💍🇬🇭WHAT ALL GHANAIANS MISSED ABOUT THIS FAT BRIDE - She Is A Good Wife

[@seththeteacher]

In many societies throughout history, being plump or even obese was seen as a sign of prosperity, health, and beauty. This was particularly true in times and places where food scarcity was common. In Ancient Egypt: Plumpness was associated with wealth and high social status. In renaissance Europe, fuller figures were often idealized in art and considered attractive. In Africa, our societies have always considered being fat as a sign of good living and prosperity. When you compliment someone with the statement, "eeei, you have become fat", they will often smile and feel good about themselves. When you see a man walking around with pot-belly, we presume he is rich. And for our women, being fat has always been a hallmark of beauty to be pursued. It means "Kaba" will fit and look good on you. But now, the idea of fatness as a negative biological human quality only popped up recently in the western world. This was a propagation of the western medical establishment pushing something called “Diet Culture” in the 60s and 70s. Its counterpart is the idea that being thin, is an attribute of beauty. This too is a joint-propagation of the western cosmetic and fashion industry. Same thing was done with height and muscles. Most of our fathers had none of these, yet our moms fell in love with them. But looking at today, women's preferences(even in Africa) have been shifted so much towards these unnecessary male qualities that, such that a modern woman might outrightly reject a good guy who is short. Also look at what Kim Kardashian and Nicki Minaj pioneered. They polluted the male sexual preference with big butt addiction, now even African men are wallowing over "Nyash, Nyash Nyash" , and our women are dying over fake "Nyash". All these are toxic modern western ideals being actively exported everywhere, and they do it by first of all attaching negative feelings with certain words like FAT, racism, --phobias, ect. Uttering these words trigger their associated feelings in us, thus pushing us to behave the way they want us to behave - ANGRY. it's called MIND-CONTROL 101 Lets take back the power by switching off the feelings we've attached to these words. I love Y'all, Seth The Teacher.❤

[@kennethasunki9003]

This is true and insightful. Thank you.

[@theotherside8481]

Thank you for bringing this view point to the attention of many. In a world where you could be anything, people, please be kind.

[@seththeteacher]

Wow💞, beautiful advice, thank you.

[@estherkonamah8095]

Sir you are very wise i scarcely comment on the internet but when I listened to you i said waaaaw.God bless you keep it up

[@seththeteacher]

I appreciate the kind comment, Esther, very much. Big things are in store, stay tuned.

[@abenadonkor7911]

Juliana,has a heart of gold She is very intelligent, beautiful

[@seththeteacher]

Yes, Abena she does. It even shows in how she talks.

[@ZainabBimbim]

Ohh you know her, my congratulations to her and the husband. She should ignore all this nonsense comments. She has a good husband that is all

[@ladylou8950]

You have said it all God bless her 🙏

[@seththeteacher]

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[@christinaofori-atta7739]

Seth, you are a deep thinker. Very good. The man is lucky to have this beautiful heart. The husband knows her worth.

[@seththeteacher]

Thank you, Christiana🙏 And yes, she definitely must have a beautiful heart.

[@Zoe186]

A very good Teaching. God bless you.

[@seththeteacher]

Thank You

[@abenadonkor7911]

My late mum tells me if a man loves u,he loves for who u are,her advice has kept me going

[@seththeteacher]

Wow!, Rest Well to the wonderful mom? Good advice.

[@angelasarkodie334]

Well Said Bro. God Bless you.

[@seththeteacher]

Thank You.

[@kennethasunki9003]

That is a perspective many of us wouldn't notice. Thank you @seththeteacher

[@seththeteacher]

I appreciate it, brother.

[@reginaopoku2203]

They should praise them instead of body shaming them. She has a heart of Gold 🥇

[@seththeteacher]

Oh Yes, I think she is a good woman.

[@DeborahKarim-dy8gr]

Which God 😅😅😅😅😅

[@lorraineakpabli7325]

I know her in person, and I'm not surprised all. Lyr Julia is just how you see her. Congratulations my dear

[@originalfamilyprograms2801]

God bless you bro ❤❤❤❤🙏🏻💋

[@seththeteacher]

Thank you🙏

[@LucyAddaiArhin]

Good advice

[@seththeteacher]

Thank You

[@lucynyame1535]

Powerful presentation ❤

[@seththeteacher]

Thank you kindly

[@kennethasunki9003]

The ending is 🔥

[@seththeteacher]

🔥

[@patriciaobeng3796]

Am proud of you

[@seththeteacher]

👑

[@gertrudeacheampong6423]

Is there a possibility for you to please adjust your title to "Plus Size". Your presentation on her is exceptional however the title may be a little bit demeaning to her or others like her

[@seththeteacher]

👋Hi Gertrude, I understand your point perfectly, and looking into making some adjustments. However, your point is important, and I want to take some time to quickly teach on it for the benefit of all people. You see, words like fat, short, etc, have always had nothing to do with the word "ugly" . In Africa, our societies have always considered being fat as a sign of good living and prosperity. When you compliment someone with the statement, "eeei, you have become fat", they will often smile and feel good about themselves. When you see a man walking around with pot-belly, we presume he is rich. And for our women, being fat has always been a hallmark of beauty to be pursued. It means "Kaba" will fit and look good on you. But now, the idea of fatness as a negative human quality only popped up recently in the western world. This was a propagation of the western medical establishment pushing something called "Diet Culture" in the 60s and 70s. Its counterpart is the idea that skinniness, is an attribute of beauty. This too is a joint-propagation of the western cosmetic and fashion industry. Getty, I love your good intention, but I feel we shouldn't allow western beauty standards to be exported forcefully unto our societies. Same thing was done with height and muscles. Most of our fathers had none of these, yet our moms fell in love with them. But looking at today, women's preferences(even in Africa) have been shifted so much towards these unnecessary male qualities that, a modern woman might outrightly reject a good guy who is short. Also look at what Kim Kardashian and Nicki Minaj did. They polluted the male sexual preference with big butt addiction, now even African men are wallowing over "Nyash, Nyash Nyash" , and our women are dying over fake "Nyash". All these are toxic western ideals being actively exported everywhere, and they do it by first of all attaching negative feelings with certain words like FAT, racism, --phobias, ect. Uttering these words trigger their associated feelings in us, thus pushing us to behave the way they want us to behave - anger. it's called MIND-CONTROL 101 Lets take back the power by switching off the feelings we've attached to these words. I love Y'all, Seth 💞💕

[@JosephineLawson-u3x]

I appreciate your response. Actually the Lady is a very beautiful woman both inside and out. She is also humble. Great you when she meets you at the church premise even though she does not know you.

[@seththeteacher]

Oh wow, thanks for the confirmation. Well done Josephine.

[@pheobejacques8449]

Are there no more important things to discuss in our country Ghana???? Nsem hu nu doorsu du du

[@Global_with_Desoo]

Was there a thought process in your title? Just curious.. why did you use that word

[@seththeteacher]

I used many words in my title👍

[@abenakwabena5448]

Say A PLUS SIZE LADY .

[@BerniceQuarshie-h7u]

Let's be kind.

[@seththeteacher]

Yep.

[@mariedames3240]

A MAN wants a PEACEFUL HOME! She's beautiful she's well-mannered and she will respect her husband make a wonderful home for her husband and children❤

[@seththeteacher]

Yes, she demonstrated quite some remarkable signs to the world.

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

This is a common trait of some African people. They will shame you saaa even if you have made a good choice. They will say things to destroy your home. I wish them all the best in their union.

[@seththeteacher]

Good comment. Also, what many people have forgotten is that, maybe the husband is into women of that size. Taste comes in all variations.

[@lionessmolapisi7557]

Jacket not Coat!

[@ChristinaAgoeBrown]

Marriage today don’t lady long because all we see and look for the beauty but not love

[@seththeteacher]

💯

[@estherjacksonostephen3712]

Ghanaians always think about what's outside. Because she didn't do or have any artificials on her body, they think she's not beautiful. A happy woman makes a happy home. The man is happy and she's happy and they will have a beautiful home with peace of mind. God bless them. My question is, those talking by heart nu, imagine they are her and nobody marries them how will they feel.

[@seththeteacher]

Very good observation, well done.

[@adjeleysowah7839]

She is beautiful she is not ugly

[@seththeteacher]

I agree.

[@emmanuelnnam5690]

I believe the guy love her genuinely because if not so he wouldn't have taken her number on the very day he met her at the mall

[@seththeteacher]

That could be true💯

[@maame2785]

Why does your header say fat bride?

[@mercykoomson5869]

She is a married maternal and humble n beautiful even her eyes 👀 is very sexy Soo beautiful 👌👌💪❤️❤️❤️❤️💃👍

[@afiaagyeiwaa2175]

Your caption is so irresponsible.

[@ladlesandoven]

Why do you use FAT instead if BEAUTIFUL

[@seththeteacher]

She is definitely BEAUTIFUL💯 Thanks

[@kiv_daniels]

@@seththeteacheror “plus size”. I’m considering the fact that even though she’s a jolly person, there might be a little part of her that might be heartbroken being described as “fat”

[@seththeteacher]

@@kiv_daniels Hi, being heartbroken for being called fat is a thing of the western society. In our part of the world-Africa, being fat is often seen as a biological virtue indicating beauty and good living. The majority of us feel good about being called that. Take heart, the bride is an African woman.🤍

[@kiv_daniels]

@@seththeteacher She’s an African but also a human being with emotions. Fat people don’t really like to be called fat even if they don’t show it. But it’s fine, we’re all entitled to our opinions, I just felt to draw your attention to that. Take heart as well, peace and love.

[@albertinaaryittey7985]

Not necessary. Do you think the guy genuinely loves the woman if not for her wealth..? You are not the one to tell us whether the lady is good or not. Let the success of the marriage talk.

[@elongaabigail8636]

And you are a woman too 🙄🙄🙄

[@seththeteacher]

Thanks for your comment 👍

[@DeborahKarim-dy8gr]

I just fear the future for one of them 😢

[@Mimi-xm4xh]

aha funny😂 fear for your own life my dear. They are perfectly ok

[@gracesarfo5565]

How do you measure genuine love?