What having divorced parents is rlly like…

[@sadieandbeth2988]

Sometimes I’m glad my parents don’t live together anymore if they still did they would be arguing all the time

[@ilysm444]

yeah i grew up with a drug addict father and my mom and dad were always arguing. i’m glad i don’t have to hear it anymore.

[@notuploadinguntiliwincance8507]

I Have Divorced Parents To And I Relatd Sm

[@Venus.Y]

True

[@sunset6313]

My parents have been arguing and yelling at each other for years, me and my sister don’t understand why they aren’t divorced yet

[@darryncrebs4930]

Yea but the worst thing is that when I was young used to belive I could fix but you need to learn that just try to be happy for them yea it will hurt that they broke up but the thing is it is not your fault that is the only message I care about

[@sonali.das17]

That " you're just like your dad " is so accurate. I get it to hear it all the damn time. And it honestly hurts a lot.

[@hanakochankawaai3469]

Me too😢

[@hamypeach]

😞😞😞

[@Brielle644]

Sameeeee!!!!

[@13QDJ]

I get your just like your mom from my dad

[@lulu3395]

Me too! I always want to ask what’s that supposed to mean but then I know it’s “back talk or attitude”

[@bellaiscool4436]

don't forget when you hear one talking bad about the other, and then the other talking about how heartbroken they are. It stings.

[@missourifightsssoop8048]

Ya them talking bad about one another just tears you down it’s so sad!

[@Kal12tar]

True

[@RaffiAiden]

my parents hate each other but aren’t divorced. My mom talks badly about my dad all the time and it’s the worst

[@anwhatriseabove565]

This all sucks

[@missourifightsssoop8048]

@@RaffiAiden ya Evan if the stuff they say is true it dosnt mean they should say it and it hurts Evan worst Becuase yk that it’s true

[@urabaddie23]

When i see my parents and realise how old they are getting, i just have this feeling deep inside me that i could have been a better daughter. So one day, i went to my mom and told her that i loved her. At first she thought that i needed something but when i explained her, she started crying. The tears of joy that were falling down her cheeks are by far the best feeling i ever had and i doubt anything else would make me happier. Remember to cherish your parents and show them that you love them before it's late. It may be nothing, but it'll mean a lot to them.

[@user-yp7ri9qb5i]

That's what my mom did and I cried so hard realizing how much she has done for me and that's when I cried in her arms telling her how much I love her 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@cheyennesakura5220]

This was such a beautiful comment to find in this comment section. Thank you

[@user-xk6nj4ms5d]

The pain of taking sides is unreal

[@eri6165]

“you’re just like your dad” and yet she married him and had me. hardly my fault i think. always looking for someone to blame.

[@LaurenOliviArt]

💯

[@soggy_biscuit2268]

My mom said that to me once, she also hates me so yeah I understand why she’s say that.

[@mizzcrazygal]

my mum says that to me too and i’m well i’m not gonna be like the post man now am i? 😂 cus it’s true ofc i’m gonna be like my dad

[@kabeerahyahayaback6237]

That’s what my mum says

[@I_AM_NOT_HERE_]

@@soggy_biscuit2268 Same.

[@user-yk5kv7ks5f]

Getting sympathy from the teachers is so real ugh. I’m sorry to everyone that grew up like this.. all kids should have a parent, but not all parents deserve kids. Remember you’re loved, and cared about from this stranger in the comments. You’re strong, and brave, and so courageous🩷 I’m sending huge hugs

[@SPORTSANDMORE2.00]

Tysm 😢

[@Its_r0se680]

The “Your just like your dad so stubborn” I get that all the time. It breaks my heart. But I stay strong I always miss the parent I ain’t with.i used to have that before 😔

[@1000000man1]

People call you stubborn when they realise they can't easily control you.

[@Its_r0se680]

@@1000000man1 omg Fr thank you

[@amirahemdani6384]

“You’re just like your dad” literally in every argument

[@pencape16]

Same

[@leepicproz7492]

my mom always always calls me argumentitive you know I love my mom and all but what the fuck

[@jupiter9064]

Fr, It's like the only excuse moms have

[@stellamitchell1456]

My mom always says that whenever we fight but what hurts me the most is that she adds "I should've left you with your father!"

[@Sturniolo953]

Exactly

[@mnydor4506]

The “Your just like your dad” and “I cant I’m at my dads, sorry” are a little to relatable and kind of heartbreaking- Edit 1: Thanks for all the likes

[@AK-nv3hm]

Way too relatable

[@LolliPopXD52]

My parents arent divorced but once my mom and i were arguimg and she said “your just like your dad!!“ and i brokr

[@mayfly546]

@@LolliPopXD52 same i do t live with my parents for reasons and my aunt was like “ you know you are going to grow up and just be a mess up like your mom and dad you know that?” when all i did was forget to wash the the dishes

[@joeywarren5086]

Way to relatable

[@xxboredomtownxx9538]

I’m not actually like that because my dad lives out of country so I only see him like 4 times a year at most.

[@Creatorofdogs]

It is so true, it has a complete change in your mental health. You get depressed, and are never happy😢

[@CrunchySlice156]

I agree. Tonight, my parents were arguing about something (idk what because I didn’t hear the full thing) but I’m pretty sure they were talking about their divorce. My mom was crying which she rarely does, and she screamed a bit. I just wish they’d stop. My dad always vents to me too. 😢

[@CrunchySlice156]

My parents drank too much which caused it…

[@daviscesaretti7884]

This is so relatable , but the worst part is that you have to hear them that speak bad about the other when you are with one of them

[@lexioverton3123]

When it happened everyone told me I’d be getting double of everything, double Christmas, double birthdays, but nobody realized that one of those is enough when we are all together.

[@Ari-20]

Ya... I hate having 2 birthdays, 6 Christmas, double a lot and I would have more then 2 bc of each side has multiple- ya I hate it a lot and I'm sorry for your...

[@42sunflowers]

Same 😔

[@YourGettingLaughedAt]

A gift and a curse 😔

[@Selahhhhhhhhhhh]

As a child that was raised up in a happy home with both parents, I personally will not stay in an unhappy marriage just so my children can have stability though. I'd try my best to make them understand and move on. But hopefully I'll get a happy marriage like what I saw growing up.

[@Salty_Onion]

Ehh My mom is gay and my dad is heavy Christian, now sure how Christmas would go all together ehdikaxkksks ((Dw, they actually still get along-))

[@ryleighbagwell1333]

“Tell your dad..” “Tell your mom..”

[@edenreese2549]

Oh my gosh, right?! Annoying…

[@wyatt3564]

So true

[@kyle-wz4rn]

fr!!

[@luis.r9903]

fr i hate it

[@ryleighbagwell1333]

Like we don’t want to be in the middle of it!!

[@Roxyyy658]

It's better to have divorced parents than to have parents that fight 24/7

[@nizavahid3138]

That "you're just like your dad " is true My mom always tell this when I don't listen her😢

[@ddgolf7390]

“You’re just like your dad” is a classic. Mom says it all the time.

[@udontknowmyname8714]

Same but my parents aren't divorced

[@username_19388]

@@udontknowmyname8714 oof-

[@ARMYgirl-eh6hx]

@@udontknowmyname8714 my mom also say but my parents aren't devirced

[@jan3000x]

Dad is cool tough

[@ultraviolxce]

I hear that alot but my parents aren't divorced. They surely need one tho.

[@madelynnspencer3129]

Yes and everyone is like “why would you complain you get two Christmas’s” I want my family together on Christmas tho 😭 Edit: I know some people may not agree with me on this and some are in different situations, but this is what my situation is. And don’t get me wrong I’m very grateful for a Christmas, but if I had a happy family together we would get to celebrate the true meaning of Christmas. And yes I know there are other situations that affect Christmas and some kids don’t get a Christmas, I was just explaining my situation, so chill 💀

[@mujiomaeyi]

Its much more diff if they both aren't there

[@Buzzzy-bee]

This isn't even relatable to me because that's not how we do it in our family. I just don't see my dad. I'm fine with it, I don't mind. I know my mum more personally than my father but mother's are more important so idrgaf 🤷

[@iamval2513]

for real it’s not as jolly as it sounds

[@UnKnown-dn3zi]

Yess I know people are always like to me yours so lucky double presents like no you wouldn’t understand the pain it causes for my mental and physical health

[@ellawass1160]

Relatable

[@ShaheenOsmani-tg7wf]

I'm so glad you've made this video, more kids should talk about this, you're nor alone

[@quinn402]

These all hit home. And don't forget forgetting something at one house and your parent having a whole meltdown over having to see their ex, or just refusing to get it even if it's essential.

[@Shesraspytoday]

When they say “you’re just like your [other parent]” it really hits hard because you left them, and if I’m like them, you’ll leave me.

[@lisasakamaki62534]

My dad always says that to me it really hurts

[@someguy2744]

Don't take 'em too seriously. Parents are human, which means they are imperfect, which means they might say some dumb ish which you shouldn't take too seriously.

[@larablack483]

EXACTLY

[@Birbbb]

My parents are not divorced but my mother keeps saying you're like your father at our arguements I can't even chit chat with her normally, it always ends up with a fight cuz she doesn't listen to me when I am telling how I feel to her she always disagreed and always annoyed at me saying "I want to have an unstressful life, I don't wanna be in a race I just wanna go with it" I am a freshman in HS and she keeps saying me that collage final exam test is so important/you must think every second, and you must be the best.. I love my mum but I can't anymore...My life is getting stressful every second that I just wanna pull up the battery of my brain and shut it down I don't wanna open any books I don't even wanna play and I don't wanna do anything, I had no power left even for the simplest thing like homeworks. And I still have exams left, they're finals I don't know what do? I guess I'll try it but I am so scared

[@shivangi1315]

You really stole my feeling bro😢

[@pi_husky4485]

And dont forget missing your pets, oh and packing, packing, And a little more packing. And if your a musician like me, lugging your instrument/equipment/amp/cabs around!

[@sadieandbeth2988]

Yes 😭

[@kassadystrickland]

Yep

[@cynicalnina]

No one cares

[@chickennuggies5897]

@@cynicalnina shut it, ppl go thru things, and ur just making it worse

[@katerinasemenov9479]

Or for sports lugging all your equipment back and forth, yup you nailed it

[@vitachang7097]

Ikr. The “ur just like ur dad” just hits hard. Or when I can have sleepovers bc I’m at my dad’s that week…..

[@Marrah-nk8rm]

The sleepovers is the most true thing I have ever heard

[@maddog7281]

The “I can’t I’m at my dads” hit hard

[@JoeMa69420]

Lmao, cry about it, my dad is dead.

[@JoeMa69420]

@Paquito el frijolero what does that even mean? Ofc I wanted to point it out, these people over here whining about how bad devoiced parents are when I had to watch my dad go insane and kill himself. Maybe they should be thankful they even have parents.

[@fruitbasketsz]

@@JoeMa69420 shut up bro 💀

[@pikaboiplays2014]

SAME

[@VenaiasLife]

@@JoeMa69420 literally everyone has different problems and different things to deal with. I’m sorry abt ur dad but I’m sure they are grateful for there dad they are just really struggling with the CONSTANT travel and problems that come along with having divorced parents. U shouldn’t compare things like that. All love tho

[@sofifiwashere]

Having divorced parents was the best thing that could’ve ever happened to me. Not waking up from my dads car screeching away while my mom screams her head off at him. He left us for 6 months to run off the bill for y my moms best-friend that he had been secretly seeing for a year. he came back 6 months later and wanted to start a throuple with the three of them and choked my mom when she told him how f*ed up that was. the divorce let me stay with my mom and help her be stable.

[@anonomous8649]

Yeah I'm sure it really sucks to have divorced parents and I am going to avoid it with my little boy as much as possible. But I have parents who "stayed together for the kids". My mom relied on my abusive dad financially and all that did was emotionally destroy me, put me through physical abuse, and give me trauma that will probably affect me my whole life. If my mom had kicked my dad out a long time ago I feel life would have been better. She always talked about it and gave me hope, but never went through with it and is still with him to this day. My husband is amazing and I have complete trust in him. But if he puts me or my son through any of what my dad did, I'll be out of this marriage faster than he can blink and he knows it. I feel for children whose parents have divorced, but would it really have been worth it for them to stay together despite their issues?

[@gladitsnotme]

Your pops is gahhhbage

[@nataliatolarian7787]

No it's not the best thing you even know how that feels and try it while having siblings don't try to say always the best thing it is not and it's a living hell and you're depressed all the time so don't try to say oh it's the best again until you actually live it

[@swaggypugzz264]

I understand both options are bad but you know I have adapted to it

[@brookecisneros5288]

Sameeeeesies, my divorced parents were way better off than my together parents.

[@LEAHISTHATTHERIAN]

Yeah, this is so relatable. My mom doesn’t care about me nor my dad. All they care about is there new family’s.

[@GemmaWebb-lr9kp]

I hope that doesn’t happen to me

[@Chunky_bird296]

I understand. Mine are divorced.

[@LiamMerla]

man i'm glad other people feel my pain but it's still sad

[@laila6118]

This is the most relatable thing. packing, arguing, “you’re just like your dad”, leaving things at the other persons house, and “I can’t wait until you go and see your dad.”

[@angelinagurieva186]

Saaame

[@leonoorghazi5430]

Exactly, and they talk crap abt the other parent to you

[@abbsxxo5391]

My parents aren’t even divorced yet and this is my reality. They hate each other and swear they are gonna do it but they never do. I have little brothers who I have to distract while they fight. I just wish they would do it.

[@makungupeete9756]

I love it @●♡

[@itz_strawberry4337]

Yeah 🥺

[@GLaDimCHAZ]

“how relatable do you want this to be?” Her: YES

[@PotatoCato7]

How cringe you want to be? Her: YES

[@TheNightShinesBright]

@@PotatoCato7 meh it’s accurate even with it being a bit cringe

[@Petrichoredits1]

Well not everyone can relate. There’s lots of kids with different situations.

[@GLaDimCHAZ]

@@Petrichoredits1 I should’ve worded this differently

[@mollieomahony9720]

@@PotatoCato7 it may be cringe but its accurate for me

[@julybro]

I’ve been doing this since I was 4 and I relate to ALL of these. It sucks, in fact the traveling part we were stuck in traffic for 5 hours and I hadn’t eaten in 9 hours. Just know your not the only one out there.

[@lmthepr0bl3m]

Never forget how they always call each other stupid behind each others backs

[@Ngan.marianguyen]

“You are just like your dad”, I connected w this one deep

[@elegant_ehshaal]

Same

[@user-pt6gh9jb1g]

Or just hearing your parents talk shit about the other one🙁

[@fallingbrick9514]

Same

[@mad_m4x675]

Me too

[@jacksonpman]

Same

[@saleneai6328]

“You are just like your dad” The eldest I think could relate 😭

[@alicia2259]

i’m the youngest but my sister and i get compared to our dads all the time, so ig it’s both💀

[@PotatoCato7]

Why that even triggers you, if you love ur dad you should thank your mom, well i always say thank you when i hear that, bcs my dad is amazing person, if she stopped loving him i have not, or if its some hard argument i would tell her i cant be like our neighbor, bcs he is not my father, she choose him to have children with so i have to be like my dad. Im happy for them, divorcing is def a hard step when you have children, they should live their lives as they want and I respect that, i dont care about their 💩 talk about each other and i dont see why most ppl do with their parents.

[@Nayaaaaaaaa]

Omg all the time

[@angeIroque]

@@PotatoCato7 I see your pov but also it's different when you haven't met your dad/mom and or don't know anything about them but you've heard things you wish you didn't about the other parent and it makes you feel some type of way when you get compared to them in a negative way, but ofc we love our parent either way but I'm sure most people experience this but idk.

[@saleneai6328]

@@PotatoCato7 it triggers me because my dad was abusive and gaslighted my mom And I don’t like my dad but I love my mom, and I tried to please her so she can validate me, but because I look similar to my dad, and she resented my dad, if I do something that would piss her off, she would be like “you are just like you dad” or “you and you dad are the same” which hurts me, because I know I’m nothing like my dad and it makes me sad.

[@ItsMeElina...]

This is so true, from one girl with divorced parents to another, my parents split when I was only 7 and it's a really big struggle and I miss the other parent I'm not with it really changed my life when this happened and when I used to miss the other parent I wasn't with, well now I just try and take my mind off it and I don't get upset❤😊 (try my idea) ❤❤

[@yousmell-77]

All of this is relatable. I wouldn’t really miss the person I wasn’t with but in arguments I would yell “ I want to be at” whichever parents house I wanted to be at

[@lovinqxestelle918]

i get “your just like your dad” so often…even though my parents are divorced

[@ericasylne175]

Although my parents should be for the love of god

[@junghoseok9723]

This statement makes me cry tf outta me. Like I aint like that terrible man.

[@foxglove8199]

It’s actually the opposite for me-

[@hayden_ahh]

this is so true the “can’t I’m at my dads” “ur just like ur mom/ dad” and “missing the parent u aren’t with” that’s all so true tho

[@thelastdinosaur3740]

Do you think you feel is if when you were born there were never together and is was just how it was? Xx

[@dill7763]

So true I just got back from and nearly cried when I was there because I missed my mom

[@lexie1496]

Tbh sometimes I find u guys lucky because my dad could care less about seeing me

[@ilusvin]

I understand the “can’t I’m at my dads” and “your just like your dad” considering my mom tells me that all the time. But I can’t relate missing the parent your not at. I don’t like my mom a lot and I stay at her house all the time. But when I’m at my dad’s I feel like a totally different person. I can express my self, watch what he likes, and actually feel good when I fall asleep.

[@hayden_ahh]

@@ilusvin mines the other way around I feel more free at moms

[@Sophia-Barnard]

THIS IS SO FLIPPING ACCURATE OML

[@Your_Fav_Duo1413]

The “your just like your dad/mom” is so accurate, I hate when they say that

[@Leanneishere]

“You’re just like your dad!” “True, I can’t stand your BS either.”

[@Nehaylah]

Feel like saying that to my mom but- who knows what would happen

[@murderhornetss]

Same tho

[@OmartheOlive]

Same

[@tomholland2.048]

Yessir

[@sionaagaskar8856]

The urge to say this but if i said that to my mum I'd be 6 ft into the ground next minute 💪

[@thatgirlsomthing7528]

Oh and can’t forget about the “don’t tell your mom/dad”, all the lying makes my head hurt And the horrible jokes they make about each other, can’t forget about those Edit: bruh I’m famous

[@theylove.m1a]

Omg so true

[@jaydenbaker7586]

My dad always says stuff abt my mom!😭

[@caitgrace]

Omg yes

[@lyndie2625]

So true omg

[@sloanieee]

oh god…i’m glad my parents are best friends then, luckily they ended on good terms

[@Youtubewithjacqueline]

This is the most relatable thing I’ve seen😭

[@user-yp7ri9qb5i]

The missing the parent you aren't with is so true because whenever I was with my dad I would cry and tell my mom that I want to see her while crying 😭😭😭

[@tK_rma]

“You are just like your dad.” Damn. That hurts. A lot. I actually hate it, like um.. are you trying to make me feel bad and guilty ?

[@aryavartamishra8185]

It's way too relatable and annoying for me I hate it too

[@ashm.5964]

" Your exactly like your mother. Your going to leave me too. " Should've left my dad as soon as those words fell out of his mouth because then we could've both agreed that he was right.

[@tithisings]

@@ashm.5964 aw man, I'm so sorry :( if u don't mind me asking, why did u leave him?

[@clovahisbest]

They also say "Stop misbehaving! Or ll send send u to dads/mums house!"

[@sirinemoors1445]

And + they insults the dad

[@nicolabarham2835]

The ‘your just like your [other parent]is heartbreaking to hear, cause if I’m like him and you left [other parent] they leave me

[@Daetomega]

Tbh, I’m glad my parents got divorced back in 2013, cuz all I can even remember when my parents were together is that they would fight att, and my dad would rarely be home

[@camillasanna4774]

“You are just like your dad” Always hits hard

[@zaraomair9348]

my parents aren’t even divorced but my mom always says that bc they fight a lot :( it makes me rlly sad like i’m a bad guy but parents gotta realized i’m made of them hes my father i’m gonna be like him in some way …

[@nunya4665]

Fr it hurts when they say that

[@pyrody8479]

Damn my parents don’t say that stuff

[@tK_rma]

Ikr

[@dismal982]

My brothers tell me that just to hurt me..

[@sadieandbeth2988]

“You get 2 Christmases” “you have 2 houses be grateful” It’s not as fun as you think and anyways I don’t have 2 I have 1 my dads is the house I go to on weekends sometimes

[@Magic._.012]

I know

[@Magic._.012]

I have 2 christmases

[@ItsyagirlEmz]

Oo nice thats nice to chriswtmases but the pthers no

[@ItsyagirlEmz]

@The Fifth Marauder well my mum and dad litterlayy divorced right now

[@ItsyagirlEmz]

@The Fifth Marauder so yeah

[@zaniahyoung]

i love how u share this as being a 9 yr old with divorced parents makes me feel comfortable cuz i know i am not alone and your brave never let anyone put u down and follow your dreams 💞🙂

[@MissHawes0187]

As a divorced and widowed mom, my heart breaks for every child 💔

[@lilyloves310]

TY

[@O-scar]

No you're not

[@Emme77]

@@charisse1110 your not the only one

[@yazinxi5639]

Does it though? I mean, you did the same thing to your child no?

[@user-hk4gh9km7c]

@@yazinxi5639 bruh...u don't know what lead her to this so shut up

[@scaramouche6870]

“I forgot it at my dad’s” “It’s ok” I wish it was that easy tbh teacher don’t give a shi

[@jewelbeastie230]

Same

[@Tommy_Klee23]

It’s not their problem. If you need something that bad just go to the other house and grab it

[@mollieomahony9720]

@@Tommy_Klee23 I understand where you're coming from but sometimes it's not that simple...

[@luis.r9903]

same

[@luis.r9903]

@@Tommy_Klee23 because its so easy right?

[@Blo3s3mYT]

I think I know how this hurts with bad strict parents and anxiously being worried

[@ShelbySketches]

My parents are divorced and I’m seeing this whilst at my dads house

[@justabeing5773]

"you’re just like your dad” I hate when either of my parents say this about my other parent i get so frustrated and with both of my parents somehow.

[@sistersinchrist7931]

Omg I have that problem I have to go back and forth all the time and it’s really hard when I’m at my moms I miss my dad and my step mom and when I’m at my dads I miss my mom it’s just so hard but at least I have to homes that love me❤️

[@obesedenise5171]

Your parents are gay? I respect that❤️👍

[@stay7808]

This hurts

[@thedood4901]

Ikr like if I have that person's dna how will I not be like them?

[@robert7100]

You aren't a projection of your parents, you are you

[@sophruthie11]

exactly. my friends with divorced parents are like oh it’s easier and makes me happier but for me it’s just like this edit: holy crap guys thanks for the likes it’s a only been a day

[@agnesdaroczi9206]

❤️❤️

[@Swiminatub]

I think the only way it is easier is not hearing the arguments and fighting anymore. Seeing your parents hate each other and then it gets filtered to you is so hard. Divorce is hard too but at least there’s some separation and healing starting. I wish we all could make it work but unfortunately not every relationship can

[@TheReal_happy40]

It's like this for most of us, but it's still better than having them both in the same house, hating each other in front of you. You know, ever since I was born, I've never seen my parents love each other, it was hate since the beginning. The divorce happened when I was 12, I'm 23 now and have temper issues, love issues, and sometimes when I have to remember those times they argued, I still cry.

[@Dr_zevia]

Sometimes it’s that the parents argue so much and have such a bad relationship, it’s better to get divorced.

[@AnnaMerteuil]

@@TheReal_happy40 I don't remember much of my childhood (I was young when they took separate ways, like 5), I have witnessed some arguments between my parents before I was 5 (I don't vividly or vaguely remember them consciously), then saw him be happy with the woman of his life, my sister and I do have good relationship with her (even with our sometimes hot tempers). Once, we argued and I said to her how I felt about the arguments I've witnessed (before my dad planned doing it properly). I agree the divorce is easier than watch them unhappy together (plus, my dad has always made sure he had the best words possible for my mum, defending her when others made mean comments about her, made sure they could still be parents together besides this divorce and the consequences on our family). But I still have trust and love issues as a grown adult after being in this mess this young P.S : I always had a good relationship with my dad (who's been dead now by 6 years) and he always made sure we were in his life and worried when we had an argument with our stepmom

[@DixieSlays]

I'm the youngest of 17 children 6 adopted and our parents fight A LOT but there's no telling how much longer they will be together 🥲

[@Sassy_Noah]

This is the most relatable short I have seen in my whole life

[@kpopstan._..]

dont forget “always picking sides”. just imagine that your divorced parents are fighting and both of them force you to stay with either of them. its sad.

[@frosfy3343]

You’re being stupid

[@beckamtruett6019]

You state true facts

[@soka9270]

“imagine” u got a good life huh 💀

[@Raven-vl6og]

Well my parents divorced when I was 2-3 so I don’t really have to pick sides

[@Raven-vl6og]

But I didn’t have a choice

[@Rissarou07]

“I can’t I’m at my dad’s “ bro that’s literally like every time I ask my cousin to sleepover:(

[@Sl3epyHoIlow]

SAME?

[@frosfy3343]

Dramatic

[@carolstar9603]

@@frosfy3343 your banner says a lot about you

[@haruukuma]

@@frosfy3343 can u shut up for at least 10 minutes?

[@lpsemcookie989]

Then I guess your cousin dislikes you lol

[@AmeliaRussell-vt8qe]

The “your just like your dad” is so real. My mom always says that

[@QueenKin0517]

The sleepover one goes crazy❤😢

[@laceychessor605]

I feel this especially the “ur just like ur dad” my mom used to say that a lot

[@schabowy6149]

The worst is it's true.

[@cassienix2471]

Even worse when she calls you by his name ...

[@UnfazedN]

@@cassienix2471 so true and so sad 😞

[@jadjandali7362]

Me 2

[@yleilaf.a7967]

My mother says that all the time, or my dad says "you're like your mom," or don't be like your mom. But they still are married and live under the same roof. They bicker constantly and hate eachother. They also complain about eachother to my sister and I everyday. They stay together for appearances and my mom is kind of financially dependent. I swear, my sister is 23 and they should have divorced like few months after she was born. I wish they were divorced instead of married.

[@winteryckofficial]

This is so true, I always hear “your just like your dad” it hurts.

[@aleenaa1010]

yesss and they always tell me I look exactly like my dad too

[@JamieMari]

Fr

[@tarunikaramesh63]

exactly I don’t even know what they mean obvi we weren’t made just by her dna we have both their dnas man and I lived with my dad my whole and then suddenly my mom is like shift to different fuvkin country with me

[@tarunikaramesh63]

@Kamryn BechtelI’ve gotten use to it by now I guess so it’s okay 🙃

[@brodielitchfield6083]

Same

[@btsfantasyworld2874]

Kids are the one who suffers the most when their parents get separated

[@Amy_1826]

Same thing for me. It’s very hard and I hope people that don’t have divorced parents understand us!

[@alnxii]

The “you’re just like your dad” is so relatable

[@rohansno1fan]

U know that's abusive/ manipulative behaviour. Speak to ur mom/ guardian bout that cuz I struggled with a parent who said that. I am now at therapy. One comment can move to something further ma pal

[@maninong]

I’ve seen my niece get into arguments with each of her parents like that.

[@shaguptapaul3857]

I should be like my dad, got half genes from him for heaven's sake. I actually find it ridiculously hurtful when people hurt you bcz the way u r born😔

[@alnxii]

@@maninong :(

[@alnxii]

@@rohansno1fan ik. Like my mom apologised to me right after

[@aleera8257]

On top of all that I have the "Getting anxious when staying at dad"

[@dragon_draws]

Same :( He said I have to wait until I'm a few years older to decide anything for myself. But that's not going to work because it didn't work for my older sibling

[@-L0G1C4L-]

Same, I love him but sometimes I get uncomfortable around him..

[@ethan58873]

@@-L0G1C4L- that happens when I’m at both parents house but I don’t really care and am fine they are separated because I would rather them hate each other silently then in-front of me and my 4 other siblings

[@hayden_ahh]

Fr tho

[@pocketwatchstudios]

same

[@Weird_pawwz]

No why is this actually so relatable 😭😭😭

[@Motoracer83husqvarna]

Worst is when you see one crying and when you try to comfort them and they blame you’re other sibling

[@Ra-hb5wz]

"do you know what your dad did to me?!" do you know what you're doing to me?

[@legendf5252]

Same here

[@nomindulguun8230]

Same here

[@zereentasnimmridula6006]

Oh my god same I wish I could carve my insides and show her that I'm nothing like that man even if I have his blood

[@Sofia-un2hn]

Same here

[@ishaaa30]

same

[@Someone21348]

When I was really young and my parents would constantly be arguing, I had to hear all of it. Then they got divorced. I can’t stand listening to anyone argue anymore..

[@jessicabraud3307]

Same. Yelling instantly makes me anxious

[@ellanelson2009]

Me too

[@brendatorres380]

🌹+/

[@allywestphalen4835]

Me too

[@battlesister1559]

I have sensory overload issues, I absolutely hate whenever someone raises their voices at all, arguings are my bane... My parents aren't divorced but I relate to you not standing arguments

[@Clara-rj4xh]

The “you’re just like your dad” hits hard

[@cinna.bunnii]

All of this is really accurate (except for arguing and sleepovers for me since my parents are still very good friends, and I don't like sleepovers) It really hurts but I'm glad that my parents are still friends, I'm sorry to everyone who isn't in the same situation as me...

[@linasafitriazizah4345]

this is so relatable, "im sorry, im at my dads"

[@malohisipowicz7646]

Facts

[@Raynaaaaa]

Ikr

[@finns_cards5271]

Same

[@aidenbecker7579]

I have to deal with this all the time

[@ar1a.luvs.lipbalm]

I KNOW

[@XSunflowerElfX]

The "you are just like your mother/father" It's relatable

[@neminem9118]

toxic ..:

[@jasminadervisevic9027]

That one is so toxic I don't understand how people don't see it. It's like telling your kids "hey you have the same qualities that I left my partner for"... gee thanks mom, you chose him not me..ugh

[@veronicap7105]

was just gonna comment this. mom does it often 😑 it is toxic

[@XSunflowerElfX]

It breaks my heart when they say u look like that parent and sometimes They say that u are acting like that parent it hits my heart that most 💔

[@Jade-bl8gz]

I have a different relationship with my dad to say the least and my mom has said this a couple times and it broke me, of course I didn’t tell her but still. and she is amazing and I’m so grateful and lucky to have such a kind, hard working, and supportive mom we help each other a lot.💙

[@EmmyMore-]

Fr why is life like this! It’s so hard and sometimes I wish it was fine between them but everything happens for a reason they say so I’m still waiting for it to get easier or somthing

[@Niceguys_finishlast]

This is so true. That’s all I have to say This is the most relatable video

[@z3rtheroyal673]

The “you’re just like your dad” really hit since that’s what my mom says to me a lot and thankfully the packing part isn’t normal for me since only one parent has full custody

[@bgb411]

On the flip side, I had parents who stayed together until my dad died, and they argued all the time and brought me and my sister into their fights. I thought argumentative behavior in relationships was normal, but the first person I ever had feelings for told me that he learned everything he knows about confrontation from me. I have also stayed in toxic relationships way past their expiration date, because I was taught that's what you're supposed to do. Sometimes a divorce is necessary. Staying "for the kids" can really do them a disservice later in life.

[@amanda.a.m]

I feel like I could’ve wrote this myself...

[@reeko9278]

Yea unless it's too toxic i don't think one should get a divorce especially when kids are around... It's best to figure bout things coz everyone you Mary will have a set of charectors you don't like . So rather change one devil than many 😂

[@aisyahazzahrah446]

My parents are like this too. They’re still together but like what’s the point of staying married when they’re not even sleeping in the same room? And don’t get me started on the never ending fights and arguments.

[@Mayura-Teacher]

I was going to comment the same , but felt maybe it will overshadow her points or something ,so deleted. Thanks for this comment.

[@PotatoCato7]

This! These ppl are so selfish, they should respect parents life, and be happy for them, divorce is def a hard step when having children. Its so much better to have divorced parents than parents who stayed together just because of you. These ppl find hard traveling, forgetting homework at dads house, not being able to sleep over with friends…🤡

[@HopeMcdougal-te9sj]

POV: you have one parent that wants you to come with them somewhere and the other says no bc u have sports

[@Theyluv_daniela]

It hurts so bad to be like that😢 I been treated bad by my dad and anger issues 😢and need to yo talk to someone you know sometimes you just need someone different I suffer a lot😭

[@ScheelesGreen]

The “just like your dad” comment always hits the hardest. The person they were able to fall out of love with, the person they can’t stand, the person they’ll call the worst names… the person they chose. And now you’re being told you’re like them, as they pack you up and send you away. I’m almost 38 and that shit still cuts deep.

[@not_iz5957]

"tell youre mom/dad i said.."

[@danielogaz1600]

Frr I hate that

[@CROWN_thee_fashionista]

Or what your mom/dad said. . . So thief siblings can gossip about it

[@gael8484]

@@danielogaz1600 Same😕

[@AdriannaLaMange]

This is all accurate for me, especially the "you're just like this parent" but I'm homeschooled, online yk

[@Mellon8833]

it really hurts when they say "your just like your mother" or "your just like your father"........ as i have divorced parents and i sometimes hear this.......

[@NotaSmartNoob]

Yes my parents divorced and they have been arguing a lot it makes me cry some times

[@guineakitty]

its ok! Dont let it get to you!! You'll get through this!

[@damienpriest4340]

It happened to me today

[@animallover8447]

Aww sorry to hear that but you will get through it just be strong

[@booklover6956]

Same!! It's absolutely terrible. But you have to stay strong and find way to make it easier on yourself

[@violettieha]

😭🖤

[@elizabethm6657]

I loved it when my parents divorced. A calm house with no fights. Winning.

[@hessaaa2367]

So trueeeee

[@hailthyholyrats5650]

Same! It was like I finally had a safe space and a break from my mom!

[@jessicabraud3307]

@@hessaaa2367 Same. My parents tried to divorce two times before they actually did, and I was so happy when they did. No more blasting music to not hear screaming and not having to worry about my dad punching holes in the walls anymore. My parents are so much better not together. Now the arguments are just passive aggressive through texts and don't involve me! The packing and "Oh sorry I'm at my dad's that weekend" is annoying, but waaaay better than it was before

[@WizPUGBM]

For real Im actually loving it. I'd hate it if my parents would get back together. I also love the fact i can be at a different house in the weekends

[@rafiashan8389]

My parents are still together,Last time my mom and we were about to be kicked out of house.I started crying (18 years old)......In the end we were not kicked out.But Now I have made up my mind Now no matter what ever happens I will never ever try to mediate between them.They can get divorce or kill each other It has nothing to do with me anymore.They all have destroyed my life.I can't even cry out loud because all I will get to hear is Why are you so sensitive?You should be a strong girl.The hell with this all.How can they expect me to be strong when they are the ones who made me this sensitive since childhood. I really hate it when I get to hear you are acting like your mother.You are speaking her language....like hello ?I have my own thoughts But naah.

[@user-sm3cs9vp5p]

When the “your just like your dad” comes out it hurts a lot i just can’t hear that anymore I have gotten sick of it so much it hurts so baf

[@Abby.Lemonade]

I used to do that. Now i live with my dad full time :)

[@mollietheslothqueen3374]

Or the “go live with them instead then!” Breaks me

[@Thebigestturtlejofan]

She said that in an argument the other day

[@leastidyworld4365]

Sorry.

[@Zerobaseone_13fan]

My mom said that to me when i was 9 🙂

[@user-yp7ri9qb5i]

OMG that hurts 😭😭😭

[@user-yp7ri9qb5i]

My dad said that to me before and I said fine I love her better anyway

[@k.pop_covers]

Having divorced parents really messed with my mental health.

[@SamiraJav]

same

[@SamiraJav]

@Emma kitchens omg i’m so sorry this happened to you and just know if you wanna talk more about it you can

[@Kayla-tp9ej]

Same it’s not easy

[@ellie_pjo]

Fr thou I'm now having to get therapist Cause of there fighting and missing the other and getting yelled at for forgetting homework and a paper for a event

[@ellie_pjo]

For real thou now I'm having to get therapist because of their fighting and getting yelled at school for forgetting things at the other parent's house

[@Butheysworkshop]

Omg same every time I’m telling my mom about something that I learned about she yells, DID YOUR DAD TELL YOU THIS!?

[@AustinJF]

The worst thing is when people say “Yk ur lucky that ur parents r divorced bc u get like double the gifts on like birthdays and Christmas” LIKE BRO IM NOT LUCKY THATS LEGIT 1 PRO OUT OF 100 CONS!

[@cheriana7438]

The “you’re just like your” is actually so true 😭 to my dad I’m just like my mom and vice versa. And they don’t get along so badly that we have to legit just choose one and stay there because they hate it when we go back and forth and if I choose one for a holiday the other one gets extremely upset and they refuse to accept anything the other parent does.

[@strawberry3837]

This!

[@diamondsare4ever-379]

Wow. Never thought about that. Must be so traumatic. Sometimes grown ups are just like little kids… what a waste of your childhood…. That should always be a safe place… so sorry for you guys

[@Confused627]

same but it was just my dad my mam just accepted my choices. and if i asked to spend time with my dad, he’d find a way to slip in that im bothering him and i should give him a break. it fucked so much with my brain.

[@MsBurnitup]

My parents are the Same. It's gonna be alright though. ❤️

[@ArmyBlink47875]

“Your just like your dad” i hear that everyday

[@giaducati]

Same broski

[@icybare]

Why is this so sad😭

[@ArmyBlink47875]

@@icybare loll 😭

[@icybare]

@@ArmyBlink47875 😭😭

[@black_pearl403]

My mom once said to me "your like me and that's probably why he doesn't like you that much" i mean she is kinda right but it's still sad

[@Eli_Fry]

I feel you, people don’t care enough about stuff like this.

[@SierraHDHD]

I never thought there were people who were going through exactly the same....

[@brodybeaudoin2519]

“I can’t I’m at my dads sorry” IDK how many sleepovers and fun things I’ve missed because of this sentence

[@SkyeNotFound]

Ikr

[@DGT_Catvenom]

Same

[@user-ur6do8zq2q]

Listen to mockingbird by Eminem i relate to it so much

[@waitwhattimeisit]

irl

[@whatisstarbucks9512]

True

[@tbh.ch1oe]

and best of all: When one parents insults/takes their anger at the other parent out on you

[@itzjaniex]

Happens all the time 😥

[@kitkatnat9069]

Why… why is this too true. My bio dad and step mom do that to me and my older brother except it has turned into emotional and mental abuse. 😔😭😥😓

[@madeleineg1733]

Yeah my dad did this too. He was angry that my mom hadn't scheduled an appointment for my younger sister yet because the doctor's office was booked, blamed it on her, said I was going to be a loser in life liker her, and that I was going to end up living in a cardboard box on the street, alone, on drugs and that I'd kill myself. He said it was just the truth. I stopped taking him seriously after that. It's sad how hurtful parents can be when they never learned how to manage their own emotions or take responsibility for their own actions like real adults.

[@theofficalsilentraven]

EXACTLY!;;

[@Raven-xe8mp]

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