what I wish I had known before getting a service dog

[@annt7384]

Owning a dog means you’re going to have to talk to strangers, answer questions, deal with children, and a host of other social interactions that you can’t really control. They’re a great way to combat loneliness because people literally come right up and talk to you. I love it, and that’s a big reason why I got a dog. Loneliness is hard, but so is socializing.

[@sythepie]

I would love to have a service dog to help me with my disability but because I get VERY anxious from talking to strangers I will hate social interactions ;-;

[@annt7384]

@@sythepie Mine isn’t even a service animal 🦮, but complete strangers routinely walk right up to my dog. Most ask if they can pet her, which is sweet, but tbh she isn’t always in the mood & when I decline, they’re kinda shocked and start questioning me about it like there’s something wrong with *me*. No, I’m being protective of strangers’ safety, especially around kids, and I want every dog interaction to be a positive and happy experience. Ya never know, it could be considered exposure therapy to get more comfortable talking and interacting with people.

[@littlelo3883]

I've been talking with my family and therapist about considering a service dog. having one would really help me, i have some mobility issues, autism, and im a faint risk whenever its hot outside (veryyy low heat tolerance 😭). my issue is that because my autism causes anxiety, that anxiety causes selective mutism that i've dealt with my whole life. its a lot better now then when i was a kid, but still talking to strangers in public is absolutely impossible for me. this is why the whole "lots of unwanted social interaction" thing scares me. the only thing i can think of is maybe a card to hand to people explaining but still, i just don't know what to do about all that social interaction when i physically cant talk to people.

[@jodipowell3491]

LOVE this! There’s so many things I wish I knew before I became a handler. This kind of made me not feel alone

[@carlettaedwards1432]

On duty in public is one thing at home my service dog still alert on high and low blood sugars yet they know they are off duty cause they heard your release command for them

[@asecretcourtofcrowsandcloc4084]

I’m a new handler and found many these things to be the case myself. Thanks for sharing your inside sen experiences.

[@leannehudson7753]

Hi Betsy it’s my first time watching your KZbin channel I think you did a really good job in this video explaining things and I appreciate that so much I’m looking into getting my first service dog as I have cerebral palsy and this was actually a good informative video and a good place to start thank you so much I hope you have a great day

[@Missbehavin0517]

Thank you for sharing! I’m just starting to get a feel for what having a service dog is like or will be.

[@maialae]

The amount of people that talk to you about their dead dogs, and that want to pet yours is UNREAL

[@TerryCraigTheDisabledHiker]

Hi. This is great info. Thanks for sharing it. Don't know if this has been a problem for you, but I constantly have non SD dog owners trying to use my service dog to help socialize their dogs. On several occasions I found myself having to literally hurry myself (which is very dangerous with mobility problems) just to avoid these situations. On one such occasion I had no choice but to get angry and tell them to back off... in no uncertain terms. My question is this... have you had similar experiences, and if so, what do you do to get people with non service dog to respect your space and the space your SD needs. This is a huge distraction for TaSunka (my SD) and its caused a lot of concern about being attacked by dogs that have little or no training. We keep a channel here on YT as well if you want to follow back. Again... thanks for sharing.

[@justachick9029]

i just got my dog Koda 🐕 . She is in training as of yesterday, i didnt think i even needed one.....untill....last week. I have A-Typical migraines, which for me involves....temporary partial/ complete loss of vision, extreme confusion, left arm goes completely numb, lips go numb and aphasia ( which means i cant form coherent words )....so the incident... i was in a checkout line last week, when BAM, a migraine hits with zero warning ...the lady thought i was having a stroke....* remember i cant speak to tell her im fine, its all incoherent babble* which reinforces everyone in line, that i am stroking out. The more i try to form the words "Im Fine" the more babble i produce. ( also note, i cant write im fine because i cant see and i usually cant write because of the confusion) ....sooo naturally someone calls an ambulance....the paramedics thought i was stroking out, because at that time, i had complete loss of vision...i still cant make coherent words....FML....i was TERRIFIED that the hospital was going to treat me for a stroke, and the medication would have probably killed me....thankfully my speech came back somewhat, enough to mumble to the emergency doctor " A-typical migraine ". THAT WAS CLOSE ! I would carry something on me, like a bracelet or necklace...buuuuut you would be surprised how many normal people do not pay attention to that. So i will have my dog handle that.

[@aviva5093]

Thanks so much for this! My SD is about to come home from board & train. Your insights help me feel more prepared :D definitely gonna check out everything else on your channel!

[@ismelllikebeans8920]

So I want to get a service dog for my extreme anxiety. But going off of what you're saying i think it'll make my anxiety a lot worse than it already is. So, that being said do you think an emotional support animal would be better? Also do you have any recommendations for sites so I can do research? Because I don't want to look up any false information and do everything completely wrong.

[@betsiesbest1855]

An emotional support animal is definitely a good option, but it really depends on your specific needs. If you need the animal in public with you, or to go to classes and school with you, a service dog is necessary because they are the only ones with public access rights, but ESAs can live with you wherever and you can even get permission in some cases to have them with you in a college dorm when that applies. I recommend joining Facebook groups geared towards service dogs and emotional support animals to get all the most accurate information. The biggest difference though is service dogs are specially trained to mitigate a disability and have public access rights and an ESA can be ANY animal but only has the right to be in not pet friendly housing. Having a service dog and training them myself has been a huge challenge for my anxiety, but it has also helped so much. Helped me grow to be less anxious on my own, plus the tasks she does for me are also obviously beneficial. If you have any other questions or anything feel free to ask. My Instagram is also Elizabeth.roy1 so you have dm me there if you’re not comfortable making everything public 💕💕

[@shelbymclellan4435]

so i have high levle anxity and many outher things i have a emoitional supper dashound and i had to make dission that i retire my dashound and i pick up my servuis puppy on wesday if you have question id love to help

[@deejae8295]

I never even thought about researching Facebook groups before. Thanks for this tip 🐕‍🦺

[@daniblack851]

Thank you for posting this - super helpful!

[@shriandjane1114]

Boy did I need to hear this!

[@xenhollon3318]

I'm getting a service dog soon because my anxiety mostly because of school is so bad to the point I can barely go to school same with my sibling and this helped because I didn't know that even if its fully trained you need to refresh their memory but now, I know and I'm glad I do.

[@kyguitar7288]

great video!

[@jessicalingo4346]

I been doing my research for a service animal and this was helpful. I'm super new to the service animal community (only seen and respected sa from afar) you talking about the costs got me quite interested in something. I'm quite confident this is not the case but maybe it might be in the future. Since service animals are considered medical equipment in the eyes of the law I feel that some insurance companies should provide things for the service animal. Like the cost of the dog, the vet visits, the medical equipment, and the training. Some insurance does cover for other equipment like electric wheelchairs. I feel it could benefit a lot of people but there could also be risks of having the insurance companies having their feet dipped in that type of stuff. It's an interesting idea and makes sense since service animals are considered medical equipment. They should be treated similar as other equipment in the sense of the insurance companies providing the equipment, the upkeep and use like they do for other things.

[@butterfly3277]

This is a great list

[@pablotorres6997]

Good practical advice. Thank you!

[@amev.3987]

Thank you for posting your video. I get my canine companion next month...

[@sharinganwolf2784]

I'm really debating whether or not I need a service dog. I have anxiety and autism and when I go out to stores now (this started getting really bad this year) my hands break out in rashes from stress and I start feeling really hot and uncomfortable and twisting my wrists and stuff. It really weighs down on me and my mother because she stresses when I stress lol

[@jjbowman4653]

Hello! I have ADHD and have also found my social battery has become smaller this last year, due to the pandemic I suppose, it also effects my ability to hang around people I would consider friends or acquaintances. I would certainly talk with a doctor about how you can go about helping the worsened social anxiety, such as talking with a councillor and participating in CBT. Secondly, there are many ways a service dog can help individuals with neurodivergent related issues and I would look into that before talking to your doctor so YOU can bring them up, as many doctors do not know much about service dogs let alone service dogs for people, specifically adults, with neurodivergent disabilities.

[@saltydinonuggies1841]

The main issue with service dogs for anxiety and such is the attention it brings you. You have to be prepared for people to come up and potentially be rude or worse. If that would make things worse maybe look into an ESA or an at home service dog of sorts.

[@lotrhpnmask]

was walking my sd prospect normal like anyone does there pet dog, just on walk.and some loon karen stalked with van etc for it yelling was abuse and reported us and they came to check and said lady was just crazy. was like wow actually came cross first loon already so soon.

[@kbellmurray]

Helpful! Thanks!

[@ellie002]

where did you get that sweater? it's so cute!

[@betsiesbest1855]

Thank you!! I thrifted it and then cropped it :)

[@lexiehollens3610]

either have savings or a real good health insurance or both.

[@debbie5872]

The public is a real stressor !!! I have Huge Red Do Not Pet patches & ppl still want to pet him!

[@kittyslyfox4180]

I’ll say this as an owner of a retired SD and employee of a restaurant industry with literally face of the restaurant as I’m the first and last person you see(hostess) the amount of fake sd or emotional support I see is irritating. For a few reasons, 1) misrepresentation 2) the lies!!!! 3) even though I can ask these questions and 9.9/10 times the answers they give are rep to ESA I CANNOT kick them out of the restaurant because of fear to bad reviews or what not. (Not for me I could care less l will call them out on their bs blatantly and passively) just not something I can do which is bs in my opinion because of the time spent actually TRAINING our service dogs. Last week somebody came in and usually I only ask the one are the a sd because of how things are done in the restaurant or lack of. But I decided I wanted to spice my day up and asked what are they task trained for? All smiles. The husband said I’m not sure it’s my wife’s dog. Strike one. Then he thought for a moment and (I’ll appreciate this to a small degree.) he said she’s for emotional support. My response was a bit on another scale because it’s been clear I can’t deny acess for ESA even though they arent task trained. To that I had responded, Ahh, I have a retired SD for hearing and left it at that. Making it clear I indeed know the difference of what’s supposed to be allowed. Then the other day it was brought to my attention apparently ESA are now allowed under law to be in buildings and you HAVE to have ID for SD’s???? Like what???

[@krisvanallen]

Regarding the FACEBOOK GROUPS: anyone tried posting the same question in multiple groups to “test out” the group's overall atmosphere?

[@romaballena920]

Omg everything is so relatable!!

[@prism1374]

This was a good watch. I'm about to ask for a service dog letter from my provider and I'm nervous it won't happen.

[@LemonyLamb]

I go mute when I'm anxious I have a problem with simply walking away when people try to talk to me in public because I literally cannot speak

[@shanti1445]

I wish I knew my parents were going to constantly be in my space talking to me about nothing. I’m completely shut down with no way to leave to get help

[@beautysdit3547]

Hi I recently started owner training my soon to be service dog and she's an adult so we didn't have to go through the puppy phase. She has all her basic obedience down and she also has a couple tasks under her belt. When do you think its okay to start public access with her. Btw my dogs name is Beauty and she's an Australian Shepard, Husky, Lab mix.

[@betsiesbest1855]

Your dog sounds beautiful and I wish I could see a picture😍 since your dog is an adult and is probably potty trained already AND has tasks down I would say you are set to start public access. Take it slow at first. Maybe start in some outdoor environments like a farmers market or a local downtown area and pet friendly stores and then depending on how she does with that you’ll know if she’s ready for other environments. It also kind of depends what state you’re in. Some states allow sdit to have public access rights and some don’t. So I would look into that

[@beautysdit3547]

Thank you! I live on new york and they do allow sdit. My local dollar general allows dogs so I think I'll start there. I really appreciate your advice and quick response.

[@tarynriver]

Service dog fb groups sound similar to mom fb groups you say one wrong thing or post one thing that isn’t perfect the year you to shreds especially the car seat groups

[@blueheelerservicedog]

You should mention pet insurance that all SDs should have. Just an added expense, but worth it, just like your kids or baby's, im sure if they get hurt you have insurance.

[@dorothydavis6276]

Sorry for the way people are.

[@rach496]

I had someone scream at me that I should put shoes on my dog. Mind you it was 80 F outside 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@comingofkym]

Can you take large service dogs on airplanes?

[@dustin4834]

Currently getting a service dog (german shepherd). Does he need to be walked even after we go to work? (oil rig builder/semi active). How often do you groom/wash your dog?

[@Local_gremlin2009]

Typically if your dog is high energy you should definitely take them for a walk after work ( length depending on the dog). And you should brush daily and wash 1-2 times a month depending on how dirty the dog gets

[@kylascarborough5761]

Is there any gear you recommend for beginning handlers? Or just in general? If so would you please leave the link

[@betsiesbest1855]

When starting out especially if your pup is still growing, start off with just the simple amazon vests. They’re cheap, when your dog grows out of them it’s not a huge deal cause it’s affordable to still buy another one and they come with the patches already. Doggie Stylz Service Dog in Training Vest with Hook and Loop Straps and Handle - Harness Comes in Sizes XXS to XXL - Three Colors - Service ¬Dog Vest Harness Features 2 Reflective Patches www.amazon.com/dp/B01FG2AG14/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_1pbqFb5NGWTBT

[@betsiesbest1855]

And then figure out what works best for your dog to keep a heel. If it’s just their flat collar that’s good, maybe it’s a gentle leader, or a prong. If you get a prong I definitely recommend the herm sprenger brand. It’s the safest and most reliable. And neither of those are above $20. Hope this helps :)) good luck!!

[@sacredweeds]

My biggest panic was getting the paper work from my doctor. Now it’s people telling me that not letting her jump up, etc, is so mean. Getting to the point of taking her to Walmart I can’t wait and then there’s the idiots who bring their “service dogs” into the store who attack real service dogs. 🤬

[@miaok7994]

hello! so i was looking at getting a psd for anxiety and panic disorder but my parents aren’t that sure i need one. i don’t have severe cases of either of these disorders but they do affect me going out in public and going to sleep. i feel like i would be guilty for getting a psd because someone else might need it more than me. what do i do?

[@betsiesbest1855]

Hey there! Great questions and it’s good that you’re thinking so hard about it. Honestly the whole “somebody might need it more than me” argument is invalid. Every body suffers differently and in their own way. Somebody with only one leg and who needs crutches to walk doesn’t dismiss somebody with a broken ankle that needs crutches to walk. They both can utilize the crutches even though one may be seen as more severe ya know? I would make a pro con list honestly and just lay it all out there. You don’t have to answer these next questions to me, but just to think about for yourself, with your parents, and even with a medical professional: what would the dog do for you? How will it be trained? Would another route besides a service dog be more beneficial? Are you ready to take care of a dog full time for the next 10-15 years? Would the dog be more beneficial than detrimental? Lots to think about and discuss, but overall you (and your parents if you live with them) are the one who can and should make that decision. Nobody else. If you have any more questions or need more advice let me know, I would be happy to help however I can :))

[@miaok7994]

@Betsie’s Best thank u so much for the advice! 🙂

[@juyomil]

im thinking about the same stuff. my mom doesnt think i need one either, but sometimes managing my own panic/anixety attacks is tiring and sometimes doesnt work. it got so bad i had to be homeschooled again. if YOU feel that it’ll make you feel even the tiniest of bit better, then take it into consideration. we dont need be in an extremely bad condition to have one. even though it does seem that way sometimes- i hope you figure it out soon!!!

[@cdlady54_95]

What services are you expecting your dog do? Would an emotional support dog be better for anxiety?

[@betsiesbest1855]

Anxiety is not my only issue. But for the anxiety, my dog senses oncoming panic attacks and warns me. She also does dpt, and other grounding

[@AGC828]

Q!: Hope you don't mind my asking but...a Service Dog is...still a "pet dog" in the sense that it needs the owners love and attention. They need to be fed at regular times and taken for walks so they can do their business outside. What happens when an owner is having a "moment"? Which can happen any time and go on for however long till it subsides. What if the dog gets very sick as a "moment" is coming? Do all owners live with one other person who doesn't have any "moments"? Who need th e abilities of a SD? The attachment the owners must have with their SD...because of what they do to help the owners function better...That and one more question...what happens when a SD gets older and must retire?

[@betsiesbest1855]

Great questions! Yes a service dog is still very much loved and attended to by their owner(s). They do need to be walked and fed and played with, so typically when a handler is going through something, they can have help from a family member or friend. Not all handlers have another person living with them. It really depends on each persons needs. I’ve known some people who free feed their dog, so they have a large amount of food at their disposal and the dog can eat when they’re hungry, so in that case the handler might not need to worry about getting up and feeding, and I’ve even known someone who taught their dog how to go to the bathroom in the shower when they are completely indisposed and unable to get out of bed. I would imagine if someone has a very extreme disability, they would likely live with someone, but it depends on their individual needs and ability to own a dog

[@betsiesbest1855]

The attachment between an owner and their service dog is incredible. It gets pretty tough when a dog has to retire from their job, and typically what will happen, especially if someone is owner training, they know when that time is coming for their dog to retire and they get another dog to start training and prepare for that time. It definitely gets tough emotionally when one retires or dies, but it’s part of the deal just like with any pet

[@eliheller644]

Did you train your service animal yourself?

[@betsiesbest1855]

yes and no. I would definitely say she is owner trained, because I have done most of her training myself, however we did do basic obedience classes, the Canine Good Citizen class, and the we did some dog show type classes and tricks classes. So I've worked with lots of other trainers and at different training clubs, so I had extra people around for advice and help, but her task training was all me :)

[@parisgomez9063]

How is it having service dog

[@jakegoswick]

Could you link to the boots you fount that you liked? Why are they better than others you’ve tried?

[@betsiesbest1855]

www.amazon.com/HiPaw-Breathable-Pavement-Nonslip-Protector/dp/B01HS2M7FI/ref=sr_1_15?dchild=1&keywords=dog+booties&qid=1626321502&sr=8-15 this is the link to the same type of dog booties that I have, these aren't the exact brand but they're literally the same and cheaper. I liked these ones best because the grip part on the bottom isn't so thick that it makes my dog uncomfortable, but it still protects her feet from hot pavement and whatever else could be on the ground. I also find that these don't slip off or slide down her foot as easily, they can be a hassle to get on when you and your dog are first getting used to them, but once they're on they really stay in place. these haven't caused any problems with her dew claws rubbing, and overall I really like them. the only thing is I had to get two pairs that were two different sizes because her back feet are smaller than her front feet, however its always good to have a back up pair and now I have two pairs of booties for her which is awesome. hope this helped :)

[@debbiekanoza8535]

I’m looking into and I’m talking to casemanger about getting a dog to train for him or her to help me with Asthma Migraines High Blood Pressure NCS can I have any advice on it

[@verasvolgs3436]

I have balance issues, bad anxiety, and memory issues also I am autistic. I have been doing loads of research. I’m thinking about getting a labordoodle or a Vizsla because my caregiver is allergic to dogs. What would you recommend for the breed and training?

[@betsiesbest1855]

So there are a few things to consider based on your needs: are you going to be able to owner train the dog, which involves energetic puppy time and a lot of work yourself or do you need to get it from a program? Also what tasks would you like the dog to provide for you? If you need counterbalance and maybe some help with mobility, a larger dog will be necessary and it needs lots of vet tests before it can be ready to do those mobility tasks. If the dog doesn’t get cleared by it’s vet, you’ll have to wash it and start over with a new one. If you don’t need it for mobility, then you have the other obstacle of making sure that the breed you get is trainable for psych work as some dogs pick up on their owners anxieties and get anxious themself. Also if you like those two specific breeds, do research on if there are lots of successful service dogs that are those breeds so you know if they could be good. Depending on your needs and your ability to train, you might want to look into a program to train your dog or an individual trainer to help. If you do go for owner training, I wish you all the luck and positive vibes. If you have any more questions let me know :))

[@mrsgrayscale]

Wait wait wait did you say your SD is named Josie? So is mine! She’s a lab/ Plott hound mix.

[@betsiesbest1855]

That’s so cool!! My girlies name is Jovie but I constantly replace the V with any other letter so technically her name is also Josie, jopie, and Jobie

[@mrsgrayscale]

@@betsiesbest1855 lol I call mine Josie, Josie girl, Josie Rosy, Josie Mosie Posy Rosie, and Jos- Jos 😅

[@cd4536]

So what is downtime like? I am on a waiting list for a puppy (end of the year early next year) that I will owner train. I am concerned because my mom has this idea that the dog will be with me all the time and it's not a pet. I don't agree with that but it's a concern. We have a pretty busy house and I would hate for the rest of my family and visitors to like never be able to pet or play with the dog. The dogs had previously knew lots of tricks and loved to do them. They were learning new tricks right til the end. I don't see why I would be able to teach them to my service dog. I like to take my dog camping or fishing and allow him to swim or play fetch. I think I would be really sad if my mom was right. We are getting mixed answers to those questions. Sorry that was so long.

[@betsiesbest1855]

Don’t apologize! I’m happy to try and help. Every person decides how to let their dog live their life differently, but personally I let my dog have downtime. The dog will still task when at home, but they can also still be a dog. Mine plays and swims and we go to the dog park. She knows lots of tricks that aren’t necessarily service dog related because I think it’s fun and teaching fun tricks along with the work helps the dog stay in a good mood I find. You are in charge of your dog. If you want friends and family to pet, go for it. If you want strangers to pet, let them. You know your dog best. I let friends and family pet my dog but I try to keep it to a minimum when we’re in public because she is working then, and having strangers pet in the beginning is good for socialization so they aren’t scared. I can make a whole video on problems I went through with my dog and how we fixed them. The biggest thing you’ll want to work on is teaching that when the vest is on they are working and when the vest is off they can play. That is a lifesaver for both the handler and the dog

[@betsiesbest1855]

I wish you so much luck and I’m so excited for you to get your dog!! 💕

[@cd4536]

@@betsiesbest1855 Oh my gosh. Thanks for that answer. that was awesome. It was so helpful and really kinda put my mind at ease. As much as I need a service dog, I need a buddy. In the past year I lost both of my dogs. They weren't service dogs but I did handle their training from 12 weeks old, so I have a general idea of how much work is involved. As heartbroken as I am I really miss having a dog around. I am lucky to live near a "training academy". It's called Main Line Deputy Dog and they help owners train their own service dogs, so I will have lots of support.

[@cd4536]

@@betsiesbest1855 Thank you!

[@betsiesbest1855]

That’s great! It’s good that you already have knowledge of training. That will make it much easier for sure. And yes that was super important to me too having a buddy and my dog is definitely my buddy. One of my best friends. You’ll be shocked how well your dog can understand you and vice versa

[@wesli2510]

Hello! So I need some help. My dad (who is my primary caretaker) and me both agree that I need a sd. My therapist (who I have to see due to emotional problems from my disabilities) also agrees about this. I think I should list out my problems first to give you something to consider: -EDS, along with other joint issues that cause me to collapse or have incredibly bad pain. -Low blood pressure, which causes a lot of fainting -Irregular heart rate which causes headaches/migraines and general health issues -Processing disorders which cause me to be really slow to respond to things -Dissociative tendencies, black outs, etc. -Self-harming tendencies such as scratching, pulling, etc. My doctor said I do not need a service dog because, and I quote, “You’re a kid, nothing REALLY terrible will happen till your older, so let’s just wait sweetie, m’kay?” My dad, who hates the medical system and my doctor, went on with his research and has chosen a breed (Bernese mountain dog), and a professional dog trainer that I have agreed with. My therapist has tried getting me to look at it positively, but I can’t help thinking that since I am currently dependent on my dad I would be taking away a good opportunity for someone else? Idk it’s really hard to put it in words. But I know the fear doesn’t make any sense since I’m a freshman and will be going to college in 3 short years. Do you think I should listen to my doctor, or get outside input?

[@danielleelaineyt]

you should go with the sd and potentially find a different doctor, i went to a different doctor and am making much more progress than my old doctor on getting mine approved to take to work. it’s much harder to have no one support you but yourself and since you have two people on your side i think you should take advantage of that and let yourself get help. you deserve it💗

[@serahcurran2552]

I’m late to this but hi! I have EDS too!! And pots, which it sounds like you have. I didn’t get diagnosed as young as you, and if I had known early I would have done EVERYTHING possible to make life better. A SD, even if you don’t need it “yet” will still be helpful. On flare up days especially. Your doctor hasn’t gone through what you’re going through and what you’re going to go through in the future. Your dog can help prevent further pain and fatigue which can increase quality of life which is the most important thing in my opinion.

[@kbellmurray]

I have only had a non-service dog and gosh to people ever want to pet dogs. Even during a pandemic.

[@betsiesbest1855]

I know it’s crazy! Like keep your grubby hands away from my animal especially right now haha

[@ratskullz_x]

Im autistic and have anxiety so I hope when I get a service dog [hopefully] I am probably just gonna wear a badge saying im mute lol cause I genuinely do selective mute epsecially when I am alone lol

[@mosesphillips9687]

Why should you walk the dog on your left-side?

[@Lorelei828]

Hi, Your cute dog is just the beginning of a new adventure. My mission is to train a new puppy to be a service dog. What's your favorite breed? for service dogs, I think a golden doodle or Bernese mountain dog or golden retriever could help with my social anxiety and my tasks and orbit and block people. Stop hitting me Myself mad when with balance Because I am scared of stairs, I Love to do. agility with all my dogs. In the backyard. I have a golden doodle and scchdoodle I want more doodles and m Golden retriever and a Spaniel And husky, Newfoundland dog, Bern mountain dog, and American bulldog. I I love training my dogs I'm 23 years old, I'm a girl. Also 4 10 feet tall Which is the best size for me? I like dogs that are 35, 40, 50, and 20 pounds. I've been watching Service Dog Watch videos on KZbin for the past 3:4 years. I used to have friends have service dogs On tick tick I quit Tick Tok, it was a service dog drama and sometimes a dog hater on Tick Tok. My goal is to start. Dog to starting and my program dog training

[@izabellawright3041]

So I have a service dog and he is not listening to me he's referring to stay by my fiance and not me and I have no idea what to do...is there any help that anyone can give me..

[@betsiesbest1855]

A few things might be causing this and it totally depends on your situation… a dog is more likely to stick by the person who feeds them, walks them, and/or plays with them the most. They also might be at a strange age. So maybe create more bonding moments between you and your dog without your fiancé there. Make sure you’re the one feeding and treating them, make sure you’re training but also having play time with your dog to keep them connected to you. If your fiancé is the one playing, and you’re just the one working the dog, that could be part of the issue, but I don’t know your full situation or your dog so it could be any of those I mentioned above or it could be none of what I mentioned. I wish you the best of luck though! 💕

[@nataliechristensen420]

Groups can help but they can also be toxic

[@betsiesbest1855]

Very much so. I never post in them for fear of being ripped apart but I do like to be in them in case somebody gives any advice that I didn’t even think about

[@emilybueckert108]

Do you have a video on where to get service dog vests?

[@paige-wiens]

Personally I don't recommend petsmart, I don't know how it is at other places. But here you literally have like half a foot from the person next to you, they literally pack like 20 people in a 10ft space- I mean imagine aton on puppies getting tangled growling playing ect. I mean what do you expect when they are basically neck to neck.

[@betsiesbest1855]

I agree, petsmart is definitely hit or miss when it comes to the training and the class you’re in. For the classes I took, there were about 4-7 dogs per class, but it depends on location and trainer, I assume

[@okthen4912]

i'm in sort of in a situation. i have some disabilities but im not diagnosed because i have been really good at hiding it and its a lot harder to get a diagnosis now so i have been having a really hard time but i still really struggle with my disability. i think a service dog would help me a ton but im not clinically diagnosed with anything so am i still allowed to train my own service dog?

[@betsiesbest1855]

You definitely are. The ADA pretty much stated that you don’t have to be formally diagnosed to still have that disability. I understand completely how hard it is to get diagnosed and I’m still undiagnosed (professionally) with a few things. If I can find the link where the ada says it I will reply again. The issues you might run into would be getting school or workplace accommodations because you typically need a letter from them to receive support from the school or your HR department. But it’s still possible and you’re still “allowed”

[@okthen4912]

@@betsiesbest1855 thanks so much for the response!!! planning on getting a puppy soon to train and work on turning my life around // becoming more independent

[@tatianabunch3767]

Is it true you can write expenses for your service dog off on your taxes? One of the programs I’m looking at for a service dog mentioned it.

[@betsiesbest1855]

I am not sure about that! Ive never heard that, but that doesn’t mean it’s not true. It might make sense that you can because it’s a medical need, but I don’t have any information about that

[@dogluver431]

Yes you can I have done this for mulriple years and you get deductons because they are considered medical equipment/medical expenses

[@tatianabunch3767]

Amanda Evanson can you write of dog food, vet bills, and new gear every year as well or is it just for initial expenses?

[@dogluver431]

All expenses.

[@dogluver431]

For the year

[@onedayatatimemama7728]

The dead dog stories are the worst!! And I never in a million years expected this to be something that would be like a daily event. I also never know how to handle these people because after they say their sad story they always ask to pet my dog... so if I say no I’m like heartless if I say yes I’m break etiquette!!!

[@ginaribeiro2726]

I would probably just tell them to volunteer at an animal shelter lol or visit a petting zoo 😂

[@noahr.7144]

Dont they also have to get a special test? Idk the whole situation

[@betsiesbest1855]

In the United States the answer is pretty much no. There is no nationally recognized certifications or tests required, that does not mean that they aren’t trained, it just means it’s kind of at the owner or organizations indiscretion

[@Lorelei828]

I am sorry I can't spell sometime sometime For writing is bad

[@staceystory6414]

Why does it matter what vest we use? The Amazon ones look really nice?

[@betsiesbest1855]

It doesn’t really matter… I also used the Amazon vest for a long time, but it is often associated with fake service dogs or poorly behaved service dogs because anybody can buy it on Amazon and slap it on their dog. It’s nothing wrong with the vest and both of the ones I’ve gotten were well made and sturdy; the hesitation is just that more people draw attention to that particular vest and it’s because of the amount of false service dogs that appear with that one on. I hope this makes sense and if it did not then let me know and I’ll try to re word it

[@staceystory6414]

@@betsiesbest1855 hI. So as our pup is in training, what should I use then? I dont want people talking to her, coming up and petting her, and with my sons "special needs", he has a hard time verbalizing so does not tell people no thank you, or shes working/no communication. How do people know the difference btwn an amazon one and something else?? TIA!!

[@betsiesbest1855]

Honestly, while my dog was in training and while she was still growing, I did use Amazon vests. And just use patches that say things like “do not approach” “in training” “do not pet” and stuff like that. I like to get those patches from Etsy so they’re bigger or more personalized. It’s really not a huge deal what vest you use, I just like to bring up the perception of the plain old red Amazon vest because it has caused judgment in the past

[@staceystory6414]

@@betsiesbest1855 may I ask what you suggest then?? Im obviously new to the service world and am needing to get something for her as we're starting to bring out in public

[@staceystory6414]

I guess I mean what vest would I get for her if not from Amazon? She’s still growing so I can always get the black one if the red one is controversial for people.? I absolutely have no idea what the differences is. How do people know the difference between one from Amazon and something else? I’m a little behind schedule because the guy that was going to tan her. I talked to him for months even before I got her and went to him because he advertised Service training for autism etc. but when we met come to find out he doesn’t do specific tasks for what we need / doesn’t really do the extensive service training that he advertised. So what’s the other vest if you don’t buy one off of Amazon I guess is my other question.

[@abigailmarkowitz1308]

Did you go to college and if so did you take your dog with you? I'm in college looking to get a dog for anxiety attacks and panic disorder and was wondering if you would share your experience living in a dorm with a service animal. Thanks in advance!

[@Beanssss_]

I feel like you need to look up your college or univeristy and such for that kind of information

[@Disapointedmellencol]

the biggest problem ive run across is how SNOBBY BREEDERS can BE.! if you don't fir THEIR criteria to a T you wont get a dog,If your on SSDI or you RENT you wont get a DOG and your ACTIVLY TOLD you are to POOR to OWN a DOG! they do not seem to Understand that this is how so many dogs are in shelters. "Etherical" breeders set the price bar and standard bar so HIGh that there is a demand from those who cant drop 25K on JUST the PUPPY and then ALL the VET stuff on top of that I one go! those on SSDI are not ALLOWED to SAVE money if you have at any point over 2000$ in your account and it is NOTICED you can lose your benefits so the whole well you should save up for that ethical bred dog doesn't work! So What happens? back yard Breeders SEE this,sell the dogs they slap together at a lower cost(not counting the fashion color puppy breeders those are trying to make a LOT of money off folks that do not know pugs shouldn't be merl)Sell their Gentic nightmares who can and normally do have mental and physical issues to folks that want a dog at a reasonable afordible price. then a few months later those BYB puppys are in the shelter or rescue because the owner couldn't afford to FIX all the health and mental issues. the Only VERY Well off folks should have a dog community of Etheical breeders are the reason we have so many BYB dogs in shelters, their arrogance created this issue. The Other Mager issue I have is with the Service Dog community of Programs, So Many Will NEVER give you a dog for phycratric issues because they"never heard of a dog helping with that" or they look at your income and go nope, no one on SSDI should have a service dog as they can not afford it. or you don't have a fenced in yard,own your home etc. And I will not get started on the issue of PUGS AND FRENCHIES however it just isn't fair to those on fixed incomes to be bared from having a healthy pet or SD simply because we are on SSDI

[@kaory5290]

how are you getting your dog certified?

[@atyourservicedog]

There is no legal certification in the US. There are tons of online places that sell certificates, cards and vests, but they are scams. I just met another woman last week that paid for one, she didn’t know. They steal money from so many people, I can’t believe the government hasn’t shut them down yet.

[@theservicekalipso]

Are you owner training?

[@betsiesbest1855]

Yes I am :)

[@theservicekalipso]

Same. Any tips that you have in training in general are welcomed!

[@betsiesbest1855]

I’ll try to make a whole video on that another time, but not overbearing your dog with training is super important. Train in short increments throughout the day and keep it fun. Mix in some fun tricks for the dog to do with the service dog stuff. Also finding the right training tools for your team is super important and really helps so whether that’s an e collar, head halter, or prong, finding the right thing will make your life so much easier 💕

[@theservicekalipso]

Ok. I was worried I was crazy when my dog hated working in a gentle leader, it turned out the ecollar works better for us. And the training and tricks thats a really good idea thank you. This is why I ask. 😉 than I can learn new things. Thank you

[@betsiesbest1855]

Of course glad I could help! Yeah mine also hated the gentle leader. She shuts down on it so we use a prong now and I’m looking into an e collar. They’re just expensive so I’m saving up while I research

[@eight.blue_frogss]

I am 11 and really want my baby coco to be a service dog but the training is soo hard! Please if anybody has any training tips on training a Anxiety alert service dog comment on this comment! Things i need to train coco: •Heel •Stay •Lie down •Food , noise and animal distaction •DPT •Ignore people and dogs •Alert anxiety atacks(nudge knee) (hand shaking, scratching, heavy breathing) •Loud noises (put head on lap when loud noise is made) •no barking That's it for now but yeah so comment if you know the easiest way to train my dog This! BTW she is 1 1/2 years!

[@staceystory6414]

Go to Rachel Fusaro’s KZbin channel. She’s very helpful with the simple commands❤️

[@brookeluna9286]

Jesus loves you and died for you God bless you

[@sacredweeds]

I’ve noticed through the years it is harder for humans to remember their peers names and easier to remember the dogs names since dogs don’t mind if you forget.