen in my life. He can go hang with his friends, i can hang with mine. We arent on the market, we arent available. People are going to approach me no matter what im dressed in and thats just the truth 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@iamyourgod530]

COOL i guess you seem pretty proud to be approached

[@TigerHawX]

Your man....is not a man..

[@thejestersrose7601]

​@@iamyourgod530 it's not about pride. Never has been. That doesn't change that it happens. We don't want unsolicited advances. It's possible to dress how you want and still be faithful. It's baffling how lost this makes you all.

[@iamyourgod530]

@@thejestersrose7601 because we all know how men act when drinking. You act like it’s not a big deal but it is. You are around a bunch of people who go to where you work to try to get laid. But it’s weird how I think about it. Ya ok

[@thejestersrose7601]

@@iamyourgod530 That's because it is. Some of us know how to protect ourselves and we are loyal. We don't care about other men because we can make an active choice not to indulge them. It's quite literally the freedom and power to choose. Y'all look at it like we're property. We aren't. We're human beings with free will, most of which have a moral compass which isn't depicted by the media. Stop feeding into the bs.

[@shadowgojiro]

Type of relationship I'm not ok with. I just avoid creating any problems. We don't have girls night and guys night. We did everything together. And both of our friends are ok with it too. We still have boundaries tho.

[@livileigh0]

i completely agree. in my personal experience and relationship currently, i dont wear “what i want” i wear clothes outside of the house that dont show much simply because i know the type of attention that i would get considering where i come from. every relationship has different boundaries and standards, but in my relationship we both have completely limited girls in his phone, and limited guys in my phone; we dont do guy/girl best friends as the opposite gender. nor do we do girls nights/guy nights out unless its a rare occasion with a sleepover involved in it too, not going out to clubs, not doing any parties without the other one present. like said, relationships are all different and all have different functionality. some say my relationship is controlling when in reality im fine with not showing my skin out on the roads whether im with my boyfriend or not, and i will always double check that an outfit is okay to go in because if it isnt, then that would stimulate the overthinking, and thats something i would never purposely make him go through.

[@vayjina3154]

completely fair to not be ok with the one in the video. i think your perspective is reasonable, but i also understand the girl in the video's point. its really how you handle male attention, girls do not need to cater to men by restricting their self expression and covering themselves up tbh

[@ashnicole6096]

It's insane to think that you can't let your partner go have time with her friends without you and vice versa. You shouldn't have to be together 24/7 that's not healthy at all. Having a life outside of your partner is healthy.

[@steelflexy]

@@ashnicole6096absolutely weak ego if you think her spending time with friends is a bad thing then you are well and truly a beta man be secure in knowing you are the man and there is no one who can do and be what you are own it g

[@A.x3]

​@livileigh0 well you obviously aren't this type of girl anyway. I don't even drink, smoke, or ever partied.. and it would be ridiculous if MEN used me as an example of how OTHER women should be. It's gross. If a girl isn't your type, then don't date her. DO NOT DATE a women only to slowly bully her into changing her bc you got insecurities

[@markdedmon4120]

You're right she can't help how good she look she can dress conservative and still be attractive how would you or not

[@kanjo4976]

Her nipple is out…

[@marlenegil3578]

Ok like you can dress classy and still look sexy. Sexy is an appeal you give not a peace of clothing.

[@Tasman6335]

She looks like a street walker

[@cindyhinkle8624]

Modesty, humbleness & respect for yourself & your partner is so undervalued..💔💔💔

[@Acidicpaperclipers]

Can some comments please explain why he isnt a man or st? I dont see it. I genuinely want to know what you think is wrong with what they have

[@alycia1630]

there’s nothing wrong with him and he is more of a “man” then any of these boys in the comments will ever be 😹 ppl in the comments are obviously insecure and think “healthy relationships” are woman having no freedom when in a relationship. don’t listen to these delulu boys 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@marcusbenson8572]

Both of them don't know what they are talking about. Cos it feels like one of them is cheating....no guy will allow her gf to dress any how

[@whitelantern2115]

This guy is fully plugged in 😂

[@anitaford4138]

Finally! These guys are beautifully secure with one another. Lucky couple!

[@tiarelaxing5293]

😂 alright if U say so

[@bellavampirella]

@@anitaford4138 he shows her off, cause she is beautiful, he proud of that. He also a rare one 💎

[@bellavampirella]

Love how he lets her be, that body will eventually age. He knows what’s his 😉 and she’s lucky to be with someone like him cause not all dudes be like this. Dudes get with girls and try to change them and then they don’t like them anymore cause they changed 🤦‍♀️

[@A.x3]

Hahahaha, exactly! They find them at the club then want them to dress like a nun when they are dating them. Literally just trapping women to change them 🤮

[@bellavampirella]

@@A.x3 dudes also be like, “stop wearing all that make up, you look beautiful natural” meanwhile he be staring at other girls with make up on 🤦‍♀️

[@amandaninemire1332]

I LOVE THIS COUPLE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@greghenderson6782]

So do I; he is so stupid 'n she is so up for it.

[@ESPARTAN-ci7de]

THAT GUY HAS 2-3 MORE.... I BEEN IN HIS SHOES.... DONT PUT YOUR HEART ON THE LINE FOR THAT KIND OF BITXX🙄🙄🙄

[@lukethighwalker6518]

Modern date Game Don't be a SIMP Be a real PIMP 😂😅

[@alisassmannshausen6808]

This!! They know what they want and good they won’t settle

[@nuranbah4903]

My guys a whimp.. simping one and one exclusive 😂

[@arrielroberts3776]

I have not seen a good comment on this post. She’s proud of how she looks and I am the same way. I know my man trusts me. If a dude comes up to me I ignore or tell them I’m taken.

[@no.6045]

That man is amazing

[@CJohn33]

Just sign the divorce papers on your wedding day.

[@AmandaHunt-l1s]

They are both right I feel

[@c-townlasna3861]

He tried saving this man, but he's too far gone.

[@1965..]

He’s drowning in the kool-AId.

[@aaronhoustonsr550]

When we don't agree with what women do we're insecure🤦‍♂️

[@reynaldocardenas8388]

Many years ago I use to trust my ex, and I would let her have girls night. One day I let her go and I would always say call me when you get there that way I know that you got there safe, I let her leave around 4 or 6 in the afternoon. I ended up calling her at 3:14 in the morning. Then that's when I started to see the red flags. I didn't see them before because I trusted her.

[@kathybrant571]

She's definitely on the market and cheating on that boy

[@natashaVon-v9p]

No. I’m a woman. When I am single I dress differently than when I’m dating. It is disrespectful to advertise for the world when I have someone

[@anthonyepperson7868]

Shiiiiid Someone else is buying her drinks and snacks while he at home. 😅😅

[@Blakginger]

Brother is so terrifyingly weak, he does even know he's her Saturday client.

[@bmoney_0827]

She wants attention outside the relationship too

[@chrisventura1881]

Ok what if he's not there and it's girls night? He didn't answer lol

[@jacquesmoulin980]

If you are scared of speaking your mind for fear of losing her. Its only a matter of time before she does one.

[@osamabenphucking1261]

If "you're a weak ass man and I run things" was a person...

[@airitindeparrotin6018]

People shouldn't be assaulted for what they wear. At the same time, if you dress like a Walmart employee, people will think you are one. If you dress for sexual internation, people will think that's what you want. Our external expresses our internal. I dress pretty when I want to look beautiful. I wear red lipstick and heels if I want to attract attention. I can admit that. Many girls never will. There's always a reason for doing what we do. Its not random and it's hardly ever for one reason only. You can dress to look sexy, but understand what you're asking for. Ive been followed by creeps because of appearance, modest dress but red lips and heels too. I dont dress like that unless I have a man I trust with me. Most men can behave, others... The two men who followed me were clearly not all there. Thats not their fault, but doesn't excuse the behavior. I have to be considerate too. Some people really do have a harder time controlling themselves. Being a temptation isn't good for weaker people. Putting a gambling addict next to a lotto machine is bad. Drinking alcohol next to an alcoholic trying to cut back isn't kind. They need to control themselves but if we care at all about anyone other than ourselves, we wouldn't temp those struggling, especially with something so dangerous. Pornography has already lit a dangerous keg in the minds of addicts. A sexy dress isn't much, but thats all it can take. Thats a horrible thing. It shouldn't be that way, but it is for some people. We're all working to make this problem worse. It's a shame.

[@SB-xl1ef]

Swap phone 😂

[@annaespinoza7028]

Guys like to pickup on girls like this then complain because they don't want them dressing like this and when they end up cheating on them 🤨

[@supremoura6501]

This is an open relationship anything can happen

[@zhilong]

The man picked her, he has some responsibility. But yeah, pick better.

[@jjide76]

She cheats on that guy all the time.

[@lindsaymeniz1935]

When you date, dress appropriately

[@ammonewmusic519]

He basically telling her he's messing around too

[@leewade9798]

She's wearing her red flag.

[@dwightmckeever4693]

Sadly for him, it’s only a matter of time if she’s not cheating already!!! 🤔🤦🏻‍♂️

[@thejestersrose7601]

You don't know that. I know girls that dress like her who prioritize loyalty over all. Stop generalizing.

[@eoghanhennessy443]

Taking all the crumbs on the floor he sweeps up after her

[@albertomontano1225]

This dude just a “yes ma’am” man. Sad to see. So damn sad to see.

[@jilshjs]

She has no respect for him or herself

[@VictorMadristas]

Sad sad guy. Pity for him

[@to94773]

aww sounds like someone’s insecure 😢

[@Livingston_Seagull]

Fellas… don’t get too cynical. To be honest I have doubts with these two, but what they‘re saying is absolutely correct. A happy long lasting marriage only works based on trust. If you don’t trust your partner to not fuck around when you‘re not watching over her, you should break up immediately. You can‘t ever trust strangers not to drool over her, no matter the wardrobe. Gotta trust her to block those advances. If she‘s untrustworthy, it won’t make a difference if you‘re watching over her and dress her like a nun. Also don’t try to prevent her from going out with friends. I‘m packing my stuff the same day my wife forbids me from going out on a few beers with the boys.

[@bhendricks034]

She’s playing him.

[@omare6299]

May God protect me and my offspring from being anything like this guy! Ameen!

[@StrawberryCat-str]

Just two people in relationship who understand eachother and respect their choices and then there you go the whole internet yapping about how its not okay? Cmon yall its THEIR relationship.Stop imposing your idea of relationship onto others...

[@patriciaduarte2392]

Oh dear absolutely not, what is she wearing? What girls night? Time with your friends is something else. Be respectful lady.

[@Untoldtruth_01]

It has nothing to do with security,wow are they lost,truly sad

[@Konstantinos-dw7cw]

Are you kidding me? New generation...we should blame our generation dear fellows

[@NigeeNkomo]

In a healthy relationship if your man says dress appropriately the woman listens. same way if the woman says to her man wear the big boy pants the man listens too

[@IsaGoncalves-uc6bz]

His girl got him on ropes

[@realtalk7704]

If you dress to get attention you don't love no one but yourself

[@GSmokie42036]

Sometimes your so lonely that you’ll put up with a lot because it’s better then been by yourself,,, instead of focusing on ourselves

[@motivationmoneywellness]

That’s what gone get him beat up, by someone who really like what they see. Sometimes it’s about safety

[@bobmohan9815]

No matter where I am going, whether out with friends or out with my hubcap, I always ask him if what im wearing is good & if my makeup is good & then I take it from there. I believe it's about respect.

[@user-pp6bp7vp5u]

She can absolutely wear whatever she wants, BUT there are consequences for her actions. What they both do not understand is that her appearance - and the unwanted attention it can bring from other men - can easily put a man in a position where he feels like he has to do something to protect her and/or prove his manhood. This is how people get hurt or worse for no damn good reason. She's even more vulnerable on girls night because her man isn't around.

[@alycia1630]

this is such a stupid take and makes no sense. a girl can (and probably will) get hit on no matter her relationship status or her appearance. and they are both completely aware of this. her point was that she DOES NOT respond or pursue a man when she gets hit on. and it’s obvious that he is not concerned as he nods his head and agrees with her. please don’t make judgments about their whole relationship based on a 30 sec clip.

[@user-pp6bp7vp5u]

@@alycia1630 Hello, there. Nothing in my comments makes any sort of judgement about their relationship, only behaviors. So just stop it. While it is true that any woman can get hit on, what you woefully fail to realize is that there's a correlation between how a woman dresses and the overall caliber of men who will approach her. Simply put, the more provocatively a woman dresses the greater the chances she'll get hit on by an unsavory and/or dangerous man...and the more unsavory he is, the more it won't matter if she responds to him or not. Men are visual by nature and women would do themselves a huge favor by not sending out the wrong signals, which is the point of this video and the context of my comments.

[@amajddjama8334]

when this woman will dump this he'll fr sure remember this interview qstions, who agree !

[@noname52768]

“Ok you can dress how you want single” end of.

[@onukwusigideon339]

I don't agree I won't expose my chest in a serious relationship, both male and female

[@GrooveisKing]

😂 Tf is wrong with these dudes

[@Cookieman524]

This guy is doing all the comprimising, and ahea doing all the justifying. Doesn't look healthy to me

[@kevini3490]

💭 she will never respect him/because he don't respect himself

[@ikebelida2957]

It's becoming opposite just how the bible said. Evil will be called good and good called evil. It also says women is under the law of their husband, if the husband dies she's free from her husband's law. Also if you divorce and remarry you commit adultery.

[@OnlineTimer1]

There’s no shame in the western world anymore

[@real-h1739]

This lil brother gonna get his feelings hurt😂😂 sheesh smdh

[@ppi8922]

Dudes a doormat

[@Rage4me2]

Why is she showing out for other people knowing she has a man she even admitted it attracts people for something that’s yours you gonna fix it whether that be telling her or letting her know that things like that ain’t okay in a relationship if she was single who cares what she does but by telling ur girl no abt a inappropriate fit is showing that u care and if she loves u she’ll understand

[@MikeStef-m3p]

He's a simp

[@the5arge438]

Simpin' ain't easy...

[@Neftegna]

Bro is lost.. it will end in tears.

[@Stealthbwoy]

Maybe he’s saying all of this because he only wants to smash it for a while but he knows longterm she’s not wife material. That does happen, loads of men do that.

[@sunnyg3347]

She’s from love island wtf is she doing on here😭

[@lostammo9026]

This Sluuug is looking for someone better than him this is the kind of girl you use if she likes you just to use

[@HazaelChizurum]

😂😂 these type of girls gon mess u up 360 😂😂

[@shazam6926]

Eithee he is too scared to admit it or he conditioned to be a simp

[@aalammohammad977]

Stop judging people with clothes.........coz it doesn't matter how much a girl covers herself...any man with bad intentions will scan her or imagine her as NAKED....so its not the Dress but its the Mentality...stay Healthy @ Mind Brothers

[@HabibAthman]

Tell me its casual without telling me its casuall

[@mailaestiva7283]

This world today is really dying.

[@ghosteastlos5878]

She looks very healthy of his wallet

[@GodisGood941]

Neither has self respect. Thats why its important to find people who put God first cuz they will have a worldly mindset thats all about them and if its not their way its the highway. A real relationship is built on give and take and compromising to be equally yolked but people with that mindset will never have that as long as they think like that. They take and take and refuse to compromise and if you dont like it you’re wrong even if you’re not.

[@carlolindo5884]

So bcus some1 is secure in there relationship that means u can do wat you want? Na Disagree

[@MrSuperdave75]

He would not be allowed boys nights

[@brickshlick]

yall mfs will stare and try to bag women dressed like this at the club but once she yours yall want her to dress like a nun 💀

[@ElonaldTrusk]

Theyll do what you let em get away with....

[@bobedwards7927]

We know who wears the pants in this relationship but they’re always off.