Why Foreigners Struggle Dating In Poland 🇵🇱

Curious about what it's like to date in Poland as a foreigner? In this video, we dive into the real experiences and challenges faced by expats navigating the Polish dating scene. From cultural differences and language barriers to the charming aspects of Polish traditions and social norms, we'll explore everything you need to know before stepping into the world of Polish romance.
Join us as we interview several foreigners who share their personal stories, insights, and tips on building relationships in Poland. You'll learn about the unique characteristics that make Polish dating exciting, such as the country's strong emphasis on family values, the significance of traditional holidays, and the warm hospitality of Polish people.
Why Foreigners Love (and Struggle) Dating in Poland
Do Foreigners Struggle Dating in Poland?
Foreigners Share Their Experience DATING in Poland 🇵🇱
What's DATING IN POLAND 🇵🇱 Like as a Foreigner?
What It's REALLY Like Dating in Poland as a Foreigner 🇵🇱
Dating in Poland as a Foreigner (EXPLAINED)
Is There Discrimination in Polish Dating Culture?
Do Polish People Discriminate In Dating?
Does Polish Dating Culture Encourage Discrimination?
How RACIST Is Polish Dating Culture?
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[@WheresWes]

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[@kamilpustula2454]

I am Polish and living in the Netherlands with Dutch girl, like 8 years now. It is so funny to see a whole video proving her, that I AM NOT A DINOSAUR, I am just Polish :P . You can be savage and good mannered same time :P

[@bobeczek01]

I think Polish women are more adventurous but not in a sexual way , but more like interested in the world and travel , but still they want longterm, strong relationships

[@ConradPrzytula-lw7bm]

Polish people in general have traditional values and just have respect for others, that’s something that has been lost in most of Europe nowadays, especially Western Europe. The Japanese are very similar from my experience.

[@kaien17]

Gotta say, I find asian guys hot, but how they are acting is also a huge turn on for me. Once, I invited my date (a japanese guy) for a home cooked meal and, I dunno, he was so kind, cultured and when he insisted on doing the dishes I was smitten. The experience was so much better than with most of my fellow polish guys.

[@Sjakkel]

Not a big fan of racemixing, even though I am mixed myself (1/4 Indonesian), I don't think it's good to encourage it. Nothing to do with hating people of other races, but right now, with the current demographic collapse in Europe/whites rapidly becoming a minority in their own countries, nahh.. not good.

[@user-pt4xx4wu2i]

Agreed! I am not white by the way but its sad to see them getting extinct 😂

[@toddjohnsen7996]

Agreed. It has ruined America. I am a proud pan-German from the USA. It makes me uncomfortable mixing even with non-Germanic, European girls. Asians, Africans, etc. forget it. Fortunately, most Asian girls seem to hate me so our mutual disgust for one another makes it easy. 😅

[@magdabielecka8374]

Guys this is pretty fucked up, we are not a breed of dogs. Also there are people that want to keep "pure" white race, they are called neonazis.

[@sam.r8610]

Which Statics showed that white race is declining lmao let them think and choose what they want afterall it's their life. U stated u don't care but I bet u care so chill bro .

[@ykjo5613]

Cool video, thx! Just came across your channel 🎉

[@frofrofrofro900]

I am from Cracow and like your videos

[@leetraviusmckay314]

"damn i didn't know you like that" 😂

[@leetraviusmckay314]

"you going to get me in trouble" 😂

[@kurczeblade140]

Poles are conservative and liberal same time . Liberalism itself is good as long as it is wrapped in a certain culturall framework where at the end of the day everyone shows you the right patterns and what is most important in life at the end of the day .

[@Chinski_Dworak]

You must watch Czesław Niemen ,,Dziwny jest ten świat"

[@kat4208]

hearing so much good stuff abt my lovely country makes my heart warm i love that and it’s the little things I just don’t really think about but when smn says it im just like „HELLL YEAH THATS TRUE” and appreciate different perspectives like not only yours but african people’s too, im wondering if you could like make a sequel maybe with someone from like hispanic countries bcs i feel they would bring another perspective into the discussion that I would gladly hear ❤❤ Ps. love your content, it makes me proud to be polish but also more & more curious about other cultures and less intimidated when i see someone obviously not polish in a crowd, bcs it’s a rarity and now in the summer there’s lots and lots of tourist ms especially in my city and it’s so fun to see other people tbh like I just love that they feel welcome in our country, not caring about some of the „racist pole” stereotypes, obv some especially older people are amazed by mostly blacks but it is rare i think and for the most people either don’t care like abt everything else around them or just acknowledge it and are like „ok that’s a foreigner back to my day”. So sorry for the essey but urm I love seeing what other people are seeing and to „get in their shoes” it super interesting to me the little but detrimental differences between us, love yall ❤

[@knightshroom2393]

Plese dont compere ukrainiand to Polish girls or, its like Sun and Moon, water and fire. Poland is just Polish.

[@kurrwa]

He is a foreigner so don’t expect him to know history between Ukraine and Poland. 😂

[@knightshroom2393]

@@kurrwa i dont care but ok

[@bip5395]

Is not 😂 in global scale we are similar

[@WheresWes]

That's like saying Chinese and Japanese are super different. To us we are very different but to the world we are usually grouped together as East Asian, it's all relative

[@user-mk4ok1ml4p]

​@@bip5395then he should change his title to "Dating on the global scale"

[@oohjesus2]

I will pay Warsaw a visit next month. Where to look for apartment for 1 month? I want to try a month first and see if I like it. I found the co-living apartment you mentioned. I found the Vonder Uprider - Vonder UpRiver, Solec 24, Warsaw, 00-403, Poland (Powiśle). Is it good ? Its about $1225 a month for the 1 bed room. The studio is a bit cheaper but not much cheaper so I guess I will just try the 1 bedroom. Is it where u r living too?

[@robertsiwek7503]

it is good. center of Warsaw.

[@Matthew-gz4oh]

Great, eye opening video...... Thanks!

[@DreamerxxGT]

I have seen many polish women are dating asian guys (Indians) as they find them attractive, but I am wondering if that’s the case with men too?

[@WheresWes]

Polish men are also open to dating outside of their race. As long as the cultures line up, there is no problem

[@jacobgames3412]

How long will u stay in Poland?

[@WheresWes]

At least another 1.5 years

[@frofrofrofro900]

​@@WheresWesI hope you will stay longer

[@Majeedjj]

Hey Wes! Can we catch-up in Krakow?

[@MikoajPDLOL-xq5rt]

You should visit Częstochowa it is a preety interesting city

[@neil_b4_zod]

The way you talk about your Polish ex, maybe you shouldn’t let that go. Im sure there are many great Polish women, but when you meet one that you have so much connection with you should fight for it. 😊

[@WheresWes]

She's great but it's not a good time for either of us. I want to also explore my options, I just got here.

[@sylwia1410]

If you're a pianist react to Natalia Kukulska - Czułe struny [Polonez As-dur]

[@maxandre7986]

Will you visit Hungary again?

[@WheresWes]

not for a while. Maybe just to see my friend

[@lance3338]

Is Tamara single? She is gorgeous and my age

[@jejudo3000]

When you going to Dominican Republic?

[@WheresWes]

Decided not to go, Poland videos taking off

[@TheALLisONE.TheONEisALL]

i have went monk mode, i yearn to the the TRUE universe of the 7th to 10th dimension NOT of this 3rd dimension BUT if i were to have a family and marry a women... it may be a blonde polish women... until then i have to master and know myself before anything

[@katmkz]

Hello, great piece of work..I am a Polish woman and from my perspective I can tell you that we appeciate foreigners especually let say people from much more exotic places. Asian people, black people. Regarding people from East like Ukrainians, Russians, Belarussian. To many of them in Poland trying to surpass our language and culture, besides historically we are not friends.

[@jadenroberts9775]

I'm thinking of visiting but don't know anywhere to go in Poland!

[@ypabloworld]

Russian bots getting weirder and weirder

[@Xrpxlm7]

Out of every country I’ve visited, why are polish women so open to dating outside their own nationality/ethnicity? Most of my exes and hookups were polish women They seem to be the most open to dating Asian guys out of every European nation I’ve been to Is it because of the polish men? 😅 Or it’s a cultural thing

[@katmkz]

@@Xrpxlm7 Honestly, I dont know. I dont have this experience. But what I can say, that Polish women are very open minded and eager to know other cultures. Members of my own family and my friends are married to foreigners.

[@katmkz]

@@ypabloworld Speaking my ming and having an opinion is called a russian bot. Ok neeeeext.

[@baassiia]

Why you let this Lady go??? Sounds like you found a match.

[@WheresWes]

She went back to Germany and we are in different stages in life

[@nicholasnick]

Thanks for sharing Wes, curious why not try to work it out if is about the distance as the furtherest you can go Krakow to Gdansk by train is about 5-7h and I booked it last time for 50 zloty. But I suppose 9 years gap is abit too wide. But was your ex stubborn at all and always feel she is always right? mine is same age as you and Im few years older than you. Whilst she is very good and has all the pros of a Polish but I found she is very stubborn and she wasn't very supportive when we outside (and we are not talking when we in Poland, as always wonderful experience when Im over there. And if ever you visit North West England (there's plenty direct flight from KRK), would be good to have a drink/coffee!

[@WheresWes]

Age gap wasn't much of an issue tbh but I want her to grow and explore life on her own without my influence. We are in different places in our life. Could work out in the future tho, one of the best relationships I've ever had tbh

[@nicholasnick]

@@WheresWes Feel free to share how you meet and places to go in future video :)

[@Jul_ire]

now, i appreciate your content and your opinions, but dating girls almost 10 years younger than you is a bit weird isn't it? if you are looking for a true companionship, as a 30 year old guy, you will not be able to find a person with that much wisdom and life experience in a 20 year old girl. hate to use the term, but that is a massive red flag for your personality (coming from a girl in her younger 20s too, i would never date a guy that much older due to fear of them not seeking true companionship, rather than looks and social status)

[@WheresWes]

Not weird at all. People want different things out of relationships, and she and I were both extremely happy with the experience. You can't just say something is red flag just because you wouldn't do it personally. You also made a sweeping generalization of all men because of your own personal fear and projection. Policing how two consenting adults date is always weird to me.

[@toddjohnsen7996]

Not really. I mean, I've been with a variety of girls. I was with a Polish girl myself last of 27 years old last year. There wasn't much age difference between us and yet it didn't work out. She already had too much baggage while having had "no boyfriends." Of course, she had had many boyfriends yet didn't wouldn't classify all of her casual sexual flings as boyfriends although they were. If the girl and guy were seeking a real, long-term relationship I think girls that are between 18 to 23 are much better options. The girls I dated in Russia older than age 23 weren't interested in long-term relationships.

[@Jul_ire]

@@WheresWes there was really no policing or generalizing in my comment, just genuine concern. i understand the relationship is legal, you are both adults and the other person has enough maturity to decide for themselves. it is still a significant sign of what someone prioritizes in their relationships. if it is your pattern, when you choose only women with such an age gap, we both know it is something you prefer and we know which mentality is tied to that. obviously will not change anything with my comment, you will do whatever you want to.

[@jaean172]

I think all men should be 10 years older than women if they want to have true mature relationships because women tend to have 10 years older mental maturity imo.

[@MitchIscool-n7w]

Do polish people speak English

[@maxalbon9557]

Many people from abroad think that women from Poland are such traditional women, not yet imbued with feminism, it's just that guys from outside Poland have the wrong ideas about Polish women. Such traditional Polish women were 100 years ago, now times are different and Polish women are no different from I don't know, American or English women. It's not worth it.

[@WheresWes]

huge difference than American women. But it is true, they are not traditional like many people think.

[@andrewcarlson2178]

They are not anything like American or British women. Not even close. They are Slavics and have traditional family values that are going extinct in the West

[@maxalbon9557]

@@andrewcarlson2178 Nope, not at all. We have the lowest birth rate in EU. Also i lived few years in USA (but only 3 different states), there is no difference between them already.

[@andrewcarlson2178]

@@maxalbon9557the average woman in North America is 5’4” and 174 pounds. (On my phone so no metric conversion today). I know for a fact Polish women aren’t that big, or covered in tattoos and piercings, so there are major differences

[@BadBoy-hy9do]

Are polish girls loyal or wife material pls help me i want to know

[@gromi00mareckimarek79]

Polish guy here. There is a lot of red pill culture in Poland. A lot of guys approach girls during the day. However, the thing we struggle with is that if you approach a girl who doesn't like you, her reaction is very often terrible. Polish Girls are very brutal to Polish guys. This is something I really don't like in my culture, it causes a lot of bad things for Polish man as I can see with my friends. If you're in Spain, Italy or Colombia, an uninterested girl will be nice to say no to you. It is more healthy for everybody

[@kape2469]

Well, polish guys are themselves quite harsh. You get what you give.

[@HectorPryorYT]

In a way, her disinterest is a blessing. I have had a couple girl give me a fake phone number or flat out ghost me in the US. I'd prefer a flat out over this.

[@xdlol59]

Ja jestem zawsze bardzo miła, szczególnie dla mężczyzn, bo wiem, że świat nie jest dla nich taki życzliwy na co dzień, jak dla mnie. Staram się emanować serdeczną energią ☀️

[@Pacyfistka]

To już zależy 😂.Wielu mężczyzn zachowuje się tak irytująco lub chamsko, że kobiety też mają dość.Niezależnie od płci wszyscy jesteśmy tylko ludźmi.😅

[@danielupinski7101]

​@@xdlol59to że ty masz klasę, to nie znaczy że inne kobiety też. Jednak Polacy często są traktowani tak. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmavn3qcqdiKoKssi=9l_u9pxPnTuOA2Lt

[@Matthew-gz4oh]

Great video and very timely and helpful. As a 175 cm guy, is height an issue in eastern Europe and Poland when it comes to dating? Thanks!

[@jarosawklejnocki6633]

With this shallow approach, I advise you to stay away from Polish women. The valuable ones will probably laugh at you and humiliate you, and the ones that will pretend that you are cool will probably be mainly interested in your wallet and credit card limit.

[@kurrwa]

Girls expecting you to have 180 or more haha 😂 because often you can meet girl who has around 170 cm

[@hobby30plus]

​@@kurrwa185+ cm is required for a local Polish male in 2024. 😅

[@WheresWes]

I'm 172 and have not had issues ppl here don't care as much

[@hobby30plus]

@@WheresWes You are not a local, not a Pole.

[@sawomirmarnotrawny1694]

well slavic woman can calculate ur welth in .3 s