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@Empath-gh8jq
@Empath-gh8jq 33 минут бұрын
My childhood was filled with a mother that never wanted children. i was adopted and she hated me. My father was an abusive alcoholic. I started to notice that i could feel others emotional states at age 10 . I had no idea what an empath was till about 7 yrs ago. It guided me to avoid certain ppl throughout life.
@genuinsanity
@genuinsanity 34 минут бұрын
That's it , I'm going to shave my head , wear a purple robe and hang out in airports and pass out this guy's photo to travelers .
@ericawright8983
@ericawright8983 Сағат бұрын
Anyone here in 2025 still going through this?
@sj2871
@sj2871 4 сағат бұрын
It is still hard to feel my own pain and to love my self unconditionally, this regardless that I am very conscious of it. Still struggle with a lot of deep shame to love myself.
@suzsiz
@suzsiz 4 сағат бұрын
Yep cus then dark personalities cant use it against you. 🥳
@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696
@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696 4 сағат бұрын
I didn't have darkness, I was made to hold everyone else's darkness. When I confronted everyone's judgments: they had nothing to do with me.
@graceselfe8628
@graceselfe8628 4 сағат бұрын
That's me X to the point that I'm now sick X and I'm sure noticing the dynamics of how I'm viewed within my family now we are organising my dad funeral x
@Debbie-pq4xr
@Debbie-pq4xr 5 сағат бұрын
Thank you, Kenny. ❤
@genuinsanity
@genuinsanity 5 сағат бұрын
"TRAPpings" of success ....and how.
@genuinsanity
@genuinsanity 5 сағат бұрын
I tick all the boxes...life wrecking poverty and NEVER getting the job I want , thus awful , high chaos jobs and unstable ,crappy housing . 60 years old and health took a hit now.
@pascm564
@pascm564 6 сағат бұрын
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH, PENNY
@PNWgirl7
@PNWgirl7 6 сағат бұрын
How do I go about fixing that? I have forgiven, I’m a good person, but that spot inside still feels empty.
@isabellrc
@isabellrc 7 сағат бұрын
It truly saddens my soul knowing so very many people are living with this same sense of self. And, then the outcomes…
@lissab8459
@lissab8459 7 сағат бұрын
Hullo Kenny, still doing the work to get better, thank you.
@JulietteZephyr
@JulietteZephyr 5 сағат бұрын
Self love
@JulietteZephyr
@JulietteZephyr 5 сағат бұрын
We are all just a work in progress...
@Purposes8
@Purposes8 7 сағат бұрын
Thank you
@cherylanderson1308
@cherylanderson1308 7 сағат бұрын
Yes l did have
@solutions4tenants141
@solutions4tenants141 8 сағат бұрын
True Self Love True Self Esteem. Thank you Kenny.
@JulietteZephyr
@JulietteZephyr 5 сағат бұрын
Self love > egocentrism
@cherylanderson1308
@cherylanderson1308 8 сағат бұрын
My husband doing this what can l say to stop him
@alohaseemaui
@alohaseemaui 8 сағат бұрын
we sometimes feel we are not enough. we desire to be accepted, loved & wanted however this comes at a high cost. it is important to understand that we provide our own self worth. caring for others is a noble profession but boundaries s should be kept to avoid self hurt. know that humans may not appreciate your loving care. when we understand that then we are aware of our iwn vulnerability & now have the ability to protect our heart ❤️. "above all guard your heart"Proverbs 4: 23 Dr Lydia 🌺 alohaseemaui🌺
@isabellrc
@isabellrc 7 сағат бұрын
YES! Taking care of others in a multitude of ways is necessary as humans. Yet, it needs to be through people who understand their own needs, and have good boundaries all around. Love your post!
@alohaseemaui
@alohaseemaui 6 сағат бұрын
@isabellrc Mahalo for your kindness dr lydia
@betsybatwin3248
@betsybatwin3248 15 минут бұрын
Amen to that I just get walked on yet it is so ingrained in me I can't stop always wanting to please others:-(
@solutions4tenants141
@solutions4tenants141 8 сағат бұрын
I feel you Kenny. I was my Dads foot rub go to girl as well while he watched his football games.!
@AscensionDust
@AscensionDust 9 сағат бұрын
Shout this from the rooftops! We all need to heal on a global scale! This improves discernment, mental clarity, and emotional balance!
@AscensionDust
@AscensionDust 9 сағат бұрын
Shout this from the rooftops! We all need to heal on a global scale! This improves discernment, mental clarity, and emotional balance!
@camarorules1
@camarorules1 10 сағат бұрын
But she shouldn't have put my grandkids in the middle...so unfair for them and me
@brucolerba
@brucolerba 10 сағат бұрын
that's my future ex wife.
@carlbartron
@carlbartron 10 сағат бұрын
I wouldn't have gave them the 2nd chance. You lie to me once I'm done
@SimplyMulani
@SimplyMulani 10 сағат бұрын
I need parenting lessons.
@genuinsanity
@genuinsanity 11 сағат бұрын
Self love / acceptance . Thank you Kenny . Life is improving on all strata....what a relief .
@ArtsCraftsAntiquity
@ArtsCraftsAntiquity 11 сағат бұрын
I was told by my narcissistic mom when I was 10-12 years old “no one can make you feel any way you don’t want to feel”.
@carolemiller4464
@carolemiller4464 11 сағат бұрын
Thank you
@carolemiller4464
@carolemiller4464 11 сағат бұрын
I HAVE HAD A FEAR OF SUCCESS FOR DECADES. I FEEL TERROR THAT COMES UP KNOWING I WILL BE SUCCESSFUL. THEN MY FEELING SHIFTS TO FEELING LOST AND HELPLESS. I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!!! HOW DO I MOVE FORWARD????
@fredspoon
@fredspoon 11 сағат бұрын
This is 100% my mother
@prophet1782
@prophet1782 12 сағат бұрын
Isn't that Narcissism ??
@rayotoole9351
@rayotoole9351 13 сағат бұрын
Hanlon's Law ' Never attribute to malice that which can be explained by ignorance.'
@cindyarnold3003
@cindyarnold3003 13 сағат бұрын
Its sometimes hard to own our mistakes, very hard. I want to be honest with myself and others. I believe it is necessary if Im ever going to be fully self aware and begin to live the life I want to lead.
@JudithMcCarthy-m6i
@JudithMcCarthy-m6i 14 сағат бұрын
OMG Cringe-making hearing this! Thank goodness I am no longer so hyper vigilant- thanks to all your past videos etc. Being comfortable in your own skin makes a person more peaceful within and easier for others to be around. Having hobbies and interests = more peaceful life. Kenny, this work is life-long.
@lynncampbell8967
@lynncampbell8967 14 сағат бұрын
I so needed to hear this!
@brucolerba
@brucolerba 14 сағат бұрын
I loved this video
@Yvonne775
@Yvonne775 15 сағат бұрын
This would explain it
@deniseunknown4576
@deniseunknown4576 16 сағат бұрын
I needed this video today. I accept less than I deserve and give more than I should. This video has enlightened me. Thank you so much 💞
@decide.lifecoaching
@decide.lifecoaching 16 сағат бұрын
I appreciate the word hurt vs. broken or damaged... so useful!
@brucolerba
@brucolerba 17 сағат бұрын
Man you need to use a better microphone. come on. the rest is amazing. thank you
@PerfectoGarcia-n3q
@PerfectoGarcia-n3q 17 сағат бұрын
But my God my Lord and Savior my Lord healed me
@PerfectoGarcia-n3q
@PerfectoGarcia-n3q 17 сағат бұрын
I got beat by my father and I mean I remember beating at 3 years old and I mean ever chance he got
@ProjectPhotos
@ProjectPhotos 18 сағат бұрын
Idk if you really gave a sht youd help people the best you can for free your statement for those of you with money is just absurd most dont have money but in your eyes oh well ill only really help here on this free platform if you pay me..your greed show you dont gaf...cuz if you did youd offer everything you have to everyone for free for the benefit of innocent children and the help of us parents
@9mokopunas
@9mokopunas 18 сағат бұрын
Thank you ❤
@cindyarnold3003
@cindyarnold3003 18 сағат бұрын
I need to have this info tattooed on my forehead! I keep these videos saved so I can revisit them until I absorb the lesson. Thank you Kenny!❤
@meowsitgoin1937
@meowsitgoin1937 18 сағат бұрын
I have a hard time matching energy because it never feels genuine for me, so personally I always feel true to myself when I just remove my energy altogether and give it where it feels more natural
@iamimperfectionperfected4
@iamimperfectionperfected4 19 сағат бұрын
My emptiness doesn't come from that my emptiness comes from all the loved ones I've lost. And I'm not saf that they died. I'm sad I got left behind. Once I became an adult I said look it's up to you to fulfill your life If you're going to stay here and still wine and complain about childhood you're never going to get over it and you're choosing to live that kind of life. Choose everyday to say I'm an adult now whatever happened to the child that's over.
@cindyarnold3003
@cindyarnold3003 19 сағат бұрын
I try to let the ghoster go with love, it hurts, but once I get over my initial hurt I tell myself its for the best.
@cindyarnold3003
@cindyarnold3003 20 сағат бұрын
Sounds like a plan, accountability on both sides. Nobody is perfect, it takes work to have any relationship. I am not a parent, but I was a child. I could see both my parents were flawed. I just dont want to stay a child living unconsciously. I want to heal .❤