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[@NarcCon]

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[@TheDevineFempress]

They make sure they inform you that they are giving someone else what you wanted from them.

[@variniaspartacus5860]

They sure do 😂 I asked him for 15 years to go with me to theme park and enjoy a rollercoaster ride. NO came the reply, I can't, I have a really bad back. The 62 year old racks up MILES on rollercoasters with his 24 year old lover

[@chrismcdonald6076]

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[@chrismcdonald6076]

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[@joybarton3460]

So true. He knew i loved music concerts. We never went to one. Then he takes his so called 'ex' girlfriend who he says was still friends with, to several concerts and bragged about it

[@misshelly]

They also make sure to tell you in the beginning that they’re giving you something the ex wanted.

[@Boyhowdy875]

Getting dumped by a narcissist is a blessing. I just say bye-bye, and don't let the door hit you in the...

[@DebraLaPointe-b5n]

Right?!!!

[@LadyofPeace89RO]

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[@howdydocowgirlcowgirl181]

Yeah, "... don't let the door hit ya where mother nature split ya..." 🎉😅

[@StillAwakeAwareDiscerning]

Thank you Paula. They are so predictable with their cruelty and malevolence because they are of their father the prince of lies. When I first heard someone say that 5 years ago, I thought it was a bit much. As Paula says, a bit woo woo. Now I know we are in a spiritual battle and narcs are on the side of darkness. They re assigned to us so that we don’t achieve the purpose that brought us here.

[@collettehartshorn581]

a whole smear campaign on line made me realise I was right about my narcassist, I thank God they are gone from my life, eggshells are gone, anxiety gone. Evil gone!

[@chriswiser-sf5wp]

My Narc said, you are never going to change. Total projection. At first I was confused by that. Now I'm educated!

[@karenegan1688]

OMGosh! You’ve hit the nail on the head, once again. At the moment I discovered my husband was having an affair and when I called his new supply a name, he said, “Don’t call her that. She was very concerned about you when I left and if you could meet her, you would know her story”. I was reeling! Later on, he told me he felt trapped when our second child was born. I made the discovery of his infidelity 17 years later. So cruel, made me feel so inadequate and at fault. It took me years to figure out what he really was and I wish I had known about you then. Life might not have been as difficult.

[@kerryannmoor5908]

He said that I was the worst lover he'd ever had, I said it's a shame it took you 35 years to figure that out ! It hurt more when he put down my cooking because, as a Nutritionist, I made sure I cooked a highly nutritious gourmet style meal every day. The menu was different each day and it caused a lot of pain in my scoliosis spine, standing on the tiles to cook. Childish tantrums from lazy, nasty, demon infused creatures. Disgusting behaviour. Oh yes, and the rant was preluded with You broke it ! So you're right Paula, no accountability cause it was all my fault.

[@Delfina-Zafira]

Haha don't worry, my fault was "not cooking" at all 😂 What was true for the last 1 year of our relationship. Prior to that I have been cooking for him for 5 long years, traditional Hungarian cooking is not quick, so I used to stand there for hours preparing huge portions of soups, stews, etc. with mixed salads or steamed veggies, dumplings, rice, potatoes. Same as you, my back was hurting. Now when i remind him that I did cook prior to the very last year... He said: What??? You just popped some frozen fish fingers in the oven!!!! 😢 I got speechless 😮 They're laughable, trying to rewrite the past, even down to my cooking 😅 (extremely rarely we did eat battered fish from freezer, but I always prepared vegetables and rice with it, plus added a pizza - if the oven was already going. These were my "cheat days" basically. And only for 2 years every once in a while.

[@leonasweny1525]

Just laugh at his petty insults as he cannot find fault with you and used childish behaviour to try to make you feel small. My ex lost the best supply he had when I walked away .😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alexrusu2905]

Listening to all of this, I realised she said all of these things and now I am in a point where I find it somewhat funny. Poor idiots. I do feel bad for her, I really cared and loved her.

[@chrisgorski1656]

Yes you did. You gave it all. I’m sorry this happened.

[@grb2017]

Discard happens on a daily basis with my covert husband. I have a chronic illness and he refuses to help with anything ,watching me fall to pieces with stress. A lot of coverts are so incredibly cowardly that they push you to have to leave and turn around saying you didn't want to change/ make it work blah blah blahhh. Meanwhile, you're in therapy, you have grown as a person, you continue to take responsibility, and all you wanted was to be truly loved by them. You just want so little from them literally you just want honesty, respect and care. It shouldn't be so hard!!

[@berenicegalilea]

Yes. It is not difficult for healthy people. But narcissists are sick, they're broken, they're flawed, and the most fundamental defect is that they can't live in relationships. We have to accept it. We have to step out of this artificially constructed story into reality. The truth sets us free.

[@karlwieler9205]

My NPD father-in-law after defrauding me in a real estate deal sent me to the hospital with a heart attack. While there he confronted me telling me 'stop drawing attention to myself' and 'don't make this such a big deal'. Sadly like your husband they don't care what they have caused and do not think one moment for who you are as a person. In fact, they only see you as an annoyance and are bothered that you are taking attention away from them and their needs. When my wife (his daughter) asked if he could help with our medical bills as my illnesses has pushed our family from being successful to impoverished, his retort was, 'certainly not .. that's why I go to church and pray', and 'don't worry you're young you'll find someone else'. Not too long ago I crossed paths with him on the street where he waved at me and yelled out 'happy new year'... acting like I was some friend of his who would be filled with joy and admiration for such wishes. It then occurred to me how he 'enjoyed' seeing me in ruin and knowing that there was nothing happy about my circumstances let alone the new year. They are truly evil.

[@jamiehorne2389]

I will never be in another relationship. My wife passed in 2019. She was my soulmate. The one after her was and is a MONSTER. She comes on my property when I am at work and removes things on my porch, takes off the knoll post knob, breaks my screen door handles, etc. I have closed the book on a woman being in my life again.😢💜

[@TheDevineFempress]

The best tool is “indifference” and remind them of their mediocrity

[@LadyofPeace89RO]

Indifference is where I'm at right now. Yet, I never thought of it as reinforcement of their mediocrity. THANK YOU 🙌

[@TheDevineFempress]

Because my concept of “self” is based on accomplishments… I destroyed the narcissist … it took a toll on me; Yes. But, even in my emotional overwhelm, I distinctly remember stating “You tried to make me feel like I wasn’t good enough. But, by your own admission, I’m the most beautiful woman you’ve ever had access to intimately and by far the most talented; you can never make me feel like I am not good enough, EVER….”

[@LadyofPeace89RO]

YES! 🙌

[@TheDevineFempress]

They blame you for everything they’ve done

[@l.5832]

"I can't get rid of you quickly enough"..."Even your own family doesn't want you"....."Without me you will fall flat on your face"...."You are not a priority"

[@TRUTHSPEAKER-888]

Yessssss they are FAMOUS for saying they domt want drama but THEY ARE the drama💯Ty for what you are doing to educate people. These videos have helped me❤

[@williamdieleman-p7u]

Great advice. The sad part is there are lots of them out there.

[@Cassiemom-1234]

The biggest revelation for me was realizing how universal narcissism is and that they all follow the same patterns and cycles regardless of the relationship. In my case a toxic sibling. Discard, smear campaign, the hoover.

[@user-vz5qk9vy6s]

You are one of the best Narc Con, Thank-you!!

[@sototallyover2359]

They plan, it's what they do to get the fuel.

[@karlwieler9205]

Yes you are so right. Their calculations and schemes start right at the point of initial contact. They are predators who are sizing up what role you as their prey can play in their game.

[@Thebesttheworst143]

The narc told me all of these things 😂 If I was that terrible how did o last for a year? I was discarded over truly petty jealousy (why are you liking IG model posts who are half naked, why are you staring at that girl, why did you choose the same song to kareoke that your sisters friend did) but he added to it through triangulation and disrespect and emotional affairs. He smeared me to a female coworker (he accidentally picked up my call and I heard everything), he discarded me multiple times, hard discard happened 2 weeks after our anniversary/ birthday, 2 weeks before a dream vacation and 2 weeks after his divorce was finalized). At the discard he was screaming in my face that he wanted peace, that he hated me, that I was toxic. He said he once loved me but didn’t anymore and it was long gone but he still accepted expensive gifts and I asked for them back and he went bezerk. What a loser accepting the gifts lolll pathetic really! His rage was other worldly. All because I asked about the kareoke song. He blocked me and threw me away like trash. The 2 times I saw him after I saw the infamous smirk. He was acting like I slept with his dad or killed his family, the animosity was crazy. Mind you I was put in therapy and on meds during our 1 year relationship and I tried so hard to make it work and to fix myself because I was sooooo crazy. Looking back I see how disordered he is and how his own family knew and his coworkers. I expect to see him in the news or dead from a stroke soon. His rage

[@leonasweny1525]

I’m so sorry to read about this man’s treatment of you . He is definitely deranged and needs evaluation . I hope you are healing and learning to love yourself again . Virtual hugs sent .❤❤❤❤

[@Druid88]

Thank you so much for your podcasts they are my life line right now. binge watching your stuff seems to be the only thing keeping that overwhelming grief feeling at bay.

[@elainemcparland36]

Hang in, we’ve all gone through what you are experiencing now & no matter how unbearable it seems, you will get through this & the light will shine in your life again. You’ll also see everything so much clearer in time & realise things are not as they seem now. Walks, podcasts, more walks & more podcasts.. just keep putting one foot in front of the other for now & try and catch yourself when you are ruminating over him/her and force yourself to change the frequency. May God give you the strength to endure 🙏🙏

[@elainemcparland36]

Hang in, we’ve all gone through what you are experiencing now & no matter how unbearable it seems, you will get through this & the light will shine in your life again. You’ll also see everything so much clearer in time & realise things are not as they seem now. Walks, podcasts, more walks & more podcasts.. just keep putting one foot in front of the other for now & try and catch yourself when you are ruminating over him/her and force yourself to change the frequency. May God give you the strength to endure 🙏🙏

[@Druid88]

@ Thank you for your kind words

[@hibbertsh]

He would mock me from another room and said some very indecent things to me. Some of these I cannot even repeat! Listening to this pod cast was what I needed to hear that this treatment is universal. There immaturity is jaw dropping.

[@TheDevineFempress]

Paula ….…. Narcissists try to imply you into self destruct mode…. Being able to love someone without wanting anything in return has been my biggest blessing… I do because I want to do good and spread love and joy in the world….wether you are willing to receive it or not has nothing to do with me …. Your intention in receiving also has nothing to do with me …..when your sense of self and self love are rooted in something higher… they can love you to day and leave you tomorrow… and you’re absolutely CERTAIN… it’s all still working out for your own good…

[@Gina-el8kn]

I had the most awful dream last night that my narcissist daughter hoovered me and I let her back in and I told her I thought we could work it out. No way this is going to happen, this morning I looked up when her college spring break was so I could know when she might hoover me. I'm prepared to simply say no if she knocked on the door. I still feel an emotional tie to her, but I refuse to allow her to abuse me and I no longer have any respect for her.

[@Carl-pq9vd]

Day after discard, me being homeless and alone in a foreign country, kicked out on foot in open country 4 miles from a village, at 4am, she sends me a message saying she had seen a house she was thinking of buying. You would have loved it she said, i hope you have a roof over your head. I had been supporting her for three years. Then the smear campaign began.

[@misshelly]

“I can’t take this!” when he said my “energy” changed after he brought up 2 other women “friends”. Apparently, I wasn’t allowed any reaction whatsoever

[@HeatherMarieee]

Paula 😂 you crack me up. (The flame in the screen) God bless you, sweet lady! Hi Remyyy 🐾❤️🐾

[@NarcCon]

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[@cherylgregory6027]

After gaining the knowledge about Narcissism, I knew exactly who I was dealing with when the Narc reappeared after almost 2 years. My hopes he'd changed were soon destroyed. The devaluing started after I began to challenge him. I was told he wasn't feeling anything for me, despite declaring love a few days prior. I wasn't aware of Narcissism when I experienced 2 previous discards. I now realise how completely disordered they are. You become the tortured soul trying to make sense of their behaviour, until you gain the knowledge. Even then it's still difficult to accept this is who they are. What a pointless, empty life they lead. Your book 'Weaponised Love' is of immense value in understanding Narcissism. It offers an in depth insight to this horrible disorder and importantly helps those of us who have suffered this abuse, to heal and move on from this devastating experience. Thanks Paula, great video as always. x

[@NarcCon]

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[@JH-td4mn]

Such a brilliant podcast, thank you. Totally agree that modern Western culture - where sleeping around and jumping from relationship to relationship when the going gets at all difficult - is seen as acceptable and "cool" - is morally dubious and downright dangerous when Narcissists are out there waiting to pounce.

[@kevinowens6010]

I had one Narc tell me that I dont exist. When I became successful, she came with the hoover some years later. She drove across five states to hear the words delivered from me. You dont exist. A door slammed in her face.

[@TheDevineFempress]

The only “tool” the narcissist could use as punishment was withdrawal. But, because the narcissist has always wanted me…. even to this day; the narcissist’s strategy involved having to turn the knifeeee onto himself- I am essentially at my core a good, kind loving person. Honesty and knowledge of self makes you the narcissists kryptonite. The want to destroy you … the more that they try and they fail, the more they say to themselves “ I MUST destroy this person l “

[@JESUSCHRIST91126ad]

Same story, God bless you and glad your doing great...

[@Latarniczka]

So relatable this episode. My experience during the sudden discard (after almost 20 years) while embarking on a new supply, among others (like "I wish I never met you"): "she (the new supply) is your greatest friend; she tells me to stop recounting your faults and how crazy you were." To cry or to laugh?

[@HanaPazdirkova]

Neither cry nor laugh! The hardest part of healing after narcissistic discard is to NOT CARE. Not care what they say, not care what they do, not care who they're with....just LET THEM. It's not easy but it's a wo deeful mindset. It liberates you to find pieces of who you were before they poisoned your mind. After 34 years and two kids I finally filed for divorce; it's not over by any means, and I still get hurt, AND it gets easier bit by bit. Hang in there; teach yourself radical acceptance, detachment, and indifference towards your abuser. Good luck!

[@Latarniczka]

@@HanaPazdirkova This actually is a wonderful tip and helps a ton! I am into the 6th year after discard, and still get shivers from memories. Thank you, fellow traveler:) and I wish you speedy healing too!

[@smartsurvival2605]

After 3.5 years, because I said i wanted to spend more time with him he snarled: "I don't love you, I'm not in love with you, I never loved you. You forced me into this relationship. I want to be single."...........yeah, so after the fact I discovered he was cheating. I don't even want to know about the smearing.

[@shantris4883]

Love to meet you Paula, your doing well 😊 thank you for the support 👍🏼💥🌹🕊️🌹✝️🕯️✝️ I love puppy he is so relaxed 😎 fire beautiful ❤️

[@kirkhogan2688]

Great podcast paula,as usual 👍 I did chuckle at the comments you mentioned! In my particular situation three days before the discard she told me she loved me, she had shocked me a few weeks before as she said she may of had cancer, and was going to have tests ( we had a brief holiday away) I was then told three days later that she didn't love me anymore and that I had " issues" and problems, but she didn't want to tell me what these were as there were so many to type or text me(triangulation)of,🤣🤣🤣🤣 I accepted the discard, no begging or chasing, We was getting married in new york and she also cancelled the holiday, I went no contact and was messaged a week later that although she didn't love me that we could still be "friends", I declined and said that that was what narcassist do!" WHATS WRONG WITH BEING CIVIL" her words. You are so right most of those points I had at times, I even got told that " I make her give me silent treatments and I make her block me! I'm looking forward to the smear campaign ,I'm sure I got it, but as she lives so far away and has made all her social media private it doesn't effect me!,thank god🙏 Only after nearly three years narc free do you actually see what is really going on! They are like spoilt brats, once your emotions go you see their motives so.much clearer!👍👍👍👍👍

[@saturdayschild8535]

It’s like they have a script. I used to chuckle when he claimed his ‘therapist’ said the horrible things coming out of his mouth. It’s absolutely devastating in the moment, but it’s so eye opening with some distance. This nastiness from them is the closure.

[@SteveH-u5w]

After a three year relationship tonight I had to phone the police to remove my narc partner due to her physical attacking me drunk and drugged. It’s about the forth time I’ve had to have her removed. She arrived once again accusing me of cheating, happened many times before. She’s stalked my property before believing I was in the house with another woman when I wasn’t. It’s like she goes in to a psychotic state. I’ve tried to leave her so many times but fail every time. I’m truly addicted although I know I need to walk away and know my physical and mental health are so poor. I’m 52 and I just can’t take it anymore. Im going no contact as my mind thinks of nothing else and have almost lost everything. Thanks for listening.

[@leonasweny1525]

Steve, you have to get her out of your life, they are sick people and nothing will change , she will make your life miserable. Normal people don’t act like that .Take it from someone who is married to one for 40 years , but not for much longer,as I’m breaking up relationship as the adult kids are now flying the nest . If that what it takes keep calling the police when necessary and get her barred from your house.

[@SteveH-u5w]

@leonasweny1525 thank you Yes I totally agree with your words and have tried so many times. In the first year I had boundaries which I stuck to but as I lost my career and self esteem due to her abuse and decline in my mental health it seems I have become conditioned to abuse which I now take as normal behaviour. She phoned me from a different number last night basically threatening me saying I either admit everything that happened last night was my fault or she will contact my sons mother and lie about me so I never see him again. I hang up and blocked. I need to take action and responsibility for myself and rebuild my life as well as continue the no contact but I find it so so hard to be consistent. Thank you again and I admire your strength which I know I have buried inside me. I just need to find it again.

[@EricNorthman-h2f]

He actually said " You should have known by the ring". He got me a cheap ring ..

[@jodigarland5234]

I REALLY needed to hear every single word of this today, Paula 💗 You are a real Earth Angel to me and I am beyond grateful for you. Almost 2 months out and I still need to listen to you every day, but my sleep is returning and I am starting to feel life come back in to me slowly. The emotional flashbacks of the BEST of times (like a movie ) and the WORST of times (like a horror film) take me out at the knees just when I think I am improving, but I know that I am improving. Just so blown away by how possessed by him I feel in my mind. A true dark energy indeed. You bring me such hope and strength 💞 God bless you 🙏 ❤️

[@JasonStone-m5i]

One best ways to avoid narcs is avoid all intentional liars. And follow 1 corinthians 5:9-11. Don't be one and don't be around them either

[@lucyLou-dt7do]

Mine was texting the new supply behind my back saying “he had a duty of care for me” That was another eye opener. Thank you again Paula.

[@Chazbro]

"I never thought I'd hurt you... I never thought I'd hurt you" ...meaning: "i didn't believe i would ever have to leave" but i didnt give in to future faking, or belittling my self esteem. She could never make me beg. Thank God I'm intact, and free!!!

[@maryoconnor2596]

They want to make you feel at your complete lowest. I get that relationships run their course. This is different. You have been treated appallingly yet they blame you for it!. Great video Paula

[@broadsworddannyboy5057]

My gf said - " she wanted a relationship with an adult - not a 16 yr old- she didn't want a serious relationship- after saying 1 day previously, l want to spend my new life with you and l love you -- then continued to call me a teenager- because l have a sense of humour-- I remained poker face as she looked for tears in my eyes -- immediately unfriended me on FB- next day blocked everywhere 😔😔 I am in shock -- this happened just before Christmas.. ..... I sensed she had a replacement lined up-- which made me numb --- l did everything for her and her two teenage kids 😔😔😔 - I am in my 50's She looked into my eyes to see if l had tears in my eyes.....l saw the real Mr Hyde face of my gf that night 😢- she is a covert narcissist 😢

[@kellyp4377]

This was banging on, and eye opening thank you Paula! I’ve been listening to you for a while, but this one really hit home. Especially when you said that they don’t attach to people they attached to things that they were never attached to you as a person…. Wow

[@TheDevineFempress]

They say they “had to” because of your…. Whatever.

[@Boyhowdy875]

Exactly, blame shifting. Unceasing excuses.

[@hilarybaines4744]

Thank you Paula brilliantly explained.

[@manuseal5983]

Lovely Lady...You are truly a Godsend!

[@lolachlih3136]

Excellent pod cast Paula they put blame on you for everything and believe thier own lies they say and call you demon or your evil list goes on thank you❤

[@gabrielleaumont3971]

Yes. Well observed, well said! I needed to hear that...AGAIN!

[@cindypowell8978]

Family narcissists say they are to support you but then get you upset when they are told they done something the mom at makes us feel uncomfortable. They call back after you hanging up on them as they made you so made that you give up to go calm down because of there nasty behaviour. Then they text you only that can be misunderstood by you. I am not perfect I come by my temper easily from this narcissistic behaviour. I even sat silent at social gatherings just watching these narcissistic people make fools of themselves to be show offs.

[@LadyofPeace89RO]

They desire to even be the center of attention at a funeral

[@cindypowell8978]

@ yes to show off to the others who are in attendance

[@cindypowell8978]

Even the moment I told them on Christmas Day that I have cancer the one narcissistic person came over to hug me to she support me but had been a holy horror to me more then ever. Then she pulled out the ace card to get all to say that i ruined Christmas as I walked away from the family to read my card I wrote down my diagnosis if I would cry in front of them all.

[@karlwieler9205]

Looking back I realize my Narcissist father-in-law coveted my success, accomplishments, my personality, my being. Early in my introduction to him I noticed how he would make it a point to mention when friends, neighbors, or even strangers would say something nice about me. Instead of saying that it was nice to hear from outsiders the nice things they had to say about his son-in-law, he would make a point to question me about the reference or statement as if I had put these people up to this as some sort of collective agreement or plan. Again being an empath these are things I wouldn't have cared to acknowledge but would have thought internally that's nice of them to say this about me. Sadly, I didn't realize that I was seeding my own demise as all comments of appreciation were the domain of my narcissist father in law and I was inadvertently putting a target on my back that would end with my personal and professional ruin.

[@TheDevineFempress]

They call you a “demon” or “evil”

[@EricNorthman-h2f]

I would NEVER take him back. I was tortured for years.

[@angeliquegeheim5784]

he says he always wanted to leave but i couldn't live without him, thats completely crazy for me, love from Nederland

[@texasaggieproud]

Very true

[@prueaddy-z3r]

Thank you for helping me truly understand who our country voted intoPresidency. Classic predictable danger. Other countries have these individuals, others do not. The U.S. is in lovebomb now heading to discard.

[@itschrissyinchrist]

I am watching all your videos. ❤

[@thomassen333]

You are so Good and so mutch fun. Tank you so mutch paula❤❤❤❤

[@jesusitrustinyou6900]

Remy is a good listener & smart. 😂

[@aaaalltheway9805]

Thank you ❤

[@jeannetteprice3820]

You're amazing Paula A mini review of your book, is it's like a bible as in one of the most important books everyone should read. It's your incredible podcasts on paper, brilliant.

[@NarcCon]

Wow, thank you Jeannette 🥰🐕

[@paysha7]

I remember agreeing with him just to keep the peace. Still didn't work. Another planet entirely.

[@hellenicstudentcommunity299]

Paula, good evening, I will tell you what I heard from the last words of a narcissist 1. "Our relationship is toxic" (with calm) 2. "I'm not into relationships" (calm) 3. "I have a higher religious purpose to fulfill" (asking you for sex and on the other moment no sex but they saying this? ..... 4. "You complete me sexually I don't but I don't want sex anymore because I have something higher to fulfill' 5. "it's all your fault" (with anger) 6. "I want stability" (and she changes houses and jobs every 1-2 years...) Can a narcissist make such admissions before they leave you; Finally after a year she decided to make her profile private after she unblocked me to see what I was doing and she saw that mine was also private (what the f...k) they copy paste everything the other person did in the relationship and after they leave you... I told her that she have narcissistic disorder and the next moment she posted an article on her profile about narcissism implying that I am the narcissist

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Good morning /afternoon happy Sunday Paula ,sweet peaceful Remy and everyone my father first discarded me and my siblings for 20 years he kept saying he will se our house and leave us he did and the narc spouse showed me he would discard me but I did it first to him.

[@TheDevineFempress]

My favorite retort “You’d sleep with a hat rack if it gave you attention”

[@xenatron9056]

She'd eat a shit sandwich only she doesn't like bread!!!!!!!

[@TheDevineFempress]

I’ve been a working performer since about the age of 5 because of that history I can truly detach from a person in love and grow on with my life. I trigger narcs …. The only way the narc was able to infiltrate my mind for a time was by bringing 2 large 🔫🔫 and being sure to sit them out without my knowledge so that I would discover them. That was the only thing that affected me …. But when the narc started hoovering and threatening and ref those 🔫🔫 I thought “this man is an idiot” …. What manner of criminal would threaten you in writing and reference a 🔫 a stupid one …. Like who does that “yes officer… I threatened her via text” 😂😂😂 stupid people annoy me …. Generally because they think you are dumb because you don’t know their tactics

[@angeliquegeheim5784]

it cost me 50 years and he told me he always walk on eggs and he run away with the words Dy, haven't heard from him for 3 years, he is the devil himself 🙏

[@FoxSleeping]

With a narc….you are their previous smartphone. They came across the Apple Store, impulsively bought a new one and you are just gross now. Don’t worry, that shiny new best of the best new iPhone will get discarded next year.

[@irisjasmincook6918]

Mine didn't talk anymore. But requested. He was cold as ice and I was shut out. Attention shifted to his child instead. He left with things he's done to me that should have ensued a criminal investigation. The next day....he just said I don't love you anymore and I don't care. That's it. I filed for divorce and I escaped

[@berenicegalilea]

The only thing you have to accept is that you have been living with a person who is very seriously mentally ill this whole time. He has (they have) a personality disorder. He doesn't know who he is. He cannot live in relationships and take responsibility for the effect of his choices. Accept that it was a mistake, a lie, a joke. ~ Much God's protection☀🌼

[@kristinemcmahon8591]

Thank you for all you explain Have you ever done a video w coparenting with a npd ?

[@mac-ju5ot]

Thr narcsiistict person always has to get in the last word. It's been like dealing with my sister in law who calked three days after my dad passed away to ask if they were in the will

[@lisamartinali4545]

Total clown show 🤣 mind-blowing stuff should be locked up

[@jennifergancecoaching4819]

The 12-20% the "experts" say are out there is another lie (can't remember exact#). I would say most are these days and only about 20% are actual humans with empathy. We, as humans, are getting rarer is my experience. I keep a list of people I have to have in my life do to work, neighbors, etc. and put them on a list of safe and not safe people and I adjust my behavior and contact with them accordingly. They only need to show me who they are once.

[@cathysmith4372]

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[@jodiemccoy8892]

Hi Paula , I keep watching your fire and the wicker basket I'm sure it's probably just the camera angle but it looks a bit close if a spark shoots out 🫣