How to Date a Japanese Girl (According to Japanese Girls - Interview)

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I asked Japanese girls about dating tips. Topics include: how to flirt with Japanese girls? What can you do to get their attention? What to do on the first date? What it takes to become boyfriend and girlfriend? And what not to do.

[@ThatJapaneseManYuta]

I feel like a lot of things they said here are lost in translation. You can translate Japanese into English, but often words that are supposed to be the same aren't really the same. For example, girls said "gouin" which can be translated as "forcible," at least according to the dictionary. But the English versions sound much more predatory than the Japanese version. In my opinion, it's more like being "assertive" than "forcible" but then again, "assertive" has different connotations. So if you really want to understand Japanse girls, you have to learn Japanese. (Unless you are talking to the small minority of them who doesn't just speak some English but understand subtle nuances of English.) So if you want to learn Japanese with me, I can send you some free Japanese lessons here bit.ly/3oEJSnV

[@jasonchia3959]

Yuta, I hope you can also interview girls from the rural areas. I would like to see a comparison in differences of values between city and rural young people.

[@karlheisenberg2857]

I try to learn Japanese :) It would be an amazing help, if you put up Japanese subtitles as well. These girls speak to fast for me :)

[@WEBTEAM1000]

The word you're looking for is bold.

[@esheep8697]

That Japanese Man Yuta you could also just say that the girls want the man to take the lead and be dominant in decision making.

[@phneutro87]

a good word for this can be "bold" or event "consistent" "solid".

[@elasolezito]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend." And you want me to do what ? Challenge to a duel under the red rising sun ?

[@arx117]

wakakaka Best comment ever. they watch too many drama that can be appeared on shoujo manga

[@elasolezito]

Ryuzaki Raiga Possibly lol !

[@Lanfeust91]

+Johan Dale it just reminds me the terrible reality of being in couple nowadays. A lot of people are taken but sad in their relationship, so are just waiting for something / somebody better to come in their life :/

[@RedHairdo]

+Johan Dale Yeah, that statement of theirs is outright disgusting. It's basic respect and discipline you don't make moves on those who are committed in general. To think with a way of thinking like theirs, they could mistake someone with extremely considerate policies to be "lacking in being persistent" when they shouldn't be, which is *_absolutely_* hideous and disgusting. With that said, I rejected girls before when I was already taken (and they knew I was committed; it's amazing how much wearing a ring makes a man more handsome). But I didn't look down on them. But yes, I did absolutely disagree with their choice of trying to make a move on me, but I'm not so cold to, on top of rejecting, to make the person even more miserable by pointing out the things I just said on my first two paragraphs to them.

[@countdoom1778]

I CHALLENGE YOU IN THE NAME OF MY FATHER! BEWARE MY SWORD CRAFTED FROM THE SCALE OF THE DRAGON OF THE RISING SUN

[@OrinjFlames]

Yes, let the foreigner show you around your city.

[@nicholaschaihong6029]

Lol, bruh

[@iloverebeccachambers]

Ahahaha! At least you can try.

[@rosspainting9499]

lol yup Google map the shit out of it

[@Jombo1]

You must prove your gaijin power level.

[@edoppelle]

:'D Marry me

[@紫雪-e1d]

"We go to a 'family restaurant' and he brings me water and hot towel" Maybe I'm just daft but if someone does that to me, that person usually turns out to be part of the serving staff

[@spacep0d]

Yeah I'm not gonna do the waiter's job! :D

[@frosty_josh8048]

true, i wonder where they would even get a hot towel from? do they js go into the kitchen, grab a towel, make it hot and bring it back to their seat like nothing js happened? or do they expect men to carry towels with them in their pockets

[@daviddao8328]

James hello, I am originally from Vietnam, but live in America now. From my Experience socializing with many male and female friend in Ho Chi Minh, I have not ran into that issue, because we wanted to be seen as equal, and not rude. I thinks the girl you were talking to is just a maybe bit conceded, and taking advantage of u being polite. Haha, hope this helps. 👍

[@keirsimmons2312]

@@frosty_josh8048 It's called oshibori (おしぼり) - they are commonly given out to clean your hands before and after eating at most establishments.

[@frosty_josh8048]

@James thanks for the information, i appreciate learning new experiences and learning about cultures from another person's personal experience

[@panlis6243]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend." - That's not giving up. That's called having basic human decency

[@renielgarcia3306]

Women really likes to be chased and get more attention

[@theinherit116]

In all honesty that’s going to backfire on them.

[@fishstew2573]

@@renielgarcia3306 its very unusual in western culture for that to be the case.

[@Momonga32]

For real they could literally just break up if she wants someone else

[@kingo_friver]

I don't think she is a human after watching her talking.

[@theiamoon6332]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend." Ofcourse, I call it respect.

[@onyxia2294]

Ya that gets me too, like apparently they expect us to *somehow* read their mind and than try to steal them from their imaginary boyfriends... Well now we know how these stupid bitches always "pick" the wrong guy and get douchebags for boyfriends.

[@royals1231]

I'm amazed they've never heard of the bro code lol. Surely they have some guy friends?

[@germangonzales2008]

Japanese women are so passive though, I bet a lot of them are in relationships simply because the man decided he was going to make her his. I think Japanese women, they are so passive, they will let themselves be owned by whoever wants to have them. So maybe, she goes along with it, because it seems right, but the love is missing, and its because only one person in the relationship is practicing free choice. But women, they recognize one thing very well, the person you are in a relationship with, is not always, the one you truly desire.

[@asherandai1000]

@@germangonzales2008 "But women, they recognize one thing very well, the person you are in a relationship with, is not always, the one you truly desire." If that is the case then break up with him/her. Expecting someone to come along and flirt/date/steal/generally-show-interest in/with you is not only a bad idea as only the worst of people will do that, but it makes one of the worst as well. Dating someone you don't really want to be with is setting them up for heartbreak, it's giving them false hope, and it's taking away opportunities for them to find someone who actually cares for them. If as you say women recognise this but don't stop dating guys they don't they don't want to be with then that makes them horrible people. (disclaimer: I don't believe all women are like this. Some most definitely are, and so are some men, and those ones should be avoided at all costs. But that does not constitute all women or all men)

[@germangonzales2008]

@@asherandai1000 Mehh, its just women being overly nice and not being able to say no to someone. True love takes time to develop sometimes, love at first sight is often just lust, which fades quick. There's more to a relationship than just pure self-interest. Its a chance to get to know someone new, a chance to "expand your horizons" whatever the fuck that means. And I find it very nice that even if a girl doesn't desire me or intitally like me, I still have a window of opportunity where I can try to make her want me. Unfortunately, Love never runs smooth. Sometimes you fall in love with someone you know you can't be with, and it all happens as the weeks pass by, unbenknownst to you the love was begining to blossom. Recently my friend drunk-texted me lamenting how sad she is. A mutual friend who she'd been with for most of her 20s, well as it turns out she is still deeply in love with him. But he has another girlfriend now, and he cherishes her the way she wishes he would cherish her. Anyways, she's been with 2-3 other guys since him, but she revealed to me she NEVER STOPPED LOVING HIM. She told me she can't stop being sad about it, and all the other guys she's been with, no matter how hard she tried to make it work (3 years + in a relationship) she cannot stop loving our mutual friend. He will never take her back. She is cursed to love him for the rest of her life it seems. True love, never runs smooth..

[@dragondad7733]

I only have one problem dating Japanese women, my wife is totally against it. She is funny that way.

[@kolofs]

LMFAOOOOOOOO

[@apierc1]

You give up too easily

[@cornedbeef3243]

don't give up hahaha

[@SoulScience11]

@@apierc1 whahahahaha

[@joshwaeiss2436]

Dude, same! I pitched the idea to her and she slapped me. I don’t know why.

[@W.2026]

"Guys give up easily when a girl has a boyfriend" Sorry, but if you're willing to leave your boyfriend to be with me, you can leave me for another guy in the future too. Most guys realize this and that's why they stop pursuing you any further.

[@excaliburofgachagames9241]

Hit the nail on the head with this one

[@susiolu]

TRUE, I am amazed there is someone who thinks like this. This is light years ahead of what I think. Great.

[@excaliburofgachagames9241]

@shelbrique that's because why would we date a girl who already has a boyfriend. If she can cheat like that for me why wouldn't she cheat like that for someone else. Women think it's wrong for men to cheat so they break cars for a living, but yet men are also supposed to steal them from their boyfriends saying it's ok for them to cheat... ok sure.

[@sol6955]

Also cause it’s just a total douche thing to do, I doubt you would like it if your girlfriend just up and dated some random dude because he was foreign, wouldn’t feel nice I bet

[@shairuno]

I am cool with that. Sometimes it is just a chasing game.

[@WeeGPoops]

Their plans: an entire drama romance My plans: get at least one girlfriend before I die

[@kingpamz]

FeelsBadMan 😔

[@raismotiventures5123]

Best of luck with that!!🙃🙃

[@Live-bc1uc]

Same

[@carlosbarragan6729]

i feeeeel u homie

[@UmamiPapi]

It's overrated. If it's not love it's poo poo.

[@godmakoto1041]

"Cute and aggresive" Technically my dog

[@alomarya.2129]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@behindthemask6502]

🤣🤣🤣😂

[@snatchX626]

you win the Internet.

[@hubahubahuba7532]

I can't stop laugh

[@kentaki1661]

Lol u got me.hahaha

[@Jombo1]

Pat their heads and wear mickey mouse ears. Got it thanks.

[@ndoto9]

LOL

[@joncaju]

while walking on the street side

[@Mendoksen1]

tell them they're kawaii

[@ilyaakadishtungha7337]

So i guess we can expect quickfeet to get a kawaii waifu very soon?

[@Jombo1]

yep lol

[@Chocochoco22]

Her: Pulling out a chair Me: *pulls out the chair when she’s about to seat*

[@rohanbhagabati3697]

daradaradaa....its an one and only D-O-G-G SNOOP DOOOGG......

[@starlyghtdrifter66]

@@rohanbhagabati3697 I laughed so hard thx

[@Mariostern1]

What a Chad

[@climatechangeisrealyoubast3231]

"Why are you booing me? I'm right!"

[@nikhilpandey2618]

😂😂😂👍👍

[@leonardo9259]

Guys gave up when I tell them I have a boyfriend Yeah duh, I'm not cucking my fellow brother

[@luisalbertoarenasaraya4579]

I mean if I did it maybe another person can do it to me.

[@JustChillingNahhhhMean]

Yes sir. Our golden rule.

[@georgefan2977]

@@luisalbertoarenasaraya4579 good point🤣

[@omaraymanfaroukmoustafa9877]

Exactly if she's willing to do this to him because she finds me better then she will do it to me when she finds someone who she thinks is better fuck that

[@sirfapalot8851]

So NTR tag is real after all

[@AshenDennis]

Guys give up too quickly when the targeted girl already has a boyfriend and that is bad? Isn't that just showing respect?

[@johnbungo5546]

yeah, i gotta say thats the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard, they just honestly watch too much anime where they want 2 guys fighting over them zz.

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

All is fair in love and war.

[@chupol5659]

true!! its a sign of respect

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

Not moving ahead is not respect. It is complacency. Let her make the move. Maybe she is tired of him or he is abusive or never pays her any attention. With my wife her bf 8 years and never asked her to marry him. i came along saw she was really something and proposed to her and we set a date that year and got married. The worst thing in a relationship is to become complacent. Comfortable. i hate this idea of people saying what they can't do. I want to hear what you can do. Listening to these Japanese girls they want a man to take the lead and not some girly boy.

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

No lack of cajones.

[@taufikyogi49]

this proves anime is 70% correct about japan

[@e_t_t9553]

All that’s wrong is the eyes , the voices and unrealistic romantic settings.

[@ГлебХабаров-ж7о]

@@e_t_t9553 also boobs. We are cultured men after all.

[@e_t_t9553]

of course , how could I forget ?

[@cloudh8779]

What were they right on? I haven’t watched slice of life anime’s so i wouldn’t know.

[@dhenderson319]

Clovud Shojo is very annoying at times when girls get worked up over the dumbest things and take the worst advice from their friends. It’s like their priorities are inthe wrong place... I started to see the correlation in this video That and the 1st name basis mentioning And the dates that they like And their expectations for eg hand holding stage... that also shows in anime Hope that kinda gives u an idea

[@disabledroachfr]

"Never ask fish how to catch fish. Ask a fisherman" -Fishman.

[@davidbolha]

But the fisherman sold his stick on Craigslist for an Xbox & went MGTOW. 😎😃

[@foreverfamily3775]

😭😭 no cap

[@jackleo4435]

But fish don't want to be caught, women kinda do

[@flymarkus0957]

or a fishmonger if you may 🤣

[@dark_regent2151]

So what your saying is never ask a guy on how to get a girl but rather ask a girl to get a girl is that what you meant lol? Or am I dumb and misunderstood lmao

[@itsameyoshio]

Damn... a lot of them just seem like they want to do zero work in a relationship. "Entertain me! Me me me!". Also... who wants a girl who wants to be stolen? lol

[@lostinoc3528]

girls don't do any work in relationships, they are just there, the guy needs to do literally everything, and then she will still leave you.

[@Jessewatt]

you got the point. LOL these kind of girls is not worth at all. OR shall we say Bitch.

[@nathanieljonathan4275]

@Edgar Ospina it depends on culture and woman background.. i'm not surprised at all if woman think like that.. since we have patriarchy culture in every place in this world.. woman expected to do home stuff (or worst some culture treat woman like property) while men do the protection

[@ShenLong33]

It seems to me these are the first women you get to know.

[@starlyghtdrifter66]

Been living in Japan for 10 years, been married, divorced, dated other girls since then...I tell you my man....most women are like that around here...

[@Saner78]

I don't want to meet girl who want to be stolen from her man.

[@danitabori]

Saner78 exactly. I was surprised, when she said that a guy shouldn't give up, when the girl already has a boyfriend. That was odd.

[@Reinout100]

Indeed, I was also suprised by that answer :/

[@krashme997]

Saner78 Same here, that sounds kinda unfaithful, I couldn't really trust her. I've seen other videos where japanese girls said they could forgive cheating if the girl was cuter than them, I was like "whaaaat?". Yet again, nobody said you had to meet every single japanese girl, just go for the ones that you like ^^

[@alanfalleur6550]

Saner78 LOL. She sounds like trouble.

[@dot5483]

Yeah, not a keeper that one. Literally. She sounds very shallow.

[@citizenofearth]

"Guys give up so easily when I have a boyfriend". Well yeah bitch, cause who wants to fight a jealous samurai??? :-))))

[@gruntage95]

Competition is good for everyone.

[@DubstepSon]

huh?

[@iloverebeccachambers]

I can fight. Here, hold my vodka.

[@heremod9173]

Or an otaku...

[@CulturedDegenerate]

"Jealous Samurai" LOL I'm dead XD

[@SarthakSPyt]

just as a weebs perception of Japan is largely based on anime, Japanese girls perception of western men is based on western movies.

[@wabisabi6802]

Any self-respecting guy won't steal away somebody else' girlfriend.

[@Nocturne33]

yeah I wouldn't want to get my girlfriend taken away :^( Especially by some black guy.

[@wabisabi6802]

Patata The Potato haha

[@Nocturne33]

wabi sabi :3

[@alaaobaid3363]

+ayodeji coker yeah but you can think about it as a compliment though :P

[@HHSW99HC]

+Patata The Potato lmfao

[@suntzu4607]

We give up when the woman already has a boyfriend because we respect the boyfriend as a fellow man and it’s a law that a man should never steal the woman of another man.

[@gerardo49078]

Well put

[@tumadrev598]

A man of culture amen 🙌

[@josetamariz9388]

Amen.

[@verygeneric7065]

Japanese Girls really are scary I get an image of a complete sadist from them

[@character2897]

Bro code

[@igotyou287]

*"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend"* *"If he likes me, i want him to be more persuasive. I want him to steal me"* my response to that is : Are you fucking serious? It's normal for a guy in every country not to chase a girl is she is already in a relationship it's called 'respect' to the boyfriend and also respect to yourself and dignity! If a girl wants to be stolen then that means she's not worth having a relationship with! A faithful woman won't let herself be stolen while his boyfriend is doing her best for her.

[@Radeo]

Tfate 27 She's serious. Being in a relationship in Japan is not all it's cracked up to be. Stories of "My boyfriend in Tokyo..." when she lives 6 hours away, and they meet just once a month are common. It's a "relationship" only in the sense that they can tatamae say they are "in a relationship" when other people ask them/to placate parents. Pursuing someone in that kind of relationship is much different from pursuing someone who is living with the other person, or is engaged, or who see each other every day.

[@anttinurminen6692]

+Tfate 27 I don't know what are you talking about, you can respect other guy relationship or decide not to, if girl is worth it. Boyfriend does not own his girlfriend, she can make her own choice. And other way around too. Maybe it's like Radeo write, relationship like Japanese or just this girl see it to be. Friends girlfriends are different thing, never mess with them, it's not worth it, never.

[@peacebewu]

+Antti Nurminen for me, respect comes first. There are way too many single girls out there anyway.

[@anttinurminen6692]

peace bewith u Yes, good thing that there is single girl out there. Not so much drama as if boyfriend shows up. I respect, friends girls and if I like boy, strangers I don't know, so I don't care. This does not mean that I hunt other guys girlfriends, just that if girl is really worth it, soulmate or so, then i can't see it is totally no no. Rules of love and war.

[@peacebewu]

Antti Nurminen well, I've never believed in "soulmate". If I liked someone, but she isn't free, I could just find another "soulmate".

[@K.R_Mony]

Japanese girl : - Cuteness 9/10 - Softness 9/10 - Sweetness 9/10 - Loyalty 0/10

[@juanc.fariassantana7077]

IF SHE BREATH, SHE'S A JAPANESE

[@SlowedAesthege]

They are just acting cute it's getting annoying

[@alysh4896]

@@SlowedAesthege there is no standard cuteness. Most of the girls want to look cute and that itself makes it an act. Everyone wants attention so being normal is actually cute but nobody does it thinking it will annoy the person ahead

[@epicfrenzie4924]

@@SlowedAesthege Umm wow Not all Japanese act cute

[@epicfrenzie4924]

@@SlowedAesthege I don’t act cute and I’m Japanese

[@rockyvandamme7767]

Try patting a western girl on the head, I dare you

[@Vicente_Moreno]

She will pat you ten times harder and with her hand closed.

[@kolofs]

down here in texas....it's hard.

[@jaced7289]

😂

[@TheKawaiifan]

I HATE BEING PATTED

[@Ryan-ut3cg]

Only if you do it in a playful manner, I do it from time to time.

[@OKevinO12]

But she gets mad when I made the decision to go for McDonald's dollar menu

[@anintendofankindaguy1368]

Tofu Waffle XD

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

I would too. Tight ass.

[@rdhudon7469]

If you get them a happy meal with a toy there should be no problem .

[@Holycryptonite47]

So basically the women of Japan live in a fantasy world Correction : *fantasy anime*

[@_simon.s_]

*_ISEKAI_*

[@captainchaos8032]

Too many disney, too many foreign trips..

[@onyxia2294]

Ya I think ALL women are like this. Well apparently they want you to "steal" them when they say they have a boyfriend... Also Disney IS FUCKING EVIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@artificialintelligence0101]

Aka ALL WOMEN

[@Haegemon]

@@onyxia2294 In the west feminists call this "toxic masculinity".

[@isengoga1281]

So basically they're a typical highschool girl mindset in a Shojo manga?

[@dabboloosefun]

the accuracy

[@0oZzZzZo0]

:)) that's exactly what I thought as well

[@abdrex2139]

True asf

[@martinroner5688]

But if that's the case, hypothetically a guy just needs to read/watch shojo manga/anime and behave like the most successful character in them...

[@vaikkajoku]

rule #1 never listen to women's advice on dating women.

[@franzmuller4145]

Facts!

[@danegerausbayern]

It can give you an indication and a point to start from. Also it's good to see that different women prefer different things... almost as if they are individuals - weird thing huh? But yeah, RIP Patrice and his wisdom.

[@bienangelo9161]

@@danegerausbayern Well I get where you're coming from, but if that were the case fboys wouldn't be a valid thing.

[@sabdowidhi6365]

It's like asking a fish how to fishing

[@htf5555]

lmao

[@estancadoporsiempre2693]

trust me never get advise from woman on how to date woman

[@wolfe8035]

I would not think of it as dating advice to date other women, but to date them instead? In the end though, advice is advice in a way or two, and thus, you might know what a girl wants given past experience/advice. It is not entirely the issue if the information is wrong, is what you do with it... at least that's how I see it.

[@ulengrau6357]

Never get advice from men on how to date a man. You think any guy is ever going to actually tell a woman: btw, if you're really good at oral sex, it helps a lot on that "first time." But afterwards you can pull back a bit, only do it every now and then so that it remains special to us. We need to face that no ONE person can speak for everyone, and that most of us, in the end, are genuinely attracted by the oddest little things we cannot explain. Also, asking people in groups such a personal question is never bound to get a good answer, especially in front of a camera... people are less likely to disagree with a friend on something very personal to them if the friend is the "alpha" of the group.

[@fredsas12]

Haha, that was literally my first thought when I saw this headline.

[@josea.471]

Except these girls are less defensive, cause they are not giving advice to a friend specifically that they dont wanna hurt. Man planning and leading, less contact by phone, etc, they did say as It is. I bet the majority of these girls are strong, they know what they want, and they specially dont have tô hide it

[@kalliroiangelopoulou1721]

Lesbians exist.

[@noob.168]

After watching this, I really don't want to date anymore...

[@Miimu5210]

+noob168 The single life is the best life

[@LegoSwordViedos]

+Dan k lol. really. No honestly ask yourself, really is it.

[@noob.168]

LegoSwordViedos that depends on individual. ik i can make myself happy.

[@CookieeMonstarr666]

+noob168 you can't make yourself happy while in a relationship? well, can u live happily until 70 or 80 years old without partner?

[@noob.168]

CookieeMonstarr666 I never said I can't be happy in a relationship...I've never even been in one. But what I do know is I can live happily w/o a partner till old age. :P Life has so much to offer.

[@jeremydiaz5172]

It's an ancient known fact, women don't know what they want. Just be you.

[@madf8507]

yeah just be you dude this video kinda shows that some Japanese women are emotionally immature fr, one-day they'll realize.

[@gssbr]

Thanks for the advice

[@davidbolha]

Herbivores/MGTOWs did start in Japan... 🤔😉

[@davidbolha]

@charlie rammstein Of course ! It's a common known fact in the MGTOW sphere. 🙂

[@suzyr82]

Most women know EXACTLY what they want, but yes, just be you. If you're not what I want you're better off with someone else anyway (and vice versa).

[@sinay4048]

In my case i don't want girls who are dependent on me ..

[@abcdefghilihgfedcba]

Nissou Yeah, because I can’t depend on myself either.

[@TheMiig1513]

ALAKTORN ahahahah nice one rofl xD

[@FuzzyBumblyBees]

Nissou I feel the same way.

[@tomosburton1756]

Nissou I don't think this is particularly enlightening. This is like the level of Gogglebox.

[@Despond]

***** Because a relationship should go two ways. There's nothing more unattractive then somebody who breaks down if they are not with someone, who has to depend on someone else or they don't feel complete. When someone is like that, then their partner is just really filling a role rather then there being true love. A partner with their own hobbies, ambitions but also wants true love is ideal. You should never see your self as only a half, a relationship should be two fulls - if you get what I mean.

[@g7enn89]

and that my friends are the reasons why japanese men prefer to date virtual waifu.. lol

[@alikhadour5857]

g7enn89 Hahahaha classic

[@timothycarter5871]

What women are going to do when sex androids come out?

[@MiniKodjo]

I had a girlfriend like that (not asian) . A yes girl with no opinion, who want the man to decide everything. She felt like a princess and I felt like having a 26 yo child to take care of...

[@melikeozgun9637]

KroutSuprem Yooo lol what a way to describe it

[@albertoj.mollinedo4116]

those are the best, a living human doll what more can you ask for LOL

[@Rooo8]

It seems like it is either a pet or a feminazi... Where have the reasonable women gone?

[@1lik3Fir33mbl3m]

extinct

[@sambass4478]

Lmao i can relate

[@SnowyNev]

y'all talking about how that one girl said about already having a boyfriend and bla bla... but can we talk about the one at the start that said to pat her head? 😳

[@reiper]

what is wrong with it? i love when people pat my head

[@SnowyNev]

@@reiper There is no problem, it's just perfect

[@Ptolemeian]

Yeah I thought that girls actually hated that weird af

[@schwiftyrick6897]

Probably worth noting that this is vastly different from culture to culture, and not synonymous among all types of Asians. I'm not as familiar with Japanese culture, but in Thai culture it's extremely rude to touch another person's head.

[@SnowyNev]

@@Madhattersinjeans j e s u i z

[@santhoshp4269]

If u wanna catch a fish, you ask the fisherman not the fish itself

[@eduardoguajardo7070]

And... if the japanese fishermen are too bad for this job?. The answer is..latin heat!

[@conceptsupernal9425]

Lmao

[@somsensonsem]

gold

[@flappy7373]

well said. you've got a way with words..

[@floatingtigerscarriff6664]

Well too bad i learn myself

[@downnoutdubin]

Plot twist: The guy who said hello at the Forever 21 and stood around for 15 minutes. He works there.

[@ronin3766]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH

[@Stringsloth]

Master plot twist!! Hahahahaha

[@marianomorales3031]

HAHAHA didnt think about it xd

[@excaliburofgachagames9241]

R/iworkherelady... is that a thing yet.

[@AronUchiha91]

Considering the girl in case, I really think that's the case.

[@fernandosilva1730]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend" "Foreigners have a lot more game than japanese men" "I want a guy that will keep on praising me but I won't move a finger to praise him" Jesus, no wonder those guys are settling for waifus and slowly bringing Japan to an extinction.

[@fernandosilva1730]

You should slow down, I only have 8. Remeber this: "Multiple waifus will ruin your laifu"

[@fernandosilva1730]

But that would keep me from waifuing Taiga, Zero Louise and Shana. I do not like that rule.

[@zorro727]

These entitled girls are the reason why japanese guys are becoming "herbivores"

[@lukmansp4906]

Girl wathc too much drama about reverse harem

[@aisa2954]

He must be: timid, but outgoing; aggressive, but kind; insensitive, but emotional; direct, but shy; badass, but introverted; hot, but not too handsome. 🤔

[@chunchunmaru5414]

🙈That sounds like me.... Except of the last line🤣

[@user-mg7wh8zq6v]

Yesh

[@abdrex2139]

Thats gonna take years to change hehe jk

[@UmamiPapi]

So perfect, in other words.

[@kartik8122]

@@chunchunmaru5414 so you are telling me you are not🤔???

[@frizon3298]

“Steal me from my boyfriend”, like with a black van?

[@onyxia2294]

That's a legit good question, why was it not asked? What a shitty interviewer...

[@alexanderbaco4010]

I believe so.

[@makotoyuki345]

No a white one

[@ZeroStrife45]

Do I need to have candy or just say I have some? I'm a kidnapper but not a dick?

[@prometheusengineeringgroup7825]

@@makotoyuki345 I see what you did there

[@christopherbastas934]

the one comment "He is kind but, a bit aggressive". This sums up woman's mentality for me in a nutshell. Wanting to date 2 different people at the same time who happen to be occupying the same body. I'm sure I can direct them to the nearest mental hospital.

[@ainzooalgown7589]

+christopher bastas women specialize in contradictions it takes too much energy to figure them out just do the opposite of what they say and they will love it

[@christopherbastas934]

+David Donovan That's all you have to say about the matter is I'll be forever alone.... LOL I would show you other wise the life I live, but your some creepy white knight that loves to get femdom with a strap on. Just worry about yourself. I'm sure you killing them kid.

[@user-is3yn7xr4c]

You're honest about not knowing how girls think. It should not be a problem

[@annon658]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend" Maam we have pride and we respect our fellow men

[@Anvilshock]

Bros before hos.

[@sleepingisfuni4949]

Yessir

[@enchantedorange3141]

@@Anvilshock I'm late but Yessir

[@MrYukz08]

@@enchantedorange3141 pっっmpm

[@MrYukz08]

っmpmpー おっもppっmっっっp

[@thehighone3175]

Ngl this anime has the best animation they almost look real

[@justice999]

it's a reproduction of 'how to raise a boring girlfriend'

[@ironhand132]

This isn't an anime. These are real people.

[@thehighone3175]

@@ironhand132 r/whoosh

[@marldezvalmer5667]

Now this is really cringe....just saying.

[@AUniqueHandleName444]

Honestly judging by some of the pixels it's definitely not real

[@invertexyz]

"I want him to be persuasive, I want him to steal me away." What the fuck? What guy in his right mind would want to be with a girl that leaves her current boyfriend for him if the relationship was good enough to still be in at the time? He would live in constant fear that at any moment some other, more handsome or "alpha" dude would simply make her leave you even though she likes you lmao. That's straight fucked.

[@anintendofankindaguy1368]

Invertex EXACTLY

[@BrunoMatle-CreativeImagineer]

exactly it is very messed indeed

[@anonymous2012s]

Invertex "its not rape if she likes it"

[@shadowcryst]

This anime has some good CG background people

[@bruhray1139]

Lol

[@Anonymous-lj7lt]

I totally agreee

[@lordoman1940]

Top notch stuff

[@firdakbarw882]

Hell what? ... :D

[@Jack-h8m6j]

This is the best CG I’ve seen yet

[@theexception9307]

Dating Japanese women sounds like a full time job. No thanks.

[@redpillmale6518]

I know, but dating American women is 3 full time jobs. I'll take neither, but the Japanese girls are the lesser of two evils.

[@ssss-n4e7q]

@@redpillmale6518 As a korean guy, korean girl is worse.... so now I am with russian

[@KiliGraphics]

@@ssss-n4e7q Oh, no russian please! You can't argue with them🙄

[@JohnDoe-pt7ru]

@@redpillmale6518 damn brother, that's real

[@saulrui7905]

1박정희대통령만세 wow great

[@Floydthefuckbag]

I really don't get the girl who says 'guys give up too easily if you have a boyfriend'. Well duh. Why would I even want to be with you if you're constantly wishing a new boy would steal you away? Is going after someone's girlfriend not a dick move in japan?

[@ChadSesh]

Lol thats what I was thinking

[@Krukmeister]

Floydthefuckbag If she wants another guy to steal her away, what is she doing with the guy in her current relationship? Clearly she isn't happy, otherwise she wouldn't want to be 'taken away' by some other guy. Just break up with him.

[@alanfalleur6550]

Floydthefuckbag Maybe it's sort of a fantasy situation about two guys fighting over the same girl. Like in the old days when men would engage in duels over women. I think some women secretly fantasize about that kind of thing.

[@Krukmeister]

Alan Falleur They probably do, people have weird fantasies. Everyone does.

[@DinocrocutaGigantea]

Floydthefuckbag lol That it's exactly what I was think! Like, WTF bitch?

[@wastehazey6468]

"Japanese girls expect foreign guys to be cool and sophisticated." Me: *frustrated primitive Scandinavian grunt*

[@exazee9900]

hey scandinavian brother whats up im from Norway :D

[@Ldurad0]

LoL

[@Rompesecos]

VALHALLA

[@hemanshuchudasama3535]

What no you guys have to just exist and they will throw themselves at you 😆😆

[@wastehazey6468]

@@hemanshuchudasama3535 *optimistic Scandinavian grunt*

[@sbtopjosh]

First girl: "I don't want him to plan everything" Second girl: "I want him to plan everything" WHICH ONE IS IT???!!

[@DarthScosha]

+sbtopjosh It's called individual preference. When people say you will find the right person, it means that the person will love you just the way you are, not for something you are trying to conform to be.

[@sbtopjosh]

Cloud Strife The reason i commented (and my whole point) was that guys should just be themselves and not be overly concerned with what these young ladies "want" a man to do for them or like them to do for them. I think they are just showing their lack of maturity in most parts. Heck, one girl even wanted guys to try harder to "steal" them away from their boyfriend. What a knobhead

[@solitwar]

+sbtopjosh you plan it half

[@sbtopjosh]

***** So your basically saying guys don't have to give a shit about what girls think because everyone's different. So a guy can treat you like dirt because he's a guy and he has his own rules but you would still be interested because he talks to you about "interesting stuff"

[@betoalema]

+sbtopjosh every women is different in somehow, bro

[@CREEPOOO]

"don't be creepy"... ..oh shit

[@CREEPOOO]

it's sad to be me ;(

Wonder what they mean by that. It's a vague thing.

[@futavadumnezo]

But I love being creepy..

[@ch535]

Profile name checks out

[@Phenom98]

labobo Ayyy that's actually smart.

[@rolandfrancis7066]

Now I understand why their men would rather have silicone dolls....

[@yashwantYadav71]

Dope

[@buladude679]

Yupv

[@piquelitojr]

😂😂😂

[@Max-il5hx]

I'm sure you're just rolling in women with all the smooth talking and decent person person vibes you're rocking.

[@obbymillion]

Damn 😂😂

[@maptc791]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend." Hmmm, so that's why NTR is quite a popular genre/tag in japan.

[@darius2544]

That shit is cancer man

[@Inversed00]

What's that btw

[@shakirdelph7719]

@@Inversed00 oh u dont want to know..... its freaky as hell

[@knight6087]

🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣I dont like NTR especially the ugly bastards😂😂👍👍

[@shakirdelph7719]

@@knight6087 yup i legit have no idea why there is so much hentai involving ugly bastards

[@apurbakodali2393]

Good luck ..... 99% men step back after watching this ... really scary .

[@billa9034]

@@suicain I'll, call them "playgirls"

[@arent2295]

@@billa9034 for some reason it's kinda funny for me

[@fioreblu1804]

So is better ! Man have yellow fever are sad. Most of them thinks japanese woman are easy

[@jaced7289]

Cant lie I'm only at 2:18 and I'm already thinking "damn" everything they want they say they also want the exact opposite in the next sentence. Shits is ridiculous.

[@Nobodyss21]

apurba kodali Seriously mate, you have disgusting face so im assured you, girls will step back first if they looking at you

[@randomlee7405]

things i learned in this video. 1- japanese girls will choose a foreigner(white/european) over asians. 2- japanese girls constantly thinking they are some sort of princess. 3- japanese girls are kinda irrational, giving up too easily after u got a boyfriend? isnt it obvious already if you pick another guy over me you already directly told me you prefer that guy? WTF? 4- japanese girls expect every man to readminds. 5- japan's low birth rate mystery solved.

[@nandoginkaku7610]

Random Lee jfc you are a genius good sir

[@reinhardalexander567]

Man ur last answer choked me

[@AvioftheSand]

Sadly, I think your list applies to more than Japanese girls. This is the modern woman in any developed nation.

[@capmidnite]

Never ask a fish how how to catch a fish.

[@sharafelemam3917]

capmidnite Beautiful

[@jonathanc866]

You ask them their favorite type of bait and use that to fish them???

[@Spright91]

Thank you Patrice o Neal.

[@shesmah1]

I'm going to write a book about this.

[@deadalpeca8099]

Best comment ever

[@joshjoshjosh3828]

When you get older you'll realize that you just need a simple relationship not some anime like relationship. Also it's a respect to not steal a girl from her man. Be loyal. Not all are like on books.

[@peeyushverma2284]

Your post sums up the entire comment section

[@Dante20321]

@@peeyushverma2284 ikr lmfao

[@NPC-kw4sb]

There are realistic anime too, for e.g. Bunny Girl Senpai

[@Steven-wo2oi]

I agree with your comment!

[@mmodnao]

I never realized how comfortable I was in my house with my Labrador Retriever until I watched this.

[@SuperAxon2]

Dogs demand wayyy less than women

[@yahyah1453]

Mine was a hamster but it always bit me so i lock it up in cage...

[@maximillianafrancine1451]

🤣😂😂

[@DaviSouza-kq7xz]

@@SuperAxon2 Good lock trying to get a dog pregnant hahaha!

[@SuperAxon2]

@@DaviSouza-kq7xz Good luck paying child support hahahaha

[@andrewsingsthehymns9567]

Ladies if you can be "stolen away", you arent worth having in the first place.

[@sleepingisfuni4949]

Damn right about that

[@ASHERUISE]

I have two hands. 🤷‍♀️

[@jbizzle9984]

Shes not yours, it just your turn.

[@jamesvolario6886]

@@jbizzle9984 hell yeah! When’s it my turn?

[@joaquimgianini1234]

I agree, no girl worths more than the Bro code

[@chronic24]

You should make a "How to date a Japanese Girl (According to Japanese guys)" video because girls will say what they think they want, not what they really want.

[@lol_u_wut]

under rated comment x0

[@zhin13]

Yes!

[@Kunumbah1]

chronic24 Amazing comment

[@liranpiade4499]

I assume that they may also say what they want others to think they want. For example: Maybe it's shameful to be into non machos, and want to be in the lead in Japan. That would explain why they all said they want the guys to lead and do everything and they'd basically be passive.

[@cdixon5150]

So true

[@TheRomanoLV]

1:20 *"It's cute when he notices small things"* There we go folks, finally, women admit that they BARELY change their haircuts and we're supposed to notice that.

[@michaelterry1000]

“Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend.” 0:57 Classic example of how female fantasy differs from reality.

[@jawbreaker2777]

how the fuck did how to wrap your hands for boxing get me here

[@Hardy0811]

XD

[@sergiojurado113]

LOL

[@flowerycinderella8378]

lmao 😂

[@BassForever44]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA god, you made my day!!!

[@dESTRON76]

remember journey > destination ;P

[@MaryJane-qe8ss]

They have like a whole list what a guy should have. and im like, Man im happy if you have at least 1 tit and being not my mother

[@theylovehisgrace5944]

Mary Jane gold

[@AhmadKhan-cg4fb]

Mary Jane so sisters and cousins are fine ? Lol

[@PoorManatee6197]

Ahmad Khan incest is wincest

[@J0k3rziNhUBR]

hahahahahhaa lmfaoo

[@bunker42tv83]

lol

[@Lithoxene]

I genuinely disliked a lot of these answers. I want my partner to be an equal, not a housepet.

[@llVIU]

look closely at them, they look like 15-20 year old girls, are you surprised? Their view on dating is completely different than a 30 year old woman. They don't understand that they're PARTNERS, not a child with a daddy who does everything for her, even the thinking. -what do you want to eat? -idk -where do you want to go -idk take the lead **takes the lead and goes to a restaurant** -I don't like this place -_-

[@liz6595]

I like when guys lead. It's nice. It doesn't mean you do everything for me or ignore my input In means you out forward your own input and are sure about your ideals and opinions. It's nice to be with someone who knows who they are and what they want. And it's not wrong for someone to feel differently.

[@liz6595]

@@llVIU they never asked for a guy to do everything for them. You are very sour... They want a guy who knows what he wants. And not every girl is the same. Maybe actually try to get what they are trying to say rather then assuming everything they mean by what they say. Also. Who are you to fucking judge. I know 30 year old women who do indeed want a guy to know where he wants to go for a date or what he wants out of life. Maybe stop calling them children for having a different opinion?

[@llVIU]

@@liz6595 you should watch the video again and I'm describing the women in the video, not ALL women. The irony and arrogance in your comment... Also, again, look at the video, they barely look 15-20 years old at most. Yes, they're children. And probably so are you. You don't even know the difference between a woman who wants a guy who knows what he wants, and a woman who wants everything handed on a plate because she's too stupid to even know her own preferences. How old are **you** to try to educate me? When you can't even read or watch a youtube video?

[@surge1993]

@@llVIU trash

[@ReprobiCrucesignati]

Sooo... -Headpats -Be Aggressive -Mickey Mouse ears -Steal someones GF -Dont txt too much Well call me a coconut cos im confused lol

[@sepywishes1120]

@Coconut 😊 Okay.

[@einfachnurleo7099]

@coconut you should also at least speak a litle japanese, own a car and know your way around town so that you can get her to the cool places and bring her home afterwards.

[@jaced7289]

You forgot about arranging all dates/events without asking them their opinion.

[@macvena]

Women in general want to be lead. They like assertiveness, confidence, persuasiveness. Yes, they want you to be decisive and make plans. She just wants to show up and look pretty. She's not you wife, ergo you do not need her opinion on what you want to do. Your job is to approach, get her number, ask her out, show her a great time, and then wait a few days, asking her out again. Give time to miss that great guy. She will build you up in her head in ways no one else could. If ever interaction is fun, where you are gently leading, teasing playfully, she will eventually open her legs and her heart. She will end up chasing you, dreaming of you, wanting you. Be the man, and she will thank you. Stopping buying the Hollywood version of romance. It's ass backwards. The flowers, and shit comes after she's in love. Until then, you just act like Casanova.

[@p0rt3r]

That combination makes for a great anime character for sure, though.

[@itsmeshe1986]

I'll pull their chair when they are about to sit. That's what they want right?

[@gastreet3348]

Chic KEN LOL!!!

[@adlan_kacak]

Hahahaha~!! XD

[@MJ-uk6lu]

FATALITY!!!

[@yanusmanzuhri6163]

Precisely

[@abdulalsadah5869]

The joke was 10/10 you made me laugh so hard

[@mribrahim9065]

THEY ARE ASKING FOR ANIME CHARACTERS TO BE IN REALITY

[@robertjustrobert]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend." Well... yeah!

[@susanmaggiora4800]

Robert Just Robert Especially because in the west that’s what women say if they’re not interested or don’t want to be bothered at the moment. Or they actually do have a boyfriend. I’ve had plenty of girls who were friends & that’s what they say when they don’t wanna fuck with you. If a girl tells me that, I assume she’s telling me (nicely) that she’s not interested. To start hitting on her would be really disrespectful.

[@jasonwhyttes1679]

@@susanmaggiora4800 to both the relationship she is in and to yourself, why would any self respecting guy want to get with a girl who is always going to be looking for something better. Next week she would dump you for some other random guy she was flirting with. It sounds like she is the type of person that is addicted to the game at the start of a relationship and gets bored easily.

[@susanmaggiora4800]

Jason Baronov That’s not what I said at all. I was talking about guys that hit on you while you’re trying to enjoy coffee and a book by yourself & don’t want to be bothered, or the creepy co-worker who just can’t seem to get the hint that you’re not interested in him, because you either do have a boyfriend that you’re loyal to, or you’re just not interested in some rando guy. Girls say that all the time cause otherwise creepy guys hit on them constantly & it’s often incredibly annoying.

[@danf16dcc38]

Bros before holes

[@zoncus078]

@@susanmaggiora4800 why can't girls just say " I'm not interested" and stop giving guys hard riddle

[@icete93]

"I want him to steal me away" wow, that's toxic, I hope she realises.

[@fenrirhere]

Yep.

[@suckmaballs4294]

they are closeminded what u expect

[@shukrantpatil]

That not toxic That’s basic female nature , and things like these happen quite regularly, both in the wild and with humans

[@suckmaballs4294]

@@shukrantpatil so do men. men also like kind of that thing. i think it just thing that human beings like. but thats why god gave u "brain" and "common sense"

[@tukenngemu7938]

@@shukrantpatil what the fuck is wrong with you

[@AnubisFenrir]

Wait she want a foreigner to walk her home wtf 🤨🤔 i don't even know the name of these dam streets how tf am i suppose to find you're house.

[@chad1682]

Ek'Aay Cloudyoni You are expected to be a perfect omniscient god. She isn't asking for much xD

[@martinchristiaan5815]

Well walking her home is more like, following her home and just being there as she leads you there. Now getting to your home that's the bitch, because you just followed someone somewhere and got no clue where tf you at.

[@candycommander]

@@martinchristiaan5815 That's why you save your home address on google maps along with the train stations.

[@elparcero1220]

Google Maps to the rescue

[@senkaichie1639]

Your* ma prendo

[@ASHERUISE]

"If you can speak Japanese, even if it's just a little, I think that's good." Me, who was using this video for natural listening practice and didn't understand 85% of it but got that sentence: 良かった

[@SeaSerpentLevi]

my man basically ready to solve japans low birth rate problem xD

[@Jonathan-gj1rl]

I didn't go after this girl that I really liked in high school. I was new and we became close friends fast. She and her bf were at the point where they were arguing a lot, and I knew she wanted to leave him for me. I decided to not to intervene because I thought what if they had something special I don't know about, and they just needed to work things out. They've been together happily the past 10 years and have 3 kids.

[@alwalidmubaydin2547]

You did the right thing you put her happiness before yours so i hope you find a great girl man

[@ramargouya7484]

@@alwalidmubaydin2547 I'm sure he will, he's got great karma

[@xianglingisthebest1047]

Your comment made me happy

[@JP-ku5hw]

You're a man of culture. Amen 🙌

[@rebecamendez5456]

Such a great guy , hope you find your perfect match.

[@wedmunds]

This makes me want to “steal” a guy's girlfriend then dump her. Saves the guy from further trouble.

[@spacep0d]

Women are pretty fickle though. Often you don't have to try that hard to 'steal' them. Ask any guy who's been dumped for some douchebag.

[@joshwaeiss2436]

Then again that’s like turning villain just to end up hero again. Why not just stay a hero and let pieces fall where they may?

[@SM-ok3sz]

HERO

[@excaliburofgachagames9241]

😂😂😂

[@MindIsLikeFullMoonInFall]

Bros before hoes!

[@arnavsadhu]

I guess these girls never dated an actual person, only watched fantasy movies. No person with a real dating experience would say things like this. Feels like am listening to some teenage girls talk about their prince charming XD

[@AirKangLocker]

Arnav Sadhu they live and learn through tears. Never need to comfort women who likes bad boys as well haha

[@ankitjha2432]

And also 1:04

[@michaelg6641]

Disney syndrome! Wrecked their whole country. No more babies being born, populations plummeting.

[@flameheart6803]

They don' t have much experience with relationship, cuz japanese guys are very ashamed and cold... Thats why japaneses girls preferred foreigner, cuz most of the time foreigner is more agressive

[@gerardo49078]

@commander Wolffe lol

[@mrsucc2138]

So I just need to become an anime character? My years of watching anime have finally paid off.

[@coolasme97]

Basically, don't date them.

[@emspostal2584]

They should never date an Indian or they'll get raped.

[@tekkyukaiten2579]

@LIMERENCE weird flex but okay

[@たまご-j8u6d]

@@tekkyukaiten2579 lmao

[@bruhray1139]

@@emspostal2584 why are you even talking about Indian it's not even related

[@gabbyluvsuguys]

They watch too many dramas. They want a prince from a faraway planet. Not a human. LOL. Pull out your chair? You can do that yourself, though. Holding the door is common decency. It's not romantic. You want a guy to steal you away?! That's so ignorant! A guy wont get into a duel in the setting sun for you. Like, holy shit. They're honestly romanticizing foreigners too much.

[@KEIdotto]

Round... 1.... FAITOOO!!!

[@lunace6736]

+SRAD so true..

[@utah123ify]

+SRAD Pulling out the chair for your date is romantic and it's what a gentleman would do. The stealing away thing is just rude and idiotic to think.

[@bladegaimin]

+SRAD I think it's more of the chivalry thing. They want guys to be chivalrous but realistic at the same time. Everyone's ideals are fantasy, but if you're close enough they'll fall for you. :P That's my opinion on this topic.

[@gabbyluvsuguys]

The Abominable Snowman You want my girlfriend? Who is that? I have a boyfriend, but I mean. . .

[@n0isyturtle]

So essentially Japanese women want to be treated like spoiled pets? Their lack of incentive is a huge turn off. It's no wonder no one is getting together over there, the women want to just be passive dolls.

[@orafss]

True. I prefer western woman than japanese dolls

[@noctuadiscipulum9715]

How about asian looking american girls? > Jackpot

[@RuckinScott]

This is a very small fraction of Japanese women. They can be on the needy side sometimes, but traditional Japanese women are absolutely amazing to date. Very dedicated and very loyal.

[@Nobodyss21]

U guys choose, a pet doll or feminazi

[@Carpe_Diem_XCIII]

Have you ever thought it’s possible the Japan culture is nothing like western culture. In a way the dating atmosphere in some people’s mind set is somewhat a mixture of modern but old fashioned 1930s-1960s values/expectations.. where men were practically in charge of a woman’s dating life while dating and lead on with her to follow and him to take care of her. Show this video to an American girl and she’d laugh and call all these girls brainwashed and try to introduce feminism and independent thinking. Main point. Japanese dating culture in some of the population is behind in time and hasn’t evolved to where westerns are.

[@c.c7490]

Bruh I'm better sitting at home and watching anime than having to show someone around their own country who is ready to get stolen away.

[@pranav8234]

Whole video summarised in one comment. 👍🏻😂

[@energeticstunts993]

yeah, I thought of getting a body pillow as not the best idea until I watched this video. I love riu chan from domestic girlfriend, at least she cared about her step bro more than these girls ever will

[@c.c7490]

@@energeticstunts993 i want a rui Chan too.

[@frgunslinger2316]

Hey, this is not like girls I know from anime.

[@linuslongayan7649]

me too

[@영서-b4t]

It you expect them to be like anime you are dumb

[@illogical1421]

Anime girls are just guys fetishes, dream girls, etc etc.

[@ritze26]

Go back to real life dude

[@diacosaleh1360]

People dont like sarcasm

[@smirk2699]

Steal me? Wtf is she sayin? The girl who said this is probably in a bad relationship!

[@SuperAxon2]

Human trafficking is a big market. Stealing has a different meaning there.

[@mrhonneynive]

If you don't feel comfortable in a relationship you should break up right? Treating him as fun and money source is horrible. I feel sorry for that guy...

[@smirk2699]

@@mrhonneynive right!

[@chandraschannel6166]

Hasan Hüseyin Balbıçak exactly she’s probably gonna be alone for the rest of her life 😂

[@neoskrieger]

Or probably bad in a relationship lol

[@Cousin.]

@1:03 "Guys give up too easily, when a girl already has a Boyfriend." Note: This is the LAST girl you'd want to be your Girlfriend. However, the slimeball that does hit on her knowing she already has a Boyfriend, is the perfect guy for her.

[@jamesware5100]

yep ..Jerry Springer style

[@trevorking2820]

🙄You don’t have to steal her. Just blow her back out and move on to her friend. That’s basically what they’re saying.

[@milkelixir]

" Guys give up easily when a girl has a boyfriend" Umm.. Yeah we really do. We don't want to be douche bags to the boyfriend. We respect the relationship.

[@sleepingisfuni4949]

Yes

[@AvioftheSand]

Apparently, we respect the relationship more than she does.

[@Brainsore.]

It’s not that, it’s just that if she’s willing to leave her current bf for me, then who’s to say she won’t leave me for another man later?

[@everlastiny]

"I wish Japanese men did those too" implying that foreigners do

[@hecatrice2064]

Shh don't let them know that

[@mikeluna2026]

@@hecatrice2064 Well, in my country in Latin America, some of us were still taught to be like that. But it was our parents, not school doing it. But it's not as common anymore. Pretty the introduction of 3th-4th wave feminism killed that kind of behaviour (even thought we haven't gotten quite as bad as in the U.S yet). I kinda still do some things automatically though. Good thing I don't live in the U.S...

[@lalboimanlun1230]

No. 1 rule: Be rich This applies on any girl in any place.

[@onyxia2294]

eh, kind of but you still need game or your just some random creepy guy... Ya I don't get girls after hearing they want you to steal them from their imaginary boyfriends...

[@user-wm2tw]

Onyxia2火 ... if you are rich and 80 you can easily find a girl to marry you. If you are 22 and have no money no girl want to be around you. Girls love money more than the guy regardless of all the other things they say. They are not attracted to guys without money. Money is the secret ingredient.

[@emanuelquinteros362]

Maybe asians girls are different tho

[@justarandomperson6239]

*No. 1 rule: Have humor

[@gamermapper]

Gold diggers are bad

[@casewhite5048]

remember there is no crying in sex

[@mmaking8664]

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[@timothycarter5871]

lol. What?

[@timothycarter5871]

I got to use this in a story.

[@kyleabellano3244]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA NICE ONE

[@FirstLastOne]

Tell that to the makers of Japanese porn. I swear those poor girls are having sexu with Godzilla.

[@dabboloosefun]

"I think foreign guys have more of a chance in japan." "I think Japanese girls have a fascination with foreign guys." Let's go boys, there might still be a chance I won't be alone forever big W

[@nyu__]

I believe in u mate ,go get em and make the boys proud

[@Writerography]

Yeah then someone will stole them from you and you'll be single again 😂😂😂

[@alan.92]

Nah, you'll have no chance anywhere if you're a creep

[@evangelion4ever]

@@alan.92you'll have no chance anywhere if you're an idiot like you are

[@alan.92]

Whatever you say, incel.

[@no_game_no_life8884]

sounds to me they want a anime character

[@spzl]

I want a real anime girl in my life too

[@anintendofankindaguy1368]

No_Game _No_Life exactly, that's what sucks about it- guys think "I'd like a girl that acts like an anime girl, but there are basically none of those", and girls think "the only type of guy that'd truly make me happy is one who acts like an anime guy." fucking double standards.

[@yk-lz3nr]

I'd like to date an anime character too. But not Asuka Langley

[@ninjadonkey4]

TL;DR: Women in Japan are like women in South America because they expect men to take charge of the relationship, and I've always had that mindset in a relation ship so I like that. My take so far: 1. Do things that you would normally do when on a date. (Pick her, drop her off, walk her home, open the door, etc.) 2. Japanese women like a more dominant man (plans dates, very affectionate, will probably be the Head) 3. They are pretty much very feminine. I guess then the best compliment is masculinity. (I like that.) I'm kinda surprised. I'm Hispanic, so all the culture from South America is brought over from there. All these were things my parents would have told me, and things that the adults have told me. (Except for the stealing boyfriend parts haha). I've always had in my head to be the head of the household, and I guess that's been carried over from South America. I guess any place where feminism isn't rampant, there still exists this desire for woman to want the man to take charge. I like it.

[@dot5483]

DifferentGuy4 OK just don't generalise it to all Oriental girls. I'm Malaysian and the girls here don't like that chauvinistic shit.

[@ninjadonkey4]

dot To be fair, I wouldn't try to date someone without knowing that before-hand.

[@ninjadonkey4]

jason4275 Nice generalization.

[@FireNooodles]

I'm Hispanic and I prefer it to be equal or I like being more in charge.

[@ninjadonkey4]

gaiauser Mhm, me too.

[@Ophiuchus123456789]

Yeesh. 2nd video of this and I realise why there are so many lonely young Japanese people. The women are too formal and are expecting too much. Too much of this traditional nonsense of women thinking 'sweep me off my feet'. Couple this with high work pressures and a strict honour system: if I was a Japanese man I'd become one of these herbivore men too.

[@mysttale7893]

Yeah, they were definitely too romantic. Especially in a culture that generally has more timid and mild mannered men.

[@XelestialAurora]

+Ophiuchus123456789 I think expecting too much and completely giving up are both bad...They need to be partners who switch roles at times.

[@itgscv]

+Ophiuchus123456789 They talk a lot about things they want but do they ever thing about what they bring to the table? Why should a guy do all of those things and she just shows up?

[@TajiriOli]

+Ophiuchus123456789 Honestly, wtf? We live in 2015, there expectations are like from before the 70s

[@ayoopdog]

+itgscv Because everyone wants to BE loved, but no one wants TO love. These are the types of girls you would want to stay away from unless you want a breakup by the end of the month.

[@stanciuSIE]

"When in a relationship, I will be happy if he calls me when he goes on a business trip." I'm working @mcdonald's, princess.

[@oh-noe]

"Guys give up easily when a girl already has a boyfriend." I'm sorry what? Feel like she has watched too much anime lol

[@Xegethra]

Some girls just aren't that committed. At least she's honest so you can just pass her by.

[@cure9150]

Zeveai you mean shoujo anime? Because not all animes are like that only the shoujo ones

[@azurecrow7055]

Beware of girl like this. She will left you for other guy too in the future. Just like what she did to previous bf before you

[@boozy638]

i love how the reporter is low key flirting with miyu lol -I want him to call me by my first name. --what is your name? -I want him to put on mouse ears. --I can do that. I ship it..

[@frozen7535]

our ship is sailing my fellow

[@zaayd]

SHOJO MANGA DIDN’T LIE TO ME

[@hayabusa1269]

They seems to be still living in their High School life

[@knivon6959]

Video: “any message to cute guys who are watching this video?” Me: closes the video..... •__•

[@Joe-tc2zi]

Imagine having a girlfriend? Ha ha, I gotta quit dreaming.

[@hwpo7834]

p a y n...

[@Dante20321]

Lmfao

[@kingpamz]

Why must you hurt me like that?

[@thisimagecandescribethetru]

HAHAHAHA!😭

[@grandmestredespoulpes2435]

HaaaHAHAHA...ha...ha... *sigh*

[@zaayd]

I’d be scared to go on ‘Business Trips’ without my wife because of the hentai/doujins I’ve seen....

[@lmanher]

I those NTR hentai too brother.

[@abandonedchannel281]

Doujin’s are all you need

[@anshumaanmishra7134]

Ah, I see you're a man of culture as well.

[@kurakurapelangi2147]

Ah that classic ugly bastard

[@thorrex]

"A normal date would be nice." Well, that narrows down your options a lot...

[@t_ohar8007]

Chaal ab ' भिक्षम देहि' bol 😂