What Makes A Man Commit?

[@pennstea6711]

First he has to wanna be committed

[@kiaracouch9315]

This is it! Nothing else to be said!!!

[@4_Ever_Gr8teful_22]

Because all that other shit he's talking about is irrelevant!

[@drucella5581]

@pennstead6711 You ain't said nothing but WORD. A Man HAS TO want to commit and a woman must be ready to commit as well.

[@MercLife100]

That part!

[@tarao4382]

That's it! That's all!

[@starbright2683]

My dad says men come to a point of decision when they are "ready" to get married and begin to "look" for a wife. Before that, it doesn't matter who you are!

[@guacgirl]

Period. The End!

[@Tmarie961]

I agree 1000000 % lol

[@AubreyJuliet]

💯

[@manoniemoments]

“He’ll have an unction from The Lord. He doesn’t want to be in fornication. He wants to be in right standing with God. He wants to be married. He wants to start a family. He wants to build his life, his legacy, [and] sow his seed into his wife.” - Tony Gaskin. These are the things that cause a man to commit. The woman he chooses must be in process and not complacent in any area of her life. Thank you, Tony. Be encouraged, ladies!👑 Know that he will show up at the right time.🙌🏾🥰

[@LarennPBel]

He commits when he wants to

[@ButterCookie1984]

Bingo

[@lilpinkbubbles6592]

That’s it!

[@sherrybarnhart5435]

That's what I thought

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

True

[@drinabooboo]

Crazy. And how long is a woman supposed to wait? I've been waiting 11 years already because we have a child.

[@thehopefulbudgeter]

I realize now being married for 16 years, being committed is a spiritual thing. It’s not enough to cook, clean, etc etc etc, look good, 3 meals a day, that’s all superficial-to make a man committed, it goes beyond that. 💯 it’s really about the person and choosing to stay committed and them wanting to grow with God so they can make that vow to want to be a better man for their woman and kids. As a woman, I feel like we can only do so much and we don’t have that kind of power to “make a man committed” they really truly have to want to on their own. Without pressure. After 4 months of meeting my husband-we were already engaged and married within that year. He was all the way ready 😂 and I never brought up marriage, once. He just knew. It’s proof when a man really wants to be with one woman, he will lock it down, and it won’t take him forever to figure it out either. 💍🤞🏽🔐 no doubts, no confusion whatsoever. Most importantly, he will not waste your time!

[@BlackPlightPeople]

I definitely agree

[@keonamorgan1898]

Amen sister♥️

[@KishanKissoon-y9s]

🙏 🙏

[@ms.forever9282]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@tru3g3mini44]

A man can have the perfect woman and not be ready… and possibly lose out on something beautiful. But will marry the woman he’s with when he’s ready!!! IF YOU KNOW, THEN YOU KNOW!! Ladies don’t wait for a man because you’re worth the wait yourself!!🥰❤️

[@kokoalaska9888]

Now in my mid thirties , I realize in my youth i undervalued my looks and let myself stay obese for my twenties while focusing on my career. Then turned around wondering why i couldn’t find a good dude. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I finally get it. Currently training for my first half marathon and finally taking my health seriously.🥑🍒🍌🍎🌱🍓🥗🥦🥒🥕🌽🍏🍅

[@mmxw2294]

👏🏾❤️

[@4_Ever_Gr8teful_22]

It's great you're making your health a priority but please don't let Tony and his shallow mindset make you think ALL men look for perfect 10s in this world. A woman could look like Halle Berry and be a complete piece of shit compared to you. It's more than looks that attracts a good guy. Don't be hard on yourself.

[@briann5001]

This is very wise, think about the upside, even if it did not make a man find you (which I believe it will because I’m a man , thus know how most men think) it will make you get in the best shape and health of your life which only benefits you. But I’ll tell you a secret, whenever you become your best it always attracts men, remember men are attracted to beauty and what women don’t realize is it’s not that deep with us, men like beauty therefore as long as your doing your best, there will be a man that you will attract, may not happen to day or next week, but do not be fooled, it will happen, as long as your getting out there, grocery stores, church, school, work, sports games, they will find you.

[@kokoalaska9888]

@@briann5001 Well said! 😊

[@briann5001]

@@kokoalaska9888 It's all luv queen.. .some of us actually still exist Jesus said "Narrow is the way that leads to life and few find it but wide is the gate that leads to destruction and many are on. ...........that is. Anything good takes work, there may be few of us Good men because laZy doesnt like to work but just like Chriatians exist in a Fallen World, we good men exist in a fallen America, you might need a magnifying glass one day, but we here, and we are seeking to find good women

[@ambernecho]

Yes, Tony. Women need to be themselves. 👏🏽 Only God can cause a man to commit.

[@noneofyourbuizness]

And their level of faith and relationship with God is important !

[@Girl-vn8qj]

Make him respect you is what my dad told us growing up … I Miss him 😢

[@datingdiaries1681]

Same ! Shout out to the active Dad teaching us the game !

[@LadyMargaretSteppin]

I worked on my gift I worked on my body and I knew something was missing! I started building a real relationship with God. First by picking up the Bible and reading it every day from the beginning. I’m now in Deuteronomy and I see my life changing! Also the best advice! Everything you said it so very true! Thanks for the video

[@odiliagaspar4339]

I got married 7 months after I met my husband. Going on 2 years marriage and three years together. I honestly don’t know how it happened lol went so fast, however at the time I was really focused on myself: working, studying, had my own life to myself. I definitely not sleeping around I practiced celibacy, I didn’t tell anybody that tho. We are both in process him living alone doing his own, i the same, we spent lots time together at that time. He did propose to me. Two years now he wants to talk about having a baby which is nice. Pray that get straightened from gods. These videos help me a lot when I was single and now married thank you always.

[@zero1188]

Truth is it depends on timing not really the girl. He could meet the right girl but timing could be wrong.

[@jess_is]

Right

[@tarahbruno3793]

So true! Women who seem to have a man who has it all is because they met him in the right season. Ladies it really has nothing to do with us. It’s all about his convictions and timing

[@naciartt]

I was scrolling down and i thought your profile photo was a hair on my screen. I FELT SO STUPID WHEN I TOUCHED IT TO GET RID OF IT HAHAH

[@reallee2]

“Be yourself” golden👌🏽

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

"No! You have to be yourself" Got it, uncle Tony

[@pb9841]

My EX boyfriend expected "HUSBAND benefits" as the boyfriend.

[@TrishC5280]

Gottahgo (in Tony Gaskins voice) 🙂

[@dii-N-sd]

Nowadays, most guys expect the full package while they only put forth half-a$$ed effort and walk around built like SpongeBob. It's ridiculous & comical!

[@paulap365]

"Focusing on their strengths instead of strengthen their weaknesses!! Valid point bruh!

[@royalblue_22]

A man commits once He is a Man of a God. That’s just the way it should be.

[@Sekhere]

That’s so true, and though I am not married yet I can testify that what Mr. Tony is saying is true because growing up my Daddy will always tell me these things. He’ll be like; “respect yourself and a man will respect you, don’t ever enter another man’s house/room and your destiny (my decisions) is in your hands”. Three things I’ll hear from him over and over again. Not ONCE he told me to learn domestic things to secure a man but rather for myself when I live on my own. Then one day my mom and I were talking and she said when she first got married to my Dad since he’ll wake up like 5am to go to work so she started waking up early to cook but my Dad told her that she don’t have to do that and let’s just say my mom was ecstatic 😂 because she doesn’t like cooking like that anyway. So it sum it up for me that a man Will love you for who you are first and everything else you do is your appreciation of him without you having to break yourself up.

[@Ms.Peanutthequeen]

Nothing wrong with being single, it is so freeing!

[@Dezdamoonbear]

Great advice. Women need to stop making men the center of attention...

[@valenciawalker6498]

Thank you, for sharing your wisom. God Bless🙏🏽🕊

[@WineandFrom]

Ladies, do you and stay single. Do not worry about what makes a man commit because, who cares what does. You are perfect as you are, do you all the way.

[@HealThyLivingQueen]

You shall know a tree by its fruit! God has prepared me to be a wife, and a great wife at that. My husband is just as great and God-fearing! Praise God.

[@keivalenti2263]

Tony is absolutely right & I love it when he humbly throws shade😂😂😂

[@taramay8174]

Basically a man expects perfection . 😂😂😂😂😂. Im over this b.s

[@catcat9582]

They also will start saying you're too good for them or start becoming afraid of other men checking for you. You really can't win just do your absolute best for your own legacy and hopefully you get lucky and get married

[@carolynlanette33]

This video came right on time! I love how Tony makes it clear that in order to know if that person is the one, we must first go to God.

[@cinamonnecharles295]

Amen.

[@pamelabillingsley249]

Mr. Gaskins I had to replay the very kindly way you told single people to ShutTtt UPppp lmbo🤣

[@sarasingh3462]

Much blessings to you and your family .. Mr Tony.

[@aprilmoorman6409]

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@tmayo1126]

"Be Yourself!!!" .....best dating/relationship advice ever. extra points if/when you got those 3 B's down! 💯

[@sisteroflovea7215]

Hi Tony, I’m sooooo glad you told the single men to SHUT UP, I’m tired of them giving advice never being married!! I’ve been married for 10 years, when a man wants to marry he will commit, we love you Tony God Bless 🙏🏿💗!!!

[@thankfulblessed8496]

I always said if you don’t love yourself no man will love you

[@melybellyful]

Everytime i get negative thoughts from the enemy or get insecure a new video of yours comes out to keep on going. GOD BLESS

[@_queenofpink1957]

This video came right on time. I needed this

[@Shay.bae92]

You kept this 1000 .. coming from a god fearing woman who grew up on a healthy 2 parent household that’s married for 30+ years. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@Stilettoexec]

Why are men prioritizing a woman’s body over who is good for his soul? If she gains weight during the marriage, will he value her less?

[@sagba947]

Working in family court I have heard men say that “yeah she got big as a house and let herself go” but women will claim it’s happy weight

[@moonbaby5996]

Hey Tony i appreciate your videos! Could you do a “What marriage is and what it *isn’t*” type video sometime? I love your angle & the way you come at the message!

[@MsChristianr]

Yesss this is a great video idea. I desire marriage but I think it's the fantasy marriage I desire

[@latarareed7321]

I HEAR YA TONY ON HUSBANDS NEED TO BE MORE COUNSELORS OUT HERE SHARING BUT THEY DONT WANNA SPEAK 🙊 UP LIKE U ARE ...THANK GOD FOR U AND YOUR WORK HERE AND TREMENDOUS 💖 THX 2! MANY BLESSINGS ON YOUR AND YOUR QUEEN. .I LOVE 💕🥳🥳 U BOTH😍😍

[@debrarobbins7881]

A woman can be everything that a man desire, smart, degrees, spiritual on fire for GOD, a great mom, a virtuous woman, a master chef in the kitchen cooking breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert 🍰 great attitude and personality, a woman can have all the letters in the alphabet and a man still don't do right by her. What make a grown man commit is a man who want to commit, these days these men play possum sleep on great relationships and when it's too late the woman checked out. R Kelly when a woman's fed up. Commitment in relationships these days is suspect. Wait on God. Have a great day everyone.

[@justinray8107]

Does these 3 Bs work for men too? As a man I truly resonate with your advice and wisdom Uncs. But whenever you mention the 3 Bs you always preface it with "women" even though i"m smart enough to understand it applies both ways ..OFCOURSE IT DOES! lol would still like to hear you say it with your words "and ya"ll men can follow this too" I"m sure other men feel the same way. We do know but we wanna hear it too. We wanna be on our purpose too and we wanna be acknowledged too💯we want life spoken into us too💯🙏

[@phizzy123]

love this comment 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@qschronicles4985]

💯

[@valenciachambers1982]

@justinray8107 well said

[@MysticButterfly22]

Thank You for those 3 B's Tony. 😊❤

[@Simplythetruthfulone]

Proverbs 18:22 "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD" The wonan is the prize not the man. The Lord blesses a man with a wife not a woman with a husband. To add to that, there are lots of educated beautiful women with good jobs, etc etc whom choose to remain single until they meet the right man. It becomes a sigh of relief to be single knowing that the wrong mam could mean utter destruction.

[@TreasureTeresa]

You’re so right! Be yourself! God Bless you Tony and your beautiful wife🙏🏽

[@nicholebryant7359]

Be yourself, so you can find the one that is for YOU! Gems!

[@valendajohnson7826]

A good woman sent by God...if he is looking for her!

[@LeahHannahSpeaks]

You are absolutely correct Tony! I’m 50 and single and I am in utterly shocked about this. 😆😆😆 I had people tell me that I was too nice on several occasions and the other thing is I will admit this, but there was a time that I really did believe in myself and I was very insecure and if you don’t feel good about yourself, he’s not going to feel like you’re a great choice either There was a lot that I learned because of my insecurity and I thank God that I bust out of those feelings about myself. Also, I will say this about myself as well. I have ADHD, and sometimes because of that he can feel like I don’t listen to a him and that’s very important to give a man you ear. The other negative was I was not saying anything about my ADHD or dysgraphia! I was embarrassed and this was going on for and now I tell them about my disability. That’s a big deal. I just recently really started picking up a lot of weight in the past two years so now I am doing something about it because I just don’t want to be a person to just got a pretty face and a personality, I want the body to match too.

[@nanslove91p]

I’m so thankful for Tony Gaskins. I’ve been watching his video for 3 years. He gives great advice.

[@jennib9953]

Yes thank you. I am share this video with my friends because I said this before with my friends don't be cooking and cleaning just to show a man you this perfect lady.

[@melsutubeification]

When he wants to commit. Not a moment before. Simple as that he makes a choice.

[@rosetulip1231]

I’m surprised you didn’t say a man will commit if he feels at peace around the woman. They have more fun than arguing.

[@myluvforfall1981]

Thank you for sharing. The stories of what your mother would cook reminds me of how my mother was🥹🕊️🥰good memories

[@kimberlybassett7169]

Thank you for being so real and honest! But you are so funny

[@NadiaRamirez888]

Yes the spaghetti and crab salad took me out!!! Much respect to Mama Gaskins!!!

[@PRINCESS2527]

I think it’s a lot of good women still single because some of them are not the beauty standard of today…. And most if not all men are shallow ….🤷🏽‍♀️ so often she’s overlooked

[@anasanabria3192]

Thank you for this message there’s so much some men expect and then when u do it they still aren’t pleased or commit or reciprocate back to woman it’s basically like Slave love…being authentic is number 1

[@eclipse98100]

Wow perfect timing 😭😭😭

[@gigisessentials]

That was perfectly spoken. Thank you.

[@Sherose444]

Big respect brother

[@lornabrown950]

God bless you Tony! Thank you! 🙏🏽 for all of your teachings!

[@lindabarton41]

Thank You 💙💜!

[@talenalewis1823]

He MIGHT be ready to commit after he finish sewing his wild oats and who knows how long that will be. I think he has to get it all out his system first.

[@nicolerogers1310]

But who's gonna wait around 4 all that...then we might wait jus 2 turn around n get played!

[@melzbeautycollections]

Glad I’m learning this now❤

[@4_Ever_Gr8teful_22]

What makes a man commit? Nothing. Nothing at all! He chooses who he wants to commit to and that could be based on nothing at all. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Has nothing to do with looks, or having money or any of that other shallow BS he's talking about.

[@TAJA330]

SAY IT AGAIN for the women in the back.

[@la6136]

A lot of men will commit to the woman that just happens to be around them when they are finally ready to settle down.

[@carolynmeadows422]

I agree with Tony Gaskins. He is telling the truth.

[@carolynmeadows422]

Amen!

[@TAJA330]

@@carolynmeadows422 he definitely has points but I wouldn’t tailor myself so much to “try” to make a man commit- either he wants to or he doesn’t

[@sssparkle]

I find your posts to be so valuable. Thank you ❤

[@bridgetmusoki2092]

Thanks! I apprecicate your honesty. Thanks

[@k-doll5610]

Thank you Tony for the word! Looking forward to the video on the 3 B’s! God bless! 🙌🏼

[@alfredawillie8171]

I love this massage, thx to the almighty for coming across this channel 🎉

[@tinyking11]

Thanks Tony ❤️🔥 Enjoyed this video. It was right on time. You have a new subscriber.

[@PaolaPB]

As always, a pleasure to listen to because it gives me back hope when I start losing it again. On a side note, what I appreciate the most is the consistency of your message. It never sways, tries to convince or persuade. It just is. Consistent.

[@allpraisestoallah9582]

Absolutely!!!! God bless you 🎉🎉🎉

[@STORYOFITIANNA]

So I met this guy yesterday and I enjoy his conversation. We are going on a date once I get back home ( I’m a flight attendant ) and I’ve been watching all your videos and I’m so glad I’ve come across them because now I know how to respond this go round! I wish my father was around to give me all these pointers! But I thank God for you! Thank you! Even if it doesn’t work out with this guy. I’ll know for next time!

[@Daughteroftheking07]

Thank you. Wow, love herself and be the best she can be 🦋

[@ThriftTea]

phenomenal video, THANK YOU & God bless you!!

[@TheMisswoods86]

And here I am making all of these extra meals when I get off work😅😂😂

[@ms.forever9282]

@ms.forever9282 1 second ago I personally look up to you, MR. KING- CONSCIOUSLY AWARE UPSTANDING GENTLEMAN, Tony Gaskins! You're truly a PROVEN and ORDAINED PERFECTLY IMPERFECT LIVING LEGEND in its best form! You're a needle in the haystack! There are only a few good faithful better/best-changed -working progress men like you in this crazy world. God blesses you and your family more outpouring good things -infinite fold! Thank you for your godly wisdom, genuine transparent concern, presence, and commitment to serve the Lord as His super amazing, very dynamic, functional effective tool in the hands of His Holy Spirit to reshape the eternal destiny of others by warning and therefore waring and saving "us" from calamities by touching our lives with your impactful agreeable and acceptable influence and life-changing energy. Long live, Mr. Tony Gaskins!

[@ashleyrender1732]

Tony, May God Bless You and Your Family More Abundantly🙏🏽. Lord, I Give YOU ALL the Glory 🙌🏽. Tony, Thank You for answering "The Call" and sharing with us. I really appreciate your delivery and transparency. 💞🙏🏽

[@francinadozier1172]

Love this! Be yourself. 3 B’s. I may try that crab salad recipe tho, it sounded kinda good. Ty!

[@iLLsicilian]

I like how you think. You are a good 1. Much thanks 🙏

[@iLLsicilian]

Cus you put your answer out there..

[@jcqwater8713]

Praise to God! God bless Tony, its in God's hands

[@carmenrivera7587]

Thank you. I am glad I came across this podcast. I have two sons, and they tell me that it's hard to find a woman now a days that they love the Lord but want to live with things of the world

[@tamitatangoto5134]

I appreciate what you're saying on your video. I have been listening to a lot of videos over the past four weeks, and I hear a lot of people saying the same things. What I don't hear them saying is to be moral. I really like that you are really stressing the importance of morals. But even more than that Tony I like that you are basically saying have your s*** together.😊 Brains brand and I can't remember what the other b is,.. body.😊😅 I had already been thinking this off and on for months, that I have to have my life in order for someone to come into it on a level that would be acceptable. Asking myself could somebody walk into my bedroom right now and be comfortable in it❓ Would I want them to see me naked ❓😊😀 Oftentimes I think people are so busy looking for the perfect person in their mind and heart, and they're not thinking about "am I the perfect person for someone else" ❗ I actually have one guy that's been in my life for six years that I've never even met, he lives in Africa. And I have one guy that I've known for several months and that is attracted to me and I am to him but I don't think I could invite him to come in my life just the way my life is now. 😮 I wouldn't be confident. I would be probably embarrassed.😊 I like your suggestions to get your act together be ready, be confident for the right person to come along.

[@charli2285]

Wow Tony you are intelligent and have great wisdom. Your mindset is powerful and continual to be a blessing and share your testimony God be the Glory!

[@annettebell1168]

Thank you Mr Gasket for being real with your advice and sharing your life with years of experience as a husband and having the knowledge of God to help that's the key

[@azizabydesign]

Great message!💯

[@noemiareis1121]

The first thing we women must do is stop wanting and stop accepting anything to fill a void that only God can fill... what we look for outside of ourselves must begin within ourselves, whatever we are doing , intention and reason. will direct the result of that search

[@starr4490]

I feel like I'm talking to my older brother who's giving me a serious talk about commitment. Thank you so much, Tony for your wisdom. Definitely I'm taking notes of your words in your videos. I finally understood a lot of them. Time to srart with myself first. God bless you! 🤗

[@CarmenCruz-ib5yu]

If only all men can think like you, with MORALITY and respect for themselves. GOD will surely Bless men like you with Good women. MAY GOD continue. Blessing you with Wisdom, Strength, Courage, peace, and Love.

[@son0funiverse]

This man understands.

[@m.g.1792]

Great video! Thanks for being transparent

[@HomeRene]

I agree with the three B’s ✨

[@ericahenderson2425]

Thankyou! Great!

[@emen6080]

Honest and genuine! I’d love to talk to you with spiritual trouble I have.

[@ShastaM357]

I agree them single coaches suck Thanks for the advice

[@temekiawilliams8467]

Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all your wisdom and insight. We appreciate it ❤️

[@ashleycaldwell4851]

Thank you, Tony for the wise advice! I’ve been watching your videos for years and I appreciate your insight!

[@lindabarton41]

I like listening to you😊

[@cynthiareynolds1941]

I’m always working in improving myself. I’m working on healing and getting fit for myself. No I am not prefect but I’m striving every day. Yes I have been married before, but I’m divorced at this time. I have a relationship with the Lord. I waiting on God to do the right thing this time.

[@queensun6059]

👸tony's right! feels like hitting the mega lottery💰 or meeting a unicorn🦄🤦‍♀️, giving up is not an option but sadly feels like it🤷.

[@son0funiverse]

"A God fearing man does not want a woman to treat him like a husband when he is just a boyfriend." -- true

[@arnelabih1845]

Ameen thank you been doing this my daddy told me the same thing been doing this typing up my novel and started my KZbin and fallen in love with manafiesting returned back to modeling professionally working out praying also saving myself for marriage all over again made it going on 5 years. I don't even want any man to kiss me unless his my husband

[@Kevnbek]

Thank you Sir