What are Godly men looking for? Q&A with husband

What are Godly men looking for in a wife? My husband is answering questions on modesty, how to prepare for marriage, what are red flags in a relationship, and what to do when we haven't found our spouse yet.
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[@JLee-sx4te]

Thank you both. I’m 37 and came out of a relationship with a man Satan planted in my life because I didn’t wait on God. Your relationship helps me to know I must keep the faith God has His best for me. Thank you. 💙❤️

[@vivaeuropa]

It's nice to see you so calm about it at 37. I'm 23 and never been in a relationship I was too busy chasing different idols and stuck up "no girl was worthy of me" but since I've been saved I really want a relationship but it's easy to be impatient so it's nice to see you so calm about being older and still waiting with patience.

[@shikyokira3065]

@@vivaeuropa Remember, its God's time, not our time. I always say this to my elders when they pressure me to find a girlfriend With that said, I'm still open with knowing more people and giving a chance to girl I come across as suitable partner. I try my best to avoid places sluts "roam" especially tinder, church is a great place to get to know new people and find your future partner

[@clara-christymrad]

I loved so much what you mentioned about being pure, the wrong people can make us feel guilty because we walk in righteousness and in light! The darkness cannot stand the light and it rejects it

[@daniellegrace100]

Don’t be afraid to have high standards and wait for God’s best 🙌🙌🙌 That was so refreshing to hear! Usually we’re encouraged to lower our expectations and standards but then are blamed for getting into relationships that go wrong. So thank you for sharing and encouraging us to trust that God has the best for us

[@dellamonk6792]

The love of a good man can be very healing and redemptive.

[@NowSoar]

It’s awesome to do life and build the kingdom with you! ✝️💜🤗

[@NowBloom]

Love you honey 🍯💕🙏

[@hazelscarlett7299]

Cute 🥰

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

I love you, too, Adam. 😘

[@airishviscara2326]

@@aramisy.cajigas744 😂

[@airishviscara2326]

@@NowBloom You kinda look like Dua Lipa the first time I saw you and the second too

[@itsshawneee3817]

"Prepare to be a bride for Christ!" I love that so much! Thank you for this word!

[@itsshawneee3817]

New subscriber btw! 😁

[@practicalenglish4836]

New gf btw!

[@vickymor3963]

Your husband's point on high standards is so important..this was golden.

[@NowBloom]

Thank you! 🙏🙏

[@NowSoar]

✝️🤗

[@PriscillaMQ]

@@NowBloom how old are you if I may ask

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Lots of people say they’re a Christian, but they practice sex outside of marriage , they use profanity, they don’t care at all to read the word and I don’t see any fruits. In general , a Christian truly follows Jesus and obeys him. 💙 And absolutely legalism is not Godly. Women have to be careful that a man isn’t reading the Bible just to impress her until he gets her. It has to be a genuine act, something he does willingly and not to impress a woman .

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

Wow this was so good! As a single Christian woman, I feel so encouraged to continue my walk in purity with the Lord and to wait patiently for Him to send me my husband. Thank you for this 😭🙏🏻❤️ God bless you both.

[@shikyokira3065]

It's very important to find a godly man. I have seen many Christians no longer going to church after marrying a non-Christian. Remember, its God's time, not our time. I have been single for all my life, my focus has been on self improvement and building my faith. Because while waiting for the right person to come, you have to be at your best to welcome that person. And just recently there is a new girl just started joining our church and the cell group I'm overseeing, even tho I'm not particularly attracted to her, we still chat and hangout some times. I certain can see a lot of positive responses from her in our interaction, tho she kinda hinted that she isn't attracted to me as well but we know if the only measurement is attraction, once that is gone, the relationship will fall apart. So we instead focus on something more fundamentals like our principles, values, chemistry, teamwork, faith...

[@SFMC_Hyderabad.]

I am godly man..where are you from..

[@Veronica_Graced]

Adam point of view is so profound. Your content is so wholesome and I’m truly blessed by it. Thank you once again for the reminder that in our waiting,living for God should always be our number one priority ❤️

[@NowBloom]

Our pleasure, Veronica! We appreciate your kind words! Yes, keep waiting on Him, He's got you now until forever! God bless you!

[@michelleg1617]

I think the Lord is getting me ready for marriage because he keeps introducing me to creators like you so I can learn more about AGAPE Love and how to Glorify Him in marriage. Thank you for your transparency. Practical examples are still important. 💛

[@starseedstarseed311]

I m glad you found each other. I m waiting for my kingdome husband. I live in Greece and even when I say I m a believer people make fun of me. Since I m in my 35s and my image or body image does not resonate with what I believe or I have to be more earthly. Sometimes I pretend I dont expect for what I look for. Noone gets me. I feel like losing hope. I feel in a lot o pain for a lot of emotional hardships and the fact I grow older and all I meet is disbelievers. I pray and I pray 😞😔

[@annikaminina7670]

It was nice to have Adam’s point of view about modesty. I used to dress very modestes but when i found myself at almost 30 not married i stopped and started to dress with shorter and tighter clothes as a way to attract my husband. It definitely enabled me to get a lot of attention from men but still no marriage, so now I’m back to being modest but it is challenging. thanks for this video 💝

[@TP-hu2yg]

Yes this is so relatable! It would be lovely to have a video all about modesty and being firm and getting our self esteem from God and not other men.

[@TP-hu2yg]

I’m going to watch the modesty video!

[@vivaeuropa]

@@TP-hu2yg As a Godly man personally it's the first thing I look for in a women is if she honors God with how she dresses. It's a very important first impression and dressing revealing is enough to completely write her off just to be safe because if she dresses to create lust in men then she probably is dealing with other problems like self worth, pornography addiction, still promiscuous etc.

[@getshwifty2049]

@@vivaeuropa wow thank you for your response!

[@RoxanaAncora]

Hi. I hope you already got married in these 2 years, but if not, the problem is not in modest clothes. And anyway, a more "attractive" style of clothing does not mean short and fitted clothes, but I think you already know that. I am in the same situation, we really live in a world that has lost its values, with the distance from God we become nothing more than rational animals, because we already subject our soul to superficiality. For a long time I thought that the reasons why I didn't get married were either physical, or that the world has degraded in many ways and it's hard to find a truly Christian man. But... actually I had many unresolved traumas from my childhood that programmed me to attract toxic people and full of emotional wounds, because I myself was full of wounds. I'm not saying it's your case, because I don't know you. But I leave this comment in case it will ever be useful to someone, we always attract what we are and often we block our own paths because we have an emotional baggage behind us that needs to be thrown away. We have to imagine what we want in a partner and first, be ourselves in this way. Otherwise, we will attract all kinds of people who either do not respect us, or cannot love, or are manipulative or simply inappropriate. When we accept and love ourselves, asking God to be able to accept us, as He accepts us, we hope that we will also meet that right partner. Moreover, if we tend to idolize people, we should know that God will never send us a man whom we will turn into an idol, into our god. That was my problem, the trauma programmed me to idolize people, and the "prize" was ... exactly, a narcissist. Good luck, all the best.

[@CgirlAJGM]

"I am not gonna bring you someone to destroy him". That really resonated with me. I've been dealing with self stem issues as long as I can remember, but I just realized how much I hurt an ex because of my insecurities... Gotta work on that. We have to lift up others ( partners, family, friends...) Not tear them down.

[@chaddy2409]

Good point

[@user-tk4qd8dj1p]

Why and how exactly did you tear him down if I can ask. I don't correlate how low self esteem = tearing down someone else in the mindset.

[@CgirlAJGM]

@@user-tk4qd8dj1p Because we project our insecurities on others. In my case, I brought the prejudices of my family into my relationship.

[@klarysaranda4669]

I think that modesty is very important whether your married or not. As a Christian I do believe that my body is mine but also the Lord's. I also know that there are men out there that are struggling with lust/porn/etc. and I personally don't want to be the reason why they are struggling or a trigger. "How can I prepare myself to be the bride for Christ" was so good! Be your best self for God, for yourself, and your future spouse.

[@adolfosofiao]

So happy to have found you both. I am healing after another failed relationship. Your experience and teachings of god has touched the core of my soul. It’s taken me to the age of 42 to finally realise even as a woman of faith why I kept going through failing and short term relationships. You have taught me the way to meet my godly husband and this time round I won’t settle for less. Sarah I thank you and your husband for the revelation. 💕💕🇬🇧🇦🇴

[@hollandfilippini571]

Thank you Adam, that really helped me when you shared your age at finding Sarah. I am 40 and divorced for 5 years and my friends and coworkers think I am crazy for not using social media and turning down men that are not sent from God. It can be discouraging mentally but I know God hasnt forgotten me and he is telling me to be still and wait, I will know.

[@oluwatosinjustinaabe8379]

Hey, just to encourage you a little. Delay is not denial and if God kept you in a place he sure knows and will answer you in due time, try to use this period to serve him and develop yourself

[@coriemmett1363]

Good for you! God is the way!

[@zeusv9804]

Where you look is very important! Church, ministries, missions, weekend church camps, and Christian apps are the best spots imo

[@sharonfurey4019]

So so good. I have been single for many many years. As a couple, you are inspiring me. For some reason I do not see available men around me. I love jesus and growing in my relationship..He made me strong and healthy and still pretty at 62.

[@ameliaelizzabeth]

I absolutely loved this. Preparing yourself to be the bride of Christ is definitely something that I will be praying about and striving towards. Thank you for your wise words. Praise the Lord!!!

[@catholicchannel4915]

I was emotional at one point of this video, I had been dealing with a battle recently with modesty, like not just with what I wear but my motivations. And while watching your video I felt myself remember when I used to feel beautiful, and when I knew my value doesn’t come from anyone else’s approval. I finally felt that part of me come out again. Thank you. God bless you both!

[@christinebutcher591]

I have to say, Sarah, I love how gracious you are. You both have such a pure dynamic, and the way, Sarah, you listen to your husband and let him speak (and even at the end you asked, "Actually, can I add something to that?" without interrupting), is SO beautiful. Christ is truly in you, and it is so evident, and I aspire to be like this to be a perfectly compatible mate for my spouse soon

[@ogechiezeamama703]

I like the way Adam marketed your coaching business. It's not bad to put your business out there once in a while. It is the talent God had blessed you with to generate income sometimes while enriching lives. I love you guys. God bless and protect you both. Amen.

[@margaretjon3066]

Really thanks for your sharing, this video really touched my heart. I'm 38 years not marriged, I'm in China, it's very difficult for me with sigle life here, the others think I'm not normal or with very high standard with man, everyone here get marry in early age. I'm still waiting and keep good relationship with God, this video encorage me a lot, thank you for your word, and Adam said keep high standard, we deserve better from God, I'll keep this word in heart.❤

[@tvhead7074]

I thought they didn’t let you guys worship Jesus over there?

[@margaretjon3066]

@@tvhead7074 Thanks for your caring. We can worship Jesus in China, so many church build up in China and so many christian these years. The public church is totally open, but the family church was controlled in China, the family church worship secretly. During the pandemic time, the public church was forbidden to open, but the family church still keep worship every sunday, and not let government knows, we have many ways to worship God even sometimes in the rough situation.Pls don't worry. 😄

[@tvhead7074]

@@margaretjon3066 you’re welcome. I feel bad for you guys. Your population deserves a better government.

[@margaretjon3066]

@@tvhead7074 It's complicated, there're so many heresy in the name of Jesus here misleading people, our government try to make all people safe, maybe others feel bad for us, but sometimes God use this way to protest us the real christian and the people. It's really hard to explain, but I think our government also try their best to get the balance.

[@tvhead7074]

@@margaretjon3066 I understand, you have to say what you have to say in order to be kept safe from CCP

[@archangeljesus4369]

I for one like to meet a girl whose humble and lowly and doesn't brag or worry about her achievements and accomplishments in life.

[@tizianadicastri7151]

I really liked this. A lot resonated with me. I liked Sarah's transparency as well, it felt like the advice I needed.

[@nataliecarmelinaann3119]

Wow love that - Eagle and seagulls! When I fight the fear and negative whispers of the enemy. "Your future husband will probably cheat on you" or "You know your love is too much, and you are going to scare him away." My usual reply to the enemy now is….. "yeah, you’re probably right. But then he’s not the man God has for me." I have found through this journey how God has really developed a deep understanding of unconditional love, seeing the value in a person, what stillness looks like, godly boundaries and a whollllllllllllllllllle heap of the p word…….. patience! 🙊 He has helped me to understand to look past what is presented to one’s character, then you can discern whether God is flying the red flags or it is something they are struggling with and just need someone to walk alongside them. However when it comes to a spouse forever is a very long time and we/you don’t want to mess that up. So waiting this side is so much easier than fighting the other side. I have done both! @Adam & Sarah Your content is so beautiful, I "stumbled" upon it last night when I couldn’t sleep. Then funnily enough today my mum randomly sent me two of your stories. 😮 needless to say I have bing watched you both today. Thank you for your honesty, integrity and transparency.

[@NowBloom]

Thank you, Natalie, for your awesome message, and for sharing with us! What a great respond you say when the enemy tries to discourage you! We are agreeing with you that the man God has for you is coming! Its funny you said "Eagles and Seagulls" because in 5 mins I'm releasing a new video called "Eagles or Roosters" over on my channel @Nowsoar, check it out, you will like it! God bless you, and thank you for watching our videos and kind words! Adam & Sarah

[@syd5831]

Am 20, not thinking about marriage but God and my passion. However thank you guys for these advice when choosing the right person.🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@vickymor3963]

I love you guys...you exude so much peace and Godliness..God bless your marriage

[@NowBloom]

Aw thank you so much 😍🙏

[@NowSoar]

Such a wonderful comment, thank you!!

[@jua.3348]

I agree, I’d love to hear Sarah’s story about how she got to this stage. Especially after watching a video on the enemy whispering insecurities to her at a young age. How did you overcome all of this ?

[@lucerobatista7604]

I started praying for my future husband intentionally and asked God to guide me and I randomly stumbled upon your page, what a blessing these videos have been. God bless you both greatly!

[@user-ur5fo9sf6k]

same heree!! :))

[@atiem5087]

Thank you so much for doing this video,i'm so blessed.I'm 40 and single,here in Asia the pressure is real to get married at this age. I learn so much from your video. God bless both of you!

[@mybrownsparklez]

“Wait for GOD’S best.” That’s deep. Cuz god is the creator of all so GOD’s best is probably DAMN good. Great message.

[@jumbojetlahore]

After having led homosexual lifestyle. God healed me I really pray daily that God will give me a wife who we will be able to help me grow in the Lord.

[@shertalkss]

The eagle and the seagull! Amazing! Beautiful video.

[@inez7609]

Currently waiting..its getting hard and i feel like im going mad. Will be 35 this year and women... yall already know 😮‍💨🙃. So hard for me to not get discouraged. I petition your prayers on my behalf please. Thank you for this video 👋🏾

[@holy_spirit_seeker]

Wow I love hearing the wisdom that the Lord has given you two. Sometimes God also just wants us to learn to wait on Him. It's like He is saying, If you never receive this relationship that you are praying for am I still enough for you? And Adam's comment about learning to wrestle with God is so true! When a relationship has depth there are real emotions involved and God wants us to take those to Him.

[@soy.ingrid]

They’re beautiful

[@andreatorluemke4982]

I remember recognizing that when I was very young. My womb is sacred. My child will come from here…. As women are vessels are precious! Everything about our hearts is precious and deserves protection

[@adolfconradigharas439]

Thank you so much brother and sister. I loved everything that was said, but the one that stuck with me is when you mentioned that in your waiting and single stages, when people told you to date someone you say to them "No my wife's coming". Don't settle for less, wait for GOD's best. Thank you for this video and the prayer guys. May GOD Bless you more

[@khosipenelope5731]

This is so good! "The bride of Christ"🙌♥️🔥

[@AlexisRomizzle12]

This video has helped me so much as a single mom, I’m going to trust God and just try my best into evolving and letting God redeem me to a better version that followed him and put him first.

[@harleighstringer]

im a single mom too and the thought of a godly man wanting me seems so insane, but im trusting the Lord

[@AlexisRomizzle12]

@@harleighstringer I share the same fears! But I’m surrendering it to Jesus and just going to love what he gives me and just focuz on keeping him the center of my ♥️ he wants more for us than we are aware of at this moment

[@jessicanicolebrown3493]

This opened my eyes tremendously as to why God hasn’t allowed me to meet my husband yet. He has what’s best in store for me Jeremiah 29:11. Thank you both for your Godly wisdom!

[@robynlovisa5096]

So needed this

[@bettymiller1308]

Great example. My mom's partner, went from not getting married again, to asking to get married in with in a month of dating. Which caused red flag for me. But, I didn't say anything yet. Now he is totally disregarding things and 3 times in 3 weeks he has wanted to pull quick marriage. But I keep reminding her of the fruits of virtue and the fruits of evil. He hyper critical doesn't attend church impatient angry vengeful and distrustful. Sadly my mom is lonely. An I am trying to encourage her to just to leave while not being demanding, as I don't want her to be lonely. But I know that as long as she delays it. The more blessings she may be blocking her blessing of a Christian man to match her heart.

[@tanishagilles]

I love this message, thank you so much. God also put on my heart that He wasn't going to give me an idol. If my husband found me today I would be so distracted and put them in God's place and I need to get that out of my system first.

[@hnoedgargarcia]

Wow. Just wanted to let you guys know that this video really touched my heart. The part when Adam talked about his experience waiting for a godly woman is pretty much the process that I am going through. Thanks for giving me hope guys! God bless! Also, modesty is truely beautiful.

[@C_ra2013]

That prayer 🔥🎯

[@kms_9323]

The prayer at the end broke me down to tears. Thank you for this video. Thank you for that prayer. Thank you for your honesty and your humbleness. Thank you for your caring hearts.

[@thaliamolina.]

I LOVEEE THIS SOO MUCHHH

[@viktoriadzhuha1481]

wow I'm in awe cause this is exactly what I needed to hear today & in this season in my life! Came across your channel today and have been watching so many of you videos and each one is speaking to me, so I wanted to say thank you for making these videos and keep them coming!

[@akuansiah292]

I really loved this video. So much wisdom in it! I love that I can watch you guys from Sydney. So thankful for your online ministry!

[@dee5904]

So good! Thanks guys!

[@GABIE1432]

This was so good wow 👏🏽👏🏽

[@navinjacob393]

Thanks..I needed this!!

[@angelofedenn]

Video really inspired me to pray to God for my future husband. About to be 19, really enjoying my singleness, it took me a while to enjoy it but i finally enjoy it. Now I’m gonna fast and be the woman God calls me to be until he knows I’m ready for a husband🤍

[@Akenn]

This was much needed, thank you!

[@coriemmett1363]

Thank you guys!!! I needed this! This helps a lot!

[@nenaugwuomo1802]

This was fantastic!

[@kimsannheng4036]

It's such a blessing message from both of you to me today. It's exactly what I wanted to hear, blessings

[@jessicavega334]

This is such a great video!

[@upliftbytoiwhitney]

This was so great. God bless you both!

[@mvuyiso_buyana]

So glad i found your channel, been binge watching your videos lately!❤

[@phumlaninela685]

Loved this. Thank you 🙌🏽

[@jhenapingul4962]

Thanks for all that you do!

[@kaytee5571]

This video was the answer to a lot of the questions I’ve had a single young woman. Bless you both. 🌻

[@isabeljaya2350]

love the wisdom in this video!

[@somethingaboutnay6019]

It’s good to remember gods best can also come in an imperfect form.

[@clara-christymrad]

Amen 🤍🙏🏻 this was sooooo helpful and encouraging! I just broke up with my boyfriend, God was giving me lots of red flags but I was so attached to him and I didn’t have the courage to say goodbye, now I can see clearly why it wasn’t meant to be!

[@sarahk6996]

Sarah i just found your channel!!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!! New subbie

[@angm2060]

This has moved my heart. Thank you for honesty and allowing me to know I am hearing from the Lord as he leads me to my husband this season.

[@civ6825]

Thank you thank you for sharing!! You don't know how much this mean for me!!

[@TheAlfa1Omega]

I love it when Adam prays for us! You guys are made for each other!

[@annaleah7890]

Thank you Adam and Sarah! 🌸

[@radiatechi1335]

Amen!! Loved it, definitely subscribing❤

[@briannenicoleerman]

loved the seagull vs eagle analogy. so so good

[@amorelleshemaiah]

The podcast was such a blessing. Thanks for sharing it. I appreciate your channel🎈💜

[@truebelieverinthelord7823]

Thank you for this video ❤️❤️

[@itzellbribiesca]

Thank you so much for this video. I really needed this today. ❤️

[@amorelleshemaiah]

Wonderful as usual…

[@Genesisthebeaut]

This is beautiful thank you both 🙏💯

[@adelineishimwe3383]

The video blessed me🙏❤️

[@julietgeorges7587]

Thank you for sharing. This is so refreshing to listen to. I am taking notes too!

[@RoSie-MoRies]

this is a great talk❤ Thank You for this sermon God❤

[@evaleparakuo996]

Thanks. Lovely video.

[@soldiers4god353]

Awesome video guys 😁💯🙏

[@redemptioninbloom]

Thank you for sharing! So refreshing to hear this! you guys are so good together; so precious!

[@tiowheeler7755]

Thanks for your sharing, loved it

[@RASHASA1237]

This were powerful GODLYNESS be blessed!!!

[@margari.tka19]

this is great interview, thank you

[@kingdomtalk3264]

This is good y’all 🙏🏽

[@peonyteeny]

This is just suchhh good quality content and conversation!!! Praise God 🙏🏻

[@prophetessbijouxlokoto-aka9218]

Excellent content and insight from both of you. God bless you both🙏

[@msangbro]

Thank you both for being an inspiration! May God bless your union.

[@peacebob-manuel7287]

This was a blessing...so blessed. Thank you guys for answering the call.

[@tessieahaiwe]

OMG!!! I'm so blessed by this video. Definitely subscribing!

[@Jen4Him7]

Wife Academy with the Flowers?? Loved that course!🥰 Also, the quote is by Pastor Andy Stanley. 🙌🏾

[@soy.ingrid]

You guys are so cute!! I loved hearing your testimony

[@itsmidtrib1569]

I'm glad Adam mentioned the bible highlighting part. My car got broken into and they stole my purse. The only thing that was in my purse was my Bible. It was very old and all highlighted, I knew where every verse was. I got a new Bible and I won't be highlighting it. At the end of the day what matters is that I have the scripture in mind and heart

[@wmatrose]

No one ever referred me to this Video but this was so beautiful to watch and very insightful, thank you to you Guys. Please continue doing these videos, they are helping us a lot.

[@ebafocused]

Very encouraging. Thanks guys 👍🏾

[@madisonouten487]

Thank you both so much for this video! It has spoken to me and has made me view being the best version of me for God and not for my potential spouse and the desire to want to become better for God and be close to Him is attractive and that it’s not necessary to wear certain clothes to seek attractive but that it’s the heart that attracts the godly partner!

[@sarahhemp5200]

This video has been such a blessing to me. I can’t wait to watch your testimonial video. Keep up the good work. God bless you :)