No. I left my narc. He couldn't keep a job and used dr#gs. We had a son, nice house, vehicles, motorcycles, and everything we could want. Some people are never happy. He did leave me mentally though. I don't think he cares. He's renting a room from an older lady now.

@Narc Con I'm wondering if ya have contact details, I can get some advice from ya?

You disengage with them. Talk to other people who listen. They will never listen.

I went through this! She was my neighbor, & she made my torture her reason to live. She was extremely experienced. Unfortunately my only resolution was to move away. Luckily, a woman & her teenager moved into my former unit. I say "luckily" because this new tenant has a witness living there! Harder to torture & stalk 2 people than 1. At least I escaped. Thanks 4 the vital support through this ordeal that I received from your truthful & informative videos, Ms Paula. Buenos Dias from Colorado.

Yeah, just walk away from them they will never understand and turn from their ways.

Sure sounds like our current Prime Minister Trudeau, he is the top of the narcissist clan, soon to go down in the greatest defeat of any PM in Canada.

Narcissist HATE being ignored.😂 I tried it on a narcissist for the last week, it makes the person pout, and confused.... its so fun to watch😂

I THINK SILENCE & NO CONTACT IS GOLDEN. I DIVORCED. "LOST" MY FAMILY. GOOD RIDDANCE TO HER.😊

That is exactly what happened to me. At first, because of my pain, I agreed. The friendship lasted two days. I came to my senses and asked myself why I would be friends with someone that caused me so much pain.

Outside of your knowledge you just have such a caring presence. You were made to heal the nations. Very cool. Thanks!

So accurate to my experience. They are not present. I am analytical but still never denied the darkness of being raised and also married to narcissists. The difficulty in describing all my experiences is alone a huge testament to the demonic forces involved. They all used religion in the most radically evil ways because of their ability to abuse in plain view of others who can’t see it. And God forbid you have to be in court with them. I was, for 9 years. It’s beyond devastating.

I spent 14 years with a narcissist, he finished me, financially, in health (he “marked” me, making it impossible to begin another relationship). Everything you’ve said here I lived through. I worked very hard and all the money he put in the stock market and lost it in a week, the IRS flagged us and got audited; and left me with a debt. I got in a car accident and broke my neck because he was “drunk”. Was not at my side, ran away from the accident scene..and I still went back to him because I thought no man would accept me because he made sure to “mark me” with a std. I went through hell. Finally left him, I live peacefully now. When I look back I think HOW DID I SURVIVE with a one year old baby. Believe me Jesus carried me on his shoulders.😢🙏

The simple and overall answer is that you must render the narc, completely irrelevant... nothing they say can have any kind of hold or impact on you.

I think people are scared to stand up to, or say anything until after their death, then the truth of their character comes out!

Narcissism not taught in schools and colleges. Most people think its a word for someone who's big headed/vain. If people become more educated on NPD then we might start questioning people at the top !

You have described to a t what happened to me. I don't think they have a heart or at least a good one. She is now treating my 3 sons if possible even worse than me. God help anyone in this situation .

Allies. Narcissistic People need to Vent,Lie,Accuse....To Others, about Others,To Gain Back that Manipulative Energy. My Mother In Law uses her Adult Children & Anyone Else she can Spew Her Lies & Fantastical Stories & Bullsh*t upon. What I don't understand is the people who full well know that She is a Narcissist, A Liar,A Constant Manipulator & Instigator....These People Actually Listen to her & take her word as gospel.... I can't be Around Any of Them.

Amen

Excellent - thanks Paula and a wonderful NY 2025 to you and everyone here. Live in the light x💕🙏

This was AMAZING!!THANK YOU and happy new year to you both. ♥

My personal demon was so nice and weak to collapse (discard me with silly arguments) in front of me after only three months of would-be love that together with the amazing youtube videos explaining narcissists I understood quickly what had been happening. There is no demon if you see through them. But kudos to all who loved a narcissist for a year or more, I can imagine the trauma bond. Mine was too weak or naive thinking I would beg or something and/or I was too educated to be fooled any further.

Gang Stalking. Waiting for justice.

Are Narcs Human ?- or are they a parasite that latches on to Humans and lives off Humans ?

Agreed

My ex wife Cathy

Destroying other people’s lives is what makes them get up in the morning. It’s what they live for! Scary!

My narcissistic gf broke up with me on 12th December after telling me she loved me and wanted to spend a new life with me - even said she did not want me as a friend- I remained calm and was in shock - I am totally shocked and traumatised by what she did - she was Ukrainian too and I saw a different person.....the mask had fallen.....

SHE NEVER CHANGED DONT THINK SHE NEVER REALLY TRIED !! 34 YEARS WITH COVERT !! THEY DONT CHANGE !

Recently, mine committed federal crimes by using an ex-Jehovah’s witness (like Michael Jackson). Beware that being “out” of a cult is usually a front for someone who is still mind kontrolled! We all know Whitney & Anna Nicole confessed Christ in public, yet, where are they now?

Im getting gangstalked by a bunch of narcissistic low lives lol😂

Vengeance is Gods not mine so your suggestion is great ❤

Sadly so, I totally agree. I was married for 32 years before having the foresight & nerve to leave because he never would. But the intimacy feeling was always a feeling of objectivity- I felt I had to perform & felt shame for how o felt, always feeling it was my problem.

i need a buddy program i am in mt

Awww, puppy is just fine...❤ Thank you for the videos!

Transactional. Narcissists when you pull your head out of the relationship and can step back, you’ll see how everything boils down to a transaction you do you get you give to receive. Everything has a purpose to them, about them for them. My ex’s top love language was “acts of servitude” although he never appreciated any of what was done for him and criticized everything but still wanted it done. It makes disgusting sense now why that’s his primary love language because it’s servitude control and a transaction. They do not understand love as an emotion. It s about payment

They don’t leave - God removes them from your life & your soul. You CANNOT be free without God. You cannot “just get rid of them” like the fleas that they are. I prayed for deliverance & protection! You cannot sleep with a legion of demons (for years) without getting fleas (or bed bugs). You cannot ”do this” without the Lord’s protection and guidance. Psalm 91. ❤🙏🏼

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100% correct. It’s definitely evil spirits.

Are they happy during the lovebombing phase ? She seems to live her Best live ever, she Even told me NOW she meet the good one …

Happy new year paula. Keep doing your videos they help those who have suffered and those who continue to suffer. X

Yes and so subtle with no limits on what they are capable of.

After ten words i clicked to next video

At 22:35 there is a white orb that travels to the right top of the screen. It travels straight and then makes a point of its existence with a happy loop. Paula you are speaking about the “hologram” relationship. The fake relationship. Your videos and others like Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Ramani, The Royal We, Dr. Myles Monroe, Narcdaily, narcabusecoach, and many more have saved my soul and my life. Ending my current 38 year (35 year marriage). It’s been a long and stressful journey but within days if signing the SA agreement. My eyes are open now and I have accepted the situation. Thank you for your videos. And Remy sleeping in the background warms my heart. I look forward to what you have to say.

Thank you, i really needed to hear this x

I agree with you completely....there is a EVIL behind these people....they would kill and destroy you without any thought or responsibility!!! Love and Light ALWAYS WINS!!! BLESSINGS PAULA 💜💜💜

🙏 Thank you for this brilliantly accurate, insight piercing and well articulated analysis, and for the most authentic and heartwarming delivery-with your beautiful dog snoozing in the background 🩷 I have lived through, and thankfully survived this, and every word you say here is my experience and truth. He was one of satan’s finest. It broke me, and yet I overcame it, and now the light of Christ is present more than ever within me and in my every now. God bless all who encounter such tests, it’s an almighty and immense challenge on every level-not least for the soul. I believe it’s possibly the hardest battle we face in this realm. Love and faith to all here and across all time, space, dimensions and realities where these forces exist in an attempt to bring us to our knees and forsake our light to the darkness. For all those that lost the battle our prayers are with you 🙏 and for those yet to face such challenges may you be protected and guided throughout this trial until you overcome too. Strength and courage is required to battle these demons, remove yourself as soon as possible through awareness brought about by such helpful channels as this, but of course I know it’s not so simple. Rebuke these entities in the name of Jesus. I’m not religious but I believe in Christ consciousness and I know there is a spiritual battle at play. If I can do you can too. Pray, revoke and bring in the light. Educate yourself, learn to love yourself, let go of it all and let god take care of your healing ❤️‍🩹

True, true, true.

So affirming Paula to hear you say, “why do they HATE you?”. Your messages always delivered with so much spirit of empathy to the community to heal and protect. My narc has other traits to share for those whose narcs who use a different form of cruelty. Mine only wants attention and someone to listen to him talk about himself and his dream job. We don’t live together but live in the same neighborhood. 9 year relationship. He wants me to get emotional support from other people. I have lost my 3 primary support people thru death since August 2024 and have no family left. He abandoned me for 4 months then came back saying he could not be distracted from work. How sick. Contacted me at Christmas knowing I had no one and after me ignoring weeks of Hoovers finally agreed to see him at Christmas. Loved bombed for 4 days during Christmas now accusing me of “being too mich” “people need space” “you need to get involved in other things “. I’m 73 and worked in corporate banking til. I was 70. I am very active he just doesn’t want to be with me except to be available to talk on the phone to listen to him. Says he has no friends to listen to him. Of course not! First 5 years he was ALWAYS present and available. Always at my house. Lived with me during COVID. Every thing changed when he lost his job for 2 years. Now has his dream job. I live in Manhattan so not isolated and active but have no support of friends or family who have all passed. Cancer and COVID and am no longer working for 3 years now. There are no other women. Too much work for him to get new supply and his home is a disgrace. He rents and I own my home no mortgage. He loves hanging out in my beautiful home and said at Christmas how much he missed being in my home with its stunning views of the Hudson River. Never approach’s me for sex, never shows any desire at all. Relates to me like a platonic friend. All this to share for the community other styles of abuse. Thank you Paula.

Unless you have been around one- a parent, relative, romantic partner You just wont understand They are demonic-1000%

During a huge fight, through the chaos and insults he yelled "u have no self respect" and it dawned on me... He was right