what I learned dating in LA as a lesbian for 2.5 seconds p.2

[@londonparks2436]

I just wanted to say that I really appreciate you sharing your queer dating experiences. it takes a lot to be a vulnerable as you are but im telling you that its greatly appreciated because there aren't a lot of black lesbians on KZbin, if any at all, doing it like you! you make me feel so comfortable in my identity and have answered a lot of questions ive had since coming out so again, you sharing your life experiences have been so helpful to me and im sure to many others. 💐

[@SavonnePearson]

Oh my goodness this makes my heart happy! I appreciate you for watching ❤️

[@seana9960]

Girl, dating can be so stressful. Especially these days with social media and apps. I don’t even stress about it anymore, I’m single and love my solitude. If the right woman comes , it will happen because I do believe that genuine connections aren’t forced. So I would embrace your current stage in your life and take those situations as lessons so you can grow. ❤️

[@SavonnePearson]

That’s exactly where I’m at!

[@MargoKnox]

I have been totally into me for the last 4 years. But I am ready to date but what I see what’s out here isn’t worth it. I am like you I pray my woman comes but I am ok either way.

[@seana9960]

@@MargoKnoxYes! That’s the journey!

[@kaiamanaangela3820]

I feel like depending on the area too it just makes it harder to find someone naturally. 🥹

[@tyjordanflophour]

Not properly love bombed😭 This was sooo messy! I definitely wanna hear about this whirlwind marriage lol

[@SavonnePearson]

🤣🤣 like cmon. But okay in the works (down the line) lol.

[@carissaetlora]

😂😂😂

[@QueenJasz]

Definitely want to hear the story time about the marriage. My guess is it’s person B!

[@SavonnePearson]

Your guess would be correct!

[@SavonnePearson]

Hey y’all!!! Welcome back to another storytime (:

[@FocalPointElisa]

But, can we also get into how we (regardless of our attachment style), are inevitably going to be someone's avoidant or anxious partner, until we heal our relationship trauma. And I know it's controversial, but I too do not believe you should date when you feel financially insecure. It's just a personal preference of mine 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@carissaetlora]

The AJ story is my favorite hahahahaha

[@MargoKnox]

I dated a Aj in Atlanta but had to move on fast. We wasn’t going to go no where.

[@Qu33n]

😮 was me at 0:55! I saw the upload a couple days ago for that episode but don’t see it anymore.

[@SavonnePearson]

My software is acting up I’m having some technical difficulties 😅

[@girlwhoroams770]

I still love your vibe 🌌🌌🌌 I don't do social media heavy 🕊 but would love to connect with you more 🌸

[@janessamarie4601]

Of course a marriage storytime is needed

[@indiganoir]

You look so cute Sivahn! I love the simplicity because your divine feminine ❤. Just sitting how you are you look like a goddess upon her throne 👑.

[@indiganoir]

1:54 just a perfect pose lol

[@SavonnePearson]

Omg thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@indiganoir]

@@SavonnePearson girl I’m so sorry! I spelled your name completely wrong 😑😭. I know 3 Sivahn’s lol and you’re Savonne. As someone named Valentajah, pronouncing my name properly is important to me. You’re so welcome tho 🫶🏾

[@SavonnePearson]

@indiganoir you are just fine! That’s so interesting though I’ve never seen that spelling!

[@MargoKnox]

I use to think age was a deal breaker for me. But not anymore I am open to date the person for me.

[@FocalPointElisa]

Complaining about Ex; Having "issue" with you prioritizing yourself; dismissive.... Avoidant 101.

[@SavonnePearson]

AMEN! I learned now!

[@SmileyAdventures]

👏🏽👏🏽

[@daisyflower1545]

Please the marriage story.

[@DivinefrequenciesXL]

17:42 😮

[@SocialBatt]

lol I would have hung up on her after “well why didn’t you plan better?” The slowness would have been an ick 🤣🤣 Edit to add: yes, a lil break on dating doesn’t hurt - so you can pay attention to/attract the energy/people you deserve.

[@SocialBatt]

Oh, and AJ is messy af lmfao lesbians man.

[@SavonnePearson]

LMAOOOOO your real time reactions got me DEAD.

[@SocialBatt]

@@SavonnePearson 😂 I was into the story time! I feel your pain. I live in LA and dating just isn’t that fun rn

[@SavonnePearson]

@SocialBatt it is not! Let’s be friends 🤣 Follow me on insta: @sapimij

[@SocialBatt]

@@SavonnePearson lol alright bet. We can exchange horror stories 😂😂 (I’m actually the bad guy in some tho #accountability)

[@carissaetlora]

Hmmmmm i think its person A 🤔

[@SavonnePearson]

Hahahahahaahah maybe we would have still been married.