What Has Us Frustrated in Cuenca, Ecuador??? Exapts Tell All

It's not all cupcakes and unicorns when it comes to expat life in Cuenca, Ecuador...there are some challenges too!
In this week's video, we are sharing our biggest frustrations when it comes to daily life in this beautiful city.
Next week, we'll be back to our normal selves sharing how wonderful it is to call Cuenca, Ecuador our home!
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[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Just a heads up, this video is cheeky and meant to be funny! Please lighten up people ✌️

[@libuseleman3049]

It is funny and it is true, there are many good things here in Cuenca but why hiding those that are not so good? We can talk about it, it does no mean we do not like to live here! I see you were right about those registers not accessible to get through with cart and then carts get pushed in to way to other customers. Also those tables by registers are mostly too small, like in Coral centro and other place, sometimes one cashier ask next one to let her borrow CC machine to use ! I hate to be taking my back pack off and putting it in locker, but I guess it has to be done here, so I am quiet. I also use buses so I can tall I hate when driver drives away with passengers still in steps and trying to put their bus card to scan, door opened !!!!!! It is kind of dangerous to ride on buses, sometimes drivers are very careless, I was flying once and had to rush to grab something and injured my thumb. My son flew out of seat and he was only 34 !!!! Another thing is lots of free roaming dogs, I got my dog attacked three times, two times I was walking with him on the leash! Now I am going to carry pepper spray because once I was with my dog and two brothers dogs attacked him biting him, my dog screaming and they were holding him so tight, I could not pull him from under them ! And guess what ? It is raining again !!!!!!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Oh wow, hope your dog is ok🙏🏻

[@tomtaylor3523]

Compare your frustrations to mass shootings, school shootings, politicians trying to overthrow our democracy, drunk drivers speeding excessively and killing innocent people. Your frustrations seem pretty mild. I want to visit Ecuador and maybe retire there , but need to learn Spanish. thanks for your videos

[@luoma9040]

Dont forget to mention cancel culture, faked hate crimes and people getting offended if you dont call them by their prefered pronoun!

[@kathywilson9257]

Agreed. Why are they complaining about all this petty crap? Good grief.

[@elgringoec]

Don't forget to mention ungrateful envious people wanting what others have but without having to endure the effort and focus, looking for ways to reign in the ability of the diligent to get ahead.

[@Dragon24Lee]

Well said Tom Taylor!!

[@elgringoec]

@00- 00 Latin America isn't the panacea for weak gringos. With all the complaints you have over fabricated views of the fake news, you don't have the other brainwashed masses backing you up and will be laughed at and taken advantage of. Not unjustly, but now you can't say you weren't warned. Those who blame their failures on external factors won't be earning much sympathy from people who've had to earn their keep.

[@albaburgos3642]

We're Ecuadoreans a retired couple, who are having the same problems like you guys. The frustration is going to live with you for a longest time (sorry, but it is a reality)like a bad roommate, and just when you think you're getting better with wherever situation , BOOOM!!!! you are going back to steep one 😅😅😅😅🇪🇨 again. After a little fun, I have to go with something serious, what I notice is the way management treats they employees, with not respect, I don't say everywhere, but I seriously witness how a manager was screaming at his employee in front of the hall store so humiliating. About the traffic, buses out of control, go through the city to buy one thing you are right. But, We have a good time!!!!! in the city of Cuenca you find art, music, museums, culture, in November we when to see the Russian Ballet, then for Cuenca's Birthday all the shows were for free, at the conservatory we had an incredible time too. Anyway, my grandmother used to say, where you going dance in the way they dance,not the way you doing. Amen.

[@simplyaffordableketowithja9281]

In the USA it is expected that a customer will scream at you daily

[@lucybalyanify]

@@simplyaffordableketowithja9281 Your so right! LOL

[@elgringoec]

Donde fueres, haz lo que vieres. 😋

[@PixelVermont]

As for cheese, I will not buy it here, I bring my Vermont Cabot from the states twice a year. No big deal. You missed the poor beef, it just sucks, although pork is ok. I must say I do miss Amazon convenience, but at the end of the day I have pretty much everything I need here and can wait as required for items not available. Pretty funny video really and I can relate, but here we are and not going anywhere, been in Cuenca off and on 11 years 2 + years full time.

[@QuinnPrice]

Having lived in Peru, yes, there's a number of no bueno things to get use to. Expats seem to go through 4 phases. Honeymoon, storming, norming, and thriving. Your insights help with the storming phase but dammit I still want my unicorns.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

That's a perfect naming of phases, thanks for sharing Quinn! We live in such a time of incredible abundance and imbalance it makes for a wild ride!

[@alexzolik1133]

I liked your comments about personal space. This is so American! I have always noticed that you, Americans, are always particularly concerned about personal space and privacy. I grew up in a huge European city and growing up never had any personal space, just like you described. Then I moved to the US, lived here for more than 30 years, and now when life in the US is becoming unbearable as the country surely is going to hell, I think more and more about retiring in Ecuador. Cuenca is definetaly an option if I can convince my wife to move. I like your channel, will be following you to see how much you enjoy this city and life in Ecuador.

[@veraschnapp2813]

I moved 6 months ago. Before Salinas.. didn’t like… a lot of touristas and the city isn’t my style.. them Cuenca. Love the people , love the food, love the atmosphere… but the city is vert high and cold.. couldn’t stay. I am in Manta now looking for houses and apt.. so far so good If you want live cheaper this is the place…

[@amsterdambear610]

Went shopping today at Walmart here in Florida, the same thing, pallets of crap everywhere clogging up the isles. At least they say excuse me when they ram you with the carts lol Aside from that you’ll see shortages everywhere on the shelves. It’s beginning to looks like Soviet Russia on a good day 🇷🇺 Hope it’s better down there now👇

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

No shortages that we are aware of...🥺

[@Neosan1982]

Keep the fly hand gestures, it's your trademark. Cross streets carefully. The rest (like adjusting to a different sense of personal space) will happen gradually as you become acculturated. I'm glad to know those are the most frustrating things. They all seem related to Jimmy Buffet's line: "changes in latitudes, changes in attitudes" .... Overall the positives seem to outweigh the frustrations by a long shot. Enjoy the sunsets, even if there is only one per day. :)

[@amsterdambear610]

I actually subscribed today because I laugh all the way through your videos. Being from Ecuador I know pretty well what you’re saying. I grew up in the US so I understand that part too. Maybe I should do a video of the 10 worst things here, wait I’ll have to make it 100 to start with at least! lol 😂

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks for subscribing! We are for entertainment only!!!

[@mr-vet]

Yep...the shopping cart thing is annoying when I visit Ecuador....and the personal space thing (its that way in African and Asian countries, too. And, the super loud talking, almost shouting into the phone.....my wife was born & raised in Ecuador (but hasn't lived there since she was 18...1993). Also, people in a group whether in a mall, shopping center, on a sidewalk, etc. walking 4-5 people abreast and no one moving when people walking past then in the other direction; they just collide, in many cases. Then there is...everything is "Mañana" when you want someone to do something for you work/service-related....and Mañana is not necessarily the next day...maybe a couple of weeks, a month....

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Yep and yep 😊 it's a trip for sure ✌️

[@austinpowers1999]

Bruh, the lack of etiquette in Ecuador had me almost throwing hands with many a disrespectful Ecuadorian.

[@suzieparker564]

I just watched this and am still laughing. I’m so glad that you are sharing the good, the bad and the ugly. Especially the fact that Amazon doesn’t deliver to The Amazon. 😂

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

I know its crazy 🤣

[@rosaarodriguez9968]

Im glad though... like that not too much trash! USA too much trash! They send it to Africa.. sad! Mountains of USA TRASH!

[@planetag310]

@@FlynnsOnTheFly I heard that Amazon has started to deliver in Equador. Anyone know for sure?

[@gilbertmatrinez8458]

Cuenca.. has also changed a lot. There's a lot of crime there..

[@leslie1536]

I’ve lived here ten years and I am frustrated with how people hog the sidewalks. I’m a small gringa and I have to buy my clothes on line. No hard cheeses here. We own our own home and I really love Cuenca❤.

[@amsterdambear610]

New York City is very walkable for the most part like Cuenca. Only difference is you don’t get run over while crossing the street. Maybe an occasional mugging at night is about it, so Cuenca is better in that sense. A lot of new buildings where you are now have central hot water and gas. Those calefons are the shits and ugly too! If they explode they can take out half of South America. Personal space is important as you don’t want someone dipping into your pocket and grabbing your unlimited American Express Card 🤑😛

[@unklb7161]

Great video guys! I love how you ended it, gratefulness is a mindset that I'm constantly working on. As my gratefulness increases, my irritability decreases. Be blessed!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

U2 ✌️

[@tomsaxton970]

Of all the things you mentioned, cheese is biggest for me. I live near Riobamba and we have found a good mozzarella from a distributor. Very cheap too. But I so miss cheddar. Smaller city here, haven't had the frustration in the grocery really. And yes, the laws are different; pedestrians don't have the right of way.

[@Jetmab04]

😊 My biggest "frustration" too.. Cheese... But listen, if these are the worst frustrations to face when moving there.. Life will be just heaven - how I wish I could move today.... 😊😩 Thanks so much to you "flyers" for the great info... 😊👍

[@larrypicard8802]

Yes about crossing the street. I had the green light on Hermano Miguel at Cafe Austria and was hit by a car. Nothing serious but he obviously didn’t see me at all. It was a hard bump. The busses are insane. I got some good cheddar at the organic market on Saturdays in front of Dos Sucres in El Vergel.

[@amsterdambear610]

When you board the bus you better hang on for dear life because it’s worse than an earthquake 🎉

[@alexcamacho5230]

We are not perfect but , we are improving day by day. Enjoy Ecuador brothers gringos. Los queremos

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks Alex! We love living here in Cuenca, Ecuador!

[@alexcamacho5230]

@@FlynnsOnTheFly you are good guys pals. If the fate found us on the Road, we enjoy a such a great day togheter

[@Maine_Focus]

It’s good to show some of the frustrations because so many real estate focused vlogs only focus on the paradise side of Ecuador (which is there, of course. That’s why we’re here). I’ve noticed much of the frustration comes from what I took for granted before coming here. With that in mind I imagine what frustrations I would have if I moved back to the states. There would be a bunch. People tend to take for granted the things and people who are parts of their lives. Many people are happiest where they WERE rather than where they ARE for this reason. Welcome to your new home. Our new home. I find much of what I missed to begin with to be less important than what I’ve found here. Of course I miss my friends but can still connect with them and coming during the pandemic prepared us for social media connection.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Well said TJ! Keep pedaling the wisdom ;)

[@Maine_Focus]

@turtle key Cuenca didn’t mess around. Vaccines and masks were in place long after they were elsewhere.

[@timallison8560]

the hot water thing sounds fixable, i imagine the cheaper the heater, the less sensors it has to regulate.

[@wilburnsexton8593]

We have lived here for 11-12 years---we have figured a way around most things or adjusted or we mule it in--if you stay positive and work on a solution that is acceptable to you --it is attainable---and we just love Cuenca---the climate--people for the most part--the good food--its quieter, calmer, slower,---we are supposing we will never move back---why would we--the US is a mess---

[@patnewman1]

I have lived in Cuenca for 6 months and I do most of my shopping at the local Mercados and will only go into Coral or Supermaxi for the things which I cannot find at the Mercados. My costs are 2/3 less than had I shopped at the bigger stores for everything. I used to have to buy the large size yogurts at Supermaxi, but I found a local shop located on, Calle Larga one block from Mercado 10 De Agosto for better yogurt and $1 less. Good luck with your channel.

[@Tam_X]

About the hot water….it might be a case of getting used to the calefon and how it works compared to the kind of hot water heater you might be used to. Try turning the hot on all the way, then using a bit of cold to cool it down. It should be less fussy that way. I used to suffer but not anymore.

[@allisonmeyer4521]

We have a similar issue with water temp changes with no warning in our building. In plenty of larger buildings including ours, you have no control over the boiler/calefon itself as it supplies the entire building. 😝 But we're thankful to have hot water here.

[@peteschammann4117]

Cheap rent, good food and nice people sound pretty good. I'm thinking of early retirement just to get out of the states before the 2024 election.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

It's pretty sweet here for sure!

[@scotttea2048]

My take away is that there are always going to be frustrations in a new culture. My day will come... 🌴

[@universeworld1782]

I'm in Africa where 75% have never heard of under arm deodorants, 🤢 personal hygiene is secondary as most do not have running water! Shopping and personal space? In a taxi, cram as many in as possible, does the picture of a can of Sardines come to mind? 🤔 Definately! Mix that with lack of hygiene! "Deodorants" I married a local within the first year, who knows how to travel locally, and is from a farming village in the Northwest Region. So we have a nice farm growing a lot of our food. We solved the sardin can logistics by hiring a taxi for the day 😀 more expensive but not for me! And shopping during the low volume hours! A huge bonus! My wife goes to street markets by herself, as this is not America where you have everthing at local Safeway, saving time and 💰 🤑 money 💰 and avoiding the "oh my god 😳 there's a blanc! A white man!!! All whites are rich syndrome which are instilled into the population from birth! And neanderthalism of (Hey Blanc, if she gives you trouble, beat her very well, we beat our wives here!) Attitude of most men here. I love it here! But we learn there is a time for everything under the 🌞 Proverbs 3😁. So why is it so good here? Lack of stress! First thing you learn here is to walk 🐌 slower, I'm retired so no need to hurry myself to that ultimate fate ☠! And back to the days of my childhood, raising your own food! Major plus! Also bartering with my neighbors, raising our own 🐔, buying a whole beef is now affordable! Now I know why I killed my first 🦌 when I was 12! Knowing how to smoke meats and fish! I was raised 100 yards from the Pacific in a logging community! How much do you want for that 🌳tree? Forty dollars! I'll give you thirty! No thirty-five, OK deal. 👌 get my Sthil out and cut it down, buck it, and hire all the local kids to pack it up for us. Now I have all the wood I need to process the Beef, 🐖, 🐔, and 🐟! Sustanance culture! A lot less stress! Healthier lifestyle! And of course, my monthly SS is a lot more than in America! Monthly living expenses, less than $200 a month. WOW! Sure like you say, not all 🍒 here. But look at America now! I love it here! 😀 Retirement for me, not bad at all! Over 5 years now! I buy a lot on Facebook Market Place, but at first it was frustrating! Now I plan to meet in person at a convenient location. Only after we buy other things we need! Mostly younger group fresh out of business college trying to survive selling Chinese products! Never pay before and have them send it to you! Never!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks for sharing great tips! ✌️

[@Partgig]

Really like your videos and yeah the 'flynns on the fly' hand gesture - I'm looking to relocate from Texas to Cuenca - keep up the videos -

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

✌️

[@bethsimmons9394]

Us too, from Plano, TX.

[@Partgig]

@@bethsimmons9394 Bastrop, TX here

[@fluffy5534]

Will you share how you pay your utilities? I just moved in. The real estate agent keep telling me to use the codes. I finally figured out that JEP mobil app can be used to pay for some utilities. But I need to know if all utilities were paid off before I moved in. How can I check on the payment history. I only want to pay for what I have used since moving in. Not the balance they owed before.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Fluffy! We use our JEP account to pay utilities as well... We have not had to look up payment history... This place Foundation Hogar de Esperanza 096 896 2015 maps.app.goo.gl/SWTKbsDRtoLGFud7A Has a gringo services desk where they pay your utility bills for a small fee; they may be able to see history

[@jmvaughnhouston]

Just want to say I've really enjoyed your perspective on Cuenca and Ecuador, your brutal honesty (i.e., the poop video) and your style. Keep the videos coming :)

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks for watching and commenting! Hope you have a great day ✌️

[@TampaVW]

Ohh, I was worried, I thought you guys were going to say you’re Done. Those are minor things to adjust to. Remember if you want to be a bear be a grisly. By the way the Ecuadorian cheeses are not bad, it’s the American cheeses made in Ecuador that don’t come out so good. I don’t mind the hand waves I think they’re funny, the little sounds too.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

😁✌️

[@gregc6535]

Do you guys feel isolated by the language barrier? Whether it be from watching tv to making new friends?

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Good question Greg... There is always lots going on here and or a holiday happening... Facebook groups are wher to find out what's happening! We have made new friends by going on day trips and just talking to people out to eat etc. Cuenca is small enough that you run into people everywhere! We have made a couple close friends with Ecuadorians as well. Language is easier at some spots than others and knowledge of Spanish is definitely recommend, but in Cuenca a fair amount of people like to practice their English... We only watch internet TV, so no experience with TV isolation.

[@planetag310]

Cold showers are a deal breaker for me. And it sounds like you could spend half the day trying to fulfil your grocery list.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

We did get much more efficient at shopping before we moved out of Cuenca 😁...cold showers still happen here on rare occasions, but for us this is still a beautiful country and we are grateful to live here ✌️

[@2ndSprings]

I feel your pain, friends. I remember thinking people in Turkey would stop their shopping carts perpendicular to the aisles in the grocery store. I would imagine them staring at me and saying, "NONE SHALL PASS....." I liked a little whine with my cheese in Turkey, too. Seriously though, I feel like I'm living vicariously through you guys. Hope to get to Ecuador some day. See you there, Inshallah. Peace.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

😁✌️

[@jeanettem5982]

So looking forward to being there and maaaaybe running in to you two!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

As big as Cuenca is, we all run into each other around town ✌️

[@KK-vu3vo]

Stand firm on the hand gesture! We use it as a part of our daily practice of Flynnosophy! Peace out.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

😁😎✌️

[@COOKINGFROMTHELOFT]

I've just found you guys having gone down an Ecuador rabbit hole and can't get enough of your library! Cracking me up on the grocery store and, truth be told, sounds like most super markets here in Atlanta! Especially the international farmer's markets. Really enjoy your point of view and outlook on life. Thanks!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks watching and for your feedback ✌️

[@mikebrownsongs]

You piqued my interest when you said e bike. I'm thinking about Cuenca. I lived in Mexico for a few years but I was able to drive my car back and forth from the states. An e bike would be a good starter vehicle in Cuenca. How do the prices of e bikes there compare to the States? Thanks

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Mike! We really like our e bikes for city commuting when not raining 😁 We bought a Benelli "Nerone" and a "Tagette". They were around $1500 each

[@siegfriedbraun5447]

I've had lots of buses and taxis stop dead for us, at crosswalks. Ya get a feel for it, and direct eye-contact is the way to communicate both ways. Having been here a number of years, we see that business people follow ZERO customer-based philosophies. No hours posted, no concern about client experience, no publicity and, if you offer observations, they make no end of excuses. Even Cuencan folks outside of that context, will excuse the poor behaviour.

[@florisabelcastillo7688]

Good info for those of us looking to retire there. I experienced similar frustrations moving to California from the Midwest. Omg! So many ppl everywhere. The first time I went to Costco, I got lost in the parking lot and couldn’t find my car. Huge parking lots!!! The lines everywhere, the traffic, etc… it’s definitely an adjustment. We’re from Venezuela and I grew up in a city very similar to Cuenca. Looking forward to an exploratory trip down there soon 😊

[@anapilarshaw2823]

Love it! You guys are awesome. Keep the videos coming. I've been Flynnosophized!

[@tripendicular4778]

I agree with your frustrations. I was also frustrated about certain things every time I moved from one state to another. It's just a part of being in a different place. Btw. I also experienced the hot /cold shower deal, until I moved to my new apartment. Oh the pleasure of a nice steady hot shower. Yep yep. Also the personal space thing does not bug me. I love hug and kisses. :) A couple of my frustrations. -I had to go to supermaxi on December 24th. It was crowded. But somehow I only noticed four different expats being rude and condescending. Unfortunately it's not the only place that I have noticed it. A shame. -The toilet paper thingy. It's going to take forever for me to get used to that one. I know that this post was lighthearted and that you guys love this country as much as I do. Let the wind be always on your back.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks for getting us and for having our back and sticking up for us! ✌️ Happy New Year Trippy 😁

[@tripendicular4778]

@@FlynnsOnTheFly Feliz Año Nuevo kate n matt.

[@twoweary]

This was funny. I was in Cuenca at super maxi in line . It wasn’t moving and the lady behind me bumps me with her cart. I turned around and asked her “adonde vas senora “( where are you going) , looking a bit irritated. Neither she nor her husband said anything. Yes, their personal space is less than ours. Have you had the joy of getting shocked in the shower? , makes you glad you’re still alive. All in all, with the exception of car alarms, I still love Ecuador ,and I hope to return. Have you eaten at good affinity?, so inexpensive and so delicious!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thank you for getting the humor in this video! We received more negative comments on this video than any other 😁😉✌️

[@Avion57]

Thank you guys, beautiful fun videos. Please, where was home before you moved? which state? like you said, theres not perfect place.... Well maybe if your lucky and live in La Joya California. Again, thanks. I saw a video you were enjoying a good fish lunch. Where is better food? Quito or Cuenca? Thank you very much and keep enjoying Ecuador. I think you guys did the right move.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Julio! We lived in Knoxville, Tennessee for the last 20 years. It is a great place to live and many great people there as well... We left many friends to live this Expat adventure we had always dreamed of doing. For best food we would slightly give advantage to Quito overall. There is very good food in Cuenca as well and the seafood in Galapagos was the best anywhere.

[@PatriciaBrooksCourageCatalyst]

I can so relate to the personal space concerns. Here in France the personal space distance is smaller too. 😏

[@hotticketpodcast]

I won’t subscribe to vloggers that complain complain complain… perhaps you should issue a warning statement before viewing you videos

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

😂

[@fattymcfatfat0481]

If that’s all you guys are frustrated about, you are doing very well. I immediately recognized your satire. It was quite humorous. Whenever I travel, I always embrace the “when in Rome, do as the Romans” mentality. That’s the great thing about traveling this world…life is different and yet somehow the same. Embrace the adventure.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi FMFF! Yes, we were having fun and it was surprising the number of people who don't get satire 😳 We are still in Ecuador and still loving it ✌️

[@fattymcfatfat0481]

We are traveling to Cuenca in June for a 30-day stay. Actually looking at expatriating to Cuenca. Cannot wait!

[@lesliemcclinton7844]

Mexicans in Texas act the same way. I had to constantly ask them to stand back. Men would follow me in stores just to bump into me accidentally. It’s a problem for single women. The French don’t do that even though Paris is crowded everywhere.

[@LivingLovingAbroad]

We experienced a similar shower situation in Guayaquil during our trip. The difference is that there was NO hot water but we quickly got use to taking “cool” showers.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

😁 it's ok when you want a cold shower like Wim Hof, but frustrating when you have no choice 🤣✌️

[@biancadurso3400]

Here’s a good example on how we Americans are so spoiled, those things that make you frustrated can be fixed, go to a big supermarket, buy from Amazon and as for cheeses there’s a beautiful town called Salinas de Guaranda where you can actually buy all type of cheeses hand made, these people export their products to Europe mainly and finally if you find Ecuador is not for you just try to move back to the States and you’ll see how our country has become a no mans land no police, killings every weekend in Chicago, school shootings, the President it’s backing the socialists to defund the police, racism and divisions it’s tearing apart our society, we may have Amazon and our supermarkets are gigantic and have all the space in the world and those things that your complaining but we have NO PEACE , count your blessings and take care, love your videos just the way they are🙏🙏🙏

[@unklb7161]

Spoiled might be a bit harsh. I agree with 95% of what you are saying though. I appreciate people like the Flynn's who are transparent and are willing to share their frustrations. NOW...if all they did in their videos was vent frustrations, yes I'd agree they are probably stricken with the entitled mentality. That hasn't been my observation of this couple. I truly appreciate the content they bring to the table.

[@lesliemcclinton7844]

As for traffic blacks and Mexicans will run the lights here and you have to double check before crossing. It’s bad in ghettos.

[@PretzelKid]

I think I'll go downstairs & cut off some hunks of Swiss cheese from the 1lb piece I bought last week & dip it in one of the many mustard dips that I have. - Have to break your stone's a little - Keep up the good work

[@billkipper3264]

I can never buy anything on FB market place here in the States either. The hot water thing is something I have familiarity with as well, although it's been a long time since I've had to deal with it. When I was in the Air Force we had community latrines/showers in the barracks. If you were in the shower and heard someone flush a toilet you had about two seconds to get out of the way or get boiled alive as the water temperature was always set at around ten thousand degrees.

[@kevokane3797]

How can you stand it? (LOL)

[@joserivera7349]

Geting used to another cultura can be difficult but it is only Up to your mind to adjust!

[@brinkly97]

AND ...p.s.s...whats wrong with seniors eh? Asking for a friend.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Haha, not a thing wrong! It's just a shopping scenario some people would relate too as being a little challenging 🤣

[@gregorykeane2987]

LOL 😂 I like your sense of humor. Made me laugh Please keep keeping it weird 😊

[@libuseleman3049]

Coral Centro, going to register, hard to get there and it is sooo slow at register, I can not believe but I see it so I have to believe it! I am cashier from Walmart and I think they should improve here, it is just way tooooo slow!

[@anniesshenanigans3815]

Since you have had the cheap goods issue, what would you bring in as a new expat? Bed linen would be at the top of my list, I think. Lots of YTubers talk about this... but what else? I mean if you (or I) were going to move there, and you could take something there, legally, what would it be? What about quality kitchen knives? I eat mostly vegetables and have to have a big sharp kitchen knife, but how in the heck would I be able to ship it in, bring it in? I suppose you could go to the states with an empty suitcase and fill it up and bring what you need. Or have a friend visit and bring an extra bag full of things you need.. Is that what you mean by "muling". ? Can you Mule in Cheese or other food items?

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi! We brought our chef knives in our checked baggage when we moved to Ecuador. A Vitamix blender is something we left behind that we were just recently replaced that we wish we would have brought. We are working on a video for what to bring and not bring... Yes, "muling" is when someone brings some items in their luggage for you. There are people who do this for for a fee and small shipping companies as well. Having friends or acquaintances do it for free is preferred.

[@marcoszuazu2683]

As usual a little inconvenience compared to dealing with people armed to the teeth

[@ecuadorexpat8558]

I live in the country near Cuenca..I never shop at the Super markets..I spend about 30 bucks a week for food ..I only shop at the local Tiendas ..

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

We are learning and getting smarter! How far out are you? We are very interested in moving outside of the downtown area...

[@rafaelsolorzano700]

This wouldn't persuade you to leave Cuena..or this is a minor thing.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Rafael! Just minor things, but funny to share 😁

[@estelamino6356]

Hello to both of u..I'm sure..they see plenty things. That people take for granted in the USA. Now u probably be missing or perhaps frustrated..mucha paciencia...!!!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

And mucho tranquilo 😁✌️

[@amsterdambear610]

If you get flattened by the bus it’s not a minor hiccup 😢😅

[@happyhollee596]

Like your humor, I get it, we are just used to certain things

[@tmcdon]

Awesome video! If those are the "worst" things, peeps are gonna be okay! Thanks for the heads up, it's good to go in armed with as much information and perspective as possible. Love you both, love your vibe, you guys are amazing! I hope you two go back and watch your early videos and compare this one. Such a huge change! Can't wait to meet up and hang out!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Thanks for the feedback! We are really doing all this "on the fly" and getting better in spite of our many shortcomings ✌️

[@danielaguilar905]

Buen video, siempre es bueno escuchar sugerencias para mejorar en todo, saludos

[@richardgraham7412]

Thanks, very funny because it;;s true! I live in Sangolqui Ecuador near Quito. I have traveled back and forth from the states to here 5 times since 2000 and experienced lots of culture shock. Things have changed Greatly during that time ( better selection of cheese ) Hang in there, the pro´s outway the con´s. We recently went back to the states for a visit and I had major culture shock with the high price of EVERYTHING!!! Helped me appriciate Ecuador more!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Richard! Thanks for getting jokes with some reality mixed in 😁 We are 3 years here and still having fun ✌️

[@marcoszuazu2683]

Or are very particular with cheesel

[@fluffy5534]

Hi: I live in Cuenca and shop for groceries daily. I shop mostly in small TIA market. Prices are very reasonable, workers are kind, shoppers do their shopping fast. I also shop at Mercado once a week on Tuesdays.

[@sciencefan2019]

Love you guys but remember you will be a senior one day.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Oh yes! If we are fortunate enough to make it to senior status we will be grateful then as well!

[@stefanimencias1041]

Welcome to Ecuador!! 😅

[@josemcolindres620]

Wow, you people complain about everything....! I just got back from Quito. No problem. 🇺🇲🌎🇸🇻

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

🤣😉✌️

[@juliebabin]

You say you CAN'T buy on Marketplace, and that you never tried. I live in Ecuador and I bought a few times on this platform. Sheets, shoes a few times, housing stuff. I highly recommend.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi, yes you are correct! We have had success since then 😁✌️

[@gregpatton7266]

I love the Ecuadorian cheeses

[@frankkluz9787]

No place is perfect & you both have a good attitude. -- I believe - "attitude" - is everything ! -- It seems you both do too. -- Buenos suerte !

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

You got it Frank ✌️

[@colleenjolicoeur6059]

It will be nice to visit Cuenca one day and I will endeavour to stand back an arm's length when I meet you in the Mercado - just to mess with you. You will shake your head and think wow that lady was kind of standoffish.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Jaja 🤣 You can buy us a coffee now www.buymeacoffee.com/Flynnsonthefly 🙏✌️

[@fernan6369]

Theres this sayin "if you dont like it, dont eat it" S0OO you could just go back to the states and fix all your problems and frustrations. And when you are there make sure you visit NYC, maybe you'd realize how stupid your frustrations are and how much you are taking Cuenca for granted.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Fer nan! This video is ridiculous on purpose... We were being sarcastic and trying to be funny...you are one of the few people who didn't get our bad humor. We love living in Cuenca!!! ✌️

[@veraschnapp2813]

Sorry this video is ridiculous, first the markets for groceries in Cuenca is 50% better then US…The kindness of people is unbelievable , they are helpful and polite… the fruits and vegetables are the best taste,averting is sweetie ,the restaurantes are sophisticated and the food are all fresh and 100% better …Besides it the prices are unreasonable. I am from Brasil and I have my condo on Ipane,a Beah in Rio de Janeiro, also my mais house is in Florida.I am American Citizen and the reason that I am in Cuenca is because we are visiting a good friend..I wish I could live here but the weather is very cold for us..We loved Ecuador so much and we both a beautiful apartment in Mantra…It is going to be hurt keep all ours places but we loved this culture, the mountains Everything is so beautiful .It is a third world and they are all very nice people..Better you close your account..You are horrible

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Yes, it's a joke 🤣

[@dantheman11121]

Omg I can’t believe these folks are complaining so much about what amounts to nothing they should should go back to the states and stay there 🙄🤷

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

🤣🤣🤣✌️

[@DessertcrazyEcuador]

It’s interesting, I’m noticing that the people from the US understood the humor, but people from other countries didn’t. I wonder if it’s a US thing? I remember the Seinfeld episode where he was dating a gorgeous, intelligent supermodel…but her hands were too big so he had to dump her. Oh well, I got your humor! And thank you 😄

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Yep 😁✌️

[@lupitam.209]

Ecuador is definitely not for all gringos, I think many would be better off in Switzerland or Japan 😂😂

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Or outer space 🚀 on Uranus 🤣✌️

[@kristiG5259]

Is Cuenca the first place you landed in Ecuador? I thought it was Malacatos!

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Kristi! Yes, Cuenca was our first home base for about 18 months (3 different rentals 😉) ✌️

[@brinkly97]

S'ok, wait. Your telling me I CAIN'T inadvertently steal shopping carts & leave em at the bus stop? 😳. Then dangit...I ain't coming there. Rofl.😅. No but seriously, help me understand the not being able to source quality goods there. Can one NOT purchase from Amazon? Is Amazon just different? Can you not have things shipped from the states? I'm really confused, all jokes aside. As I intend to move there early 2022 this is not a thing I want to leave un-addressed. Should I try to bring things with? Find my own mule? 😎. Pleeze, help a sister out! P.S. perhaps a video devoted to the topic could satisfy inquiring minds. Just sayin.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Brinkly! There are ways too have things shipped in and Amazon will supposedly deliver, but this is quite expensive and we have not tried it yet. We have had a couple small things muled in from friends.

[@proyectonuevo7487]

You can buy everything on Amazon and bring it, you just have to pay the cost, it costs you 7 dollars a pound

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Most everything can be mulled in to satisfy the most demanding wants ✌️

[@badspasm1]

So overall are you glad that you made the move to Ecuador??? Are you more happy now than when you were living in the states??? Do you think at some point you will try living on the coast somewhere???

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Yes, we are still very happy with our decision to move to Ecuador. We are happier here and less stressed, but we do miss our family and friends. We will surely visit the coast soon, but we much prefer the cooler temps if Andean living.

[@marcosselaya3606]

Looks like you are ready to leave!!!! If you move back to USA then youll be happier. But in USA in stores Costco, Walmart, etc is no better in whar concerns to space.

[@marielalunetta6489]

😂😂😂😂🇪🇨 u are in our land lol 😂 u are in main areas supermarkets our families use it as a source of income they work in the market so they have to be on the go

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Mariela! We were trying to be funny in this video... sorry you didn't get the humor ✌️

[@marcoszuazu2683]

Glad to know !

[@Dtchmastrkilla7]

people super accustomed to exactly what they are used to, move somewhere new, and then complain over minor things that are different.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

People who watch videos to complain about people who share their minor complaints.

[@edl6398]

Do you think Amazon will ever be available there? I heard that even though you can get some stuff, the courier services are unreliable.

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

It's available now through a third party, tiendamia. We haven't used them yet, but friends have and they seem happy with the process. Tiendamia also allows you to buy from Macy's, Walmart, and eBay 😁

[@amsterdambear610]

These are old reruns, where have you been? The last video was about getting ill with street food 🍱

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi AB! We have some new ones up!

[@marcoszuazu2683]

Don’t move anywhere where you don’t speak the language

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Hi Marco's! We were being being funny in a way some people didn't get... We are still here and very grateful to be ✌️

[@maureensmathers330]

Since EC is a cash based society, if we want to travel to Europe or back to the States for a while, how would we go about paying rent, etc. during our absence??

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

You would either have to do a bank transfer or take out enough cash to cover it in advance.

[@amsterdambear610]

Cuenca cool isn’t cool with those hand gestures 😎 we’re a very class conscious society so any displays of vulgarity isn’t allowed. Maybe I’ll have you deported for bad behavior! 😂🤪🤣😬

[@coryhollywood6021]

Great video and i will subscribe. Btw hows the crime in your area?

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Very low crime here. Mostly petty theft, but there has been a couple home invasions in Puertas del Sol area recently...I believe crime was against Ecuadorian's, but don't know exact details. There are muggings that happen along sketchy parts of the rivers at night against Ecuadorian's and gringos.

[@sammiesmith6690]

The growing pains of being in Ecuador 🇪🇨 😎.

[@AnchoringHighFrequency]

Yet you’re intention is to go back… 😊 I wanna hear the US frustrations when you’re up to it 😬

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

Yep! Some seem to focus on the frustrations we mention and gloss over all the "yes, we know these are our issues, "I had the same issues in the states," "we had to dig deep to come up with these," etc. No place is perfect and we try to be as authentic in what we share as possible. Ecuador is an amazing country and we look forward to getting back.

[@mikeokeefe9396]

You guys nailed it! I am most of time thinking- really?

[@FlynnsOnTheFly]

It's a wild place, but way with it! ✌️

[@danbar7176]

Great job you guys... I like your refreshing videos. Hope to see you soon in Cuenca. David Anbar

[@goldgeologist5320]

Your grocery observations are the same as here in Texas at my local HEB store. They fill the aisles with stuff and stock in morning and afternoons.