What Forgiveness Is NOT

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@baltareyes7603
@baltareyes7603 3 жыл бұрын
Im an atheist but I watch this lessons because they are just so wonderfully wise
@bruhbruh-us6gl
@bruhbruh-us6gl 3 жыл бұрын
Good fruit proceeds from good trees. Remember that Jesus loves you and believes that you were worth dying for. Have the same faith in Him that he has in you.
@shannonmaria22
@shannonmaria22 3 жыл бұрын
Please come home. Jesus will be waiting for you with open arms.
@shonenzoro2306
@shonenzoro2306 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus is waiting with open arms and he is here for you. Come home to him and his church. ❤️
@mattduin7144
@mattduin7144 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you. If noone else in the world existed and it was just you, Christ would still have died just for you
@CrankyGrandma
@CrankyGrandma 3 жыл бұрын
Father Alar has a lot wisdom. And he’s usually so gosh darn chipper I smile seeing most of his talks.
@janmcsween7079
@janmcsween7079 Жыл бұрын
God absolves us. I once had a priest say “forgive” instead of “absolve” in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. I checked with another priest and did a re-do. Absolution is forgiveness plus mercy. Absolution breaks the ties and restores the relationship that was broken and bound.
@valsummerfield3069
@valsummerfield3069 Жыл бұрын
This is helpful to me. I have been struggling with the thought of forgiving meaning "are things supposed to go back to how they were?" Because I can't because that person surely will hurt my feelings again. But I do want to forgive in my heart. I do not gate anyone. Thank you
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness doesn’t mean to forget 👏
@SAD-ij8in
@SAD-ij8in 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, father! I've been struggling because I can't forget something but when I look at whether I want revenge, the answer is no. I actually do wish my enemy good will.
@nicoloadiam594
@nicoloadiam594 3 жыл бұрын
Well said really nice to know others struggle with the same. Thank you Jesus! 😂
@gigiziggy2006
@gigiziggy2006 10 ай бұрын
I’m in the same boat. I love them and pray for them but I struggle to forget the hurts and betrayal endured so I’m relieved that Fr. Chris says we don’t necessarily have to be in relationship with them/reconcile but can love them from a distance(I pray daily & wish them all of God’s goodness & blessings be bestowed upon them). 😇🙏💓
@jacquelinelarsen6159
@jacquelinelarsen6159 2 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who is a protestant and I gave her the Bible verse about confessing your sins but she said that it doesn't say "to a priest". I told her Peter was the first pope and she said Catholics made all that stuff up. I just don't know what else to tell her. I did mention that well you trusted the Catholic church to put all the scriptures together to make the Bible as we know it and to determine what was Holy Spirit inspired and what was not. She couldn't argue with that!
@margueritelangton6362
@margueritelangton6362 3 жыл бұрын
Forgiving can be very difficult - but we can ask Jesus to HELP us to forgive! Praise God!
@parysethibodeau9474
@parysethibodeau9474 3 жыл бұрын
"forgiveness is a gift you give yourself"!!! sometimes its so hard but pray to God for the strength to forgive. Love these videos by Fr. Chris Alar - he's such a holy priest!!!
@AllanKoayTC
@AllanKoayTC 3 жыл бұрын
exactly what i needed to hear at this time when i have so much anger in my heart towards someone
@-gina1114
@-gina1114 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Allan, Guess what!!! The Bible has FINALLY ARRIVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@JohnR.T.B.
@JohnR.T.B. 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, to be able to forgive others, no matter what, is to be very close to the heart of Jesus Christ.
@aiko-denki1476
@aiko-denki1476 Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, father.
@nellennatea
@nellennatea 2 жыл бұрын
This is what we need as leaders of our nations. Awesome caring words said to us like this is said to us. Thank you Father.
@unapequeñaalma
@unapequeñaalma 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the final blessing, Father.
@Ftmyersbeachlizard
@Ftmyersbeachlizard 3 жыл бұрын
When we forgive someone we acknowledge that that person did us some harm and that we simply let God sort it out and we get to let it go. O want to add that I have had four major major RIP offs in my life...by four people who hurt me terribly...I have no idea if I've forgiven them but it still surely hurts every single day...and I don't want revenge.
@garyhooper3064
@garyhooper3064 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Amen
@gigiziggy2006
@gigiziggy2006 10 ай бұрын
Me too, you don’t know just how badly…thank God for bringing this to me!🙏💖
@corazonreyes6762
@corazonreyes6762 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Fr.Chris.God bless and protect you and your family.❤❤❤
@buckeyeguy82
@buckeyeguy82 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you father for explaining this, it's what I needed to hear.
@tlng9466
@tlng9466 3 жыл бұрын
I’m scared now if I don’t forgive- I don’t want to lose my salvation! 😆 “I absolve you.” - my Favorite part of confession!
@esyphillis101
@esyphillis101 Жыл бұрын
That sounds more like you’re afraid of being punished for not being okay with someone who wronged you.
@brien1513
@brien1513 2 ай бұрын
It's hard right now to forgive my father. I ask Jesus to help me forgive him and to help my father. I can't address the issues with love, do Im letting God show my father the love I can't show or have.
@alexrcanez
@alexrcanez 3 жыл бұрын
Father, please forgive us for our sins. We need to be free of everything. I surrender everything to You, My Lord. Please save us.
@heathsavage4852
@heathsavage4852 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this clarification. Thank you Father.
@gigiziggy2006
@gigiziggy2006 10 ай бұрын
I finally understand clearly now, thank you father… I am so relieved!!
@mrstrongable
@mrstrongable 3 жыл бұрын
I love my brother Chris Alar. A great Marian priest in my opinion.
@gigiziggy2006
@gigiziggy2006 10 ай бұрын
The best and he explains things with such simple clarity!!!
@michelleharkness7549
@michelleharkness7549 3 жыл бұрын
fwiw - a family counselor once said that the opposite of Guilt is Forgiveness. Since guilt is purported to be fear combined with worry I would imagine that the experience of forgiveness is an amazing feeling of well -being, peace and joy. If we can do this for others we can also do this for ourselves, thanks to the great sacrifice of Jesus on the cross for our big and small transgressions. Thank you, Jesus. Again, thank you 🙏
@michelleharkness7549
@michelleharkness7549 3 жыл бұрын
Greetings from southcentral Texas USA 🇺🇸: hoping and praying that the Marians ( which includes you, Father Chris) are all right. Enormous huge 🤗 hug
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
Amen father 👏
@angelabarbato5307
@angelabarbato5307 3 жыл бұрын
Great Speaker., he's a Great Straight out speacher God bless him for that.
@Benzo_-dp6bp
@Benzo_-dp6bp 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much father
@pammiesingkho1786
@pammiesingkho1786 3 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL Father, I LUV how u explained what forgiveness is!! Now, makes me wanna sing Ama namin Sumasalangit ka Sambahin ang ngalan mo Mapa sa amin ang kaharian mo Sundin ang luob mo Dito sa lupa para na sa langit Bigyan no kame ngayon ang aming kakanin as araw-araw at patawarin mo kame sa aming mga sala para na pagpapatawad namin sa nagcacasala sa amin at wag mo kame ipahintulot sa tukso at iadya mo kame sa lahat ng masama.
@paula5440
@paula5440 Жыл бұрын
Such a great help and explained so clearly, THANKYOU
@paulhill7726
@paulhill7726 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fr for your love for GOD’s people!!!
@jamesreed2366
@jamesreed2366 3 жыл бұрын
I used to think forgive and reconcile were the same thing, but learning from videos like this and other christians that they are not the same thing. Forgiveness also doesn't mean you should trust the person who sinned against you and you are not wrong to mistrust them. The way I see forgiveness is by not holding onto grudges, you accept the past and move on.
@juliennelomocso6294
@juliennelomocso6294 3 жыл бұрын
thank you father 🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰
@KnightGeneral
@KnightGeneral Жыл бұрын
Love seeing Fr.Chris here. I always find coming back in his videos. Keep it up guys! Ascension is my favorite Channel
@LCccce6
@LCccce6 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining the Catholic and Christian words. Since Ascension’s program’s I’ve been learning and loving my faith more.
@debrabutler6005
@debrabutler6005 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you God For the Gift of Forgiveness
@dsc4178
@dsc4178 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@darlenesnowdon1870
@darlenesnowdon1870 10 ай бұрын
With addiction in family this is so difficult to keep forgiving almos5 daily and slowly losing the 100 percent love and respect for them .
@seattleLilTokyo
@seattleLilTokyo 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Father.
@siam5579
@siam5579 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks father, this helped me more than you will ever know 😊👍🙏
@giarose6493
@giarose6493 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings
@SamMcCloskey-j5y
@SamMcCloskey-j5y 24 күн бұрын
We should pray for the salvation of those who hurt us but if you have suffered trauma for years and years from anyone you need a lot of emotional healing to even pray for these people
@wms72
@wms72 3 жыл бұрын
I forgive, but remembering causes the pain to hurt again. The wrong done to me lives on, its ramifications live on.
@alexanderocampo9256
@alexanderocampo9256 3 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏
@PSN_MrDeath91
@PSN_MrDeath91 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom 👏
@philipallard8026
@philipallard8026 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Father.
@Samthecatholic
@Samthecatholic 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I really needed this.🙏
@angelaspielbusch1237
@angelaspielbusch1237 Жыл бұрын
Perfect message ❤
@theclapaolini4322
@theclapaolini4322 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent clear true GREAT INSTRUCTION WILL DO A LOT OF GOOD.
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@StBloodeD09
@StBloodeD09 2 жыл бұрын
For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5
@JayRedding12_12
@JayRedding12_12 3 жыл бұрын
I really have to make an appointment for my Confession. I've been putting it off way too long.
@gigiziggy2006
@gigiziggy2006 10 ай бұрын
I’m going this Saturday before Divine Mercy Sunday🙏😇
@martageorge2307
@martageorge2307 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏✝️
@JohnSoh
@JohnSoh 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing!
@erinblue4043
@erinblue4043 Жыл бұрын
Mercy>Forgiveness
@GardenMinistry.
@GardenMinistry. 3 жыл бұрын
Father Chris thank you for this explanation, can you do one on the sin of pride? I can't find many on KZbin explaining the steps you must take to humble yourself and combat pride. This is a sin I struggle with daily, if there were a text book on pride and humbleness, I'd absolutely study it haha Thank God for the sacrament of confession, I use it often and repent earnestly.
@christiandpaul631
@christiandpaul631 3 жыл бұрын
In forgiveness you do not have to take someone back and give them the opportunity to cross your boundaries again. Forgiveness means that you release yourself of the burden. Forgiveness is beneficial to you. It does nothing for the offender. He is neither here nor there after you forgive him. No one should ever be thinking of revenge, self protection is not revenge, but a planned attack is revenge and a terrible sin on YOU to suffer consequences. If in the example that someone stole 2000 dollars you can take measures within the law to recover that or you can let them go, it is up to you.
@Gothicforever1790
@Gothicforever1790 3 жыл бұрын
No fear in love
@georgesmith364
@georgesmith364 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus is in the Confessional and speaks through the Priest.
@crisr3055
@crisr3055 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼
@anthonyalnawwar4266
@anthonyalnawwar4266 Жыл бұрын
as christians are we required to be merciful and if yes how to be it when someone is constantly harming you in bad ways such as physical, mental, economical, manipulation etc...?
@mph1ish
@mph1ish Жыл бұрын
You can stay away from that person. Being a Christian does not mean you need to endure abuse or theft.
@beckyholbrook7253
@beckyholbrook7253 3 жыл бұрын
How do I forgive someone who thinks they didn’t hurt me? Can I just forgive them in my heart?
@elvenbourne
@elvenbourne 2 жыл бұрын
I think that's a great question. There are so many nuances to forgiving aren't there? I heard it said before that when something face-to-face is not possible or it's impractical, then the best thing we can do is to bring it to God prayerfully. When someone cuts you off in traffic and makes you mad or you otherwise don't know the identity of the offender, then prayerfully forgiving them and praying further more for their conversion of heart is the best thing we can ever do for them. Especially praying for them/for their change of heart/for their conversion, it's known in the church as a spiritual work of mercy. I often think about this with evangelization. Often people are unready to hear from us about God, much less about The Church. Praying on their behalf, and especially by name and from the heart, can do so much good. Our Lady tells us this all the time. One other thing I would be remiss not to point out, and father kind of converted it in this video, that is the onus or responsibility we have to those who offend us to (lovingly and tenderly or thoughtfully) point out the offense and correct the offender, especially if the sin they are committing against you and against God is a grave matter. And be persistent about it. Sometimes we need repeated encounters with mercy to really open our eyes to our own wrongdoing. That is important for us to remember in our own sinfulness as well. 🙂
@seans.131
@seans.131 3 жыл бұрын
" If someone takes away your coat, give him as a gift your shirt as well...if any one forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles."
@rdbare4216
@rdbare4216 3 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness should never be denial of bad character. And, sometimes reconciliation is a near occasion of sin, without virtue.
@annasahlstrom6109
@annasahlstrom6109 3 жыл бұрын
If we are forgiven to the measure we forgive, I'm in big trouble. The little queen of grudges.
@TheMDelima
@TheMDelima 3 жыл бұрын
LOL, I used to be that way, but asking Jesus (whole heatedly) for help to learn to forgive has really turned me around. Try it!
@annasahlstrom6109
@annasahlstrom6109 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMDelima I'm the definition of stubborn and He knows it.
@daved57
@daved57 2 жыл бұрын
If you’re the Queen, I am the King. It’s so much easier to let grudges go when life is going along smoothly. But add some stress into the recipe and Bang, I’m chewing on things that rankled me years ago. God help us all.
@albertaowusu3536
@albertaowusu3536 3 жыл бұрын
Amen🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🙏✝️
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@dawnmireles2912
@dawnmireles2912 2 жыл бұрын
June 27, 2022
@nileaugustine5882
@nileaugustine5882 10 ай бұрын
Book Called to Forgive by Reverend Anthony B. Thompson.
@donnanelson9181
@donnanelson9181 3 жыл бұрын
I have no problem forgiving, it hurts me too much to not forgive, but as a sinner I know I’ve hurt others, one in particular who seems incapable or forgiving even the slightest transgression despite my sincere apology and despite the fact that this person hurt me as well. How do I handle that relationship?
@adacathy3018
@adacathy3018 Жыл бұрын
ngl i dont get confession, doesn't make sense but you really do come out like a whole different person, lighter and freer
@123operasinger
@123operasinger 3 жыл бұрын
When I was a 16 year old Catholic virgin I was raped. He made me pregnant and I lost my baby at 6 weeks. Now (14 years on) the police called me to help them with an investigation against my rapist. On Friday I got a big update and I am really really hoping that it is going to go to court. Do I forgive my rapist? NO! The trauma was so severe that it made me develop psychosis … I believed I was possessed by demons. My priest saved my life by consistently telling me I was not, no matter whether I believed him or not
@IONov990
@IONov990 3 жыл бұрын
I am awfully sorry that something like this happened to you. I hope you find peace and healing. God be with you.
@georgesmith364
@georgesmith364 3 жыл бұрын
I understand why you don't forgive your rapist but ask for God to give you the Strength to forgive. God be with you God loves you! He has a plan for you! I will pray for you.
@bruhbruh-us6gl
@bruhbruh-us6gl 3 жыл бұрын
Love your enemies. This was one of the hardest lessons for me to learn, but those that harm you and abuse you will suffer far more than the suffering they inflicted upon you if they do not repent. Pray for them so that they may see the error of their ways.
@CA-cv7te
@CA-cv7te 3 жыл бұрын
I do not think that looking for justice is in conflict with forgiveness.
@kelechukwuanozyk7605
@kelechukwuanozyk7605 3 жыл бұрын
How did you lose your baby at 6weeks? Did you do abortion? Abortion causes more wound and hurt than rape
@anitarushlow4022
@anitarushlow4022 3 жыл бұрын
What is the difference between forgiveness during confession versus sanctification? If I die immediately after I go to confession and receive the Eucharist will I go straight to Heaven? Please help me understand.
@IONov990
@IONov990 3 жыл бұрын
I can hold onto the pettiest of offenses. I remember and talk about these offenses in the present. When a family member calls me out on it I become humiliated. It is a bad habit to hold onto the past. I have difficulty accepting the Church's teachings on forgiveness.
@christophrichthofen1241
@christophrichthofen1241 3 жыл бұрын
Rest assured we can all be like this, we're only human! It doesn't matter if we fall a thousand times as long as we get up and start again. As Divine Mercy reveals, God's mercy is unfathomable. Take care friend.
@IONov990
@IONov990 3 жыл бұрын
@@christophrichthofen1241 Do you think it is pride that leads humans to seek perfection? I want to be good but I wonder if I want to be good for God, to please people, or to escape punishment and judgment from people. I care far more about pleasing people and escaping judgment and punishment versus doing good to please God. I cannot see God or feel His presence but I can see and feel human judgment
@christophrichthofen1241
@christophrichthofen1241 3 жыл бұрын
@@IONov990 I'm no expert, but I can't see why all those won't somehow overlap. Helping and pleasing people will in turn please God (i.e. whatever you do the least of my brethren, you do it to me) Escaping judgment from people is also hopefully a good sign that you're being charitable towards your neighbour as God commanded. If you feel good when you treat people right, then maybe you are feeling the touch of the Holy Spirit's approval. I know it needs a lot of faith, but we can see God in the Eucharist (not too much faith though given the many scientifically investigated Eucharistic miracles...Ray Grijalba of The Joy of the Faith KZbin channel is launching a big movie about this later this year). There's nothing at all wrong in my opinion of having a healthy fear of God and so wanting to try and remain in a state of grace in order to be ready for our particular judgement. Just my thoughts, but I hope they help.
@IONov990
@IONov990 3 жыл бұрын
@@christophrichthofen1241 I guess the ideal is to do things out of love for God instead of out of fear
@christophrichthofen1241
@christophrichthofen1241 3 жыл бұрын
@@IONov990 I definitely agree, no better reason than that.
@mikerossi411
@mikerossi411 3 жыл бұрын
I forgave someone, and I told God so. But I haven't told that person. Am I required to do so?
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
👏
@seans.131
@seans.131 3 жыл бұрын
I think my understanding of the theology of the sacrament of reconciliation is deficient. I have a couple books, including the Catechism, to help remedy this (Fr. Mike's book is currently unavailable in paperback at Amazon). It seems bizarre, if I understand you correctly, so I will research it. "So if you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift" (Matthew 5:23-24). In my life I have friends who have lost people in their lives over trivial misunderstandings. People are literally misunderstanding one another, quite obviously, and this is being used as grounds for dismissal. I have seen it several times. Thank you.
@seans.131
@seans.131 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, it looks like all I had in mind is CCC 1459; so, I suppose it is merely a matter of application. I will also read Coming Closer to Christ: Confession and Forgiveness by Met. Anthony Bloom, which I had lying around. Please excuse my ignorance on this subject, and thank you for your time. God bless.
@pragashgnana597
@pragashgnana597 10 ай бұрын
I get so triggered around my dad from when I was young I seen him abuse my mom physically and even now psychologically. everytime i try to forgive him he continues with his bs and all i have inside me right now is anger. idk i want to give up but I don't want to lose God
@danielleneri4031
@danielleneri4031 2 жыл бұрын
How do you forgive someone who has no idea that they did anything wrong?
@mph1ish
@mph1ish Жыл бұрын
I'm in that situation, and I don't think it matters what they think. You just forgive in your heart.
@gigiziggy2006
@gigiziggy2006 10 ай бұрын
Do we really have to talk to them and tell them because it will cause another fight and to sin which that I’m avoiding I don’t want any contact whatsoever unless they have a changed heart which I have been praying for…
@pierreschiffer3180
@pierreschiffer3180 11 ай бұрын
Forgiveness is rooted in justice: in case someone steals my bike, that person needs to give back my bike in order to be forgiven. Forgiveness is not unconditional: we are told by Scripture to forgive others as God has forgiven us. God forgives us on the condition that we are repentant, thus we forgive others on the same condition. We are obliged to forgive others on this condition, but not to reconcile with others: everyone is free to choose their friends and to stay away from those untrusted.
@jojo_mcelwee6591
@jojo_mcelwee6591 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@nikolakitanovic5705
@nikolakitanovic5705 Жыл бұрын
We bad one priest who said it very simply. It means "oh, you can go spit under my window". Croatian proverb. So, what it means is, you can say or think or do whatever you want of me, but I'm not taking it as the image of myself; not taking it as the truth. So, if I offended you, and you are now angry, I succeeded. But if you just don't take it, you succeeded.
@godfirst3709
@godfirst3709 Жыл бұрын
A major and concerning thing that I feel is missing from this video is the very relevant piece that if you have wronged someone, you need to confess *to the person you have wronged* and ask for forgiveness from *them*. James 5:16 NIV Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. A confession with a priest is not an apology to a person you have hurt.
@clarekuehn4372
@clarekuehn4372 Жыл бұрын
What about occasional anger, even though one doesn't want revenge?
@andrewwilson6980
@andrewwilson6980 Жыл бұрын
YOU SINNER
@MarquisFacade88
@MarquisFacade88 Жыл бұрын
Luke 17 v3 states “if he repents,” with regard to forgiving a brother. With the exception of ignorance, are we required to forgive those who don’t seek it? Does God forgive us if we don’t ask for it? Yes, we must forgive, but it seems the sinner must acknowledge the sin first. If I’m wrong, explain it to me.
@pierreschiffer3180
@pierreschiffer3180 11 ай бұрын
You are right and you put it well. God tells us exactly to forgive others like He has forgiven us, which is through repentance only. No repentance implies no Divine forgiveness, and we are told to imitate Him regarding forgiving others. Watch the video The Disaster of False Forgiveness by a faithful Catholic Presbyter.
@joannebywaters4154
@joannebywaters4154 3 жыл бұрын
❤🙏🙏
@annaloph
@annaloph 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🕊💜
@luluq01
@luluq01 3 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Yes, the priest is absolving us but he is acting “in persona Christi”. Thank you.
@Ezekiel336-16
@Ezekiel336-16 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, father. We are commanded to love by not keeping a record of wrongs. The Spirit of what you are saying is starting out very well, but it's incomplete since biblical forgiveness (between brothers and sisters IN Christ) is supposed to include healing that leads to reconciliation. Your message is spot on when we are dealing with unrepentant nonbelievers, or phony Christians, but not when we are dealing with truly born again disciples who have surrendered all to Him. The standards and expectations between us and each other or others (nonbelievers) are different. In Christ, Andrew
@helencastelino2261
@helencastelino2261 3 жыл бұрын
What about people within your own family, members and, husband, wife, and your own both side in- laws? Whom you are going to live with all your life till you are called from this world? And they keep hurting, wounding, troubling, insulting, keep shouting, hitting, beating, scaring, keep threating you, doing violance with you and all your babies? I mean completely hells people and bad people, evil, wicked people as family and into a family? Please answer and please pray for all such family's. Especially for all truly good, goodness, blessed, inocent, babies youngeronce, in such family's......... thanks Fr.
@j.vanbreugel2378
@j.vanbreugel2378 9 ай бұрын
Would love to answer. What exactly is your question? 🤍
@gemum4219
@gemum4219 11 ай бұрын
What does "letting go" mean? How do we do that if our brains are wired towards survival? Some of these experiences make us hyper vigilant. Some cause us to be confused us about humanity and our social expectations of others. Sometimes the confusion is so heightened that the only safe way is avoiding people and constantly reminding yourself of other's behaviors that might be a threat. I didn't see what happened to me coming AT ALL! Which makes me believe I have to pay a LOT more attention and NOT give others the benefit-of-the-doubt EVER again. I was dealing with a psychopath. And even one psychopath in your life is ruinous!!! I know. And for anyone who thinks they would never experience this, that you are too clever, NO you are not. This is why psychopaths are good at what they do; they are good at manipulation. Again, to cope I have to revisit the experience as a means of survival. I remind myself daily what signs to look for. I cannot "let it go" or it will happen again.
@adacathy3018
@adacathy3018 Жыл бұрын
can we just inject this into my veins so that i don't forget? or download them into my brain lol
@gemum4219
@gemum4219 11 ай бұрын
But what if the priest you confess to doesn't like you? He may not pass God's forgiveness to you, no?
@SamMcCloskey-j5y
@SamMcCloskey-j5y 24 күн бұрын
Jimmy Akin gives a talk on forgiveness on Catholic Answers on youtube. He quotes Matthew 18 where Jesus says if your brother repents and comes to you asking forgiveness, then we must forgive. A man rang in asking about forgiveness, saying some people seem to take delight in hurting us, are we supposed to forgive. Not if they are unrepentant. There is too much miss information about forgiveness.
@keithdaragon
@keithdaragon 2 жыл бұрын
But shouldn't our emotions run their course? For the sake of a natural way of being, letting go leads you back. Perhaps expressions of disappointment could and should be expressed, rather than filtered out through forgiveness.
@keithdaragon
@keithdaragon 2 жыл бұрын
The message of the video is good though
@edwinmontes4202
@edwinmontes4202 3 ай бұрын
The concept of confession of sin to a priest is nowhere taught in Scripture. First, the New Testament does not teach that there are to be priests in the New Covenant. Instead, the New Testament teaches that all believers are priests. First Peter 2:5-9 describes believers as a “holy priesthood” and a “royal priesthood.” Revelation 1:6 and 5:10 both describe believers as “a kingdom of priests.” In the Old Covenant, the faithful had to approach God through the priests. The priests were mediators between the people and God. The priests offered sacrifices to God on behalf of the people. That is no longer necessary. Because of Jesus’ sacrifice, we can now approach God’s throne with boldness (Hebrews 4:16). The temple veil tearing in two at Jesus’ death was symbolic of the dividing wall between God and humanity being destroyed. We can approach God directly, ourselves, without the use of a human mediator. Why? Because Jesus Christ is our great High Priest (Hebrews 4:14-15; 10:21) and the only mediator between us and God (1 Timothy 2:5). The New Testament teaches that there are to be elders (1 Timothy 3:1-7; Titus 1:6-9), deacons (1 Timothy 3:8-13), and pastors (Ephesians 4:11) - but not priests. When it comes to confession of sin, believers are told in 1 John 1:9 to confess their sins to God. God is faithful and just to forgive our sins as we confess them to Him. James 5:16 speaks of confessing our trespasses “to one another,” but this is not the same as confessing sins to a priest as the Roman Catholic Church teaches. Priests / church leaders are nowhere mentioned in the context of James 5:16. Further, James 5:16 does not link forgiveness of sins with the confession of sins “to one another.” The Roman Catholic Church bases their practice of confession to a priest primarily on Catholic tradition. Catholics do point to John 20:23, “If you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” From this verse, Catholics claim that God gave the apostles the authority to forgive sins and that authority was passed on to the successors of the apostles, i.e., the bishops and priests of the Roman Catholic Church. There are several problems with this interpretation. (1) John 20:23 nowhere mentions confession of sin. (2) John 20:23 nowhere promises or even hints that apostolic authority of any kind would be passed on to the successors of the apostles. (3) The apostles never once in the New Testament acted as if they had the authority to forgive a person’s sin. Similarly, Catholics point to Matthew 16:19 and 18:18 (binding and loosing) as evidence for the Catholic Church’s authority to forgive sins. The same three above points apply equally to these Scriptures. The ability to forgive sins is God’s and His alone (Isaiah 43:25). The better understanding of John 20:23 is that the apostles were given the responsibility of declaring with utmost certainty the terms on which God would forgive sins. As the church was being founded, the apostles declared that those who believed the gospel were forgiven (Acts 16:31) and those who did not obey the gospel faced judgment (2 Thessalonians 1:8; 1 Peter 4:17). As the apostles proclaimed salvation in Christ (Acts 10:43) and exercised church discipline (1 Corinthians 5:4-5), they were wielding the authority Christ had given them. Again, the concept of confession of sin to a priest is nowhere taught in Scripture. We are to confess our sins to God (1 John 1:9). As New Covenant believers, we do not need mediators between us and God. We can go to God directly because of Jesus’ sacrifice for us. First Timothy 2:5 says, “For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.”
@karinagbarros1
@karinagbarros1 3 жыл бұрын
😫💞💞💞💞
@ckjf1117
@ckjf1117 3 жыл бұрын
🙏☯️✝️✝️
@philipbaker2894
@philipbaker2894 3 жыл бұрын
Only God can forgive Sin.
@mph1ish
@mph1ish Жыл бұрын
Jesus gave that authority to His Apostles who were the first Christian priests.
@handicappuccino8491
@handicappuccino8491 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I post things on the Internet and I’m like why did I post that? I don’t know these people That blocked me what you would think that would make it better, but it doesn’t because my goal is to get open AI open bionics an NDT to team up since my channel is the music channel, the song would be modeled after reach for the stars from sonic colors also wrote a song called reformation on romance, which explains how my mental state was totally inconsistent with someone that was sexually abused i’m traumatized by it I bet sketchy the changeling would change his mind if he saw that
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