What A Sensory Shutdown Looks Like

This was hard for her. We've been to the Flounder Pounder many times and Abigail has always done well with the noises and the environment but something about today she just couldn't handle. Sometimes we have to cut activities short when she's experiencing a sensory shutdown like this one. What an autism sensory shutdown looks like.
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[@fatheringautism]

Let me know if you have experience with sensory shutdowns. It presents as basically the opposite of a meltdown behavior-wise but it's just as difficult for Abigail. It often cuts our activities short but that's ok. The important thing is that she tries.

[@RockbladeAnimeJacobs]

FatheringAutism are you guys going to Las Vegas tomorrow morning

[@sunflower7045]

You handle it SO WELL! You’re so in tune with your Abby.💖 It’s a beautiful thing to see a daddy love his baby girl like that. Having empathy for her during those times is EVERYTHING. I have zero advice because no one could know what she needs better than you guys. 💖

[@anniekolbe2]

I have sensory shutdowns offten. When I were younger I had tantrums and meltdowns but now it's more and more sensory shutdowns.

[@catloverKD]

I've had shutdowns; mine are more criticism triggered than a sensory issue. It feels the same internally as a meltdown, but I'm completely frozen and unable to communicate until it passes.

[@jackielowrey3032]

FatheringAutism the opposite of meltdown... hmm I don’t think we’ve experienced that.

[@suzithewitch]

I think your theory is spot on. I was reading something from a guy on the spectrum, and he said, "Imagine you're floating with no sense of up and down. At first, it might be relaxing, but after a while it's just freaky scary. So you do anything to help you orient yourself. Take off your shoes to feel the ground. Touch walls, furniture, people, everywhere you go. Anything you can do, so you don't feel lost again."

[@melancholymistress89]

As someone on the spectrum, I can say that's spot on. Even sand and snow can be difficult because it's constantly shifting. Most people don't notice that even well-fitting shoes constantly shift as well, but steady ground on bare feet is stable and connected and just feels safer and better.

[@melancholymistress89]

@Alexandra Desirae I love the TEXTURE of sand, and like sticking my feet in it or feeling it, but I can't walk on it unless it's wet because it's constantly shifting. I don't know if that's a grounding thing or a poor balance thing, though.

[@suzithewitch]

@Alexandra Desirae Eating sand? It's okay, we won't judge ;)

[@margotalmanzar5210]

Wow that quote has really helped me understand sensory issues. I know people on the spectrum do it, but I’ve never quite understood why, so thank you for sharing that x

[@deblynceeley9036]

“I got you” is my favorite thing you have ever said to Abby.

[@estherwhite3119]

Wasn't that the sweetest 💖💗💓♥️for you Asa!!

[@insomnialackson]

I've only just started the video, but seeing all of the people trying to help Abbie feel less nervous and doing it in ways that they know will help her was really lovely to see. So many people with such big hearts.

[@jennifermurdock945]

I don’t know if I can watch tomorrow’s vlog. If Pricilla cries, the whole world (well, the Maass Squad) cries with her.

[@marialuyan]

I saw the end.. And instantly started crying.. We love you cilla

[@aikino1585]

Non scale victories ftw!!!

[@jacquelinemoyer5808]

I can't help it when someone cries I cry too

[@roxygurl622]

I just love her sweet personality and we’re all proud of her!!❤️❤️❤️

[@NancyB35]

💯 I already did 😭

[@jaytotheell]

maybe when abby is on a dock or a wood floor near a dock, she feels vibrations and instability under her feet. you know how a dock feels, even it's secure it's still a bit wobbly. perhaps she's very sensitive to movement.

[@annadevries5785]

This is amazing for me to watch, I have autism as well, a milder case of autism. My parents always tried to correct my behaviour and give me timeouts along with screaming....It's really nice to see that it can also be done this way, thank you for existing!!!

[@loveonthespectrum3797]

Those joyful tears, Priscilla! Give yourself a big hug from me and a pat on the back!! You are an inspiration!

[@shannon_8814]

I second this!💜

[@stephaniegagnon2583]

Love On The Spectrum I was going to comment the same thing

[@hes_the_way5391]

I wish I could just hug Abbie! Makes me sad when she cries 😢 Pricilla, you’re rockin it out with your wt. loss journey! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@megsmichele9821]

Y’all are heaven sent , I truly admire your patience and understanding of your daughter and her needs 🙏

[@shannonmiller5740]

Priscilla!!! I’m so proud of you!! I saw on your Instagram about the seatbelt and that’s amazing!! Well done💗💗

[@shannon_8814]

I love your name! Lol my favorite gymnast is also Shannon Miller! I had to comment 🙌❤

[@shannonmiller5740]

Shannon Fisher aw thanks!! Love your name too😂 Sadly I’m not the gymnast, I can barely touch my toes ahaha, but thanks for the lovely comment💗

[@shannon_8814]

@@shannonmiller5740 I can hardly touch my toes now too! 🤣🤣 You're very welcome ❤

[@foreverblessed879]

Love your names too ladies 😃 Let’s see how many Shannon’s we can get to reply Lol! Have a great day!

[@shannon_8814]

@@foreverblessed879 I love it! Have a great day as well!😎❤🙌

[@amymstreamer3163]

Miss Priscilla I know exactly why you're emotional in the seat if the plane. It is such an achievement when you've worked so hard and lost so much weight and inches. I've been there. I'm so proud of you. I had my airplane seatbelt moment traveling from Charleston WV to San Diego CA. Just keep swimming. Yiure amazing

[@amycarrasquillo2952]

Isaiah reminds me so much of my niece...she’s 19 & marches to the rhythm of her own drummer. He’s not the typical teen self involved with what other ppl are doing, looking & saying & that makes him the coolest cat. He’s so unique & it’s wonderful ❤️

[@pjurda529]

I really like the way Isaiah treats his sister.

[@janaleonard4702]

Oh Priscilla! I am so freaking proud of you. I am crying now!

[@brittanyphelps135]

Abbie is such a sweet girl . I'm a step mother of an autistic teenage boy . I know all kids are different but I figure watching y'all could help me understand him because I don't know how sometimes

[@ameliahill3292]

This one really got me. I shut down a lot and seeing Ab softly cry in public resonated with me because that’s why I try so hard not to do and then seeing how content she was sitting in the back seat made me relax all of a sudden.

[@melancholymistress89]

I honestly wish all autism dads were like you. When I had a meltdown or shutdown, or showed any signs of my autism or anxiety, my father would get angry at me. He'd walk ahead of me holding my younger sister's hands and act like I wasn't with them. He even left me alone in the middle of a zoo once so he and my sister could continue having fun without me. That just made it worse because on top of sensory overload I started having a panic attack from being left alone in an unfamiliar place. Your videos often make me cry. You accept and support your daughter wholly and completely, while my father (and even my mum) acted like I was just being a brat or a bad child/person on purpose, and therefore deserved to be punished...

[@chelseawhite420]

Hi Asa and Priscilla, I just wanted to let you guys know I think that you guys are incredibly awesome parents and ALWAYS putting your kids first. They are the most important people in your lives and it completely shows. Keep being awesome and doing what you guys do best. Hope you are having an awesome day! Chelsea

[@elusivebutterfly9668]

There is so much negative drama lately in the communities I follow on KZbin. This channel & this family are a godsend for me. Beautiful family & so close...you can see the love ❤️

[@fatallove2570]

just found you today and i love it. My friends brothers are autistic and so is my stepdads nephew so i try watching these types of videos to see how i should approach them or to see what makes them feel comfortable because i dont want to scare them and i want them to be comfortable with me around them . your baby girl is so precious

[@fatallove2570]

@@amandalee2457 I already am in love 💖

[@fatallove2570]

@@amandalee2457 awwwe i cant wait to hear her laugh she is so precious

[@GlistenUpp]

Aaaaaw Cilla you got me in the end bcus I know why you were crying. So happy that you got to experience that. You’ve come so far! Sometimes it’s the little non scale victories that make the biggest impact! 💪🏻

[@lizkeyes647]

I wanted to give sweet Abbie a hug through the computer when she was nervous. Hugs from Canada, Brave Girl!

[@bettybrown42]

Loved that you were there for Abbie you two have such a great Father daughter relationship makes me miss my dad

[@mccormickshiddenhomestead1147]

So proud of the Mrs.....you look great momma. Thank you for all you bring to this channel!!

[@tegan9748]

I’m loving how the videos are coming out an hour early. I can watch them before I go bed now! 🤩🥰

[@karmen181]

Tegan it is the last thing I watch everyday. I saved the best video for last .

[@LisaDVlogs]

I've been following your family for quite awhile now and I am so so happy that your channel is growing so much! I have no one that I know of that has autism or anyone on the spectrum but I love that you share all the things for anyone that needs help

[@ashx3825]

I say it over and over, Abbie is such a sweet girl. Whenever she has a breakdown it just breaks my heart, and I wanna give her a big hug. Yall seriously have the best family ❤

[@PotatoQueen1989]

I love that when Abbie was experiencing her sensory shutdown you didn't push and were just like ok lets eat and go home, i also love how you kept saying "i got you" to her super sweet moment, something tells me i'm going to need tissues for tomorrows vlog ♥

[@newmoon122607]

Priscilla you can cry those happy tears girl!!! You worked you’re tail off for this!! You’re a true inspiration. I really love that they do fundraisers for abbies school like that. I would love one of those tshirts.

[@bumpybackroads1581]

i deal with chronic pain and chronic illness and shortly after becoming ill, i started noticing that I was struggling with sensory issues. I’ve struggled with some minor sensory issues my entire life. tags on clothes. food textures. things i think are fairly normal. but the sicker i got, the more i struggled. when we went to the movies, i would become over stimulated very quickly... especially with IMAX and/or 3D movies. bright, flashing lights, loud music, the unexpected reaction of those around me (specifically out of my peripheral vision), being short and not being able to touch my feet flatly to the floor, etc. etc. when i was already dealing with a lot of pain... caused me to become over stimulated. the best way for me to cope was/is for me to lay in a dark, quiet room in a soft bed or chair and just decompress for a little while.

[@sarahb6187]

I have definitely had a shut down before. I don't have Autism like Abby does at least not severe. You guys are so amazing and setting great examples. Keep it up!!

[@lindapeterson8717]

I watched to the end I always do but that ending today made me cry so proud of you Cilla. If you know you know! 💞💖💞

[@shannon_8814]

🙌❤💺👌

[@paulapickett43]

I'm really liking the b-roll over you narrating stuff you're doing now. It's awesome!

[@kaitlynjones7570]

So happy for you Priscilla! Those tears at the end made me tear up too 💕

[@torieseaburn8805]

Man cilla you got me during the tease for tomorrow! I'm so proud of you!!!! You are amazing!!!!

[@Maurie58]

Can I just say that "I love Abigail's swagger....her walk"? She makes me smile. And, I love the clothes that Priscilla picks out for Abby! I just love you guys! Working in special ed, I am still learning more and more from you guys, each day.

[@conniemiller411]

Maurie58 I love it too, and the way she’s a lady by crossing her legs

[@leam7018]

Awww whenever Priscilla or Abbie cries I cry 😭. I know those tears are due to being extremely proud of yourself, as much as we are of you. Love you guys!!! 💖

[@conniemiller411]

Awe Cilla, plz don’t cry, you made me cry too...need not to say why, I have a feeling momma. My heart ❤️ goes out to you, jus keep in touch at home, things will be fine ~hugs~

[@jacquicoder7160]

When I first saw Priscilla crying, I thought it was because she was sad to be leaving her children behind but now I read in the comments the real reason for the tears - those were tears of joy over a much desired victory. Abbie made me want to cry, it is so hard to see her struggling and not really able to explain why. But, of course, her parents understand and are able to do what is necessary to calm her down. So touching.

[@slvrbullet22]

thank you so so much for sharing this video. I have a sensory processing disorder toddler. whenshe gets around noise she begins to pace back and forth looking for grounding. we are still learning her journey as she is about to turn 2 in 10 days. I appreciate all your videos

[@faelyn_x]

UGH I know what those tears are for Priscilla. So damn proud of you! You’re doing so awesome and you’re such an inspiration to me. ❤️

[@littleonelover123]

So fucking proud of you Priscilla 💜 you are one strong, independent, beautiful & over all just one AMAZING mother ..... keep pushing , you goal can & will be reached. You are sooooo worth it so NEVER forget that..it’s all about baby steps until your strong enough to just start kicking those hurdles in life down. Love you guys SOOOO much, deff love abbies smile more 🥰

[@juliebartlett6200]

That environment is so sensory overload :( I have spd and for me it’s that underneath background noise that makes my brain shutdown. It’s the overwhelming noise of hundreds of people talking, plus music or speakers, bangs and crashes, it’s too much for me and I’m guessing was too much for Abbie too :( I use noise cancelling headphones for it. I’ve used the regular hearing protection ear muffs, as well as motorbike ear plugs and now I use in ear noise cancelling that also play music :)

[@rickmorrison750]

I was thinking/feeling the same thing.

[@mindybruns2918]

Oh man instant tears when I saw Priscilla crying at the end. So proud of you

[@gretchenderfler6382]

Priscilla. I know those are happy tears. No seatbelt extension. WAHOO!!! GREAT NSV!! YOU ROCK.

[@angieverrall5060]

Priscilla I'm going to cry. That's so sad.

[@shannon_8814]

Notification squad!!! 😎🙌🔔 Hope y'all are having the best time!!!!! Love and big hugs! Priscilla I teared up with you! I'm so honored to have seen your incredible success on your journey! You are such an inspiration in so many ways! As a mother, wife, friend and human! You are all the things Mrs. Cilla!!! ❤💯

[@dainianjames22]

Bless your heart Cilla.. All the hard work is paying off your such an inspiration.

[@carmenduran3343]

Asa you are such an awesome dad when you said “I got you” tears just started. 😀

[@matertater922]

Awww Priscilla I am SOOO HAPPY and PROUD of YOU!!!! YOUR Hard Work is Paying Off!!! ❤😭🔥🎉

[@pandabear7073]

Don't be nervous your daughter will be in great hands i remember going throw the same thing when i left my children its hard when you are the primary people for them

[@Aric_EPU]

7:30 Look at her back there smiling, so dang adorable.

[@dawnoneill1773]

Oh bless her 😢 sending you hugs Abbie girl 😘 amazing amount raised for an amazing school 😊 well done to all involved you guys rock 💜💙

[@kimberleypierce7981]

Priscilla I know why you are crying and I'm so proud of you! Abby, you did a marvelous job of getting through that outing. High 5, girl! Asa, I love how in tune you are to Abby and your "I got you" was so touching. Isaiah, again...you are the best brother. Abby is very lucky!

[@dominiquelarelle7005]

Isaiah looks EXACTLY like Asa leaving the Flounder Pounder

[@kararainwater5409]

Those joyful tears made me cry too! So happy and proud of you

[@tea8290]

Someone must have done something sweet again, P always gets so sensitive when people show their kindness! Love you Priscilla! You have a heart of gold and are a lovely mother.

[@lisafrank2223]

The Weather there looks so nice. My nephew has sensory shutdowns too. But more meltdowns! Can't wait to come to Jacksonville in Dec. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lisamayyy1373]

Poor Abbie 😔 but she did such a great job!! Proud of her as always ❤️ and it’s so wonderful to see how Many people truly support and care for her!

[@jodigould765]

Awe Priscilla what’s going on girl , it’ll be ok. My Hearst went out to Abbie feeling so uncomfortable, but Dad you got her! And you two children walking ahead of you arm in arm how wonderful

[@maryellennobrien2822]

Your daily Vlogs make my days so much better , abbie makes my days so much she is just the sweetest girl ever ♥ i always catch myself with a grin on my face as i watch the daily vlogs!! Been watching the vlogs daily since i got into watching videos on youtube, this channel is what got me into youtube videos after seeing one of your fatheringautism vlogs on facebook a little bit over a year ago (recently been loving triple P as well lol!) , fatheringautism was the first youtube channel i ever subscribed to!! You both have done such an amazing job raising two wonderful children keep up what you're doing and never stop chasing them dreams, you've already accomplished so many, lots of love all the way from St. John's Newfoundland Canada ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

[@purplewizards]

Wow Cilla, that is an awesome achievement 🥳 because of you I also had that moment 2weeks ago for the first time. You showing your journey inspired me to give lazy Keto a try and it’s been fantastic.. so I could never thank you enough for inspiring me and countless others to do this 🥰🥰

[@s.goodrich3605]

Gosh Priscilla you look AMAZING! Everyday I watch y'alls videos whether they're old or new and it's just a part of my day that I look forward to so much. I have a 1 year old daughter so she keeps me pretty busy, but when I get a minute to myself or she's napping, I come right to KZbin and there's your videos just waiting for me🤗 you've brought so much enlightenment to my life about autism. Abigail is truly a princess and a Trooper! She's amazing. I just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing your life with me and everybody else who loves watching you. Hopefully one day we can meet up and I can just say thank you in person. My husband is a die-hard Jags fan so hopefully we can end up in Jacksonville for a game one day and maybe run into you. Lol that's probably a long shot but hey a girls gotta dream! Thanks again love y'all!

[@leslier.1236]

Aw P I know getting on that plane and not needing a belt extension was the BEST FEELING EVER! And super emotional. So proud of you!

[@kristinapritchett4408]

I am so proud of you. You are doing amazing on your journey to great health.

[@karmen181]

I know that moment Priscilla is have on tomorrow vlog . I’m so proud of you .. and asa you’re amazing the I got you is just the best thing to hear and that Abbie feels and believes him ..

[@AssassinAnna]

Cry girl!! That's a scaleless victory for you. And you deserve every moment of it.

[@stephaniesabin-warner3176]

I definitely know how u feel Priscilla. Tears of joys for no longer needing the seat belt extender! Ur doing an amazing job. U can see the glow on ur face in all ur pics 🥰

[@modernmrscleaver]

Saw Percilla’s teary plane pic on Insta yesterday, but seeing the video clip I can’t help but get emotional too.

[@kikiwoodard160]

Aw at the end Priscilla crying made me cry and I don’t know yet why?😭

[@juicyparsons]

I had one sat a poetry event recently and I'm 34. There were sounds I couldn't see, I was nervous already about some social stuff in the room, there were instruments being played at different points of the room and all of a sudden my anxiety kicked in...some people were eating food in tinfoil, kids were shuffling around, a door opened, all of a sudden I stated noticing everything... people picking their fingers or sniffling or a phone vibrating....it was so hard to focus and I wanted to hyperventilate but I breathed slowly called an Uber and left after the 2nd song. Now that I understand my SPD I know when its okay to leave

[@jennifersherman7052]

I LOVE seeing the Blue Angels! When they come here, they preform over the San Francisco Bay! Exciting! Abbie did excellently while the loud, fast jets flew overhead and around the area! That's really interesting about her needing to be grounded. Asa, thanks for explaining that that's why Abbie takes her shoes off, and why she sits on the couch where the springs are after taking the pillows off! That makes total sense! 😀

[@beckymendoza6307]

Tears of joy for you Pricilla. Proud of ya girl.

[@MrKeepmsafe]

I agree with the “sensory overload” comments. That PA system was VERY LOUD! Coupled with all the background chatter, conversations, boat noise, etc. it is certainly understandable that she was uncomfortable. Also, could be what Asa said, or maybe a combination of things. You two amaze and inspire me! We are and we know a lot of autism parents. Stay strong. Be well.

[@myliltinker7332]

Priscilla you got me tearing up to so proud of you girl!!

[@megans6831]

Im autistic and sensitive to movement, so i get easily disoriented and mentally shut down from cars, swings, slides, boats, spinning, etc. Anything that moves really.

[@whitneywhite09]

Oh Priscilla ! I know how you feel ! You have done such an amazing job and you look beautiful!!

[@jayboygaming5934]

Looked like everyone had a great time!!! Be safe on y'alls trip!!!

[@chillingwithkitty3232]

Beautiful support towards Abbie ❤️ I wanted to cry for Abbie she tried so hard and cannot imagine how proud of Abbie you are. I was so proud. The jets were cool. Does Abbie like fireworks?

[@staceyruwoldt9158]

Awww Priscilla what were you getting teary about? 😟💕💕 *Wish there was a heart button for this video, much love to Priscilla and Abbie, wish I could give ab a big hug, so sorry she was having a hard time, so glad she felt better when she got home* ☺💖💖 xoxo

[@camilleburton6086]

I know this is normal for them but I think it is sooo adorable how Abbie will just hold onto them while their walking💗💗 Like I love this channel and family💗💗

[@sarahcavanaugh572]

I love watching your videos

[@jfjdjdji723]

Priscilla, you are so precious.

[@Watching4Fun_]

I have times like this as well. Sometimes I will go to the grocery store and leave a full cart of groceries in the isle because I just have to get out. I don't know why, but it happens.

[@gabriella124.9]

Protect Priscilla at all cost

[@frenchibristianbok8847]

Happy to stumble on your channel such a awesome family 👏💞😀

[@amberboyd1991]

Hi. I just wanted to let you guys know that I love your videos. Watching Abigail smile makes me so happy. I seen your products on teespring and i was wondering if you were going to have a case made for the new iphone? I really love the Abby's art one.

[@Pslams61]

I haven't had a sensory shutdown in about a year. But for me it starts as a meltdown then turns into me just shutting down, not responding to anyone, sometimes crying. I've tried to explain to my boyfriend, we've been friends for almost 5 years and together for almost 5 months, he's only ever seen a small meltdown before. The last couple weeks have been so crazy that I can feel a sensory shutdown coming and I'm nervous for it to happen with him because there's not much that can help except quiet and darkness, oddly enough I lay on the hard floor too when I'm having a shutdown, usually in a corner because it makes me feel more secure.

[@empresstarotnat]

Love your videos. Much love from the UK. Abigail is amazing 😃😃😃

[@dikoehler4255]

I have a boy that will not go into buildings because of the floors. He will go into 711 for a soda and maybe a fastfood place because he knows he will get food! I took him into a store just to walk in turn around and out. He had different plans when he saw candy and plopped right on the floor at $54 of candy bars and 3 hrs later he decided he was ready to go. He is 6'4" 34 yr old vs a 5'2" 60 yr old....

[@sunflower7045]

Oh Priscilla!! You’re killing me at the end!! I just want to hug your sweet self.🤗💕

[@nataliekhalilrealtor]

I love your channel! Thank you

[@shebeesstitchyworld]

Hugs Priscilla. I know why you’re crying. You should be proud of the journey you’re on.

[@tea8290]

Love seeing people that know how to interact with Abi! If you see someone acting 'different' dont judge them they may just have a different way of doing things then you and that's ok :-)

[@theresawarchulski5339]

I was doing okay until the last minute, seeing Priscilla cry, that just broke my heart 💔 I'm like "l bet it's about leaving Abbie behind, it's a hard thing to do when you love someone so much 💜💜💜

[@laurathornton1456]

Bless her heart! I don't do we well on docks either or bridges, even in the car.

[@SuperOlivia1993]

That dwight sunshade for the car is everything!

[@heyitsnataliec]

Abbie loves her big bro so much it’s so cute!

[@tylerpennells8672]

Number one parent awards goes to you guys thanks for teaching me something new everyday and I love me some Blue Angels lol silent jets that cracked me up 💙💙😊❤❤

[@shannon_8814]

Love me some Blue Angels too but I'm an Air Force brat! ❤🙌

[@tylerpennells8672]

@@shannon_8814 I've always been a plane geek lol

[@shannon_8814]

@@tylerpennells8672 I grew up with the best planes ever! My father was one of the last Crew Chiefs on the SR71! My favorite plane of all time...