WHAT IT'S LIKE MARRIED TO A BLACK LADY (KENYAN)🇰🇪

[@wangarimugweru7473]

Tom is very loving and Joy is very respectful and supportive. That's the recipe of happy marriages

[@noziqu7728]

That is a typical example of the marriage in the bible. Ephesians 5: 22 Husbands love your wives, wives be submissive to your husbands.

[@mamonomofokeng4411]

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[@loisnoble9139]

A woman's hair is her glory. I love Tom and Joy so much. He's a sweetheart and he loves his wife and children. He embraces her culture and vice versa. They're one of my favorite couples on YT. I wish there were more Toms in the world for us single women. God bless this couple and may they stay in love forever and ever. All the best for the future.❤❤❤

[@mariegfelix2616]

Double like this video. Tom is the man. High respect for him. USA❤

[@rhodankonge895]

About the babies,,, I love how they always appear cute when both genes mix..👌

[@advocatepuleng]

True Tom. Black women, we are strong, disciplined, hardworking and BEAUTIFUL

[@bonniemoje1210]

Very true ❤

[@robertkenyanchef]

Tom & Joy are a lovely couple. I love the fact that Tom loves Joy and compliments everything about her. I love the fact that Tom says that Joy is strong, cleans everything, especially meat, and is full of love. I also love the fact that he talked about black women's hair and I concur with him because my black wife, Kenyan is amazing and I love her so much. I love playing with her natural hair I mean a different texture, something that I have never experienced t I love it. My wife also tells me that she cannot afford to sleep in the same house with dirty underwear. Unlike most women here keep changing underwear and keeping them until they do their laundry. Since I married my wife I have learned a lot and cleanness is first and paramount. My wife cleans the house and organizes everything. I just love it. Wish you well guys.

[@marciaedwards9743]

Joy you’re so right in washing all foods. We do it in Jamaica. In North America where I live some people do not wash their foods. Food especially meat of all kinds must be washed. We the consumers do not know the kind of environment that the meats are package. Wash everything to be on the safe side. The kitchen sink must be thoroughly washed every time!

[@ernestawalker8713]

Are you talking white Americans because African Americans wash their meat I soak mine in some vinegar or lime juice after I have washed the meat three times

[@AM-ed4lj]

I agree with shemeji, the kids colour is great, nice blending of two different genes.

[@irenegulliver5577]

Kudos to Tom,you’ve said it all.Joy you’re absolutely right to wash because you don’t know what the handlers of food items did or didn’t do before touching the food item.

[@The-rhythm]

Soooo true Tom! I couldn’t have said it any better! Thank you for that but of truth!!😊😊😊

[@janenthiga711]

Joy thank you for representing us the black beautiful women's

[@roseatieno5064]

I like the way Tom says that Joy cleans everything. Yeah, that's how we are brought up. We believe that whether processed or natural there must be some dirt/chemical left which need to be washed away. Kudos Joy, rit odi gi teko, rioko kod wisdom ma Nyasaye omiyi.

[@patiencematakamasibanda6524]

Your outfit look stunning joy

[@Twigars]

Awesome love and Respect covers it all,, it doesnt matter black or white,,That's strong...

[@rethancube6676]

Joy' s a humble lady who doesn't show off Tom is so lucky to marry such a beautiful down to earth woman.❤

[@kavee_felix]

Tom you nailed it🙌🙌🙌Joy you are blessed 😘🙏

[@selinamwanza5581]

Thank you Joy you are representing us very well us Africans we respect our husbands

[@maryanne3075]

Yes, we wash everything before cooking. Tom and joy, you are great couple.

[@gracefejang7819]

Yes, we’re strong women Tom and hardworking but some men take us for granted.

[@AM-ed4lj]

We grew up knowing women should respect their husbands, we saw it during our entire growing. You aren't even supposed to answer back at your elder brother! To me respect is a factor in marriage, and it should be from both sides otherwise it will become overwhelming for the woman. Just respect everyone, regardless of gender , age, colour!

[@jeanharvin3754]

Always good to watch caring couples

[@lucykabathi6710]

Very true 😊

[@AM-ed4lj]

@@lucykabathi6710 Yeah

[@Jennifer-pf9qq]

When Tom talks about Joy you can see the love in his eyes. Black women, no matter the continent are strong! You share basic principles of family, respect and work ethics. I see your relationship differences because you are from different continents. You’re not trying to make her European but instead merging cultures. Yes Tom I’m a black woman in USA I wash everything we use too many pesticides. White/Black couples can have kids from dark to cappuccino to white, trust I have nieces and nephews that are over the place with color. Love us the key you two keep up the great videos. 🙏🏽🇺🇸❤️

[@dorrettdixon4990]

Well received Tom. I embrace all your points. You did justice to this situation, save and except for the washing of the food etc. Joy is so correctyou need to wash every thing. Lovely!

[@dellascott163]

Wash wash your meat until the water runs clear.

[@elizabethmureithi5051]

I just admit that half black n white kids are very beautiful.

[@jessehowell-t2m]

So that’s a reason to marry interracial

[@carolinewright9123]

Joy you're a strong African woman love the way you take care of your children and husband ❤️ ❤❤

[@MmoniMotsumi]

I like the way Tom and Joy love each other. I love you guys❤

[@matshupamabope612]

I love that part of washing everything. She is so hygienic. Gastro is everywhere keep up girl. Your family health comes first

[@jenniferclarke7908]

Joy and Tom, I agree with Joy one hundred percent with washing the chicken with lemon or lime vinegar and salt to cut the rawness of the chicken then seasoning it . Also the rice some people do some strange things. .I live in the Caribbean The two of you is a loving couple. May God continued to bless all of you.

[@joyceosumba5307]

God matched you so much, inspite of that mixed race, real love👏🏼🙏🏽💓

[@mercylynelaibich]

I love how Joy says yeah!yeah!yeah!❤❤❤ Thanks Tom for taking care of our Kenyan girl

[@marilynvena7915]

Aww beautiful love to watch ❤️❤️ May God continue to guide and bless your marriage.

[@georginaekwomadu4781]

Tom, I love the way you take care of our sister Joy and kids. ♥️ Joy got are doing great. That is what we are Known for. Take care dear.

[@ruuschapaulus6350]

Amazing,🥰 love you guys, much love from Namibia🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@nelisiwedlaminidlamini4306]

Thanks TOM the way you support us as black lady's

[@maryagwanda6371]

I agree with Tom and just love how he's reasoning about his love for the black ladies

[@chikaraejiogu4651]

The manner of storing or packing the food makes it necessary to wash before cooking in Nigeria and all Africa l suppose. Eg, the carrots, lettuce and tomatoes may not be hygienically stored in the open market where we mostly purchase from . But if you buy from supermarkets as many do these days...the food stuffs are well cleaned before packing. ....but still l would wash before cooking. It's both a necessity and a habit 😁

[@esnartmalangano9075]

I love the way Tom described a black woman u really know her and the wash wash everything cracked me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@catherinemugwika545]

Good joy for presenting Kenyan women ,,keep it up gal. love you guys

[@basadibaratang]

Tom and Joy you really inspire me, you are really a blessing to most, may God bless your union. Sending love from 🇧🇼

[@CatherineMoruka-ll8bg]

I'm used to washing everything, I have brought the brush to wash vegetables,clean pots are rinsed before cooking,everything is washed, We Africans are used to that, Love you guys, You are both giving us hope, Thank you very much 😊

[@JackMcCabeFL-USA]

Enjoy your vlogs. Nice family.

[@meshmwei7897]

Wow nice word's tom .. thanks so much

[@sibongokuhledlodlo7899]

Happy family, it's very true African women are strong, taught at an early age, thank you Tom and Joy

[@johannamakwala]

U guys inspire me alot may God bless Ur marriage and kids❤️

[@peaceasaba9160]

Yes..yes, we r groomed to respect our spouses, we r prepared to get married n cleanliness is no. 1 key, Joy tnx for representing girl.

[@miriamlewis7299]

Where i'am coming from in South Africa 🇿🇦 we are calling coloureds, I was brought up the same way Joy was brought up in Kenya,. To respect your husband to the fullest,. We wash every food items before cooking 👌👌🇿🇦

[@annitajoshua7043]

These days I am very busy and I feel I am missing out a lot from my favourite couple , thank you Tom and Joy you are always here for us love your content and live you guys

[@joyandtomking6182]

Our pleasure!

[@christinamakhaya6292]

It's TRUE black lady's are very strong and respect bcs our parents taught us when you are young and yes you must wash any food before we cook love you guys from South Africa

[@QuncyIvy]

Wow , such a fantastic conversation l love this couples message ❤️.

[@zaya6458]

Agree Joyce, we wash everything...always and fruits. Wazungu eat everything without washing Thanks for sharing 👍

[@jacklineasllmwe]

Exactly 💯 thanks Tom we strong 💪💪💪 big up black woman

[@njikenana3229]

Joy and Tom, you guys are so sweet. Tom; you wash everything. Joy; what do you mean So sweet.

[@brandijaysays2245]

Nice to meet you, Tom n Joy😊. You’re a Lovely couple. Tom you’re a gracious man! Joy you’re so precious and a sweetheart. I love how you call your kids cappuccino complexioned. I have what I call mocha grandkids. 😊. I will continue to watch you channel from time to time. Blessings ❤ from God in Christ Jesus❣️(my middle name is Joy)😊

[@paulachin9130]

Absolutely as a Jamaican growing up saw my parents, grandparents always wash our meat, look how many process it goes through how many hands touch it, disgusting not washing it before cooking. Tom spot on with his observations of a black woman.

[@chipibaluwa3558]

I love how Tom loves Joy

[@sherryshazala7123]

Indeed mixed kids are beautiful. Tom nailed it .

[@AM-bl9ug]

You nailed it Tom 👏 ❤🇬🇧

[@harriet7303]

Yeah We African Ladies We Are Really Very Strong. It's The Up Bringing & So Respect🌹

[@naomenatukunda2551]

I love you so much Joy and Tom, you are such wonderful family 🙏🙏

[@ekanjonuusikuhertta8232]

Love doesn't have colour. Tom n Joy do not follow what pples said ignore them. Love is work team, Love is respect ,Communications and help each other

[@marlynmorgan3658]

I wash everything before cooking! In fact, I actually pour vinegar on the meat before rinsing it, and lime juice on seafood before rinsing it. Lol

[@ireneawinja8013]

Tom has said it all about us African ladies.

[@zivaijaraga6830]

You are just wonderful couples. Respecting your marriages. And loving one another. We are ever enjoying you two. My prayer for you is for God to keep you in His arms. Tom the IT guy.

[@joyandtomking6182]

Thank you so much!

[@rheasanto2976]

❤❤❤❤❤ love u both !!!

[@pamelaadhiambo8583]

Our hair is our beauty

[@ileenehewitt7132]

Joy you and Tom are real genuine soul for couples stay bless always❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@marthakunda-nn9jc]

I love you guys always you make my day God bless you more guys

[@mercyshamsy4490]

Great vlog my people❤❤

[@gracefejang7819]

Thank you for this fantastic video ❤

[@anestadaniel3071]

Am from St Vincent 🇻🇨 the Caribbean island and we wash all of our food

[@jaelmwanjala771]

Thanks and for sure that's true Tom African ladies are hardworking, respectful and they try their best to make their husbands happy ❤

[@inge-ingenisiakatjiuongua8832]

Yeah, I was waiting for this content after watching Joy's part. Greetings from Namibia.

[@lydiahafesi7051]

We love you Tom and Joy, your love for each other is true

[@annahpuleng5651]

Tom and Joy I love you so much ❤️ Black is beautiful ❤️

[@geraldtabu7923]

Some tribes are arrogant others firendly others hardworking others lazy others entrepreneurial. Each tribe is unique just like different nationalities in Europe.

[@eunicechinyoka7235]

Wow nyc one Tom king

[@rhonavenkatasu2525]

Yes ,I rinse everything cause the packers pack the food items, it passes through hands... so I just feel its just needs a little rinse👍

[@ListyKwaambwa]

You guys you inspire me. keep it up

[@juliea4857]

In Canada, I don't wash chicken, but my mother always did in Prague.

[@mariamkawooya467]

Apart from maize flour and spaghetti we wash all the foods in Africa mostly in Uganda coz when you buy it from the market a lot of people touch it so we have to wash it well. Thanks Tom for your comments all are correct 👍 😂😅

[@mariebrown1878]

👋🏽 Yeah, that’s the right thing to do…. I’m from Jamaica and that’s how we were brought up to wash everything we’re going eat.❤❤❤

[@gracefejang7819]

Bravo 👏. Thank you Tom.

[@violetn.wasike4460]

Yes I was first you look great in red Janet you really matched as couples

[@mh9251]

For food, the hygiene level is partial in Africa, so by default its a mindset I have to wash it, be it from farm, supermarket, street vendors, grocery shops, etc. Vice versa in Europe!

[@rosinahntuluki6720]

Thats true Tom , if you remember when you were on holiday back home in Kenya Joy couldnt allow you to take off dried clothes from the wash line cos in Africa thats disrespectful to your husband. You can only do that when Joy is away .

[@kapiripuriza9525]

"what do you mean we wash everything?" In Joy's voice 😄😄

[@tendayiphiri8948]

Hi guys here in Zimbabwe we wash everything veggies meat even in the village we do wash everything fruits

[@talethagaston1485]

Yes, yes, all food products MUST washed before cooking.

[@kemkem9621]

"cappuccino" sounds funny 😅😅

[@cherylifill8304]

Hi guys so in the caribbean Barbados for sure we lime and salt our chicken for at least 20 mins then we rinse it off ..season and then cook.

[@jeanirangi396]

Tom and Joy you are a blessed couple .

[@nakaweesarashidah1116]

Love you guys Rashidah from Uganda 🇺🇬 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

[@Queen-ze1tm]

Tom he is right, if you did food hygiene training you will understand why we are not supposed to wash chicken. Us black we do wash it but normally we are not supposed to do so because of spreading bacteria and chicken ones are very dangerous. I am with Tom on that.

[@AM-ed4lj]

Before the food, whether meat or veges reach your hand, it has passed through many hands and hygiene is a factor. I really don't know how they handle food in Europe before you get the end product, but here, you really need to wash. Joy, shemeji said "we wash like everything!", yes we do!

[@barbaragunning5784]

Hi beautiful family from Jamaica 🇯🇲❤🙏

[@efieatieno1477]

She's an African Queen

[@jeanbelgrave6698]

Hi Tom and Joy first i am a blsck woman like Joy is we are very strong species and you have a very powerful wife and yes Tom we wash everything that is how we black women was thought by our parents we are made of good stuff but no one is better than the other we all are the same but in color👍👍👍🙏🙏

[@althabhebhe-kd1ye]

Yes yes amazing black people we respect our husband . keep it up Joy and Tom l luv u guys ❤❤

[@happinessmabuza2639]

We indeed wash everything we cooking

[@faithakinyi6556]

Tom you are very right..African women are very hardworking and courageous on what they do

[@fatladychats]

Great video to the best couple in the world, and black women are strong and supportive to our husbands for sure.

[@elizabethmirembe2589]

Respecting elders is a must yr husband inclusive, but our men here in Uganda 🇺🇬mainly in buganda they like to be respected a lot which is beyond a haaa