I am going to stop feeling guilty about the mistakes that I made in my life and I'm going to stop trying to punish myself for those mistakes.
@lisaottomann23964 жыл бұрын
This is a real good one!!
@sassysandie28654 жыл бұрын
I am going to start focusing on what I have instead of what I don’t have.
@lisaottomann23964 жыл бұрын
Yes! Perfect... I do that- I don’t wish for things that I can’t have, or don’t need anymore in my life. I’m happier with less
@neesargon34974 жыл бұрын
Some good common sense there. I am a decade older than you and I would add . . . don't worry about things that you can do nothing about.
@linricks36344 жыл бұрын
I hadn't realised that until watching this, that I haven't stopped anything. I am 70 in a few days, and I decided I will sell my car and buy a van, I can build a bed and cupboards and fit it out how I want . then I am going to travel my country, become what we call in Australia a grey nomad. I will still keep my unit because I want to be warm in winter and stay home in our very hot summers with my aircon. my kids think I a hippy, well I guess I am. and happy with my life.
@carmenwheatley73164 жыл бұрын
Happy travels. I want to do that when I get to retirement age.
@irenadziovaliene70824 жыл бұрын
I’m jealous! You are so brave and free spirit! Wish you the best👍
@simpletasty13304 жыл бұрын
Awesome plan! Wish you the best!
@cyana58673 жыл бұрын
That’s great!
@lynnthompson55274 жыл бұрын
Letting go of toxic friendships has been the most liberating thing for me. START spending time only with the people who lift you up and encourage you. It’s life changing.
@micheleann60994 жыл бұрын
Thank you, for your comment! I am in the midst of this right now, and I am having a hard time with it.
@lauracicero-miller32384 жыл бұрын
Did the same thing and lost 50 lbs! No kidding, get rid of them nasty mean was ole bitchs
@lauracicero-miller32384 жыл бұрын
@@micheleann6099 it's not to say I didn't have a hard time with it. These we're friends I had for 40 years ! I only now understand now that they were my jailers,but ... I have the key! Free your self, get rid of them.
@juliecopelandbarrows29714 жыл бұрын
I am doing that now. It is so freeing!
@micheleann60994 жыл бұрын
Wise words, from you ladies! Thank you and God bless!
@rgmm88884 жыл бұрын
I will start looking at me with kindness!! I will stop being mean to me!! I am worthy!! Thank you 😊
@lynnpagac97814 жыл бұрын
I love everything you said. GREAT ideas. What I'm going to start is this:embracing my age of 69. I worry a little too much over all the aging changes and what time I have left etc. etc. I want to work on embracing, loving, and taking in every moment. I absolutely love and adore retirement, but now it's time to embrace every moment of it. Thank you for all of your inspiring words if wisdom!!
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Embracing every moment is a wonderful intention for the new year! Wishing you lots of happiness this holiday season!
@marciamusiak41034 жыл бұрын
great advice. I am a classic people pleaser, at 73 I will sparkle, I promise I will sparkle
@helengibson81964 жыл бұрын
I love your inspiration. I've given up alcohol this year - 3.5 months alcohol free. Next up...getting healthy
@angelwilder23784 жыл бұрын
Helen Gibson Good for you Helen!
@marywilliams98584 жыл бұрын
Goody!
@silkie094 жыл бұрын
Helen Gibson Well done, one hour after the other, one day after the other - you are an inspiration!
@helengibson81964 жыл бұрын
@@silkie09 thank you!
@helengibson81964 жыл бұрын
@@angelwilder2378 thanks :)
@laurayale3694 жыл бұрын
At 62, I started playing my first musical instrument -- the violin. And I have found it very meditative,
@daleandcolleen40594 жыл бұрын
Hi my name is Colleen and I am 62. I have been living like I am on the down slope of life. As if I had to get everything finished and resolved. Margaret I love listening to you, there is that spark that makes me smile. Today, your presentation/video is exactly what I have been trying to put into words and put into some kind of order to make sense of it all. I work online as a digital business mentor and coach. Because of my work I am alone much of the time. You have helped me put a few things into perspective. Thank you, I am very grateful and thank full for you today! My take away today is that I now have a map to help me wake up and be ‘in’ my 60’s.
@lisaottomann23964 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Colleen, I really needed to hear this today, seems to have given me a spark of fun n hope
@rachelblackmon20474 жыл бұрын
I'm going to start looking more pleasant and thinking more positive laughing more smiling enjoying who I am I'm a great person
@brendacarroll68334 жыл бұрын
I have started encouraging my daughter in law, I love her dearly. And so now I tell her so, and tell her how she is such a wonderful woman, wife and mother. I let her know she is enough ! I tell her how Much she has improved my life because she is in it.
@Chris-tg3qy4 жыл бұрын
That is a beautiful comment.
@karaa75954 жыл бұрын
My own mom wouldn't even do this to me. She is very blessed.
@BlueSkies34 жыл бұрын
@@karaa7595 maybe no one told your mother those things either...try to tell yourself the wonderful things that are true about you. I've learned this is what I have to do for myself too. May you be blessed.
@margaretgerth10674 жыл бұрын
I am having breast cancer surgery on New Year’s Eve., so I am going to start being healthy!
@carolefox65534 жыл бұрын
Margaret, I did too many years ago. Ask your doctor to refer you to a dietitian to help you get on the right path. I think you'll find the appointment will be really helpful, and hopeful. I'll pray for your fast recovery.
@shawn56324 жыл бұрын
Wishing you a great recovery and health.
@ginnylangpap41704 жыл бұрын
Margaret, I hope you feel you have a network of women thru Sixty and Me who are with you on this journey and are here for you. Wishing you a healthy and speedy recovery.
@wandadavis80254 жыл бұрын
Margaret Gerth Best of luck to you on your journey. I’m with you on the direction you’re taking with your health. I had breast cancer surgery in September and finished radiation a month ago. I’m doing the same as you with my health.
@karenlowes78024 жыл бұрын
Good wishes for a successful surgery and healing!💕
@carmenirizarry76324 жыл бұрын
I’m going to start being Happy!
@Secular-Serenity4 жыл бұрын
I will continue to speak up about my true self instead of keeping quiet so I don’t offend anyone.
@Soapandwater64 жыл бұрын
I would really like to do that, but it would cost me my loved ones. :(
@rdlewis36164 жыл бұрын
Karen if not now, when? That is what I have decided. Live for today.
@coolwindinmyhair...50944 жыл бұрын
I have found that setting boundaries is paramount, however, it isn't necessary to speak out with opinion or advice and is not advised unless someone reaches out to you for it. I have discovered this the hard way, and lost a sister who was losing herself, not realizing that I couldn't save her from herself, but I thought I could save her. Though I feel that I had to try.
@PDogB4 жыл бұрын
That's funny. I am the opposite. I will continue to keep quiet so as not to offend anyone. This way I can avoid confrontations,disagreements, conflict,etc. I feel I am more open minded,thoughtful, diplomatic and less likely to make snap judgements than I used to be.
@bctbbarlson2314 жыл бұрын
LOVELY!!!!! SO NICE TO HEAR YOUR ENGLISH VOICE MY DEAR. I LEFT LONDON IN 1952 AND STILL HAVE MY BRITISH ACCENT, OF WHICH I AM VERY PROUD. I MEET FEW BRITS, BUT LOVE THE ENGLISH MENTALITY, WHEN I DO....SO. POLITE, EMPATHETIC, FRIENDLY AND UNDERSTANDING, A GREAT JOY ALWAYS....A N D... SO I SEND MY WARMEST CHRISTMAS GREETINGS TO YOU. YOU ARE INDEED A PLEASURE TO ALL OF US.... AND ......I LOVE TO BE ALONE AT CHRISTMAS....I CAN REFLECT AND THINK OF MY BELOVED HUSBAND AND MY DARLING DAUGHTER WHOm I LOST LAST JANUARY TO CANCER...MY FAMILY ARE NOW FEW AND FAR AWAY, BUT WE ARE VERY CLOSE, AND KEEP IN TOUCH ALMOST EVERY FEW DAYS...SO THE LOVE NEVER CEASES....But I am alone and that;s fine with me....I make the best of life...Happy Christmas to you dear friend. I AM NOW 88 1/2 AND AM AS FASHIONABLE AS I ALWAYS WAS!!!! LOVE IT!!!! Hahaha! I honestly love to be alone at Christmas, and reflect on those happy memories I have.I am not sad at all.....I LOVE my time alone, and look forward to the new year immensely.God bless you and yours. You are my Mince pie and sausage rolls connection. My Mum too!!!!! used to make them, and we put sixpenny pieces in the Christmas puds she made......Happy days....even the War days.... Happy Christmas everybody💋💋💋💋🌲🇬🇧🇨🇭🇺🇸
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your lovely reply and comments. Wishing you a very Happy Christmas and New Year. :-)
@shawn56324 жыл бұрын
I love this channel and you!!! One of the things that I started to do was to forgive .I'm 62. Five years ago my marriage blew up and it nearly destroyed me. It was the most deep hurt I had ever experienced, but out of that experience came an amazing transformation personally and in my marriage. I believe that when we truly have peace and joy inside of us, we will shine that to others. Developing true self love will create a desire to treat yourself in healthy ways to include embracing our age with grace. After going through the long process of forgiving my husband ( I did a LOT of research and self work), I now forgive very quickly and easily and it is very freeing and that is just one of the great things about getting older. Also stopped highlighting my hair, use only natural products on my body, buy good jeans that hug my body, well made bras, a daily art practice and the gym daily to keep strong.
@annalassen34684 жыл бұрын
shawn I also experienced a deep hurt and disappointment two years ago. I married for the first time at the age of 58 and thought I had chosen wisely only to find out that there are no guarantees in life, obviously, but the betrayal left me devastated and I am only now two years later ready to forgive. But I will never forgive again. What is it that give people the power to take away parts of you and leave you in distress for months/years ? I guess you can blame yourself for being naive and trustworthy. So without loosing myself, I salute the “stop the pleasing” and start doing what I want.
@pattiallen11154 жыл бұрын
Dear Anna, I can relate...I was terribly hurt and can't even talk to a family member because of betrayal. I have forgiven her, but just had to move on from the toxic state she is in....I pray for her daily and do love and miss her.
@shawn56324 жыл бұрын
@@annalassen3468 Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I totally agree about to start doing what you want, feeling empowered!
@franpatzcraig67132 жыл бұрын
@@pattiallen1115 You make a good point here. Forgiveness doesn't necessarily require reestablishing the relationship, but with toxic people it could mean severing the tie to the person but also letting go of the hurt, the resentment, the desire for revenge. These can keep you tied to that toxic relationship even if you never see the person again. They live in your mind!! They steal your joy!! They drag you down!! Let it all go and start to live. (By the way, I'm 80 next month. It's taken me a long time to learn to do this, but I hope I have some more years to learn to let the joy in!)
@patriciawestfall65294 жыл бұрын
The red sweater with the necklace are so beautiful on you!!
@RetireCertain4 жыл бұрын
I've stopped saying "I should have". It changed my life. Happy holidays!
@keweldogpdx4 жыл бұрын
I am going to start getting rid of EVERYTHING I rarely or never use and declutter every inch of my whole house!!
@suegreenland59893 жыл бұрын
Follow jashua becker channel
@audreyrichmond4123 жыл бұрын
I spent much of last winter doing that to the house we just sold and so far, I don’t miss a thing, especially the upkeep. 😎♥️
@rosalynne87923 жыл бұрын
YES....have started that too...am sick of sooo much stuff!!!...yes..seen the clips from Joshua and other minimalists...like them but not going as far as them. And...I wear black all the time..and love It!.
@facingthefifties4 жыл бұрын
I’m right with you on the “stop buying black” and “start sparkling”! Those would be my two intentions for this year. By the way, you are stunning in that sweater and colorful necklace!
@lavonnecarrick22384 жыл бұрын
This has been a challenge for me too. I love black but it doesn’t work as well as it used to. It is a challenge to find beautiful colored clothes. I started to sew again so I could make beautiful clothes with color. I’m certainly not a pro but I can do some simple pieces for myself.
@irenadziovaliene70824 жыл бұрын
I agree! Somehow spontaneously I started to avoid black clothes and even can’t wear my favourite black hat 🤭
@lifetobelived91024 жыл бұрын
I joke that I had a Johnny Cash wardrobe. I realized at some point almost all my clothes were either black or dark blue.
@janebute25414 жыл бұрын
I AM going to stop wasting money.
@jainthorne41364 жыл бұрын
I'm three days away from completing a no spend year. January and February required constant thought to overcome careless spending habits. By March it was much easier and now it's just second nature. I started my no spend year as an interesting experiment but I've loved the results. It's been an amazing year. And I didn't start it for this reason but I'm now debt free. It's wonderful.
@janebute25414 жыл бұрын
@@jainthorne4136 tell me what you did spend on please !! Food, utilities, rent only? I have to allow for pet food. But explain!! I really am going to try this. TY so much. Happy New year.
@coolwindinmyhair...50944 жыл бұрын
Me too! My pre spending question will be, "can I live without this..." I do have enough stuff.
@AgeIsJustANumber4 жыл бұрын
As women we come in all sizes and shapes, curvy, fluffy etc....embrace it! As a personal stylist I suggest that you should dress to your body...learn what works for your shape. Last year when I turned 60, I decided to be sixty and sensational.....and leave a trail of glitter (and sparkle) in all aspects in my life. I jumped out there recently and started my KZbin channel, I stopped talking about it and did it! Margaret, you are such an inspiration to me!
@mittsma4 жыл бұрын
I just watched your video on styling joggers for the holidays, and enjoyed it so much I subscribed!!!!!
@dawnstonerock8844 жыл бұрын
Age Is Just A Number by Barbara Jean gonna join your channel!
@annawimpey53074 жыл бұрын
I really believe that you are as old as a you feel. So take good care of yourself.
@TJSawyer4 жыл бұрын
I began weight lifting at age 69 and I love it!
@sjp4u3384 жыл бұрын
TJSawyer have you been able to build any muscle?
@TJSawyer4 жыл бұрын
DMT CM9035 -definitely. I can dead lift 232 lbs, back squat 125 lbs and bench 102 lbs. only been lifting for 10 months and I’ve increased my maximums steadily. Goal is to deadlift at least 250 lbs.
@aartmark4 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and I'm going to really try to stop the unnecessary groaning ever time I get up from doing something on my knees. It just reinforces the feeling of getting old.
@milankatz96284 жыл бұрын
aartmark Good advice!
@scruffy2814 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one that this bothered. My husband moans and groans and huffs and puffs every time he has to wipe something off the floor. It drives me nuts! I agree. It is so annoying and it doesn't help anything.
@teebirds71524 жыл бұрын
Love this post. You look fabulous and I would never have guessed you're 71. Merry Christmas to you and everyone in this wonderful community.
@jt71294 жыл бұрын
In going to start stopping over- thinking and worrying. 🌷
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
good plan!
@laurawalker5464 жыл бұрын
I need to wear more of my jewelry collection... so much stuff and I never wear these things. It's sad! And it's a waste!
@karenlowes78024 жыл бұрын
Absolutely me as well!
@sincerelylavender61474 жыл бұрын
You should! Wear the jewelry for yourself. Never too old to make yourself happy😀😀😀
@jackiemccarthy68844 жыл бұрын
I’m going to start being me...not what people expect me to be! You are a beautiful woman. Thanks for this video. Happy New Year to everyone!
@lynnducker4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to start loving myself enough to eat and live healthy.
@wandaborgerding15644 жыл бұрын
I turn 65 on my next birthday. I am a first time Grandmother andI love my life. 2 great kids, 1 loving hubby and I WENT BLONDE!
@angelwilder23784 жыл бұрын
Lynn Ducker I have a dog and I take better care of her health and diet than I do my own. So I am going to start treating myself as well as I treat my dog. This will be tough as I LOVE my dog, but I will do my best! I once heard that if you are going to make a change you should tell other people. So I will tell my family about this tomorrow as we will all be together.
@sharonmardis49204 жыл бұрын
I'm going to start accepting invitations even if i won't know anyone there. Feal the fear and do it anyway. I'm going to be the fearless giel that I've lost
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
That is a wonderful thing to start Sharon!! You never know what doors it is going to open!
@shawn56324 жыл бұрын
Yes! Get the fearless gal back! Then you will think of other ways you can be fearless. We often lose our true connection to ourselves due to all of our roles,marriage, children working etc. Now is the time.
@virgierutledge30044 жыл бұрын
Yes, a rule I have is always go where you are invited. Surprise. Make others feel important. If I have an event and invite people, I hope they come, some do not because I am not important enough.
@carollandis18994 жыл бұрын
I'm going to stop worrying so much about outward appearances. Today I was so busy with packing for a move that I ignored my hair and makeup. I felt free in my anonymity and I didn't care what anyone thought about how I looked.
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hi Carol, how're you doing?
@csasiong4 жыл бұрын
I agree with most of what you said. I am 71, and have been taking ballroom dance lessons since I retired 5 years ago. I embrace my age, in fact, I am grateful every morning I awaken. Not too many are that blessed. There are 2 words I would like erased from the dictionary and in everyone’s vocabulary: Anti aging! There’s no such thing, ladies, please spread the word! 🙏😍👏🏻
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hi Connie, how're you doing?
@dianebergschneider40284 жыл бұрын
I also don't judge my adult children for the things or ways they live their lives....
@bettinaheilman234 жыл бұрын
Diane Bergschneider agreed
@9liveslisa4 жыл бұрын
I'm 63 and have been retired for 3 years. The biggest thing I've stopped doing is wearing makeup and I'll tell you why. If you paint a wall in your house, then the other 3 walls will look crappy. I want people to see me sans makeup and get used to all the wrinkles and age spots etc. I only wear a little neutral lipstick or stain if I go out. It's also helping me accept my aging self because when I wash my face I still look like me afterwards. No huge contrast from makeup to no makeup. That can be scary! I think it makes me more genuine and it helps me accept and love the real me, not the painted up me. I also quit coloring my hair a forty year old's color I've colored my hair since I was 18 and I still get my hair done every six weeks, but my stylist is blending different gray highlights and sometimes for fun she'll even throw in a little blue or purple. We have fun with it, but I didn't want a stark contrast from my hair color and aging skin. And lastly, I don't put up with people's expectations and nonsense. I've always marched to my own drummer, but I don't have to say yes to every request and I like that my time is my own now. I've paid my dues to the rest of the world and this time is mine. I've earned it.
@macgurrl4 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Page Great comment! I am with you all the way. When I went into peri menopause I basically lost my eyelashes and stopped wearing makeup. Now that I am in full menopause there is no way I am going to wear makeup and have it sweat off my face. I also had hair down to the middle of my back 5 years ago and cut it all off, and never regretted it and never felt so free. I feel when you aren’t a slave to your face and hair there more time for more creative endeavours.
@susanmurrell6354 жыл бұрын
Dear Margaret.....your energy and spirit just shone through this entire video....it was quite inspiring and stimulating......it makes me want to move on with my life but I have had alot to deal with this whole past year. May need another knee replacement after just 3 yrs. because of injuries in a car accident 1 yr. ago next week. The various injuries, PT, acupuncture and daily pain have been taking up all of my time, and physical and emotional energy. I need to get past this, hopefully in this new year, so I can move forward with doing things I enjoy....hiking, bike riding, snow shoeing, and trying out what were new cross country skiis I bought just before this accident. Orthopedist thinks this has probably messed up my knee prosthesis which may very likely mean another knee replacement and will get results of a scan probably tomorrow. There's so much I need to do..... declutter and plane on figuring out if I will be able to keep my house and/or buy a tiny house in the country where I would live. My physical treatments and winning this accident related lawsuit both have to be done with before I can relocate and make practical plans for my future, let alone what I will say " no" to or "yes" to and what I will do in my life. None of this was my fault and it has robbed me of 2019.....including 2 part-time jobs......don't know how much it will take of 2020. And I'll be 69 the middle of next month! I know people have worse health problems, but life is short for all of us and I'm getting angry and depressed from the pain and all my lost time spent going to various treatments.....now adding chiropractic and therapy for the depression from pain and breaking up from a (narcissistic) relationship of 5yrs. I will try and keep you and the content of this video as my inspiration to keep pushing forward and get my life back. Thank you for your positive energy and good vibrations. Merry Christmas and a happy and healthy New Year !
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hello, how're you doing.
@linebrunelle1004 Жыл бұрын
Hi Roland. How's this working out for you?
@estherpowell23724 жыл бұрын
I am going to start taking care of me ! With 6 children it is so ingrained in me to put everyone else first that there is often nothing left for me. Even now that they are grown, it is difficult to shake off that mindset. It's the year of me 🙂
@micheleann60994 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@debbebranciforte37314 жыл бұрын
I’m going to start living. 2019 was not a good year and I want 2020 to “Sparkle “. This wasps inspirational for me. Thank you 😉
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hi Debbe ,how're you doing?
@cathyecooper43764 жыл бұрын
I am a ppl pleaser..I have already began the process to stop. I've been a widow for two years now and very, very lonely ~ soooo I would like to start being intentional about reaching out to others to do things🤔
@mom2maxangie8674 жыл бұрын
Love this Margaret! Among other things I am going to stop the regrets. They pointlessly suck the joy out of memories and the life out of today. I will focus on today and make sure I'm not creating potential regret fodder for tomorrow. Sparkle on!
@dianneschoenberg46814 жыл бұрын
I just recently began using concealer and honestly have hated it! Seems to accentuate wrinkles under my eyes. I’m stopping it now. I’m 51 but really enjoy your channel and choose to sparkle now!
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dianne, how're you doing?
@karencrecco29224 жыл бұрын
I am going to start making my greeting cards again!
@aburrage76974 жыл бұрын
Bravo 💕
@lisaottomann23964 жыл бұрын
Sounds really fun!
@ISOShakespeare4 жыл бұрын
I started a novel this year. I won NaNoWriMo this November and my goal is to finish the draft I started during NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) on Christmas Day. 2019 started as misery but that misery has led me to do what I always wanted to do, write. You have been an inspiration for me. Thank you for all that you do.
@shawn56324 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's fantastic, keep writing.
@duanemcguffey94834 жыл бұрын
As a fairly new self pub author (at 74), I'm in awe of your NaNoWriMo accomplishment. You're an inspiration.
@cherannretiredgran683 жыл бұрын
Congratulation
@sincerelylavender61474 жыл бұрын
Start forgiving yourself for junk back in the past that keeps you from living today! Another great video!!
@blairwillis91994 жыл бұрын
I want to start laughing more often, find the joy and humor in moments. I want to start spending more intentional time with friends I love. I want to start enjoying the presence of God and his love in every heartbeat. Thanks for your uplifting video today.
@Tk30nette4 жыл бұрын
That's what I want, if I had any friends .😢
@MaryK-iw9xo4 жыл бұрын
I love your statement, “It’s not a resolution, it’s an intention.”! I’ve just started watching your videos and am really enjoying them. All the best for a happy, peaceful, healthy new year!
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mary - best wishes to you as well for a Happy Christmas and New Year!
@bellarosa0094 жыл бұрын
I’m not 60, but this list could apply to women in general.
@missmayflower4 жыл бұрын
My daughter said to stop fighting my wild hair. “Just own it, Mom”. I think that applies to a lot of things. I need to just own who I am. The red is gorgeous on you, Margaret.
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Great advice from your daughter!!! :-)
@Soapandwater64 жыл бұрын
I have wild, frizzy, tightly curled hair. In my natural state, I look like a wild woman and I am NOT a wild woman. Maybe I will "own it" someday, but for now I still straighten it every day. I am getting tired of doing it, though.
@audreyrichmond4123 жыл бұрын
I stopped colouring my hair a few years ago and now with the shutdowns anyway a lot of others have started to do the same. I say, “ be yourself,” Besides, you’ll be surprised at how much money you’ll save in salon fees! 😂 White is the new black. ♥️
@jschuerjudi4 жыл бұрын
I am going to start being kind to myself, encouraging others to be kind to themself's.
@private154 жыл бұрын
Wonderful ideas but start phrasing everything in the positive!!! Eg. 1) please yourself first 2) live in the present 3) praise and compliment yourself ! 4) embrace change 5) leave the ruminating to the cows and be a little more spontaneous
@kathyc20014 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this much needed push or permission to take care of me. I turned 60 this year and I'm still finding it difficult to allow myself to say no, or have a voice, or something as simple as taking a break. Thank you for putting it all in perspective. I am excited to make my list of things to start doing, or stop doing. Thank you!!!! And I would have never guessed your age, you look amazing.
@kathleenbarron76544 жыл бұрын
I love my new knee and played tennis today. I’m never going to quit trying to be the best player I can be. Tennis evokes a passion in me. Tennis makes me feel young. Then I stop and everything hurts!🥴
@joycemckelvrey91974 жыл бұрын
I am going to start pleasing myself, I am 68 in January and I have always tried to keep everyone around me happy( at my own expense), now it’s going to be about me. I just never wanted to hurt anyone’s feeling and have never stood up for myself. I am going to try, thank you for the good thoughts
@MsPants16324 жыл бұрын
Joyce McKelvrey I love this! I have been the same (I’m 47) and I am starting to believe when I’m happy the ones around me who love me are happy as well:)) as for the others they can either get over it or move on. Happiness is contagious right? ☺️ Best wishes to you!!
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hi Joyce, how're you doing?
@biondna79844 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling with depression and anxiety after my parents' recent deaths and my spouse's stage 5 Alzheimer's. And I'm working with a coach to get my first book published. This video is encouraging. Thank you.
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
my heart goes out to you Joanne - take care x
@southerngrandma43534 жыл бұрын
Joanne Ellis I’m so sorry about your parents and spouse! Sending prayers 🙏🌹
@sharonmitchel13774 жыл бұрын
I’m starting to get fit! And, I’m having fun doing it. I practice with Kat Kabira’s videos on this channel and Yoga JP videos on KZbin. I’m getting ready to start meeting new people now that I’ve moved cross country. I like the idea of sparkling... something to think about. I just bought cute dresses and shirts for my little nieces for Christmas. They all wanted sparkles! I’m going to start embracing me inner child! 💫🌟⭐️✨💥
@susanstrassburger18964 жыл бұрын
I am going to stop worrying about what people think of me and start doing what makes me happy. I want to become that person who feels the fear but does it anyway. Thank you Margaret for your wonderful, inspiring group!!
@maryjaneeldridge29754 жыл бұрын
I'm 62 and I'm going to start concentrating on me.
@prettypothos4me2904 жыл бұрын
I am 68 and have always panicked about being in during winter because we live to garden and landscape, so this year I did something new for me....filled my house with beautiful greenery. What a difference it made for me. The snow will fall, but I have a jungle! I hesitated because I am a minimalist and was worried about cluttering with the plants, but I congregated most in my mud room, on the walls. I got hooked watching house plant youtube videos, learning about them first.
@christinevr76984 жыл бұрын
Great ideas! I’m a few year’s shy of 60 but I’m going to start doing these things now! Especially the not-boring bit.
@RANIRUMALI4 жыл бұрын
Love all these comments!! Eliminating toxic people has become very popular and I agree this step is vital to healthy living. I’m curious as to what this will do to families, in that this makes it EASY to drop family and friends. With out a guilty conscience., That are hard to be with. One son and his wife seem to have disappeared from our family. I wonder if this popular elimination is making this easy. I wonder? 🤩😍. I too am starting to eat plant based. I’m excited to see what changes this can make in my health. I’m starting to embrace walking and yoga. Let’s sparkle together❤️
@debbiebrowning70894 жыл бұрын
PennyLane Lane Eliminating toxic people from your life is very hard when they are close family members. How to do? :-(
@RANIRUMALI4 жыл бұрын
It’s hard Debbie, I would not like to shut a door permanently 😇. I focus on areas of my life I want to enhance. Like lifestyle changes, such as my diet. Plus keeping busy with other interests keeps our mind from dwelling on what we can’t change. I have used Duolingo app, to learn a foreign language. Pinterest, to collect pictures of things I love. Crochet or needle arts seem to take so much concentration that our brain feels relaxed in a way when we are done. Many use this as a way to deal with insomnia, if they can’t sleep, crochet for a while. Knitting works as well, or adult coloring is the same concept😍. Happy Living Debbie🌟
@delladearest25114 жыл бұрын
PennyLane Lane There’s a very helpful book called something like, dealing with the crazy makers in your life.
@sassysandie28654 жыл бұрын
Della Dearest Julia Kristina has some great you tube videos on dealing with toxic people. Lots of free help right here on you tube.
@karenlowes78024 жыл бұрын
I'm going to elminate excess in each room. I'm going to stop asking for permission.
@rebeccabalonso81324 жыл бұрын
I just turned 63. Despite aches and pains every now and then, I’m in shape and still active. My passion for dancing, may have attribute to it. Oh yes, add colors! I agree w/u on that. Nice to be colorful (in a subtle way not flamboyant). When you look good, you feel good!
@shelleyhuskey18704 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Balonso I agree!
@rebeccabalonso81324 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Shelly. I believe, simple things can be advantageous...like simple exercise...simple living...and of course, simplicity s beauty.
@OlderWomenRock4 жыл бұрын
So glad you are going to sparkle . I’ve always worn lurex and sequins . Wonderful to hear you are embracing colour . Your skin looks fab . 😊💞 start , even if they do judge and criticise . Start not giving a toss .
@sarakasab31154 жыл бұрын
I’m 57 in 2020 and a lot of what you said really resonated with me. Very glad I found you this morning xxx
@rolandsmithgmailcom2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sara,how're you doing?
@artisforusall4 жыл бұрын
I am turning 60 this year and I love it!! I already felt that I was going to START DOING WHAT I WANTED, as much as humanly possible. Because IF NOT NOW, WHEN!!!????
@jillmontgomery48564 жыл бұрын
I have started to go into places alone that my mother said ladies shouldn't go alone, e.g. bars, gyms, movies, parks, sport games.....
@barbarariley34884 жыл бұрын
Oh ya time to hit the bars over sixty. No thanks. I am not a cougar.
@jillmontgomery48564 жыл бұрын
@@barbarariley3488 Porque no?
@susannovak82634 жыл бұрын
Barbara Riley - she didn’t say she went into bars to pick up guys. I believe what Jill Montgomery is saying is that she’s not afraid to do things alone. There was really no need for your snarky comment. 🌷
@jillmontgomery48564 жыл бұрын
@@susannovak8263 Thank you for that!
@susannovak82634 жыл бұрын
jill montgomery - 😁
@gailpell8544 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration. 71, WOW. I want to be just like you, full of life and beautiful too! I am 59 and want to sparkle!
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Start sparkling now! :-) Thank you for your very kind comments. :-) Happy Holidays xx
@Pauline-wu4ej4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@thevintageread4 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful video! So inspiring and FUN. (I have to say you would never be boring!!!)
@joycegonzales49944 жыл бұрын
I try to take snacks along when I’m out, it helps me not buy things less healthy or expensive
@xiomaras954 жыл бұрын
You go lady! Boy, did you hit home and thanks to you I’m going to start making changes. I like the idea of “sparkle”. Everything you said is making sense as In dressing in color, as in dressing less baggy, as in meditation, in de-stressing. The one thing I recently started is going to school and learning another language. I love it, wanted to do it for a long time and so I am. Everything you said makes sense. It’s time to love me! Thank you.
@elizabethkoltun73543 жыл бұрын
Love your start today and your sparkle. I am starting to stop worrying. Start sparkling more start stop any doubt. Start every start every day
@midsouthhomestead91804 жыл бұрын
At 53 I want a new career. I have been a HAIRDRESSER for 31 years and it is wearing on my body and stress levels. Thanks for your tips! Rhonda
@barbcalhoun98614 жыл бұрын
Wonderful message! Thank you for sharing and sparking our creativity! You GO girl!
@Chahlie4 жыл бұрын
Interesting the difference in energy between "stop" and "start". I suppose it's easier to stop doing or thinking something than it is to start doing or thinking something completely new. Words to think on.
@roseb.71044 жыл бұрын
GOOD MORNING MARGARET, I love black, and Sparkles , and I have dark circles under my eyes, I just use my makeup to cover them. Thank You for your inspiring Video as always, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year to You and Your family!
@jeanjacobs99654 жыл бұрын
Greetings Margaret! Have you ever considered doing a necklace making video? I would really enjoy that. Happy holidays and blessings!!
@mecraftytoo4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to start exercising more, yes ,wearing more colour and more patterns, not just plains, I’m going to start liking what I see in myself more, I’m going to stop impulse buying clothes that by the time I get around to wearing, I realise that I really don’t like them, and I’m going to learn to say no, instead of yes when I really don’t want to. Well Margaret, you certainly have given me food for thought, I can relate to everything you mentioned, we are the same age , you and I, and I’ve never had a mid life crisis, that is until I hit the big 70 and it hit me like a ton of bricks, so my main thing is I’m not going to let this age thing get me down anymore, it’s just a number and I should be embracing it. Thank you for a great topic. Merry Christmas 🎄🍹xx
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas to you too Hazel - thank you so much for your kind words! Happy Aging! x
@cherannretiredgran683 жыл бұрын
I am going to start being more intentional about my skin care and playing with makeup. Rework my wardrobe. Then the accessories, while juggle revamping the home. Reinventing me, and recreating my living environment. Maybe get back into my arts and crafts.
@olgabonilla75734 жыл бұрын
I'm 65 and loving it! I'm going to start reading more about history, and interesting topics. I'm starting to have more interesting conversations on a variety of topics; start planning more trips to interesting places. Thank you so much for all the advice. I look forward to it!
@deliavillarreal15804 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your talk! It honestly uplifted my heart. I’m 68 years old and struggle with the idea of am I old already ? Because I still feel young! What should my attitude be like?
@irenecollins59154 жыл бұрын
Start taking more care of myself. How? Eating right, no sugar and more activities. Such as walking and getting organized. Good luck to me...Lol
@laurawalker5464 жыл бұрын
I'm doing the walking but still eating some sugary food... lol ... lifetime battle... especially during holidays
@sassysandie28654 жыл бұрын
Laura Walker I do through the holidays too and then give it up mostly in January. I feel so much better when I get the junky food out. Sugar triggers me wanting more.
@xiomaras954 жыл бұрын
I ve had to stop sugar for health reasons. I have an immune disease. The more you give up and the less you eat of it, the desire lessens. Read labels carefully because almost everything contains sugar. You can do it. Many blessings for the New Year.
@pattiallen11154 жыл бұрын
Same here...I am going to go basic plant based direction with Chef A J, but modified to fit me. Extra lbs. must go.
@sassysandie28654 жыл бұрын
Patti Allen Love chef AJ!
@christinabasri51143 жыл бұрын
I love the “Start ………..” poster! I will be 68 in a few months. I’m going to start writing down every week at least one memorable episode in my life - involving an event or a person I know/knew - with a view to writing my memoir which has been long suggested by my wonderful daughters. Thank you for your interesting and useful vids. You have a lovely voice and smile!
@evelynpendall95074 жыл бұрын
My life is now all different now turned 60 no husband anymore lost my beloved fur daughter of 16 years and things have changed and I can feel it. Speaking more with my Mother on the phone finally getting ready to start my KZbin chanel thats been on hold for 5 years etc
@vivianrodriguez56174 жыл бұрын
Watching this gave me so much joy and inspiration. Many of the things you are stopping and starting apply to me. I have been trying to learn French with very little progress. Two months ago I stopped and took up Italian instead. What a difference! Easier and more natural for me. Do what you want! No judgement. Be kind. Especially to ourselves.
@maureendennis83164 жыл бұрын
I agree with you on black, I know my colours and it does bring out my eyes which are green. Thanks for your comments.
@jsmith6323 жыл бұрын
I was intrigued by the title of this video, and just watched it. First let me say Margaret, a great thank you for 60 and me.. it’s been a godsend in many ways. Now back to this video. I loved what you said about sparkling..the world needs that so much. As for me, at 66 years old, I decided to learn to play the violin! I just one day bought a violin..and have started lessons. I am able now to produce some lovely notes. It’s been challenging and rewarding, and I’ve found that being creative is wonderfully uplifting. I feel a freedom in my heart, at this age, that i’ve never felt before, and I look forward to adventures to come.
@constancemason59944 жыл бұрын
Preparing foods at home rather than ordering in.
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@cathytheisen18154 жыл бұрын
I turned 68 this year! I have a silver crown with pink jewels (it's faux) I wear every year, all day, everywhere I go, on my birthday. Things I've learned so far: I don't know what I want to be when I grow up. What other people think of me is none of my business. Be kind, I never know the burden someone else is carrying. I set boundaries and stick to them. Play with my makeup, it brings me joy. Something I'd like to do better is knowing when to keep my thoughts to myself, not everyone needs my opinions or advice. I'll leave my weird light on so other weirdos know they're welcome. Sparkle on...!
@innerstream4 жыл бұрын
I bought a snowmobile! It’s used but who cares. I live in the north. Everyone said “that’s a racing sled. It goes way too fast “ . I’m thinking “So?” It only goes as fast as “I “ want it to! I finally bought an electric guitar....I’ve been playing acoustic all my life . It’s a beautiful red Stratocaster. I love it! And yes I play it loud lol.........❤️😊 I’m 57 by the calendar........57 in the year 2020 is awesome!
@joangillen12604 жыл бұрын
This is a new site for me and I love it!!❤️. Thank you!!
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joan - you can check out all our other channels at www.sixtyandme.com/start :-) Welcome!!
@alwaysabob89624 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy your channel and website. It’s so empowering to find a channel to help me navigate all the change that comes with age! Thank you
@roxannedevaney71384 жыл бұрын
What a great piece! I haven't been on for a while and really enjoyed this video! I love how you broke it down into "stopping and starting". Really made me think and refocus. Thank you!
@myhottea4 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you! I’m going to start making time for more self care, slow things down, and relax more often!
@squarepeg94844 жыл бұрын
I have 10 umbrellas and always still get soaked and have to buy another 😂 I have a red glittery top like that too, I have a gold one, a black one, a silver one, I also have red glittery trainers, I like to sparkle! I love that ‘Sparkle Years’ that’s a good term to use! I use mattifying liquid on my wrinkles, it makes your skin so matte, it blurs and diffuses the lines, as there is nothing for light and shadow to bounce off (Photo Ready by Revlon is a good one, I’m using that for now, patting on with a clean finger) I love your channel Margaret, have a Happy Christmas and New Year 🥳
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
Hi there - i am trying Photo Ready Candid by Revlon and like it - is that the one you are referring to? Thanks so much for your kind words! Happy Christmas and New Year!
@unicornsarereal84844 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this inspirational video. On the subject of black, black is elegant. It doesn’t have to be boring. Black paired with colourful but subtle accessories can make you feel like a million dollars! I wear black trousers with a black top, always, but I wear them with a colourful silk scarf around my neck. The effects are amazing. The colour from the scarf makes a dramatic and classy contrast. The scarf also conceal little imperfections on my neck and draw attention away from my double chin. Most classy actresses from the 60’s wore scarves around their neck. Lol. I believe you can sparkle in black. No problem. Black is my fact my signature 😊 I wouldn’t stop warring black.
@margaretleehightower30734 жыл бұрын
From one Margaret 😄to another...thank you very much. Very inspirational today!! I think I will start “sparkling “ on the inside again🤩
@artsofgold4 жыл бұрын
I'm enjoying reading all the comments! Heres my top three STARTS & STOPS: Start going thru & sorting out all the costume jewelry I don't wear to give/donate or create something with them- Start a morning stretch/yoga 15 minutes- Start connecting to a dear friend and visiting with them 1/month!!! There are so many friends I wish I had time to sit with- so I'm taking one day/month to visit with at least one of them! I am going to STOP wasting money (loved that one I saw in the comments). At least I will not buy spontaneously anymore- if I haven't had it on a monthly list, I don't need it! I believe if I can get it on a list, at least I can look for a good deal, a coupon or buy used and recycle! Thanks for your lovely idea's and Happy New Year to all 2020!!! -Cindy (61 almost 62 y.o.)
@minatzouvara15644 жыл бұрын
I m 58 ten years divorced and alone.I am going to start flerting, falling in love ,having fun again...My priority for 2020....
@plzsavethebeez7434 жыл бұрын
58 is the new 48..you go girl!
@marysunshine47304 жыл бұрын
Mina Tzouvara you can do it, Mat Shafer has some great relationship videos on You Tube
@minatzouvara15644 жыл бұрын
@@marysunshine4730 I suppose so, although my internal fears have blocked me for years...thanks for supporting and information,!!ΙI need it!!
@minatzouvara15644 жыл бұрын
@@plzsavethebeez743 Thanks,!! I believe it too...But fears, fears, fears,!! anyway,stop fearing and actioning for new year!!This is my goal!!!
@milels69174 жыл бұрын
Not with married men there is enough mix ups in the world I have a friend who is always flirting I’m pleased I have a good husband
@shechaiyah68694 жыл бұрын
Seeing so much struggle and suffering in the world, now at 75 years ,I am devoting the rest of my Life to harmonizing the kind thoughts that come to me with the material reality I see.
I love everything you said especially about Sparkling. I am turning 65 in January and I don't want to blend into the background, I want to stand out! Before I watched this video I made up my mind to not purchase another article of clothing until April 1st. I literally could cloth 4 more women with the clothes I already have. I am getting rid of everything I haven't worn in 2 years or that I just don't like on me anymore. I am not aiming for a capsule wardrobe but I want to be able to go in my closet and feel great about whatever I chose to wear!
@sixtyandme4 жыл бұрын
What a great intention - no mew clothes until April 1 :-) Let me know how you get on! :-)
@RANIRUMALI4 жыл бұрын
I turn 65 in Feb Bonnie. What a great time to feel excited about the future❤️.