What Did Your Ex RUIN For You?

[@demoneon9527]

She ruined Wisconsin for me. Joking. Never been but she was from there.

[@Ammanthiel]

I get that. My ex ruined the Netherlands for me. I associate it with him and I’m ashamed about it.

[@CrimsonFoxxo]

Ruined Role play, trust, and who I was before… I am more alone than ever now. Used to see her everyday until she moved to Texas, then she moved back and I ask if she wants to hangout. She says sure and we hangout but do nothing really, just chat, pet her new kitty and a little cuddling. Then I truly realize, she never cared for me, never liked me, and just felt sorry for me. I gave up on her and haven’t gone back to her since. I hope she is happier without me.

[@megatron8449]

I guess feeling like I'm cared about.

[@JonathanFerguson-dj3ez]

The idea of true love.

[@VegetaHimself]

Trust. Number one ingredient in any working relationship/marriage.

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

My exceptions parent that I'm struggling to rehome myself ruins my individual plans of going to my 10 year reunion by slapping a vacation week over me, further shattering my heart.

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

My ex mother.

[@Cherubim666999]

Wtf did you attempt to say?

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

I rebuilt the trust with one person three times. And it's extremely difficult to find another unbiased person in the world.

[@tacet6344]

😅😅😅wow

[@Mystwarrior1]

So possibly having a child with my current wife. Basically my ex and I had a child when we were still in HS. So I told my current wife (who wishes to give birth) that I don't want to have another child until we have our own place. Now we do. Now we are trying. I'm diabetic. We are both almost 40. Our window is closing assuming it isnt closed already.

[@Cherubim666999]

Story 23 and more so 24 both have issues period 24...sooo you rather a man ignore you, not look at your body, touch you etc? So what this person wants is a roommate with money and not a relationship.

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

No kids yet...

[@DOG-mm3sg]

Story 15: huh??? Is he serious? She was lucky to get away from him. What a simp.

[@exodiatheforbid9355]

The girl in story 18 dodged a bullet. MHA fans are unironic freaks.

[@DarkSeraph]

What about the people who like MHA but hate the fanbase and don't interact with them?

[@exodiatheforbid9355]

@@DarkSeraph pray for them. They are in dangerous waters.

[@whocares8584]

Now I know this is gonna sound silly especially since I find it unfair for some1 to lose the ability to trust others especially those of the opposite s3x because of a relationship even if its more than 1 relationship that helped ruin it. With that said the thing my ex ruined for me is the phrase "Phuck the bull shite" Before her I had no issue when ppl said it. But because of her its now ruined it was her favorite phrase & said it for everything & at anytime even at the wrong time. 1 of these was she would moan it during s3x especially when she was about to climax. To top it off it was unnecessary loud. So it would not only distract me but because at the time I had roomates & our place was the hang out spot since that's were we threw parties & also were we would have all night Halo sessions it was awkward to do it because every1 could hear. I remember my roomate had his gf over once while I was with my gf going at it & as usual she was moaning "phuck the bullspit phuck the bullspit come on phuck the bull spittttt over & over. So later my friend told me she ruined his love making because his gf couldn't get into it with her being so loud. I also had complaints from neighbors even when I tried muffling her moans by having her put her face in the pillow. There was also once where we were in a more professional setting having a friendly discussion now I don't remember exactly what we were talking about but when she shimed in she kept saying you get what im saying phuck the bs or you know what I mean phuck the bs. So after her I cant hear it anymore it irks me to hear some1 say it & if it's some1 I know I'll ask politely if they can try to refrain from saying it around me.

[@whocares8584]

Now this is a different relationship & she ruined future relationships for me. Not in the way you're thinking where something she did ruined how I felt in future relationships not she literally ruined actual possible future relationships. Now even b4 her I wasnt into social media much I just didn't find the appeal of telling every1 my business what im wearing or what I ate that day etc... however she begged me to join some apps & or sites after some time I gave in. Pretty much off the back i wasnt into it. Idk what it is or why ppl do it but it seems like some ppl just have to be toxic & are bitter so they want every1 to feel the same so when I 1st joined it was cool it wasnt til she put our relationship status on blast & ppl found out we were together that guys started flirting or saying flirty things or complimenting her. Normally I don't care if ppl find my gf attractive it actually feels good but 1 it was happening way too much & you could tell they were doing it on purpose. Whats worse is she allowed it she wouldn't say stop I got a man & some of these were in a group chat she added me to so these were her friends. Not to mention it wasnt just innocent compliments like oh you look pretty today or telling me you're a lucky guy. They would be specific & vulgar like your arse looks good or that they were turned on by her pix. It gets worse tho because as I said she didnt stop it & sometimes would giggle about it. However if I even said hi back to a female friend of hers she would get pissed off & I'd get DM's claiming im cheating or that im trying to hook up with that girl. Which was crazy given the stuff she let get away with. So when I told her that she told me its just them being toxic because theyre bitter & jealous that she's with me & not them which as I said I kinda knew but still it didn't feel good that she didn't shut it down or having to hear or see it constantly. However as usual whether its the guy or the girl in the relationship if she or he is constantly accusing their partner of cheating 9 times outta 10 theyre the 1 cheating & I found out she was cheating so I dumped her. This is where the literal ruining of future relationships comes in. So since this app/site had private group chats as well as public ones & was also a dating site I decided to give it a shot maybe I'd meet some1 worth my while. Which I did find a few that caught my eye. However my ex was stalking me so if she saw a girl compliment my pic or talking to me in the public chat she would either message them privately or in the chat & say in her man & we have kids or say I wasnt worth their time because im a cheater or that I had a small 1 etc... even when I could & would show evidence such as screen shots of the contrary like where it shows she cheated or even about the size of it where she sent text about how she wanted me to come over because she misses my big fat D it was too late they didnt wanna deal with all the drama. So I lost out on what could've been. Not to mention she technically ruined social media for me since I stopped getting on it because of her.

[@Sniffler666]

Rufus ar you a Sniffler??

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

16:34 same

[@whosyodaddy763]

She ruined my ability to love and trust women

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

Ex not exceptions

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

Story 23, exactly the amount of damage my mother did to me.

[@angelpandadaylane4924]

Story 20 mhm

[@shruikenman69]

1st

[@shoestringproductions9217]

Lucky MF