WHAT I DO WHILST MY HUSBAND IS AWAY | Lydia Elise Millen

[@karinlong8602]

What you said at the end reminds me of one of my favorite quotes: when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change 🌱✨

[@gemmarhind5640]

Ugh I’m never going to forget that! Great quote, thanks for sharing that one.

[@CynthiaRothschild]

DEAREST LYDIA , HELLO DARLING . WHAT IF , THE DELIVERY PERSON IS A THIEF ? THE BEST WAY IS TO HAVE PO BOX ( POST OFFICE BOX ) , NEAR YOU . NOWADAYS MANY THIEVES WORK PLACES AS DELIVERY , OR THEY COULD BURGLARIES YOUR HOME FOR THEY KNOW EXACTLY THE THINGS YOU BUY . NOW , THAT PEOPLE KNOW WHAT THAT BOX IS FOR , I FEAR FOR YOUR SAFETY .

[@karinlong8602]

A ballet flat or classic loafer would look beautiful with your wardrobe! I especially love the nude Chanel ballet flats. So classic and timeless!

[@AtHomeWithKaylaPrice]

I was thinking of Stuart Weizmann loafers when Lydia was trying to think of footwear for her outfits. They are my comfortable favorites with tights and dresses.

[@Hair-today]

Yes some elegant loafers for sure

[@mystaycation2614]

I have to agree with you when it comes to being a better version of yourself, lots of times people are not for us and we are not for them. But, thanks to age, we learn, grow, we are more confident, which in turn gives us peace. Evolving is a wonderful thing, I get you!

[@shireensilva392]

oh my gosh i think porter would be scared by the way you spoke to him .. I find that speaking in a gentle voice and then giving lots of praise is the best way to train a dog .. that’s how we trained our little fur baby and he learned so quickly

[@maldahar]

It is nice to see a beautiful, successful women living her best life. It inspires me to be better and do better. 👍🏻

[@ashtongiles]

Birdies makes these slippers that don’t look like slippers. Like loafers/ballet flats. They’re warm and cozy. Meant for the hostess who likes to be dressed up but comfortable.

[@amykelly8319]

Just on my way home from hospital. Looking so forward to shower and snuggle up to watch this again. My calm space x

[@cheche2174]

Wonderful feeling isn’t it. I hope you’re okay - enjoy your self care 🌻

[@amykelly8319]

@@cheche2174 thank you. Your very kind x

[@theHelicase]

I feel like you were speaking to me in this vlog, especially at the end about making changes. You are absolutely glowing and it's great to see someone else successful making changes and feeling great. I also can totally relate to not organizing as I go and taking a day to organize. I thought I was the only one who would cancel plans when I planned a day to tidy, and I feel so guilty about it. It's nice to hear perspective that you planned your day and stuck to what you wanted. I am going to try to think about what I want more often. Such an inspiration. Love you as always, all the best

[@arumpuspitasari9114]

I love it. Your videos have always (well most of them) the combination of house tour, haul, and vlogging wrapped in elegant vibes.

[@danishpastry6137]

I saw that F&M hamper and I thought "perfect egg storage", for when you get your chickens! As for house shoes, I have ballet flats that I use indoors, especially for Christmas, or other house party kind of things. If you're not keen on rounded toes, go for pointy toes. A lot of Danes have wooden floors, and a lot (us included) aren't keen on shoes indoors, especially heels - so ballet flats are brilliant for that.

[@mlayne130]

I agree about organizing at 23:30!! I can tolerate a disorganized mess for only so long but once I decide I’ve had enough, I can’t focus on anything else other than the task of cleaning and organizing! I did that all day even though I’ve been horribly sick, and also cramping really bad on top of that. But I couldn’t rest and relax until I had organized the huge mess in my room 😂

[@beverleyroberts1025]

A day at home, reorganising, pottering, cooking, walking and just doing what you want is my kind of day! Love Lumi and Porter! 🐈🐶 x 😊

[@louisevarcoe228]

I really enjoyed this vlog. I can only cope with things being in the wrong place for a short amount of time and I love putting it all back into order and having a good clean. It looks like a perfect day spent to me especially with a dog walk and a fire. I would only change one thing and it's baking a cake instead to have with a cup of tea next to the fire after the walk x

[@edelquinn2437]

Going through a rough time at the moment and just needed that positive message!

[@cheche2174]

All will be well. Stick with it and do what makes you feel good. Sending love and hugs ♥️💜🌻

[@CalebSnell]

I can agree with you, organizing just makes me feel at peace with everything else. Btw, your home and garden is gorgeous! 😍😍

[@isabellegenoud8410]

Dear Lydia, bravo for mastering the complexity of french word’s prononciation 🎉 consonants are always always silent when at the end of the word! A croissant is a croissant (and not a croissantttttt) just like « un verre de blanc » and not blancccccccc 😄 Exception made when a word/name ends with a consonant, followed by a word/name starting with a vowel. Hence Moët Echandon 🍾 ! Pronounced Moetttttechandon but the t remains silent when Moët is alone. Aaaaah ! All the fuss for a croissant and bottle of wine 😋 lots of love Lydia

[@agathej852]

I live and work in the Champagne industry, and I confirm you do prounonce the "T" of Moët even when it's alone. In fact, in Reims and Epernay we never say Moët et Chandon, always just Moët (moète 😉)

[@fifiserafino1]

Moët is Dutch rather than French - that's why the 't' is pronounced

[@izabelad6662]

In order to have the bed fresh we should take the duvet and pillows out on fresh air( when dry weather) and allow the mattress and bed sheet to dry and air. Leaving the duvet on the mattress is the worst thing possible.No mist will help.

Yep! Making the bed isn't always a good thing, the sheets need to air out.

[@alwaystrueraisa]

OMG this was so wholesome. I love watching all ur videos Lydia, they just always motivate me to look good and feel good

[@baileywatts3191]

Have you tried sock booties for your shoe debacle? They can be rather elegant, and very slimming and elongating on the leg. The right one would look great with midi length dresses, in my opinion!

[@helenstella2666]

Love your kitchen. I could quite happily live in there ☺️ I always pull the duvet back & let the bed have a good airing each morning. It helps remove moisture from the sheets & mattress & reduces the number of dust mites 😊 Love Porter 🥰 🐾

[@drsalka]

Lydia: “You’re spoiled, Porter!” Porter: *hops merrily through the shot” 🥰🖤 cute!

[@KarinaSwan]

Hello Lydia, you mentioned in this video about positive changes to your life and people telling you about glowing. I will add to that, you ARE glowing it's not just people being nice, it is this difference that one cannot explain, but it shows. Keep dong what you are doing :)

[@victoriawilson2020]

I have literally just watched a good year today because of your last vlog and I hadn’t watched it in years!!! Such good feel vibes!

[@soo6087]

Lovely vlog, just chilling and pottering is one of life’s luxury and taking a walk and breathing in our wonderful surroundings. We are very lucky living in such a free and lovely country 👏🏻👏🏻. The autumn leaves are a falling 😊 xx

[@prej1741]

Don’t know why ppl are mean to u. You deserve this life I’m sure u worked extremely hard to get where u are. Love watching these kind of vlogs ur furbabies are adorable 💕

[@Practice_Kindness-1st]

I agree with you Pri ❤!

[@juliemiller2523]

i think they are mean becos she seems a bit full of herself,,, she may not be, but she sure comes across that way

[@nualabannon5577]

@@juliemiller2523 I agree

[@Blushun]

@@juliemiller2523 then why are you watching her videos? When a woman is confident she’s labeled ‘full of herself’ by other women. Why do this to each other? Men do a good enough job trying to keep us down. Don’t help them. 💗

[@juliemiller2523]

@@Blushun IM NOT TRYING TO PUT ANYONE DOWN AND IDE SAY THE SAME THING IF SHE WAS A GUY. I GUESS I JUST DONT LIKE ARROGANT PEOPLE PLAIN AND SIMPLE. AND AS FAR AS WATCHING HER VIDEO I OPEN OUT OF CURIOSITY BUT BELIEVE ME I CLICK IT OFF VERY SOON.. DONT THINK IVE EVER WATCHED A WHOLE VIDEO OF HERS AS ITS TOO SICKLY.

[@haco007]

I love to see how you organize your own home. Obviously you are rich and could let do other people do the work. But it is nice to see that you are still down to Earth.

[@tamarasagodicchappell5979]

Watching your videos makes me feel elegant and put together even though I'm so so so pregnant with my second and my house desperately needs a vacuum.

[@lydiamillen]

This is the biggest compliment x

[@nicolettetomblyn994]

I’m so much more productive when my husband is gone not sure why but I definitely get so much organizing (which gives me so much joy) completed and feels so good cheers to a great week ahead

[@aspen8110]

Yessssssss to more organizing the house videos!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@home6901]

I live my best life through your videos Lydia 🙈🥰🥰❤️

[@lydiamillen]

You are so kind x

[@juliemiller2523]

THINK U NEED TO GET OUT MORE

[@tenwaystowearit]

Me too. I so look forward to her content. ♥️

[@Hair-today]

You my fave Lydi, nobody comes close to you and your soothing style

[@ASMRMagic]

Lydia reminds me of Carrie Bradshaw a little, in the sense that she can make any outfit look amazing. Beautiful lady and beautiful home 💖

[@dreamers_success]

Hey you! Yes you! Sorry for interrupt your scrolling but i just wanted to say that smile today and you'll look beautiful everyday 😊

[@allisonvanvuuren4875]

Oh Lydia, I love all your vlogs, but the end of this is just what I needed! “Make the change today” just what I needed to hear. Thank you for the motivation 💛🌼

[@amandavanasselt]

I know it’s not entirely your aesthetic but do try Clark’s knee length suede boots, they give a lighter less harsh look with outfits and are so comfortable, I purchased 3 pairs last year and they absolutely go with everything,they have an almond shape toe ….perfect.

[@Hair-today]

Yes!!! Oval toe suede booties

[@helenalexander2567]

Lydia your comments about making conscious changes hit a nerve with me. I’ve had a good hard think following this vlog so thank you for enabling me to change aspects of my life today. Take care have a great week.

[@essbee5882]

These are my fav kinds of days. Organising makes me feel so productive xxx

[@KA-cy8df]

Same!!!! Love organizing cleaning and staying home. You are glowing and it’s is shinning through. Not playing the victim but and empowered woman now!!!

[@danaweaver4129]

Such a lovely homely vlog, I love watching you potter around your space - you've made such an effort to make it so considered and wonderful. Also watching you make your bed is my ASMR happy place. 😂❤️

[@lucydiamond574]

Very much enjoy the concept of filing clothes haha. That’s my kind of filing! I just got the rona today and have been isolated alllll day so this was such a calm and comforting 45 minutes thank you 🙏now I’m going to catch up on the Provence vlog!

[@tenwaystowearit]

I pray you make a full and speedy recovery. Be blessed. ♥️♥️♥️

[@cheche2174]

Get well soon Lucy! Xxx

[@hugs_xo]

get well very soon Lucy!

[@karenmickens1239]

Get well soon dear.

[@sophiahussain5871]

You give me such a positive vibe I absolutely love it ❤

[@mrsbee2023]

This video really resonated with me. It’s a Sunday afternoon and I’ve been reorganising and decluttering all day to make better use of my space. I feel much better for it too! I’m glad I’m not the only one that moves everything into one room! 😁

[@samahkhanosman]

I enjoyed this video SO much! I absolutely love organizing so it was very satisfying watching you do the same! This really got me in the mood to go refresh myself! More videos like this!!!

[@LifePinkorporated]

Have you tried wearing a satin lined cap/hat (like the ones by *grace eleyae or *hairbrella) for your autumnal or misty walks? *Grace Eleyae has satin lined fedoras and straw hats and *Hairbrella has waterproof satin lined caps & visors). Good for preserving styled tresses.❤️

[@donohuealex]

I actually only started watching your videos since lockdown and the difference in your videos from now and just over a year ago is wild. Lydia 2021 > Lydia 2020. You seem so much brighter and lighter which is kind of like my transition recently! Just over a year ago I had the worst break up, after 7 years, I had major money problems from trying to afford to live in a house that before was being paid for by two people and my fur baby was very poorly. But one day I just woke up and figured, everything does happen for a reason. As sad as I was a year ago, that break up was the best thing that could have happened for me. Im so much stronger and happier now and I’m so glad you are too!!

[@gabrielamucius4028]

I loved how Lumi was advertising the post box. You were explaining and she was the model like in the Bridget’s Jones Diary movie, when her mum was showing the jewellery😂😂😂

[@martique7071]

You inspire me so much! I’ve been watching you for around 5 years now! Thank you for sharing your life with us ! ♥️🥰♥️

[@bizkitchick07]

I tuned in expecting some classic Lydia home szhuszhing with maybe a sprinkle of girls night and wine shenanigans. I left feeling comforted, positive, and inspired. You are truly spreading positivity everywhere you go, and I need it, the world needs it, and I’m here for it. 💞

[@dionnevoller2903]

Fortnum’s does fig jam - and you can get on Amazon too - we used to have a little old greek lady that mades some for us from her own fig tree - it’s stunning

[@Hair-today]

Figs are lovely split open and baked with a little Roquefort Cheese

[@sophiecziglenyi6506]

Your videos make my day Lydia! So grateful for them 😊

[@terrynorton8868]

Suggestion I read somewhere. If you don't make the bed right away turn down your comforter/duvet and air out your bed for awhile. I also like to brush and pull the bottom sheet taut. Feels somehow better at bedtime. Fresh. 💓💓

[@katenevs]

Try a pair of more elegant 'sock' boots Lydia! Incredibly comfortable, easy to get on and off and very flattering on the ankle/leg! x

[@Hair-today]

Yes a soft snug boot!

[@annahemmings3437]

Throughly enjoyed this productive day at home vlog, it was Monday motivation that’s for sure! Thank you for sharing X

[@miomio1433]

I looove your home!! 🤩🤩🤩 can‘t wait for the next home related videos. Home haul, home styling.. and garden updates 🌳. You are such an inspiring person. Bless you

[@lanam4631]

Loved this and the last bit of talking was so so lovely and relatable at least for me🤍

[@cheche2174]

This was so enjoyable I just love your vlogs. This was the second time I watched it. Also I have to say, I’m loving the ‘sassy Lydia’ on the thumbnail pic!🙌🏼😃

[@heatherly]

You have truly helped me with my motivation Monday!! 🙌🏽Thank you 💛

[@ThebasketcompanyUK]

Lydia you are just such a joy to watch and thank you so so much for featuring and linking our Grey & Buff Rattan Stair Basket! We're so glad that you find it useful :-)

[@ic3482]

So gorgeous with your hair half pulled back with a clip!

[@marilynhodgkinson5299]

Hi Lydia l love making my home clean and tidy, l know this sounds weird but when my house is clean l feel clean. I'm sure the people you give your chutney to will love it. Little Poter he certainly has a lot of energy sweet little doggy.💜💜

[@sarahgill1248]

Pronounced “Extray”. Never pronounce the T on the” end of a french word if has ‘ou’ or ‘ai’ before it (or ‘eu’ come to think of it :),”

[@SzazaM077]

I can see my 4 kids in your house! That would be a day of spring clean!🤣The washing machine would be 24/7, the ironing baskets would be overflowing and I would be sorting freshly ironed clothes between all the rooms and then cooking a big dinner, hoping none of them brought a sickness bug from school. Marathon done in a day.😆💪

[@charlottemoran7952]

I love organisation, best feeling in the world. Also love your boot room, I got the HC wellies for my birthday and I'm obsessed with them.

[@lisacolborne]

I love, love, love the blouse you had on when you did your organizing! That color looks stunning on you! I feel exactly the same about the organization. I get so much more anxious when I cant find something, or something is in the wrong space! I work from home as well so it is very, very important to me to be as organized as I can be for my own mental health!

[@PlumebeautyDunsborough]

Gorgeous video , I always use Chanel N5 talc on my sheets everyday.. something my grandma always did and I love it . Even hubby loves it x

[@bselbr1159]

Beautifully said, thank you and congratulations. Your accomplishments show you are practicing what you preach 😍❤️

[@roxcandymountain]

“You’re spoiled, Porter!” Tapa tapa tapa a saucy little sausage sashays by. 😂 🥰 He’s an unbothered King.

[@cheche2174]

🤣🤣🤣so true…it suits him though doesn’t it!😋

[@princessjulia5646]

I'm exactly the same as you I do enjoy being organised in my home even my car has to be clean inside and out. ! Your house looks stunning well done. Tskecare

[@ashleyyyyyyyyyyyyyx3]

MISSED THESE KINDS OF VIDEOS FROM YOU 😊❤️

[@kathrynwallis3332]

Not mad on these boots. What about YSL or the Christian LOUBOUTIN boots you had a while back? Also the VW pirate buckle shoes, I bet they would look amazing with that outfit! Xx

[@DecadenzaMelodica]

It was so nice to see Lumi in the video today 🥰 Wouldn’t mind some more clips of her in your vlogs. Great and very inspiring video. I can relate so much with the fact that with conscious good decisions we create our better life.

[@mohbubachoudhury9166]

Hi Lydia knee high boots look great with dresses but I also find ankle boots that sit underneath the ankle look great too! So flattering, they can slim and lengthen legs.

[@EsmaAguel]

Thank you for having these worlds to inspire us. What a peaceful vlog and day to share with us. Wishing you peace and happiness, it’s lovely to see you like this.

[@soulprincessnr1]

Why do you wear shoes inside?😊

[@SzazaM077]

Lydia, the first pair of ankle boots cuts your leg, meaning make your leg shorter…they are too long/tall if you know what I mean. They are great quality but do not make you stand out. Don’t keep them. As usual, Im in love with your hair and skin.💖🥰

[@Hair-today]

Yes I agree

[@carolynshepherd4153]

I love that photo of you! It’s a very natural shot and you look beautiful😍

[@toulouse5855]

I‘d love to hear more about the changes you made in your life ❤️

[@fatmaoguzhan9523]

I've watched you for years!! And I absolutely love your energy youe authenticity and I love how inspiring your style and your house is!! Keep smiling Lydia lots of love from Australia 💖

[@Lou7301.]

I 100% need to start my organizing it really does unclutter your mind 👌 Really enjoyed this video thank you kindly x

[@debbie9654]

Absolutely loved this video. The classical music playlist is fabulous! Thank you for all the shares. Honestly this video is such a motivator....buzzing around after watching...🧡🙏🍁🍂🍁

[@antoniapireva4341]

Hi, Lydia! I suggest you try the Sofia boots from BY FAR. They are suuper comfy and fit like a glove. ❤

[@SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets]

Greetings to England. Happy autumn to England. Fantastic video.

[@jmorrison9314]

Don't tell people that you are alone darl ,you don't know who is watching x.

[@sheliaerwin3899]

Lydia your hair color is absolutely perfect!

[@clairewade3007]

That beautiful white piece/bowl in the bathroom is crying out for some 🍂 autumn. Pumpkin 🎃 squash 🍁

[@beverlyholt9510]

I totally understand! I am the same way. Just redid my closet and could not stop until it was done. Organizing makes me feel so productive and it’s calming. People at work always say they want me to come organize their houses because it’s what I do 🤓😂 Your videos are also very, very relaxing! Thank you for vlogging like you do❣️❣️

[@karenmickens1239]

Girl just give in to the chunk. There's nothing cooler than a girlie dress with a chunkie boot.😍

[@shellyweller9569]

You are such a sweet heart Lydia…thanks for your videos!!!

[@kchapin3]

That chutney looks so good! Would love the recipe! 😊

[@kjmrx300]

Same here ☺️

[@debbiebrown3053]

A Good Year is way up there in my favourite movie list! I watch it every time I need some France 🇫🇷 and cheesy romance and a glass of wine! Maybe will watch it tonight Thankyou!

[@BClanBeauty]

For home indoor shoes, I think a flat shoe with a slight heal🤷🏾‍♀️ it will go well with dresses and trousers…

[@Hair-today]

Yes!

[@rachelfoust3896]

What a lovely vlog. I feel extremely chill now. Thanks so much ❤️

[@SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets]

Fantastic video. Happy autumn to Engalnd.

[@joanheney1855]

Brilliant video Lydia and loved your enthusiasm and energy 🌈☘️

[@aprilethier5557]

I use the Almond Shower Oil !! Your going to LOVE it, can’t wait to hear what you think 💜

[@alisamann6676]

I can see you in a high suede flat riding boot in louden green, chestnut or grey. These would pair well with dresses long, mid or short while providing comfort

[@Hair-today]

Sounds lovely

[@emu9520]

That Kate Somerville deli Kate cream is truly divine

[@ambra8957]

Thanks for the music recommandation, I've already listened to it twice today! Little suggestion for you; in your boot closet I would put down a tray so the dirty/wet boots don't ruin the shelves.

[@kaygrant7935]

Lydia thank you so much for this video I enjoyed it so much!

[@kblain8028]

Loved joining you round the house for a good zhuzh-up!!! Always a pleasure to “come along” with you guys on your daily life happenings! Take care, stay happy, much love kbgardensnhomes Kx

[@juliabarth6577]

I love everything about that vlog! You are such an inspiration for me - keep going - lots of love from Germany ❤️❤️❤️