WHAT DO MEN LOOK FOR IN A WOMAN? | Okyeame Kwame

Today I'll be talking to Okyeame Kwame about marriage, courting, sex before marriage, and how to ensure you choose a partner wisely.
We discuss what it's like when two families marry in Africa and the right way for it to be done. The traditional way.
Let's hear what he has to say.
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[@SuperKwame1]

Marriage is a hard work. Particularly when one person is not willing to make a commitment.

[@bernardaddo7488]

Africans 🖤🖤🖤🖤 we need this conversation. Dela thank U for the talk 🙏🏽🙏🏽🖤

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

The part about role models is big, I know for sure that assisted my husband's dedication to stay committed to me even in the moments where I wasn't as dedicated. Marriages in most cultures is between the families, point blank. One always has to consider who your children's grandparents, aunts and uncles will be. Even if someone's parents are divorced, how they get along post divorce is very telling. This gentleman is very wise, great guest.

[@For8009]

A great interview! This guy is very secured in himself, can’t agree to his responses any better!!!!

[@Uncle-Basil]

I have to say my wife and I enjoyed listening to this interview. It was very interesting listening to sir Okyeame Kwame..thanks so much for sharing.

[@fionacampbell7020]

It's Dela's consistency for me ... Looking forward to watching this.

[@akwasimensabonsu2899]

I can’t believe this video hasn’t got more views

[@moretodela]

😩😩😩

[@KS-gq7kx]

Watches all of your channels.This guy needs to educate our brothers.

[@OkyeameKwameBRA]

Awwwwww thank you

[@eileenwatt8283]

He's correct. It takes two healthy people from no trauma to stay together. If one partner has unresolved issues DO NOT marry if it's you or the other person. Work on yourself and the other should do the same. My dad always says " A person should know thy self". That's in every situation. If you are applying for a job, know your skill level, your emotional self and intellectual self. That's an indication if you're qualify. The same for marriage, know yourself and what faults you will tolerate or not from another person. Be aware of what you are bringing into the relationship. Look at a person's family and ask yourself " Do I want these people as my in laws and my kids grandparents, aunties and uncles? How do you see yourself in that family. It's difficult to stick to " I'll stick with you no matter what" if the person is unappreciated by the other and spoken down to. That is stifling. It leads to depression which can cause medical problems. It will break a person.

[@WeDeyChop]

Wow. This was real. I love this series Dela your doing an amazing thing that is helping soo many of us. Great guest okyeame kwame ✌🏾❤️

[@moretodela]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@austinjohn8713]

This generation has lost it concerning marriage. we need to go back and ask our parents about marriage because they figured it out together with our ancestors. Today a woman is competing with a man without herself having the requisite capacity. Today everyone in a marriage is selfish and proud giving themselves values that they don't have Wife respect and honor your husband and husband love your wife. two simple instructions that are very complicated to modern couples. They define their own conditions for marriage and end up the most frustrated couples in human history

[@merveilleux7426]

Our great great grand mothers went from the same bs from men so stop and take off that pink glasses lol people are brain selective😅 Real men like my father are very rare They stick with the abuse with no choice ahead and lived and died bitter

[@austinjohn8713]

@@merveilleux7426 you are more bitter and miserable than them. I can see your frustration

[@karenme2914]

Great show! They say you learn something new everyday and today in my 60yrs I’ve enjoyed learning from your guest speaker. Many blessings to you.

[@Okont]

Can't love Okyeame Kwame less. He is so wise, and so as his wife, and they're nurturing (had to change from "raising" 😂) some intelligent kids.

[@emmanuel7422]

Okyeame Kwame you are deep

[@AkuaOkodie]

Loved this interview!

[@speaker_vibes]

7 minutes in and the man is speaking major gems 🗣🙏🏿

[@Miss_Nimz]

Great guest and good content 🙏🏾

[@gladysjohnson2320]

Dela 😊 WOW that man knows what his talking about in marriage interasting.

[@OkyeameKwameBRA]

Dela thank you for asking difficult questions. I have enjoyed your line of questioning.

[@princesslivingfree]

The brother gave some words of wisdom, but in other areas he completely missed the mark. The danger in marriage is when we think we have become smarter than God. His word is true and He is far more wise than we are. I guarantee you this…it’s not that He got it wrong, we did. We misunderstood what submission as a wife really looks like. We misunderstood what it means to be respectful. We misunderstood what it means that a husband should love his wife as Christ loves the church. Actually, this was one of the things I agree with the speaker on. He said he loves his wife no matter how she presents herself to him. This is biblical “husbandhood” and it is right.

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

That whole test-drive the Ferrari thing threw me off.

[@princesslivingfree]

@@AfroMillennialMomma 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣 Sis, black people need to restore biblical marriages the RIGHT WAY. Just because our parents tried to force religion on us, does not mean they had it right. Some did, some didn’t. We should read for ourselves and seek understanding!

[@OkyeameKwameBRA]

I tried that biblical respect your husband and love your wife mantra , it didn’t work for . I see it works for others , it however didn’t work for . What works for me is man love your wife and woman love your husband . That’s how I am managing my home . Maybe , I didn’t understand the biblical understanding of respect . Respecting my father and son are true different things but loving them are the same . Just speaking my truth which is subjective and not objective. Thanks

[@parchmentfannyclump9472]

Really love the conversation. He made some great points. Blessed love!

[@jewel3567]

Very good discussion 👍🏽❤️

[@Noble724]

Dela your podcast on this marriage material is absolutely awesome!!!

[@robertaggrey8266]

What an amazing man!!!! 👏🏾 👌🏾🦻🏾

[@user-gg1bt3bn4b]

Wow wow wow Dela…I shared this one with 5 people. Great Show!!!

[@lindaawotwe8453]

Great Talk Okyeame Kwame

[@ceecayrils4081]

BAM. HE SAID IT. MEN DON'T LOOK FOR THE SAME IN A WOMAN OR MARRIAGE

[@calmeshera4131]

Love this !!!

[@moretodela]

Thank you

[@azanyekudoe6837]

Bra kwame you do all may jehova continue to be with you people

[@evitaj3133]

Insightful guest 👌🏾 👏🏾 👍🏾

[@YvonneAllenZayunu]

Wonderful show D and a lot of gems and food for thought here.

[@moretodela]

Thank you

[@MC-bf9mm]

Excellent show 👏 Full of gold nuggets!! Well done Dela you are shining in your craft!!!!

[@moretodela]

Thank you🙏🏾

[@aikinsyeboah]

Mehn this guy is awesome, okyeame Kwame never knew he is this smart

[@mootsooblankson9294]

This is really interesting. I enjoyed every bit of it. Well done Dela👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@moretodela]

Thank you

[@agbosamuel3348]

Nice 👍

[@joncampbell3754]

Nice Dela....weldone!!! very good as always

[@moretodela]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@ceecayrils4081]

This talk is going to benefit the next generation

[@ladyivys]

Awesome discussions!!!!! Mr. Kwamwe’s wife is a modern woman. Both genders have to unlearn so much because of our cultural, religious and other circumstances.

[@veronicamensahmensah2297]

Thank you Okyeame.😊😊😊

[@drtonyfearon7318]

Great show. This is how the real Africans do it. The western women should follow suit. It's all about the family and not just the individuals.

[@horeshieevigoddess2972]

OK grew into wisdom and it is very attractive

[@OkyeameKwameBRA]

Awwww thank you

[@ndivine1]

I was worried that this conversation would trigger me. But Mr. Kwame was compassionate and caring in his responses. It was great to hear.

[@luxasantetv]

Knowledge 🤎

[@akwasimensabonsu2899]

This guy is deep

[@paulabarrows3198]

This was a very profound interview. I agree with what he says when he talks about knowing what kind of family you are getting into. I do believe that having a strong sense of self and mental strength is a key factor to having a long lasting relationship. Great interview Dela. Keep up the good work.

[@moretodela]

Thank you

[@GUYANAECHO]

This brother is deep and spot on!

[@eazzydizzy1187]

Best interview I’ve seen soo much to learn from this

[@merveilleux7426]

I want to add his : we had rituals to teach us at each step of our life how to deal with the negative and positive aspects faced in life now we are jumping into mariages without wings. Everyone thinks he got it the truth but life is more challenging

[@evelynnyarko247]

You’re wise, okyeame, I’m intrigued

[@OkyeameKwameBRA]

Awwwww thank you

[@wextremeart4399]

He so right you do have a higher rate of making it if you come from a whole and not a half. People trying to date and they only half a person u must be whole to be able to be even in a relationship. God must be the foundation of any relationship he is the one that put two people together man. I agree with him 100% some people come from good families and don't get it right u must be a whole person and no the difference when a man is not and u can't change people I don't care how great u are if u see the Signs of a man broken run because u can't fix him I say women because men don't set out to fix a woman but a woman always think she can change a man. U can't so don't complain when it doesn't work

[@gailw1375]

Ohhhh! This is good! Keep contents like this coming.

[@kissphamous5451]

It seems u're low-key big in Ghana. Wow today okyeame kwame ❤️

[@moretodela]

Haha I’m just a humble youtuber lol

[@veronicamensahmensah2297]

Hi lady l enjoy your questions,a lot going on often all over the world with marriage’s,this day s ladies don’t allowed parents to interfere, instead they called pastor to replace parents.

[@lamonica755]

💯

[@ylstaggs]

Wow! I wish all men was like this, he speaks wisdom!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK]

My parents did. We need a marriage school.

[@Kenetto1]

Thanks Kwame for keeping real,true talk though

[@addosolar537]

Just purchased a few hats from that shop.

[@moretodela]

Awesome, hope you liked them!

[@addosolar537]

Giving them as gifts as I return to the USA.

[@time4advancement244]

At some point, it would be more objective to hear the Husband's side. We are only hearing one perspective and that skews the viewers opinion Interesting show Della

[@kuperdee]

From age 0 to about 7 it's the mothers who nurture the kids and take good care of them. After 8 years of age, a child needs the father in the house to install discipline and put them in good path. Most women are emotionally different each day and generally children from single mother homes are disadvantaged in a lot of things. The stats are around. You don't have to dig deep to find out. Let's encourage the nuclear family for a better society.

[@moretodela]

Everyone would love to have a nuclear family but unfortunately life has its ups and downs

[@Ruuduodu]

You need a TV Show you know!

[@moretodela]

Haha one day soon

[@kuperdee]

NOT to sound harsh but you proved the point on modern women keeps women single. A Woman encouraged you to leave a relationship because the years you spent together was just a number whilst she was married with her husband. You can't make these things up. It's better to asK you dad for relationship advice than your lady friends

[@AlkebulanJahmiah]

Where are you going with this?

[@Ghanadiaries]

No one walks out of marriage for walking seek, yes years is a number when there is abuse.

[@kuperdee]

@@AlkebulanJahmiah she asked Okyeame Kwame about modern women keeps women single. I retirated that she was an example of that. She consulted Okyeame Kwame's wife before she and the husband separated. The wife told her that the number of years shechas being with the man was just a number and it gave her strength to leave the relationship whilst that lady was happily or unhappily in her marriage. As a man I would have done the opposite. It is better to work it out with your partner if there are kids involved. It will be selfish to let your emotions cloud your judgement. A man can cheat and still has 100% love for the wife. A Woman cheating is different.

[@kuperdee]

@@Ghanadiaries statistically abuse in relationship is 50/50 ( both abuse each other) it is also abuse if you starve your partner of sex. Most women think men are the culprit of abusec in relationships.

[@AlkebulanJahmiah]

@@kuperdee 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@kwesiasante7752]

I think akyeame explanation of marriage situation was explained with caution to appease both Genders. Some of his explanation was disingenuous.

[@kuperdee]

Big ups for having a man's voice on this issue. The majority of what he said may be true but I don't agree that majority of men share those opinions. If it's logistically possible and good Internet, get a panel and do live shows. You could enable super chat towards the cost.

[@moretodela]

It’s definitely something I plan on doing

[@kuperdee]

@@moretodela good luck because it's not easy. Good quality Internet in ghana is a pain

[@wextremeart4399]

When I hear you describe a traditional woman you're describing a broken woman not traditional woman 2 different people if You are getting beat up your allowing A man to beat you up you're broken period you need help forreal u need healing

[@kyiregh3751]

The Husband is the head of his household.. thats the order God ordains. at 25:05 if Kwame has to go and unlearn this and let his wife lead the family then he is the biggest fool among men. You are not wiser than God kwame.

[@merveilleux7426]

😂leting women put the food on the table but want to lead you re lost. Nothing happens without reason

[@HoneyBunches100]

Dela, did this man not know you and your husband have separated? He sounded clueless and rude when he implied married couples break up because they came from homes where their parents did not stay together “No Matter What”. OR because they chose toxic partners. There are many other factors, as we all know. Also, it makes me cringe to hear grown men talking about young girls beginning their menstrual cycle and being ready for sex. Women’s private parts are just that - private - and men should not be discussing such delicate feminine matters on public forums. Modesty is key. Also, he laughed about the example of women being beaten for not appeasing sex-obsessed husbands. This man has no couth and lacks self-awareness. Please don’t invite him again. 🙄

[@morlico1234]

Another modern day woman.

[@moretodela]

I don’t think it was meant that way. He was talking more about the culture rather than what is personal to him.

[@HoneyBunches100]

@@moretodela Love you girl but he doesn’t need your defense. I STAND by my comments. ❤️💫🌍

[@HoneyBunches100]

@@morlico1234 The reference to “modern-day woman” in this video is to loose women who are home-wreckers. You’re welcome. ❤️💫🌍

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

Menstruation is biology, not a curse word. I may not have agreed with everything but I found his candidness refreshing. Men have daughters, wives, and sisters with menstrual cycles. My Dad took care of me and picked me up from school when I had severe menstrual pain. I would hope that in my absence, my husband would be there in the same way for my daughter. I think if more people discussed these things, people would be better educated and behave as such. I'm not from an African country though so maybe it's just a cultural difference.

[@eazzydizzy1187]

Nah this guys is incredible I haven’t fully comprehended everything he said but I could tell he understand the context