what if you don't get closure?

i am okay with never getting closure and here is why.
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[@nayanapillai6926]

Needed to hear this! Loved the video so much🫶🏽

[@lotsofloveariya]

i am so glad to hear that nayana 🥰 thanks so much for watching!

[@lucynorton905]

Love the analogy with the burning yourself on the pan , resonates so much 🫶🏻

[@lucynorton905]

This is such good info!!! Definitely the same with making up scenarios, when really it’s nothing to do with us at all! ❤

[@MarionOke]

So happy to see you back on KZbin!! 🎉

[@lotsofloveariya]

thanks marion!! lots more to come🪄

[@RIFATAFRIDI-x4m]

Actually ur videos are really informative & helpful. You deserve more views , like , comment ,share & subscribers on your channel . i think you need to find out which kinda problem have on you channel ,then fixed this problems🥰🥰🥰

[@lotsofloveariya]

@@RIFATAFRIDI-x4m you are so kind! thank you for saying such kind things. yes i hope i can figure out how to improve my channel☺️

[@arooney4317]

Good to see you back! Hope you are doing well 🙏🏽

[@lotsofloveariya]

aww thanks for sticking around! :) i am really well thanks, how are you?

[@arooney4317]

I’m great thanks. This is a great vid! Couldn’t agree more. Sometimes a persons actions are devoid of thought for others, like you said usually those actions have nothing to do with you. Understanding that is the first step to moving on and not needing closure. I feel like closure is sometimes an excuse to hold on to that person (particularly relevant within an unsuccessful relationship). Very human to want closure but I find that it rarely helps.

[@lotsofloveariya]

@@arooney4317 i couldn't have said it better myself!! seeking closure in some situations is often a thinly veiled approach to hold onto someone. and i agree, it is very human to still want closure.

[@lotsofloveariya]

engaging with my video will tell youtube to show it to more peeps! like, comment & subscribe for more. i hope to see you again soon☺️💖💖