What I Learned From My Simping Days (I Was DOWN BAD)...

Simpin' ain't easy, but somebody's gotta do it. Just make sure that you're doing it for something that will make an actual difference in your life. In this video, I unpack my traumatic experiences with simping in hopes that you guys won't repeat the same mistakes that I made.
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[@BreadOfChrist]

jordan pin this if your simping days are over 📌

[@JordanGreenYT]

😤

[@SkiiShiesty]

yoo my boy got pinned

[@BreadOfChrist]

@@SkiiShiesty ♾🤍

[@dimmoire]

haha funny moment g

[@H_2trappo]

My G Jordan putting that work in yaradi know what is going on 💯

[@ICEcoldJT]

Without the simping days, we wouldn’t be who we are today 🥶 undoubtedly grateful to have been down atrocious 😤

[@reeceburger]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ZedekiasJuDAEs]

The chosen one ice cold jt

[@ZedekiasJuDAEs]

@Von and this is facts I ain’t gon cap I remember jacking off to girls I liked dude I was down so horrible man it was sad 😔 I was exposed so early so I was doing everything for years on end and never got caught so that just made it easier for me to keep going

[@cdenjames4542]

Yo my friend keeps goin back with a girl and she was jealous and stuff and he told me that she uses his ig account(because he "loves" her) and how he trusts her wit it but she doesn't trust him and she keeps goin on her knees (not literally) and he keeps falling for it and he said she changed many times(fun fact:they were literally friends at the time) they were jus friends and she was jealous of him talking to other girls and stuff while she had a whole boyfriend then broke up with her mans then came for him Does this make my friend a simp?

[@trillahypertrill]

Fr tho

[@Swagsin]

"Some girls are just there for character development" - Some wise man

[@BreadOfChrist]

true confidence is not: “they will like me.” true confidence is: “i’ll be fine if they don’t.”

[@BreadOfChrist]

shoutout to rami for this one

[@eemilaatos]

YESSSSSSS

[@JordanGreenYT]

🎯

[@alysefu7]

fax

[@MadDogSolo]

Confidence comes from success as well

[@TheMambaAtlas]

My G said "I apologized to her, for friendzoning ME " 😭😭😭

[@JordanGreenYT]

down atrocious bro 😂

[@jazirkusakabe874]

Oh nah

[@tentaplayz3691]

😭😭

[@rastafit23]

😂💀

[@Agro_IRL]

ah the simping days. We were all there at one point

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

Fax 📠

[@JordanGreenYT]

some more than others 😭

[@Ralfs32]

Fr

[@Anon-tt9rz]

speak for yourself, simp, I've never simped in my life, something to be proud of

[@CoolElowery]

@@Anon-tt9rz uhh good for you ig

[@hamza0320]

It’s funny how we all lived the same lives

[@JordanGreenYT]

😭😭😭

[@hamza0320]

@Von yeah ik

[@dantepepper]

We only simpin for passion and purpose over here 💯😤

[@ralphcantswim]

faxxxx

[@JordanGreenYT]

thats what its all about ✊🏾

[@ItsSonder]

"Focus on yourself and the right ones gonna come naturally" 💯👑

[@JordanGreenYT]

gotta let it happen naturally ☯️

[@Christian-gd4gf]

yep:)

[@jakecunliffe3814]

How man been tryna let it happen naturally for 3 years now

[@ProdByXorak]

@@jakecunliffe3814 put yourself out there

[@BreadOfChrist]

i believe it takes time for every man to build his masculine frame and understand what it means to love himself and respect himself. we all been through the simping stages, they suck but there’s light at the end of the tunnel. 🌅🙏🏼

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

Tj spreading facts👑

[@JordanGreenYT]

gotta learn from your mistakes ✊🏾

[@prosperity144]

Tj keep speaking facts

[@BreadOfChrist]

@@prosperity144 ♾🤍 that’s what i do bro 😌

[@prosperity144]

@@BreadOfChrist 🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@care4rami]

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. Leave the past in the past and KEEP MOVING FORWARD ⚔️

[@BreadOfChrist]

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! 🙏🏼🗣

[@JordanGreenYT]

👑👑

[@VerifiedDiscipline]

@@BreadOfChrist 💯

[@ItsSonder]

"If you set your goals ridiculously high and it's a failure, you will fail above everyone else's success." 💯👑

[@officialjw5244]

🤘🏽

[@JordanGreenYT]

thats a cold ass quote bro

[@ronin7766]

When I was simpin, I was the one contacting the girls and was begging them to have them as a girlfriend, and still to this day Never had Girlfriend. But now I understand that I need to focus on myself

[@JordanGreenYT]

weve all been there bro. gotta focus on yourself and simp for your purpose

[@ronin7766]

@@JordanGreenYT i like the way you think💡. We should all do that, but sadly p*rn,social media and the lack of proper parenting has blinded us from our vision and this left us blind🙈

[@ItsSonder]

Sending positive energy to everyone reading this 💯👑

[@JordanGreenYT]

☯️

[@BreadOfChrist]

the bag never broke a man’s heart tho 💼

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

Dang that’s a W🗣

[@JordanGreenYT]

🗣

[@trillahypertrill]

Underrated comment

[@pnsmcfluffyvantickle6374]

Yo tj bro. Nobody actually cares what you gotta say

[@cinder1989]

im getting that tattooed on me

[@choppawontmiss7065]

I feel like going through the simping stage is the best thing to become a better person, it teaches you a lot

[@choppawontmiss7065]

One of the best things*

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

This is so true💯

[@JordanGreenYT]

it gives you all the traits for success, you just have to redirect your focus

[@BreadOfChrist]

self respect is everything, 🌅🗣

[@JordanGreenYT]

as within, so without ☯️

[@anisvalimbe5480]

The simp days are just a first stage of a man's self improvement journey.

[@shoxggz645]

Bro ngl I lost it when you said you wrote a poem and sent it 💀

[@juanmartin7902]

I don’t know why I relate to you so much brother. Your like my lost twin because my life is basically what you explained

[@NathanPrice6]

"Hall of Fame, All the Badges, 99 Overall." -Jordan Green speaking on his simping, 2021

[@angads.5093]

lmao hahahahahahahhaa

[@prod.MRBLOXY]

When Jordan mentioned that he waited for her to be ready it gave me flashbacks of me doing the exact same thing and like he said get your feelings hurt. Thankfully that relationship allowed me to take care of myself after we distanced ourselves from each other for good instead of wasting my energy on stuff that wont be helpful in the future, I'm still progressing/learning since the start of July. If that never happened I would still be down terrible.

[@JordanGreenYT]

when you decide to wait on someone else, youre actually waiting for your own love and validation. the moment you decide to give those things to yourself, you will realize that its time to move on for good

[@calebavenue9204]

Nofap day 37 Finally got out of the flatline, I’m feeling fantastic, never going back to pmo.

[@JordanGreenYT]

YESSIRRR 💪🏾 you love to see it

[@NathanPrice6]

👑👑

[@brycewilson6942]

We’ve all been through our simping stage😔 it’s a rite of passage

[@JordanGreenYT]

except for bryce wilson. he been pimpin since day 1 👑

[@ralphcantswim]

thank you jordan for allowing me to look inward on the past with you during this video … everything will be amazing in hindsight

[@JordanGreenYT]

i appreciate you bro! we in this together 💪🏾

[@consciousandaware]

Every man fights lust. It’s a on going battle but never give up on yourself

[@JordanGreenYT]

NEVER give up on yourself 👑

[@jmurillo7922]

I recently got my heartbroken. I met this girl in school we instally clicked. Went on 3 dates, but then she left to Mexico. I started to get really anxious I felt like I needed her. That was my fault and I realized this now. I been moving forward with my head up high. Constantly painting everyday trying to reconstruct myself. I'm grateful that this happened. I've never been so fulfilled with myself before.

[@BahubaliKota]

My simping days are always fun to look back at and laugh 🤣. 5 years of being a major simp taught me a lot

[@JordanGreenYT]

its funny in hindsight, but i was in distress at the time 😂

[@xmanofficial]

You sound like a very intelligent person when you talk, not a lot of (like’s or um’s) just very straight forward without stuttering🔥

[@BreadOfChrist]

make yourself the priority. 👑

[@JordanGreenYT]

👑👑

[@BrattyBiker]

You are younger to me but truly an inspiration for me. Loved this girl, got rejected & friendzoned. Still kept in touch with her like a simp. I have stopped and this video really helps me to keep going!

[@mundea]

you have to watch the 7 minute ads about flirting for this man, giving us the free 30min elite content

[@JordanGreenYT]

bro they gave me a 33 minute ad on my OWN VIDEO 😭

[@coastercraziness]

@@JordanGreenYT yo that’s actually sad 😂

[@JAPHETMB]

Every guy has simped and if they say they haven't then they're cappin. Simping is lowkey good, it helps us grow and teach us to place our attention onto ourselves

[@JordanGreenYT]

it gives you hella perspective about yourself and about life in general. never force things to happen

[@user-lb1fl7sh8m]

@@JordanGreenYT You gave too much knowledge in this video ! But nothing with stay with you if you guys dont go out live it by your selfs ! Great video

[@justgpods578]

“Pain breeds growth” my man!! 👏🏼👏🏼 very wise words from one so young..keep up the good work bro 👊🏽

[@iawginy]

dude your girl 3 experience was so similar to my recent experience. but in my case she lied and ghosted. And that really did broke me and made me learn. Glad we all have learnt something from these experiences. for those reading, understand this. We allowed these people to do this to us because we disrespected ourselves. If we would have respected ourselves, there is no way these people can hurt us like that. take note fellas. stay strong.

[@loonersx7303]

2:40 I can relate to this bro 100% In high school, i got little to no female attention and even when I did I sabotaged it because I didn’t know my worth which made me scared of those situations. I am still working on my confidence to this day, but ever since high school I have glowed up physically. I can very much relate to this bro I went through that💯

[@khaleesi_cosima]

From a woman’s perspective, this video is very refreshing. Most “simp” videos/blogs come to the conclusion that women are the enemy and men are victims, which just over simplifies this issue. I’ve had a guy, who I genuinely liked as a person, tell me he loved me after just TWO dates and it genuinely disturbed me, so I stopped talking to him. He tried getting in contact with me for months afterwards by calling me and leaving voicemails. Eventually he gave up. I hope he’s doing better now. I 100% agree that what helps people who chase after those who clearly don’t reciprocate is learning self respect and focusing on yourself. It really helped me when I chased after guys. Redirect your passion into something more productive and positive ❤️

[@kieran.c7684]

Watching your videos has made me realize that it’s not about being born physically attractive or naturally being a good person. I think it’s about self-care and being the best person you could be. Thank you for everything Jordan🙏

[@cboydmotley]

Great message! Glad you learned this early on...other of us are still recovering after being stuck in the "Simp-Zone" 😭

[@user-wg4qq7tr8z]

This is so helpful, so we don’t repeat this kind of errors that everyone is prone to make

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

“The only time you fail is when you fall down and stay down.”🗣

[@JordanGreenYT]

💪🏾

[@bluebutterfly4296]

Perception is like putting on a pair of glasses. Mind and energy creates the life you want and who you want cause that same exact person will do the same. Proud of your evolution brother

[@lightning7903]

I was laughing hysterically the first 2 min thinking about how I was literally just going above and beyond for her to just get a response. She told me that I might have a chance to date her and I took it and went with it. I quit while I was ahead tho thankfully.

[@riot2465]

You gotta know when to quit fr

[@maximoalonso9033]

Focus on yourself 🙌🏽 all love and positive vibes 🗣️ stay locked in 🔒

[@JordanGreenYT]

thats what its all about bro! gotta stay focused and stay positive 👑

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

I think we can all relate with the simp days😂

[@JordanGreenYT]

part of the process bro 🤣

[@tomanwatson4572]

Jordan I refuse to believe you sent a girl poetry 😭😭

[@icemans1matedude339]

Not gonna stop working on myself… it’s because I want to focus so much on myself that i forfeit the ability to develop a relationship. Its just not important enough to prioritize.

[@hoksicala]

young stratz

[@OutxfOrder]

just found your channel today but I've been nonstop binge watching your videos. This video especially I relate to entirely. Pretty much every example you gave is something I have also personally experienced or done. I even caught myself almost simping today but realized how wasteful of energy and time it is but nevertheless you explained everything perfectly.

[@LetsDoSocialWork]

You were a chief of simps man... Glad you learnt your lesson/s!

[@aFinessing]

When Jordan said she’s doing me a favour for ghosting me my mind said Jordan is doing me a favour by making these goated videos

[@ben-eu2yt]

not gonna lie i found some of the things you did pretty hilarious but you really ended up making the video inspiring af at the end. big up you for having the balls to show your failures bro! anyone with any character can only respect anyone willing to be vulnerable to help others that may need it!

[@IJK-444]

Waiting on somebody and having that sense of "faith" will undoubtedly waste your time more than anything else.

[@bravejonah]

Well you have to work hard to gain that faith. Faith without works is dead

[@theofficialdartmonkey6585]

I truly understand this man, thank you for spreading your knowledge 🙏🏼

[@dylanmatt210]

Make a video explaining the different dating stages! Taking stage, etc…

[@cordlesstuba223]

I've very much gotten into retrospection in terms of myself, as well as using manifestation to my full advantage. you just gotta get over the simping days and evolve♾

[@JordanGreenYT]

the simping days never ended; i just started simping for my purpose instead

[@cordlesstuba223]

@@JordanGreenYT absolute heat🔥👑

[@ayooian]

i’ve never heard so much game and felt so much resonance w me in one video. ily jordan

[@tonibojones]

I’m doing super NNN challenge and even tho it starts tomorrow, one of the rules is to watch every video I start watching till the end. I opened yours to see it’s about 30 mins long and thought - well, let’s start that challenge now and I’m glad I did. Thank you for the great inside Jordan! 🙌🏽❤️

[@Gian-jk9hf]

Jordan, I felt everything you said. Some of your experiences with these girls,. They were very similar to the ones I had, now I'm 17 and a promising future I want to focus on college and myself. I want to lead a full life and when I am in commitment to myself share it with another person who really supports me in all aspects. KEEP GOING BROO YOURE INSPIRING OTHER YOUNG PEOPLE!!! ❤️🤟🏾

[@lauraslanesvanlifetravels]

I'm sorry I'm leaving so many comments I don't even know if you ever read this but what you said at the very end is on point about switching that energy from that person who will not give you the commitment you're looking for into committing to yourself and success on your projects like KZbin...that's exactly what I'm doing!

[@bluebutterfly4296]

Relationship are magnets! A journey that should never be informative.

[@King-ij8ee]

This video was so informative tho. The "simp" issue wasn't even the focus. The focus is the true strive for something. And I absolutely loved how you explained that. You have to learn when something isn't yours and when something can be yours and how to go about it. It's the ability to be enterprising and be flexible for change. Not 'taking a no for answer' in the productive light is about being able to persist a turn down with smarts - not stubbornness and unwillingness to respect the flow. You have a tremendous capability to become a speaker. You had my full attention throughout this video. And thank you for not only being vulnerable but also extremely transparent and straightforward with something most people never want to admit to or talk about. Life is a lesson that needs to be learned. I say yes to more humans like you. Cheers!

[@dannyboy2463]

Thank you again for this free therapy session 🙏

[@JordanGreenYT]

thanks for attending 👑

[@tui_brah4347]

Damn this channel is so relatable! appreciate it my guy

[@iscreamloyalty887]

We all go through the simping stage in order to learn what is right and wrong 💯

[@sha1927]

“I put my pride to the side” lmao😩😭😭

[@erik3272]

Ladies, good men still exist.

[@Julian_Bertsch]

Kinda reminds me of when I deeply fell in love for this girl once and after she told me she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore I would try to do anything just to get her back...🤦🏼‍♂️ looking back I figured I learned a great lesson from that time and I will do better in the future

[@JD-yp1io]

Damn, Jordan I am greatful that you got out of that simping stage!

[@JordanGreenYT]

not as grateful as i am bro 😂

[@JD-yp1io]

@@JordanGreenYT 😂

[@sophisitcated1194]

I'm sorry. This is crazy. I always felt attractive ppl had it made. I figured you can get pretty much what you want. Wow! So attractive is more of a mindset then, I guess. Thanks for your honesty. You must really have done the work on yourself bc a high-school aged guy or younger would never air themselves out. Reaching this level of confidence takes work. Congrats Mr. GREEN.

[@trillahypertrill]

Everyone was once a simp

[@jaydonjacobs3031]

I'm literally going through one of those situations now. 😪 Such a good video glad I watched it

[@BreadOfChrist]

respect yourself and others will respect you. 🗣👀

[@mystikgleam9541]

I’m so glad I’m subscribed because I swear we are similar in a lot of experiences and personality

[@wilmomerino9604]

Thanks for sharing your experience. I didn't have my simping experience with the first few girls I talked to but with the most recent girl I caught feelings but she didn't feel the same and I made the mistake of waiting for her and trying to be friends with her until something happened. It definitely was a learning experience and I am feeling a lot better now that we have not communicated for a few weeks

[@Musashiditlapathere]

Did that mistake too it's really humbling 😭😂

[@RealJayMelon]

Yeah lol I was in the same situation. I look back it’s hilarious but during that time I was down atrocious

[@lauraslanesvanlifetravels]

It took me a long time to realize.. yeah never ever wait for anybody... Especially when you're caught up with somebody who is a drug user seems like an obvious thing but once you're in and you don't realize that they're on that drug it's very hard to entrench yourself out of it. 🙄 But I am finally free.

[@Julian_Bertsch]

I was literally so relieved when you said you didn’t pick this one girl up because she needed money 😂

[@Buupis]

makes me think about when i simped for this girl for a year straight (I was Down Down Bad)

[@georgisemerdzhiev6565]

It does get better, brother, it just does. 3 years ago I was pretty bad down too, chasing a girl for 4 months and then trying to let it go for another 7-8 months. Looking back, I'm really grateful for the lessons and for the eye-opener.

[@JordanGreenYT]

its tough bro. you just have to redirect that energy

[@patrickhill6510]

Dang bro its crazy because all 4 scenarios you went through I literally went through the exact same way. Its tough but yeah I agree I am thankful to have experienced them at such an early age (23) rather than later. Every time each scenario happens its like you said, you learn to redirect all that intensity/drive/energy into the goals you are chasing, turns you into a purpose- animal lol. Preciate you bro!

[@chadmyles-theclevelandcyclist]

Imagine being 44 years old and not knowing all this stuff about dating. So glad I swore off women years ago and chose to be content with being alone.

[@inspiredByFlorian]

i respect you a lot ma men

[@JordanGreenYT]

i appreciate you bro 💪🏾

[@inspiredByFlorian]

@@JordanGreenYT I wish there were more smart people like you

[@Anon-tt9rz]

Almost all of your "I don't know why I did that" can be answered by - not understanding the concept of self respect or dignity, but you're aware of it now, so it's all good, live and learn.

[@mundea]

Mr. Built different back again 🤝😎

[@JordanGreenYT]

you know the vibes 💪🏾

[@natewiles3782]

thank you i’m in a situation with this girl and this has made me see that it all is not worth it so thank you you a real one my g

[@chaunceyharris5993]

Much respect JG💯

[@landsurfer3313]

I totally feel you, you got guts making light of this as a lesson.

[@be5608]

The shift from simp to masculine dude comes from crazy love gone wrong. Who said that the change would be easy?

[@amiablepluto1660]

We all got a simpin story, glad u shared yours and it will help ppl share theres. W vid and everyone if u got something on your chest share it with someone or write in a journal. Pin pls

[@JordanGreenYT]

already pinned an earlier comment 😔 but its definitely good to express yourself

[@amiablepluto1660]

@@JordanGreenYT it is indeed no worries 😄😄😄 Have a great day man

[@giana6068]

30 min vid again??? lets go

[@JordanGreenYT]

you already know 💪🏾

[@marmar8671]

Ayeee I’m hyped. I remember you mentioning this video in the stream yesterday. Highly anticipated video.💯

[@JordanGreenYT]

one of my favorite videos so far ✊🏾

[@LindormAce]

Baby are you down down down down - jay sean

[@lepancho8122]

You’re a wise man, sir. Love your energy, love your videos. Keep it up 💜

[@cyber6sapien]

EXCELLENT video!! Had to subscribe after watching this! Well done bro!

[@ardithyseni9042]

LET'S TRANSMUTE THE SIMPING ENERGY AND DIRECT IT ALL IN OUR SELVES !!!!! DON'T E V E R LET A GIRL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE UNWORTHY💪💪💪

[@kervensjules9698]

You literally just explain my whole life bro what the exact same history 🤕

[@ralphcantswim]

march 2020 i would’ve been up there too the past isn’t what makes you it’s all about you rn Crazy how in a year you can overcome anything and become everything you wanna be🧛🏻‍♀️🧛🏻‍♀️😸😸

[@JordanGreenYT]

we had to level up 📈

[@ralphcantswim]

@@JordanGreenYT n there are no ceilings

[@arriebatiste5601]

This is my first video of yours. I love your content. I think there should be way more guys on KZbin making content like this. Subscribed!

[@UGPVlogsLA]

Jordan, I've been binge watching your videos all night! What a smart, handsome young man you are!! Do you ever watch any videos by Jordan Peterson?

[@deepansharya1111]

This is definitely in one of my favourite videos

[@worldwidegameboy56]

Great vid bro!🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@davidvasconcellos6858]

It's good that you had the confidence in yourself to overcome that adversity!!!