What it's like living in Paris - I moved to Paris alone

[@StephanieWheeler-f4u]

Hi Lauren, As a person of faith, I am a Christian, I would recommend that you seek out a local place of worship connected to your own faith. I have moved a dozen times in my life as a single woman from East Coast to West Coast in the U.S. and Northern California to Southern California for my profession in banking. I’ve gotten grounded and connected in each locale by church and a ladies Bible study. That’s been the safest and most comfortable way for me to make connections and then branch out from there socially. Also, give yourself some grace. 😊 It takes time to feel comfortable in a sprawling new city. It took me about 4 years to adjust to moving to Los Angeles from San Francisco and I grew up in Southern California! 😅 Wishing you well and all good things and blessings for your life in Paris. What a beautiful city! I just stumbled upon your channel today and watched a couple of videos and decided to subscribe as I enjoyed your content. 😊

[@rebeccakoval9413]

Lauren, welcome back, and thank you for sharing your experience with such grace and vulnerability. I’m sorry about the loss of your beloved Thumper and that you haven’t been greeted with kindness across the board. Continued well wishes for more resilience and happiness ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Rebecca, thank you so much, it's great to be back as I missed creating videos 🙂 appreciate your kind message and support a lot, thank you! Happy Sunday to you 😘

[@kath6720]

Moving to a new country can be very challenging. I’m Parisian but grew up in many countries so I’m used to adapting extremely fast but that’s not to say that some places are more challenging than others . Strangely enough one of the places I went through what you went through was in Australia. Perth. Work was horrendous. It felt like I couldn’t do anything right. It took 3 long years to finally belong. I was lucky in the sense that my sisters and I all moved to Australia together so I had that support. With my luck I had to leave a year after things started going well. But it made me even stronger and I learned that ultimately I cannot live up to people’s expectations and it was for me to go out and find people that suited me. We French and particularly Parisians are rather cold at first approach. It’s not easy to get to know us, it’s true. Probably because of our city, our language, our culture, our history we tend to have a superiority complex. But once we know you, we will be your friends to the bitter end. I am not saying this because I’m French but I have rarely found more loyal than the French in friendship. That said nobody has the right to treat you that way. Next time they bully you, be Parisian. Give it as good as you get. There are so many lovely people in this city. So do not give up. Know that there is always a time of adaptation. You’ve come so far. You’ll make it. It is your city as well now. You have every right to find the happiness you are seeking. This too shall pass. I promise 😊 And if you need any pointers about socializing or anything, I’ll be happy to share . Tu n’es pas seule. Bon courage ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Bonjour Kath, j'espere que tu vas bien et je te remercie pour ton message ❤ I'm so sorry to hear you experienced this, especially in my home country. 3 years is quite a while, especially so far away from home and in a different culture too. I'm glad you had your sisters there with you to help. What an experience you must have all had! I also understand what you mean about not living up to others' expectations and that we need to find our people, these are good points. 💯 I also really appreciate your insider view on your culture and tips as well, this is very useful and gives me hope! I didn't focus on joining expat groups as really I wanted to make friends with the locals as I thought I would be moving here permanently. Perhaps I can have a good balance! Thank you again for your message and perspective also coming from your experience overseas and also as a Parisienne, it's very kind and helpful. Merci a toi et je te souhaite une belle semaine 🙂

[@Sungirl88]

I’m sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one is devastating. My heart goes out to you dear.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you lovely for your message... it is unfortunately something we all experience but more reason to value the time we have I guess ❤ Happy weekend to you

[@FunworldwithTad]

My best friend Sue died, 16 years , she had congestive heart failure! I was so bad for me, I loved her so much!!!

[@adrianamartins5479]

Lauren, I'm so sorry about Thumper! I know how it feels to lose a pet. Cheer up, head up and don't let anyone steal your joy of living and working in Paris. You were vulnerable for so many reasons: losing Thumper, leaving your family, being alone, the language barrier, that is why you were bullied. You were an easy prey. You seem a nice person, but there's mean people everywhere, so don't allow them to ruin your life. I'm sure you'll get through this! Good luck!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Adriana, thanks for your message and also for your positive advice and outlook, I appreciate it 💖 I hope you're well and had a great weekend! 🙋‍♀️

[@mercedes523]

My goodness! You were so blessed to have an apartment in the 7th!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, yes I have to agree with you on that point - I certainly was fortunate in this particular aspect thankfully! Rive gauche toujours 😉

[@elizzy8754]

Yes, really - it's an elegant, civilised, residential area. "Boring" can also mean safe, which is important. Very good métro and bus lines. Every single shop or service you will ever need. I've been visiting Paris regularly since 1976 and I still go to the same hotel in the 7ème (which is on its third renovation!).

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

I'm so glad you love it and appreciate it as much as I do - you're right, safety is important (especially as a single woman on her own) and with every shop & service close by. That's lovely you return to the same hotel, it must be like a second home for you here in Paris 😍

[@francesdobbins2964]

Keep your head.up! Life is too short! Don't let a.few.people dim your light! You are an amazing woman! Enjoy your time in Paris. Remember your beloved dog.Thumper is always watching over you.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much Frances, and you're right that life is too short 💯 I won't ever forget my Thumper and I know I'll see him again one day, thank you 😘

[@ganymeade5151]

Absolutely. Our loved ones never really leave us. They are with us in spirit.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

@ganymeade5151 thanks, that's so true 🥰

[@renferal5290]

I lost my dog Maile just over 3 years ago. She was my heart and my everything. I still cry when I think of her. I would give the world to have her back. I am so sorry for the loss of Thumper. I'm off to Paris next month. I have found the French to be so kind.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, sorry for the delayed reply and sending you the biggest hug for the loss of your Maile, I completely understand how you feel and how deep the loss hits... ❤ I hope you enjoy your time here in Paris, feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions or worries, I am here!

[@joan8178]

You are a lovely young woman. Continue to be strong & courageous. I tell younger women to follow their dreams and not to let anyone discourage them from achieving their dreams! So many people will bully & discourage you out of jealousy or fear they don't measure up. BE THE PERSON DEAR THUMPER KNEW YOU TO BE!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Joan, I appreciate you making the time to watch and for your kind message, thank you 🙏 ❤️ and definitely yes, doing this for my Thumper is the ultimate motivation to make something good of the experience 🐶 Wishing you a lovely Sunday ahead 😘

[@paulathistleton1339]

You are incredibly courageous -at 40, I moved to Perth from Sydney, so there is no language barrier. It was lonely and challenging, but I look back (now living back on the East Coast) and feel proud that I did it! What you are doing is fantastic - keep doing what you are doing because you are still in Paris and enjoying so many aspects of your life. And please keep making your vlogs. I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye to Thumper many, many hugs.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Paula, thank you for the message, it's great to hear from you 😊 That was a big move on the other side of Oz! I'm glad you can look back and feel proud of yourself, good on you for doing it on your own, it's not close to Sydney or quick to get back there either! I appreciate the encouragement and support, will try to make more vlogs here in future 🇫🇷 Wishing you a lovely Sunday and hope all is well back home in Oz!

[@ganymeade5151]

Lauren, you are very strong and also an amazing person. Anyone who has lost a beloved pet and best friend knows how painful it is. It takes strength, courage, and self awareness to acknowledge feeling vulnerable. Never let mean people hurt you. There are many videos online that can help you survive toxic people like delusional narcissists and bullies. Always know that you are right and be your own best friend.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there and thank you, I appreciate your support and the helpful encouragement so much ❤️ the video and research suggestion is a good idea 💡 I'll check some out here on KZbin 🙏

[@miathompson1172]

I m so sorry that you have been going through having to deal with some less than kind people. Some people unfortunately are just down right mean and jealous. Remember happy people are not unkind to others.I love your channel and all your videos are so interesting. I completely understand your sadness about Thumper… I used to have a little terrier and he lived to the age of 17. Thumper s spirit will always be with you.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Mia, thanks a lot for your message and kind support, I appreciate it 💕 yes you're right, hurt people don't hurt other people... I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your furbaby 🐶😔 17 years is such a long time as well so that's not an easy loss and would take time to process... I hope you're keeping well and enjoying your weekend, thanks again for making the time to message 😘

[@jean-jacquesgentric2090]

I'm very touched by your sincere and modest testimony. In the course of my life, I've also lived abroad for some time, and even in the most beautiful places in the world, being alone is always an ordeal. This is accentuated by the language barrier and the difficulty of establishing real, lasting relationships with the locals. And living in a big, bustling city, however spectacular, is another challenge. Day-to-day worries quickly overshadow the place's assets! You're smart, resourceful and positive, and I'm convinced you'll soon find the happy balance that will enable you to enjoy the City of Light to the full. With my sincerest encouragement.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Jean, hope you have been well! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experience - you've articulated the different aspects so eloquently as well, I understand completely what you mean with these examples 💯 Appreciate you making the time to watch and message 🙏 Wishing you a wonderful new week ahead

[@Sara-pn8ft]

Thumper was such a vibrant and beautiful dog ❤May he rest in peace

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much Sara, that means a lot to me ❤️ sending you much love

[@insaneandvain6188]

What a journey thank you for sharing . I’m sure Thumper is a Parisian pooch in spirit. 💜

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much ❤️🙏 I think he is as well! 🐶🇫🇷😍 Happy Sunday ☀️

[@laurafogel7432]

Its nice to see a honest video about struggles we all go through. I moved Cities when I was very young, and its just never quite right when you are a stranger in a new city. It takes time to build community, definitely seek out other expats and perhaps groups of newcomers learning to speak french, I am sure you would be helpful to them.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Laura, thank you so much for sharing your personal experience, that's very helpful for me to hear this and a good encouragement too ❤❤❤ And very good ideas as well, much appreciated 🙂🙏

[@laurafogel7432]

@@LaurenGraceHarding I also suggest you reach out to your fellow local youtube community, there are so many people I think you would connect with . Maybe Arielle in Paris? Darlene in the Dordone (shes an aussie), KJ and Tony move to Paris?

[@paulamarie2325]

Sending you a huge hug Lauren. I'm in awe of your courage and resilience and I'm so sorry to hear about the difficulties you've experienced. I hope a new chapter is about to open for you and you meet some new lovely friends that are worthy of a special person like you. Looking forward to more videos xx

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you Paula for your lovely message 💕 I hope so too, everything should work out in time... wishing you a great Sunday 🙏

[@FunworldwithTad]

I am coming to Paris, retirement with my tiny chihuahua Tad! Looking forward to it!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

That's wonderful, I hope you have an amazing retirement here with your Tad

[@FunworldwithTad]

@@LaurenGraceHarding Thanks , already purchased some cute French outfits for him!! I am half French half German. I live outside of New Orleans, lots of French influences here!

[@annie.c7130]

It’s so good you’re back Lauren. Appreciate your authenticity and sharing of this life changing experience! Heartfelt condolences to Thumper ❤and so glad you’re proud of yourself - your courage, resilience, persistence are all a testament to your strength in character! Hang in there x Can’t wait to watch more videos with more updates! I’ve had similar dreams when I was growing up to live in Vienna. You’ve ‘replanted’ a long forgotten seed… I will live vicariously through you for now.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Annie, hope you're doing well and sorry for my delayed reply. I really appreciate you making the time to write, it means a lot to me so thank you ❤❤❤ Ah you love Vienna too?! You know, it's my second favourite city in Europe after Paris, so beautiful there - the architecture is equally as beautiful and the food and coffee is incredible too! I can understand why you dreamed of living there 😍 I hope you can realise your dream, or at least visit there soon!

[@sally9852]

Awww sweet thumper my gosh losing a dog is so painful I’m sorry and I know how you feel I went through it as well ❤❤❤ dogs are the best I’m glad you gave thumper a great life with you

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Sally, thanks a lot for your kind message, I appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️ Sending you a big hug 🫂

[@lindagregoire8001]

Hang in there , hold your head up and don’t let anyone steal your joy . I’m sorry to hear about your dog Thumper, I recently lost my dog and you realize they aren’t just a dog .They are a most trusted friend , grieving is hard , especially if people don’t understand how much they mean to us. Yes you are courageous. Who knows what life will bring . Living in Paris may be for a season in your life or it may be for ever . You’ll know , your heart will tell you. I follow another influencer that moved from England to Paris , you two should meet 😊 I think sharing your authentic self mixed with life in Paris and some fashion would be interesting

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Linda, thanks for your message and I'm sorry to hear you lost your dog as well, sending you my love and hugs 🫂 you're absolutely right, they are definitely a trusted friend and so precious 🐶 Thank you for your insights and it's true! It will be interesting to see what happens, perhaps we are drawn somewhere which is really meant to take us on to other places in time 😊 oh that sounds nice, please do share as it would be helpful! And thank you, I will try to share a mixture of content whilst I'm here!

[@suzannebouse8747]

Hi Lauren I’ve just sort of found you on KZbin Cried a wee tear for your loss of your dog, was so happy for your apartment then sad again to hear about your horrible experience at work These things can happen regardless of where you live and I’m glad you’re lifting yourself up and onwards Looking forward to seeing make new friends, finding new hobbies and experiences so chin up it’s all upwards from here

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Suzanne, it's lovely to hear from you and thanks a lot for making the time to message, that means a lot to me 🙏 You're right, I think these types of things can happen in any country, it was just so much all in a short space of time...I'm feeling happier now I'm back creating here on KZbin though as it's giving me something to focus my attention and creativity on which is a great plus! Thank you for your kind encouragement, sending you a big thank you hug! ❤❤❤

[@TheShoneez]

❤❤you are amazingly strong and you are exactly where you are meant to be embrace the beauty around you, thank you for all you share with us 😊❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you for the lovely message and support, it's very kind of you! I hope I can share more of the beauty here with you 🙂 Happy weekend 😘

[@lindagrey5728]

Oh you poor girl, I think being anywhere on your own without close family and friends is very difficult. Remember most bullies are either jealous or threatened or both ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Linda, thanks for your message and yes it's a good reminder. I will use this pain and turn it into personal power hopefully 🙏 Hope you're keeping well

[@suzy8109]

You seem like such a sweet person. Please come to London ... it is just as pretty and historical as Paris but Brits are really welcoming (we love Aussies and that's why so many move here) so you will never feel lonely. There is also no language barrier. Keep smiling ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Suzy, thanks for your message ❤😍❤ I'd love to come to London, have visited a few times and it honestly feels like being back home in Australia. Everyone in London have always been so lovely and welcoming, and I love a British accent too! 😉 Hope you're enjoying the weekend 😘

[@cccook1037]

My heart goes out to you. I hope you will find a great friend there to help you through. 💜

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much lovely, appreciate the support and happy weekend 😘

[@dawnpotts5941]

Awe Lauren, this made me cry… I know exactly how you feel! I moved from England to Vancouver, Canada and I felt all of those emotions! I even moved back home for 2 years… but I missed Canada too much! And I moved back…I’ve been here 30 years now…bar 2! It’s my home. I understand it’s harder for you as French is your second language… but hang on in there! The first few years are the most difficult, as far as feeling more at home, making friends etc… but you’ll get there 😘 and you have all of your loyal followers who love you sending so much love and support to you ❤❤❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Dawn, thank you for your lovely support and encouragement 💕 and for sharing your story! That's quite a move but how great that you loved Canada so much that you decided to try again, it's wonderful to hear 🤗 and Canada looks so beautiful with amazing landscapes 🏞 Appreciate your support, it means a lot to me and hope you have a great Monday 😘

[@wendylbranchfield7959]

One thing I will say that is nearly a universal fact, once you stand up to a bully and let them know, in no uncertain terms, that you will not tolerate their behavior; it usually stops I did not get to see Notre Dame when I was there, as it was under construction. I would love to see anything regarding that. Or, the catacombs, I did not get to see that either. Sending hugs from Chicago

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Wendy, you might be right - I guess I need to learn how to do this in French now 😊 I'll try my best to share both with you soon! Sending you hugs and thanks for making the time to watch and comment 😘

[@shannonrolfes5171]

Life is too short for bullies. Your job takes up a lot of your life. Tears should not be shed over a job. Constantly controlling your responses to unpleasant people is an energy draining life. Go for happiness. Leaving Paris would not mean that you have not given up nor have you failed. You will not lose any of the things you have learned about yourself. Your mental health is all that matters. ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Shannon, thanks for your message! You are right as work takes up a lot of time... I'm quite fortunate that I enjoy my role and have an amazing manager and team, so that definitely helps! I'm better now this year that I'm balancing my time. And agree our mental health is so important - I will go for the happiness as you mentioned 😊 Hope you're keeping well and thanks again 🙏

[@loreymitchell8219]

Lauren, I so sorry about your dog. Regarding loneliness here I totally get it as an expat!! I thought it would be so easy to make friends and meet people but it can be quite isolating. I joined a group AWG Paris which has English speaking friends from all over the world and all ages. I have met the most wonderful ladies that I can now call true friends and the group really looks out for each other whether and if you have a problem here you can draw from their experience. They do so many fun things. Sometimes you just need to be able to sit with woman and be able to speak in English and compare all your experiences. Just something to think about to make the journey easier. I really enjoyed your video and the realness of your sharing.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Lorey, thanks a lot for making the time to watch and message, I really appreciate it ❤️🙏 its great to hear that you understand as an expat, and also to hear about your experience with joining the AWG Paris group! I will need to google the group 😊 thanks again for sharing your thoughts and experience, happy Sunday to you 😘

[@sorayasedrati1369]

beautiful courage to live alone i know what you are living but Paris is Paris ! you're right i m agree with you so welcome in Paris your place !

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you for the message 🙏 ☺️ and it's lovely to be in Paris as it is so beautiful 😍 Happy Sunday to you!

[@KirstenMoe-fg9wg]

Thank you for sharing such an honest and heart-felt video of your experience. I can really feel and relate to everything you are saying. Having lived in 3 different countries in the span of 9 years, there are so many ups and downs, but it is truly transforming in so many ways. It gives you strength and reflections of yourself you wouldn't have seen otherwise. Your face lit up when you were talking about how much you enjoy making videos! It is a way of connecting to the world beyond your neighborhood. Bon continue!

[@elizzy8754]

I'm sorry you have had problems at work. Often it's jealousy on the part if the bully. You have done something that they could probably never do: change country, find a place to live, learn a language. They may be threatened by your professional competence. I'm glad you are coming out of that dark patch. One thing that might help is to join an interest group or an association. Swimming class, exercise or dance class or one of the myriad associations that exist - the website of the Mairie in the 7ème will have a list. It was only when I joined a volunteer group around an interest of mine that I started to make friends and actually get invited to people's houses! Make the most of the fantastic TGV network from Paris: Bordeaux (gorgeous), Brittany and Normandy are not far. Sending you very good wishes.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thank you for sharing your perspective and suggestions too, it's very helpful 🙏 I never thought of visiting that site for the Mairie in the 7ème so I'll need to check it out! And definitely agree with you on making the most of the TGV, that's a great idea 🤩

[@ChristineSmith-ls5is]

What a brave, honest and wonderful person you are. Top marks for persevering. Unfortunately, there are always some nasty people along life's way to test our resilience. Well done you. I am sure this video will help anyone who is thinking of working in a foreign country. I love your fashion videos too

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Christine, thank you so much for watching and sharing your support, that means a lot to me ❤️❤️❤️ hope you're keeping well and enjoying your weekend 😘

[@zoebell1535]

❤ You absolutely rock. Thank you so much for your honesty. You *are* courageous, you *are* resilient, you absolutely deserve that hard-won pride you have in yourself. Brava!! 🥳😊

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi lovely Zoe, thank you so much for your message, I appreciate it ❤ Wishing you a lovely weekend ahead!

[@e.walloch590]

Lauren, I just returned home from Toulouse to visit my nephew. Unfortunately, I did not make it to Paris this time. Your video is so heartfelt. Thank you for sharing your journey to living in Paris and your personal growth journey. Bravo! I appreciate the honesty - the good and the bad parts of living abroad. It was very informative. Best to you!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, I hope you had a lovely time in Toulouse and with your nephew too! Toulouse needs to be on my France must visit list 😍 Thank you for making the time to watch it and share your thoughts as well 🙏 Bon dimanche a toi!

[@lewistracy3061]

You are very brave ❤ I have visited Paris many times and it is a beautiful city . I think it would be the most rewarding and at the same time the most challenging place to live if you do not really know anyone. The Parisians are nice but I find it takes a lot to feel welcome. I know you will persevere and you will make some close friends. It just takes time . Hang in there ❤❤❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there lovely, thank you for your message, I appreciate it 🙏 So happy to hear you've been able to visit Paris and you're right, it is so beautiful 😍 I will certainly try my best to persevere here and enjoy the time I have. Thanks so much again and wishing you a wonderful weekend ahead 😘

[@pjmacca100]

Aww 🥰 thanks for sharing from your heart your experience in Paris after that sad loss of your beloved dog. You are an inspiration to me Lauren and I congratulate you on making it to Paris and finding such a perfect location for your apartment even before you got there. I am so sorry to hear of your bullying experience and the heartache and tears that brought you my friend. They say with every adversary there’s the seed of an equal or greater benefit. I’m glad to hear you’ve been able to move on from that terrible experiences with the help of your close friends and see and enjoy the positives about Paris. Thanks for sharing this U-Tube video. I’ve loved watching it 🫶🥰❤️ 🇫🇷

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Peter, it's lovely to hear from you! Thanks for the message and encouragement 🙏 you're right, I think it all balances out and I'm definitely able to see positives with the move which is good 😀

[@emmabenfield874]

Oh my goodness, Lauren, when you spoke about Thumper, I just wanted to give you a hug. I always loved it when he appeared in your videos. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable in this video. You are an absolute inspiration☺

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thanks Emma, your kind message is a written hug and much appreciated 🙏❤️🫂 appreciate you making the time to write and hope you're doing well 😘

[@amytillman2609]

Lauren I am so sorry to hear about sweet Thumper. We had to do the same thing with our first dog that we had for 13 years. It was a blessing to be with him as he drifted off to heaven. I remember the doctor saying keep talking to him because hearing is the last thing to go. I’m so happy you got to hold Thumper and be with him as he passed. It truly is a blessing. Paris sounds so amazing. Enjoy!!! I can’t wait for more videos!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Amy, I'm sorry to hear but happy you were able to say goodbye to your little boy as well, you're right as it is a blessing 🙏❤️🐶 Thanks so much for sharing and for your message 😘

[@robandsophie8333]

Hello from South Africa , Moving country is always difficult. And living and working there ,,,,, So well done. Yes, courage took long to build but end of day u did it and made yourself proud …we r living in this world to writing our own history each day. Right or wrong ,people like us or not doesn’t matter ,time will tell and living your dream life girl,let no one stop you. I like to see the museum and vintage/ antiques 😊

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hello! Thank you so much for the lovely encouragement and support ❤ I love how you share that we're writing our own history each day, that is so true and beautifully expressed 😍 I'll try to share some museum and vintage/antique vlogs during my summer holidays next month 🌞 sending a hug down to you in South Africa!

[@JohleneOrton]

Just found your channel & loved your transparency in this video. I'm a South African living in Spain and can 100% relate to what you're saying ❤ Subscribed!! 🥰

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Johlene, thank you so much and for making the time to watch and message, I appreciate it 🙏 How long have you been living in Spain for? I hope you are enjoying your new life there 🙂

[@JohleneOrton]

I have been here for aprox 15 years. Its been a long road and when I saw your video I knew I had to reach out ❤ I sincerely hope you are feeling so much better when you read this x

[@zoeread5148]

I found your video very moving and honest, particularly about the difficulties you have encountered in making the move, the loneliness, work place issues. I am glad that you have realised how courageous and resilient you are, finding your personal growth from a stressful situation. I think having an outlet for your creativity via videos and vlogs will be a big help going forward; it helps to put things in perspective, rising above any petty workplace politics. I wish you well and look forward to your future adventures in Paris.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Zoe, thank you so much for making the time to watch and also message, it really means a lot to me ❤ And yes, having that creative outlet is a big positive! I am feeling much better now I've started creating vlogs and videos again which is good. Thank you again and wishing you a lovely Sunday 😘

[@Crumpets7377]

Life is too short to be unhappy, stay as long as the positives outway the negatives. I spent my 20's and 30's in living in different countries and by 41, I was ready to move back home. Living on your own in a foreign country is life altering abd amazing but when it becomes extremely lonely and no longer suits you, don't force it.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Brenda, you're right, we never know how long we have here... ❤ Oh wow, what an experience to live in different countries especially from such a young age starting in your 20's 😍 you would have some stories to share I'm sure! It's great to hear of your journey and that you are back home now and your advice, thank you so much. I agree it's not best to force something if it no longer suits, thank you for making the time to share, much appreciated 🙏

[@ABREDI10]

Aww sending love this is a difficult experience it takes a long time to adjust❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you, I appreciate the love and send some back to you as well ❤❤❤

[@suepussilano1069]

You are a beautiful, lovely and courageous young woman full of Grace and poise. Your perseverance is amazing through all of this. You will be just fine and do well no matter if you stay or leave. All of life is a teaching tool and each season prepares us for the next. Wishing you the very best Lauren. I will be praying for you .

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Sue, thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful support, it means a lot to me! 🙏❤ I think you are right, all of life is teaching is and I like how you mentioned each season prepares us for the next - this is true not only in nature but in our lives as well. Very eloquently put 😘

[@gloriaconte]

thank you for your story, it breaks my heart for your dog Stumper.I wish you all the best in Paris and take care.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you Gloria for your message and support, I appreciate it ❤

[@k.tp.2461]

Such honest talk and I totally relate, lived 27 years in France and understood mentality is very different from where I come from, now I live in Luxembourg alone and restarted my life after divorce, also focusing only on work and not socialising enough. It's indeed not good but to keeping my job is my number one concern. I think one can admire a town, or country but sometimes our place isn't there.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, hope you have been well! It's great to hear your thoughts, especially as you spent so much time living over here in France ❤ I completely relate to needing to focus on work to keep a job and that being the top priority - it was exactly the same for me here as well 💯 And your note about how you can admire a town or country but it may not be meant for you is very true... I feel like Australia will be always be home in my heart - I'll see how I go in France but Oz is not a bad place to live either 😍 Wishing you a lovely Sunday

[@claireelliott9195]

My goodness Lauren, I have watched your channel on and off for a while and didn’t realise you had moved until I caught this. Well done on everything you have achieved - absolutely amazing and so much strength shown. Don’t let those bullies get to you - easier said than done when you are on the receiving end day in and day out I am sure. You keep going with the support of those who care about you. Bless Thumper, you did the right thing by him and you know it. Stay strong girl and go get em!! Xx

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Claire, hope you are doing well and my apologies for the delayed reply... thank you so much for watching and sharing your support, it means a lot to me 🙏 Your message is like a warm hug for my heart, so thanks to you ❤❤❤ Wishing you a wonderful new week ahead 😘

[@charlesblack1086]

Thank you. I really enjoyed your honest assessment of moving to Paris. It's a dream of mine but sometimes I wonder if I could really do it. I follow a lot of American expats and live thru there experiences. Thank you for adding another voice to consider.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Charles, thanks so much for making the time to watch and to write a message, i appreciate it 🙏 I would encourage you to follow your dream of moving to Paris 100%! It will inspire you, bring you wonderment, open your mind and also push you to your breaking point all at the same time 😉 I watched a lot of other Paris KZbinrs for years before moving here but never would have expected the experience I have personally gone through, but that is life and we're all on our own journey. Your experience will be your personal path, but if it's what you want, there is no reason why you can't make it happen! And if it doesn't work out, you can always go home 🙂

[@charlesblack1086]

@@LaurenGraceHarding Thank you. I appreciate your taking the time to encourage me. It means a lot. I will keep you posted. All the best. Charles

[@lindatippett7275]

I think you are just the loveliest, sweetest person. Thank you for sharing your experiences and giving us a glimpse into your life in Paris. So sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved dog. Hugs from Kangaroo Island❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Linda, thank you so much for the kind message and so nice to hear from someone from Kangaroo Island as well! 🥰 🇦🇺 🦘

[@DeanRamser]

Bonjour! Excellent video! You are correct in that all we can control is our reaction (perspective) to events; we cannot control others or outside events. Paris looks amazing. We are retired educators. We just finished a long stay in Europe: 5 months helping a new school open in Lvivv, one month in Krakow learning about WWII, and a month in Tallinn. My teacher's pensions and our social security, plus rental income, qualify us for the Long Stay Visa. But we are not sure which area of France is best for us as seniors. Toulon looks perfect for us as retired and relaxed. It looks very safe (unlike parts of any big city in America). We love the beaches; reminds us of our beaches back in SoCal!! Healthcare, public transportation (like the Bart in SF), and within walking distance to markets (rare in the states, athough in downtown Portland we can walk or take the streetcar to many places) are important. Merci! Thank you again!! Dean & Cindy

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Dean & Cindy, thanks for watching and for your message 🙏 It sounds like you've both had the most amazing adventure in Europe and making a difference at the same time which is wonderful! That's great you can qualify for a long stay visa as well - it would enable you to decide whether France is for you and to explore the different regions 🙂 I haven't visited Toulon as yet so unfortunately I'm not able to share any thoughts but from what you've shared it sounds like it ticks the boxes for what's important for you both, which is important! And beaches are so important, I agree with you on that!

[@MademoiselleModa]

You are so brave to follow your dreams. Unfortunately, hurt people hurt other people. I am blessed to have my family to help adjust in a new country, but even then, it can still be difficult with just the daily tasks, like getting connected to wifi 😅 If you can, maybe you can attend some expat events and socialize that way. Also, my relationship with God has helped to carry me through difficult times. I will pray for you bc you have been such an inspiration to me and so many others. Please keep your kind and gentle spirit. Keep your head up and friends will find you ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thank you and I appreciate you making the time to share your perspective and support ❤ I just wish hurt people could look inward instead of causing more hurt to others, but I know life doesn't work that way unfortunately. It's great you have your family to help, where did you move to and from which country, if you feel comfortable sharing? I also completely understand what you mentioned about your relationship with God and how that's helped to carry you through, it's been the same for me and my relationship with God truly deepened more than ever recently, probably as a result of the intense challenges. So in that way, that's been a true blessing 🙏 Thanks to you and I'm sending you a big hug!

[@kimle848]

The Parisians in particular are not a friendly sort in general. Unlike the Americans and Australians. Your best bet would be to find support from the expats. I love the 7th arrondissement. It's one of my favorite neighborhoods in Paris. The other one is Le Marais. Bon courage.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Kim, thank you for making the time to share your thoughts and idea too. So happy you love the 7th! And Le Marais is also amazing, I need to spend more time exploring there ❤ Merci et bon weekend!

[@dianesexton2697]

Oh Lauren, so sad for you about thumper, you’ll never get over losing him but it will get easier. I was so happy to see you back on KZbin and worried about what had happened to you. Just hope you get things sorted out with the bully’s and don’t let them get to you anymore. I’m here for all your videos, I found you through the sezane ones but now I’m here for your new life in Paris.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Diane, thanks for the lovely message and I hope you're well 😊 It's nice to be back and I appreciate your support a lot, thank you! Hope to share more and wishing you a wonderful Sunday 😘

[@braziliaan]

Be strong. Someday in the future you’ll be proud of yourself. By the way, I love your Australian accent.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thank you! I'm happy to hear that, I think I'll try to keep my accent 😊

[@adeleelzinga]

Thanks so much for sharing your story. Your Thumper was a beautiful dog. I believe you did what was best for your best fur friend. I know the heartache 💔 having lost my furkid a yr ago too. Thinking of you and know he’s never far from you. Sending hugs.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thanks so very much for your thoughtful message and support, it truly means a lot 🙏❤ I'm sorry to hear of your loss of your furbaby, sending you a huge hug... you are so right, they are never far from us and always in our hearts and hopefully to meet in our dreams at night sometimes too 😇 Thank you again and hope you are keeping well 😘

[@cathyshannon2130]

Thank you for sharing such a personal story, Lauren. I am sorry to hear about Thumper; you have loved him so dearly, he will be in your heart forever. I hope you can meet some special friends in Paris. You are really brave to move so far on your own. 🥰

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Cathy, hope you are going well 😊 Thank you for the message, I appreciate it 🙏 I'm sure it will get easier in time as I continue to adjust 🇫🇷

[@glfom1]

Lauren, Thank you for sharing some of your story. Continue to be strong and very courageous.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hello there, thank you so much for your thoughtful message, I appreciate it ❤

[@thesoulhome68]

I just found your channel, and as a fellow Aussie, I found your story incredibly inspiring and heartfelt. That takes great courage. Paris obviously wanted you for a reason, and you heeded her call. Bullies are everywhere on earth and I’m sure you will be on the up and up from here. Life is for hard work sometimes and enjoying sometimes, I hope you are in the full blown enjoyment phase and you’ve proved you’re not going anywhere! Enjoy for us wishing we were there too❤ Huge Hugs❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, it's always lovely to hear from a fellow Aussie! ❤ Yes, I felt the pull towards Paris like a magnet... I like your thoughts on life is for hard work sometimes and enjoying sometimes, that's such a balanced perspective - and a good reason to encourage the enjoyment 😉 Thanks again and hope you are enjoying you week

[@Angie-Rose76]

Hi Lauren, greetings from Melbourne! I stumbled upon your story and watched it from start to finish. It was so honest but inspirational at the same time. I feel your pain about Thumper, it's been nearly a year since I lost my beloved 15 year old cat and I am still overwhelmed by grief at times. Good luck with your time in Paris, you are doing amazing! I look forward to your future videos❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Angie, it's lovely to hear from you and hope all is well down in Melbourne 🤗🇦🇺🙏 Thanks for making the time to watch and write, it means a lot... I'm sending you a huge hug 🫂 15 years is a good long life and I can understand the deep loss it leaves 🐱💔 they are earth angels here for a short time but leave such an impact on our hearts 💕

[@kerryp8250]

Thank you for sharing your story with us. You've had a tough time of it, but lovely to hear that you still think it's worth it. I have lived in Greece for the past 15 years and still learning the language and still get lonely at times. You're so right when you say that neither place feels like home, but at the same time, it is. Looking forward to hearing more of your adventures ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Kerry, thanks for your message 🙏 It's wonderful to hear you moved to Greece and helps to know you understand this experience, especially with the language, feeling lonely and that sense of home 🏡 Thanks so much for sharing this ❤️ Happy Sunday to you!

[@elizarosalind]

I’m so glad you’re back!! My goodness what a time you have had, it’s great that you are seeing those silver linings ❤ stay positive, id love to live in Paris one day xxx

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Eliza, thank you so much, it's lovely to hear from you 🙏 I hope you can live here one day as I'm sure you would love it, it's a gorgeous city even if challenging at times! Wishing you a happy weekend and thanks again 😘

[@elizarosalind]

@@LaurenGraceHarding I really hope things get better, I’m sure they will. Love your channel 💕💕

[@Ter-ie5oi]

Your dog reminds me of mine. Same breed and issues. I’ve just gone through. You did the best thing for him. I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard and heartbreaking. Love the video and I’ve now subscribed. ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you for writing in ❤ Yes, it's unfortunately one of the conditions the breed are predisposed to have.... I'm glad that I had the time with him though, he was one of the brightest parts of my life 😍 Thank you so much 🙏

[@mariaciancio9124]

So good to have you back on YT. Thank you for your vulnerable and honest video. I have gone through similar issues recently. I can feel how much you love Thumper. Draw strength from all you’ve been through and try to keep doing what you love. Sending you big hugs from Australia.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much for the kind message and hope you're going well down in Oz ❤️ I'm sorry to hear you are facing a similar situation 😔 I'm sending you all my love and a big hug as well 🫂 sometimes it can be a big help knowing we are not alone 💕

[@RongRoseLiu]

I lived in the 7th 12.5 years ago. Would love to see more neighbouthood vlogs.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, it's lovely to hear you lived here in the 7th! I hope you enjoyed your time here and yes, will try to share some more vlogs 🙂

[@daphneedevlin7330]

Hi Lauren, so much of what you talked about is touched on in this book which is written by an Aussie who moved to Paris: Almost French: love and a new life in Paris by Sarah Turnbull. In case you haven't read it, might have a few relatable moments and make you feel less alone 😊

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Daphne, hope you are well 😊 Thank you very much for making the time to share this recommendation, I will most certainly read this book as it sounds helpful and interesting ❤️ Wishing you a great week and thanks again for the suggestion 😘

[@eavanmages9961]

Loved the Aussie book

[@bijouxducoeur]

You sounded very hurt in some segments of this video (for very understandable reasons), I most sincerely hope you are in fact doing better now.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you 🙏 yes I've been focusing more on my health and taking a break to recharge ❤️ Hope you have a great week ahead 😘

[@bijouxducoeur]

@@LaurenGraceHarding I'm very glad to hear that! I wish you a good week too!

[@silviahernandez4827]

Thanks for sharing your experience, at times is not easy but will make a stronger person in the long run. Sorry about your dog! Looking forward to your videos to see Paris through your eyes. 🥰

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much Silvia and hope you're keeping well 😊 you're right, it's these experiences that strengthen us 💪 Thanks for making the time to message and happy weekend to you 😘

[@julieannehowe5091]

1st time seeing you on you tube. I've subscribed. Looking forward to catching up on your other videos x

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Julieanne, thank you so much! Hope you have a wonderful new week ahead 😘

[@debs5531]

I really appreciate your honesty and courage to be vulnerable to so many of us. I get it about loosing your four-legged best friend. I lost mine at 14 years of age over 5 years ago and I still miss her still. Interestingly, I saw a small dog at a winery outside of Lyon last week and for the first time since I lost my Zoe, I thought I might want to get another dog. Thanks for sharing about living in Paris. I just left there yesterday!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Debs, thanks for making the time to write and share your thoughts and also your experience 🙏❤️🐶 14 years is a long time and I'm sure Zoe was well loved by you with the best of care 🥰 and perhaps you can have a new furbaby when you're ready 💕🐕 I hope you had a wonderful time in Lyon and Paris!

[@debs5531]

@@LaurenGraceHarding Thanks, Lauren. I hope you continue to find your way in Paris!!!

[@Fran-jw4lf]

I think that in life whenever you are full of energy and joy because you fulfill one of your dream, some people are jealous and you may encounter some bullying or mischievous behaviours. Suddenly you are in their place and you are alone so vulnerable. Listen to your heart. You are at the right place for you. You've done the most difficult part. I' m pretty sure you're going to meet nice people and make friends.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you Fran for your kind thoughts and support, I'm sure you're right 💕 Happy Sunday to you 😘

[@Anam0408]

Wow, that was one of the most inspiring videos I have seen. You are such a strong person with a beautiful soul all the difficulties you have been through have made you who you are, an absolute inspiration. I'm sure you are going to continue to grow stronger and have the most amazing life in Paris, well done ❤

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, oh thank you, that is amazing feedback and very kind of you 🙏 I hoped it could help someone to follow their dream but to be realistic that it won't be easy but worth it. We all need something to dream of or to hope for individually.... thank you again 😘

[@cristinafrancisco6773]

Dear Lauren, this was a very moving video ❤ I remember Thumper and how he made guest appearances in your earlier videos (I have been enjoying your content for a while). Thumper was an important part of your life and his loss will always hurt. You were both fortunate though to have had each other and those memories will always remain. I’m an expat Canadian who has been living in Europe (the Netherlands) for more than 20 years. In my heart Canada will always be home and The Netherlands is my second home. I feel your loneliness and the challenge of making friends. My closet friends remain those in Canada. Even though I speak fluent Dutch, I will never have friendships like those with my friends in Toronto that span 50 years. I am lucky that I work at the Embassy of Canada which gives me the opportunity to keep in contact with my roots. I really hope that you stay strong in the face of the issues at work. Sending a big hug 🤗

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thanks so much lovely Cristina! Yes I remember that too,, he loved to make cameos even though he had no idea what I was doing! 🐶 It's really helpful to hear your experience that even with being fluent in Dutch and living there for 20 years, you can relate to this, thanks a lot for sharing as that makes me feel better you understand! 💕 Those are the best friendships which last for years, even when you're in different countries 🥰

[@graemesmith4735]

I visited Paris for one week in November 2018 (my first overseas experience) and was blown away by the city's architecture it is stunningly beautiful e.g. Pont Alexandre III, Lourve building, residential units, streets, and parks - you are very fortunate to live in the 7th arrondissement. If you are into the history of the French royals it is well worth taking the train to the Basilica at Saint-Denis where all the kings and queens are buried under the building, however, there are many amazingly sculptured tombs throughout the Basilica (e.g. Marie-Antoinette) it will take you a few hours to view them all. We don't have this history in Australia. Although the French are wonderful people, they think a little differently than we do! Hopefully, I will get back to Paris again in the coming years - I do miss it.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Graeme, how wonderful that Paris was the destination for your first overseas experience 😍 You chose a spectacular city to be sure! And yes, I agree with all the points you mentioned, the architecture and parks are stunning and the 7th is now my home.... I'm very interested in French history however I hadn't heard of that Basilica so thank you for sharing 🙏 I think it is the history, the language, the culture being all so different to Australia which is what intrigued me - the "old world" so to speak. Australia though is the lucky country and I appreciate it so much more with the distance now.... I do hope you can return - it will still be here and still retain it's historical gloire!

[@yvonneroche3897]

You have me in tears. I had to leave my Dog behind me when I moved over Seas

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Yvonne, I'm sorry to hear that as I can imagine it would have been heartbreaking for you. I hope you've been able to enjoy living overseas ❤

[@thenicethings9]

Hi Lauren, what an honest, courageous video to make! I have been watching your channel since before you left Australia, and I remember thinking it must be hard when Thumper passed away. I hope you thrive in Paris, and the setbacks will make you stronger. Thanks for sharing your experience. It all makes sense now why the videos stopped for a while. x

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thank you, I wanted to share the reality as it's quite a challenge but one that I chose! Yes they stopped as I was hibernating and trying to adjust here. Thank you for your message and wishing you a happy new week 😊

[@karenjones6953]

Thank you Lauren, you are indeed very strong! You are brave and very kind ! Know your worth and do not let anyone convince you otherwise! I watched originally for the Sezane content but you are sharing your experiences so articulately ! Merci! Looking forward to more videos about French culture and Rouje and Sezane perhaps too. God bless and protect you!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thanks a lot Karen for your kind support, it means a lot! ❤️ I hope to share some more soon for you and hope you're having a wonderful Sunday 🙏

[@judybarnes9230]

I know in other countries you can go on the Australian embassy's mailing list & they can keep you updated on functions they are putting on for ex pats living in that country. Try it. Australia Day in Paris with other Aussies, couldn't think of anything better.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Judy, hope you're well and thanks so much for the idea ❤ I also agree with you that Australia Day in Paris with Aussies would be amazing! 😍

[@rayian5891]

You touched my heart. Thank you so much for sharing your experience

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you for your lovely message ❤❤❤

[@patriciateague8677]

So sad for the loss of your beloved dog. I do know how hard that can be. Being treated unfairly or unkindly is never easy. I encourage you to reach out to other expats. What you are experiencing as far as loneliness and the difficulty in making friends is very normal based on everything I have heard about Paris. Local connections will certainly help you adjust. Wishing you the best.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Patricia, thank you and I appreciate your advice as well, it's a good idea 💡 and great to know this is not surprising either 💕 wishing you a great week ahead 😊

[@stephhielscher6913]

I’ve started with Alliance Francaise and am at A1. Arrrgh it’s so hard but I love it 😍

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Coucou Steph 🙂 That's great news as the hardest part is actually starting.... it will get easier in A2 and more enjoyable as you progress... then it gets harder at B1 😉 keep going and wish you best of luck with your learning

[@boyandbelugee]

Thank you for sharing. Indeed places we live in shape us and reveal things about us. I also moved 3 countries. Lots of good and hard things too, but worth it. Love, Eva

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Eva, thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I agree with you 💯 3 countries is a lot, I hope you have some beautiful memories of your experiences ❤

[@mundorueda9402]

First of all, sorry about your dog. I also lost the best dog I ever had a year ago and the grief has not left me. You seem like a very nice lady and certainly beautiful. I like your calm demeanor, although you are not still totally comfortable. As to the false accusation, as long as you were truthful, you will find the strength within yourself to cope with this problem. Enjoy yourself and be thankful every single day because you are living in the closest city to heaven on earth. I envy you! God Bless!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hello and thank you for your message 🙏 I'm so sorry for the loss of your dog and send you all my love ❤️🫂🐶 I hope you can feel a bit better in time... Yes it's making me stronger but it does come at a cost, not something anyone should experience 😣 Thank you, I'll try to share more of Paris with you soon!

[@dianeb3919]

Hello Lauren....I stumbled across your vlog tonight and enjoyed your vlog so much. You certainly have had to overcome or adjust to so much! My daughter has just had to put her 1st little dog to sleep bc he was deteriating in his health. He was 16 years old so we knew what we were facing. She made the decision and he left us as if he feel asleep..yes our hearts are broken but we know we gave him all our love and he's not in pain. Anyways, you covered so much that you had to adjust to and probably loneliness was the hardest. It seems to me you've weathered the storm well! Your home/apartment looks like a wonderful, safe place and your language barrier seems to be minimal now. Very happy you've chosen to live out your dream..you've worked hard to make this happen. Disregard those rude people giving you grief...there is probably envy involved...live your life! Waiting for your next vlog!🎉

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Diane, thank you for making the time to watch and message, it means a lot! I'm sorry to hear your daughter had to say goodbye to her furbaby, I'm sending her and your family a huge hug and all my love at this time...It is good he was able to pass peacefully surrounded by love ❤❤❤ Yes, I think missing Thumper and the huge change with not being close to my parents and friends was shock but I am adjusting slowly! I appreciate your support and words of encouragement, thank you so much 🙏 Wishing you a very happy weekend ahead 😘

[@garyadams5038]

Whatever you choose to do, return to Australia or remain in Paris, you will have done so based on experience, not fantasies or assumptions. People who do not pursue at least one of their dreams will miss out on on the potential reality of it and, as you mention, learning more about one self. Besides feeling deeply with you as you grieve the loss of your beloved companion Thumper, I empathize with you in your loneliness in Paris. It isn’t easy making good friends and even more so in another culture and language. I think it very good that you’re into self care now and have the time to meet people and try to get to know them and they, you. That I listened to your entire video suggests to me that you’re intelligent, interesting, adventurous, courageous, open and self reflective. You are definitely friendship material, so to speak. Once you’ve a good friend or two in Paris, French or not, that city of lights will sparkle in so many new ways. We are created for friendship no matter our nationality. That is my hope and prayer for you, the gift of friendship. Bonne chance!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Gary, thank you and I appreciate your perspective... you're right that if we can pursue our dreams that we get to experience them and learn about ourselves... "no regrets" that way! I also love how you said we're created for friendship, no matter our nationality ❤ that is so true and eloquently put! Thanks again for making the time to watch and also message, I appreciate it 😘

[@christinesullivan1229]

A lovely heart felt honest video. Thanks for sharing your heart. It's not easy to make dreams come true, but in time it's all worthwhile. When we came home from living in a huge and sophisticated city overseas, there is a culture shock. Your life is just going to get better. Stay with it X0

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Christine, thanks a lot for your kind message and for watching! I can imagine that "reverse" culture shock is a real thing when you move from overseas to back home. I hope you were able to enjoy your overseas adventure and settled back now into home ❤

[@rolandcassar75]

The bridge is Alexander the Third, not the Second. Alex the Third was Alex the Second's son. The bridge, built in 1900 for the Paris World fair, was named after him to symbolise the newfound French-Russian rapprochement. I don't think Alex was a particularly pleasant person, but he did get a very spectacular bridge. Didn't live to see it, though.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Woops, did I make a mistake and say the 2nd instead of the 3rd?! Thanks Roland for pointing this out and for the history update too! It's truly a beautiful bridge 😍

[@cookeechoc8824]

Nothing is more important for the social beings that humans are, than building a community. Need to start working on that... Maybe joining a couple's dance class or any other leisurely activity that will bring you to mixing and mingling with the same groups of people several times a week (or at least once a week). Sometimes, subtle changes in our lives can move mountains (I'm speaking from happy experience. Wish you well 🙂

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts and suggestions, I really appreciate it ❤ You are so right that we need those social and community connections 💯 I will try my best to take your advice and thanks again for taking the time to share 😘

[@rongallacher8216]

Oh Lauren. That was so good to see how your going and the lifestyle your living. I really enjoyed this , well done. 👌👌😍😍😍

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thanks so much Ron, Paris is not too shabby 🤩

[@terriferguson7323]

Hi. You are very brave to move by yourself to a new country, I've been thinking about doing the same thing. Very inspiring!

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, thank you for watching and for your thoughtful message 🙏 It's wonderful to hear you've been considering a big move, I hope you are able to make it happen if it's your dream 💯❤😍

[@MLCruz13]

New viewer. Would love to see videos about your exploration of Paris and rest of France. I visited in March and I loved it. I'm beginning my learning of French. I took it in college but that was MANY years ago. Lol. I want to visit again to see more of what I didn't get to see in my week there.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, I hope you enjoyed your time in France and can return again soon! There's so much to see even in Paris that a week doesn't feel like enough time, but it's a good excuse to come back, and also to help with learning French! Bon courage ❤

[@balbindervanbeers9631]

Dear Lauren, thank you for sharing your experience so clearly and completely. I very much enjoyed listening to you. I hope some day we can meet in Paris. I haven’t been there since 1996. If and when I make it there again, I hope we shall have the opportunity to meet in person. Till then a big hug from Canada x

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there, it's lovely to hear from you and thanks so much for your message. It would be lovely to meet and I do hope you can return to Paris one day 🙂 I would also very much love to visit your beautiful Canada one day 😍 Wishing you a happy weekend ahead and thanks again 🙏

[@keidasshu6209]

Hello Laurene, I know it is very difficult to move abroad on ones own. But the first 2 years are difficult but try to learn French, taking some lessons, socializing with others and then you will make friends with people and things will get much easier . I don't know have you got any passions in y,our life? Like Dance, cuisine, architecture , painting or whatever, it is the best way to start building your network. Me I lived in London for 12 years and I know it was difficult at first but after I really enjoyed , unfortunately I had to come back to France because I have found a job opportunity here . But nothing is guaranteed I am going to stay in France . Hold on and courage to you .

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi again lovely, thank you so much for sharing your experience, it's amazing you got the opportunity to live in London for 12 years! 😍 And like you mentioned, nothing is every guaranteed... I also appreciate your ideas and suggestions with how to build a network here and to enjoy my passions, it's very good advice and never too late to start to do this, so thank you so much. I hope you are well here in France and enjoying your weekend 😘

[@mishellyLewis]

You GOT this !!! I always think these times in our lives are tests , and this is your growth spurt :) you’ll navigate negative people. Zoom out … this to shall pass. Keep going , you’ll thank yourself

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there lovely Michelle, thank you, I appreciate you ❤ you're spot on, we do go through these testing times and come out the other side. I will take your advice and zoom out and you're right as it will pass. Thank you so much and appreciate you making the time to message 🙂

[@kathleenbelickis1456]

So sorry for the loss of your dog……

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thanks Kathleen, I appreciate your message 🙏 Happy Sunday to you 😘

[@mansoor3159]

Wow Wow Lauren what a incredible incredible vlog and I am always always looking forward to your vlogs so so much and I wish you have a beautiful weekend 💓😊💓

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thanks a lot 🙏 Wishing you a wonderful Sunday 😊

[@ellenolenska9141]

I was very touched by your video. Very sincere.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Thank you so much Ellen ❤ Hope you are doing well and appreciate your message

[@marilynleslie472]

Thank you for sharing your story.

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi Marilyn, thank you for making the time to watch and message, I appreciate it 😊 Happy Sunday 😘

[@Bonnieuxful]

I’m so very sorry about Thumper. 😢I know that he is waiting for you at your mansion in Heaven and he gets loved on by Jesus. I visited a Messianic congregation in Paris. Two kind ladies walked me to a taxi spot afterwards and one of them pulled my luggage for me❣️Being involved with a congregation like this is like having a second family❣️👫👫So go visit❣️❤️🥰God bless you, you are so sweet❣️💕💕

[@LaurenGraceHarding]

Hi there Bonnie, thank you for writing and sharing your thoughts, I appreciate you 🙏 and yes I am sure he will be waiting for me, it gives me a lot of comfort to know that 😇 That was very kind of the ladies to help you out as they did, it's those small acts of kindness that can stay with someone and make a difference 💯 Thank you so much and hope you enjoy the coming weekend 😘