What Happens After Someone Dies By Suicide?

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If you are tempted to end your pain by ending your life: Please know suicide is not okay with the Spirit World. It slows the progression of your soul’s journey and hampers life lessons to be learned.
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Many people worry about their Loved Ones when they die by suicide. What happens to them in the afterlife? Are they okay? In this webinar recording, Psychic Medium Amy Utsman answer these questions and more.
🗝 Amy Utsman's perspectives and opinions are based on her experience as a professional psychic medium for over 15 years.
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[@kdlofty]

People who commit suicide are NOT selfish. They're DESPERATE.

[@vani-uz9of]

I know, agreed

[@AmyUtsman]

Couldn't agree more. Not sure why this is said here. Not mentioned in my video but the opposite. In fact I have been down that road myself and barely survived 2 times.

[@kdlofty]

@@AmyUtsman That is a road that I'm my way down. Haven't seen anywhere I can turn off yet though.

[@Limosethe]

​@@AmyUtsmanWhat happens when someone who doesn't believe in an afterlife, dies?

[@aliya5230]

@@Limosethe’m not sure if it exactly matters if you don’t believe in the afterlife, if there is really no such thing as death (in terms of transitioning and the soul never dying). Hopefully she will be able to answer your question.

[@salanzaldi4551]

People who kill themselves don't want to die, they want to end their pain be it emotional or physical.

[@notcountingsheep3361]

Yep, I don't think they fully comprehend the forever decision

[@phoenixtoash2396]

​@@notcountingsheep3361I think they do realize it. They just can't be ok with no one else thinking that they have a right to cause that pain on them.

[@notcountingsheep3361]

@@phoenixtoash2396 and in the end they transfer their pain to the people left behind, plus more pain than they could even imagine.

[@phoenixtoash2396]

@@notcountingsheep3361 I myself do comprehend the forever thing. I am aware. And I would rather have not been born thank you.

[@sarahimcoles7115]

Absolutely ,I have nursed people in chronic pain . I Had a friend such bad childhood then bipolar I saw her few days before she was smiling never had a clue she was going to take her life that weekend .

[@lynnmckenna9934]

I am a medium and psychotherapist. I have over 40 years of experience. There is no judgement across the veil for people who have died by suicide. There is only unconditional love- and support to experience a profound and self loving perspective on one’s previous life. It is only our human fears that cause us to judge suicides. The Great Mystery is limitless in its understanding.

[@phoenixtoash2396]

I only fear chains. That is all I ever held as a fear. Otherwise pain is fear leaving the body.

[@jirigrill698]

So if someone commits suicide, they are not punished in any way?

[@lynnmckenna9934]

@@jirigrill698 There is no punishment. There is the opportunity for insight, understanding, and growth. The Creator of this entire universe has levels of love/intelligence/compassion/understanding/perspective/peace that completely transcend the limited human ideas of “punishment.”

[@PragyaDongre-v8w]

​@@jirigrill698why are you asking this

[@jirigrill698]

@@PragyaDongre-v8w For practical reasons.

[@winter_s_44]

I’m sorry, but I have yet to hear a good reason against suicide. All I ever hear is that loved ones here (assuming you have any) will be hurt. Okay, if you died in a car crash or of an illness or are murdered, they will be hurt too. There is no difference. If you don’t want to be here and you cannot cope, why should you be kept here in pain for the benefit of people who don’t have the power to help you even if they wanted to?

[@helixevol]

I agree.. especially when these « loved ones » knew and didn’t do anything because themselves were also part of the problem… I’m supposed to be traumatised and suffer in advance about their pain of me not staying alive. And I have to suffer again when I die because of their pain? Why are we treated like we were their property ? I’m my own self and I don’t want to be attached to other peoples pain. I have been attached to their pain unfortunately my whole life and it’s time to just think about me. I would rather evolve in a spiritual world without material distraction or concerns that only makes the process slower and more painful.

[@emailkirsie]

Agree. I've always felt like I didn't belong here. I feel so intensely and can't deal with the harshness of this world. When I had my son I changed. I fought for him. He gave me life, he was my life. I remained vulnerable but for him I continued. March 10, at the age of 12, he was hit by a truck. I immediately decided that my life would end too. I want to attend the trial so I have to hold on but it's hell. I don't want to and can't live without my son, although I know it will hurt my parents, brother and friends even more. They are already broken. That's a terrible fight but I don't want to be here anymore. It's always said that suicide is selfish. I always say, if people around you want you to hurt because they can't handle losing you that's selfish. Only I have to be honest, now that I'm so serious about ending this life it unfortunately does feel selfish. It's a battle that tears me apart. Every night I hope I don't wake up again. I want to give everyone who feels bad a hug 🧡

[@notcountingsheep3361]

You're scared of feeling

[@robynwaldo5565]

Someone's suicide IS a TOTALLY DIFFERENT LOSS .it's a whole different pain.

[@unsatisfactory2169]

@@emailkirsieI cannot imagine the pain you feel or how heartbroken you are. I will not pretend to say I know how you feel because I think losing a child would be the most unbearable amount of pain. However, unfortunately I do know what it feels like to lose someone to suicide. I lost my beautiful, precious sister, Michelle this June and the pain and heartache I feel is unimaginable. I know my sister didn’t want her life to end, she just want the pain and uncertainty to end. I hope you are able to find peace and God heals your broken heart. Sending hugs your way. 🤗❤

[@maryannharney7258]

I’m watching this 2 weeks pre anniversary date of my daughters passing in 2020. I do get lots of signs, dreams, messages and feel her around. I feel that the suffering is not with the deceased but with the family forever heart broken with a loss of a beloved family member. I know for sure that she had always loved us with a full heart and was grateful for us and she would tell us often and she knew we loved her as well, but the burden of addiction is to much to live with and overcome. I compared it to her living with a dragon on her back. I write this comment with tears rolling down my face even after 2 years. Thank you for this video, she wanted me to see it.

[@juliehilton1701]

I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain you are still suffering xx

[@nicolebecker-langner6424]

Two years is not a long time. I'm also still grieving after 2 years, 4 months. Love from Germany.

[@wendyfay16]

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[@wendyfay16]

@@nicolebecker-langner6424 ❤❤

[@fortheloveoffreygrey4674]

God bless you and your family! Sending loving & healing energy your way ❤

[@tmaree1077]

The only selfishness involved with suicide is those who declare the act as selfish. They are their own perception. My firstborn and only son left me in October of 2023. I've lost too many friends to suicide over the years as well. I've never considered him, or anyone else, selfish for taking their life. We all have free will. Those who label suicide as selfish are themselves selfish for expecting another being to endure their own personal agony to spare them the pain of the loss. I understand why my boy left. It may not have been well thought out, but I understand. I've experienced the same anxiety and depression since I was young. The only thing keeping me here now is refusing to inflict the additional pain on my two daughters. All anyone can, and should do, is show immense grace and be present if needed. Judgement is not warranted or wanted. God is pure love. If I, my boy, and others are good enough for God's grace and love, I'm certainly not going to tolerate anyone's harsh judgment while I'm stuck on this tormented Earth. This journey is not for the faint of heart. I do not wish it upon anyone. Many hugs and much love to you all. 💔 Colton's Mom 💔 Forever 29 💔

[@WrenChastain]

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[@getfitwithmonica]

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[@AstroMoonGoddess]

43:00 I’m not trying to bring conflict only trying to start a dialogue. I’ve been over this myself as a psychic medium. My belief changed when one of my guides (who died by self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head at the age of 21 due to mental illness) told me that his suicide was part of his pre-birth contract. My awareness continues to expand when it comes to the subject of death suicide and the other side. There are all sorts of ways people can die. I don’t think suicide is always contractual but I cannot believe that it isn’t sometimes contractual, either. Suicide is still a way that people die, I think it’s just tied to a lot of deep-rooted beliefs and prejudices that maybe human beings need to learn how to shed. Sending love and many thanks for making this video! 💚💚💚

[@queenofneverland9007]

Thank you so much for writing that. I know Amy doesn't believe that but I watch a lot of psychics and they all have said that their guides and passed over spirits told them that their su!cide was one of the ways they could exit this world and that all of those were written in their contract as a possibility. Also I heard that those contracts we sign are not full of things we should do and are not specific because we have free will and can change things that happen to certain degree. Let's say in contract can say that we could d!e at 25 from su!cide then if we don't we can d!e at 50 at surgery, or if we have one child one thing will happen, if we have none other things will happen,...and all things in contract are written like that, like a possibility. Right now I am debating should I end my life or not but honestly I could never imagine myself being even 40 years old, let alone 80. Also I don't really want anything in life, I have no desires like other people have. I don't want husband, kids, some nice job, going on summer vacations, watching my children grow, having grandchildren,... I don't know I just feel like I can't see my life moving forward and was thinking that maybe this is my time to exit this life. And I don't even feel sad about it. I feel like I did all I had to in this life, have learned all I had to learn and now is my time to go. So maybe it is in my contract.

[@angeljaia4792]

ah that’s very interesting. 💓 technically, all death is suicide. contractual or not, the persons spirit team is fully aware that it’s very possible tht that person would try to end their life. given the challenges and lessons they face.

[@D0vin00]

DO NOT CALL that hotline!!!! You’ll be hospitalized and treated like an animal! Your life will be in ruins - THEY DO NOT CARE!!!

[@keithhunt5328]

Creepy

[@sebastianaugustgolden-myreng]

Fr

[@christopherleubner6633]

Yup been through it. They keep you talking then cops show up unexpected. Then put in a mental hospital. 🙄💩

[@isaacthompson2343]

That's what happened to me

[@seekroftruth3702]

My thoughts exactly!!!

[@JEBBY123IFY]

I think when people kill themselves they are in too much pain of some kind to continue on and I sure don't think they are punished at ALL! I'm so glad we're never ALONE!

[@ellethekitten]

I enjoyed this. As someone with significant mental health problems, still holding on.

[@booksbybender3903]

you are incredibly strong for staying and fighting 🥰🥰🥰

[@johnlazarus1768]

[@MadonnaGrogan]

Stay alive

[@robynwaldo5565]

I lost my Mom to Suicide almost 40 yrs ago. She was only 43..i was 24 ( now 63) i found her only 3 hours after i talked to her. 😢 i miss her sooo mucb. I found that a past friend has Psyhic M edium abilities she cant control. My Mom had been coming to her & they never met. This friend had only known me a year a few years ago..she told me things she didnt know that were true. > that my mom plays with my hair on the left side of my head.. thats the feeling i still experience..shes with me 🙏. Mom told her she needed my forgiveness & how sorry & regretful she is, she didnt do it on purpose & yes..didnt think she would die..but that she is o.k. & in heaven with my gma & gpa . She keeps me strong in this life i cant share with her in the physical being.

[@mchldanna]

I would like to set the record straight about calling someone "Selfish" for taking their own life. I am one who is currently struggling with the decision to stay or leave and let me tell you , if you consider someone Selfish for ending THEIR life, it means you are judging them by considering them selfish, NOT understanding them, and the pain They are going through. That is exactly why they feel they can't talk to anyone about their struggle! I have tried to talk to a few people, and it is painfully obvious that the advise, suggestions, or comments they give come straight from their perspective and structured and tailored from their life and situations, not mine. I am more concerned with what I should do, or Why I should not do what I am considering, and I am not trying to TAKE anything from you! To me, it appears that THEY are the selfish ones for not understanding my Pain, or my emptiness, loneliness, and I will reiterate, it is not about YOU, and you life, or your relationships, or your job, what you are losing, or your anything !! I have yet to run across anyone who was understanding enough to NOT Judge my conditions or my problems and consider me as Selfish. That judgment is coming from the perspective of their life, their age, family size, income level, and so on and mine at all. So I stop seeking advise from people who want to tell me what they would do or not do.

[@queenofneverland9007]

Agree. I think it is more selfish for people to tell others not to end their life knowing how much pain that other person is in. Why would people need to suffer their whole life just so others can be happy? Everybody lives their own life so why would we stay alive for them but when we need their help they are not there for us? Makes no sense.

[@NatalieBoat111]

You have a purpose & you came here to earth for very specific reasons & you should do your best to fulfill them while you're here. No you shouldn't feel like you have to stay just for family who will miss you but honestly, you should still stay because the pain you currently feel will transfer directly to them until the day they die. Why do you want to die?

[@NatalieBoat111]

@@thomaskeijzer I also highly recommend watching Near Death experiences on KZbin. At first it's a little like cheesy sounding but people do die & they do come back, they have stories about why we're here, purpose & what's the point of it ALL. check some out & let me know what you think

[@NatalieBoat111]

And you also never answered my question, why do you want to die?

[@NatalieBoat111]

@@thomaskeijzer I've seen some NDEs where they talk about coming back to "help others heal" & they became a nurse or a therapist. They aren't necessarily these huge "you'll cure cancer" types of reasons. They can be really small purposes like just being a kind human being. So many NDE ppl talk about how FAR acts of kindness travel & they didn't know it until they died. Not huge acts of kindness but TINY little things. That's purpose.

[@MonicaPierce-xi7sc]

I have been reading some of your comments. My 37 year old son committed suicide February18 2024. I found his body February28 2024. My son like myself was bipolar. If I would have been diagnosed when I was younger. I wouldn't have had children. Bipolar is extremely generic. My son suffered from the beginning of his diagnosis. Unfortunately for him , none of the various combinations and constantly having to change meds worked for him. I could see the devastating pain in his eyes. I felt so helpless. I take great comfort in knowing that my son was not depressed or in crisis. He was not experiencing a manic psychosis. My son actually researched various methods. I found all of this out when I was able to log into his phone. To some of you, this might sound cold coming from his mother. But I respect his decision. Also I am t peace knowing he is no longer suffering. I have received so many messages from him. So have several of his friends. He is free and happy now. medication never really worked for him.

[@jademusic1211]

I'm so sorry for your loss.😓💔 My cousin committed suicide a few days ago, and my father did the same many years ago.😓💔 I also have struggled with suicide ideation since 14 (I'm 59 now). Meds never worked for me. I wish society was less judgemental. It's not easy living in this world, in general, never mind when you're living with nearly constant mental anguish.😩 I'm sending you peace and love in your grief, and hope that time soothes your pain.😔❤️

[@ruthbarnes9999]

10 days later he was found and he has family. That's sad. I imagine if it's me l would truly be decomposed and rotted by the time I'm found as l have no family and have lost all my friends in the last 6 months. So l have no one. I often think of this now and worry about my dog starving or dehydrating because of this. Sending you my condolences for your loss. He was lucky he had a caring mum

[@FreeBirdChronicles]

Thank you for making this video. The challenge in our society today is that while there is “help”, it involves being drugged, possibly institutionalized and being in a daily struggle that is exhausting. I survived stage 3c cancer and fought hard to live… dealing with the deep depression, sadness, pain and even the anger at having to constantly battle mental illness has been far worse. I have money, friends, a life of freedom and live in one of the most beautiful places in the US and those things are simply not enough to find my way out of this dark pit. I do believe that as a society, we need to find more humane and compassionate ways to help people who seek it and to also understand, as you said here, that suicide is another terminal illness. People who were so loving and compassionate to me when I was dealing with cancer have now judged me for my current struggle with depression. I had someone tell me to “just go outside and take a walk and get some sun”… would you say that to someone who has cancer? Suicide is not a selfish act. It is terrifying, more than facing chemo, surgeries and all the other things that come in treating an aggressive illness. That terror is drowned out by the pain of the daily struggle.

[@seekroftruth3702]

Well said.

[@truthseeker5941]

I love how open-minded and honest Amy is. Most people are too arrogant to admit they don't know the answer to a question. She is so great!

[@JEBBY123IFY]

Sometimes there isn't anyone to help and Drs don't care about pain! Chronic pain people are treated like criminals!

[@queenofneverland9007]

I literally have nobody in my life and when I tried to get help from people who's whole job is to help people they didn't care at all and even made me more su!cidal from the way they treated me. So I agree. How do we have other options then ending our life? We don't.

[@JEBBY123IFY]

@@queenofneverland9007 no we don't! Yes ALL Drs and All ers traumatize profile label and blow us off! Even if we have something else wrong! I got sent home in a taxi three times from er severe abdominal pain thot my gallbladder burst! And ended up having surgery! With a real serious problem! What then? PTSD and I don't want to ever go back again I'd literally rather die! And I had morphine at home! Wth would I go there for theirs!? They're animals!

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@JEBBY123IFY I LITERALLY FEEL THE SAME! Two weeks ago I called ambulance because I have never felt worse in my life (and I had two surgeries in my life) and they wouldn't come because they have more important cases and told me to take pain medicine I have at home (that I already told them I took and it did nothing for me). Had to take Uber to one ER, told me they can't help me, went to another ER in Uber, gave me some pain medicine, I had some kind of attack (looked like seizure), was scared but got yelled at by one doctor that I am not allowed to breathe like that and if I keep crying they will send me to psych ward. Almost threw me out of ER few hours later at 7 in the morning and told me there is nothing else they can do for me and that they don't have enough medicine to give me more (literally ER in Europe in a small country that is part of Nato, EU, Schengen, "doesn't" have enough medicine). And I told myself the same thing you did, I would rather d!e (go k!ll myself) then ever go to ER again. Why do doctors even exist when they don't do their job right? And then people go and judge those who end their life....come on. We can't even get basic help let alone some good help.

[@JEBBY123IFY]

@@queenofneverland9007 oh isn't that the most indignant thing? They just don't care now. Here it's about all the money they lost during COVID and absolutely no pain meds if you're in pain!? It's just INSANITY! I just lay and cry from all the pain and can't get any treatment for finding what's happened last year from the vaccine, neurological and autoimmune systems just ENT crazy and pills and more pills but they don't like to take Medicare because it doesn't pay them enough...

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@JEBBY123IFY I know US health system is sh!t too. In my country they have ALL the medicine you want but you have to pay for them even tho that same medicine is 1/3 of the price in countries around mine. So how come ER doesn't have medicine but pharmacy has?? Just bullsh!t. And then people say: "Don't k!ll yourself, there are other options, you could ask for help, there are other ways you can go about this...." .....$hut up! Where? Where can we actually get help when nobody cares unless we are de@d?

[@mmc0729]

many people don’t want to touch on this subject. thank u for this amy

[@julieserber8992]

Some notes that I think about with my daughter’s suicide may help others. When I talked to my daughter through a medium 5 months after her passing my daughter seemed very happy but sometimes when I asked her a question she wouldn’t answer or could not answer, there would be seconds of silence, as if we were getting disconnected. I felt that while she was talking to me she was being supervised as to what she could or could not say, it was a strong feeling. Towards the end of her life when I was with her and even during her life I intuitively I knew I had a limited amount of time with her on this earth, I always felt the clock was ticking, somehow I knew she would end her life, I don’t know how I knew. When she passed I felt extremely sad to the core but I could not cry, I assumed it was because I always knew this would happen and I would not be able to prevent it, no matter how I tried to help her make the most of her life. I feel close to her after her passing, I feel her around a lot of the time and she sends me signs. I felt life around her in her last days was like I was part of a slow-motion movie. But yet even though I felt all these things I was helpless at really changing anything. When I met with another medium she said my daughter came down too soon, she wasn’t ready for this time, also that she accomplished more in this lifetime than most people with a longer life. She also said she was an old soul. My daughter has made it clear that she just did not want to be here and much prefers the other side. Sometimes I feel really bad that the life we wanted her to have and also have with us wasn’t what she wanted, the feeling wasn’t mutual. She was however in a lot of mental pain When my father in law unsuccessfully tried suicide after his wife passed at 82 years of age he like woke up during the attempt and realized that it was wrong, like he experienced something very negative about it that frightened him. I feel my daughter succeeded at suicide because she really was strong-willed and wanted it that way, that is one of the reasons there was no intervention.

[@ThiNguyen-ni7ye]

Julie I recommend you should join Helping Parents Heal. There are lots of parents who lost their children through suicide. About your daughter has supervised because we are energy in which any energy or light contains two terminals to make it work negative and positive like in a battery so she is a baby in other realm so there will be a carer to come with her. I use pendulum to contact my passed daughter asking her about life after death and she told me that she got supervised even though she is Angel now because she is new baby in another realm

[@julieserber8992]

Thank you for your information ❤️

[@AmyUtsman]

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I agree Helping Parents Heal is an amazing organization for parents. Wishing you and your family all of the best, Amy

[@pleun315]

Thank you for sharing your intense story you are right about her journey, after all we are a soul in a human body and its a soul journey❤️🙏

[@AmyUtsman]

@Maida Ayah hi Maida, I am sorry you have reached to such a place such as this. It is a horrible place to be. Please reach out to others. people love us more than we think. Even though we cannot feel it. You matter in this world! You may not know it now or feel it now. You matter! Sincerely, Amy. kzbin.info/www/bejne/n2GmZIprhN6siaM

[@mortalclown3812]

Thank you for this video and for opening the comment. I'm very down and some of these remarks have helped my heart, too. Blessings to you all. 🙏💙🔭💫

[@maryalex4858]

Thank you so much for making these videos! I really appreciate the way you explain things. I'm still struggling from losing a loved one to suicide. These videos help me more than you know. ❤

[@BruceCaister]

The evening of the day of my wife's suicide she came to me in a dream saying she had to go see one of my children who is mentally challenged and lives in a group home. While I did appreciate her gesture, her appearance was wild eyed and disheveled. Over the following weeks and months she would visit my dreams but with these I was not able to clearly hear what she was saying, if she said anything at all. Her last meaningful visit came over two years ago now. She was so happy and looked so beautiful and was eagerly wanting to share some sort of happy info but again, I was not able to clearly hear her words. Now its mostly signs, nickels, dimes and even quarters. On what would have been our 20th anniversary she left me one dime and one nickel in a spot I'd walked past not 15 minutes earlier. It was incredibly touching and an beautiful gesture. She gently touched and kissed me a few weeks ago in the early morning as I was waking. She's definitely mastered her skills over there as I have become more aware of signs from her.

[@robynwaldo5565]

I have that happen to me . Coins especially in places that were clear of anything..they seat of my car .. on my desk, etc. Usually pennies or dimes. ❤

[@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956]

I just found out by my sister Mary that in her 7th hour class a guy took his own life yesterday and it's triggering me because three years ago I fell into very deep depression and I wanted to take my own life too but thank God I worked out who was causing me this pain and after I blocked those negative family members who were causing me the pain I've been feeling alooooot better now!!!!! ❤ I do still feel sad but not to the point where I wanna do what I wanted to do ❤

[@SuslynD.]

In my experience, some people get stuck in limbo because of what they believe while they are alive. I have shown someone to tell people who commit suicide that they are forgiven to help them move on. A young man that shot himself in the head needed help moving on. Jumped from person to person til he got the help to transition all the way. Now he is at peace.

[@christopherleubner6633]

Yup seen similar, stuck in a loop, repeating their 💀 over and over again.

[@tonymaccaroni1683]

I've heard from some mediums that suicides are taking their problems to the other side, so that suicide doesn't really mean an escape from what caused them to kill themselves. That said, many people are ending their lives due to financial desperation. How are you taking financial issues to the other side? I just don't get it.

[@kevinh1792]

You don't take your material issues with you, but the feelings and thoughts about these issues

[@tonymaccaroni1683]

@@kevinh1792 So what? I can't change my feelings if I realise that I don't need money to create things on the other side?

[@aliayson]

Suicide is almost always tied to something going organically wrong in the brain. Would mediums say that someone who died from cancer is "taking their problems to the other side"? Would mediums say that someone who died from Parkinson's disease is "taking their problems to the other side?". What about someone who dies from Alzheimer's? All the previous examples we accept as physical illness, so why do we treat depression and other mental illnesses so differently? Like you, I don't get it either.

[@wishingwell5954]

There are more than a few inconsistencies that these people seem to get from their crystal ball.

[@wishingwell5954]

@@aliayson WHen you bring up these specific examples to these crystal ball readers they have no real response.

[@debracarty170]

My mom killed herself at 49. She had psychitophrania, Im sure spelled wrong. I watched her die. The pain I watched her deal with was horrible, Im not sure I couldve handled it as long as she had. The voices would tell her to kill her children. I cried at my loss, but, honestly, I felt relief for her, she finally had peace!

[@marysmyth8288]

By age 30yrs I had four beautiful sons and my precious daughter. We emigrated from Ireland to Canada , my sons were young teenagers. Desmond was bright funny energetic , loved by all who knew him The teacher at his primary school mentioned he was a social Butterfly. Later in Adult life , he married and had one daughter as his wife was 10yrs His senior. He was a great dad he had been a university graduate , he stayed home To care for his child because his wife needed to remain in her job in order to qualify For a good retirement pension. This son at age 51 yrs committed suicide , by hurling himself of an over traffic bridge I cry so much even more so now , my granddaughter is now a 22yr old confident beautiful lady I found your vlog and I am crying and hoping to find a measure of comfort. Another son was a very successful business man , he was very moral , loved to golf and loved Gardening , he died from Cocaine addiction. There are times I feel so lost , was there anything I could have done more 😢 Thank you for being there , I hope one day my tears can be healed amen 🙏 Mary Canada 🇨🇦

[@queenofneverland9007]

There is nothing more you could have done! It is THEIR life they chose to end for whatever reason. And I am SURE they don't blame you. Sometimes it has nothing to do with their life overall but with something that happens overnight. They might have had a small depression problem that doesn't get resolved and then spirals into something bigger or something happens overnight that makes them snap out of nowhere. I am speaking from personal experience. I have had really depressing and lonely life with so much emotional and physical pain but I was not thinking of commiting su!cide. A week ago I had worst migraine of my life that just kept getting worse and non stop panic attacks with no one to help me. And I started planning my su!cide out of nowhere and was in some kind of trance from all the pain. So su!cide doesn't have to be this thing you plan for years and someone can help you. If you want to do it you will do it because you felt it in that moment.

[@JEBBY123IFY]

Oh I'm so sorry! No there isn't anything you could have done but that's how we parents are because we love them so much! I'm so sorry 💔

[@cutpricetech]

THERE IS NO PUNISHMENT; JUST TRANSITION TO 5,6,7 D - DEPENDING ON SOUL GROWTH.

[@sanjaymanohar9482]

Thank you for posting this. The second anniversary of my son's passing is 3 days away, and this was most helpful, just like all your other videos

[@AmyUtsman]

All of my best to you and your family.

[@Wanderer2035]

I herd that if a person commits suicide, they will have to live their next life living through the same exact problems led them up to that point again, until they finally make the decision to not commit suicide. Such as if a person killed themselves because they had depression and they gave up, then in their next life they will have depression again, and it’ll keep happening in every life until they choose not to do it. Is this true? This is just what I herd

[@gme5400]

I believe suicide can be in the contract to be a catalyst for others to learn love and continue soul evolution ❤

[@evjogkg344]

I agree with that. I also think it could be in someone so contract, because maybe their purpose or their lesson here is to crate change, somehow to create change by what they went through.

[@caileighgouthro1365]

I have had an acquaintance who died by suicide in highschool. I hope she’s doing okay in the afterlife

[@yourghost26]

My boyfriend completed a suicide he planned way back before we met and the trigger was our break-up. It was almost a month ago when I decided to restrict him on Facebook so he cannot see that I can read his messages. Even after the break-up, I was still worried about him but failed to let him know that. 24 hours after our painful talk, he ended his life. He felt so abandoned and a burden to his loved ones because of what I said to him. I spoke with a medium to reach out to him and he said the same things people who transitioned say. But the guilt is still with me because I hurt the one I love so much that he chose death to end things. This man used to be afraid of dying and his brain tumor coming back to take him (he had them twice). I had so many chances to stop him that day but I didn't take it. I've done a great sin to the person who lived here. I don't know how to move forward with that and I have been thinking of just following him. Even though he says it's been planned, he wouldn't have executed it if I didn't break up with him.

[@Podgey25]

Yes I always felt the spirits give them counselling on the other side. So their soul is helped for in their next life.

[@JoyRise]

We don’t have a choice, we are forced to be here, happy or miserable, so going out by suicide is like a last resource, ultimatum when we can coupe anymore? Why would I want to visit here? I don’t. Family and friends get over, it’s not about them, no one is necessary for another, life goes on. I would visit my cat, but also I am not trying to kill myself because I have my cat and I am responsible for her. I have try everything from prayers to meditation, all except drugs. Who boycotts our life here? Most people with depresión and suicidal thoughts are very sweet and too kind for this world. Does God as a being exist or is an AI?

[@BobGuthrie-w1k]

Stay strong dear. I hope your still around. I got a bottle of prescription barbiturates I keep handy just in case I can't handle this life anymore. Doing my best to be a follower of Christ but life is just still so hard

[@ChristopherMohan-bd6ck]

I was desperate to commit suicide because the police let me down. People were trying to kill me. People with samurai swords machetes. And worse was going to happen to me. I did not want to be punished or tortured. I gave up my property and moved to emergency accommodation. Living in fear And paranoia was my ultimate destroyer. Putting aside, God hire power, angels. Spirits and Power of prayer. There has to be a solution. It wasn't easy. But I had to go to a dark place. I shared my story with. People in recovery. Sometimes people leave the room Before I finish my story. I just hope 1 day. I can be forgiven. Anyway, my prayers go out to the people suffering in silence. And i've got a lot of respect for people who are trying to help People with suicide thoughts. Stay strong, keep up the great work.

[@infiniteadam7352]

Just knowing life will always have it's highs and lows keeps me here, I've been to both extremes, and the thought of suicid is almost always present but I remind myself that my life is always changing and tomorrow might be better but if I die I will never know. Hopefully tomorrow is better but if not maybe next week or year, who knows, but I will stick through the hard times to find out. I just might live to 2075 or longer, who knows what the world will be like by then, maybe I can make it a better world by being my true self. Maybe I will make my life pretty awesome in the next few years and do my part to make the world a more loving place. I will do my best, thats all i can do, day by day, year by year, I will do the best I can.

[@joycestepancevich6591]

This has helped me greatly. Just a share that brought me peace. A friend who had also experienced suicide in her family said to me " you have to respect their choice"

[@brianwright1901]

People treating one another terribly is the number one reason for suicide, yet no one wants to bring that up.

[@yapooa]

I am someone who can see spirits. I once saw the spirit of a man who committed suicide. He came in the night and i listened to him for hours as he did everything but cry. God said life was a terrible gift for us and if it weren't s a gift then we wouldn't be going through it. He was so disgusted with the way he lived his life.

[@wordsfallshort3563]

The part where she said that you could’ve picked up the phone and called someone to ask for help and that there’s always someone we can for help- I’ve been here and the feedback was brutal. I went to a church asking for help and was turned away being told that I wasn’t doing enough to help myself. Without going into the long story of how I ended up in the desperate situation that I am still living after 2 years, I can assure you that I didn’t end up here without putting trust in those around me that I loved and thought I loved me and would we would be there for each other no matter what happens because that’s what LOVE does. Some made shameful choices that had an impact on everyone around them and if you are without money or power to help you, the suffering is all the more load bearing. I had to wake up to this reality and while have I’ve grown through it, it’s been thoroughly agonizing on my heart. To say that I have thought about ending this life I’m in once or twice would be a huge understatement.

[@beckymitchell6363]

I know what you mean. I have PTSD bad. And when it's to be too much, I have to withdraw from everyone. Because any time I've had those thoughts and try to reach out I've never had any good feedback. The reaction I usually get is them trying to make me feel like I'm weak, selfish, or not trying hard enough. In my situation, if I avoid people when I have my worst flashbacks it's much easier. I'll want to make it stop so bad, but I can't. And I figure if I have to suffer, I'm not going to let others make it worse by critiquing my coping skills, then judge me for having suicidal thoughts. That's the only time I think about it is when my flashbacks are bad. But I tell myself it'll go away and I'll get relief til it happens again. And this is the pattern. Sometimes music or exercising helps it calm down. But if I'm at a social event or public place, I know I have to hurry and get away from people if I feel a flashbacks coming. I usually have about 20 minutes before it gets louder than what's going on around me. Most people think I'm mysterious, anti social, and unfriendly because of how I have to do things sometimes. I don't bother to explain it. I feel sure they would just say something that would make me feel worse, whether they mean well or not.

[@wordsfallshort3563]

@@beckymitchell6363 I thoroughly resonate with what you’ve shared. Thank you. My Love and Compassion to you, Becky💗💕

[@kce123.]

Very sorry for your stress and difficulties. Being close to people that seem to be in a similar situation, the only thing i could ask for people around you is to tell them what you need to help you. Whether its rest or time alone for a day or 2 or therapy- no one can read your mind and we on the outside trying to help really only can ask what you need so many times before we back off as we are afraid to push and make anything worse. Just know that your loved ones want to help and sometimes all we can do is wait for others to tell us how. Which you the best!!!!

[@JEBBY123IFY]

Yeah there's way too much stigma out there! Family is the worst! But people just are cruel and it seems more now than ever.

[@shostetler]

So are you going through the suffering you are as part of a soul contract you made to teach someone something in this life? Or are the difficulties part of karma you're repaying for a prior life? Either way, suicide isn't an answer that will resolve anything.

[@razony]

The LAST person I would want to hear from is a religious... leave it right there. Give me someone who really cares and believes is something real like love and I'll be fine. No more religious ANYTHING!

[@JoyRise]

Gosh, the lady asking the questions said that people that commit suicide as SELFISH… what a ignorant attitude, for people like her is why people with these thoughts actually do it. Because You on the “outside” think that everything is about you and when we get to share, we get attacks and judgment. NO, it’s not about being selfish, it’s about that we can’t cope anymore, and we tried to get out of those thoughts in our best possible way, but punch after punch, we sometimes can’t recover. Also… really, most people that have not feel these strong emotions are not capable of helping, neither feeling as deep, in my experience no one outside of me can help me. What help we have in the other side!? What about if those beings help us more here!? Spiritual intervention? Why really Spirit doesn’t help more. All suicides are because we can’t cope and feel lonely! How easy will be for Spirit to change this! No, it’s not a freewill thing because I have asked a lot for help, I have believed that things can improve, etc., and where are really those spiritual guides? Why they don’t communicate louder and do more things when we ask.

[@emailkirsie]

I agree. Sending you a 🧡

[@notcountingsheep3361]

You just pass on your pain to your family, if you have any family. And actually even more pain because we're left with so many questions, trying to make arrangements when the grief is so severe we can't get out of bed, losing income and no longer being able to pay the bills because we can't go back to work. Any child that hears of this suicide is impacted because they then learn that suicide is an option and they are now at a higher risk of suicide. We all die, let's not bring on the trauma early when it's not necessary.

[@karenmartinat6158]

Thank you Amy! Very helpful for us parents struggling ❤️

[@pamcatello9136]

It's not always about lessons it's a lot about who we help along the way its the good repelling effect and how we shape ourselves lessons yes but the gift of life is to help all to higher concerned and bringing heaven on earth

[@carbon1479]

42:29 - I've seen a lot of written NDE accounts of suicide and they vary a lot between a very neutral or even forgiving experiences on one end and hellish on the other without any particularly clear indicators other than that, I worry, there still may be a lot of confabulation between personal subconscious (beliefs, opinions of self at the moment, etc.) and fundamental reality and it would a kind of confabulation that the style and results of would be deeply personal.

[@normacollinklein8159]

I appreciate this as of this moment I am experiencing high anxiety. When having the occasional thought of suicide I know that that is not the answer as it would cause more pain that's necessary to family and friends. I'm glad to hear that we are all accepted when we cross over because I believe it's going to be an extremely peaceful time to have. But until then I will struggle on with God's help and continue watching your videos. I truly believe that with God's help all is possible.

[@AmyUtsman]

Wishing you strength and ease. I have been there and it does get easier.

[@juliehilton1701]

Don’t forget Amy said you are never ever alone, ask your angels to help you. Even though I have never been conventionally religious I asked Jesus to take away my burden I trusted that he would and almost instantly I felt the burden lifted x try it, if you really mean it I’m sure it will work for you too xxx

[@jenniferhammond8997]

Thank you for this! This video was posted on the 1 year anniversary of my boyfriend's suicide. It helps to know this information.

[@AmyUtsman]

You are most welcome. I hope you can find some peace. all of the best

[@sharonknapp5015]

Me too!💜💔

[@sharonknapp5015]

I had also struggled with this after a very abusive childhood so no one ever tried to help me. Now as an adult I have never heard from my deceased mother for any form of an apology which reinforces that I never mattered. Some sign would be so helpful to me to maybe enjoy part of my life.

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@sharonknapp5015 same. I have not one person in my life, I am isolated, have been suffering from terrible physical and mental health problems since I was child and now I am 24. Have never felt love. Soooo what is the point in staying here on Earth if I can't have anything worth living for?

[@sharonknapp5015]

@@queenofneverland9007 well you have me now 💜

[@marysmyth8288]

Dear Amy, I am drawn to your channel , you are such a lovely person , I appreciate how you Are devoting your energy to explain the unexplained unanswerable questions . My beautiful sons took the route of suicide .thank you also to Nancy Mary Canada 🍁

[@toddsmith4327]

My son transitioned In April 2021.....he had serious mental illness, schizoaffective disorder (schizophrenia and depression together) Psychosis is also part of the symptomolgy. Can you talk about Soul Contracts, and do you think anyone's soul contract could have transitioning by suicide in the plan? Something my son said a lot throughout his life from preteen on- he kept saying he "only signed up for 25 years" and was surprised when a week went by after his 25th birthday and he was still here. he was 26-1/2 when he died He also would say "mom, you can't die before me" and he was so serious about that and had been saying it since he was a little boy. He and I were extremely close, and he told me he wouldn't be able to live life without me. But his dado was an abusive alcoholic and we all ended up with scars from that. I was able to protect my children from a lot of the abuse till they got to be teenagers, then they were big enough to hang out with dad if they wanted to, but it usually ended badly. My son had a lot of trauma from that, but yet he just craved the love and acceptance from his father, which he never got. I have struggled unbelievably since his passing, even though guessing he's a 1000% better where hes at. Its my mothers selfish desire for him to still he here because i love yhis so much and i miss him desperately. I cant believe i accepted this job (my soul contract) with such painful life circumstances......i must have been high or something when i taised my hand and volunteered to accept this insane challenge!!!! 🤯😫😓

[@MirkoCviticanin]

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[@Kelly-ul9rp]

Ty for sharing this info, it a big help to me my Mum died by suicide when I was 12 now I'm 60 I forgave her and I realized what kind of pain she was in. Please ppl don't judge anyone . Love and light

[@heidyprentice6661]

I just discovered you and your gift that helps so many. Thank you for being so clear in your messages. You relay messages with transparency and grace. I find that so helpful. I hope to have a reading with you one day. 🌸

[@prostratic]

Whether I die by suicide or any other cause, I'm not participating in a life review, and I'm definitely not answering to any spirit guides or council of elders or any spirit posing as a god. I'm sovereign and I make my own choices, and my gut instincts tell me that the spirit realm is full of many deceptions and malevolent entities. The only one I trust in this life and the next is me.

[@christopherleubner6633]

Answer their questions brutally honestly and without shame. Then thow it in their face about the nature of their game of emotional manipulation. Then ask to be free. They will have no choice but to let you go. ❤

[@truthseeker5941]

@prostratic...just like here.

[@andijoann872]

Even though I'm being attacked by negative entities, do I have spirit guides. I'm about to lose everything and my career because of my mental illness. 🥺😞 I'm in so much pain. I'm not suicidal but I'm struggling horribly. Is there hope? I pray. Yes it is bad because when you lose everything how do i recover. My fear is being homeless and my family abandoning me

[@queenofneverland9007]

We all have spirit guides. Watch what you put into your body and if you can talk to a therapist, they have cheaper ones online like betterhelp, talkspace,.. But you can tell me what do you have problem with specifically and maybe I can give you some advice on what to do.

[@NatalieBoat111]

I'm also curious how I could help you? Be sure to ASK your guides to help you, call out to them.

[@TiffanyT-LaDolceVita]

When negative spirits attack you, call on Jesus. Seriously. Even if you don’t believe, try him. Sending you so much LOVE! 🙏❤️🌹

[@papachacalon2097]

Youre suffering from skizophrenia there are no negative entities besides humans, please seek a doctor.

[@user-hf6cd7bc7t]

Put a santa muerte altar and tell her to help you

[@truthseeker5941]

This is what I want to know: where is the 10th of all their compassion and love for us while we are down here struggling, sick, depressed, and tormented? I have dealt with a chronic illness for over 33 years.

[@dannydoom3969]

Thank you for doing this. There is just not good information on the topic, and even a lot of mediums who talk about it can be quite dogmatic or black and white. I have been suicidal and I am a medium and a spirit simply warned me “no one taught you about death. You can’t be dead”.

[@user-hf6cd7bc7t]

What will happen if i take my own lufe

[@pleun315]

Thank you Amy, i am new here and i really love your energy, you are such a sweetheart and i can listen to you all day long 😍😍❤️ keep it going please ! Greetings from the Netherlands everyone ❤️

[@sarahoakton1213]

I don’t have anyone who will help me. I have no family, my friend never calls me, I’m disabled facing welfare being cut, I’ve had enough of suffering and trying to survive totally alone. People have lost compassion for one another in uk

[@leslie5139]

I know a female/transgender person who lives as male. When this person passes will this person still have a male appearance as it was physically on earth?

[@MysticFrameAnimations]

Wanting a peaceful death is great idea, it is not selfish, it requires courage

[@ONeirda]

I think the problem lies in the wanting. I personally don't want to interfere with the general course of my destiny.

[@hannahsdrawings8664]

@@ONeirda Lucky you. Too bad you lack empathy. Not everyone is as lucky as you. Yt is by now filled with stories of people who suffered beyond the imagination of the lucky ones and went for euthanasia.

[@Userkvlnk]

Once I wanted to commit my suicide because of the severe emotional abuse coming from my mother. Previously from the both of my parents. And a bunch of other relatives who have had those narc patterns. Exactly in the next morning I discovered that my beloved kitty boy had haf a rapid health condition decrease. His kidneys started failing. Although we had been investing so much in his recovery. It was one of those things that you say "he was my everything". In a few days he just had those terminal states, the dying stages and just passed away in my arms. I wrote about it on Facebook. I became a subject to a very severe bullying coming from my haters. It's a long story to tell. They were writing that I killed that cat and that I'm schizophrenic... This planet is a B System, in my strong assurance... That's how/when I figured the B System wants your suicide. Possibly one will be stuck in between a few worlds, will be reincarnated into the new sh**y circumstances, family story as a baby, but with one's you memory erased..

[@tiffaniealexander2150]

My therapist of 3 years, a psychologist, hung herself in 2013.

[@stronglyspirit]

Thank you your spirit is so genuine and radiates a hearing love for the people you help and viewers as well

[@DeardenFergus]

This is some good information. I plan on transitioning to the spirit world next year.

[@queenofneverland9007]

How come?

[@DeardenFergus]

@@queenofneverland9007 I went down a path that I can’t come back from. I don’t know if you know what it’s like to have a divine light that protected you leave your body because you thought it was blocking you from earning money. But it was protecting me from the reality that I am living now. I use to be able to do math science physics. I was extremely creative and was able to problem solve and feel so deeply part of the world. When this divine light left me it took all that knowledge with it. I am responsible for not fulfilling my life’s purpose which was to break an inter generational trauma in the family line. For nearly 10 years I was happy until I ignorantly decided that going back to school so I can get my business started that could really help people in poverty was more important than starting a family and having a wife and children. I saw the vibration lowering and I was even warned with the song by abba “if you change your mind”. My friend literally saw me go through hell when this protective energy left my body. I went from being straight to queer and I fucked up my gender because I didn’t follow the light. I lost everything that made me who I am and I cannot live in this space where I am unable to come back from. I know how all this sounds and I know I wasn’t psychotic despite having being sent to the hospital 4 times in a year and it was the first time I ever was admitted for mental health issues.

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@DeardenFergus Okay first of all your perception of these things is wrong. Devine light can never leave you , even if you, at some parts of life, don't feel it that strongly it is still there. And especially for something stupid like the school you go to or if you decide to have family or not, that is bullsh!t. The Spirit, God or whatever you call it made us all and we are a part of it so it is not possible to separate from it. Even murderer$ have devine light still with them because we are all souls that came from the Spirit. How did you f*ck up your gender? Explain.

[@DeardenFergus]

@@queenofneverland9007 I appreciate your point of view, but something did leave my body. There are social skills that are missing that took years to build. When this thing left, my body started changing, my hips moved up and to the right. I was completely masculine and now I gender split because of what I did to myself. I went through spousification and parentification when I was younger and Through most of my life there was always that lingering as an energy around me and that's the energy I eneded up pgoing towards. I wish there was a way to bring that energy back into my body again, so I can have those skills back. right now I feel like a robot that is just existing instead of a human being that is living.

[@angeljaia4792]

I totally understand this. we may have different circumstances but i just find it extremely hard to be here. I’m only 22. but I’ve tried everything. and I’m fully aware that there is help out there. unfortunately I’m just at a point where I’m not even interested in help. I’m tired, my soul is tired. i was supposed to die bc i had a extremely intense premonitions of a tragic car crash. dreams, intuition, seeing car accidents everywhere i went. i truly believe i was meant to die then as an ‘exit point’ but bc i told my mom all about it, I guess my higher self decided to stay. which i made a mistake in telling her. I’m not sad, just very tired. i always hear people say suicide is selfish. no. saying that, is selfish. I have no fear of death whatsoever. I have no anxiety surrounding it. I just wanna go home to where i feel appreciated and the happiest. I understand entirely what I’m doing. it’s just a matter of time now..

[@jillmaltby]

Does everyone go to heaven please my soulmate died in November 2022 in front of me I had to do CPR on him but he never survived it's heartbreaking I've tried meditation and get nothing will he be around me please my Christmas as been so sad I feel like taking my Life sometimes because I cannot feel him around me been told I should feel his energy but cannot feel anything he always says he will try to connect with me when he dies. He had a NDE when he was younger he was 56 when he died suddenly he did suffer from COPD and always said he would die in November but never knew the year but unfortunately it was 2022 I worry he's not around because he did try to kill himself several times when he was younger due to is son dying at 3 months old of cot death and turned to drugs to help him through the hurt he told me. Amy you are amazing the way you explain everything I wonder if he has guided me to find you.🙏💖🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@queenofneverland9007]

Just know that he is at peace ❤️ Other side is PURE LOVE, TRUE HEAVEN! And that is a fact. I was scared of de@th my whole life but since I became spiritual and started to listen to psychics I am no longer scared of the other side because I know somewhat what to expect when I get there and I can't wait to be there.

[@aracelidevilla]

Hello Jill, I’ve had the same question. I have experienced the same as you. I have so many questions and for a while I wanted to do the same. I want to believe that my husband is at peace and in paradise even though I wish I was with him. It’s been so hard to survive

[@vani-uz9of]

Hey Amy, it's good to hear all those comforting words by you for all those out there who have lost some loved ones through suicide, like me..I lost my better half 8 months back can I communicate with him?? 4

[@goodstory5890]

Thank you for the information, Aloha 🌺

[@bzeva1009]

One person poisoned all my cats that i cared for some about 12 years and more.I feel devastated as if 10 children of mine been murdered.Where is justice for people that have lost and been victims and have to suffer all their life.Should we take comfort that this life is not eternal hell but only for this lifetime.Did I agree for out of hell to suffer only this lifetime.Cause everything else would make no sense since this is my loss for a thounsand time,as a child- mother then friend then father then my cat,then my cats then my dogs then again my cats,I am a rock that suppose to send souls of this world?Even a rock would brake its is not cruel its evil

[@susangarman9571]

At the end you were talking about a suicide attempt, then a near death experience and then coming back. That happened to me after a pain related suicide attempt and yes I believe it was spirit guide intervention. Things happened in sequence that revived me. I should be dead. And there were definite signs afterward that could not be explained any other way than that the other side made sure I came back. Eleven years later I still struggle with mental health and suicidal ideation. For me life is traumatic and tough. Sure wish I would have learned how to deal with life while I was over there so this would be easier now.

[@didoforteau]

This topic is soo insightful, thank you. A question to you; When persons transition, and are no longer in the spirit world because they may have been reincarnated, can their loved ones stil be able to get through to them?

[@ThiNguyen-ni7ye]

I don’t think we can because their soul become renewed and forgot everything before their reincarnation

[@didoforteau]

@@ThiNguyen-ni7ye thank you for that response, much appreciated.

[@sjc8616]

@@ThiNguyen-ni7ye I think we still can, our soul on earth is just a bit of pieces from the Oversoul. We are just like 1 slice in one whole pizza and we can still communicate our old soul eventhough we are reincarnated. Past, Present and future is simultaneously happening. You can be reincarnated into year 1800 or whatever year as long as you think you can to get lessons or pay back your karma in that life time.

[@pleun315]

Yes it is possible because we are pure awareness, always. We incarnate but the higher self or soul always knows who we were or are in our new journey. We see the person but we are soul in a human body on earth school. Nothing you see around you is what it like.

[@RebeccaAbrahansson]

No reinkarnation, thats a lie from the father of lies , satan, even called the devil

[@cherylmazzoncini280]

Thank you for sharing your info ❤️

[@seekroftruth3702]

I truly hate the term mental illness when describing a suicidal person. That stigma and label is why those who are suicidal are so hesitant to reach out to anyone. I myself have struggled with it and I am anything but mentally ill. I absolutely resent that term because I think it is so harmful to those who struggle with finding a reason to be here. I do believe there are certain amount of people who may suffer mental illness in my opinion due to the drugs they are put on to help their depression and maybe even drug addiction but I would bet most of are quite sane at the time, which is why so many say they never saw it coming. I know if I ever carried it out no one would ever know what I was about to do. There would be no signs. It would be a deliberate decision to leave. And those who say it's selfish are the selfish ones. It means it's all about them, not their love for you. It's absolutely impossible for someone who has never been there to relate to someone who is. They can't comprehend it, which is why they chalk it up to mental illness, selfishness, etc.

[@newffee]

A co worker committed suicide this week. He had a lot going on in his life but I think his health issues were the worst. He had a history of Colitis but he was starting to do better for awhile til he took the two jabs. Then his health went for a crap. He was in and out of hospital, had surgery , lost his large intestine, it was swollen to 11 cm diameter and was about 24 to 48 hrs from death. Had most of his small intestine removed and almost died like 9 times in hospital. The doctors told him he had the immune system of a 4 yr old. He got sick easily. He was having relationship issues on top of that. Crazy significant other damaged his truck heavily, that kinda thing. Anyways they put him on Hydromorphone which is 20 times stronger than Morphine. I don't know the details of his suicide but I'm guessing it was that. He talked to me a few days before about having psychosis episodes . He believed it was from the drugs the doctors put him on. I guess everything was just too much for him. I hope he's at peace and not in limbo. Not sure if he did it intentionally or it was a overdose accident? To be honest I'm not even sure it was a overdose.

[@queenofneverland9007]

Honestly I have had all kinds of health problems my whole life and it seems like when I get rid of one health problem another one arises. So I really understand your coworker and am happy he is no longer suffering. It's really hard having health problems. I have also been depressed my whole life and let me tell you that mental health problems didn't make me plan my own su!cide, health problems/pain did. It's really hard having to keep up with life when your body doesn't allow you too. So I am debation on should I do it or not. Also I need to work but can't and I am afraid I will be kicked out of the house by my parent. There are no places to turn when we need help so only option we have is su!cide.

[@newffee]

@@queenofneverland9007 I'm sorry to hear you have to go through this. So there's nothing to treat or cure your health problems? I know there's some health issues out there that they don't know what causes them or how to treat them properly. Constant pain must be very taxing. I can't imagine how taxing. Is there anything that you can do from home regarding a job? Have you thought about at home job or business? Have you ever watched NDE videos? I started watching them a lot about 3 yrs ago and I got hooked on them. Watched hundreds. I now look at life differently. If anyone is an expert on the other side it's NDE experiencers. Science can't prove it or disprove it. It just gives you a whole different perspective on life and why we are here. Maybe try watching a few? One that impressed me a lot was Bruce Van Natta story. It's on KZbin . Look it up see what you think. That one is medically documented as well as dictated.

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@newffee There is nothing that can cure me and doctors in my country are literal sh!t and won't help you unless you are missing b0dy parts or there is bl00d everywhere. I have had migraines that are so bad to the point that 99% of medicine doesn't help me and it feels like my literal brain is melting for the whole day and I can't even sleep from the pain. And I have had this everyday for the past 20 years. Along with other health problems. I have been researching how to make money online for the past 10 years and have tried some things that have failed but all the other good online jobs require some up front money which I don't have. And I know all about our purpose and what happens in afterlife (have watched a LOT of videos about it) but it means nothing to me when I can't even leave my house and live a normal life because I am in excruciating pain everyday.

[@newffee]

@@queenofneverland9007 I'm sure you did lots of research but here's a link to read. Might be something in there that you haven't tried or hought about? Yes the health care system has been in trouble for awhile now. Usually due to mismanagement and underfunding. I always wondered about migraines and what caused them . No one seems to know that answer. Could it be something simple as vitamin deficiency? Or is it something else? Baffled. I have a friend that has CVS chronic vomiting syndrome . She been sick since she was 18. Now she's in her 30's an still the same thing. Doctors don't have a clue. Only thing keeping her going is her 2 kids I think. I worry about her and so does her family and friends. Hang in there. Sending positive vibes your way.

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@newffee I think health care is the thing that should be worked on the most beside schools. Unless you live in top european countries you are f*cked if you have health problem. When I was a child (I am 24 now) I had my appendix taken out, and I was fine even tho they gave me bigger scar then necessary but okay. The same year a 18 year old boy also had his appendix taken out but doctors left scissors in him, he got infection and had to have his leg amputated. And I never forgot that because it could have been me. And that was maybe 15 years ago. So tell me why we now have literal robots, most incredible tehnology, can pay things with our phones but doctors are still sh!t and do the same things they did 15, 30,..years ago and can't cure most basic thigs like migraines? And they don't have any idea what causes them. I am not a doctor but still even I have more clue about what causes them. I think they are caused by food and toxins from environment but can be caused by other things too. I noticed when I eat certain things, take supplements or smell something toxic like those strong perfumes I immediately get migraine so I am trying to avoid those things. I feel bad for your friend and hope she gets better but I always think that we have to try everything to help ourselves because we can't trust doctors. So she should really do a lot of research and try to help herself. Because it didn't start when she was born but when she was 18. So something must have caused it. She must have started doing/eating something at 18 that is still affecting her to this day. Thank you so much, sending positive vibes to your friend too 😊

[@silkroad1201]

Thank you for telling us what we want to hear. Whether any of it is true or not, the power of suggestion is a wonderful thing

[@OptimizingSpirit]

Wow! You hit this right on the nail. I've been feeling suicidal after taking a medication now and it's been going on for 2 months solid every day. Morning noon night all day and one of my sisters. She's a child therapist by the way. I'm 50 and I'm a male. Well my sister message me and said well what do you want me to do? What do you need? What do you want me to do for you? And then she said you can't even tell me what you want me to do for you and you said it exactly because we don't know what we need. You would think that someone on the opposite side would get that, but I think they feel as though you're trying to challenge them and that to me tells me that that selfish on their part since they basically live a life of happiness and joy. You would think that they could see that but not so simple but you hit it on the nail. And thank you for sharing your experience with us

[@AmyUtsman]

I am glad you found it helpful. maybe it can help your family members understand you too? They seem to be trying. Hang in there! Amy

[@juliehilton1701]

Great teamwork 👏🏻👏🏻

[@Myogramme]

There are people who had NDEs and claim to have visited an horrible place where there is also those suicided people struggling with their pain and regrets towards the consequences of their act to others and the pain it caused to them Also they say they will have to carry this pain with them until the people who suffer from their death joins them Some people says otherwise, including other mediums or other people who had NDEs Can't tell what's the truth anymore lol

[@Wanderer2035]

I herd that if a person commits suicide, they will have to live their next life living through the same exact problems that led them up to that point again, until they finally make the decision to not commit suicide. Such as if a person killed themselves because they had depression and they gave up, then in their next life they will have depression again, and it’ll keep happening in every life until they choose not to do it. Is this true? This is just what I herd. (I personally don’t think so but not sure)

[@jordasia1]

Yea I would like to know as well.

[@wishingwell5954]

If we are forced to do that then we don;t have free will

[@thebrinksf69]

I've read that you repeat the same lessons in a reincarnated life, so I'm not willing to take that chance. I'll just not commit suicide.

[@queenofneverland9007]

It wouldn't make sense to repeat same lessons. You would learn new ones that you didn't get to learn in this life.

[@angeljaia4792]

we have free will. you don’t have to come back and redo anything if you really don’t want to. but some want to come back.. so they do.

[@jblackbath]

I know the Medium is legit, but that woman presenting the questions to her has a very strong calming aura. They make a good team👍🏼👍🏼

[@hannahsdrawings8664]

Are soldiers and firefighters suiciders because they took job in which they have to be prepared to die? Are smokers suiciders since smoke kills? There is no such thing as more spiritual death and a less spiritual death. If someone wants to claim that a person who had a happy life and died in their sleep makes Spirits cheer, but someone who suffered beyond own pain threshold wasn't blessed with peaceful death that "came" to him is making spirits feel not okay that makes me question that human capacity of being humane.

[@elaineervin3365]

Thank you so much I really needed this video I had boyfriend that died by accidental suicide and a few friends so I have been really worried how they was and if they made it ok I also wanted to ask what happens to someone who who died of a long illness my baby sister died last year of cancer followed by my boyfriend I was wondering what happens to someone who dies by a a illness please?

[@CannaNoir]

have you ever made contact with someone in the afterlife that was considered a truly bad person, like murderer, etc? and what is their afterlife like for them if you could answer?

[@CannaNoir]

I've found you, honestly, because personal dark thoughts. my mom passed and she helped me with all things I couldn't do alone. my husband loves me but he gets stressed and yells often because not knowing how to handle emotions himself.. but you touching on the passed ones not fully knowing the effects etc has kept me going.. thank you..

[@ThiNguyen-ni7ye]

The bad soul won’t become Angel. They are energy but damaged energy so they can not create light or they are dim light in the afterlife. Their souls may be full of magnetic which would be attached to the black hole right away. Black hole is where there are high volume of radiation and bad souls would be destroyed to become dust. Dust would be falling onto earth to become insect or animals and the evolution will begin again. The reincarnation will start again. These insects will be under the command of the Angels even though these Angels are suicidal souls but because they didn’t do anything bad deeds on earth, they are Angels. And after the life of an insect they have to be reborn in that form for many lifetimes until the evolution process finishes.

[@queenofneverland9007]

I watch a lot of psychics (only the ones I trust) and they said that those bad people, in afterlife, are learning what they did and how they hurt other people, how to improve,...they are also always accompanied by two guardians that stand by them and that are keeping an eye on that bad person and teaching them. I watched this one video where they talked to Jeffreay Epstein and he said that he goes to the prison where his wife is (Ghislaine Maxwell) and torments her, messes with her mind because he is angry at her, and those guardians that are beside him are always telling him not to do that, to stop, that it is not right but he ignores them. And he still is not sorry for what he did. So I think those bad people are in a state of learning and are constantly thought what is right and what is wrong until they become truly sorry what they did and repent.

[@Notyourgirl253]

What if they were only 12 years old? What if it’s been 30 years and I still feel like he should be here with us? What if he should be here and I feel like my life has been messed up because he not here?

[@emailkirsie]

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[@keitharguelles2225]

So why do many NDE talk of heaven or hell. Is there a hell or heaven? What's the answer

[@MeetLeAnne]

I don’t understand….much of what you talk about needs human consciousness like regret, sadness…you speak of feelings & emotions which are created & affected by our thoughts. We don’t take our brains with us when we die, and so, this is where I don’t understand.

[@OptimizingSpirit]

Thank you for your video 🤍🙏

[@MultiEddy33]

Dealing with sever depression my life is terrible is this the way that please god

[@royengstrom4135]

For a long time I didn't believe in mediums, but that was a bit hypocritical, as I've always talked to dead loved ones, and yep, I seem to get answers...mainly love. I've had a blessed life, meaning lots of things have gone well that might not have, and I've enjoyed my life very much. I appreciated this video, and respect Amy's take on these things. I believe she's mainly correct.

[@queenofneverland9007]

You are really lucky because I am complete opposite..I have never been happy in my 24 years on this Earth. And it feels like bad things are always happpening to me even tho I have always tried to help and be there for everbody else since I was a child. But nobody is there for me. So I think that is why people like myself commit su!cide. It is not that we are selfish or something else it's just not enough good things in our lives to keep us here and pain is unimaginable.

[@royengstrom4135]

@@queenofneverland9007 My older sister, instead of seeing me as a threat, became my first mentor. I don't know how she became precocious, but she was great at vocabulary and reading for a very young girl (2y+ older than me), and she did her best to pass on her skills to me from my babyhood, teaching me multisyllable words from infancy, and how to read shortly after 3 years old. If you have great reading skills (and story-telling), you can create your own world to live in when times are poor. Yet I came up in a housing project where kids sometimes got murdered by other kids, and my dad was a drunk who often became mentally abusive (not physically). I found other decent kids to play sports and have adventures with, and invited my sister into boys stuff (part way, as she was a tomboy,) so she was let in on baseball and some adventures with us guys. You should really look into finding ways out for yourself. Can you improve the outlook of the people you hang out with (unusually by finding better people to hang out with)? Do you 'belly-breathe' or breath deeply through your nose, and meditate to quiet your mind? Do read books by good to great authors to gather their perceptions to add to your own, as it gives your greater perspectives. There is always drama and ignorance in this life, so try for quiet if it doesn't bore you too much, and in that quiet trying to observe your own values and those of others to sort out what you want. You are obviously very young and for sure have much more to do in your life as the above medium says, and that's why the quiet value searches, the deep breathing, and close observations. Invite in positive spiritual thoughts if you can. It is very hard to boot-strap yourself out of a bad mental place, but take it up as a hard challenge, as it is possible. I wish I could be more help, but see if you can sense one of those spiritual helpers that Amy talks about, so that you're not alone on your quest.

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@royengstrom4135 thank you for all of your recommendations ❤️ I think my problem is that too many things in my life are so bad but I have almost none that are good. I can almost get over all the anxiety and depression and try to help myself but physical unbearable pain I have felt my whole life is what really makes me want to end it all. And on top of that if I ended my life I wouldn't be leaving anything or anybody behind because I am so isolated and have not one person in my life I talk to or that cares about me so there is not much keeping me on this planet. But I will try to get better and find things in my life that will make me want to stay here. And I will try to experience as much things as I can so I can progress as a soul.

[@royengstrom4135]

@@queenofneverland9007 Try this: Whenever you think of suicide, try thinking of something playful or creative you can try first. Make it like counting to 10, as you can always kill yourself, so why not explore something interesting first. Start with questioning the possible, as in is there something like telepathy on the physical plane? Pure mind-reading seems absurd in this physical plane, as perhaps some psychics can sort of do it, but if they can it's much different then science fiction nonsense. Yet Amy suggests we all have this sense when people are close by, or even real close by, or even staring at the back of your head from a distance. This is very real, and in fact when you're developing senses like that, then you're also connecting deeper with your spiritual side while still in the physical. How do people think, if you could "read their minds?" Do they think in words, or do they think in images, or both, and what is attached to those words or images? The answer is usually both with most people going more toward images. But there's at least a third factor involved, and it's the emotional content wrapped up those words, but even more those images. So, can you read or even communicate feeling wrapped with words or images between people or even animals? Suppose you went out where some small animals and birds (like ducks) hang out for an hour or so each day and send out a simple message that you mean them no harm and in fact, you wish them all well. They may not catch the words, but the words give strength to the feelings (Images do too) which they can pick up. So, if you're trying to "read" people or animals, or you're trying to communicate without talking it's feelings that communicate... and guess what, you're doing that all the time anyway on an unconscious level. You could also do Yoga to the point where you can get some control of unconscious body abilities consciously, as some very adepts gets control of not just breathing, but also fight or flight hormones, BP, body temperature (very hard, but doable), and pulse rate. BTW, you write well and clearly, and that's a good skill.

[@queenofneverland9007]

@@royengstrom4135 Me writing well and clearly is really a compliment since English is not my first language so thank you very much! I will try what you recommended here. Do you think yoga could help with pain beacuse I have unbearable migraines since I was a child and it makes me want to rip my hair out from all the pain? Even taking pain medication doesn't help, it just gives me terrible anxiety.

[@trypticon31]

The question is if a person commit suicide will he forgiven by god and go to heaven or go down to hell ?

[@TheLisajill]

I think people have reported having near deaths after taking their lives. And thank you for your video.

[@Winadayaida]

What about euthanasia having a terminal illness or knowing you're going to die eventually from an illness a disease some factor that might make you suffer to the end is it okay to do assisted suicide

[@queenofneverland9007]

Yes it is okay because we have free will and can do what we want with our life.

[@umaimauneeb]

​@@queenofneverland9007 I m suffering from ibs intestinal issues, can't work, life is like hell, wanna go peacefully

[@danetteb6449]

Thank you Nancy! My 10-2021 reading with Amy did not make this clear. I guess my loved one is rare.

[@Jackie-vr7up]

HEY AMY MY BOYFRIEND KILLED HIS SELF IN FRONT OF ME LAST YEAR WE NEVER GOT TO SAY GOODBYE AND I STILL HAVEN'T RECEIVED ANY SIGNS OR. MESSAGES LOST AND CONFUSED ALSO ABANDONED

[@LeeMadison-vu9kk]

Im a gambling addict who's been throwing away my money for years and been depressed every since i started 27 year's ago and still going through it today.......even my rent money.......im lonely.....depressed.....unlucky and im missing days with my kids.......i don't think im selfish but i know for a fact........Im TIRED.......Since i already know tomorrow will be more suffering and struggling......with no help.......suicide crosses my mind more and more now.

[@AmyUtsman]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bnTbgaaMj9qYhMk Thinking About Taking Your Life? WATCH THIS NOW.

[@notcountingsheep3361]

Why can't you start cognitive behavioral therapy? Try reading The Forever Decision, it's free.

[@Dw5t3y]

If there's so much compassion on the other side then why would I not want to go ! All my wife's have cheated and I sure they Never loved me !!! I just wanted to be loved and I'm also in very bad pain everyday! Like a 9 on a scale of 1 - 10

[@Shiv1971]

Suicides result in the soul living in the lower astral world for a TEMPORARY period to work out karmic debts. This is suffering though unselfish motivation like Socrates being forced to take his life is different without the punishment. Near death experiences confirm it and so has Theosophy (Freemasonry with unselfish bent). But later the soul goes to a higher and pleasant astral subdivision. If the astral body is not addicted to earthly pleasures like sex or alcohol are capable of being happy. Spiritual life is particularly helped in the astral plane. Theosophy is a good source for the astral plane details.

[@ancientgear7192]

As a medium, when connecting with an entity how can she know if said entity is trully the person it claims to be and not some evil spirit/demon?

[@hannahsdrawings8664]

So it seems yt is filled with false prophets connecting all the wrong sources. We were taught by Jesus to not judge, to have compassion, to provide help to those who suffer.

[@twilyumz]

I was told today that my nephew is stuck in the in-between. Like a limbo state because he had unfinished business. Please tell me if this happens.

[@chrisshaimas8425]

Amy hi I’m Chris so my aunt Amie took her life four years ago she was a very lovely woman and I’ve had a hard time moving on from this being that this stuff runs in my family I have been there myself I got involved with tarot because I know that I can still commutacate with her however I’m too close to invested in this so I’m wondering if you could help me with this .

[@kevinhead6464]

THEY GO INTO THE AFTERLIFE.

[@russe130]

It's all God's fault in the first place he's the one who designed the misery in this world, by sitting back and doing nothing.