What Every Foreigner Should Know

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

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[@AdamSpade]

This was cool. I appreciate it. I will be in the PH next weekend. It is my favorite place on earth.

[@billyjohnson9166]

I think and can’t be said enough lying is a no go. That’s a character flaw and generally can’t be changed. So if you meet someone or dating someone and you catch them lying that should be the end. Lying can’t be tolerated.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

👍

[@Ego-Kills]

There are two types of lying. Lying to deceive is moral flaw but lying to protect yourself is morally ok.

[@DACTION1209]

Well done, Rob & Crissy! May we all live and thrive in 2025! :)

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thank you

[@petermorgan4720]

A fantastic video. Thanks, Chrissy and Rob. Extremely informative and useful. One of the most useful videos I have watched from you guys. Cheers.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks, Peter. High, praise indeed.

[@BuildingInWisconsin]

Hi guys, I liked the rapid fire question and answer today. Also, the 12 levels video was a great one last year. Everybody loves to level up.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

🙏❤️👍

[@russman74]

great video and this is one of my main channels for my research into the phillipines and their culture. keep up the great work.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks 👍

[@alanswallow8608]

I just started following y'all and I thank you so much for the information you have given. I'm wanting to visit the Philippines and possibly living there and ANY INFORMATION I can get is very appreciated! I'm 70 years old now and have been single for many years because of the women here in the United States, I think it would be such a blessing to find my Filipina wife over there! Again Thank you so much! God bless you and your family!

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

I’m glad you find our videos helpful.

[@Followyourpassions]

Thanks for the talk this weekend 👍. In May im going😁.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Any time!

[@stephengamber7000]

Thanks for posting

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

You bet

[@billyjohnson9166]

I’ll tell you Rob for two years living here you’re right on with most things. About street food Philippines no Thailand yes that’s for sure. Everyone has different budgets here and you can make it with most budgets I spend approximately $5,000 monthly and own my own home here but that includes top health insurance and a lot of travel. Like I said before you and chrissy have one of the best channels on you tube for Philippine travel or living here.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks, Billy

[@javieribarra6772]

Great video thank you

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

You're welcome!

[@ralphcruz8484]

Great info , beautiful married couple

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thank you 😊

[@SPENJERE]

Another great video with tons of great info, thank you. I have to say honestly I have never been on the receiving end of tampo, it’s quite the opposite for us. I am the one that sets the rules. Although I did experience the jealousy, my Filipina was jealous about the Filipina Pea. Once I explained that I am where I am , in a relationship with who I am, she understood. Rob, I hope you and Chrissy don’t get jealous about me watching the Filipina videos either. 😉😂

[@JB-dk8zc]

Why jealous of Pea? She wouldn't entertain a simp 😂

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Glad you enjoyed it! 😂

[@dave_in_florida]

Thank you, Chrissy and Rob. Great video and I always appreciate your channel.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

You're welcome! We hope you'll continue to enjoy our content.

[@hardtail-gy8dk]

Great video

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@IBtraveling]

Good questions and answers. Where are you guys at? That location looks incredible!

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Us CDO

[@VinceSalzer]

This one is a good one😊

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

❤️🙏👍

[@jerryrussell2600]

I watch numerous videos by many youtubers about the relationship scene. and this video of Q and A was the best one ever. thank you.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Well, thanks for the feedback. Really appreciate that.

[@dr.josefudeyama64]

Hey guys! It’s Dr jojo. This was by far your best video! I’ve yet to have a relationship in the PI where sooner or later women ask to “borrow” money. Even trusted friends that I’ve known for years. 100% are gone.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

❤️🙏👍

[@billyjohnson9166]

Filipinos have the best voices and Filipinas win most of the pageants worldwide.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

👍

[@filipinauncut4989]

Filipina has its own beauty and unique ✌️

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

❤️🙏👍

[@George-ux6zz]

Take care and God bless you 🙏

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

🙏❤️👍

[@nathanielbarry]

I love this! More lightning round stuff! But Panglao over Boracay.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks Nathaniel

[@faustinodibauda251]

Like always thanks for keeping it real You Two.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

❤️🙏👍 faustino

[@ntech1507]

Hello Rob and Chrissy. Really like the intro and the format of this video. That was the reason I originally subscribed to the channel, and you guys did not do it anymore. I wondered why I hope to see this format more often. I enjoy videos of both of you talking because I am a married man as well, so hearing both perspectives is helpful also it's this vidoe was very helpful to me with all the categories I do not like when other channels category is just dating because I am not single and looking for a fililina so I do not watch the vidoes their vidoes anymore.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

🙏❤️👍 thanks for watching our video and thanks for the feedback. We hope to make more like this in the future.

[@ntech1507]

@FlyMeToThePhilippines got it thanks and no problem. Enjoy your morning

[@John-d5k7c]

I’m a long time subscriber, You both are exceptional!! Excellent content, knowledge and support, But I had to watch this video more than once as you were going so fast from one question/answer to another 😅. I had a consultation with Rob a few months ago and followed up with email, I’m retired, divorced, almost made it there this past November, but had to cancel at last minute because my e-travel form was declined- ?? - I’m still not sure why, I lost money on plane , now trying to come again beginning February, I’m hoping to talk to my again as I’m quite nervous, don’t know anyone there & no family here in USA, I watch all your videos and Pea, and Mike. But still confused on some details!!?!? This is a reconnaissance trip, although. Nothing to come back to in USA, as the divorce two years ago left me in my truck!! The rents here are outrageous !! I want to somehow find out if my prescriptions will be taken over by a doctor there ? I even called a couple of Pharmacies and they didn’t have them?? Although I think I just spoke briefly to the counter girl 🤔. And hope to meet someone, I even just saw a video by someone I never saw before on just renting a girlfriend from a site to help me settle in and show me the basics to live there ?? 🤔🤷🏻‍♂️

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Good luck on your trip and hopefully you'll get a lot of answers on this trip 👍

[@Liampo00]

There sweet❤🎉

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

🙏👍

[@George-ux6zz]

Hi guys! How are you 2 doing this evening?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

👋

[@PeterJamieson-h2p]

Would you recommend AFN in cebu

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Not really. Would take me quite a bit of time to explain why if you’re interested in a consultation I can walk you through alternatives, which I think is superior flymetothephilippinesconsultation.as.me/

[@perry8498]

Hey guy can we get like a update on visas and condo rentals and where is best to look, i usually stay hotel but i need a more sustainable long term stay

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

I will try to make a video about that

[@MichaelHamilton-xx9ei]

Happy New Year! Enjoyed the video. Always educational. Question: I am 52. What would be the best Filipina age demographic be for a man my age?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Good question 25-30

[@MichaelHamilton-xx9ei]

@FlyMeToThePhilippines thanks

[@leroyosmon]

You got that right! You found the gold in the Philippines!!!!!!!!!!!! And a diamond!!!!!!!!!!!

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks, Leroy

[@leroyosmon]

@ you make it easy. Question…. Here in Mexico you can own property. If it is not close to a boarded or ocean you can own it right out. If within X miles of the boarder ow ocean, you must put it in a trust. The government via a bank holds the trust. It is yours to do with as you like for 50 years. Then you have the right to renew the trust for an additional 50 years. Is there anything’s ngblike this in your part of the world?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

You can lease

[@jeffl9543]

Is beef available and how expensive is it in the Philippines - hamburger or steaks? And is it available in grocery stores!!

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

You can find decent hamburger meat however steaks are hard to come by and very expensive in general. I just don’t eat steaks here in the Philippines. They tend to be extremely lean. You can get some from Australia and you can get some important ones very expensive USDA.

[@TobyBloom]

another good video. scams area bad thing. Tampo is a real problem.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Yes, they are Toby

[@DavidBilliter-p6y]

Every thing over there is differ Nanking , saving, house, business, laws, family , etc

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

👍

[@davidhancock91]

Am the luckiest man in the world. I’m 64, my beautiful Philippina wife is 29. We have been together 3 years. Married nearly 2 years. I recently had medical episode relating to wear and tear on my back. I was in hospital for a Week. My wife was by my side as much as much as she could, around her work. She is the best woman I have ever met. Beautiful, generous, Christian, loving, loyal, An absolute gem.

[@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in]

Good for you but you’re still newlyweds. Come back in four years and give us an update ✌️

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Congratulations it sounds like you have really found someone very special. Good luck with your back.

[@Kingsnake1111]

​@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in you beat me to it! Hahaha holla in 5 years and let us know.

[@AdamSpade]

They are the best. They also look to the man to lead, which is how it should be, but don't drop the ball there. Us husbands are to lead by humbling ourselves before God. We do that and we can't loose.

[@theblackboxpodcastshow1791]

I’ve been to the Philippines several times in my past , and yes camiquin island is beautiful, the island has a nice hot spring and a nice little White Island you can get a boat to visit , CDO was a main hub for me as I’ve been there several times, l came there during Holy Week one time , l was at Butuan city in from the latter part of October of 2013 and got caught in super typhoon Haiyan and didn’t get home right away as l came over for vacation, now I’m considering now to move there permanently as I am retired, I’m in the middle of most guys coming there, I’ve been there several times in the past but this time will be different, so I’m having a “thing” with my strategy but l do know l want to move to IT park as my first destination as a breaking in time , visiting is much different than living , and l guess that is why I’m being very hesitant about it, because once I pull the trigger, I go all the way and I have the income to basically live where l want , l could do it at BGC but I rather do it in Cebu for now , dating isn’t a priority for me, maybe once l do a few things and get established and have a routine in place , l will consider it but not before that.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Sounds like you have a plan. Good luck with your move let me know if I can help shake out some of your options.

[@theblackboxpodcastshow1791]

@ thank you and I will reach out when I do make my final moves before l get on a plane

[@mudhog2501]

Thanks Chrissy and Rob. That’s some awesome advice, and appreciate you making these types of videos. I have one question. What do Filipina girls think of heavily tattooed guys? I’m thinking of heading over for a recon holiday at the end of the year. I know a lot of Filipinas are very conservative, but are the younger generation more open to such things. I’m a relatively young (42) Australian and I have both arms, back and a leg completely tattooed. What would be my chances of finding a nice Filipina girl? Love some honest opinions or and first hand experiences from any of your listeners to. Keep up the great videos 👍

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Chrissy said many younger Philippines are watching a lot of western media and are very familiar with the trend in the west regarding tattoos, and while it may slow you down with some conservative girls, many others will understand because of your cultural background

[@mudhog2501]

Thanks mate. Appreciate the reply.

[@1100_Rebels_PH]

The importance of learning the local language cannot be overestimated, if you decide to live in PH permanently. You can live comfortably with English only. But if you want to dive deeper into the understanding of PH mentality and culture, it is next to impossible to be able to do so without some language knowledge. It starts with the principle of kapwa, the soul of Filipino culture, bayanihan as a way of life for traditional Filipinos, for a start. These words have no direct translation into English. Speaking Tagalog or a local language connects totally differently to Filipinos compared to speaking just English with/to them. I do this now for the past 33 years, so I know what I am talking of. 😊

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks for sharing that

[@zvishpigel2441]

Hi guys ) how is the crypto going in the Philippines ? are there exchanges where you can on the spot exchange BTC TO PESOS ????

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Sorry, not my thing

[@KINSEY1956]

Lots and lots of wonderful truisms concerning the philippines, cultural anthropology, practical day-to-day helpful ideas and of course how to deal with the Filipina. Now, let's talk about karaoke. I will disagree with you slightly when you said that one out of three Filipinos can sing, well. That is initially very true but, you get a local to start singing and it doesn't matter the quality of their voice..... they assume that they are performing at Hollywood Bowl, being backed up by the Los Angeles Philharmonic.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

You're right, the karaoke is something else! 😅

[@InvestInBricks]

I got married by paying the vicar 10k peaso then took the family to pizza hut 3 for 1200 peaso or some deal like that. Got couple of them everyone had lots of food and had never been to pizza hut before so thought it was like the Ritz. You don't have to spend huge amounts it depends on your Filipino.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

So true

[@arthurjackson861]

i've no plans to visit the philippines yet i would like donate to a certain family what the best way to send funds

[@JB-dk8zc]

Don't be a simp

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Email me at [e-mail] and I will tell you how I can help you

[@arthurjackson861]

@@JB-dk8zc you do you and i will do me freely give and you will freely recieve

[@bereth5006]

About this divorce Point. In Germany you can only file for divorce if you before register your "international" marriage at the marriage registry office. It`s a big load of paper work or paper war. For the divorce, when your Filipina can`t show up you need to work with the embassy, what makes it more stressful. I know more people watching from the US and Im curious how it`s to handle there?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Good question

[@rinphil]

Rob, On the question of Filipinos being very Family Oriented. I have a different take on it. There is very little in the way of Social Service's here in the Philippines so Children become their only form of a pension plan for thier Parents in their twilight years. Hence there is this narative being implied that Filipinos are somehow more Family Oriented than us in the West. One of the great privileges in the west is that we have a Poltical System where most Retires can live comfortably in retirement without burdening our children. This should not be confused with us being less Family Oriented.

[@Ego-Kills]

Family oriented means feeling obligated to help each other and doing it, staying in touch closely, being loyal to your parents...etc. Is it common to see these in the west? Compare Filipinos in the West to mainstream Western families(mainly white folks). Still Western-Filipinos have better family cohesion than others(mainly white folks). Even Eastern Europeans have better family cohesion than Western families

[@1100_Rebels_PH]

Children taking care of their ageing parents and grandparents has been practised in PH way before the "advancements" of western culture and their invention of home for seniors has been introduced in the west. What is being praised as "comfortably living without burdening their children" turns out in real life to be a stow-away place for seniors, whose children are not willing or able to take care of their parents. They get parked in these homes, where they wait for their sad end, being sorted out and feeling useless. Very often, grandparents here, who live with their children and grandchildren, are still embedded in daily life and help for example taking care of the grandchildren. It is not all and only about using children as a form of social security when old. For me, this is a too materialistic view, which derives from western mentality and cannot be found here that often.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks for watching our video

[@rinphil]

​@@1100_Rebels_PH Good to get some comments on this interesting topic and l can only speak from my own experience. My 92 year old Mother chose to move into what l would discribe as middle of the road retirement village. She chose this option because she wanted to keep her independence while still maintaining her connection with Family/Friends. Other benefits she saw we're 24 medical care available, organised daily activities, new friends she has made, and being able to cook for herself or have meals delivered on request. She has a revolving door of Family and Friends visiting daily. Sometimes l think she has a better Social Life than me. LOL. It is also comforting to know that all my Uncles/Aunts experienced the same happiness in their retirement. The point is in having travelled to the Phillipines this is a luxury that most Filipinos don't have hence there is this Sweeping Generalisation made that Filipinos are somehow more Family Oriented.

[@rinphil]

Good to get some alternative feed back on this interesting topic. I can only speak from my own experience. My 92 year old Mother chose to move to what l would describe as a middle of the road Retirement Village. She chose this option to retain her independence while still being able to maintain her connection to Family and Friends. Other benefits she saw we're 24 hour medical assistance if required, daily social activities organised for residents, new friends she has made, and being able to order in meals from the Village Cafe if she does not feel like cooking. She has a revolving door of family/friends visiting daily and sometimes l think she has a more active social life than me. LOL. All my Uncles/Aunts have also experienced the same happiness in their retirement. The point is this is a luxury that most Filipinos don't have, hence there is this Sweeping Generalisation made that Filipinos are somehow more Family Oriented.

[@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x]

So, speaking of divorce. What are the legal financial risks eg alimony and or child support?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Marrying a Filipina as a foreign national involves several legal and financial considerations. Here’s an overview to help you navigate the process: Legal Considerations: 1. Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage: Foreigners must obtain this certificate from their respective embassies or consulates in the Philippines. It confirms that there are no legal impediments to the marriage.  2. Marriage Validity: Ensure that the marriage complies with both Philippine laws and the laws of your home country to avoid complications. This includes adhering to legal requirements and procedures for marriage in the Philippines.  3. Immigration Status: Marriage to a Filipina does not automatically grant residency or immunity from immigration laws. You may need to apply for the appropriate visa to reside in the Philippines legally.  Financial Considerations: 1. Property Ownership: Philippine law restricts land ownership to Filipino citizens. As a foreigner, you cannot own land but can own up to 40% of a condominium unit. It’s common for property to be registered in the Filipino spouse’s name, which could pose risks in case of marital disputes. 2. Community Property Law: The Philippines follows the system of “absolute community of property,” meaning all assets acquired before and during the marriage are considered jointly owned, unless a prenuptial agreement states otherwise. This has significant implications for asset division in the event of separation or annulment. 3. Family Obligations: In Filipino culture, there is often a strong sense of duty to support extended family members. As a foreign spouse, you might encounter expectations to contribute financially to your spouse’s family, which could impact your financial planning.  Recommendations: • Prenuptial Agreement: Consider drafting a prenuptial agreement to clearly define asset ownership and financial responsibilities, protecting both parties’ interests. • Legal Counsel: Consult with a lawyer experienced in both Philippine and international family law to fully understand the legal and financial implications of your marriage. • Open Communication: Discuss financial expectations and cultural differences with your prospective spouse to ensure mutual understanding and agreement. By addressing these considerations proactively, you can better navigate the complexities associated with marrying a Filipina and establish a solid foundation for your future together.

[@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x]

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Thank you for that detailed response. 🙏🏽 Some shocking details for a retired man to consider before marriage.

[@stephengamber7000]

"show up with a 50 pound bag of rice, you can't go wrong"

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

🙏👍

[@johnperez6006]

Have you done any videos on the monthly added cost of a girlfriend's child/children to a budget?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

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[@Joe-mz6dc]

What's the biggest mistake foreigners make in relationships here in the philippines: having one.

[@petepinal8415]

Hi Rob & Chrissy, Assuming I like the woman I’m beginning to date, how big of a deal is it, “NOT” to want to meet her parents, until we’ve dated for at least 3 months. I “do” want to be in a serious/long-term relationship, but I think meeting her parents within a few days after beginning dating, is way too soon. I think, meeting her siblings would be a better option, and let “them” tell their parents, I’m worthy of dating their daughter. What are your thoughts? Would she be offended, if I didn’t want to meet her parents, until “she & I”, felt we’re “right” for each other?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

It is definitely a cultural difference and something you should discuss with her. Perhaps it can be no problem

[@petepinal8415]

@ Thx Rob, I appreciate the feedback. You’re right, it’s something I should discuss with her. After all, it’s out of respect for “her, and her parents”, that I wouldn’t want to meet them, “until” I know, our relationship is real, 🙏🏼❤️.

[@kimcarnegi2773]

Is the Christian dating site good there in the Filipinos

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Not sure it’s worth the price

[@kimcarnegi2773]

@FlyMeToThePhilippines yes thank you because it's very expensive to join an yes so many but because l have long hair an a mustache an tattoos there's a few things l have so yes it hard an yes l went through alot of women that didn't like it so yes l will just come down on my own then an yes l have watched a few of your videos so yes l have learnt lots from you already an yes thank you for your help an yes l will check it out an yes l am Canadian as well an yes 64 yrs old but in very good shape as well

[@jozah2148]

Dear Rob and Beautiful Chrissy, can I get Tampo from PH Dogs and roosters? 🐕🐓 #SILENCEISGOLDEN 🙏🏾🤣🇬🇧

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

It’s contagious

[@gt1601]

My Asawa should me Tampo101 23 yrs ago, that ended very fast. So today, we are still happily married. Pissed because she thought I was looking at other ladies.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Congratulations

[@bobkelley8291]

First time I was hit with tampo. Back in early 70's I dated a lady off and on for a couple years and decided to get married while on vacation. things were going well until the day before getting married she went silent. Time for the wedding came and went so when she got up and went to shower. I packed my bag and left thinking she was mentally ill. Another time another filipina went silent I left for a week she had freaked out upon my return and never tried that again because she knows I will leave but we broke up for other reasons. Tampo freaks us out so I just freak them out. It may work for some men. Grab the bull by the horns. Filipinas look so sweet and innocent with a nice smile but believe me most are not. So have fun and take your turn. Just as nice as you can about it. consider a vasectomy you can always get a reversal as I have met guys that travel. Pero bahala na

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks for sharing

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

Tampo. Need I say more?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

😳

[@neilasd3043]

1 lie makes you a liar never trust a liar they never change..

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Never say never but overall, I think you’re right

[@carsonc1272]

Owning Land: Can you lease the land from your filipina for ridiculously favorable terms?

[@billyjohnson9166]

No you can’t if you’re married to your Filipina. If you’re not married yes.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

This is the correct answer

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

See Billy’s answer below

[@timcrowell7171]

Hi guy's hey so I'm serious about moving to the Philippines. No I'm not rich and no I'm not looking for a girlfriend or wife. For now I'm just looking for a life change no hidden agenda. Im hoping that my budget of a thousand dollars 🇺🇸 us will work what's your thoughts can a single man in his 50s really do ok there. Thanks Tim

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

It’s possible, $800 is quite a lot for a Filipino salary. flymetothephilippinesconsultation.as.me/

[@American_Mike]

You cannot own land. You CAN own 100% of a building that is ON land you are leasing. Just get a lawyer.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

👍

[@jcjimc43]

Rob you really need to buy a vehicle and get out and drive yourself and be independant. I would not advise anyone to live in the Philippines and not have a car. Additionally also encourage your wife to drive also. Another thing to consider is to let your wife return to work especially in Teaching as she will find it difficult to find employment if God forbid anything should happen to you and Chrissy has to return to work at least that way she will have a pension in her own right.

[@sebastianheuwagen9317]

ive been renting a car this time during my stay. the traffic is so chaotic. you need to pay full attention. and drivving during night omg just slowly cause bad vision. In some areas they improve with traffic lights and traffic coordinators. thank god we managed to travel save to every destination but it was hell of a ride everytime i can tell.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Chrissy has some social media presence and skills she could utilize

[@marcusrex77]

If you live out in the mountains or provinces... will you see any cobras crawling around??

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Hope not 🫣

[@marcusrex77]

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines ... yes, but have you seen any. Do you have any snake stories to tell?

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

@ we got a python, a small one on our upstairs back balcony

[@marcusrex77]

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines ... thank you. And thanks for your tips about the Philippines.

[@carsonc1272]

Atheist here: I was up front on my profile about being an atheist. I had plenty of attention AND I ended up with a Filipina that is a heavy Catholic, but understanding of me not being religious.

[@FlyMeToThePhilippines]

Thanks for sharing that

[@reinhardtheler7999]

Same here .

[@williamb1880]

Wow. I would not have expected that. Many times I have explained to women that I am an atheist, but I am tolerant of others' religiosity and won't cause any problems - will even sit with them in church on Christmas, baptisms, etc. The only thing I ask is that they not try to convert me because it is impossible and will only end up with them hating me. They always back away as Christians cannot tolerate non-believers. Are you sure that your Filipina does't have the ultimate plan of trying to convert you? You know how women set about on day one of the marriage to "change" the man into exactly what they want.

[@carsonc1272]

@@williamb1880 I agree... No offense to anyone, but Christianity tends to be a socially reinforced belief system and non-believers add friction just by existing in that circle. I feel like you either sort religion out on the front end, or you sort it out on the back end. If you don't address it in your profile then you get more volume and it feels good to get that additional attention. However, you're set up for a higher fail rate later on. That means you've already invested time, money, and feelings when things fall apart. I hate to say it, but I'm a dating "professional" and know that it's way better for me to just suffer through that lower volume in the beginning. As it turns out, I didn't even have to suffer through that lower volume in the Philippines dating market. I'm 49 and wasn't after a large age gap so that is probably a factor to consider. It's difficult to answer your questions about the future. My Filipina is 35, has relationship experience, and has been very trustworthy so far. She's very clear about the things that she wants out of a relationship. I don't see her as being the type to try to change me. But we're in the early days of the LDR phase right now. So time will tell!

[@reinhardtheler7999]

@@williamb1880 That just depends on the woman . I never had any issues with it .