My aunts baby died because she got sent home by the hospital and she ended up having to give birth in her home and her baby had major complications and passed. So when the doctors told my mom to go home she refused and waited in the lobby the whole entire time.
@jl88056 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! That's horrible!
@msnorthern23415 жыл бұрын
😢😢I'm sorry
@cosmicallis79365 жыл бұрын
Omg that's horrible!!!😥😥😭😭💔💔💔 Smart of ur mom to do tho..I'd do the same especially since I'm not at all close to the hospital and I'm not one to take my chances w that kinda shitt!!!
@mode2004 жыл бұрын
Heard stories like that and I told those I know. Don't go back home. Hospital is where they should provide help for you 🤰🏽 emergency or not emergency. Your mom did well. 💕
@jesusdailywitheve16963 жыл бұрын
So sorry
@jasjas43565 жыл бұрын
It's important to note that talking, being asked question, bright lights, feeling exposed or watched, and feeling rushed are all things that can stall your labor, and it's extremely important to also be well informed before consenting to your waters being broken, and pictocin.
@apostate4apostate4943 жыл бұрын
Well informed in what regards?
@jasjas43563 жыл бұрын
@@apostate4apostate494 The pros & cons. Just like any intervention :)
@shannonclaire78003 жыл бұрын
Definitely 💯 especially Pictocin
@shweecarpenter4932 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! The nurses gave me pitocin without my knowledge or consent it was a slippery slope to an emergency c section and a failed epidural
@meghan80202 жыл бұрын
There certainly are things you can do to make your labour easier. Doctors have an awful habit of highjacking women's labours because it isn't going according to the hospitals arbitrary timeline. Firstly, we KNOW from the literature that stress significantly impacts the labour. It can slow the labour, halt the labour and even reverse the labour,. Many things can contribute to increase in stress during a woman's labour, including unsupportive medical staff, or birth partners, not having a private and quiet place to labour in or not being listened too, and not having access to natural pain medications. Another huge factor contributing to slowed labours are constant checks, monitoring and interventions, such as unnecessary cervical checks (there is zero evidence to confirm that CV's improve outcomes for women and babies - but substantial evidence that then can slow down the labour particularly for women who find them painful, or who are uncomfortable with the personal intrusion), the over use of inductive medication which DO increase the level of pain women report experiencing, and being relegated to supine positions on the bed/not able to move intuitively as their body would have them move. This usually occurs due to the insistence of some hospitals that constant fetal monitoring is necessary. Again, there is no evidence to suggest that constant fetal monitoring of women who have healthy and low risk pregnancy's increases maternal or neonatal outcomes. Different story if you're in the higher risk category. Being able to walk, move, use baths, balls, heat packs and showers during labour in low risk pregnancy's is known to improve outcomes and shorten labour time. The medical model of birth has saved the lives of many women and their babies. However, we can do better than just saving lives. The quality of a woman's labour and birth is important as well. Her physical health pp is important. Her mental health pp is important. I wish the medical maternity community would stop treating birth as though it is ONNLY dangerous. This is such a one sided narrow view of birth and it's so typical of a hospital to espouse this garbage - rather than empowering women to do what our bodies are naturally designed to do. If any ladies are reading this, please please please look up alternative channels to this one. Look into hypno birthing, natural pain relief techniques etc. as well as the availability pharmaceutical interventions incase you should need them. But understand that all come with risks as well as benefits. All doctors, midwives and hospitals are not made equal. Be informed. It's great to know and understand the medical model, but don't blindly trust hospitals either (as much as they do alot of good, they're not without their faults and systemic corruptions). Believe in your body, ask questions and don't allow yourself to be railroaded by ignorant hospital policies which sometimes care more about bed turnover, and profit than they do about your personal birth experience, and the health of you body during and after your birth.
@heidiellen17097 жыл бұрын
IDK about your hospital, but I've been sent home and I was genuinely in labour. I almost didn't go back as I was so insulted by the hospital's complete disregard to me actually telling them I was in labour. They did an exam and said I just 'think' I'm in labour, I came back about an hour later and had my baby within minutes. I almost stayed home to catch it myself as I didn't think the midwives were competent. It does happen, their excuse was that I handled the pain too well.
@vakapora086 жыл бұрын
That's bad practice on the hospitals part surely they could see cervical dialation when they checked you they should know women don't always need to exhibit pain in active labour phase...I didn't my second time until the last 20mins of pushing...either that or you dialated quickly and had a quick birth.. glad you made it through mama always knows best I say trust your instincts they should have
@alexavasquez19926 жыл бұрын
Do you live in the UK?
@michelleholder135 жыл бұрын
The medical industry is incompetent to the fact that every woman's experience differs and they make bad calls!
@michelleholder135 жыл бұрын
@@vakapora08 facts
@Edbeatty917 жыл бұрын
Don't like how she didn't talk about natural things, walking, change position, keep moving, get in water, etc but talked only about medical interventions. Really like all the videos overall
@MaenaRS7 жыл бұрын
agree
@melodyjane717 жыл бұрын
I've seen that pattern in videos from this channel.
@lazers287 жыл бұрын
I mean, it's from a hospital. That's what they know. If you want info on natural childbirth techniques find another source
@hannahscott66046 жыл бұрын
How to Life they want your $$$
@monikfreak195 жыл бұрын
Walking like that is something they allow you to do
@tbd9167 жыл бұрын
The actual answer to the question starts at 2:55
@klaudiaolah42825 жыл бұрын
Isha thk hero
@nujuumarts63077 жыл бұрын
Iam just looking at her eyes!
@josehuerta89417 жыл бұрын
nujuum Arts I'm just looking at her eyebrows
@nujuumarts63077 жыл бұрын
Jose Huerta she has strange aye barrows
@anntuxx69896 жыл бұрын
I’m 7 moths pregnant 🤰🏻after all this time watching this videos I got used to them her advices are really good
@ILoveAnchovies3346 жыл бұрын
its her mascara ..its a little mascary
@michelleholder135 жыл бұрын
Yea boy
@anablogs92847 жыл бұрын
How about using a pilates ball to help your baby descend? How about back rubs? How about giving birth in a gravity neutral or favorable position?
@hannahscott66046 жыл бұрын
Ana Blogs yes!!!! Lying on a bed is not a natural birthing position
@mzzkc865 жыл бұрын
Right!!!
@thelmabukikun14852 жыл бұрын
Thats right, there are several things that can speed up labour and one of them is walking and keeping yourself in upright position
@abbieruth83736 жыл бұрын
With my first baby I had a midwife refuse to do my labor with me because she didnt "do long labors." Because she assumed with my first baby it would be long. Turned out I was only in labor for 5 hrs, including the 15 minutes of pushing. Really wished I could of thrown that in thst midwives face. She was so rude to me. But the midwife I did get, was amazing and I loved her! Hope to get her again this next pregnancy.
@maggiebadillo25896 жыл бұрын
labor is when u start to dilate. and hospitals dont admit u until ur in "active" labor, 4cm. so yea hospitals will send you home if ur in early labor.
@Elizabethatthebeach4 жыл бұрын
Youre so right... this is their routine procedure... I wish my body would follow the rules!! 😂 I dilate to 4 cm, then hang out there for several hours...with minimal discomfort...then Bam!, go to 10 in less than a min, and deliver fast and furious(not as glamorous as it sounds).... so, if my obs and midwives followed their routine, I'd have all unattended, homebirths...(I've had one)... with hemorrhaging risks from the past... I'm glad to have providers who listen to the mom and go with their instincts when appropriate...😍
@Vickyy_3 жыл бұрын
Well, my nephew was due today. His momma is walking around with 4cm already 2 weeks. They keep sending her home.
@saymatattooremovalchannel92645 жыл бұрын
My first labour was only 3.5 hours and I’m 26 weeks now and worried I’ll only have an hour before he comes out 😅
@aaliyahsmith28322 жыл бұрын
I was 18 when I had my baby and it was my first and from the time my water broke to the time I had my daughter my labour was only 6 hours! I had a midwife show me exercises and stretches to help me get baby in ready position for a faster labour.
@qmr0n2 жыл бұрын
Can you describe these exercises and stretches?
@mode2004 жыл бұрын
Love how you explain it, thanks 🙏 . I was 10cm with my first but then rushed for c. Section. 😢😥
@humanbeing39464 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. For what reason you were rushed for c section despite full dilation?
@mode2004 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing3946 delivery was not progressing as they hoped after 10cm, and the baby drinking amniotic fluid and I was too tired to do any bushing the waiting was to long ? Maybe epitdoria was a bad idea? Yeah. It's past now. I thank God 🙏
@ashleyperez68323 жыл бұрын
I ate Dates after 36 weeks daily and walked. Did some kind of squat thing I found on KZbin for two days and i believe it made my water break. My water broke by itself 4 days before my due date at 9 a.m and had a baby at 4:45pm first time baby. I feel like I would’ve had her earlier if I would’ve known she was going to be 8.8 lbs instead of thinking she would be 6! Would’ve pushed harder to begin with.
@ashleyashleym29695 жыл бұрын
She really needs to mention that the trend is that labors tend to get shorter the more pregnancies youve had, that it's not always the case. My mom had an 8 hour labor with her first and a 16 hours labor with her second... I mean that's not usually the case, but it happens.
@carolthomas87916 жыл бұрын
17 weeks pregnant with my second so excited to see my lil princess
@Kyrabri4 жыл бұрын
How did you find out the gender at 17 weeks? I have to wait till 18-22 weeks . I hate this . It’s so not fair. I wish they would tell me my gender sooner. But regardless I just wish for a healthy baby.
@wiewiorkaoswicie5582 жыл бұрын
It would be nice to mention exercises and movement during labor, using the toilet regularly and having a peaceful, calm time without bright lights and tons of onlookers... These are scientifically proven to help the baby engage and move downwards/keep the right oxytocin levels naturally. It's misleading to only mention medical procedures.
@MarinaMik5 жыл бұрын
Hm thats weird. It was totally opposite with my mom. Her first labors were faster/easier than the last ones.
@dianaonyango58145 жыл бұрын
A lot of misinformation and assumptions from this video
@purplecowmovement76775 жыл бұрын
How does this talk about what helps with labour?
@anon-di6cl4 жыл бұрын
It gives women more knowledge of how labour progresses because many new mums are anxious when they first feel any slight twinge. They race off to hospital, I did this with my 1st. I learnt later it’s better to labour at home for majority of contractions because it’s much more comfortable at home. Your labour progresses faster when your comfortable. A hospital setting can feel artificial, white, bright lights and can make a woman more anxious. I remember hearing a woman give birth in the room next to me she was screaming so bad and it made me feel scared. I got in the hospital shower and didn’t feel at ease, I sat in the bed and the mattess and pillows are very firm with plastic feel. At home a woman can be snug in her warm bed, get in her bath, watch a movie to pass the time, there’s food and drinks available she knows where everything is, etc But of course a hospital setting can ease anxiety to a degree for a lot of women because once they get there they know they and their baby are in safe hands. I think they are just trying to educate people to help them not feel as angry or upset if they get sent home because they are only 2 cm dialated. They don’t care that people come in because it’s good they come in to check so they confirm whether it’s labour or not it’s just they can’t have heaps of women sitting in beds for hours on end when there is a lot of women who have progressed and need to birth their child quickly. It’s just triaging and standard practice plus education for mums
@waizanwargill20166 жыл бұрын
It's my 2nd month of pregnancy and I'm so afraid of delivery time😟😟😟😟
@brianichelle12366 жыл бұрын
Waiz Anwar GilL just focus on your baby and the excitement of that. Labor and delivery should be the least of your worries.
@waizanwargill20166 жыл бұрын
You right 😍
@Moscririna6 жыл бұрын
Waiz Anwar GilL educate yourself on hypnobirthing: not for the goal of a painless birth, but for understanding that we are made for giving birth and there is nothing to fear. Learn to trust your body, surrender and breathe - it's a beautiful journey.
@tobymarley16 жыл бұрын
Don't even think about .... it'll suck the enjoyment out of your pregnancy. You'll be okay though, your body was designed to do this.
@waizanwargill20166 жыл бұрын
Thnku awll 😃😍😍
@thelmabukikun14852 жыл бұрын
I thought i was the only one who freaked out because of her eyes.lol.
@preciousclarke83866 жыл бұрын
Sigh. I wish I wasn't pregnant rite now. Im already in pain in just 15 week's
@shainapaige85493 жыл бұрын
16 weeks and 5 days I feel you 🤦🏻♀️
@cloevincent6486 жыл бұрын
Okay one thing i would add. Is if your mom or granmother had fast labor you are likely yo have a faster labor. My first i was onlt in labor for 4 hours.
@sonyajeffkaisabenjaminsuem8853 жыл бұрын
God bless.
@umuhtaymiya10866 жыл бұрын
your eyes is buaety full🤗
@mamakayasmr89986 жыл бұрын
My first baby I was only in labor 7 hours
@diflacamaya19936 жыл бұрын
You the best make me little easy to understanding everything for me new baby
@a2thejizzle9927 жыл бұрын
I love the way you say baby. Its neat.
@brendasollers97505 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be a first time mom,I think mind going to go fast because I'm always in pain off and on I really hope I don't have to wait to long for labor
@WhitneyOsei5 жыл бұрын
Brenda Sollers that doesn't mean your labor will be fast. You wont know until it happens.
@sssloves88196 жыл бұрын
In my case for my first pregnancy it was not that pain full like my second pregnancy I m almost 38 weeks now and I have too much pain in my pelvis or cervix area some time it’s make me cry to much because I can take it but in my first pregnancy was not that painful so I m not agree with that second pregnancy is more easier than first one
@runnerupcsal82413 жыл бұрын
What happens if youve been contracting back to back for 10 hours without stopping and without dialating? Then you start to get a fever and feel like you're about to faint? Wouldn't that be considered labour and being home a bad idea?
@ICXC_Humbly2 жыл бұрын
A fever during labor or late pregnancy is a potential sign of an infection that can cause serious injury or death to the baby or mother and ALWAYS warrants being checked into a hospital. Labor or no.
@katarzynaant59445 жыл бұрын
This is not a good content. neither is it fully true nor positive for pregnant women to listen to.
@alexagg76403 жыл бұрын
I agree, the content almost has some sort of "negative context". I had to stop watching.
@amyannshipyor40963 жыл бұрын
My first labor was ten hours and my second was 8.5 hours.
@LovelyLauraLou10 жыл бұрын
Exercise doesn't help?
@IntermountainMoms10 жыл бұрын
Hello! It's Nurse Dani. If you exercised before getting pregnant and continued to be vigilant during the pregnancy, then you've been doing yourself a favor for sure! Exercise helps you to gain the appropriate amount of weight during pregnancy, decreases your chances of developing complications like gestational diabetes and chronic hypertension, and of course, it makes you feel better about yourself. As for the effects of exercise on labor, it might make it easier for your body to endure the process of labor and there are theories that it might help you push less on your first baby; I also think that women who have been endurance runners in the past are better able to coordinate breathing with pain and cope with the pain of labor. With that said, it doesn't affect your cervix's ability to dilate or the time in which it does dilate. If you have been exercising, continue to do so unless otherwise directed by your doctor. It will definitely help you recover more quickly...and you can resume exercise as soon as your doctor gives you the green light, usually around 6 weeks after a vaginal delivery and 8 weeks after a c/section. If you have more questions in the future for me, please feel free to ask them on our Facebook page at facebook.com/intermountainmoms!
@harringt1009 жыл бұрын
+IntermountainMoms I read somewhere that moms who are well-conditioned before pregnancy and continue their exercise during pregnancy have, on average, two hours less of active labor.
@kaylamichelle233 жыл бұрын
What’s your opinion on having a normal birth after having a 3-4 degree tear with your first child 5 years ago??
@brrberrymerry Жыл бұрын
*Seggs.* Okay Imma take myself out now.
@divine34j7 жыл бұрын
hi, could you please make a video about giving birth naturally after having a c-section?
@jamiearmstrong21735 жыл бұрын
divine34j If you have a c section you can never give birth vaginally after. You will have to have another c section
@For_What5 жыл бұрын
@@jamiearmstrong2173 this is not true at all. I had 2 c-sections and gave birth vaginally with my 3rd and will be going natural with my 4th InshaAllah.
@itismelovelie2 жыл бұрын
Depending on the reason as to why you ended up csection the first time, your provider will assess you if you are a good candidate for normal delivery or not.
@aiyshaallu45476 жыл бұрын
I am pregnant for the second time, my fist delivery was c-section my question is can I have a normal delivery this time??
@asankacrys37415 жыл бұрын
Aiysha Allu did you have second one normal plz reply today
@For_What5 жыл бұрын
Yes you can
@For_What5 жыл бұрын
@@asankacrys3741 you can too it you had a c-section. I've had 2 c-sections and my 3rd child was a vaginal delivery. Im currently pregnant with my 4th and last child and will have yet again, another vaginal birth InshaAllah.
@shamimanasrin50475 жыл бұрын
Hello. My daughter's age is only 22 days. Before delivery my every report was in normal. But at last moment the doctor checked and said the baby pooped inside the womb so they had to do c section immediately. My delivery was done in Jemson Redcresent Hospital Chittagong. I want to know if there is any possibIlity of VBAC. If yes then how should I work on recovering my body soon. How early can I go for VBAC. Please make a complete video tutorial on it.
@jessicataylor57286 жыл бұрын
I have heard that labor with my 2nd baby will be about twice as fast as my first but being that I was induced the first time, is there anyway to tell how fast this labor will go? My first (induced) labor was only a little over 7 hours, from the time they inserted the cytotek to the time my baby was born. Is there anyway to kind of have an idea at what length of labor I may be looking at this time, if I go into labor naturally (no induction)? I apologize if this question is confusing. I was hard to word this question!
@React-with-Rubab6 жыл бұрын
M 36 weeks pregnant... so much worried about normal delivery.. how can I deliver .. :(
@React-with-Rubab6 жыл бұрын
@@amrinavloguk8587 ALLAH pak blessed me with a Baby Girl Alhamdulilah
@remlitube16845 жыл бұрын
Mashaa Allah Alehamdulilah Allahu Akeber mebruk
@albs14484 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 you'll do it like all the other women before you, they pushed out a human being and it was painful as hell but worth it
@ICXC_Humbly2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if having labored over 18 hours as a FTM (then having that birth end in c-section) can still allow my body to birth a little bit faster than if I never labored at all for my up and coming vbac... I remember my the 1st time... even after having had the epidural... feeling the baby's weight down there cause a ton of pressure, so much so, I thought I needed to push. Helpful?
@KiRa-fy6uq2 жыл бұрын
My first was extremely fast. They gave me pitocin at 6 am and I had my.boy at 8 am I know 2 other women who's first kids they had in 4 hours. I am related to them so maybe our family just births babies fast lol
@katiefanning16875 жыл бұрын
Evil woman, if a woman if in pain do not tell her she is not in Labour it only scares them because if the pain is already severe they panic thinking about how bad it is going to be.
@arielholloway61695 жыл бұрын
But if a woman isn't in labor, there's not much to do because she isn't in labor. She may just be in bad pain. They shouldn't lie to her if she isnt
@srinandinikrishnamurthy42186 жыл бұрын
Hi I had an emergency c section because of fibrosed cervix because of cercelage Is there any chance of me delivering my second baby vaginally? I had a second trimester abortion at 17 weeks before having my daughter
@vinodyashamen6726 жыл бұрын
i would like to know why small drops of blood comes out with urine. im 30weeks pregnant
@hannahscott66046 жыл бұрын
Vinodya Shamen I believe this may be a sign of pre clampsia or a complication. I’d visit your local OB asap and see what they say
@angelafairfax71773 жыл бұрын
...great...I have to shit out a bowling ball
@devilbaby07 жыл бұрын
hi i have a question. im pregnant with my 2nd child. my first at 39 weeks i was induced... will my doctor induce me again or will i go into labor normal?
@kaylabateson15857 жыл бұрын
it to talk to your boyfriend. where you in labor
@taishahaywood91022 жыл бұрын
Scared shitless
@mdkhalil96805 жыл бұрын
My pregnancy according to lmp is 34 wks but at scan its showing 31 wks...plz tell me wat is the reason wat can i do
@slumberzombie5 жыл бұрын
Either 34 or 31 you're on that same bracket.. your due according to LMP or scan will still vary, there's no accurate date.
@dukelewis88905 жыл бұрын
Well that my first time
@oceaniccurrents3 жыл бұрын
Get an epidural
@asianladyasian30417 жыл бұрын
Hi nurse dani we loss our baby a year ago and we're planning to try again on 2018 any tips on what should I start taking ?
@katherinerojas2237 жыл бұрын
JenJen Asian prenatal vitamins to strengthen your body, workout, eat healthy. I did all this after my miscarriage, got pregnant again, I had a healthy pregnancy and gave birth to a healthy handsome baby boy!😊
@xochitlcalderon27178 жыл бұрын
That's not true my baby number 3 wAs the worst and was longer ,,,!!!???
@Tzara867 жыл бұрын
probably because you knew what was coming and maybe got more scared :P
@janae43455 жыл бұрын
Yo im not even pregnant😂
@sweets67294 жыл бұрын
what is with these eyebrows???
@xxXMekoXxx7 жыл бұрын
Your wrong my first baby was born within 6-7 hours it doesn't matter what number baby it is everyone's different! wish people would stop categorizing every pregnancy and birth so annoying.
@Diazraym097 жыл бұрын
xXPog&MayaXx it's just a generalization. Studies have shown that 1st time mommas usually have a long active labor.
@raemills30896 жыл бұрын
Statistically speaking she's right. You're an outliner. Congrats.
@sabreenaberry38106 жыл бұрын
She said most people not all people. But you can make it all about you that’s fine too.
@vakapora086 жыл бұрын
Everyone's different my first two 7hrs and 5hrs but that's not what she meant it's more about if it's not your first time it's generally but not always quicker as you have done it before.. And usually first births will be longer than second ones etc.. Based on that hoping my number 3 due in 4 weeks is under 5hrs based on pattern of previous two but I'm open to accepting whatever happens... Better to prepare first timers by saying it can take a long time so they are prepared as not everyone is as lucky as we were to have single digit hours of labour
@xochitlcalderon27178 жыл бұрын
That's not true my baby number 3 wAs the worst and was longer ,,,!!!???
@summerbritton60706 жыл бұрын
Xochitl Calderon she just means typically. Your situation is atypical.