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[@priscillapie]

Why can’t men leave the women they’re not interested in alone !

[@ladennayoung2939]

YES! That is what I'm saying. I think it's stupid to reach out to her in the first place.

[@angeladrain5088]

Priscilla Pie You’d think. I’ve been saying this for years. It’s not numbers, it’s more of us so for every no they get, there are maybe 50 women that will say yes.

[@selinamk3233]

Bro Tony, can you answer this question in a video please?

[@rozh8321]

PERIOAAAD

[@michellelucius7973]

Okay like why do you keep coming back !!! I’m not calling you

[@roxceismith8547]

Loving someone who does not love you is like waiting for a ship at the airport.....Trust your instincts

[@4seasons546]

Roxcei Smith that’s funny 😂

[@intriguingmind9435]

Well said

[@shanrica]

Damn

[@queenateeba4803]

Love this you better say that🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 nothing but the truth honey

[@ShakeshaWilliams]

This analogy is perfect

[@geieffect6698]

If he's not into you.... It's God's protection 🙏

[@vanessabarnes2792]

😊yesss so true

[@lorettawilson9160]

EXACTLY

[@user-uy1vu6xl3x]

Yessssssss

[@nicolebakoussis6852]

If a man disappear he don't want you

[@immaculateadanna3478]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@danielkiruri4882]

It's called ghosting

[@MercyMazmida]

😂😂

[@yolandasession8158]

😂this just happened to me

[@staceythorpe7938]

Never make someone a priority if you are an option to them.

[@preciousluv3922]

Periodt

[@natashaboggs4332]

Right.

[@rdot8869]

I told a woman that too many of them are going after that small select group and ignoring the many who are available and she denied it. I also explained that the man they are all going after have no need to settle down because women are constantly throwing it after them, and she got insulted. The truth hurts.

[@dipmeingloss]

💯

[@consuelastewart5331]

Exactly

[@AD_2314]

When he’s interested he MAKES IT KNOWN.

[@georgiemoran4442]

👍 yes amen so true

[@cathymcdonaldfemale820]

Ive been meeting the ones thats not showing any interest.

[@lesliehill332]

YESSSSSSSS....and NO stammering in PROCLAMING!!!!

[@tieguyscollectibles9767]

Weird because when he let's it be known women walk away the attraction fades

[@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858]

What if he made it known in the beginning.. then just ghosted basically.

[@kimberlyanderson3301]

Every women knows in her heart if a man wants her or not. She just has to love herself enough to be honest with herself,and then do something about it. That means move on.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

Truth!

[@nataliehenderson8657]

Period

[@tinyking11]

💯💯🔥

[@ghettoghost305]

Exactly

[@lorettawilson9160]

EXACTLY BE GONE.

[@DG-on9dz]

“He wants the woman he can’t have, and you want the man you can’t have.” This world is messed up. 😂

[@adlihkristopher7324]

it's not the world🌍that's mess up it's the people in the world🌍

[@vickie6662]

Facts

[@Angel-dd6nz]

I laughed so hard

[@kondrasnell7542]

Yep it’s always that way I tell people that all the time I said y’all need to stop wanting people outside y’all league if your considered a 5 why you want a man that is in the 10 league he is only going to mistreat you because he knows you ain’t his type

[@umummiii4759]

🤣

[@vanaphill2454]

He don't call. If he don't call he ain't thinking bout you.

[@georgiemoran4442]

So true

[@sguillory5923]

As simple as that sounds, it's very true!

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

@@sguillory5923 ..But isn't it pretty smothering to call someone every day as if there's nothing else to do

[@QueenOfPrinciple]

@@user-zx5xw4yw2e it's some men that must hear his lady voice once a day.

[@jackieadele11]

That too

[@Weneed2talk]

Just stay single and work on self until the right person comes along

[@rozh8321]

🙋thats what im doing...IZZZZZZ😊

[@stellabellafontay9366]

🤔

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

Yes Lord! I so agree, peaceful that way!

[@cirukarago7251]

💯

[@blaakcoffee]

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@leahr9038]

Dating is depressing. I just want to be myself and not have to worry about everything.

[@lionessontherise2403]

Girl yes new to this mess after a decade I'm already done ✅

[@malenyusay3892]

Same, girl. Being alone is better sometimes.

[@RS33381]

I been going through hell…even the talking stage so painful. Trying to figure the man out.

[@rogers5622]

@@malenyusay3892 it's so ridiculous and sad .

[@ebonyeverything2751]

@@RS33381 damn, that's the fun part. Maybe that's a sign that you're talking to the wrong people to begin with.

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

If a man WANT you ..you will KNOW it ..it won't be a mystery

[@swayze2403]

People MAKE TIME for WHO and WHAT they want. PERIOD!

[@tammeracalisha5575]

Swayze 💯💯💯💯

[@haniyyahrasheed1296]

Swayze period !

[@naisolanellius9849]

I agree

[@ysmithriley]

@Swayze ABSOLUTELY! If they're not rearranging their schedules to make some quality time to see you, YOU'RE NOT THE ONE!

[@IrishCassidy]

Unfortunately, in my case, this is true.

[@goddesswarrioress6123]

What a waste of life waiting and focusing on just getting a man

[@brick_housedee6711]

Exactly

[@Glamrocs]

Facts

[@nannetteriveraa]

So true

[@tunisiaruth]

Say that!

[@RT-gu3kc]

Such a sad epidemic!!

[@rareroseglosses1554]

Men look for convenience and a place holder until the one he really wants comes

[@cyndiet4960]

I completely agree if a man wants u, he will make time for u but don't chase him. If he wants u, he will come and get u. Make him work for it

[@maplebucket74]

Thats why its good to mirror their behavior and dont catch feelings.

[@missmarymack3457]

Maplebucket 74 yes indeed!!

[@akuasalaam490]

Stay emotionally UNINVESTED.

[@jodynanci]

I don't even give them the time of day

[@mazadasworld]

Catch feelings once lockdown is over 😎

[@marciawade9101]

Yep. Deadly!

[@laj4186]

When a man is interested in you, it's UNDENIABLE. There is no uncertainty or question if he's interested. If you have to ask the answer is NO! Learn this early on and never waste your own time.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Yup, the answer is in the uncertainty.

[@queenbaee8514]

Omg had to learn this fr 😕😕

[@hollygamble15]

exactly what my momma tells me, she's never been wrong yet and it's never led me astray 🤞

[@dorisrobinson3742]

Holly Rey in

[@georgiemoran4442]

That's so perfectly said

[@Proudmuslimah123]

I'm literally in tears because I know for sure that i've wasted sooooooooooo much of my time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@skyfall1481]

You have to hurt and be uncomfortable to learn and grow. That’s life. Next time will be better, you’re not alone.

[@MelindaMary-jy5ms]

It is ok. It’s only a lesson learned. Grateful that we won’t waste our time EVER again!! ❤

[@lovetinker6]

He hooked me and pretended like he was interested now he don’t even call or text anymore smh .. your videos have been helping me so much

[@missg7012]

I'm in the same boat too....what a waste of time!! Telling me what he felt l wanted to hear. Not impressed. Now l need to keep it moving - for my own peace of mind.

[@lovetinker6]

@@missg7012 exactly

[@quettalogan3295]

Sound Like He Manipulated And Love Bombed You

[@lovetinker6]

@@quettalogan3295 basically

[@tashaequeen8935]

All I can do is smh because this exactly what I'm going through. I hate games these so called men play it's sad..💔🙆🏽

[@Itchpls]

When a man not into you he will disappear quick.. he’s not consistent, always making excuses, brief text/ conversation, you are not one of his priorities..

[@pamelaclarkson6001]

Shawn J I’ve experienced this lately after about three weeks of this on and off vagueness I just messaged that I couldn’t be arsed with it and blocked him xx

[@lykke7970]

@@pamelaclarkson6001 Pamela block him all the way!! BLOCK!

[@katrinataylor600]

😭

[@kgabomolele3346]

Damn. I really am losing him.

[@tanyahudson6272]

That's right

[@phillyflytee9849]

Seriously when I don’t hear from a man. I keep it moving. I’ve learned from my brothers teachings.

[@1agelessbeauty]

Preach, my sister. Pluck him, and keep it pushing.

[@phillyflytee9849]

@@1agelessbeauty Yes I never chase. I replace with no problem. He, He❤️💯

[@kristenmiiiller7778]

Facts 💯💯

[@nadinemartin9512]

Yup. Next

[@toniemillsap8910]

Amen. I love my brothers. Thank you brothers for all your love, support and good advice.

[@234forte]

Whenever you call a man complicated, he's not into you.

[@002Zully]

“You’re no longer just thirsty, now you’re dehydrated” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’ve been there 😩

[@jamakadavis5748]

He on social media ALL day he got time..

[@girlnextdoor5153]

💯

[@geneinnewade1278]

Girl

[@lashellanderson7773]

Sure do can't text good morning or nothing doesn't want to invite you no where but wants u run to him when wants you too. I just cut this guy off completely today fuckem I can do without a selfish ass man at this point in my 30s I've given up on men completely

[@NerdyWhatup]

okaaay!!!!

[@summerdior459]

CTFU🥴😂🤣😂🤣😂😂

[@saiyansnake]

When a man is interested in a woman, he *WILL* find time to get on a video call or at least a phone call with her... even if he's the busiest man on earth. He *WILL* find money to take her on a date, or get her a birthday/X-mas gifts even if he is the brokest man on earth.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Noted

[@wowso4]

saiyansnake so true

[@danicacrowther4609]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@aomfnm]

True. This loser doesn’t even remember my bday smh

[@milliemartin6490]

@@aomfnm oh definitely kick him to the curb sis

[@everyroseenterprises2226]

Well single men in their 60 s out here trying to be players. I'm not marrying no old used up player. I deserve better.

[@keylablacc561]

Yup now da old heads want a younger woman to settle dwn with after dey all used up & worn out uughhh nope I’m not ready for it

[@nyarifitnesstherapy5195]

😂

[@terrybrown7510]

We should not confuse interest with desire. When a guy desires you he also will pursue, , for a time. Weed them out by not giving up the cookies. True intentions and interest are not based on sexual interaction.

[@DynamicallyDC]

You want me but what do you want me for!? A man thats interested should be bringing the table to the table!! 📢🔝

[@lisathomas2171]

Demetria Calvin 💯💯

[@kaoshi_kutie]

Amen!!!♥️🔥👏🏽

[@queedelisa]

Period

[@NursingHubPro]

Demetria Calvin Amen!

[@demetriusbrown2742]

Oh my God! You have my name and my brother's. LOL!!!

[@louwil67]

Tony said “All of a sudden he’s more busy than Barack Obama.” I’m hollering 💀💀💀💀😩😩😩😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯

[@birdie4223]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤫❤️

[@dreamteam8667]

THAT WAS FUNNY. I'M GOING TO SAY THAT TO MEN I'M TOTALLY NOT INTERESTED IN.

[@summerdior459]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@CharCharJars]

😂😂😂

[@Lee-tg2of]

I was rolling 😂

[@NAJErEa91]

"DONT TRUST NO TEXTS FROM A MAN." I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT SMH THANKS TONY :)

[@zen_mindset1]

Facts and avoids talking on the phone....smh

[@redfather5342]

Some men prefer in person interactions

[@mandia469]

He look like a tall, glass of chocolate milk in the Sahara Dessert! You went from thirsty to dehydrated!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@adrianebevel3851]

Hilarious

[@helena_waithera]

😂😂😂😂

[@teresagivens3731]

I was laughing so hard 😂🤣

[@melaninqueen111]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lionessontherise2403]

That took me out I guess I better start drinking way more water and leave dairy alone

[@tomikacox360]

His actions simply show it. He doesn't pursue! He isn't investing!

[@lmusima3275]

He’s giving bread crumbs or excuses

[@llanneg.v.c545]

1. If he doesn’t mind leaving you hanging or leaving opportunity for someone else to catch you 2. If he’ll allow you to pay for your half; not too chivalrous; go w/the flow energy 3. If he is too busy or claims to be 4. If has time to give but doesn’t give it ie...doesn’t call 5. If he isn’t trying “to make love to your mind,” (trying to get to know you) 6. If he doesn’t mind you hanging out with other men

[@cindycinn2724]

7. He will let another man hit you shove you and insult you and spit on you and he don't care...he will say I didn't see that

[@QueenOfPrinciple]

@@cindycinn2724 definitely, not interested. ...smh

[@natashaconover2536]

@@arbitrarylib right 😩😩🤣🤣 I said shit let me pretend I didn’t see that list lol

[@furyisuponu]

#2 is debatable because some men want to know their woman/partners aint just cheap/using them for freebies etc. Also with the chivalrous argument, ive met some woman that actually didnt like the car opening stuff and flower bringing etc. Said it was cheesy lol.

[@tinyking11]

💯💯🔥🙌🏽

[@lovelylove6193]

The first sign that I learned is, they won't text or call you first. If you are the one who is constantly getting ahold of him first to hang out or to just talk, then he is clearly not interested, PERIOD!!!. If he was, then he would be doing all of the initiaitng and pursuing.

[@Sweetheartkethy305]

You know the ones that get me are the men who actually think you're sitting around waiting for him. It truly blows my mind when they assume that they have you secured and focused on just them. Chile listen....

[@veronicathomas4607]

He's petty, real thirsty

[@ypayne9871]

I once was a victim of a " man who wasn't interested in me" But, will never be in that place again. Thanks Tony.

[@divinelyblessedkb]

Me too! Put me through the wilderness.

[@ypayne9871]

@@divinelyblessedkb lol the wilderness is where we find the Lord.

[@divinelyblessedkb]

@@ypayne9871 And you are right! Because it brought me even closer to God! 🙋🙌💃✨

[@tanyahudson6272]

We mostly all have been and it's ok. We learn from our mistakes.

[@shatariholmes6063]

I know the feeling

[@TuBella14]

I absolutely hate it when men act as if they are prime ministers of somebody’s country 😒. Sir if you don’t go clock in & clock out & get on this phone, you are NOT that busy.💀

[@ellee.444]

Tu Bella 🤣🤣🤣 honestly!

[@Channyb89]

“Prime ministers of somebody’s country.” I’m done 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@angelicaangel2624]

Love this 😂

[@TuBella14]

Chantal Brown Sis I’m so serious 😒 just fake busy 😂💀

[@irenealex1600]

@@TuBella14 your talking to me, he's busy like oxygen

[@AndieAllDay]

AMEN! That's why the Bible says to guard your heart! Actions speaks louder than words and words confirm how you feel. If a man doesn't express that he wants you never assume that he does. Women have to learn to guard their hearts and compartmentalize the men that are interested in them. Character supersedes everything! GREAT VIDEO!

[@tlc6756]

That's true wisdom, thanks.

[@DELIVERANCE-TODAY]

"It's determined by the time he gives you." Powerful! Thanks.

[@vchild]

I lied on God plenty of times.. Talking bout we are annointed. The devil is a liar!! God don't send no mess and confusion. The God I serve operates in ORDER not out of ORDER... Amen? Good message Tony. Thank you.

[@Beautiful13818]

Amen Amen

[@vanisacampbell5261]

Say that 10 times

[@georgiemoran4442]

Amen sister

[@gokelovefeji1651]

Amen

[@cathymcdonaldfemale820]

Amen🆗

[@Beautifullybyg]

So true! Basically a man knows straight out the gate what he really wants. It's up to the woman to determine what she wants and carry herself accordingly.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Amen

[@purpleflowers149]

I'm looking at some of these comments a man knows what he wants from the jump , it's up to you to decide if you should continue to talk to this person or just leave this person alone, the red flags be in the conversation sometimes pay attention

[@redfather5342]

Wrong wrong wrong

[@drusillacole3270]

This makes being single the greatest thing I have ever done for myself ❤️

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

heck yes

[@crystalcleardestiny8604]

Before I even watch the video I'm going to give my choices: 1. He doesn't call you. 2. He doesn't make you a priority. He fits you in when he can. 3. He shows no interest in you as a person/your hobbies/your goals/your favorite foods/favorite movies/favorite color, etc. 4. He doesn't include you in his plans. 5. He's only interested in sex/your body/how you look. His interests is only physical. Ummm, I can't think of nothing else. Now let's watch the video. *click play*

[@ShyXoxo1920]

Your imitation of the woman’s voice “ohhh” and smacking of the lips/rolling eyes be having me DEAD 💀🤣🤣

[@missmarymack3457]

Miss Shy lol 😂

[@Alannah__]

Lmfao I be crying

[@gladystoombs735]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kiaradozier2856]

Miss Shy yesss...he have me crying laughing 🤣🤣

[@keepingupwithamber7850]

Miss Shy I be dying when he does that

[@maseengmasitha6212]

It was so painful to listen to this, but it is empowering. I just got played, and it hurts because I think I'm smart, but someone managed to do this to me. I let him do this to me.

[@shelial.341]

Same here. . .I thought I was smart enough to detect the bs, but got TOTALLY played!

[@mizzgudlyfe1418]

Me too 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ericaallen5216]

Me too, it hurt like hell.

[@clarityroseb6136]

Me too 😩

[@themimster88]

Me too. But I removed myself immediately upon understanding I was an option. He can't get a returned call, returned text, nada ...

[@Koukouna154]

When he said “not LPN, keep working” Lawwwd I spit out my food 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lanac7974]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@lucyespila3401]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gwill3097]

I NEEDED to hear this! I was.on the fence about whether someone was "into" me and you hit on EVERY ONE of my uncertainties.... I now know he's not into me 🤷🏽‍♀️ thanks for helping me to walk away

[@bellezanegra0206]

Same

My daddy used to say a man who opens his wallet has opened his heart. My mom told me that a man that likes/ loves you will trot the circumference of the earth to get to you. This advice has been true my whole life

[@cecea665]

Facts

[@pallana3701]

My mama told me Never buy a man shoes Or else he gonna use them same shoes to walk out on you🤷🏽‍♀️ But that’s My Mama

[@bxndo5ive]

H&B V. Facts your mama was right.

[@genj6630]

Your dad gave great advice. Sadly have never met a guy that was really in to me.

Gen J I highly doubt that!! There are many people for everyone. I bet you have just overlooked those and go for a “type”.

[@theslaygoddessperfect9995]

I’m getting sick of man .I still believe in love tho

[@liztaylor456]

Don’t be sick of men.. just expand your horizons. It’s a whole World out here, explore ❤️

[@dreamteam8667]

@@liztaylor456 YESSSSSS

[@cathymcdonaldfemale820]

I am sick of a man too. Can't deal with them anymore. Toxic.

[@inthecloudswithskye7036]

@@cathymcdonaldfemale820 me too..

[@jujumama]

Love can exist but not when people act the way that they do most of the time

[@aomfnm]

Wow you are so right. I would fantasize about him all day and give him much more credit than he deserved! I made him look and sound so good to me, that he could do no wrong 😑

[@roses4me451]

I saw this online: "The love that you're WAITING to receive from someone else; you should already be giving it to yourself FIRST!" Now that was a word!

[@bre_s9164]

When you get the notification that Tony made a video. 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

[@TuBella14]

Flawless Imperfection be bout to break my finger 😂

[@bre_s9164]

I’m tryna tell you sis! 😂

[@jayleeh9459]

Yes! Lol👀👃👂

[@viewly390]

Flawless Imperfection with the quickness

[@bre_s9164]

Sashisroyal One right!!! 😂😂

[@linnaewillis619]

When you ask a man what do you want me for, they get mad

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

😂

[@sg5720]

True. , just mine got mad cause he could not understand why I don’t see that he is the lucky one to have me😉

[@laina1976]

I just asked a man that lol. He chased me for 2 years. I finally gave him chance hanging out spending time and stuff. This fool is pulling away now. So i ask him why you do all that chasing now i give you a chance and you acting stupid. Smh.

[@laylap7963]

That’s why I like the 90 day rule. Get to know him in ONLY those days. If he doesn’t show his full interest in that time frame, wish him well and send him on.

[@redfather5342]

Fuck 90 days you out of your mind you get 3 days max after that it's over

[@user-uy1vu6xl3x]

That’s right never trust a man who is texting you. THANKS I SAID PLENTY OF TIMES!!! Confirmation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@lcjones4682]

I think women just need to trust themselves. I can look back and I KNEW when a man wasn’t truly interested...I just didn’t want to accept it because I liked him. But God gave us instinct and we need to pay attention to that nudging. And men do think if you’re a certain age and still single you must be desperate. But you have to get to the place where you trust God and willing to wait for the man who goes over and beyond to show you he wants you and only you.

[@tanyahudson6272]

Amen

[@imanirhodes3180]

So true

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

You know what Us women know right from the first second that he is not into us.. But somehow (Y'all know how us women can be somehow🙄🤦‍♀️😂) we don't accept it or Take it at face value and end up playing ourselves! YESSS! I SAID IT.. Men don't play us, We play ourselves! 😭😭😂😏 We KNOW but again we are hard-headed🤣🙄😭🤦‍♀️

[@simplysimone7174]

If only I could go back 10 years and apply all of this new knowledge. I was definitely falling for the one who did NOT want me and running away from the good man aka “the creep” smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@diva-nicole9089]

You and me both(smh) every time I hear Tony's messages I think just that.

[@kenishalperkins]

Amen !! I need the last 20 years back

Damn that's sad

[@patty8945]

I wish I knew it years ago as well.

[@jodynanci]

Facts. That was me 3 years ago, so in love with a playa. I've been single for 3 years now because I needed to work on myself and so far I see through the bullshit and won't even entertain any of these guys. Well said sir

[@imanirhodes3180]

It has been so hard for me to finish this specific video.. I’ve had to come back multiple times because the words hurt so much. I’m realizing that the person I was in a relationship with for 3 1/2 years was no longer interested in me. Whew thanks again Tony!

[@Gstarp]

Sorry ❤️

[@katkos2750]

It must have been a blessing in disguise because God's rejection is our protection !

[@NurseNotRatched]

Good info Mr. Gaskins 👌🏽 I’m a nurse practitioner & I’ll never ever ever disclose my salary to a man who’s not going to be my husband again. Learned the hard way 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Drg_ielevateminds]

I am an NP too! I just tell men I am a health coach!

[@itsme3k]

Never disclose your salary, these men will use and abuse you.

[@NurseNotRatched]

Gina B Good idea! I’ll have to use that!

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Never ever ever!!!

[@gorgeouslymade1754]

These opportunists are googling salaries ...lol I normally say I’m in Accounting.. never mention that I have a MBA 🤣

[@ericalevene3125]

I am glad I have enough discernment to rid men who are a waste of space. There was this one, who only texted me back for a few days and told him if he cant call me then stop text8ng me. So he stopped all together and I saved my time and not waste it with.......a waste man.

[@rozh8321]

Goodnite and good riddance boo❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣

[@jroyal2229]

I try to give a man a chance but, it’s just not working out. They turn out to be just what you said Tony. I rather stay single & wait for the right man that know my worth than to waste my time wondering if he’s really into me. I refuse to be treated like a piece of celery on a side plate of chicken wings.

[@sunnyday3117]

Sometimes a man can be interested and do all the things you’ve spoke on but in an unhealthy manner due to previous trust issues and ruins something that could’ve been powerful and beautiful. I call it “The Over-thinker”

[@plutostarr8605]

This ‼️

[@rachelbeck8307]

Woooo chile i be ignoring the signs🤦🏿😫

[@greengoddessof75]

Me too!!

[@lerhondajones-bates3324]

Me 3...smh 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes we all do from time to time if we are being honest. Prayerfully this time we have learned, and we will wait for the one God have for us.

[@greengoddessof75]

@@ladennayoung2939 Yes we all do!!🤣

[@iishalanae]

Well let's all make this the last time we all ignore signs. It's time for us women to get it together. I know I'm too old to still be getting played

[@indriadrayton1132]

No! He's texting because his wife doesn't hear him talking cause, he's texting you instead. It's easier that way.... Pour the glass of milk down the sink, it's spoiled.

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

Months back I had this very same theory. My ex friend swore up and down that I was thinking too much into it. I've dropped her ass since then! It's good to know that great minds think alike 😉.

[@kelamo7067]

indria drayton Chiiiiiiiiiiiiiile...

[@bxndo5ive]

Oh yeah if he hardly calls and always texts he fasho has a woman.

[@georgiemoran4442]

So true lay right by side u n think ur 😴 a sleep n there he is texting her

[@georgiemoran4442]

@@ClowneryAtItsFinest good for u n u deserve better n I do to

[@chumasitali7803]

Everytime he does that voice i be rolling on the floor🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@stephanie3506]

I gotta be honest, I really don't want to talk on the phone for an hour myself with most men. The conversations just aren't that stimulating most of the time.

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

True🙄

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

When I know he dumb. I just play bored😂 one hour on the phone.. Nigga's be boring us to death🙄🤦‍♀️😂😂

[@lanac7974]

Lmaooo so true...be carrying the whole conversation

[@anissa2361]

@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li Lol, yes! 😂

[@Ashley-oi2uw]

So true

[@Itchpls]

Car chronicles, hotel chronicles... Love them all 😂😂

[@j-tenn226]

Bedroom chronicles, office chronicles

[@lionelluva]

Tony and his female mannerisms - “OHHHHHHHH” 😂😂😂😂, but he’s telling NO lies

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

What gets me...laying on ya byke(back) lol lol

[@lionelluva]

@@tanitrarobinson7477 LMBOOOOOO yes!

[@lisathomas2171]

Yes he kills me I always laugh when I hear him start lol 😂😭

[@BluDrop5]

@@tanitrarobinson7477 I love his accent!

[@Mantoa_R91]

A.G. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@ingridabasto7934]

Is he bringing a table to my table so we can feast together? I love that.

[@redfather5342]

Ain't you the table

[@rhut579]

Based on this video, I don’t think anyone I have every dated was into me.☹️It’s good to understand the differences.

[@lalarodgers3141]

Its crazy because I use too be that "girl" that use to say "girl he is too nice", "I need somebody that's not always on me" etc etc but now that I know better and I'm much wiser, I have a "Man" that calls me everyday, plan dates, plan trips have his own car, house, a good job and just like to be around me and guess what I'm enjoying every bit of it. Thank God for Growth(on my part) Note: He has a busy schedule but he makes time for me

[@ayessacamara3995]

We praise the Lord!

[@bosslady9108]

Congratulations.....💏

[@dinnipinni4810]

So nice 🥰

[@thinishot]

Then why are you watching this video? Because you know something or you looking for something.

[@lalarodgers3141]

@@thinishot No not at all..I'm subscribed to Toni, so its comes on my feed.

[@harrietcarlock2986]

He's building his time with other women

[@marycurlee2163]

Each women thinks she got the ring on the finger too and will display the fake ring too to make sure you know they got him in the bag exspecially when we use to have church. Seen it happen alot just to let you know to back off l am pulling this fish for dinner.

I will never understand…if a man isn’t ready for a relationship why disturb a woman’s peace? What 👏🏾 is 👏🏾 the 👏🏾 point? Leave us alone if you’re only good at playing games. Life is way to short to be playing games. If you’re not into her, leave her alone.

[@tesswakefield1420]

I’m turning into a nun guys are too complicated 😂

[@wbabe2012]

I feel bad because I can’t even get a phone call 😔

[@rozh8321]

He won't the one ....hes coming🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@findingdori442]

wbabe2012 it will get better. Gods timing ❤️🙏

[@angelbasham6631]

You will

[@nikkyshamz2696]

The right person wont do you like that so take courage in that fact.

[@shevettejackson.]

Sad

[@irishbenton9194]

I have laughed so hard on these female gestures " girlllll" this is so brutally honest. Thank God for men standing up telling the truth

[@godsgirl3175]

Some people talk just to talk so called dating coaches....this man here is doing God's Light ✨ work!!!! Bringing about and clarity to God's children...All praises to The Most High 🙏🏽

[@crystalmahogani5857]

If you have to ask a man to call you instead of texting...even suggest it...he's not into you like that. You dont need to ask, hint, suggest, wait or play games when he is truly interested. You'll know from the START.

[@kikikiki3216]

You know what am taking this on board.

[@zen_mindset1]

Yeah he not interested....I was blind.

[@lucilleduncan5187]

Been there done that..I fell in love with a man that was ALWAYS TOO BUSY.he would get mad and what to argue when i would mention the lack of time. It ain't that much busy in the world.

[@missj5564]

Too busy means he is not interested.

[@rozh8321]

Aint🤦🙄

[@brieze1233]

Been there.. now blocked

[@k.s.alexander9427]

You were something to pass the time for him, and he was probably a narcissist too

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

You know what Us women know right from the first second that he is not into us.. But somehow (Y'all know how us women can be somehow🙄🤦‍♀️😂) we don't accept it or Take it at face value and end up playing ourselves! YESSS! I SAID IT.. Men don't play us, We play ourselves! 😭😭😂😏 We KNOW but again we are hard-headed!!🤣🙄😭😭😭🤦‍♀️

[@sharicebryant8149]

Be blessed tony! You’re so right abt us women thinking half effort is sexy and mysterious. We love men that are vague bc we can dream up our own versions of how things will go in the relationship. It’s sad. Wise up, ladies. The man that puts in effort actually likes you and that’s okay lol.

[@1funkateer847]

I'm an older lady and a widow, just getting back out there. A lot of this is common sense, but we lose all that when our emotions get involved. Good information here, and you are laugh out loud funny!

[@Letsbuildabetterworld23]

So many coaches on KZbin... what he says, makes more sense to me than others.

[@dswannbeautyartist]

“You want me but what do you want me for”. I hear that as some people ain’t looking for love their looking for help

[@chantellew5810]

I'll rather just change my number , move on & just completely focus on myself & make myself a priority and love ME . At least I won't have to question whether the love is real or not 🤷🏾‍♀️💯🤦🏾‍♀️ Js

[@shamyareid5025]

I’m going through something with someone now and I think that’s the best idea I have ever heard all day

[@ToyaNYC81]

If a man is not interested then just say your not interested. It’s gets messy when he continues to pursue a woman for his own needs but could really care less about her. Be real and leave space needed for the right man to intercept your intentions. This goes for females too. This is such an old subject that never seems to get old.

[@BapeGangMember]

Why would he tell you that if he’s trying to use you?

[@isischante2855]

😂😂😂He always makes me laugh. He says things so casually and yet so funny "Serial killers, everybody has a dream. He has to have a substantial dream"

[@angelbasham6631]

What does he WANT YOU FOR ? I felt that.

[@sashaminx75]

Right

[@luulips]

I have to tell you Tony, when you said talk everyday for an hour I thought you were crazy and that was impossible. Well this man I’m talking to our first phone conversation was for 6 hours. Yes 6 hours! I couldn’t believe it. Didn’t think it was possible. We’re both in our early 60s, retired partially disabled so we have lots of time. We talk everyday. Its been a couple months since exchanging numbers and we still can talk for hours. He talks 3 times more than I but I don’t get tired of listening to him so far at least lol. We both want the same things for our future. We’ll see as things progress.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Nice 💞

[@EbonyCOliver]

You are NOT in your sixties... lookin good lady!

[@luulips]

Ebony Oliver awe shucks thank you 😊

[@saphinawest]

60’s??? You look AHMAZING! Keep us updated! Lol❤️

[@denisegladden-peters4435]

How cool is that! Wishing the best!

[@vchild]

I had to go back and listen to this again. This is good stuff. Ladies you need to put this on repeat

[@goldenlifelove7251]

Good, accurate message! You definitely mentioned a lot of red flags I saw in the last man I was getting to know. I'm so glad I decided to stop letting him play games w/ me & not appreciate & treat me like the amazing, beautiful woman I am.

[@BlkMagickGaia3]

If he let's you pay/go Dutch, he's not that into you.

[@runningcloud1751]

This is an original dance to the music nuance " be a man about it; not a boy with it" ,my saying to put a male in his place ( make him think) kinda a put down and make him rethink the behavior /situation . So Tony this is a gift to you apply it , as you will. Please feel free to ad it to your brand... Virgin married, first born, Nana, all round single, good girl, chased contemporary single, qualified, old fashion girl, modern woman and cosmopolitan lady.

[@ajura8926]

Uh not sure about this my husband and I have been together for 16years and on our first date I actually paid for it.

[@adrianarenee3331]

@@ajura8926 that’s because he knew you could be used to pay for everything. That’s not a good thing.

[@vanessahutchinson267]

Got me at the 5 day Adventist 😂🤣😂

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Gurrrrrrrl

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Gurrrrrrl I hollered😄😄😄😄😄

[@serenadavis7120]

😂😂

[@chrissyisok]

Thank you! Sometimes we are so busy reacting to each instance, we forget to look at the whole picture. I didn't see until this video was playing in the background and the facts were clicking. Suddenly im sitting down and hanging on to every word! God worked through you today. That message was my answer. Thank you.

[@latonyawrenn1435]

Brother Tony is dropping pure truth in this video! Thank you so much. This is really helping me right now.

[@chrisparker6249]

Success is a process and time ALWAYS tells the TRUTH. The urge to rush into anything is not of God but our own spirit. We can't assume that God has his hand on every relationship because it looks and feel right....pray for discernment.

[@chrisparker6249]

@@PreciousForReal It's important to support, motivate, and uplift each other. And women must know that all makes don't operate or move the same.

[@AE-106]

@@chrisparker6249 Blessings my brothah

[@chrisparker6249]

@@AE-106 🙏

[@Gfamily4]

Amen🙌

[@nikkyshamz2696]

💯💯💯

[@christineallen3003]

😆Did he just say,”Chocolate 🥛 milk!”

[@kittenbrown2484]

Chocolate milk in the sahara desert !!!!😄😄😄

[@diva-nicole9089]

When he said that I was like yessss😍

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

Lol ...he said you on the roster! Lol

[@mizzleefromsa3493]

In the Sahara desert!😂😂

[@danawilson1020]

In the Sahara Desert 😜

[@sincereheart5740]

You had me laughing because of your delivery, but you are telling the truth. Be Blessed

[@lashondatalbert4185]

It's 11:15 pm I'm suppose to be sleeping but I ran across your videos and I'm hooked!!! OMG 😂...I'm over here taking notes and everything!!!