SEPERATING....

[@shirleyfudge5861]

I really appreciate your Joking and Laughing even when it gets rough…Your Love, Respect and Honesty is apparent when you look at each other…

[@vivygal]

That title had me worried but whew it’s not what I assumed it was. No marriage or relationship is perfect and I’m happy to hear you guys acknowledge it and most importantly being yourselves. This is why we need Jesus in the centre of our marriage/relationship. Only God is perfect. Wishing you guys love and happiness

[@divine5582]

You ain't alone 😂😂

[@lisacaldwell2293]

Right! Omg I thought they decided to go on they’re separate ways….title😆

[@_trust9994]

@@lisacaldwell2293 This guy is really smart for not marrying a western woman. Look how happy he is. Learning from him

[@nitafy1333]

Me too i said no no but is when i read the Title and the comment i realized it was just family discussion about marriage. Thank God its not the other way blessings Akinyi and Benjamin.

[@drob517]

Click bait.

[@elizabethohonsi7939]

There has never been any perfect marriage. What keeps a marriage is tolerance, patience, good communication and above all "A family that prays together stays together ❤ " When one is heated, the other must go cool. The love you share will help sort out things. Faults are thin where love is thick.

[@niecedspain3568]

I don’t think if people argue they are not perfect. If you can argue logically or illogically and work it out then that should be considered perfect.since arguing is normal then it shouldn’t be a negative. Not everyone is going to want the same things all the time.

[@clarencenomnabo9937]

Well said Elizabeth

[@georgiasweetness8199]

Agree

[@shillayana1649]

Just found out about you yesterday, but tbh you guys are wonderful.Just love you , kenya representing us well.When i saw you first videos getting married it wasn't like you will come this far.Much love😍😍

[@questioneverything594]

Wise advice.

[@Mamamel81]

The title scared me! But I'm glad to see you show that every relationship takes work from both sides. Love you guys ❤

[@mariadodson3888]

Me too💝

[@e.samoor8323]

For the first year of marriage between two people of different backgrounds, I think you both are doing great and the sky is your limit. ❤

[@wendymarshall6498]

Forty years married and still working on my marriage, it take effort and the grace of God. Blessings 🙌

[@Godsdevine777]

You guys are my favorite couple the fact that you guys give all praise to God ..I can tell that this is an ordained marriage by God so beautiful…You guys are so blessed to have something that most people never find a Godly marriage..May God Bless you with many happy years to come 😇🙏🙌

[@ILandGyurl]

I love the both of you, but I hate clickbaits. Have a blessed day 🙏

[@kareneakagentleone735]

AGREED

[@Megilom22]

I didn’t bother watching after reading this

[@audreywilliams7007]

It's not click bate...it left up for interpretation.

[@htowngurlL]

Same thank you

[@nickeysunshine830]

Thank you for saving me from 👀.

[@vivineblake1021]

We know guys, teeth and toung will meet at times,but good communication is a plus love you guys ❤️

[@Maria-Aus]

You guys are AMAZING together. God bless your family. Thank you for sharing your life. You’re inspirational!

[@joyceann3375]

It's really good to know that you're not going on separate ways as you wrote in the title. Always watching your videos, you both a very transparent couple, you're so real, waiting for your next vlog. Stay safe

[@AnnetteandSlavi]

That’s how marriage is .. it can never be perfect .. but couples find a balance and keep loving each other through it all .. ❤️ When you’re with your soulmate, it keeps getting easier and better 🥰 oh and congratulations guys on the 1M views on your other video 👏🏾👏🏾Akinyi’s eloquence is top notch

[@faithsonoiya7188]

Ohh thats true.say hi to marcello 💞💞 and Annette. Am your fun from Nakuru

[@AnnetteandSlavi]

@@faithsonoiya7188 I will 💞💞🥰

[@kagoyaasinati578]

Am telling you, I just love her acent, just like mine. 😂😂😍😍can't wait Love you both Black Queens 😘😘😘😘.

[@africacitiestraveler]

Say hi to Marcello 😉

[@judyroth8928]

@Annette&slavi Genau sehe ich auch . Mapenzi ni nzuri .LG🇩🇪🇰🇪

[@jayneholmes6355]

Whew!! I was worried. You guys along w/ Annie and David are some of my Favorites from the show!! Your 2 imperfect people / perfect for each other. The love is still going strong. And with god by your side you can do anything!!

[@annyxandra1023]

Who's Annie and David?

[@jacquelinelettman9772]

Akinyi and Benjamin I love to watch you guys so much. I love the way you guys set your relationship routines. A prime example of a Christian marriage. I pray God continue blessings for you guys. No marriage is perfect and you both are a model for what requires of a marriage. Blessings to you both. Stay in God hands and He will keep you. Also I love your look today. Make up and clothing was on point. You are looking like an American. Love you both.

[@tolulopeosunz]

I almost had a heart attack with this title. Love you both and my prayer for you two is that God Himself will hold you both together in love.

[@News_Vibes_Click]

Samehere

[@drx6139]

Lol me too😭

[@gugulethukoti1471]

Yet me too

[@ndileka216]

Nearly did not watch🙈

[@nursetinalouise]

Ya, I stop watching those who use clickbait

[@raquel7123]

Ups and downs.. that's what we call relationship and family. I'm from Kenya, my husband is from Germany and we arque sometimes, but the bottom line is, we love each other. I believe in your love 🤗

[@kippapao]

I am proud of you both!!!!! You are both winners in my eyes!!!

[@racheltate4646]

Oh thank God! I was having a panic attack. Happy you both aren't separating. What y'all said is so true. We love you both! 🥰

[@sharonemmons1005]

Me too, I was not feeling good when I saw the topic.

[@susanmatthews3805]

Lol i too 🙏

[@jag4017]

Hell ya we do

[@jag4017]

As much as you all comment on good post, don’t forget to defend on negative as well.

[@bonolomashego]

And am happy I read this comment first before watching the video!🤗🤭

[@ceciliakiragu4397]

I love you guys. You are so real and I'm learning a lot from you. Thanks for sharing your life with us. It feels like you are my big sister and brother

[@noekhumalo5111]

Love you guys, was so worried when I saw the title, there's no such thing as a perfect marriage, trails and tribulations will be there but with God through it all we conquer.

[@SoloParentsRevolution]

Hey Akinyiiiiiii! You know how to grab our attention. I was worried !

[@KshipsinKchups]

She is an influencer🙄

[@jojocluddy2534]

Great video guys! Yes I agree with Akinyi on the Africans being accustomed to having separate bank accounts. Thx for sharing your experience, we surely need more if this. I mentor young adults at church and I happen to be the only one who speaks about marriage realities. Now do you mind sharing your experience and routine for your blended family as far as parenting goes?

[@yolboateng5073]

Hello Akinyi and Benjamin I just love you two. Yes no relationship is perfect. My husband and I have been married for 32 years and we are still working at it. We do have some disagreements, but we always agree to be respectful. Yes the secret to a successful marriage is never go to bed angry at each other, and praying together. It has worked for all these 32 years. God bless your marriage

[@ghittaeibschutz9513]

Thank you for sharing! It is so refreshing to watch a couple that is so supportive and respectful with each other! I wish you many years of happiness!!💕

[@catherinekatrine]

Not only marriage but life generally is not perfect. Thank you guys for being honest and coming out to share with us cos when we see people on social media we think they live a perfect world which is not true. Love you guys very much😍

[@phakamatyali6601]

Starting to love each other I was wth u guys tll u married , still wth u .. nw waiting for u to build ur own family , am stll after u guys C's I love u both🤞

[@nonkonzodziba6060]

May I know yo star signs if u do n t mind

[@iloveschicken6527]

No relationship nor marriage is perfect except your relationship with God! We are human. Always take time to try your best to respect eachother, listen to eachother and to work problems out. God bless!

[@ronaldchiradza8080]

Thank you l leaned alot🙏🙏

[@molebatsi.m8948]

Absolutely! ❤

[@iloveschicken6527]

We've had issues in our marriage to include infidelity sadly... I'm lucky my wife loved me enough to give me another chance! The grass is NEVER greener on the other side! Temptations everywhere! Folks are going to have challenges.. but Look who really loves and cares for you!

[@sandramitchell3236]

Excellent advice I couldn't say it better.

[@malaikankn]

Praying for your family, I think you are one of the most genuine, and respectful couple online. Love from Nyar gi Akinyi. Love 💕 from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@melvinchebet]

Yes we love our girl ❤️

[@lungowemukunyandela2381]

I equally love the bond you have together,as for title today very spot on and catchy, good bless you 🙏🙏😍

[@moseboteatime826]

I was about to cry, thank you guys for sharing we know that there is no perfect marriage or relationship please keep on praying.sending my love from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@ignatiathobile5565]

🇿🇦🇿🇦♥️

[@faithsonoiya7188]

Look at how you look at each other. There's love in the air💞💞. Akinyi my prayer is to be in an interracial marriage. It's been my dream.

[@superwomanme]

Shouldn't your prayer and your dreams be to find love no matter the race ? Why the emphasis?

[@VilaureaBeauty]

Being in an interracial marriage shouldn't be your dream lol.. reposition your prayers. Don't look at them, look to Jesus.

[@faithsonoiya7188]

@@superwomanme i know what i want my dear. Its been my prayer and i know the God i serve will not let me down. Actually am almost there. Thanks for your comment

[@faithsonoiya7188]

@@VilaureaBeauty thank you for the comment but i think i know what i want. It's been my prayer and i know God will do it doe the Glory and of honor his name. Talk to God to give you fish and he'll definitely do so,instead he'll not give you snake. I mean i know the God am serving

[@VilaureaBeauty]

@@faithsonoiya7188Don't get offended. Instead, take the moment to learn. Majority of people when they marry, they marry wrong. Especially because most think carnally and pray that way. God already knows your desires. Ask His will to be done over your life. May the God of my Fathers bless you in Jesus name.

[@edithrais4636]

😂 for me you are a perfect couple ! Love you both😂

[@keiheaherakiwi1611]

No relationship is perfect…..I’m in a mixed race relationship…. As evolved/older couple we have an understanding where we are free to tell each other what’s pissed each other off….self evaluate and understand how you made your other half feel in the heat of a moment, you wouldn’t like to feel like that…. Nobody deserves to make anyone feel like crap not even your partner….this is my self to remember not go to bed pissed at your partner….wake up the next day totally in love….. I made a promise to my man to never hurt him by making him feel inferior likewise he has the same value…. Yes learn each other as we continue to do in our home….. love and light beautiful peoples…….sometimes that walk alone clears the head

[@merelymyopinion]

My parents always had separate accounts when I was growing up. They still have separate accounts. My husband and I have a household account for bills and household expenses as well as our own personal accounts. That was we still have our on personal freedoms as well as support the household together. Love you two together. In my case my husband is from Africa and I am American. Very much cultural differences however we love one another very much..

[@deloresbradner8928]

I love you guys. Praying that you guys never break up ❤️🙏🏾👍🏾

[@Toksgg]

Amen

[@valeriedyer4729]

Don't let social media ruin your marriage, you are made for each other. Don't forget what is important and what brought you two together.

[@matekedigojane571]

That look when Akinyi said he broke everything 😂😂😂 Love you from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@claramcalister]

You guys are so encouraging and I see the love you have for each other. Amen to praying before bed, don't let the sun go down on your wrath. I love you guys and keep putting christ first.

[@iamsheryl_h]

Yesss we’ll said Akinyi & Benjamin! Marriage is all about balance, compromising & putting your partners needs before you! Wishing you a happy marriage 🥰😊

[@namuliregina2156]

I love the way how you guys from different background, beliefs are getting along.. Its love, adjusting and love each other

[@catherinem809]

They are like twin born of the same parents. We love them very much. They are so natural. Thank you for loving each other!!

[@ashleynicole6210]

Eww don’t say that

[@catherinem809]

@@ashleynicole6210 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, quote Margaret Wolve Hungerford and that is a fact.

[@ashleynicole6210]

@@catherinem809 my comments has nothing to do with beauty smh why would you say they’re like twin born of the same parents when they’re married that sound wrong

[@catherinem809]

@@ashleynicole6210 Now I understand your "Eeww" in your comment. The description of husband and wife of being born by the same parents or they are like sister and brother simply means they agree in almost everything. They understand each other. There are lots of differences between them but they patched it up positively as if they grew up together. Yes, husband and wife can look alike but it doesn't mean in the incest way. Thank you though for your criticism and I hope you understand me also. Benjamin and Akinyi are one unique couple in a million!!!

[@AM-ed4lj]

If you two were in front of my face now, i would give you a 'love slap', that SEPARATING title got me crying when i started watching! Am happy i ended with joyous tears at the end when i realized jaber is a still happily married! Frankly, there is nothing like 'happy marriage' Keep on working on your marriage guys

[@chantalfleming9439]

I'm new here...I like these guys already. I feel the love and honesty they have for each other. It's beautiful! Love the praying together part. ❤️

[@stillirise4289]

You two are amazing ....keep the communication open and honest .

[@Rosemayah]

No relationship is perfect and as for social media, show them what you want them to see. People don't need to know everything. A relationship is between two people. Period......

[@ellenmensah6624]

I love and appreciate the honesty! ❤️❤️

[@TedVeroTV]

It's so important to acknowledge that marriage is never going to be fairytale perfect, and hearing it from the two of you is so grounding because often we all get caught up in the ideal social media lives we see every day. But being transparent like this helps to strengthen marriage and deepen love. A good marriage, though never perfect, is easily one of the greatest experiences two people can have together, hands down. The hard times--the work involved--it's all so worth it, and part of what proves that love is worth cultivating and fighting for 👏❤️❤️❤️👏

[@redemterkibutha4067]

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[@debinwachukwu5435]

Even if you are not perfect, you both are showing a good example of marriage relationship. You both care for, respect and are always thoughtful of each other's feelings. It is obvious none of you takes the other for granted by the mutual respect you share and you both sure want your marriage to work, ready to make necessary small sacrifices/compromises here and there. The core of it all is that you both honour and put God and His Word first. Continue to shine like diamonds in our world. Thanks. Love your ingenuity.

[@Tamuku254]

Prayers are really important I love you guys much love from Kenya my favorite couple

[@GinosCreativeCooking]

Real talk! You are awesome guys!

[@lavernmorris4057]

Love you guys so much, every Relationship has problems but the best thing is to know how to deal with your problems God bless you both

[@martl3288]

I still love yall im 37 yrs married yall are helping my marriage im praying more for our relationship and being kinder and listening to my hubby more and we dont have perfect marriage. Im like Benjamin we are together forever. Prayer is our only hope marriage is a cross.

[@faithwanjiru6000]

Akinyi I am very much like you. Have always been independent and after marriage I had to learn to be dependent on hubby. Btw we have separate bank accounts. Love from Kenya

[@brandycorbin9676]

No relationship is perfect but you all seem very real! Her laughter is so sweet! Humor and being able to laugh at your mistakes as a couple is priceless.

[@raysha9932]

My grandmother always said that to me never go to bed with your husband mad at you and vice versa. Ive been married since i was 17 we are 30 and its been really really a crazy ride but divorce its never mention in our household. It’s never an option i know this sound so cliche but communicate dnt be afraid to tell your spouse things are boring , or u not feeling each other up, y’all not meeting each others expectations in and out of the bedroom and things like that. Fun fact : it actually works

[@michellejackson8547]

I'm glad that you guys are hanging in there...keep going...you guys are human and human's make mistakes...

[@symptomaticSCT]

Great advice! You guys make such a beautiful couple and complement each other so well! ❤🙏🏽

[@boitshokomolatlhegi6085]

its the way you look at each other that tells of the love and respect you have for each other

[@genesisbera7761]

Lovely couple, may God bind you together with cords of love that cannot be broken.💕💕💕

[@jescahmauline2020]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 You guys have just made my night,i don't know why I'm laughing. You're so genuine and so straightforward , that's what I love about you guys.

[@joycesandamela1300]

I nearly had a heart attack on seeing the title I love you both ❤

[@flavitavi8451]

I just love your combination and your sense of humour

[@anastaciamaropola8654]

Love you guys the way you are. All couple have misunderstanding. Urge about staff. Just be able to talk about it. Always pray together. This year is our 20years anniversary. Everyday you work in your marriage. May God continue to bless and protect you ♥️♥️♥️🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@PennyGago]

i just joined notification gang. this i can relate to so much. just got married in December. i love that you center your marriage in Christ, we do the same, t helps us very much. may God continue to be with you in all you do. Amen

[@tonikyle76]

Thank you for your transparency. You are a beautiful couple. Blessings to you both.

[@leslygibbs5343]

Let no man separate what God has joined together. Marriage isn’t for the weak at heart, that’s for sure. I became a very independent single mother of 2 after my divorce. I was divorced for 9 years and had everything of my own and no child support coming in so, I literally depended on no one. When I met my husband it was hard to come together and summit to a man but him being a Godly man I had no choice and then when I was in a horrific car accident I haven’t been able to work since 2013 and had to become completely depended upon my husband and family for EVERYTHING including feeding me and taking me to the bathroom. Boy oh boy what a change it’s been. But by the grace of God and God alone we’ve made it and making it. And we know we are 2 broken people trying to become 1 whole person with Jesus Christ. God bless y’all. And thank you for your sharing. Love y’all

[@wendymarshall6498]

Guys, please don't try to scare us with subjects like "separation " had me so worried. So happy everything is OK. Love you. God bless.

[@marcies1297]

Its clickbait. I hate that

[@Gloria-xz7yk]

Honesty....truly colorblind honesty..I love how you both acknowledge that love and commitment ❤is WORK..

[@rosemotshidisikhali6994]

The respect and love you have for each other is amazing ....keep it that way 🥰❤

[@craftyladybug411]

I have the same nervous tic as he does. My knee bounces out and down without me even realizing it. Anywhoo, I’ve been married 26 years. In a heated argument it’s important to think before you speak, sometimes things are said that can be unsaid. Communication is key, take turns speaking and listening. Laughter and silliness is so important too and often overlooked. I wish you all the best and I see that there is so much love and make a great team.

[@jackiebenjamin8772]

No relationship is perfect, just like no two persons are alike., we all have our faults. Everyone should know that we only see a snippet of your relationship. It is healthy to have disagreements, if two persons are agreeing on everything, then search yourselves because even identical twins have disagreements. Walking is exercise, so if she does it sometimes it weren't hurt. Oh no, my grandmother thought her grand daughters that there is nothing wrong with a wife and husband having their own bank accounts, especially if you both worked before your marriage. When you enter into marriage you then have a joint account and one for savings/ emergencies. The savings can be each person putting a set amount monthly.

[@kirabomercypaulyn2949]

This title caught me shivering. Akinyi and Benjamin i wish u two the best. May God continue to bless you and keep you strong

[@carolgimenez5169]

God protect this union! Bless them Lord

[@andrewphillips4598]

There is no paragon of perfection in any relationship, Both of you are doing great. Keep it up

[@kg1148]

Akinyi, it's nice to have someone to count on but always be confident that you can survive on your own!

[@realrosesforever3847]

Also, my mother always told me that a woman should always have a bank account of her own as well, just in case . Wish them all the best and many blessings.

[@ngaiziwezebbykatuuo3314]

She's a very confident woman

[@OriginalAmaks]

Thank you for your videos. Akinyi, could you pls share a link to the hair you have on.

[@brendapantin8092]

My heart dropped when I saw the title. Akinyi, was this your idea? 😃 Ephesians 4:26 says "do not let the sun go down on your anger" and you guys are living by the Word. Once you keep doing that, your marriage will be strong. Love you both.

[@GloriaEjay]

I love how you are talking about this and laughing through it... When Benjamin said "Just to clarify, its never going to happen" i felt that

[@innocentiaunity6404]

Gang from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@buyisiwepatience1214]

Thanks guys you have just saved my relationship

[@cynthiabaker336]

Your energy in a perfect balance marriage. I love you guys 🥰🥰

[@takievicky8364]

I almost cried before listening to the video...your caption gosh...got me overwhelmed. I pray in the million years that you don't go that route!

[@cynthial5901]

Loved the story. Yes, there are no perfect couples. This was great.

[@jenniferward5216]

I am proud of your number of subscribers you have climbed a lot. That's a plus.

[@sphesihlethusi2474]

Love you guys❤❤there's no perfect relationship and marriage..m glad that you are both Christian ❤ frm South Africa🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@jozimashego1699]

We love them 🇿🇦❤️

[@sphesihlethusi2474]

@@jozimashego1699 they just inspiring me

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦💕💕💕👈

[@busisiwemyeni4835]

❤️

[@sphesihlethusi2474]

Me too hey m thinking twice as well about whites

[@Sindi63084]

You communicate with each other and that's the main ingredient to a great marriage. Keep it up.

[@julietteburgher8893]

It is my belief that both parties should have their individual accounts and a joint account

[@Margueritetchek1]

Marriage is the best place to be but much work needs done to sustain it. Forgiveness must be in the centre and appraisal

[@bamiee_2381]

You Guys are perfect for each other 🥰🥰

[@rakelwinnie9763]

I have been waiting for you to upload a video since Tuesday... I love u please u keep praying and understand each other I love u guys... True there's no perfection but so long as u understand and work on yourself..... And keep saying to your spouse I love you ... That's what I do... Even in disagreements..

[@ugochukwuonweluzo1584]

Please no marriage is perfect. I know you would make it. Even when you argue, disagree to agree. And always learn to forgive each other even in the heat of arguments. It takes two to tango, swallow your pride and determine that the marriage would work. There is always a middle ground that comes with understanding.

[@Yoelevi_Mindset]

Great content! I've noticed that Benjamin is struggling to breath. Please take care of your health...

[@faithkalee4379]

The title" separated" i was almost fainting.. Wow!Marriage is a beatiful thing when you get the right person,you understand each other& you settle your issues in the right way you forgive &forget..love you guys!!

[@marymtetwa1884]

You are truthful guys!! I love your honesty. We are still working hard in our marriages. I have been married to my hubby for more than 35yrs. We have learnt to forgive and tolerate each other. Respect is one of the good instrument in our relationship. Keep up the good work. I love your honest❤

[@mildred3407]

UHMM... I think you should have separate bank accounts and a joint bank account. It is just the advisable thing to do. My parents have been married for 47 years and have never considered divorce but they say that keeping separate accounts is a key must do. All the best!

[@lint212]

Things get easier the longer you are together. You can fi d a constructive way to disagree and work through problems without letting it get to the point of heated arguments. You guys are adorable! ❤

[@nabakoozamadina1616]

Yaa true there's no perfect marriage but you all make me smile always 👍now you now getting to know eachother 👌

[@parisgoytrie4519]

I love watching you both so sweet your wife very soft woman I really admire you guys that’s the way I think a couple should be listening to each other God bless you both

[@MsB.PauseT.V.]

Bank Accounts, You should have a joint account for; home expenses; car note; food; and child care, etc. Each adult should have their own personal account also. How could you have any independence if you have to explain ever purchase, gifts are suppose to be a surprise. Oh! What if you're ask to leave the home, where's your emergency fund 🤔. Things will appear different when you start driving here in the U.S. GOD 🙌

[@maryannewambui6102]

Hey Benjamin n Akinyi what I loved most about the video was your way of apologizing to each other. It is so sweet and very romantic. I am learning a few tips from your encounters. You are very humble. Good day to the both of you

[@masegokamanga7455]

No marriage is perfect, when there is love, mutual respect and compromise all is good

[@patriciawilliams5526]

thank you guys for showing that nothing worth having comes easy.