What if you could see love?

[@ミネさん-v1f]

いつの間にか日本語字幕がついてる!!!! ありがとうございます、日本語字幕担当の方、アニータさん。 Thanks for Japanese team and Anita♡

[@dawnlunsford7690]

You are dead on about not feeling pressured to answer someone who seems to be imposing themselves or their opinion or request upon you. I would make the suggestion to stick with a statement, “I’m going to need to think that over and get back to you”. Rather than ask if it’s okay to get back to them. It’s important to not give away the power of taking the time we need to someone else. Thanks for these great vids!

[@davidalbro2009]

The ego is that part of the mind that distinguishes us from everyone else. Empaths by definition have a weakened ego: they have a stronger connection with the universal, they have more difficulty setting boundaries, and they take on the emotions of others. What empaths sometimes need is MORE ego. Anita is 100% correct what she says about "spiritual" teachings and empaths. For years I struggled with the idea of giving of yourself to heal yourself and not to be concerned about your own desires. This did not sit right with me at all. I have always believed that it what good to be of service and to give, but this is not what I needed to heal. With a lot of maturity and reflection I've come to realize that the best thing for me would having been told "focus on yourself so you can give to others", "giving of yourself when you are depleted with destroy you and help no one" (it did destroy me), "you have to trust yourself and find your own truth because that's how it's supposed to be. Only you live your life", and "no one is ultimately responsible for their happiness except themselves. Why wouldn't you be focused on yourself? Are others more important than you?"

[@karenridgers2178]

I am 57 and have been battling with this all my life It’s as if I have been in conflict with myself all my life Thank you thank you thank you for giving me permission to be me 🌹🙏💕

[@barbaralammi4088]

I'm listening and I'm in shock! II must have 25 self help books and you've said more that I resonate with in 30 or so minutes!!!!!!!!!! As far as I am concerned you have nailed it on ALL POINts. I felt myself saying, yes! yes! yes! to everything! The other amazing part is the TIMING! It popped in the perfect moment. Thank you as well for adding the personal experience content. Is this content available as an mp3 download? This is precious. I appreciate all you give us and I'm always left empowered. Many, many blessings to you and your team.

[@claireslattery7]

Catherine Murphy same here ❤️

[@BukyOfBukville]

Same here too.

[@jennyriegels6618]

@@elleb6346 yep! Definitely have social anxiety which makes life very difficult at times !! But very luckily, my husband "gets me" ! Anita is so very good to listen to and normalises everything as well as advising the why's and How's!!! Xx

[@annsilliman6184]

Shes amazing

[@ltudose]

Oh, so much relating to this! ❤ Thank you Anita, thank you! God bless ❣️ 🙏 ✨

[@Ripley917]

When I began to change my behavior and stand up for myself, my "friends" and family turned their backs on me. They were so used to me going out on a limb for them that when I decided to take time out to care for myself, they resented me for it. This actually created a lot of space for me to turn my life around and dive deeper within myself. Sometimes this gets lonely but mostly I feel that being my own best friend has been worth losing those who don't want to know the real me. Thanks, Anita, for wholeheartedly supporting us in valuing ourselves and standing in our own truth.

[@kcampbell867]

The more I listen to you and this talk especially, the more validated I feel i.e. love for myself. I've spent most of my life feeling odd, a misfit and while at the age of 71, I doubt that I'm in a position to make much of a difference but to myself and those in my family, I am eternally grateful for you and sharing your beliefs! Thank you from my heart, Anita!

[@michaeldrew2068]

Anita's message is so important to empaths! I finally have a name for this thing I've been feeling and her videos help me to understand the next steps I can take...visualizing love! Having experienced an NDE, I have also struggled- especially as a firefighter who puts the lives and safety of others first. Never occurred to me that I can love myself and receive love without being selfish...that these are not mutually exclusive! Thank you Anita!!!

[@j.n3426]

どなた様か、日本語字幕を付けてくださって本当にありがとうございます！ 本当に嬉しいです！ 何回も何回も見せもらってます！ 本当に聞けてうれしいです♡

[@LetMeTellYouSomething144]

Glad to say that for a few years now (not at all easy at the beginning), I am no longer a doormat or a ppl pleaser & hardly let other's opinion influence me, however, still dealing with other personal (internal) issues, however, it's all part of my journey, and I'm grateful to be here now watching these videos. Thank you.

[@Andre_Souza500]

Anita, your videos just get better and better! I just love to watch them. I can get lots of insights from them... always! Thank you!!!! 😊🙏❤️

[@JyoSco007]

André Souza I agree. It's only getting better and better week by week ☺️

[@eva-nr2bs]

Andre Souza,yes I agree as well. Thumbs up.

[@evajthacker]

Thank you for sharing your insight and wisdom, Anita. I'm learning so much through your videos. You bless me. I'm an impath, too. Some of my first childhood memories are trying to comfort other children. I would give them my milk money, a hug, or draw them a picture. I find I'm still doing for others even when it means I go without things I need. I do see that I must consider myself more and recieve more. Sometimes while I'm sleeping my spirit travels to God's realm. I've walked with Jesus and he taught me how simple it is to raise the dead. He said, " you speak life...say you will live and not die...And believe." After the dream I prayed for someone who was thrown from his motor cycle on the interstate and saw him live! God showed me in a dream how he sees me...without flaws inside and out. I want to travel in the spirit more. I long to know him better.💕

[@nathalie3102]

Such a fantastic video Anita! I always feel tons better when I listen to your words! You are a Vitamin for the soul!! Thank you.

[@ninaashik]

Sweetheart, I met you briefly in Boulder. I was cleaning the house that you were staying in, my friend introduced me to you and then you showed up on You Tube, thank you, so touched by this video. Immediate recognition.

[@sallyangell2585]

Hi Anita, I absolutely identify with all you are saying. After having breast cancer in 2009, masectomy, and subsequent reconstruction surgery, I read your first book and knew what you were saying was true for me. I played your Deep med. for Healing whenever I had health scares and after operations, and found that the relief I got from you saying You only need to do what makes you feel good..etc was amazing. I found it difficult to say no to people or speak out in hospitals if things weren't right in the system for my wellbeing, but I did it. When I first said 'No' to people, and that I was now going to do only what I wanted to do and that which was good for my wellbeing, they didn't like it (it did make me feel guilty) - and you do have to be quite firm (when you can still be feeling a bit weak). But now, I've reached 70, for which I feel immense gratitude, and I live that 'inner life' that you mentioned. It is a huge change for those people I think, who were brought up in the 'fifties to do the opposite! I am going to do that heart expanding exercise you mentioned. By the way, I agree with your sanctuary idea - what you are doing with your retreats etc is exactly what is needed today. Thank you. Sally, UK

[@lurmiraria2340]

Dear Anita, Thank you so much. This is Petri from Spain. Yes!!! So many of us feeling the same way.💚

[@SheisEileenLang]

You know, this makes so much sense. Removing yourself from toxicity does increase the love you have for yourself. It shows you what you will or will not accept in your life. Thank you for this perspective.

[@Angkhoo1]

Anita, you are right, we've been told to turn the other cheek, do not argue etc, Now I see where i have never loved myself enough and have been a door mat, Thank you for opening my eyes. I love myself more now than in the past

[@JenniferMistryBansiwalJMB]

What a beautiful message. Thank you thank you thank you...

[@GinnyMoore-pp7ow]

Anita thank you with all my heart. I am that person you were describing. My heart is so happy. You have connected so many dots for me and pieces of my personal jigsaw into place for me. I feel so blessed to have you in my life. Thank you for everything you do. Our wor. Love is so very important to me. Ginny Moore

[@margott.244]

I am very grateful for your experience, really, dear Anita because somehow you smash old theories, dogmas, philosophies which tell us we need to face our karma and stuff, and endure suffering lol which we have created where in fact you have proven healing is available, freedom is available, we are LOVE and not some result of the karma, the choice is always ours to turn the tables and become what our hearts are whispering to be, have and do regardless of what the old programing is telling us what is real and true. I am deeply grateful for that XXX : ))))

[@susanparker8519]

Anita, word's cannot express how deeply meaningful it has been to find you at just the right time. We all feel this I'm sure. Thank you for being who your are fearlessly. Tell Danny you're a bit blurry in this one darling. But your message is CLEAR!

[@jessb8225]

Where has this women been hiding!?! I’ve needed to hear this my WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE! Thank thank thank you!!! ❤️🥰✨

[@SuperPorshi]

She is like an angel

[@astrizia]

I love love love you Anita! You are such a gift! Thank you 💞

[@jaydee177]

You are a beautiful soul Anita. I can see your radiance. God bless you for the message and work you do. 🙏

[@Kayelee75]

Oh dear! Finally someone spoke my words about my view on meditation, my consept,ENTIRELY.. It is as if God or my twin soul is speaking through the whole thing!...Thank you and thank you(Universe and Anita)!

[@suraiyachagan2928]

Dear Anita. Much of what you just said resonates with me. I am an empath and I've been people pleaser all my life. Now at the age of almost 60, I feel myself at a crossroad in my life, needing to make changes but not knowing where to start or how to go about it. I do believe that my stumbling across your videos at this point in my life, is no co-incidence. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I feel empowered listening to you.

[@shirleyj2687]

Yes, yes, yes. I totally get this. It's so different for empaths.

[@michellemoonah4970]

I discovered you a few years ago but your youtube channel only a few days ago. Every video contains valuable messages and I need more time! Thanks for what you do. You are truly an angel. x

[@haruka5711]

I understand everything you say about being a doormat or being super sensitive!!! It is difficult to stop feeling that I am the only one very sensitive and feel too much about what people feel right now and care too much about that.Sometimes that makes me believe that I am weaker than other people because that uses too much energy then feel low self esteem. Now I am in my 30’s and finally understand more about myself and let myself just being me.But watching your videos and reading your books make me feel like I am not the only one and also helps me so much for trust what I feel and reminds me that I am allowed to put myself first. Then it could make someone happy!Thank you so much! My family in Japan are always watching your videos too!

[@everrrgreenwanderer4956]

And now empowering your listeners to tackke this mission we each of have.,. Wonderful thank you

[@drsarahthomas4725]

That's absolutely true, Anita. I am a lot like you. Not only that I am an empath, but in physical appearance also especially the hair and the eyes.

[@janiemiller8706]

Omg 😮 This really resonates . Straddling both worlds 🌍 😇 Exactly how I feel .... exactly!!!

[@norahstellajewelry7257]

I absolutely love your teachings. They are so soothing and calming. Like warm mothers arms around me. I am wondering how I can find out when you go live so I can watch and ask questions. I absolutely love your answer about meditation and how you check in with the outside world rather than checking in with your inner world and that you spend your life in meditation. Would you please explain that more in practical terms. How do you go about your day to day life and still be connected to our inner world. That seems hard to impossible. What tips do you have. Thank you blessings

[@kaygraves7235]

Thank you so much. 🙏💗🙏

[@romischneider1903]

I feel like you understand me better than anyone else has this entire lifetime. Better than I understand myself. Thank you for existing. Thank you for sharing yourself. Thank you for your videos 💛🙏 I love you

[@judithbeal212]

Thankyou Anita as always love listening to you and the precious information you share so lovingly and generously. Very much appreciated. 💕🤗💕

[@CoachGreg]

Thank you Anita, I am a empath but do not consider myself a doormat at all :-) Some great skills you have given me thank you! Your book "Dying To Be Me" and Wayne Dyers book "Wishes Fulfilled" are a true companion reading together, as this may be a understatement...but both of you have changed my life forever, thank you. Much love!

[@waschell1]

I was not wanting to be on this planet anymore due to self-loathing and got an email with this...I think I needed it

[@greenenergywhale]

Hi Anita. I had listened your speech in Tokyo at about 2016. And Ihad have crying so much during your speech. I love your therapy that you are giving me to be myself and love myself. This is so much of what I needed! love you so much.❤

[@listencarefully1497]

The money point is so right omg!!! I feel guilty if I pray about money.. when people give me money I feel like I need to give it back! Wow! Thank you!

[@stephsworld1112]

💚 I like listening to you and the messages. You are a beautiful soul Thank you.

[@radaworld8137]

Thank you, Anita, for all your advice! I loved your book! You are a wise, wonderful person!

[@sherylschroer6610]

Relate in so many ways!! I don't know what it means to Love myself, what it looks or feels like. Yes feel guilt or doubt myself and feel like I have done something wrong. Read your first book, love it. Love these videos, just discovered them. Thank you so much for being here and sharing.

[@conniechampagne6838]

Oh my gosh thank you as an empath o was feeling and concerned just that!

[@conniechampagne6838]

I so relate to what you are saying

[@chrisfulcher1151]

I saw you on TV with Wayne Dyer years ago and ordered your book right away. Reading it was profoundly impactful on me. Thank you for sharing your love and insight.Your words changed my life for the better.

[@maudcarlstrom4211]

Thank you, dear Anita, for spreading your insights and your wisdom. You are a gift to the world! Love and gratitude from Sweden!

[@naomikenney5520]

This resonated with me deeply, thank you.

[@reikislove9397]

I am loving your videos! Thank you so much and sending you so much love Anita!

[@LoveIsWhoWeAre]

Thank you and God bless!

[@radamalkovic7129]

Just to thank you for telling us your true life story, ,,read your book on your near death experiance,,that has helped me with the passing of my mother.... I had contact with her soon after her death and heard her voice and guideince she offered me. GOD BLESS YOU...NAMASTE

[@radamalkovic7129]

Catherine Murphy ...thank you,,,,yes I was releived knowing my beautifull mother is not suffering anymore, and to hear her voice one more time when I needed it the most.......tears still fall...love and light to you and yours

[@litabagnas7584]

iI always love myself. I was never a doormat to anybody... I am a people pleaser, but I set my boundaries when it comes to my dignity, self respect and moral values are not at stake. I always worked for my money , I will not accept money in exchange of my dignity. . thank you .

[@aspiritualwalk7391]

Hi Anita, just enjoyed this video today and passed it on to two more empaths. One thought you mentioned that I wanted to comment on is connecting to Spirit. I too love that connection and find that if I am not living in that connection because something in the world pulls me away I am not too happy of a person. Thank you for sharing and validating that thought as well as all your work in all your video's, appreciate you!

[@comicmanga888]

Thanks again for your help

[@reginaclarke1574]

Wonderful, as always. THANK YOU, Anita. And so appropo as always. Just before I started watching this today, 9-27-2019, someone sent me an email offering to loan me an amount to enable me to get a saddle chair to help with mobility right away, an amount it would take me several months or more to accumulate on my own. I was overwhelmed. I didn't know what to do. Then I started listening to you, and you said almost immediately that as empaths we need to learn how to receive. That blew me away. And near the end, what a grand statement--people with Asperger's (and others) could act and focus as if no one else existed, while empaths focused on everyone else and forgot THEY existed. I laughed out loud--I'm going to write that down and post it on a wall for me to remember.

[@ladybug9708]

What a beautiful blouse! I love the colors!

[@gingerroot8871]

I'm an empath, I often get treated badly by my employer. I show up to work really positive and do my best job. She always nitpick and never acknowledge any of the good but quickly point out the littlest of anything she can to criticize me. I always respond as positively as possible but deep down I know she is trying to get a rise out of me. I am really curious what you would advise me to do in this situation. Thank you for being you.

[@subhashreejoshi9001]

Thank you so much 🙏🤗

[@Mercy_Chanter]

Anita, you are an inspiration to all. Thank you! Much love and respect to you and everyone here

[@marcepinillos3491]

Hi Anita!! I cannot have enough of your videos. Thank you 💖 I just want to share something that has helped me change my view of everything: one of the tricks to have both purpose and self-love, is to understand that, if I do not feel the love inside, I'm not honoring my soulful purpose. We tend to confuse being of service with being of use. It takes a lot of inner listening to learn the difference. For me, I can only expand my heart when I'm of service, when I'm consciously one with my purpose, but I can only be so when I fully respect and honor my truth.

[@dailyart3988]

One of best advice ever

[@berniek4461]

Bernie from Brisbane 👋🏼 Being like you is a total complement. I do get glimpse Anita of feeling loved and worthiness thanks to you and your story. I am grateful to you for this. I ha e been following you for a couple of years and love what your doing now. The burden of the world J believe is a energy or a collective. like a hurricane we get swept into it. thank god we got out. sometimes still swirling but out and on the up and love and light xxx

[@pureddlj]

u r sooo honest Anita in everything.. that i feel in every minute of ur life.. u r attunned with Him.. God Bless u

[@frankmorse1195]

Anita I just finished watching”what if you could see love?” I hung on every word, it was if you were talking just to me. I too had an nde, am empathetic and people pleaser. You are so sweet and kind you fill the screen with your love colors. Thank you!

[@loekaenloekie]

Every really every word you spoke is related to my life and I Am so happy that after 50 years I Am coming out of all these habits and really start to listen to my inner voice. Thank you Anita

[@tomkarges1676]

thanks for being out there and sharing your message with no strings attached. Truly a rare occurrence in this world. I find your message very uplifting and encouraging to make heaven now. Thanks

[@dearlynotsodeparted]

I resonate so deeply with this message! Thank you so much. It explains a lot about myself so I'm walking away with a new understanding of myself!💙

[@jane-annemontgomery]

This gave me a “aha” moment... thank you so much Anita, you are truly an inspiration and are living in your truth! Keep doing these links, they mean so much and you’re reaching so many people! You speak my language! ❤️❤️❤️

[@joyh2125]

The connections you make is sublime. My heart follows your path like flying on the wings on a flock.

[@trishaemry55]

THANKYOU, Anita !, I am and was born an empath, I know now that I now, I’m an empath , I always have cared about others, more than myself and then wondered why am I so tired !, and exhausted !

[@christinagraham6700]

As you give the Pure Harmonious Energy that is Love you receive It and understand and appreciate the Real You who is Completely Loving.

[@marcyhernandez4250]

You are a huge blessing thank you for coming into our life. The things you share resonates deeply with me, continue to herald this precious message for many are in need of this great reminder, taking us back to "ourselves". Much love and strength sent your way.

[@denaradeen4825]

I love watching your videos over and over

[@Jaguarle]

Thank You that I also can be connected with You. I live in Berlin / Germany and listen and see You and Your wonderful statements. Thank You, that You all of this share with us. So keep on please 🌻💖💖💖 The quality of the videos and the speaking ist good (You have asked)

[@karinbjorkqvistarthurson9997]

Thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@archanagaikwad-uw2jq]

❤now got to listen watch this.. Authentic

[@hadb1086]

Love you Anita ...thank u❤❤

[@maylundy5405]

❤Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.❤

[@Musicalbites]

Can relate totally to this. I am an empath too and all this sounded like me. Also saw my dad just after he passed in a dream and felt what you described. Pure love and joy which was out of this world. Woke up healed. And more than that I was asking my higher self to send me some insights as I was feeling lost today and I stumbled upon your page and felt like I was answered. Going to check most of your videos here. :) Stay blessed.

[@jije1278]

You are great !

[@LetMeTellYouSomething144]

Totally resonate on the empath topic, not a new thing for me, however this is so helpful as a reminder. Also, by watching your videos, I have learned that I have a deeper connection to the REAL world (realm), the 80%, with this new knowledge, I will work on connecting to higher self & guides.

[@dawnlunsford7690]

I’m so glad you are doing these videos! Your voice is so soothing and your intention is so authentic.

[@marytrench3594]

You have changed my life, I cannot hardly believe how much like me you are!!I could listen to you forever. Mary Trench, Ireland

[@Liveonpoint99]

I am only now finding you, but I love and appreciate all that you share. I appreciate your openness and your sincerity. You are a breath of fresh air on KZbin. May the Universe continue to bless you.

[@everrrgreenwanderer4956]

Your completely putting out how i am too.. empowering me and giving me more understanding....,thanking you so much.

[@janiemiller8706]

Setting healthy boundaries is key. It’s def a huge must in daily life. 👏

[@barbarasilva1190]

Yes yes yes 💗🌹 thank you my beautiful friend. I always resonate with your videos. Much Love to you

[@beatrizblanco1550]

Anita, what a gift to have found you! I'm learning so much about life (and death) and myself. I have never met a person that understood so well what "living in my body" is like. I hope one day I can meet you in person. BIG HUG

[@yurisobue8807]

Nice to meet you, Anita. I live in Japan.This video is so great.I love you.I've had a hard time with the empath, but I'm finally finding my own way one by one.I don't know how to do it.That's true.I can only find the answer through experience.Thank you very much for living with us on this planet and sharing your wonderful experiences.I love you all.:)

[@sitizanariahmohamad9805]

Thank you Anita, I’m singaporean and working as a nurse. Love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@loveishappiness7330]

Love you Anita, thank you xo

[@Ednanavas88]

Anita I am brazilian and I do not understand much of anything you say, but love your experience and your work. Thankyou from Brazil.❤❤❤

[@stefanalexanderwennberg]

Awesome as always!

[@thelmaedwards5293]

I relate to that totally. I feel guilty even when I know it is what I should do for my own wellbeing.

[@toddjames3372]

As a multiple NDE and empath... this was beautifully said. Thank you.

[@vijayshankarshrivastava3280]

Ur presentation is excellent with a beautiful body language. I am sending my love n good wishes to u from India

[@hisamif5590]

Yes, I always notice what other people is feeling about their pains. I w ish I could always connect with my higher self.Then I do not have to feel lonely.

[@Shizel9]

Hello Lovely Anita You are the closest one to my own experience of to be a doormat. Although I have been changed by so many trouble and painful experiences but I think still I’m not in the right direction. But by listening to you make me more understand of where i am now and where I’m going . I love to talk to you . You’re pure bless❤️

[@anujain6406]

I m really connecting with wat u said because i am also an empath and I also feel the same...bt people think it's stupid when they listen all this...I am really happy to have your ideas as after listening you I have really getting connected to myself

[@danielaruthhorinkova2296]

Hello Anita, thank you for your great words and teachings. I read 2 of your books in slovak language and now Im watching your videos more and more. And although Im not speaking English very well, I started to understand your message better and better. Be blessed - You and Danny! Greetings from Slovakia.

[@oceanqueen111]

Anita,Thank you so much. It helps me a lot.