I admire the financial independence of people, But you can live better if you work a little more. After watching this I think there are people out there, on the extreme, who plan to die early just to be able to retire early. To each their own but to me retirement isn't just about not having to work, it's about having the freedom to do whatever you might reasonably want, such as travel, buying things, enjoying life, etc. I don't think I could retire with less than $3m in income-generating investments, maybe $2m at the very minimum. I plan to work until I'm at least 45.
@bartlyAD29 күн бұрын
Nobody knows anything, you need to create your own process, manage risk and stick to the plan, through thick or thin while also continuously learning from mistakes and improving
@PennyBergeron-os4ch29 күн бұрын
Spot on advice. Great job! And yeah, I think we investors overestimate how hard it is to stay in the market when things aren't looking too good. Whenever I'm tempted to either cut losses or capture profits, I remind myself of Fidelity's study of their best performing portfolios; the best performers were either dead or forgot they had an account. So now with directives from my asset manager, I pick assets that can perform similarly in both short and long term. My portfolio has been foolproof so far.
@HildaBennet29 күн бұрын
Who’s the person guiding you
@PennyBergeron-os4ch29 күн бұрын
Her name is “DIANA CASTEEL LYNCH” can't divulge much. Most likely, the internet should have her basic info, you can research if you like
@HildaBennet29 күн бұрын
I just checked her out and I have sent her an email. I hope she gets back to me soon.
@Rashaadthegr83 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to be able to have this problem.
@Prokutzlawncareandlandscaping3 жыл бұрын
I’m right there with you! You’ll get there! I’m more then half way done with fully funding my 3 month emt fund. I’m staying consistent, patient and intentional! We will get there! Baby steps
@john-iu2uo3 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of 500 to a 1000 be left over money.
@alexp94703 жыл бұрын
I’m there now!!! It’s the most amazing feeling!! Keep at it! Work to get a higher income, and work twice as hard to bring down the debt!
@Prokutzlawncareandlandscaping3 жыл бұрын
Update: I made it to baby step 4 I kind of skipped baby step 3b because I don’t really plan on having a house anytime soon. I’m single with no kids. Eventually I want kids with the right one God has for me. But untill then, investing 15% of my income into retirement and now and then for the future house down payment or possible cash build! To God be the glory!
@Rashaadthegr83 жыл бұрын
@@Prokutzlawncareandlandscaping congratulations I am baby steps 3/4.
@Holdeenio Жыл бұрын
People have different priorities in life, as demonstrated here. Once you get this far along the baby steps, you really should start to enjoy your efforts so far. There’s no reason why you shouldn’t work on your home with cash while overpaying your mortgage - both are wise. Paying off your mortgage increases your equity position, but sensible renovations can ADD equity by increasing the asset value.
@reaper-sz5tm11 ай бұрын
I like to do one major remodel or landscaping project per year, just to make my home more enjoyable for my family. Does it add value? Of course, eventually though I’m going to run out of stuff to remodel and then I’m increasing my mortgage payments by 50%, so also increasing my long term equity position. I intentionally bought a fixer upper below market value for this reason
@jc560411 ай бұрын
Paying off your mortgage more importantly reduces the amount of interest you pay. Which is a ridiculous amount for most people over 30 years.
@mdaniels63118 ай бұрын
Clear debt asap... As you never know what might happen to you.
@chelseajones597711 ай бұрын
This was a really encouraging episode for me. I’ve struggled with the intensity part of wanting to pay the mortgage off with that intensity but also seeing the wisdom of enjoying your family and taking opportunities or improving your home.
@mdaniels63118 ай бұрын
I believe while youre young and healthy.. clear it asap. Make it almost a religion... then once its gone, time to slow down as you enter older years and preserve your life.
@JesusHernandez-pw3xu3 жыл бұрын
I'm with the husband. The more they put down, the more they'll make when they sell the house. Any repairs can be done just before selling the house as long as they're not something urgent
@Billy_W3 жыл бұрын
And go on no holidays? People get way too hung up on money money money and life will fly by without you taking a break or having any fun
@nana820able3 жыл бұрын
Why not do both? Use some for a trip then when you return use the left over funds for mortgage reduction.
@Username6556username3 жыл бұрын
@@nana820able paying off liabilities after spending on luxuries is the quickest way to go broke
@nana820able3 жыл бұрын
@@Username6556username It doesn't cost that much for a small family to take a vacation or trip. Plan for no more than a week and budget. Once you return most people don't take another vacation for a year so you have plenty of time to save.
@natehirt42973 жыл бұрын
There are most likely other places in the budget…… I know our problem is actually following the budget on the paper and the “extra” money is just a race to 0 in the account. Discussion and discipline should be the focus.
@anbierl093 жыл бұрын
Great conversation! Very helpful - thank you!
@maxrice69903 жыл бұрын
I almost think she doesn't understand that when you have equity in the house, you get that money back when you sell it. It's like she thinks once they sell the house, all extra money they put on the mortgage disappears.
@mmc98283 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. She thinks the extra mortgage payments are a waste.
@drlax15m Жыл бұрын
it only makes sense of she didnt care about moving and wasnt going to sell
@Sgunner8811 ай бұрын
Short term fun vs long term value
@turboZ311 ай бұрын
that’s true but dont forget a lot of xtra cash u can save goes to interest
@corollaae86452 ай бұрын
There also has to be a balance between capital gains tax and how much you pay down. You pay it down and may get taxed a lot . That comes into play if you plan on selling in the short term.
@Cas13533 жыл бұрын
Female caller: I want to use extra money to go on trips. Dave ramsey: That's fair. Male caller: I want to use extra money to go on trips. Dave ramsey: Stop acting like a child and be a man.
@Lovetheonewithin3 жыл бұрын
Female caller's new diet: filet mignon Male caller's new diet: rice and beans
@pregnantmiltank3 жыл бұрын
@@riceandbeans2019 how's that a reverse, that is the definition of simping
@lifewitherica54853 жыл бұрын
😅
@MP-ef6mc3 жыл бұрын
Ed Cas, pretty much sums it up.
@openureyes9293 жыл бұрын
Ya.. jus a little bias here huh? The usual Christian mentality!!!
@stephaniecorpus73093 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much! I’m the nerd 🤓 we have over 3,000 left over each month are expenses super low.
@signalboy5007 ай бұрын
Learn how to write, jesus
@PlannerMemaw3 жыл бұрын
I'm a nerd too. I decided on an amount that I want the principal on the mortgage to go down each month and that is what I pay. We have some fun and save anything after that. I am set to pay off the mortgage in October with this plan.
@cathyosullivan7183 жыл бұрын
I think it’s good to have balance in life. I know people who travel a lot after retirement; but isn’t it nice to do a bit of traveling each year?
@midkort3 жыл бұрын
If income is decent, you can go intense for just a few years and then be able to afford all the trips you want looooong before the traditional retirement age. It's not at polarized as I'm seeing some of the commenters make it out to be.
@DEE-o4v8 ай бұрын
It IS a balance. You do want to knock that principal out...BUT, you do need to travel a bit when you're young.
@Teamshmo3 жыл бұрын
The second she said she wants to spend the money on trips I could see why the guy snapped lol
@GRDiver94 Жыл бұрын
Disagree, if they can pay extra on the house and enjoy life going where they would like to travel while the kids are young he shouldn’t get tunnel vision
@CianMcsweeney11 ай бұрын
it depends on how many trips/ how expensive the trips would be. Nothing wrong with enjoying life when you have the capacity to do so, within reason of course
@TheHy6xD11 ай бұрын
@@GRDiver94maybe he’s not interested in trips
@karoosten23211 ай бұрын
Yeah and Dave’s response was not what I expected.
@matthewmchenry933111 ай бұрын
"I don't want to pay down the house, we won't be here much longer." Also, "I want to put money into remodeling the house."
@Jelly._.cat._.13 жыл бұрын
I’m doing the same. I started to lose sleep on what to do with how much. Then I was walking and said “I should just be happy that I have any money to do both”
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
Exercise clears your head.
@mercedeswilkins55666 ай бұрын
Fr
@livingunashamed48693 жыл бұрын
Dave didn't address that they have a 30yr instead of a 15yr. If they had 15yr like they should then this wouldn't even be a discussion. Husband is right here.
@tfries723 жыл бұрын
Remodeling and saving for vacations is also pretty important and financially no but you still have to enjoy life. They are in an amazing situation they can do both things no problem.
@carlymills10903 жыл бұрын
She stated that they are already paying it off like a 15 year mortgage. This extra money is on top of that
@jasongentry74053 жыл бұрын
I would like to see the difference of 15 yr vs 30 yr mortgage payments invested for the term of the loan.....I expect that the difference invested every month for 20-25 yrs would be worth much more.
@ace1gl3 жыл бұрын
@@jasongentry7405 you would come out over a million dollars ahead with the 30 year over the 15. Dave gives horrible advice on this subject. He trades insane safety over investment growth.
@aolvaar87923 жыл бұрын
The point of paying off a mortgage is to free up the money to invest "for retirement". What if you don't need to strive for a pile of money?
@andygarcia35853 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling she is not going to talk to her husband.
@mlatrellelove7 ай бұрын
🤣😂
@jutde3 жыл бұрын
The minute Dave told her "You need to know more about the details." and she replied "YeAh, I aGrEe..." I knew she quit listening.
@mlovespring78923 жыл бұрын
I am stuck on her altitude with this statement "at the finance meeting" ....😲 what?
@CytotoxicTrev3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Her tone of voice suggested she did not agree at all 😂
@eddievangundy45102 ай бұрын
She's a ding-a-ling.
@BdDaBOMB Жыл бұрын
2:15 💜 intentionality & intensity 💎
@MattieAntonio28 күн бұрын
Amazing video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family.
@Lourd-Bab28 күн бұрын
Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks
@MattieAntonio28 күн бұрын
@@Lourd-Bab However, if you do not have access to a professional like Suzanne Gladys Xander, quitting your job to focus on trading may not be the best approach. It is important to consider all options and seek guidance from reliable sources before making any major decisions. Consulting with an AI or using automated trading systems can also be helpful in managing investments while balancing other commitments.
@Lourd-Bab28 күн бұрын
@@MattieAntonio Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!.
@MattieAntonio28 күн бұрын
@@Lourd-Bab Suzanne Gladys Xander is her name .
@MattieAntonio28 күн бұрын
Lookup with her name on the webpage.
@ladysparkle67843 жыл бұрын
No trip feel better than being 100% debt free.
@philgiordano7715 Жыл бұрын
You’ve never been to Bali
@ladysparkle6784 Жыл бұрын
@@philgiordano7715 No but I can pay cash to go now lol. Should I?
@brock594610 ай бұрын
@@philgiordano7715 Bali overrated. Overtourism killed it
@HamGritty7 ай бұрын
Acid trip
@mercedeswilkins55666 ай бұрын
Fr
@AmoraLili3 жыл бұрын
Half mortgage. Half towards trips. Simple.
@tharris87207 ай бұрын
Lol I know
@shobull86956 ай бұрын
Sometimes I think people call just to kind of gloat or buff themselves up a bit.
@00Noontide3 жыл бұрын
Baby step 1: black beans Baby step 2: red beans Baby step 3: white beans Baby step 4: retire as a millionaire at 40 in the caribBEAN.
@vanessagonzalez5588 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this made me laugh
@lashandarenay11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@edwest88043 жыл бұрын
Doesn't want to put the money towards the mortgage because they'll move in 5 to 10 years but does want to put the money towards improving the house they plan on selling in 5 to 10 years. Odd. The trips thing is foolish put off trips still even if you are out of debt besides the mortgage and you'll be able to take all the trips you want in 7 to 9 years when you pay the house off early. Take small trips, she seems like she wants to backpack in Europe for a month. Then if the house is paid in full when you do sell it it'll be all "profit" to use for the next house or the next house down payment or whatever you want. Fix the house when you want to sell it or as things break don't waste money on renovations it doesn't need because you want a kitchen island or heated floors in the bathrooms. The next house can have all that.
@gardenofe123 жыл бұрын
Well said !!!
@grod8053 жыл бұрын
I'd rather travel as soon as I can. You don't know how things will turn out in the future.
@edwest88043 жыл бұрын
@@grod805 that can be true but I didn't say don't travel at all. Trips in the US that are budget friendly can still be just as fun. You never know what will happen is true so you spend money on extravagant trips now, what if your health deteriorates and you can't earn money like you did or at all now and you're 40 or 50 and in debt and can't make anywhere near as much money as before or God forbid you can't make any money then those fun trips made your later years in life misrible.
@genxx27243 жыл бұрын
@@edwest8804 Suze Orman used to say, “You can go to Europe when you’re OLD and you can AFFORD IT!
@malissakirby419311 ай бұрын
Heated floors in Savannah?😅
@richardmacias413 жыл бұрын
Do not do what Dave Ramsey says, do what Dave Ramsey does. Actions speak louder than words.
@got2liv4him3 жыл бұрын
Start a nationally syndicated radio show?
@richardmacias413 жыл бұрын
@@got2liv4him Market financial courses, to the masses.
@ryanthepianoman272 жыл бұрын
Don’t use debt?
@Candisa11 ай бұрын
"I didn't expect that answer," girl, be lucky that's the answer you got, the only thing I would spend extra cash on as long as there's a mortgage are urgent or guaranteed great ROI renovations. I have my emergency fund, I have zero debt apart from mortgage, I don't live on rice and beans, I eat out once in a while, but I sure don't travel unless it's a picknick on the beach I live 30minutes away from until my mortgage is done and over. You don't even know how much budget there is, "500 to a thousand" is quite the range to make plans for. It doesn't matter you won't keep the house longer than 10 years, some people pay it of in that time and every penny you paid off is one that you don't have to borrow when you buy the next house.
@christian462023 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I needed to hear that advice, Mr. Ramsey
@kyloren-cd8dk7 ай бұрын
This is the issue. The husband is happy with their current quality of life. The wife wants more luxury and fun. Sometimes you gotta respect the wants of your partner, and sometimes you gotta sacrifice for the greater good of the family. Ramsey is spot on here. If may not be the most fiscally optimal choice, but maintaining a healthy relationship where both sides are happy is more important
@mlovespring78923 жыл бұрын
Someday, I will have this problem and on my way to financial freedom. So hard building it back up! Feels like climbing a mountain in slow motion. 🙏🙏🙏
One question.. what’s disposable or “extra” money left over????? I’ve never had this problem.
@July.4.17763 жыл бұрын
Pay the house down! Get rid of the mortgage.
@aolvaar87923 жыл бұрын
Why?
@aolvaar87923 жыл бұрын
@Austin Duke In 2006, the former owner paid $250K, In 2011 I bought from Fannie Mae for $50K. ~$200/mo, ~$325 PITI I am a retired Pensioner.
@aolvaar87923 жыл бұрын
@Austin Duke single largest line item, mine is a $400/mo electric bill. I don't invest any money, I just spend my $100K/yr pension. The Risk on a $200/mo mortgage is very low, vs. ~$8K/mo. I am unwilling to give up a year of fun to pay off the house.
@korhonenemilia18163 жыл бұрын
They're already paying off the 30 year mortgage as if it were a 15 year, and have college savings lined up for their kids. I'd argue a bit of fun will fit into that plan, especially if it's going towards a remodel which will increase the value of the house. Life isn't just about money, you need to enjoy it (responsibly) along the way before your joint pain ruins half your experiences.
@carlostosado89653 жыл бұрын
@Austin Duke taxes ? So you really end up saving a bit over your mortgage
@currykatsudon275 ай бұрын
man this is the right advice I needed, and it is really wise. Thank you Dave!
@jamesjhonson45683 жыл бұрын
Use the extra money to pay off the house. You don't need to "re-model" this is marketing media hype designed to keep you spending money and go further into debt. By paying off the house, you then build equity and increase your net worth.
@huckleberryfinn87953 жыл бұрын
This woman has no idea how a mortgage, principal and equity works.
@kpeggs823 жыл бұрын
so she doesn't want to pay off the house but she wants to put more money into that won't significantly raise ita value. That's smart.
@kpeggs823 жыл бұрын
no bot no
@MP-nj1qy3 жыл бұрын
I would love to have a husband who wants to work with me to payoff a mortgage. If I ever find the one.
@vickiewilkins15793 жыл бұрын
Thanks very important to have.
@chrisconsorte78933 жыл бұрын
How about wife who would do the same thing?
@oroville123453 жыл бұрын
It's easy to find a man. 1. Don't be a feminist 2. Be feminine 3. Cook 4. Don't nag 5. Put out and don't argue 6. Don't have credit card or student loan debt 7. Be supportive and helpful. 8. Be good with money.
@ragazziita3 жыл бұрын
I'd rather travel while I'm young and healthy. My husband and I are very fortunate to have $4000 left over each month and we take awesome vacations every couple of months. Maybe things will change when we have kids.
@widescreen1272 Жыл бұрын
At 1:30, was he expecting Dave to say that her husband was wrong?lol
@lesstalkmorefood54893 жыл бұрын
10 months left of baby step 2🔥💪🏾
@djpuplex3 жыл бұрын
So he wants to do sound things she wants to be a princess and drag this man down surprised.
@robertoconsuegra992111 ай бұрын
Key is balance i think😅also i would like to go on that cruise 😅😅
@FirinMahLazer1 Жыл бұрын
The fact that she said that's not the answer she was expecting tells me she only called to get validation for her decision and not advice. No wonder it's causing a rift she's being stubborn about it and refusing to see the other side.
@eddievangundy45102 ай бұрын
She doesn't understand the other side.
@MrJLHaney3 жыл бұрын
I cant find a video on this from Ramsey.. so does anyone know what his advice would be about whether or not to Escrow? I’ve read and heard that if you are good at saving a lot of money liquid, then don’t escrow, just keep the $10-$20,000 in a savings account, and pay taxes and insurance once a year.
@Macktheknife2473 жыл бұрын
It works until you mod it one year and then have to set s payment plan with the IRS. I'm escrowing until I have a really good plan otherwise.
@MrJLHaney3 жыл бұрын
@@Macktheknife247 “mod it.” What do you mean by that?
@Macktheknife2473 жыл бұрын
@@MrJLHaney woops. "Miss it"
@MrJLHaney3 жыл бұрын
@@Macktheknife247 lol ah. I see, thanks for the response
@AustinTexasGardening7 ай бұрын
I agree with Dave’s advice that after you are out of debt you should treat yourself and work on paying down the mortgage, but 500-1000 surplus isn’t much
@thelucky023911 ай бұрын
i think it is important for everyone to know that you dont have to pick just on thing. Diversify :). not the best word to use of course, but spread that money around!
@RonniewbNC Жыл бұрын
Run Forrest…run!
@jus-tinkin8 ай бұрын
‘Some of both is where wisdom lands.’ Balance at this point. Enjoy and save neither is maxed out. Sounds like a new level of wealth past the intensity phase.
@justinbrown69223 жыл бұрын
AMC 🚀
@AttackRaidan3 жыл бұрын
Extra pepperoni on my pizza 🍕
@dat_boii3 жыл бұрын
The world isn't going anywhere that you need those trips right now. I'd pay off the debt first, use some of the extra cash to invest in stock ETFs or something low risk with stable returns. Maybe fluff up my rainy-day fund a bit as well so I know I'm good for any unexpected expenses/emergencies.
@PhongNguyen-nz9kz3 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are on the same boat. We are on the same page with mortgage and now only have 1 year left. August 30th 2021 and should have it paid off sometime august 2022.
@victor_beltran11 ай бұрын
I’ve always wanted to travel the older I got. Just couldnt save for it as I went through college and visiting my oldest daughter an hour and a half away on the weekends for over 2 years. So I stayed in “Defense reserved” mode to not spend any on me and use what I had for actuall necessities of my life at that time. 8 years later have my beautiful wife 3 kids a home and all else we need all Glory to God. And my wife helped me open up and realize it’s ok to enjoy some of the hard earned money. So we incorporate a lot of what Dave just said. Have 800$ left on budget? Ok, 400 to house and 400 to save for trips. Both partners happy & compromise goes a long way!
@malissakirby419311 ай бұрын
I prefer when Dave said pay off the house asap! What happened to that? btw I did!😊
@dummgelauft10 ай бұрын
She is still reforming from being a princess
@regtalkswealth3 жыл бұрын
Enjoy some of the money and be wise with the rest
@gaurav1987pal3 жыл бұрын
Translation: I have a loan, which doubles in 5-10 years. Why not wait for it to double to start paying extra on it?
@brooklynzoo812 ай бұрын
There is a line out the door with people who need this problem. 😅
@kaizenborntowin2 жыл бұрын
Haha! Thank you Ken!
@stayfocused648111 ай бұрын
I understand where the guy is coming from. It’s really hard to back off the intensity when you’ve been living it in for years.
@sct4040 Жыл бұрын
50/50 both of them are correct.
@youngimages20003 жыл бұрын
I don’t see the inside of restaurants because I use drive-thrus! Just kidding. Sorta. I budget $3 meals weekly as a treat….
@youngimages20003 жыл бұрын
Crypto is best place to hide drug money.
@juandre333 жыл бұрын
Whats the difference between this channel and the ramsey show channel? Just the icons? One is orange and the other yellow?
@KarlDag3 жыл бұрын
This has one call per day from all their podcasts - could Delony Show, or The Table with Anthony O'Neill, etc Ramsey Show is Ramsey Show.
@modernlegacy55553 жыл бұрын
It's kind of sad they couldn't figure out to do both at the same time.
@jeezze073 жыл бұрын
They need to get on the show love it or list it from hgtv.. lol
@galupproperties30983 жыл бұрын
I won’t lie I would rather payoff my home then go on a trip. My first rental I paid off In may with about 26k in cash.
@Takar1003 жыл бұрын
Makes since to try to accomplish more than one goal.
@tevonhennesy61103 жыл бұрын
As she said, they are going to get a bigger home eventually. I think the female caller is correct. Do not put more towards the principal if you're just going to sell the house. Now, if you wanted to own the house and make a rental property, the best plan of action is to pay the home off faster. Having a ton of equity in a home that your going to sale in 5 years is foolish, continue using the banks money until you sale.
@dieselfreak2811 ай бұрын
But the extra money put into the principle will still come back to them when they sell the house. They don't lose that extra money when the house sells.
@eddievangundy45102 ай бұрын
Not sure you understand how mortgages work.
@openureyes9293 жыл бұрын
And this is why I LOVE BEING SINGLE !!!
@melaniebrown97653 жыл бұрын
0 debt outside a mortgage with only $500 surplus per month? I would still feel nervous with those figures. They plan to move in 5 years with more kids.
@philgiordano7715 Жыл бұрын
That’s after they pay into retirement, emergency fund, and child college fund.
@2332Stephen11 ай бұрын
Are you putting 15 percent into retirement".. " umm we're about there" so that's a NO😅😅
@eddievangundy45102 ай бұрын
Exactly. She's a mixture of ignorance and lying.
@CG-MP4 ай бұрын
this is a struggle for me and my husband as well. We live in a very incomplete project house. Is it livable? Yes. Do we have a functioning oven? No. Can we get by without one? We have for a year now. It's hard to figure out exactly how much we can justify putting into comfort.
@eddievangundy45102 ай бұрын
You need to fix up your house, she does not. She doesn't understand anything about mortgages.
@gtileo Жыл бұрын
Or you can do what i do and do a yearly prepayment towards your mortgage, live your life and put the rest of the money towards the mortgage, I usually put between 15 and 30k a year towards my mortgage, depending on my yearly bonus.
@strothermartin53683 жыл бұрын
Just BANK it! Save it!
@luispena97938 ай бұрын
She checked out after she got told to figure it out and heard the hard truth. lol
@mercedeswilkins55666 ай бұрын
500-1000 is a big bonus
@modernadulting68573 жыл бұрын
Smart Things to Do With Extra Income and Spare Money Pay Down Debt. Invest in Yourself. Invest in the Stock Market. Open a High-Interest Savings Account. Start an Emergency Fund. Buy a Home Instead of Renting.
@ethanmiller78 Жыл бұрын
She seemed so disappointed when he said 50/50 not ten vacations a year😂
@JamalMichaels6 күн бұрын
Men lead women follow for a reason
@TJC662611 ай бұрын
Wow talk about taking it easy on her he found a nice roundabout way to tell her she's wrong
@TopVillain3 жыл бұрын
500-1000 is not a lot of money you can spend that in a weekend spend it wisely
@ellewoods45683 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@outdoorsnevada4138 Жыл бұрын
vacation money is not that important. she just wants to play
@shawnsgirl4ever13 жыл бұрын
When you own your home and sell it you can make a profit! Why not be debt free than travel later?! Have equity to buy your next home with cash
Why would you want to put extra money down on your mortgage when your rate is most likely sub 3%?
@hieuhuynh93583 жыл бұрын
I love papa Dave!! “Why the huge rift”
@gsquared23943 жыл бұрын
She was either exaggerating to get Dave on her side, or she is making it a bigger deal to her husband so she can pressure him into getting her way. Either scenario, she 100% is done sacrificing.
how much extra are we talking each month? oh, maybe something like 500 or maybe 1000 smh
@lanceoa3 жыл бұрын
Even bigger rift.. she wants banana nut muffins, he wants blueberry muffins. Watch - No likes for this comment. 😂
@gatoborracho45723 жыл бұрын
This woman will call again in the future begging for help to get out of debt
@rodrigofernandez90553 жыл бұрын
Attack your mortgage with every penny and leave it behind.
@aaront9363 жыл бұрын
This is terrible advice. 30 year mortgage rates are less than yearly inflation. You are losing money paying off the mortgage early.
@charityneverfaileth22 Жыл бұрын
That makes no sense. Not having a mortgage, I pay no interest. Having a mortgage you have interest. I bought my house with cash. All the money that would be going to interest now goes on my pocket.
@jeffscott832322 күн бұрын
Save for a rainy day. I ll say it again theres no such a thing as extra money. At least I've never seen it.
@KenKashi77 ай бұрын
A little inconsistent here lol
@rollingacresfarmstead2063 жыл бұрын
I swear if that lion was a female dave wouldnt have made it off the card table. He folds like the french
Why wouldn't they pay off the house, and then when they buy a second house they rent that one out
@mercedeswilkins55666 ай бұрын
Even a mortgage is bad. All debt is bad
@nikolatasev49486 ай бұрын
All debt is bad, but it's not all equally bad. Start paying off the worst kind of debt. The mortgage can go last. There are a lot worse things than mortgage. Compare it with rent. With the mortgage, only the interest part you truly lose, the money you pay for the principal remains in your assets. At some finite point in the future you will fully own the property. Plus, you gain all the price appreciation. If you pay rent - you can pay it forever, and property appreciation will likely increase your rent even further. Rent is like a debt that you have to pay, can't renegotiate, and can never actually pay off. I'd take mortgage over "debt-free" rent any day of the week and twice on Sunday. The only way this could be a problem is if the interest on the mortgage plus the property taxes are more than the rent.
@mr_num_numz11 ай бұрын
How much money does everyone have at the end of the month? Discretionary income. We're at $2000. It'll be more once this debt is paid off.
@joannawhite1441 Жыл бұрын
Debt free but we both regret not using any money at all to travel before we had kids. Like literally zero. Not talking going crazy but we had plenty of income to travel Internationally one or two times.
@USD_Bug11 ай бұрын
Just saw the title and came to comment.. There’s no such thing.
@Benjaminthemoomoo11 ай бұрын
She meant trips, she doesn’t care about Reno’s
@nickkellie3 жыл бұрын
Extra money!!!??? Pfffftttt
@AtomicQuotient3 жыл бұрын
WE want more kids ..
@sabrinahernandez54253 жыл бұрын
Maybe they can just do every other mth. Definitely shouldn’t be messing up a marriage