What Japanese Girls Think of ACTUALLY Dating Foreign Men (Interview)

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This time, I was able to interview two Japanese women who have actually dating foreign men. What do they think about their experience?

[@CharlemagnePalace]

"My parents are against marrying my boyfriend, but I will convince them!" *5 months later her boyfriend and parents are happily married to each other*

[@jamoljamol6190]

+Thelondonbadger tha fuck

[@davidlegare5021]

lmfaoo dead

[@spencerabdo5144]

How in the hell do you know that?

[@InfinityWarable]

Spencer Abdo he's joking... pretty obvious man...

[@spencerabdo5144]

Oh, I'm an idiot. -_-'

[@otto.x5328]

A Japanese girl who uses Chinese to communicate with her Korean boyfriend...Ain't that some cultural shit right there

[@MrJm323]

I think that it is sure indication of Anglo-American decline. A decade ago, they would have definitely used English to communicate with each other, since that is the foreign language they both would have received in school. They must have been learning Chinese in their respective schools, knowing full well that China will replace America as the largest trading partner of each country.

[@978445]

FeedMoreNoobs i dont see the problem... i am chinese and i communicated with my BF in english, but now we only speak in geman, weil ich Deutsch schon erlearnt habe

[@infinitylimit8672]

***** I love your username.

[@infinitylimit8672]

MrJm323 This is interesting because I also used Mandarin to communicate with a Thai girl who was learning Mandarin and couldn't speak English. ^^ 我非常喜歡學中文而且我有很多中國朋友可以聊天。^^

[@GriffithFemJesus]

MrJm323 I don't think Chinese instead of English as a lingua franca will ever happen. Chinese is too hard. And it's not even a language! It's so complicated... English, on the other hand, is the easiest language.

[@REIQ]

only two girls? not enough

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

+REIQ They weren't the only girls I interviewed. Check out this one for the starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6KpoYCnmpqtpK8

[@3rdworldvictimyouvebeenlie817]

*****​ Not rly (I'm barely 17 yrs). I dunno if the girls where U live have such a beautiful smile like those two chicks in the but here... japanese women own all!

[@3rdworldvictimyouvebeenlie817]

Hugh Jaanus​ Thx for poiting out. I'll be more careful next time.

[@3rdworldvictimyouvebeenlie817]

Hugh Jaanus Holy shit XD My mistake (again)

[@MigSv92]

+REIQ i saw like 10 ... oh wait.

[@alinzsko8947]

the girl wearing stripes is just too adorable :ooo

[@RaikenXion]

I find her attractive too, shes lovely.

[@mentalshinda]

Yea man she was kinda cute

[@itslilac5806]

Idk why, but she kinda reminds me of noodle from gorillaz lol

[@yz7705]

Can't agree more! So open minded!

[@johnnywatson4629]

feeling the same here.

[@renski1792]

For those who want a Japanese girlfriend, Japanese girls dont like otaku.

[@Peralisc]

+Piano Otoko bullox, just like any woman out there they marry a man they can control ...

[@Salvo11]

+Piano Otoko Not many women do, especially if a guy's not very socially appropriate or doesn't treat people right. I feel that it's not just Japanese girls, it's most girls.

[@renski1792]

Brian Kim Yeah you're absolutely right. Anybody with any kind of extreme obsession is unattractive. Im from Japan and I myself had been approached by otaku girls in America. Theyre usually not attractive inside out. haha

[@thebritishgeek]

+Piano Otoko I'm sure they wouldn't mind if that was part of you, but if being an otaku is everything you are then honestly its a pretty sorry existence. I for example love star wars, games, anime and other nerdy things but i can hold a normal conversation because i realize most people are not into those things, i find some guys just don't realize that.

[@thebritishgeek]

***** Had it for many many years, cant remember where i got it from. why do you ask?

[@AtticusRh0des]

"Personalities are more important than Nationalities" if only more people in the world shared her belief. Great video :D

[@mavockintv7333]

Im actually pretty sure that most people think so. Though, the same doesnt go for overall looks

[@parrotshootist3004]

Why, do you dislike the existance of differences?

[@murderouskitten2577]

agreed

[@Naruto-bp6hm]

yet she was the one that also said she wouldnt date a foreigner again

[@blayze9136]

​@@Naruto-bp6hmdon't forget, she also said cultural differences made it difficult to sustain the relationship

[@yamahaU3]

Holy fuck, the girl in white navy top is super cute.

[@kurapan_clips]

+yamahaU3 Yeah, right? She's 10/10. No, actually she's more like 11/10.

[@brandonhunter7409]

+Matteasu Lol she's a 6 at best

[@strayedwayfarer5612]

+Matteasu I think she's at least 25 with 20/20 vision and size 38 feet (European scale).

[@jasperdeblini5123]

+Strayed Wayfarer who cares lmao?

[@strayedwayfarer5612]

Jasper Deblini Exactly! Who cares if random men or boys on the internet consider a woman a 6 or a 10, whatever the hell that means? L. Mao might care, but nobody else gives a hoot.

[@Cirithungul]

It really is not hard to have a wonderful relationship between cultures. I'm american who spent years in germany and my wife is from Hiroshima. She knows english and I am slowly learning japanese to be equal. we met by accident and knew within 3 dates that we wanted to be married. sometimes differences are strengths...you have to be willing to bend and flex with each other. we eat alot of japanese style food, mainly because I actually really enjoy it and it made me lose alot of weight...but we both eat anything. I respect her culture and accept her ways and she does the same. all it takes to make it work is caring for the other person...if you care, you are willing to bend and work together. I'm sure it would be harder for us in areas where interracial marriage is looked down on, but at the moment, we are near NYC and it doesn't stand out at all.

[@ExBruinsFan]

Mutual respect goes a long way. You're a LOTR fan, right?

[@Cirithungul]

ExBruinsFan indeed I am lol. Not many get that. It's just obscure enough.

[@Salvo11]

+Cirithungul Eating Japanese food and losing weight's not a bad thing. Nice side benefit to getting married, imho.

[@ExBruinsFan]

Brian Kim The guy loses weight, and the wife finds it.

[@Cirithungul]

ExBruinsFan I lost it and she kept it off. Eating mostly japanese style, keeps the weight off. Almost no sugar and low fat, but high salt...something we need to work on.

[@JoseTheKnight]

Guy: Which countries have you been to? Girl 1: shanghai...Boston Girl 2: shanghai -_- *facepalm*

[@jwzhu]

+Jose G one of the girls said London too...

[@JoseTheKnight]

+Novembrist Z Yeah I saw that after watching the video again. Nice catch.

[@thepolishwatermelon1239]

+Jose G Maybe she's just testing us, to see if we know which country those cities are in or maybe she just thinks it's superfluous to mention country. When you can mention city and thus know even more.

[@maninredhelm]

+Jose G In fairness, that's really the better way to answer the question, especially with regard to huge countries like China and America.

[@tinyhowie]

+maninredhelm Well, see if you answered China, he would ask which city. They're just saving your troubles of asking too many useless questions and assumed you know which countries are these cities from.

[@kuroshinko427]

Wow, the second girl is totally incredibly cute! That Chinese guy sure is lucky.

[@alexnick4996]

+周鵬 哈哈哈 不会吧，看她说的感觉 应该是上海的男盆友对她很不错的样子，还说要说服家里人跟他结婚呢23333

[@strayedwayfarer5612]

+Alok Tju What do you mean, free-fuck? As opposed to pay-per-fuck? How is prostitution better than sex based on mutual attraction and pleasure?

[@nivk08]

never really noticed that they were drunk till you mentioned it ! but i guess it made a great interview session eh. Nice video as usual !

[@abcdefghilihgfedcba]

Wait, when does he say that?

[@nivk08]

my bad. Yuta said they looked drunk.

[@poppy2old]

Hi I've noticed that the woman were very social with your interview. With my experience a lot of the Asian are timid are very shy people constantly on guard when they come over to the US . very few are Social and outgoing . My question is there any certain standards that you hold towards Americans?

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

poppy2old >My question is there any certain standards that you hold towards Americans? What do you mean by this? The standards that Japanese women hold when they consider dating Americans?

[@poppy2old]

ThatJapaneseManYuta in particular yes but is there a certain races (Black American Hispanics or Latino American) that they avoid?

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

I see. That could be a good question to ask. It would be interesting to ask Japanese people how much they know about the multicultural side of the States.

[@malayfellaz]

poppy2old as an asian man that have been to western world the first problem is there 1-No rice to eat. 2-the surrounding is not familiar. 3-the part where a man have to prove manhood by drinking and how many woman you have sex with. 4-asking me how i got my nice tan skin( i was born with tanned skin). this is just what i have encounter i know not everyone is western world are like this, to sum it up if you have become literally friend with asian we will be as wild as you and know how to have fun without the need of a booze. but seriously why western guy always need to prove the manhood like i prefer cat more than dog and they said that is not a real man pet. This is just what my experienced is western world i am not going to say which country i feel bad about it.

[@poppy2old]

ItJust Zul I guess like any other culture men always have to prove their cents worth or manhood . But this only occurs during the peak of the late teens early twenties. To need to drink because my friends drink. To smoke because my friends smoke. Considerly known as peer pressure or to view one standards .In other words you like cats but men society says that men are not supposed to have cats as pet. Then you are viewed as a certain standards then you'll be hased upon. Me I like cats but it doesn't mean that I will have one for a pet but you might criticize my decision over not having a cat for a pet and somewhere along the lines my manhood will be question. In the US there are people ( men or woman ) that see things one sided and most of them are pretty much bullys. But if you tell them that there opinions don't mean anything to you thay back down and leave you alone.

[@nerflirui]

1. Japanese dating Korean, while speaking Chinese doing so. The true multiculturalism... 2. The girl in white is so cute! (kawaii?) 3. Well Shanghai has a population of 24 million and 8 million for London. They're all quite big enough to be considered as a country lol.

[@ammarovenas]

the girl with the white sweater is really cute

[@intergalacticlove]

the girl in the white jumper is so cute haha :D

[@KenoxProductions]

***** Since when does having an anime profile picture makes you a weaboo?

[@KenoxProductions]

***** A weeabo is someone (usually a younger teenager aged around 15) who is obsessed with Japanese culture. Soo this might have nothing to do with anime. My friend is practically obsessed with anime, but does not learn Japanese or anything about Japan... Sorry, but I really hate it when people automatically assume someone is a weeabo, just because they like anime. Sure, weeabos' obsession with Japanese culture probably has its roots in anime in a lot of cases, but it's really rude to just generalize the whole anime community as weirdos...

[@KenoxProductions]

***** That's why I'm here. I love Japan and their culture. I watch a lot of channels about Japan like JapanChannelDotCom or my favourite AbroadinJapan. I don't really know what makes Japan so attractive and interesting... Although I never try to act Japanese. Not until I'm in Japan.

[@intergalacticlove]

ooh man, whats wrong with saying that someone's acting is cute! I don't understand why so many people make such a huge issue about the weaboo thing. And actually I dont really care. I'm not obsessed with Japan, but I'm really interested in their culture! I also learn their language. Isn't it great to have an interest? if I would come to your country completly amazed about you tradition and learning your language - would this made me a weirdo? I'm not overacting, and actually I don't even watch that much animes. It just makes me happy! What's wrong with being happy?

[@aperson9152]

I am glad that some Chineses and Japaneses still can understand each other and dont let stubborn politicians leadership affect them. I love you too Japanese people.

[@thebritishgeek]

+XianYang Shi Pretty sure its just the older generation that hate each other, i find that most younger japanese people are not as racist as their parents.

[@aperson9152]

+TheBritishGeek You right, but unfortunately the people on both side have not real influence about their government decision. If a crazy man declare war, its war. Then you know what will happen in most of people mind. The Chineses didnt hate Japaneses before WW2, then they did because of war triggered by only 1 man. So i think that most of people's mind are very weak. As you see on the white shirt girl side, her parents are against her relation because Chineses have bad view on Japaneses. But they didnt took in consideration that not all Chineses hate Japaneses.

[@user-ef6yi4ij7o]

I love you.

[@Sermalla]

Your perspective is very interesting. I appreciate how you offer the Japanese perspective but with an open mind. Will you do a commentary of this video too? The girl with the Chinese boyfriend seems to have a vibrant personality.

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

Sermalla She was drunk haha

[@Xainfinen]

ThatJapaneseManYuta Oh no! I liked her that way, she was only "vibrant" because of alcohol :/.

[@TheSunshineRequiem]

LOL! she speak Chinese with her ex-Korean bf, that made my day

[@alexnick4996]

+TheSunshineRequiem becoz they were both studying in China

[@binyanlumagnettradingltd5938]

same here LOL

[@euivets2892]

You see, you don't need english allways to Communicate each other :).

[@antony1974]

Not really a good social experiment. Interviewing two women and both are friends. This is feels like a gimmick to gain video views.

[@vinipcplayer]

+antony1974 damn right

[@hart_lane8075]

right. seriously

[@daAnT1990]

+antony1974 *Nic Cage face'ing* "You don't say!" that's this guys whole set up and I got this from just watching this one video :D

[@strayedwayfarer5612]

+antony1974 Well, of course. You can't expect a legitimate scientific study with a large and demographically balanced sample group here on youTube. Even if they'd interview 5 or 10 women, it would still only be an amateur video with no statistical relevance.

[@undeadpresident]

+antony1974 WELCOME TO KZbin

[@sabakujin3850]

Yuta's interviews are always so nice. The japanese people being interviewed are answering with all ease and honesty while other KZbinrs interviews seem a bit half-hearted since the interviewer is not japanese. Probably because they're a bit nervous with foreigners.

[@ThePhrozenPhoenix]

While I was in Japan, I had the best relationship of my life with an absolutely gorgeous girl. The only advice I have... don't leave. We tried to make it work long distance when I returned to the States, but it fell apart in a very ugly way. I still miss her like crazy, even though I have an American girlfriend now. In 2016, I plan on getting the hell back to Japan (not because of my Japanese-ex, though). It's just the most incredible country, and I miss everything about it.

[@SillyKiwiFtaghn]

+ThePhrozenPhoenix No, I liked your story. Cheers.

[@kornbroetchen99]

+Alok Tju let him tell his story dude! if you don't like it just skip

[@nirvanafan6669]

+Alok Tju I and other youtubers never asked for your open on his story. Please go away.

[@ximonwhhatt3796]

what were you doing in Japan?

[@ThePhrozenPhoenix]

Ximon Whhatt I didn't have a visa, I was only there for a six week long volunteer program helping kids learn English. But it was the most magical six weeks of my life. Can't wait to get back.

[@SheaRoberts]

The one girl is from Tochigi? That's where I live! I can understand her parents being apprehensive about her marrying a foreigner but while many people from Tochigi are very conservative, I've found them to be quite accepting as well. I hope it works for her.

[@AshU-ug2fy]

Everyone keeps saying the goofy giggling one is so cute (she is), but I thought the serious one was more attractive... maybe because she seemed more wise and like she knew what she was talking about, and her logic made more sense for what she was a looking for. I personally preferred the one on the right. They needed more people though. :/

[@prometheus_78]

Agree

[@ChadKovac]

what "TWO" japanese girls think.

[@ImTylerTheCat]

I'm married to a Japanese girl, it's great! She's awesome!

[@ImTylerTheCat]

@A loud Italian I think Japanese girls are much like any other race. As long as you are genuine, honest, funny, and can communicate, it'll work out fine.

[@ImOnGearSoWhat]

ImTylerTheCat You’ve helped me out more than you’ll ever know. Thank you.

[@AshThunor]

Wow, her image of "taking care of girls" in Europe is so wrong.

[@MrJm323]

No. I think she was saying, "...But, [on the other hand]..." ...she didn't want to take the gender equality thing too far. (It did seem she was contradicting herself a bit.)

[@consumedbyplaid]

alphaknave she was kinda right for the UK at least, we have a lot of guys who will take care of their girls, are extremely nice and gentlemanly, then we have the over posessive types, and then ones who just dont give a shit and cheat on their girl lmao. + more types i cba with

[@AshThunor]

She tried to cover her "conservative" statement with a throwaway comment about "gender equality" (whatever that means). I'm pointing out that Western Europe in general finds this concept of "weak women" to be "bad", for this decade at least. Maybe I used too many scare quotes?

[@EvilStreaks]

Gawd, Japan seems so unique. They seem open to foreigners and even respect them as equals but seem skeptical that they can mix easily with them for practical reasons. I've heard them speak about panicking when talking to a foreigner, even in Japanese. It's an interesting dynamic. From my outsider's perspective they would benefit form just relaxing.

[@thomasmorris610]

I would think it would depend on the women I'm white and my wife is Japanese and we have been married 44 years

[@garbagecanplay]

I would love a video about words that foreigners have trouble with!

[@garbagecanplay]

He offered to do it, pointing out the words he most often hears foreigners make mistakes with.

[@robertryan3571]

Yes, Yuta, I watch all of your videos to the end and agree that one about Japanese words that gaijin get wrong or don't understand would be quite interesting. Thanks for making this one about Japanese women who've actually dated foreigners; as usual, you made a very good video. By the way, when the two women you spoke to kept on asking to speak to you in Chinese, did they mistakenly think you were actually Chinese?

[@robertryan3571]

***** Good Lord, no! I've got better things to do than spark random fights with strangers on KZbin. I was simply agreeing with Ashley Hestand's original comment and didn't think about how it might sound to those who didn't finish the video, that's all. In making my comment on watching the entire video I was just letting Yuta know that I'm one of his viewers who watches his videos in their entirety. (Gah!--This is what I hate about brief non-verbal on-line communications: the tone and intent of written words can sometimes be easily misconstrued.) Anyway, I hope that I've mollified your sense of having been offended. Cheers! :)

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

Robert Ryan >By the way, when the two women you spoke to kept on asking to speak to you in Chinese, did they mistakenly think you were actually Chinese? No, we were just bantering!

[@aquamarinedream8304]

Interesting, i'll look into getting the book. Will you consider making a video where you interview Japanese men about dating foreign women? I'm a 21 year old american female with aspirations about living in Japan and i'm interested to hear what people have to say ^^ I'd also like to hear about women dating women,!! :3

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

Nāmaka Lis I'm considering interviewing men as well. Do yo have any questions you want me to ask?

[@laurabrown8365]

ThatJapaneseManYuta I'm also interested to know what Japanese men think of dating foreign women! I'm curious what Japanese men find physically attractive in foreign women as well because I've seen a lot of Japanese man/blonde foreign woman couples but not as many Japanese man/brunette foreign woman so I'm wondering if it's a pattern.

[@usagination]

Yayy theres more !! Ohh thanks for reading my review !!! Kinda embarrassing to hear my bad english... ;w; I really really liked your book i was so surprised about those awesome stories some were unbelieveable haha Btw i'm 'Nana' (i only use amazon.co to write book reviews) the girl that dated a chinese boy i'm not sure if she was shy or little drunk hehe Who knows haha

[@McMurchie]

When girls say 'culture difference' they usually mean problems in communication. I speak fluent Chinese, me and my wife are fine and she is super traditional then again I am fairly traditional Scotsman. Our differences are mostly guy/girl stuff.

[@moonstonepearl21]

+Adam -亚当- Yea, if you can't properly communicate with your significant other, then that will definitely put a strain on your relationship.

[@McMurchie]

MoonstonePearl21 agreed, but to communicate you need to know the language, and thus understand a bit about the culture.

[@McMurchie]

***** Aye... thats an affirmative dude.

[@dWong1991]

+Adam -亚当- She can't be "super traditional" if she is dating someone outside her race...

[@McMurchie]

Peter Feng Even the most traditional of Chinese girls have dated a foreigner back in the day - but that was generally for face, diplomacy etc

[@dfence1985]

2:55 in conclussion, nothing's ok with you lol. You want men and women to treat each other as equals, but you also want the privileges of being a women. This pattern can be seen in women from all around the world.

[@mikemhz]

+TheMythof Feminism - Nah, bullshit. If you actually think about gender roles analytically you will realise that women have wombs and men do not and therefore being protective of women gives the man an evolutionary advantage. But it also takes an analytical mind to appreciate that just because it makes evolutionary sense to protect women from the dangers of the world, doesn't mean women should be expected to remain locked away and be perfectly submissive, because having autonomy is just as important for your overall health as staying out of the jaws of a tiger is. So feel free to treat your significant other like a Victorian house-wife but don't be surprised if she then starts acting like a crazy emotional bitch and stabs you in your sleep or becomes a shadow of her former self, nagging, whining, crying and being thoroughly unattractive until you become a lecherous, wife-beating drunk. Those are just some of the mental health benefits of the pre-feminist era you pathetic scumbag :D

[@mikemhz]

You're trolling because you have not addressed any of my points. Protecting a pregnant woman gives the male, who impregnated the female, an evolutionary advantage due to the fact if he risks his life while protecting the life of his mate, his genetic material is more likely to survive even if he dies sooner. Same goes for a woman protecting a child, and letting the man protect her. Their combined genetic material survives and this behavioural trait is passed down. Extrapolate this across millions of years and cultural, physiological and neurological differences start to become apparent as, in general but not always, women do less labour and spend more time raising children than men.

[@mgtereqfm5091]

+Alok Tju MGTOWs are a bunch of whiny shrill babies who can't shut up about women. A joke movement lmao

[@mikemhz]

gibson You're going on with the assumption that post-sexual revolution the problems I mention went away. Wife beating is likely more prevalent now because gender stereotypes dictate that men have to be dominant. Now that men are no longer the primary bread winner, some turn to physical abuse to maintain their dominant status and control women. These abhorrent or stealthy methods to control women are more common now (or perhaps peaked at some point in the mid to late 20th century) because many men feel insecure about their position in a more equal world having been raised with old ideas about gender roles still in their death throws. It is important to note, that women are also in the habit of trying to control men. This is due to the same dysfunction relationship dynamic we saw pre-sexual revolution, where women had to develop methods to win autonomy in an oppressive environment. Both sexes are guilty of this which makes relationships more difficult these days because many of our controlling behaviors are subconscious or learned from our living relatives e.t.c. We do agree that the inequality between men and women happened naturally. However, there is much less of an environmental pressure to maintain that disparity of power. So feminism represents a natural social evolution with the age of technology where manual labor is valued less and workers are confronted by fewer health risks. Don't get me wrong, I think it's an important time to think about men, their rights, their needs and to stop feminism becoming a matriarchy. But, we must also not forget that the sexual revolution freed women from many eons of systemic oppression and we must not regress. Progress, however, will always be controversial, hard to measure or predict. I love my independent, educated women, though. Let's just make sure that young men have those aspirations too.

[@poposisa]

+Mariano Giagante yes and there is no way you can make them understand, it is so weird. I don't get it.

[@adrianthomas4163]

Crazy to think that the only thing that really separates people of the world, apart from distance, is language and cultures. Like this one lady said, when there is understanding, great things happen.

[@beepbeep5153]

Um... looks? The main thing?

[@NewCanadianTurtle]

The guy that is marrying the girl in white is a LUCKY man. He scored gold

[@haopan6217]

I am a Chinese boy, I like your interview in street, I appreciate your effort in filming this kind of video to let us especially how and what Nihon no girls think about marriage with Chinese; I would like to seize/capture a heart of a JPN girl's.

[@verisimilitudeteller]

Best phrase that fits Americans, "Baseless Confidence"

[@2kerosene]

00:27 woah she is so cute 💞

[@wildanS]

+Ricky McFly Not only that but it also seems that she has a really, really good heart.

[@TheLabecki]

+Ricky McFly She is super cute! I need to find a girl like her.

[@beatleneil]

+Ricky McFly she the ultimate!

[@nate2611]

+Ricky McFly she's not, you need to get out more.

[@2kerosene]

+Nathan S stfu

[@Eddy120876]

Great interview Yuta . I like that you presented the pro and cons. Thank you my friend.

[@awliafadhli]

that shor hair gir, she's so cute and funny.... :)

[@ChrisSlack]

Keep the street interviews coming! Two girls is a small sample.

[@PEDROELTON]

Well, i'm Brazilian, my fiancee is Japanese and we met in New Zealand. It has been the best 2 years and a half of my life!!!

[@elherediaenc]

+Pedro Elton Wow, Como vocês podem se comunicar? Inglês?

[@Knbgs]

no fair

[@xRisingForcex]

yuta, your videos are such a great vehicle for cultural insight. thanks so much for doing what you do. you've got a new sub!

[@Area51ZeroX]

Things shouldn't be as hard as it may seem, the language barrier, yes that's hard but actually try to learn it and be dedicated to it, to me that shows how much you wanna be and communicate with them. If you're with someone from a different race/religion/culture just learn to accept it, just like how you accepted them when you said "Yes" to being with them and everything else that they have to offer.

[@Accesserised]

I like watching your interviews with different people on the street, but I did not know they were drunk! ^^

[@keriables]

After watching this, I think I should broaden my horizons & start dating Japanese men! 😍

[@Wesker9999999]

+Keri Ables so, how did it went?

[@keriables]

It hasn't, but thanks for asking. 😉

[@hrisalek]

+Keri Ables so, how did it went?

[@keriables]

I haven't had the opportunity to broaden my horizons as of yet. 😉

[@Salvo11]

+Keri Ables Not a bad idea, many Japanese men can be more respectful and courteous to women than some western guys, depending on where you live and who you hang out with.

[@SourNicotine]

I'm chinese. born in central america though. and I'm glad to know that I would have a chance with a japanese woman :)

[@Mandalorian95]

Augusto Lu What country in central america, man?

[@SourNicotine]

Guatemala

[@SonoftheSteppes]

Augusto Lu What about latinas?

[@SourNicotine]

Illuminati latinas too xD

[@SourNicotine]

Keeyu Yova my mom says the same thing! lmaoooo

[@omarkenoh]

Language is probably where the majority of problems come from when dating a Japanese woman. People don't realize how major a barrier it can be sometimes when trying to convey expressions and thoughts. This is also the case when trying to explain certain cultural differences. Like the girl noted, Japanese don't express their innermost feelings so willingly and trying to explain that to a foreign man can be frustrating to both the Japanese woman (or even man) and the foreign partner. If ya wanna date a Japanese person, please do learn the language VERY well :D

[@mrbigdik9]

it looks like that these Japanese girls like Chinese or Korean which is another Asian people which is alright, but none of these girls have been with a foreigner from the west, but the videos is interesting, I didn't know so many Japanese girls have Chinese or Korean Boyfriends!

[@justinreedflynn]

This guy has cool videos!

[@Salvo11]

In all seriousness though, language and cultural differences can really matter though. My dad tried to set me up with a girl from Korea (because my family's South Korean) but she didn't speak English well, and I didn't speak Korean well and she was born and raised in Korea whereas I was in America, so we could tell right away we were too different. We couldn't even hold a decent conversation together. On the other hand, I can get along well with most anyone who speaks English, whether they're Asian or not. Although it's easier for me to talk to 2nd and 3rd generation+ Asians as opposed to those who immigrated from their country when they were grown up.

[@killersushi99]

Married to Japanese woman for 15 years. She likes me because I make her laugh and I treat her as an equal. Its a simple thing.

[@Wheelio]

The reality is that women are the same everywhere you go. When I was younger, I used to have crazy yellow fever and dated tons of Asian women. What I learned was that they are not that different from American women. They all have the same needs and/or wants as others.

[@dfg1999]

As a gaijin from Korea, it is extremely hard to meet Japanese women compare to meet other foreign women. I want to say what Koreans call 외국인(外國人) is slightly different from gaijin in Japan. Gaijin is more like outsider (not in negative way) of Japanese society. Of course Japanese people are friendly to gaijins but it's not easy to get along with them in a same level.

[@Ledeaven]

I like your videos! I'm a French student living in Tokyo and I wish I could have some nice advice for dating Japanese girls, so I just ordered your book (^_^) I am not sure I could ask some girls in the streets like you did, you have great confidence in yourself and that's awesome, keep on! ありがとうございます！頑張ってねー！

[@eightypuff01]

I would love to go to Japan one day. It's like if a western European country decided to move away from Europe and do its own thing. It's so similar, but yet so intensely different. I would love to experience the Japanese culture one day. - A Swedish man.

[@feixia9135]

Shanghai has the greatest number of Japanese inhabitants in China. From geographical or cultural or historical perspective, I don't feel surprised at all.日本人と韓国人は中国語で話しましたか。。。とても面白いですよ

[@matthewl.5085]

That short-haired girl is so CUTE! :)))

[@alexuturgaidze5722]

Thank you man for everything you are doing, I'm really interested in Japan.

[@The_Crimson_Fucker]

You interviewed a whole 2 girls...wow, guys, I'm amazed at the utterly stupendous amount of effort you put in to this. Really guys, it's just amazing!

[@TheLivingDeadOne]

You need a better camera. You always have issues with focus.

[@MsJavaWolf]

2:35 You have a wrong image of Europe, if you said that as a man on KZbin you could be fired from your job in Europe.

[@raanenocampo7956]

Yuta's accent is sooooo clean

[@leok1126]

Nice Video man! Keep it up 頑張ろ！

[@RobLao]

日本の女の人は本当に優しいです :)

[@SniperRed0092]

That second girl though.

[@you2449]

+Quincy definitely would be my pick of the two. loved the style, look, everything.

[@SniperRed0092]

you2449 Her eyebrows are odd, but I can look pass.

[@sparken]

Great videos Yuta. Hopefully you can sort out your camera's focus in future videos! I really enjoyed your recent kanji video by the way. I'd love to see more videos like that.

[@PaddyMcMe]

I like how sophisticated the older girls responses are, maybe most of them are like that and we just get really distorted ideas from Japanese media.

[@FindMeInKurume]

Yuta, I find your videos interesting but it would be better if the people you interviewed were in focus instead of the background. Second video like this.. is it because they don't want their faces on camera?

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

FindMeInKurume I am thinking that focusing manually is the best way at night.

[@maxdecphoenix]

+FindMeInKurume It's hard for even automated-focusing cameras to track the focus object if it is constantly moving. Notice that the women are constantly swaying side to side, or bobbing forward and back. Bending down in embarrassment, etc. This is why typically, interviews are done seated, to restrict a lot of that movement, and the focus remains relatively fixed within a narrow plane. Films/tv go to obsessive lengths testing scenes/shots. you wouldn't think it, but the amount of planning and rehearsal that goes into a simple panning shot where a particular object is to remain in focus is very forumulmatic. blocking markers and orientations are placed on the floor, paths are marked out, etc etc. Some of the t.v. shows can get away with these type of 'on the street' ambush-interviews because they just have the most expensive, top of the line cameras on the market, with professional lighting and cameramen. It's difficult to ask most YT'ers to make these types of investments.

[@Naxxaramus]

They have no ideea at all about other people that are not asian so, it's hard for them to know how we think and are. they answer base on what they have seen on movies and maybe dateing sitte's. My opinion tho but i think they will definatly love a guy from a other country .

[@maik89able]

I think the same too.. Personality is more important than Nationality

[@spiritfired]

Beautiful interviews on interesting subject. Thankyou!!

[@SpecialHandlingUnit]

rewrite the title as "what 2 Japanese ladies think about dating a south korean and chinese man".

[@veganlifethebestlife1102]

+SpecialHandlingUnit ? Chinese and South Korean IS foreign to Japan. Racist much? Upset that only low ranking bar girls/prostitutes are into GI Joes?

[@X-AEA-12]

+SpecialHandlingUnit Why? South Koreans and Chinese are foreign to Japanese.

[@SpecialHandlingUnit]

what has race got to do with it, how can 2 ladies provide an accurate answer on what ALL Japanese girls like... you saying only low class girls like gi joes- you are the racist, in reality. Also your comments are hateful and you are a perfect representation of your gutter family.

[@veganlifethebestlife1102]

SpecialHandlingUnit Most Japanese girls, from respectable families with money, do not want to marry foreigners -- especially not GI Joes. In Japan/Korea there is a stereotype that these are lower class girls. I didn't mention anything about race so I'm unsure why you're calling me "racist." I feel like you're insecure.

[@SpecialHandlingUnit]

***** it doesn't matter what you think obviously.

[@malthus101]

Those girls were cute. I'm going to move to Japan..... kbye!

[@Byzant1453]

haha me too

[@33mauriciom]

your english is amazing ! greetings from Brazil !!! keep doing nice videos !

[@futbolita89742]

Back at it again with the interesting videos Master Yuta

[@CV_CA]

Japanese girls are cute.

[@CV_CA]

+Alok Tju That is little bit harsh Lol

[@Caroline-ft9xv]

You mean 60 millions or so ? Some people are ugly , some are pretty in every country . But their colouring is very ugly.

[@soulevans2082]

Well in my country (im from the netherlands), many people don't want to marry japanese people cuz' they think japanese people are to short and they have splitted eyes (or how ever you wanna call it) but i don't agree with that, i dont mind rase or country, but i can understand other people tough if you dont speak the language it might not be a good plan. Dutch people says: all japanese people looks simular, i dont agree with that, but i can understand them cuz' ive never seen a japanese person with blond hair and other stuff like that but does japanese people think that dutch people look simular too? (I ask this cuz' many dutch people says: "yeah, but japanese people thinks that we are simular to echather too") sorry for my english im from holland so it's not my fault XD

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

Soul Evans People tend to think other races look similar, so it's not only Dutch people :)

[@michal9o90]

ThatJapaneseManYuta I don't think like that, every person is a little different but If we would compare whole races then well, certainly we can say, Europeans are similar, asian are similar, african are similar ect.

[@LeatherfacePapi]

Soul Evans you are talking bullshit i never heard of thath over here (Amsterdam)

[@lavidaspeligrosa]

Heee, blijken hier meer Hollanders te zijn:--) nou, een Japanse gaat mij zeker voor dan een Chinees of Koreaans!

[@jakedj9317]

Soul Evans I have been living in Japan for about 9 months, and I have come to be able to easily distinguish all people apart. They are all different just like any race, the problem is the people's perception on things or people that they are not accustomed to seeing. I have never had a problem recognizing my girlfriend in a station filled with people.

[@MasterGuil]

Watching this video bring me back years of trouble. I am married with a chinese girl and it looks pretty much like in this video. My wife and I needed to fight so bad to get our relation accepted inside her family or people around. Good thing I am stubborn. :) I am canadian (white) and in my surrounding, everyone was happy about my situation. The good side tho about that fighting is I think it made our relation stronger and real. We were able to go through and live separated for couple months waiting for immigration. Now, 3 years later, she is coming to Canada for real (got immigration) in 3 weeks and we can finaly start our own family life.

[@NicoLReino]

Yep, Nuno is from Portugal. They eat 12 raisins and midnight and here in Spain we eat 12 grapes at midnight.

[@dtriplett03]

1)Cute as a Button)) 2)Professional)

[@skvltdmedia]

Agree on mixing the cultures these days. We're all honestly way past the old generations of closed-mindedness. Take the best from all the cultures, and forget the rest.

[@akinkunmicook2977]

Yes, please do a video about the Japanese words that foreigners like me pronounce wrongly!!!! BTW, I love your videos!

[@ironpirites]

These two girls are adorable! I hope they get lots of interesting dates. Good video.

[@yipf3022]

2

[@alexnick4996]

哈哈 第二个妹子看起来很可爱的样子(///ω///) 第一个妹子 哈哈哈哈哈 日本人和韩国人居然用中文交流 这。。。。哈哈哈哈2333333333 好吧 我以前看过一个韩国人和越南妹子谈恋爱 用中文交流在北京

[@hellocyrax]

learn to focus a camera

[@massvt3821]

Yuta--you should find these two again, for another interview. They're both nice and interesting, and you'd get lost of views..

[@massvt3821]

"Lots" of interviews, that is.

[@blisterrbub1714]

The second girl seemed so nice!! Her boyfriend must be lucky, I hope everything turns out well for them... :)

[@MatthewChidester]

cute girl dating that chinese guy from shangai... :)

[@NorthernGaijin]

The girl in the striped shirt is adorable lol

[@salamzulkifli1320]

Hello Yuta, can you make a video about basic etiquette that basically Japanese people don't tell about it? such as que to get into the train.. etc

[@KitsGravity]

You are awesome, man!!

[@hadynm8622]

The one with the bob-cut seemed like a super cool person to hang out with.

[@aridian7787]

If I was young and single and wanted to date internationally, this would be a no-brainer. Those girls are charming. They did'nt contradict themselves iether. the questions come from diffferent angles which forces them to assume different perspectives to answer them.

[@thiagomendespm]

Now i wanna know if the girl in white get married with her chinese boyfriend, its been 4 years. And she was so fun, great personality, amazing ppl to have close.

[@shelleya.thunder2494]

Funny video! How about one on what Japanese guys think of dating foreign girls? And not just white girls. Black, Latina, Biracial etc. Cheers! :))

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

Shelley A. Thunder Do you have any questions you'd like to ask? I'd love to ask them if they like latinas (but maybe only if my video in Spanish does well) and eventually black girls.

[@maxikyle1339]

My uncle was able to do this while stationed in Kanagawa. They've been married since 1993. A skilled man he is.

[@Chris9017]

What I love about Japanese girls is that, they are VERY open minded, much more than that of girls from the US which are A LOT more single minded.

[@Kyuushi94]

I would like to see a video on the Japanese words foreigners don't always understand. Are you still taking opinions on that suggestion?

[@johnmagill3072]

I like your videos. Good information. keep up the good work.