What Happens When The Narcissist Realises You Are Never Coming Back | Pep talk

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[@nancylicho3538]

Gaslighting, projecting, dismissing, love bombing, ignoring, instigating, deflecting, memory problems, fighting. This is not love. These people are sick. Run!!! Don't look back. I'm 10 weeks no contact blocked her everywhere. Keep it moving.

[@angels3415]

Excellent advice and so correct

[@geronimoboom2974]

How’s it going now bro? Hope all is good

[@zackzues4830]

U better

[@Sandy--hq5ws]

True!

[@captgraybush2890]

I'm getting ready to have to do this myself. While I know it's going to be good for me. It's going to be the hardest thing I have to do.

[@flowersofthefield340]

When you escape ...... Don't ever look back or go back !

[@loriderewitz7213]

Perfect advice Moonbeam!

[@maggiemcdonald3185]

Yes i escaped 🙌 my shackles r gone praise Jesus 🙏

[@baronperrysr7595]

Amen

[@sherrychoksi4609]

SPOT ON ..MKE NO MISTAKE TO GO BACK..UR UNCONTIONAL LOVE CANNOT CHANGE A NARCISSIST..FRM MY EXPERIENCE

[@loriderewitz7213]

@@maggiemcdonald3185 you are now officially a survivor and well on your way to recovering! 💕

[@izawaniek2568]

When you manage to walk away, never ever go back because you will regret it!

[@inkafalcon4971]

I went back. And now 8months later i have a broken heart and i spend a night on jail on falses accusations. Im heart broken watchin this videos. That woman destroyed me

[@jefflehoux9619]

Check out Hammerhand the mgtow monk on KZbin. Then go your own way.

[@user-ro1hw5tr7u]

I'm so sorry. If you don't heal you will even go back AGAIN. It's a viscous cycle, move out of state, RUN

[@parrygh3651]

I went back and oh boy I regeret it so much.

[@angelakeely5859]

Work on healing your inner child through re parenting that inner child.Heal childhood traumas, Father wound ,Mother wound, if you can heals these and work on co-dependency issues, there won't be any need to choose a Narcissist to heal these wounds, that and self love, self care.🥰

[@wolfhernedez7739]

An ex is an ex for a reason. I threw out my clothes and accessories that I bought to please her, and those I wore around her, right down to my flip flops. I got a new phone, and changed my number. Deleted EVERY picture of her. Created new emails, social media accounts, and changing my name and moving to a new state. Next will be my car, that she rode in for 2 yrs. I threw out my bedroom furniture, and anything that was influenced by her. I'm dissolving Anything and Everything that is linked to her, I'm getting MY life back that I had prior to even knowing her. Because I'm not married to any material things of this world. Dissolving my things connected to her bad energy. I will get everything back ten fold.

[@ssing7113]

This deserves a medal. One of the few willing to go the distance to heal it up and take the annoying actions to rid down to the spiritual level. Good on you Hope you’re in therapy / had therapy to heal those childhood wounds. Codependency People. This is what real 100% accountable healing and throwing the key to the lock look likes. Literally the first comment I’ve ever come across to understand what actually needs to be done to 100% heal!!!!!! Taking the necessary actions and follow though no matter the costs to rid of this person. I’m proud of you as can be reading a strangers comment. 😆 🥇. I find very few successful people in life. You are on of them that actual put in the work. Time. Actions to get the outcome you wanted. You backed up your words with actions. Seriously the first person I’ve been amazed by in the comments section. I have done the same. It’s a long hard process yet we’re dedicated to making sure we’re rid of the toxic energy on all levels

[@cmockingjay7265]

Agreed did the same books, cloths, gifts. Gave them away, sent them back, threw some stuff out. Smudged my house countless times! Can’t afford to live but have PERGED everything I come across. Going to make all the rings I was given into a wind chimes so y’all this empty promises are blowing in the wind forever!

[@cmockingjay7265]

Agreed did the same books, cloths, gifts. Gave them away, sent them back, threw some stuff out. Smudged my house countless times! Can’t afford to live but have PERGED everything I come across. Going to make all the rings I was given into a wind chimes so y’all this empty promises are blowing in the wind forever!

[@wolfhernedez7739]

@@ssing7113 Thank you so much, yes therapy is next. My children included, redeveloping a religious routine that she interrupted bc she wasn't a part of my religious beliefs. Most of that is my fault, due to trying to make it work. Well, I'm a new man with firmer standards and beliefs, new hobbies and interests. I hope the best for you my friend! And it's not awkward to be proud of strangers, we're our own community. We all have more in common than most best friends do, so let's keep encouraging each other to healing the best way possible! I'm proud of all of us and much appreciation to the content creators who help us daily to understand what happened to us and help us get back to being healthy people! Much love family 😊

[@wolfhernedez7739]

@@cmockingjay7265 that's good, start over completely. This is your chance to reinvent yourself the healthy way with good knowledge. The next step is to apply what you've learned, turn golden nuggets into a gold mine 🌟 😊

[@ernie548]

Just leave. Leave friends, lovers, or family behind. That's the sign of a strong person. And no, family is not everything.

[@annstewart8506]

Exactly what I did. No regret as I know my worth.

[@nolaclarke253]

Absolutely. You have to leave it all behind.

[@Softman264]

Real talk

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Totally - most seemingly difficult life lesson to learn. No contact is the only ‘option’

[@michaeljeffers6614]

@@nolaclarke253 That's exactly what Gary Barlow said in his 1994 hit song 'Back For Good'.

[@rosemaryrogers1478]

Treat them just like they treat you🔥.. never make the first move...ignore them as long as you can...don’t call.don’t text...ghost him just like he did you

[@karlataylor1172]

He set that precedent. He just disappears. No explanation.....no phonecalls ....nothing. But he always comes back. That's what baffles me.

[@bbdass4598]

Exactly what i learnt . Treat people like they treat you. You never be too kind or soften with this BS let it go be the better person crap. These people need to shamed in society

[@angelakeely5859]

@@karlataylor1172 That's the pattern of a Narcissist they disappear, give no explanation, because usually they have other supply, i.e other women on the go, they are serial cheaters, that's why you won't get an explanation, be careful.

[@indraSilentMoonImaginarium]

Yes I am doing my very best not to reach out and it’s torture

[@rosemaryrogers1478]

@@indraSilentMoonImaginarium I understand..but it’s equal torture what your going thru designed by the preparatory...that’s exactly what they want you to feel🔥..that’s what you are not understanding..

[@MasterEggroll]

The last two girls I dated had strong narcissistic traits. It’s scary to be single these days. If you are married or have someone good in your life hold onto them for ever. Trust me you do not want to date in today’s society

[@Thundercloud25]

I met mine in the late 1970’s in our teens

[@sbear6798]

If you leave a narcissist NEVER give them access to your pets nor children 🙏🏻

[@marcealvarezg]

Absolutely! I got our cat with me. They are not committed to anything. My girl was going to be on the street in one week, facts 100%

[@nopereradicator]

They weaponize everything.

[@charlesstevenson5141]

If you have kids together, that can be a rather sticky situation.

[@shilohbreigh3591]

Why is that?

[@krishnaverma2603]

Why ?

[@sunnybein1]

You forgot the main one…they will tell everyone that you… not them …are the Narcissist-classic projection and the biggest cliche in the Narcissists playbook.

[@MJ-qb5ph]

They were doing this behind your back for years before anyway

[@jonrauch165]

Yes this is so true, been called a narc a 1000 times.

[@DannySainz-o4g]

My narcissistic girlfriend texted me yesterday to wish me a happy Easter. To be honest it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. But i didn't respond to her. I thought about her all day but i didn't text her back. I feel good about it today. I wanna thank you and everyone here for all the support. Love you all. God bless you and have a great day. God bless everyone...

[@mhaughton11]

Keep standing strong we love you near and far ❤

[@DannySainz-o4g]

You know it's crazy how I got a message from you today. All night last night and today I was thinking about texting or calling my ex narcissistic. Girlfriend. But after getting your message it changed my mind. Thank you. God bless you.

[@TRU_WORSHIPPERS]

If you distance yourself from them mentally before you leave them physically your most likely not to return back to them..but don't you dare go back you will regret it big time .I only went back to a person I was dating one time and learned that lesson.if you find yourself begging to be back with any person you will regret it big time.take the loss learn the lesson and move on.

[@ssing7113]

Don’t agree. Always vulnerable to you or them hoovering even if you check out mentally. Checking out mentally only comes from therapy healing childhood trauma. Codependency and making sure it’s legit 100% no contact

[@TRU_WORSHIPPERS]

@@ssing7113 well it worked for me.

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

TRUE THAT, BE PREPARED TO EXIT

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Absolutely I went back to family that almost cost me my life and the abuse was even worse - never ever ever go back. You were right the first time which in my case was 35 years before

[@lexakentucky7423]

Sometimes lessons cost. I sure paid for mine.

[@pauletteatkins3115]

Once you leave them, never look back. Just remind yourself of all the drama that these (things) put you through. They have no ability to change, so please don't waste your time and effort. Good riddance to old garbage, pick yourself up and move on with your life. Start loving yourself and put the energy back in your life that was taken from you.

[@sakiratabidemiewumi9540]

But sorry to ask for those who have children with them and don't wish to go with children is that a good idea?

[@Jakilyn]

2 months post breakup, my ex called & assumed that I was just "sitting on a shelf" essentially, _waiting_ for him to take me back. The nerve.😡 He discarded me after I asked to have a discussion about money. Because, magically his money was disappearing into thin air🙄 He ran 🏃‍♂️ like the pathetic covert narcissist that he is

[@ssing7113]

Block all contact! Get a new number. Email. Social media. Even down to moving if you need. You’re still at open door to be hoovered when you’re down Get into therapy next. Childhood trauma. Codependency needs resolved

[@Richard-vq7ud]

@@ssing7113 yes. They can weasle their way back into our lives and tear those wounds open even worse.

[@cgc1581]

He was likely schmoozing a new supply. Good riddance!!!

[@loveablearies]

Same here. He left for New supply. Yet he's still reaching out. I blocked him on everything!!!

[@Richard-vq7ud]

@@loveablearies you are doing great, keep it up!

[@parrygh3651]

After our first break up 1 month into the relationship, he managed to hoover me back which I truly regret. I felt that everyone deserve a second chance but no some people don’t. Another 2 months went by and this time he broke my heart way worse than the first time. I felt like I was being controlled and was sophocating. I ended the relationship and he tried to win me back stronger this time. He gave me so many false promises like he will go to therapy, and that he loves me and has never seen anyone like me. ( which I knew were all lies this time). When he saw that nothing can change my mind, he said “ let’s be friends”. When I rejected that too he started crying. I just told him “ I wish you a good life and I hope you’ll get over me soon” then I hung up. He tried to contact me again but I didn’t respond. It’s been 17 days since the break up and I have never felt better in my life. Stay strong guys. You are a gem, Know your worth and don’t let anyone treat you otherwise.

[@SeanMack1]

how are you now?

[@jessicarusso3038]

Phew!! I went through the same 3 month cycle. I’m still reeling from everything that happened in such a short time, but thank goodness they showed their true colors so quickly!! I’ve been educating myself and it’s heartbreaking to hear of people who were married or in a partnership for decades. 3 months was PLENTY to give me reason to end it and refocus on what I need to do to strengthen my self esteem after the whole situation. I hope you are finding some strength and support💖

[@parrygh3651]

@@SeanMack1I’m feeling way better now thanks for asking. I’m in a new relationship that is nothing like my previous one. I feel loved and am grateful for it. My narc ex reached out to me 4 times ever since we broke up but I didn’t answer. He stopped contacting me after a couple of months and I’m grateful for it😅.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

I actually told him it was over, and I walked away from him. This was 11 years ago! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

[@ssing7113]

If you’re still watching this. You’re not healed…..

[@jannlewandowski5540]

@@ssing7113 I know it takes time. I know I'm doing better, and I think of him in these rooms. I'm doing my best, and for the most part 11 years is a LONG time. You NEVER forget them, but you do get over the HARDEST PART. THE 💔 BROKEN HEART. Also, did you know that there are people in these rooms "studying" to become a Therapist?" They read and SHARE their experiences with others if they are over their ex, or not. You said if I was healed, why am I in this room? I have RIGHT & REASON to be on here. I've been thru a lot in my 5 yrs with him which I ended 11 years ago. Someday I may want to HELP others and so far I'm doing just fine. I can relate to people. WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE.

[@HonestyIsAVirtue7]

@@jannlewandowski5540 Very well said.. You know why you are watching this. And, for anyone to just jump on here and say that they know why you are doing anything is Very, Very Narc like... IJS that her comment looks very familiar to NPD

[@kerstinpalmberger8085]

He left me 11 years before but still stalk me 😂😂 that's such crazy

[@jannlewandowski5540]

@@kerstinpalmberger8085 Never go back to a narcissist!

[@someonenew9442]

Stay strong with the crocodile tears too, very very convincing but quickly turn to anger when you don’t fall for them.

[@catlady6938]

I remember the crocodile tears well, I did fall for them because I never realised what was going on at the time. It’s now two months no contact and five months since I walked away. It gets better each day and so peaceful.

[@MasterEggroll]

Mine did that too. She would cry then go into normal conversation then cry on spot. I laughed cause I thought it was so weird. When I cry I can’t even talk. They sob like little babies but no tears.

[@MasterEggroll]

@@catlady6938 the only thing I miss the most is the great sex we had. Man we would go into another world haha

[@carolynbennett2735]

Been there, done that!

[@sukayna7026]

The way they switch things upside down is crazy. I am lucky and finally happy survivour of this kind of brainwash. It is a nightmare to be with them, because you forget WHO you are.

[@flexflow4602]

Exactly. They‘ve got such an amazing skill to twist reality

[@loriderewitz7213]

Yes, I left him and I did it abruptly. I knew he would never change and I had no choice. He tried every single one of the behaviors you described. When he was in the stage of trying to love bomb me he did the sweetest things, when he was in the angry stage, he did unspeakable things. My head was already so messed up from his years of brainwashing me into believing I was incapable, unable to do anything right, everything was my fault etc. so when he started all the behaviors you mentioned, I felt I would lose my mind trying to work through them all, but with your huge amount of help and support from my family, I’ve been gone from him for almost 3 years and I have a new life. I’m sure he’ll show up again but with your advice, I am much stronger now. Thank you so much!! 💕

[@anoushkamarcin]

Dear Lori, I am so pleased to know that you are much stronger, you have worked so hard to process this and get your life back on track. And now you have ! Hat off to you. Recovery is possible and each and very one of us deserve this and will get there in our own time. take care and keep shining Lori 😊

[@loriderewitz7213]

@@anoushkamarcin thank you so much for all you’ve done for me!

[@sarahjane8949]

@@loriderewitz7213 Hi Lori , fully agree this channel really helps 🙏🏻🌸🌹

[@loriderewitz7213]

@@sarahjane8949 Hi Sarah!!

[@loriderewitz7213]

@Of the Refrain always reading!! Right now devouring a book on Irish history. What are you reading? I’m interested.

[@thrivingnow7395]

The violence was horrendous. I am two years total no contact. The stalking has been scary. I will never go back, no matter what.

[@charliet1734]

When I found out the truth I was being played and I left, my narc tried the silent treatment, a usual go to I had always played into with her. Not this time. Then she got all sweet. Nope. Then she got nasty. Contacted my family members and said I was "off my meds and suicidal" and tried to have them get me hauled in for a psych evaluation because she was "worried and wanted the old me back". I'm not on meds and have never wanted to off myself. Fortunately my family saw the writing on the wall. She also stole things and vandalized a car before it was said and done and I'm talking about a 50 year old woman with a PH.D. and a government job with a security clearance. When the wheels come off try and make sure you're in a safe place and be prepared for anything. These people will exceed your wildest expectations when it comes to screwing you over.

[@mh-m3682]

OMG, pure evil!

[@charliet1734]

Yup. She’s basically an expert at throwing people under the bus while playing the victim. The things she did were an attempt to get me to react in a way where she could point her finger and say “see! I told you!” to the people she had trashed me to. After not taking the bait for several attempts she lost it and busted up the car. But she did it in front of people she had believing I was the bad guy. I took that as a win. She skulked away after that and it’s been peaceful for 5 months now.

[@pallasathena1369]

@@charliet1734 if you had recorded her trashing your car and went it to her boss, she would have lost her security clearance unless she agreed to a full psyche examination.

[@flexflow4602]

Wow! I‘m getting a little scared now. My going no-contact becomes now even more important to stick to it!

[@nopereradicator]

I second that entire last paragraph.

[@SR-pb6kq]

My narcissist doesnt know yet that I'm not coming back. Yes, I'm gone for my own good

[@usatodaywife]

Within 30 seconds of being discarded, I BLOCKED him. Within 30 minutes, I deleted all photos and tossed everything associated with him into the dumpster. I call screen, I ask "Who is it?" before opening the door, etc. so there will continue to be NO CONTACT for life. I have ALL the control now.

[@WhineyOne]

Excellent!

[@TheSpiritRoom23]

Did he ever hoovered?

[@TheSpiritRoom23]

I did the same thing the only difference is this my second time around cause I was five months no contact none of his strategies worked. I finally gave in and three months later his mask fell… if you get back they are worse than before and very angry!!! So far two weeks no contact.

[@racs9606]

​@@TheSpiritRoom23 how did he manage to wriggle back into your life? Did you unblock him?

[@theveryplumdarcey]

Leave them in a state where they feel in control, having been the victor and then run for the hills.

[@cyndigooch1162]

I couldn't care less about what that person does or thinks anymore, which is MUCH healthier than still caring for someone who obviously didn't, or wasn't able, to do likewise. ❤

[@ms.shatinams.lin_beifong3687]

I had a very emotional traumatic experience with my ex narcissistic friend. I had to take her to small claims and luckily I won, receive final money owed right before the start of the pandemic and overall I've been no contact. During that time I started therapy and with the support of my therapist, only then had I sent her a letter last year just letting her know how I felt and that she could have just been herself. No need to put on a false image. Just 6 days ago, I got a text message from her. She only asked for me to text her back if I could. I had already deleted her number so I couldn't 100% verify that the number was from her but I blocked this number and deleted the message. I'm sure she wants something and is counting me being the same "nice" person that I was before but nope, I'm not a doormat anymore

[@loriderewitz7213]

Good for you! You did the absolute best thing for yourself.

[@ms.shatinams.lin_beifong3687]

@@loriderewitz7213 Thank you! There's still healing to be done but my decision reinforces how strong I am.

[@loriderewitz7213]

@@ms.shatinams.lin_beifong3687 you are indeed strong and you will continue to heal! 💕

[@tracynewton3083]

It's a hoover. Don't ever let anyone back that means you harm. It's called trauma bonding.

[@ssing7113]

You’re not 100% no contact. Get there as I’m not sure why in therapy this was not done. And they were able to text you. Change email. Delete social media. Phone number.. You’re mostly there but sounds like you need therapy still if you left a crack in the door after all this time. You secretly like the validation… if you wanna admit it or not

[@annette1982]

The narc I knew came in under the guise of friendship...he abandoned the friendship...ghosted..., and did try to return after a month...I refused to answer his knock on my door. unfriended him on Instagram. The day he ghosted me I had a dead man service for him. I am glad he's gone as in my mind I had already left the friendship when he started the silent treatment and refused to tell me what was wrong. He did a 360 change - he can continue to chase his other suppliers...he can try to get revenge but the bottom line is that he LOST CONTROL and I have taken my POWER back. Your videos have been enlightening.

[@MikiLund]

When you have escaped, cut ALL ties!

[@Bold11x]

I had a child with one of these monsters and it cost me a lot! 18 years of having to deal with a narc for my son, he'll be 23 this year and all I can say is the last 5 years have been serene since being able to go NC. She tried a few times to make contact over the stupidest things like once my son had a DVD of mine he left at her house and she acted like it was of the utmost importance that I come retrieve it lol. I didn't fall for it and never will again these people should be legally forbidden from getting into relationships with others, they are dangerously sick. Or maybe limit narcs to date other narcs and start a reality TV show where we could watch the ish they do to each other for entertainment, if they're both narcs no harm no foul right?!...

[@havalonsjourney]

They should indeed band from getting into a relationshipbut like one cop told me that unfortunately being an ASS IS NOT A CRIME

[@kenro76]

I’ve maintained no contact for a little over three years. One of her tactics included hyper promiscuity. Which resulted in relationships with male friends and family members. I have gone no contact with them as well. She has contracted multiple Spiritual STDs. She contracted chlamydia. Her body count is somewhere around five dozen guys. All of this within the first year after our divorce. Through all of this I have still maintained no contact. She is relentless still to this day.

[@la_rooh]

Hats off I’m almost no contact for a year and dodged few Hoovers lol

[@chrispalmer3969]

TOP MAN KEN, i did the same, it does there head in

[@cgc1581]

The malignant narcs never stop. 7.5 years ago we divorced. He still drives by my house, calls employers and everyone he finds out in associated with to slander me and try to convince people of all kinds of crazy things. I don't think he'll ever stop.

[@la_rooh]

@@cgc1581 coverts are way worst because they are more charming and charismatic. The worse type ever

[@kenro76]

@@la_rooh I agree. In the past, I felt like a fool for ignoring the covert, red flags! However I am no less wounded from the malignant side of my ex-wife’s vengeance. As of a year ago I regained my relationship with one of my adult daughters. Whom my ex-wife turned them both against me. Now my 22-year-old knows what it’s like to be stabbed in the back. Now I am waiting patiently for my 19 yr old daughter to wake up🙏🏾.

[@StayFocusedStayHumble]

This is way you go no contact. Walk away and never look back. Block them out of your life, phone, and social media. Don't go looking and snooping. If you do this, non of they tactics work. Once you pour into you, and heal, the more you move forward.

[@rhondacooper7957]

In my case it was physical violence/force. But I stayed STRONG I did not give into the narc. It's been 40 years ago since I've seen him. Thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative 👌🏽

[@candyshane3611]

🙏🙏

[@RogiReels]

Its sad to know that there are people who have gone no contact with the narcissist for so years but still watch this video because they must've been approached or as a reminder.

[@starfoxfire7]

This video is so spot-on! What is sad is no matter what, it really still hurts to have them trying to get you back or back at you. You can't really tell because you know that they lie to gain trust from you and sting you again. You want some kind of peace or friendship but you can't because they are not sorry for hurting you, in fact, they enjoy playing you for an idiot! So what can you do? Do not trust them, wish them well, and maybe in time they may know and ask you to forgive them some day.

[@SaritWorld]

These low life pick on women that don't have a father or a brother to protect us. Poor babies. Let them cry for losing us.

[@TawnaTV]

Omg.. if I’d had a decent brother to sick on them lol

[@44kayleemic]

Thank you this made sense. I left him, and he has blocked me on all social media and phone after a couple pathetic breadcrumb attempts to get me to stay friends which I rejected. Its been 7 weeks and he has lived with 2 different women and apparently getting photo after photo taken with so many different women on his Facebook. It's truly pathetic. All he has done is revealed himself to those who have any awareness and decency about them by one minute acting like I am a princess on Facebook to acting like I am dead and am a controlling evil toxic witch who took him for everything he had (which was nothing because he is projecting, he took everything I had!)

[@jkies11]

Sounds very familiar. 3 weeks no contact and he is leaving breadcrumbs out there pretending to be in love with another woman.

[@44kayleemic]

@@jkies11 I am going to be 12 months NC in August... I remember when I was 3 weeks and feel so emotional about that. I had no idea I would make it to 12 months NC like I have. Cut ties with all who refused to accept my reality of what he was. There were so few of those people truly but it felt so good to finally see the real ones around me and separate them from the flying monkeys and enablers. When I was getting people contacting me telling me about all the different women I didn't want to hear it. He did it during the relationship anyway so it was just a part of the process of me seeing it without denying it to myself. The hoover was to gaslight me about the cheating anyway and silence me as his fans were slipping away seeing his behaviour but instead of looking at it that way, he projected on me and decided I was smearing him and deserved his hatred. He called me unforgiving and toxic. I changed my number. Every time I feel emotionally insecure, I remind myself of that feeling of being held back, lied to, disrespected and imprisoned by having him mooch off me like a leech and then acting like it was the other way around. You are going to heal from this and you are going to move on with your life. They need us to survive, not the other way around. It only works when we don't know ❤️😎

[@IndorilTheGreat]

My ex recently sent me an abusive message, and followed it up with, "Don't you dare respond. Nothing you could say would make any of this better." It's like she actually *thinks* I want to make things better and mend things. Yeah, no. Hard pass.

[@marcealvarezg]

Wonderful video 👏👏👏you described exactly what I lived with my ex narc. Specially when you talk about loosing control over you and then they bring you flowers, chocolates, gifts, etc. These are facts 100%

[@iopakayalo3459]

After the lovebombing, everything about me was just a turnoff for him. Sex was only used whenever there was an issue tobe resolved except it was not fully discussed to bring closure. He'd lie, use sex to shut me up and walk off. Nothing is resolved until the next issue so more problems, more women, just a multitude of issues until there's this huge feeling of confusion and void. I felt so confused, empty and very messed up as the 14 years went on. Towards the discard phase, I was told I was crazy, sick in the head, needing a serious doctor, needing to check into a mental hospital etc all because I kept on reacting to the lies and betrayals. I didn't know what I now know so am healing thanks to channels like yours Anoushka. Thank you for reaching out to us. God bless you for the work you do. 🙏💕

[@sreyen1065]

Same happens to me, I broke up with him 3 weeks ago, I found out that he's been cheating on me with his ex girlfriend for the entire time we've dating for 14 years, he lie all the time, blame me for his bad behavior, said I'm crazy and sick in the head, he was cold toward me at the end, I broke up with him, I don't want to catch diseases or something, it's been 3 weeks now, so far he hasn't try to contact me yet, I will ignore him if he try. I will never go back. I been in hell with him, not anymore. Bye

[@Datb2]

Feels like I escaped a cult

[@merlinsvdd]

Thank you, Anoushka! Its a fantastic reminder for me. No more hoovers, not that i am asking for any. No.

[@johnemberson1930]

She is fantastic and so insightful.

[@MonkeyDLuffy45068]

This is all true. The narcissist said I’ll regret my decision, when I look back over a year from now.

[@ghostafterlivesmatter8732]

When I finally told him off he got himself in big trouble and went to prison. Something bad happens to all of my ex boyfriends karma got all of them

[@laurelgrasso2897]

That's magical powers right here^

[@clairefeltsman4767]

It doesn’t matter I quit and that’s all that matters it’s done . Quit the whole thing forever and forever and it will never repeat again in my life this I swear

[@MonkeyDLuffy45068]

When I left, the narcissist was so angry called me names yelled and screaming. And once I asked for Time & Space, the narcissist contacted me saying, I love you and want to work things out, but I had already let the narcissist know I needed time & space, I gave a list of things that were emotional abuse, the narcissist later did a list that showed how very angry he was. The narcissist wanted me to just jump back into the situation but I didn’t communicate I went silent no contact, and when I gave my boundaries the narcissist said. ‘Never mind’ control gone.

[@iononcantomascrivo]

Once again, your video reminds me exactly of my former friend. Literally the day we met, she was very quick to trash-talk people behind their back right to my face. She absolutely could not stand when she wasn't the focus of the conversation. It was also very telling when it was her time to talk, she couldn't remember where the conversation had left off and it involved a lot of stuttering. There was a lot of mirroring going on. We had a lot in common, so it seemed, but it was just a ruse. Asking about our seemingly mutual interest at later times, her eyes got big and expression went blank then I swear I heard the final Jeopardy theme playing in her head. She had no recollection of our previous conversations about “our” interests. She was absolutely envious and complained about everyone she saw doing better than her. It wasn't just the whole delusional belief that everything they had should be hers, she had convinced herself that they had schemed their way into their comfortable life positions when she, in fact, was the schemer: she was just a lazy apathetic sloth who couldn't get off her butt long enough to maintain a regular job let alone work towards having a substantial well-paid career. Additionally, she had a long history of refracted and disjointed relationships, especially with siblings and extended family. It's worth pointing out, in the nearly nine years that we were “friends,” I never once saw any of her sisters or brothers or relatives contact or visit her. The most I ever saw, was when she received an email from her older half-sister (who had just become a grandmother) with photos of her great-niece. That was a turning point for me where I started to realize that sometimes a person is the black sheep for a reason. Her facade of trying to pass herself off as a regular productive member of society never lasted long and the narcissistic rage erupted as she exploded thus taking it out on the nearest bystanders. Those who bore the brunt of her instability were her husband or her children and sometimes me. Eventually when we had our falling out (I scared her to the point she thought she was going to be sued), she did try to go to a mutual friend (whom I was, fortunately, able to wake up to her toxicity) and tried, in vain, to recruit him in concocting a smear campaign against me. He refused to take part in it as he had known me longer than he had known her and he knew everything she said was absolutely false. She tried another tactic: triangulation. He didn't fall in for that either and would not block me on social media after ordering from to do so. She finally tried one last tactic: her failed attempt at turning him into her flying monkey. Despite her insistence, crocodile tears and entitled screeching, he would not spy on me. In her paranoid miserable mind, she was dead-convinced I was talking about her. When he told her that she wasn't that interesting, she flipped out on him, too. That was the beginning of the end for the two of them. In the end, her lame attempt at a smear campaign fell on deaf ears. She completely failed to take into account that most people didn't know who I was, as me being her supply, I was only part of the background scenery. See, she had long since portrayed herself as the mastermind behind our business operation. She had no clue what she was doing. Due to her intellectual laziness and complete lack of preparation for any important business engagement, she often relied on me and cherry-picked my brain to make her lack of knowledge not be so apparent. She couldn't even be bothered to proofread her emails before she sent them out. She would contact me and say things like “make it look pretty.” After I discreetly shut down the project and effectively retired from the stage, so to speak, the truth slowly started to come out. My former friend had no business background whatsoever. Even I was unaware. Her resume was pure fiction. It should come as no surprise, I wasn't the first person to quit because they couldn't stand dealing with her and once it was realized that she had wasted everyone's time, their effort and not to mention money, she pretty much became a pariah. Karma finally caught up with my former friend. Before my friend went no-contact, he had last heard that she was essentially unhirable in her state of residence. If she wants a fresh start, she's going to have to move. I've been no contact for well over 8 years. Like any adults, I face daily challenges and obstacles, but that's life. It's far less stressful without my former friend in it, though. I imagine she still seethes in anger that I was one of many who discarded her before she could discard me. The best part? I feel no anger. In fact, I pray for her. I feel like that last part is most likely in vain because people like her never change

[@alfx5432]

Are you a female

[@Blessingsculptures]

I am currently receiving pictures of her with other guys . The good thing about it is I don't care anymore, I am back on my fit and progressing in all the ways I was blocked

[@janiceking4415]

Well I have told my narcissistic daughter who has ignored me and lied about me for 14 years...I have now told her to shut up get on with her life and that I am done with her for good....wow I feel so much better than I have for 14 years, the weight has been lifted and I am free again!

[@fushidesign2005]

after he hurt me so deeply kept future faking kept lying kept manipulating me having already a rebound crush i got back on him , blocked him and made him loose money. i never did that before and i feel ashamed for it but still that was the only way of getting rid of him

[@mizkaponi4853]

That explains why they will hang out and around whom ever....

[@TawnaTV]

The worst! Doormats and enablers

[@frolickingelf]

Thanks for the reminder Anoushka. I’m in the middle of a simultaneous smear campaign and medical hoover, and the twisted narrative just reminds me why I went No Contact in the first place.

[@frolickingelf]

@Of the Refrain Thanks for the solidarity! I’m a long-time fan of Anoushka’s work, and she helped inspire me to fill up about 30 journals thus far. Keep doing the good work, looking forward to meeting you in a LIVE one day soon 🕊

[@D______]

My story is long and involved as are everyone else's. I'll relate one experience of the relationship regarding what the narc does after the discard to seek revenge. What my ex narc did to get to me was she filed an order of protection against me so I couldn't contact her or my 16 year old daughter. Obviously I was already no contact with the ex narc so I could care less. I wasn't fine with losing contact with my daughter and she knew that. Using our daughter to get to me was what she was clearly doing. So she got her 21 day emergency OP for making simple accusations and then we went into court for her to prove her case and get the order extended or vacated based upon evidence. My strategy was to basically be unmoved by anything she said and let her prove her case which she couldn't do based on the facts. Anyway she went on and on about this and that which wasn't true. Telling both outright lies and exaggerations trying to evoke a response from me. I sat silent and unemotional. Then she called our daughter to the stand and she also lied on the stand through direct questioning of is this true, etc. Now I could've went after my own child on the stand regarding her lies but to what end? First it wouldn't look good, me going after a meek 16 year old girl, second if my daughter doesn't want contact with me I'm certainly not going to force it. I remained stoic during the entire process. When it was my turn, I only asked my daughter one question, "In the last 4 months, during the total 1 hour we've got to spend together did you have fun with me?" She said yes and I said no further questions. My desire was to send a clear message to my child that I will not attack her under any circumstances and I love her. Obviously the judge ruled in the narc's favor as he believed my 16 year old daughter and said so. Making a point of making it clear he didn't believe the narc without explicitly saying so. Frankly she looked like a loony in court making wild accusations, interrupting me on the rare occasions I spoke, and answering my questions not with the yes/no answers they required but with long winded diatribes about how horrible I am. I remained unemotional during the whole hearing and ruling. After it was over I was in the hallway waiting on the paperwork as was the ex narc and our daughter who were a ways away in the hallway. I walked past them a couple of times to use the bathroom, etc. When I did I made a point to completely ignore them as if they didn't even exist. What I wanted to get across was that the narc had no power over me, no control, no ability to move me in any way emotionally. That was what she did for 17 years and now her attempts yielded nothing. Now it's sad our 16 year old daughter was/is in the middle of this and used by the narc but it is what it is. I can't change that. My divorce clearly states if my daughter wishes to live with me at any time for any reason she can do so without any court intervention. I've left the door open and will provide a safe, nurturing environment for her if she so chooses it at some time in the future. Albeit the relationship will have clear boundaries as I won't tolerate narcissistic abuse from anyone ever again. Point is don't let the narc get you unnerved or upset. Whatever they do just roll with it and let them know in no uncertain terms that you know it's all lies and silliness that you won't give the time of day to or be moved by in any way. Maybe at some point in the future I'll set the record straight. I've got all the documents that clearly show what the truth is and that what was said under oath in court are lies. That said, one must pick his/her battles carefully with a narc. Those that know me and love me know the truth and that's all that matters at the end of the day. My daughter too knows the truth. Hopefully one day she'll come around to it in her own way in her own time and when/if she does I'll be there with open arms.

[@markhatfield5621]

My narc ex was able to 'play the victim card' and kept a restraining order against me for four and a half years until a judge caught her in changing her story.

[@D______]

@Of the Refrain Appreciate it very much but I'm no hero. Just some guy like everybody else. If I can do it anyone else can to. Just inform yourselves and know what to do and do it. The real heros are those that create channels like this to help us that have or are currently being abused and how to deal with it. All the thanks goes to them.

[@nnarkaj]

Feel for you bro, a lot of us are in the exact same situation but the courts continue to rule in favor of the women even though there is no proof and wild accusations. Smh, just believe in God and find happiness, your daughter will come to you, she won’t be able to withstand the abuse that she will eventually turn on her.

[@D______]

@@nnarkaj Appreciate it brother! I'll stick to believing in myself. I'm atheist.

[@D______]

@Of the Refrain If my story inspires that's awesome. Thanks for the awesome comment! Maybe it's just the "I don't give F attitude?" I find what I give Fs about and don't is what makes the world what it is. Be well my friend!

[@stephanieschulze179]

You hit the nail on the head!!!

[@shirl974]

I went NC 15 mths ago....sent me a prank txt last week,a vulgar one,pretending to be a secret admirer.....I knew who it was straight away

[@ElectricMaryJane]

My ex Narc is doing everything he can to get a reaction out of me. Posted a picture with 8 women captioning it something along the lines of Dan bilzerian. Posts every single day on Instagram. Went back to both his exes. He’s losing his mind clearly because he lost control over me. And I chose to walk away. No reaction. Not a word to his friends. Removed his friends and sister off social media and privated my profile. It’s done. No more connections. Nothing. DONT BE WEAK. Know your worth, and move on. However hard it is. These people are sick, feel sorry for them and let them go

[@linvi_chemutai]

One more thing you should do for yourself 🙏 stop checking his social media. It will slow the healing. God bless you ❤️

[@delf5724]

Omg ...mine is doing the same thing. Just posted a picture of lady on his social media to make me feel bad 😂😂😂😂😂😂. It didn't really bother me. I wish him all the best luck with her

[@belizejuliette7223]

Mine putvhus x Wife Widding picture as a profile pic 😂

[@delf5724]

@@belizejuliette7223 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he is going mad

[@peterknyk1942]

Thank you, Anoushka! They start hoovering! 🤮

[@robertpena7859]

I appreciate your advice Anoushka she hasn't reached out to me and honestly I pray that she doesn't. But you helped me layer the armor on so I'm ready for anything. I know what to expect so I'm not caught off guard

[@talltimbot]

I am extracating myself from under The Angry Tyrant's thumb after suffering an acute stress response from cummulative poundings. Giddy with relief and returning to my autonomous, empathetic lone wolf wanderings

[@tkc5903]

I HV just realised tat this female friend of mine is a narcissist! She can ignore me for days while engaging others. Then lies to me and says she's busy and acts like nothing happened! It's all like normal to her and she doesn't care about how u feel or anything else. Only about herself and her own feelings! You call her out on her lies and she will say. If tats d case then I HV nothing to say to you anymore! Her behaviour is d cause but it's like it's my fault!

[@MarkDaMak]

Ditto

[@me472]

So after 6 years in an emotional attachment I finally made a healthy break, after went thru pre-grief process, deleted all. Wished I could've done sooner but with GODs help was strong & courageous now! This was a great help to hear after my deliverance from a perverse spirit that haunted him & was put on me! An incident with 2 other men who emulated a daunting, scary perversion were attempting to get to me! I realized it's root & rebuked it! Now, I see clearly & have a desire for any contact! FINALLY🔴I DON'T REGRET IT! Thanks again👁🙏👁😇

[@bennymoreira1443]

I’ve been finally discarded and I don’t rate the possibility of him to contact me as I called him out on his deceit and lies with proof.

[@CrocbullOG]

I was in a narc relationship for 2 years. After that I almost went to another one, but luckily I was educated this time wit the signs. She tried to text me for my birthday I said thanks but lookin back I wish I didn’t. Manipulation at its finest

[@sandie683]

I never knew about this illness until last yr after 4 yrs with my narcs. He is a musician and has borderline personality splits. From very dysfunctional family. His rage is frightening. Kicked and broke my luggage, smashed the TV screen and lately on our holiday in London, he yelled inside Harrods food hall humiliating me just because I said I cannot afford to buy a keyboard he wanted and the money he asked. He then lied and detoured going bk to US and went to Dublin. He wanted to go on video with this young 17 yr old busker/singer, Allie Sherlock so she can make him famous. She fell for him and now they are together!

[@clairefreewheelin1530]

Really not cool naming that girl, makes you look bad actually.

[@angelakeely5859]

At least if he is with someone else, at least he is not your problem anymore, consider yourself lucky that you got away, you deserve better 🌺,onwards and upwards 😁

[@marcusgreene5588]

Mine called me almost a month ago to tell me I was a bully, had people turn against her. Then told me I was a horrible friend after all she did for my son. I just said ok.

[@ssing7113]

No contact! Change your number. Email. Social media. Moving if need be

[@deaddirt1168]

@@ssing7113 fk that. Don't answer. Leave then on read. Simply don't respond. Why give them a definitive answer. Make them check..and check...and check.. and check over and over again while you move on a.d live your life.

[@svjetlanabrezo334]

You are really great with explainig things in your videos.... I explore this topic for 10 years and I can say I am an exeprt 😄 (with experience and teory) - I studied Sam Vaknin deep explanations and then the rest of people (some narcissists who talk about themselves) and I can say you are really very good in summarize all - past, reasons, motives, actions, phsyhology, on very clear way. Thanks!

[@billsivad8637]

Amen let's avoid bozo & bozos selfish motives

[@Ladyjojo695]

Yep took revenge on so many disgusting levels when he knew I wasn’t coming back. This shows you how much they hate not love you. Yet the past 3 years he has consistently tried to hoover. He has another poor woman and child thinking he is in a relationship that he really isn’t. These people are evil.

[@erickonassis6310]

All of them are spot on, especially memory, and fighting

[@elizabethwacira2561]

My motto I dont go back. ..

[@ForGodandKeiki]

Thank u for putting a positive spin on something that can be so painful 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Ill_Stay_In_My_World]

I have completely discouraged my narcisist It took me a long time but finally he is gone This particular one was difficult to remove because he spent years trying to brainwash me that it all was for my own good

[@wayneiles9823]

My sister and her daughter are narissistic .I tried to put up with there behavior they both falsely accursed me and my daughter of stealing from them at diffrent times. I know where my sister daughter gets the narissistic behaviour from is from her mother.They twisted their behavior to look like they are the victims .I tried to turn a blind eye to their actions because of being family,I all ways tried to see the goodness in all humans.I know we all make mistakes and we have human frailty ,but there is a breaking point in dealing with people like that ,even close relationship with family.

[@dasoren1787]

Yes, he got new supply and she younger than me. Which i dont care anymore, hope new supply will suddenly realize and have enlightment like i do.

[@SaritWorld]

Being a child is worse than any prison.

[@O0o__.]

mine is going insane. so she (my mother) decided to find out where I work and who my friends and contacts are via social media including LinkedIn. I blocked them and locked my accounts. Then she and my sister (the golden child) went on a rampage contacting whoever they could destroying my reputation and isolated me pretty good because they went after my weakest relationships. it worked and i got rid of them too. my world shrank a lot but i kept the ones that appreciateme. It's been 12 years since no contact w my mother and siblings (my bro is in it too, poor guy). And even through whe tragedy came I didn't respond to them. My mother and siblings are going insane wondering and shooting bullets to the sky with zero responsefrom my part. I am so gone and so very happy to realize I am ok even in very sad difficult times like loosing my dad the only sane person i had on my side to death. May he rest in peace. I am ok. Thank God.

[@Justbeyou-y4w]

Thank you I have to keep telling myself to move on I stupidly got in contact just to be ghosted 😂

[@naomipasswaters577]

It's like you're talking specifically about my ex lol. Thank you so much for your videos! The information you share is life saving!!❤

[@jmandude7345]

This information was definately learned first hand! Thank u!

[@Dazz3881]

Anoushka.. We Listen so Intently..🙏🙏🙏.. I can't comment anymore.. But.. I listen Intently.. and we all do.... Thank You so Verry Very MUCH.🤠🙏

[@milarosenrot]

Omg that’s so accurate. I’ve been called narcissist because he was going out to nightclubs and bars every weekend. Started only going out for some hours and then slowly started to disappear for the whole weekend. When I asked where he was or what happened he called me narcissist and manipulative. I never stopped him to go out, just asked to spend some more time on weekend with me. Well, only after I started to think he was really cheating on me I left … wish I did sooner, because only after doing therapy I realized he was the narcissist

[@MJ-qb5ph]

They won’t even notice you have fled and sought therapy, religion etc

[@miker4430]

Set them on ignore as they’ll implode while you’ll succeed

[@karlataylor1172]

Oh for sure....they reframe everything.

[@alfamikejr.7816]

Life is a temporary assignment.. Life is to short.. Why worry about?! 😁 Be genuine of yourself... as long as you are in the right path and reasonable means.. Just get the f*ck-off out in all kinds of manipulation and make yourself free from all people who are covering up evil deeds. Stay safe... 🙏🏻

[@ich6636]

You are totally right in everything you say. My still husband whom I left over 1 1/2 y ago, did tried many of the things you said ( except who wouldn't tell me that he loves me or want me back,but he tries to make it look as this idea comes from me). I left without a cent after 10 years marriage,with two small kids in a Women Shelter, and let me tell ,I left a very comfortable life,but I run away and sleept on a mattress for moths in a Women Shelter. He refused to even pay child support for our kids and because he is an antepreneur, the State gave me 120 Euro for a child,per month and then collected this money from him. In this time he enjoyed life with very young women, 30 years younger women to whom he payed flight,present, nice restaurants and hotels, to whom he gave money,but would refuse to show the Court his income and pay child support gor his kids. Now,it seems the Court is going to take a decision regarding child support and he is in stress ( not because he does not have money,he earns 00000 a month) but because he have to pay to me that money. So,he started to hoover me,now,when I finally have a home with my kids. While he projected absolutely everything he did,on me, after he blamed me for everything and told me he never treated me bad,he never cheated on me and I should move back "home", he is on dating sites and invite me on social media groups where are some of the young women he groomed. These humans have no shame, no human feelings,nothing, null, zero. Not even for their own kids. Maybe are not all the same,but this one,is. He doesn't want to give me the divorce while he present himself as a happy divorced men to people that do not knows him. If anyone read my message,PLEASE, don't have a second doubt that they can not be as they are described in this video and other on KZbin,Quora ,etc, BECAUSE THEY ARE! They will destroy you and move as nothing happened,as you never existed. And if you dare to stand up ,they will come back and destroy you more.

[@sukma5277]

Im so sorry to hear ,Im glad you over it and win in the end and wish everything is ok now ,God bless you. Im leaving my narc its been four days ,wish me luck

[@ich6636]

@@sukma5277 ,I wish you the best luck and determination! You need that in order to leave and stay that way!

[@terrancekilson829]

Wow so true. I experienced these behaviors

[@eugenemckiernan795]

I had my mind made up a while to leave.. I was always the one to dump her then get lonely and go back ..she always took me back.. then by chance I met my replacement the son of a client of hers she is a hospice aide the guys father is dieing and he is the only care giver so what better opportunity for a low life to take advantage of.. anyway it started to go in that direction and bingo I laid into her pissed her off and cause she was caught she did what a good narc would do.. discard and told me don't ever call or come around ever again.. I didn't even answer .. been three months sleep like a baby now..and when I wake up I'm so happy she's not next to me and I'm not going to see her that day or any other.. the gift that keeps on giving.. thank you everyone for being there for me to learn from

[@n0426]

Lol. I have met every style of these creeps. And each and everyone of them as much as they got me boiled up they did give me a big laugh. The Big Baby becomes very triggered when you burst their delusional bubble. 🥺😂 They are too weak for reality. X

[@elliewegman1846]

Mother of narc daughter here. Managed to have zero contact 18 months. The revenge? She went and cancelled my phone number. It was right when I was selling pups. Fortunately they give you 3 months grace but then it's gone forever.. that's when I found out. I supported her for 18 years til she decided to discard me. Left me broke and homeless. She discarded me for newly found dad, also a narc! she hoovered up money from him in breathtaking speed.. it takes one to know one and he soon stopped the supply. Silly girl. In cutting off my phone she has severed all connections to me. I'm really happy about that. Can't believe I don't care anymore.. been just too punishing, but there it is. That child has lost a loving caring mum. As for me, she discarded me for Daddy, so go to him. I've done my time.

[@tamaraleggett269]

My Ex Narc lost control & l walked away. I changed my nmbr & he msgd me thro Mesngr after 18mnths & he's like can l ask you something? Would you like to catch up for a cuppa & l said no way & he did nothing but Abuse me, l was expecting that bcoz prior he sent a few msgs & his msgs you could see he was ready to explode bcoz l wouldn't go out for a cuppa but this is how he work's & doesn't like being told NO!!!! I'm not interested in a dumb simpleton & l mean DUMB!!! Narc's aren't all that educated they are fantastic at manipulating to get what they want, if they don't it's like look out & they will payback bcoz YOU couldn't give them what they want & the ABUSE starts.... Run Run Run & change your Nmbr, get out, they are EVIL, soul sucking vampires & not to be TRUSTED.....

[@NotMyWillButThineBeDone]

Once you realize who they are LEAVE. And keep it pushing, queen (or king). God speed. 🥰🫶🏽

[@뿡뿡이-d4q]

he reached out .. hoovered me.. he got hot n cold.. i didnt give him his attention he got upset when i didnt take him back .. so he put me on silent treatment..he reads my msg but never replied and he jumped right into a relationship with a new supply for a revenge... found out he dumped her and didnt last for amonth lol his karma.

[@뿡뿡이-d4q]

@Ern Cooper wow thats just way beyond stalking .thank god my ex doesnt know where i live since i moved lol... im so happy for u that its over with you and her. i hope he doesnt come back to me he did it once .. hearing they will come back 5x thats freaky ..dont know how u managed all that ....

[@뿡뿡이-d4q]

@Ern Cooper amen to that~ lol we will be blessed they will burn~ and they will always get their karma no doupt about that~^^b i see that my ex tries so hard showing his lifes so happy but i can see through it that his life is like hell right now lol .thanks also for replying 😁

[@Balert-z8w]

Thank You Thank You Thank You ✨💚🤲🏼

[@fainitesbarley2245]

This was just a friend and colleague. I left when I couldn’t ignore the emotional abuse. I was persuaded back by a mutual friend. I went back on a more boundaried basis but they just found other ways of subtly abusing me. In the end they realised they’d gone too far and spent the last couple of weeks being conspicuously nice but it didn’t work any more. This time the mutual friend just blanked attempts to use them as a hoover. Don’t leave any avenues for contact.

[@Skywalker29]

Thank you for sharing and your dressing style is amazing

[@queenofpeaceandlove1413]

Thanks so much wonderful Queen.

[@faizanhameed1235]

yeah i ghosted for few days because i had exams and she was so pissed and for revenge she married someone else 😂first i cried so much then i realized i won that she left me 😅

[@tammysanford3808]

Thanks for these videos it gives me ammunition that and l use to be a narcissist.God took everything from me and l faced myself God healed me but l can be a monster if attacked or threatened or my house

[@apontutul]

1:34 it actually baffles me. Like really? I still can't believe it... Are they so blunt and cheap about it?

[@elmongills5912]

He only comes around every now and then but he knows we’re not getting back together. I was married to him so I know.