What Creates an Avoidant & How To Help an Avoidant Heal

[@tinyfacemcgee9211]

She must be a fearful avoidant like me, that explains the flip flop and the faulty logic to go back with them. So hard! I’m struggling with this too. More videos like this please💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@kennyweiss]

You can see all the videos I've done about Love Avoidants by searching for 'Kenny Weiss Love Avoidants.' I'm glad you found this one helpful! 😊

[@DavidAmason-o4e]

You are right on with the diagnosis

[@alera520]

This is true. I’m so isolated for 3 years but, I don’t want to continue pushing away everyone, I am going though so many levels of this and my wake up call has been that an ex I push away killed himself in October and since then I can’t no longer continue being this way.. I’m avoidant to extreme in a lot of pain and now starting again with healing after this horrific news.. I took too long to heal and go back to him.

[@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696]

I truly hope you aren't blaming yourself for what your ex did to permanently make an end.

[@alera520]

@ I feel the guild of being part of the problem as I took a time to heal and isolated myself for two years when I reached out he was not responsive

[@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696]

@@alera520 You are not responsible for someone who chooses to take themselves out. That was their choice, you were busy taking care of yourself, correct? Well, that person could have reached out for help from a professional and chose not to, if you want to hold on to that guilt and shame, that's your decision and your choice, but know that it is not your cross to bear. Nothing you could have done would have stopped this person from the choice that they made. You cannot control the actions of other people, only your own.

[@alera520]

@ thank you for you kind words, I go back in forward between if I could have done something about it, I did reached out and try to reconnect before he took himself out but, he was cold and did not want it to continue talking so I leave him alone thinking he was already with someone else though to respect his space then a few days later this happen and I felt that if I just have continue insisting he would of be here today… but, then I think he also chose to not reconnect and go on with his plans.. you are right on all you say. Thank you 😔🙏🏻❤️‍🩹

[@nbf_279]

just to (help) not help to listen god bless you and may he rest in the arms of heavens best amen

[@Stardustpal25]

Thank you for this lesson 🌱💜💫

[@kennyweiss]

You are so very welcome!

[@Youtubewonderer]

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