WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?? Acting More Like A Girlfriend As A Wife 💕

[@bumploveug]

Learning to embrace the role of a girlfriend rather than a wife will shift the dynamics of your relationship, focusing on fun and freedom. What this often means is embracing the lighter, more carefree aspects of being in a relationship. It’s about enjoying new experiences together without the weight of heavy expectations or long-term responsibilities. Grab a drink and let's show some love on this new episode! Follow the conversation on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @bumploveug Shout out to our amazing glam teams for these amazing looks! MANUELA'S GLAM; Wardrobe: Cadia Fashion House Make Up: Tina Brows Hair: Zuri Uganda BEVERLEY'S GLAM; Make up by Bella Zuri. Hair: Short natural hair by Bev BARBARA'S GLAM; Make Up: The Sununu Effect Wardrobe: David Kabenge Jewellery: The SN Store Hair: Viluxe Beauty #bumplove #wifelife #marriage

[@namisieria3864]

Thank you, ladies. we are just months in marriage, but we watch you, and we enjoy your talk show.God bless you

[@jora002]

Is bump love being aired on 31st on November, been waiting 😂

[@RonahNatumanya]

Manuela's look today is so so amazing💃💃.... The hair and makeup woww🥰🥰🥰

[@sarahrubereti5868]

Very onpoint. I love all these awesome ladies and the well-thought episoseds.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Thank you so much for the compliment and for watching

[@rosiealways1082]

Yes those shades of makeup look really great on her

[@manuelap.mulondo]

It's actually TinaBrows that did this makeup look and in particular, Fatmaz_looks is the makeup artist that worked on me

[@rosiealways1082]

@ we love Fatmaz_looks, she knows your complexion

[@amanyadusk4692]

Companionship is two WHOLE people coming together to compliment each other. Thank you Babra👏👏

[@lornatwins9944]

Am here waiting for part two where you invite men to tell us how they keep the spark in their marriage 😊

[@ceciliamwebaza9377]

Because it's fly day😂😂❤❤❤❤ to us who comment before watching even one minute 😅😅

[@anonnona6433]

Men and women are conditioned differently from childhood when it comes to relationships, sex and marriage. Men are told to make money 💰 and everything else will fall in place. No one tells them to have decorum, to be nice and polite, to be virgins, to clean after themselves etc. No one ever asks a man to behave well lest he fails to get a spouse. Girls on the other hand, ooops.....like someone pointed out, in some of our cultures, the girls are literally initiated into wifehood and during that period, you are told to do A, B, C, D...Z lest you lose your man. As the girl is being hammered with all these things, the man is living his best life without a care in the world . Even if he fails to provide, the pressure will still be put on the woman, to do something about it, to massage his ego, to wake up and pray, to be long suffering and keep her marriage. Etc. I have never heard anyone tell a man to wake up at 3 am to pray for his marriage 🤔

[@sunshineheaven1802]

Ladies ladies, gorgeous as ever. We have to comment as we watch so that we do not forget points 😅. I am as literal as Beverley! I like being intentional with the things I say and do, but simplicity signifies the magnanimity of the soul. Simplicity really does it mostly. I am neither a plant person nor a pet person. I could be responsible for either as an obligation if I had to tend to them, but out of my will, I would not have either at the moment. Maybe that will change someday. Love for me is an action/doing word that puts me in a position that I would want to give every good thing to others the same way I would want to receive it. To make a person feel better. Unbelievably, I read the Bible and I somehow skip Songs of Song...I deliberately avoid it yet I am a certified lover of love, I believe in good love. Older love and mature love are about companionship. I no longer want butterflies, I need stability, I need reassurance, and affirmation. I now value compatibility and chemistry. We can do things together more often than not; we can stay attractive spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. Not easy but that is the work to put in. Adaptability is a bonus! I loveeeeeeeeeeee Dr. Myles Munroe's teachings on a lot of things, but especially on character and advantages of singlehood.💃 I am not going to repeat what Beverley has said, I just will put it on repeat and say louder, please; embrace your wifely persona, you are a powerhouse. You are a powerhouse in every element. Embrace stages, embrace stages, respect stages. Eh, all good points on this one. To the lady who wrote in sorry sorry, you will be okay since you are seeking solutions; take time and listen in on the episodes of the reality check channel, to heal traumas and work on yourself. see also the good wife channel and see how Ben and Racheal Mwine, with another couple, navigate the narrative of provision, different personalities, and how they show up in love and family dynamics, a more effective way to communicate with men. We see things differently. All the best. Proverbs 17:2 ''A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.'' kzbin.info/www/bejne/fqO6k6dvmctgjLMsi=Yecdz7KQ1Aj-z2zd kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHepYqiCbNede5Ysi=nZ070hOTVf-lSWDl

[@KomanaKTetteh_KokazTreatz]

39:26 some wives switch from girlfriend to wife mode immediately after marriage because of some of the traditional lessons they go through. I’m from Zambia and mostly, few months before marriage, older ladies are brought in to teach you about marriage. After that process, I’ve heard some men complain that their wives changed so much and they don’t even know who they married anymore. Most of The lessons are good, but we have to learn how to choose what applies to the men we are married to

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Hello Hello. Same culture here in central Uganda. We hv so much in common

[@anonnona6433]

I can imagine. Meanwhile the men do not under go any initiation ceremony. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@KomanaKTetteh_KokazTreatz]

@@anonnona6433 and the same men that women claim they are doing it for are saying they don’t like it 😂 yet women continue to convince themselves that if they don’t do it, their marriages will be unsuccessful

[@KomanaKTetteh_KokazTreatz]

@@martharinebiseko1457 wow 🤩 good to know

[@anonnona6433]

@@KomanaKTetteh_KokazTreatz 😂😂😂😂😂 I think they like it only that they want their wives to have both sides 😂😂😂😂😂😂more like eating your cake and having it too 😂

[@brendadawa4165]

To add on Beverly's list of types of love. There is also storge. It's the love for siblings, children and family members. Thanks for the show. ❤

[@ten06659]

Mr. Mulondo is so lucky to hv u Maneula..yo so pretty 😍

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Awwwwwwwwww thank you

[@rahmakomuntu2911]

Mukwano also she is also lucky to have him too

[@toinimwandingi5188]

Manuel ship that wig to Namibia… you are glowing… well done Mr Mulondo… your wife is giving

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Awwwwwwwwww thank you

[@irenenamusu6361]

I love the simplicity of the definition Beverly gave..serving another with the heart

[@nabawanukagorreth2981]

The jazz of taking care of the plant... not just as plant but a living thing sunk in my heart...I love it

[@dearwoman783]

Actually I believe when we love people truly, we should be in position to evolve with them. I understand for us women we see potential in our men, that's why we are willing to accept a man who has nothing to his name but has the potential. We see what they are able to achieve. But men on the other hand see what is standing before them. That's why they struggle with accepting us when we evolve. However, the best part would be loving the inner person (inner beauty) because even when we change physically, the inner person usually remains. Also let's love ourselves first because when we are in love with ourselves, there's a happiness that radiates from within that keeps us glowing/attractive.

[@Nambozobev]

Great submission

[@fortunatemars262]

For the lady who asked for advice, I also think she should do some of the things for herself that she expects from the man. It takes away pressure from the man to be the "kamala byona". If she loves flowers, she can order weekly flowers for the home. If she loves gifts, she can purpose to buy herself something on a monthly, etc. Then she can also initiate some romance and see how he responds. Schedule dates and he will show up and pay, and be content with that fact without being bothered that it isn't him who planned the date. Plan vacations, etc.

[@brendanakajju7021]

I can't stop laughing at Bev's 'choose your next words carefully '... Manuela didn't listen 😂

[@MutesiMariam-ct4tl]

In my experience, I think love is selflessness, it's goodness, it's forgiveness, it's everything you ladies have shared and much more, it's indeed the Greatest of them all😊

[@rachaelnabukko4358]

Thanks for the show ladies, to our Dm, mom just as Barbara, explained first find healing, discover the wounds inside of you. If he isn't being romantic probably that's all he knows, take the lead give him those surprises, and lower your expectations from him

[@asiolydiaomiat7518]

I love you all, ladies. This Bump love 2.0 is amazing.

[@mbambujuliet7456]

Bev even before u had said what u do i har already credited u for being a good speaker this is amazing i love the accent

[@ssenkumbahope5332]

Great show. So many insights! And you're all looking glamorous

[@AminaChilo]

This episode has truly been an answered prayer thank you ladies love from🇰🇪

[@begumisarachael5364]

Being a wife is beautiful thanks Bev

[@Agatha-m9k]

Manuella you look soo good. I love the hair and make up. Barbara you look soo bright

[@sharonosile8503]

A big thank you to the three beautiful and awesome ladies that sacrifices a lot to make every Friday a blessing to me.I love you❤ Beverly you are amazing and I look forward to meet you one day....your energy is something else 🤦😅much love from Kenya🇰🇪

[@racheallaker8849]

Manuela's facial expression when Beverly said i like hibiscus tea😂😂😂😂😂, more of like waaat ,how banaye Beve😂😂😂

[@bumploveug]

😂

[@manuelap.mulondo]

I love me some Beverley. 🤣😂

[@KibetengaAlice]

Today's Manuela's expression was everything for me 😂😂I love you so much ladies

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Loving you right back

[@manuelap.mulondo]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@BabiryeFatuma-r2p]

Have been following bumplove since 2020 .every bump love topics work well for me . Am just grateful for everything Though i don't comment regularly .my goal is to change my life bse of your inspiration

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Now that you have commented, don't stop

[@toinimwandingi5188]

Love is acceptance of who the person is and choosing to love them.. yet correcting them to be better version of themselves

[@wujjaleticia6580]

Manuela ate up this look … whole concentrating on her

[@AbrahamDantieShelvey]

I love the way Barbara striked the balance ," there are also men who are afraid of their wives"

[@samalienamugga4453]

Ladies all your options 👏🏾Thank you all!

[@benadettepatriciaiyeset4396]

The way you guys were on standby 😂nways Friday has finally kicked off 😊ladies you all look lovely 🎉❤

[@preciousmoryn5583]

Wow Thanks Manuela 41:38 Let’s embrace whatever stage a woman is facing at the moment😍

[@apio100]

I love my fridays. haven't been commenting alot but always looking forward to you beautiful ladies.

[@AijukaCaroline-j5e]

Ohhh my God this show is always on my waiting list 😭😩😩😊 thank you ladies for inspiring women 😊

[@dinahB]

I feel calm, the supervisor at my work place who was putting me on un necessary pressure resigned last week, woohoo 👏👏,I'm taking myself for a treat on Wednesday

[@mbogoglad2078]

I was in relationship literally courtship for two years in kiyumba but when I went back to uganda I asked the guy to help me with 300k,coz I used to help him with 1m+ whenever he ran to me not knowing I was kidding he went silent till now 😂that showed me he doesn't want responsibilities and by the time I asked him that money I had went back abroad without him knowing. So to me love is caring, supporting each other

[@EstherTusubira]

😂😂😂😂

[@Nambozobev]

You're safe now

[@brendadawa4165]

Wow, I have finally discovered the real reason we separated and he didn't want to work things out having been in a long distance relationship for 5 years. Him being a borderline narcissist aside, when I moved to Kampala, I realized that we had different relationship goals and that I was being treated not the way I wanted to. He had fallen in love with my naive self who could easily be manipulated and used. But then, I'd become woke and more aware of my worth as an individual because I've always been a person who wanted career growth and he knew that. However, I was not pursuing my goals fervently I just settled for the fact that he never supported any of my dreams. And that is the version of me that he knew, so finally when I started to take action on my goals, knowing better, being more assertive, he fell out of love with me.

[@tamarachewetu7907]

The wisdom here is phenomenal

[@nahwerahope7402]

Thanks so much for this talk the way I found out my husband has girlfriend and I was battling with stress and depression yet am pregnant. This taught me how stand move embrace the ring I have and be me grow brow and I feel I it wake me up to finish the wife I am 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉thanks ladies for showing me the way wow

[@kaitulillian5794]

Kati when bervely said hibiscus....😂the look on Manuel's face 😅

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Hehe

[@mollymusoki6341]

Loved this episode❤, thank you amazing people, the examples were amazing

[@joan77]

Thank loves for this episode. I related so much with manuela's take on keeping the fire.

[@massiekatende-lubuuka1433]

Glad to see you ba dear. I love the topic today. Manuella you look extra amazing today.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Thank you so much

[@justinenansimbe3341]

Thanks ladies. It's a beautiful discussion. Thanks Barbra for stressing two complete people coming together to complement each other.

[@doreenalicenambi]

First to comment from Nkumba 😂..i can never forget my first plant, I was so excited , filled with love, posted it every where,called myself a plant mom..i couldn’t wait for the journey, i wanted to do all those lovely things Bev was saying.. gave it a name ..long story short it dried up in a few days 😔..little did I know the time required to matain it was too much for me ( I travel like 3-4 times a week)..please guys which type of plants don’t require attention..i would love to try again

[@bendealice6538]

Manuela's facial expression when Bev says cactus and Hibiscus tea is the real deal. 😂😂😂

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Omuwala Beverley 🤣😂😅

[@habibahkulthum4304]

​@@manuelap.mulondo😂😂😂😂

[@elynajohn1079]

You looked amazing ladies. Indeed what has love got to do wit it? so insightful listening to your nuggets as usual

[@cheroolilian6582]

This topic is mine Thanks ladies

[@dinahB]

Right, I talk to my flowers while watering them😂😂, I always say that I want them to grow healthy and attractive

[@ConquererAnita-ns7qu]

My experience is good. I address the issue immediately, whether hes not happy or not. I heal when i spik out, then pray about it, i also love to be corrected .

[@daphinedash2704]

I really enjoyed today's topic and especially the advice shared with the bump lover. Please let's have more advice sessions. Thanks for the show❤

[@carolineoyugi310]

Bev, I remember when you told us the reason why you love cactus. The one that promised her flowers, please get her.😂😂😂😂 I love you guys, you are super stunning. Yeah, classical music works perfectly on plants. With love from Kenya.

[@BlessedLoved-t1y]

Better late than never 😂😂😂 love is loving here.

[@RachelKing-rh4kh]

Manuela talk to your plant,your face through the whole plant talk😂😂😂😂

[@sashamoureen9598]

Banange that lady spoke my mind, a man who provides and for him everything is done. But as a lady you don’t have any emotional support from him, no spiritual security, no romantic care. It’s really exhausting.

[@atumanyafaith3350]

The ladies all look fabulous ❤

[@BabraFaithAkullo]

Bev your energy is giving ❤ The transformation in that marriage has to start from that lady . Actually let her start gifting the flowers 🌹 and so on not waiting for the romance.

[@neldalimilimi4648]

This has been an insightful program. Thanks bump love. I can't wait to get my man jealous. I will come back to tell stories here one day.

[@AturoRebecca]

Iam fine and its good to be here...cant wait to learn from you today

[@mammyafrikaaccessories]

banange iyam always watching from Abuja, but juggling a lot to commentiii oooo lol love love you all POWER LADIES ♥♥♥

[@tshyllah]

Bevvvvvvv. Your submissions🤩🤩🤩

[@nursinghappiness]

Love is choosing me regardless 😊

[@lambdakelly5513]

Wow ladies you are all looking amazing

[@leticianamazzi473]

Beautiful episode.. thankyou ladies.

[@nagawaprilla171]

I love you very much miss Bev😂😂😍😍keep him jealous

[@adultspurpose]

haha...laughing at the way Manuella just said let's move on when Bervely said we sing and polish our plant leaves

[@manuelap.mulondo]

She had finished me

[@aureliayuktankabebwa5066]

I am enjoying all of these from 🇹🇿

[@wellnessbysylvia]

i thought there was a new guest today, turns out to be Manuela. You look lovely, also Bev and Barbra❤ 😅❤Sending love from Kenya.

[@rytahkarema5488]

Barbra

[@wellnessbysylvia]

@rytahkarema5488 yeees...🙈🤩

[@bendealice6538]

I thought so too.

[@dorcusmbabazi1119]

me to

[@ebituesthergrace113]

Me too

[@imokarol-jc3hf]

Nice one abt plant care Henceforth going to tok to my plants always Thx Bev for this tip

[@fortunatemars262]

Leaf care 🤣 Naye Bev... Just like Manuela, I have failed to take care of plants and yet I love them so much.

[@monicaagena3025]

Love is kind, respectful, caring...

[@penny36]

I love your looks today ladys ❤❤❤ especially Mrs Mulondo 🎉🎉🎉

[@doreeningabire3138]

Manuel’s look is everything….That wig is 😘😘 You looked so beautiful mama…

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Thanks hun

[@mercellina-ce2fx]

Wow. I will start polishing my plants. I really love them

[@farahkimera9376]

First here again, hello ladies, watching you from Rwanda,Kigali

[@bumploveug]

Good morning, enjoy the episode ❤

[@hopeakello3685]

As a Ride with the Mulondo pioneer, I see Manuela guilty about carrying issues to holidays 😂😂😂 Thanks ladies for the show

[@fatumahkirabo1758]

Oooh thanks for the show ladie 👏👏👏👏

[@Viola_ug]

At this point ladies, I have no excuse to have for a dysfunctional marriage or relationship. You have out done yourselves and have given us all the tools we need to either make it or realize it ain't worth it. Thanks

[@kiraboneema808]

My dear... Marriage takes 2.. no matter how perfect u are but your husband hasn't got a the good training the marriage might be dysfunctional

[@janerose5068]

U are so smart ladies ❤.Bev I also like hibiscus tea is the one of my favourites.

[@royalgates23]

Me am still learning in this topic of Love Thank you for this insightful conversation Bump Love 🎉🎉

[@WinnifredMusoki]

Talking to plants for me😁😁😁😁still wondering learning new things

[@imokarol-jc3hf]

Chase within the ring indeed Thx Manuela-very insightful

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Bless you

[@mildredkembabazi2208]

❤❤❤ this episode has been pretty nicer.🎉

[@AshleyAlobo]

first of all i love the set up

[@solomeamakobe5507]

I hear God doesn't say "oyo namumaze...anti tawulila"😂😂😂😂 you have made my night ladies...

[@CatherineKizza-i5q]

Thank you bump love for this great session. Am at a point of knowing love by first of all understanding and recieving Gods love. I relate with the woman who sent a DM. Been married for over 10yrs but with background of childhood trauma & raised by mom. I thought i would receive tender love from spouse but instead tough love! I so fear him so cant be vulnerable. Cant say much coz i have always been told not to talk! What is love?

[@lamunujoann3594]

Hey ladies thank you so much for the show always looking forward to every Friday. I am in my early 20s and every time I watch the show I feel like I am getting manual to life before I get there. Thank you so much. Please shade light to dating and relationship for people born in the years of 2000 and😂😂 we are struggling out here it seems almost impossible to believe in love anymore the principles like faithfulness we have seen our parents uphold seem impossible to achieve with us. Kindly advise. Thank you so much for blessing our fridays

[@jackiezcribbabycenter6168]

Ladies, you are glowing

[@AinebyoonaUditah]

Love You Ladies ❤️❤️❤️😘

[@nakibirigebrendahjoyce3707]

you have just hyped up my love mood ❤❤❤

[@ikuretpatience6782]

Naye Manuela, you just wanted us to comment while seeing naye Era we have 😂😂😂. Weldone, ladies.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Well done

[@golyatamary5782]

Waoooohhhhhh, now when it comes to ❤️, i feel a sense of belonging because i love love i.e loving and being loved afterall GOD IS LOVE,i wish we all knew this. However, love to me is effort of understanding someone with their strength and flaws,considering someones feelings and being responsible of someone's happiness. Love is sacrifice,tolerance and endurance in a good way. NB:its a two way action and is mutual,reciprocation is key. Love can be learned the way they want to depending on their love language❤. Understand is the main gig for me here. Love is so sweet,for it covers a multitude of sins. Surprisingly love begins from inside yourself then spread because you can't give what you don't have,love youself so much and feel it,then give and spread to them.Thank you lovely ladies,we are blessed having you here@another home. Happy weekend ❤🎉.

[@namutebimukasanissen9916]

I love how the young think 60 is old! When you get there, you will realize what’s on the inside does not change.

[@anonnona6433]

I can imagine. When I was a teenager, 30 yr olds looked soooooo old to me. Here I am feeling and looking younger with each passing year 😂

[@nakibuukastella9925]

Hahahahaha. Me here at 33 and girl..... I am "twenie fine". Tolina nakyongamba I swear. In fact I love myself more in my thirties than ever before.

[@anonnona6433]

@@nakibuukastella9925 It keeps getting better for real 😇😇

[@LynnetIkomo]

This is the look is so wooowwwwwooo

[@natukundatumusiime8437]

No vanish (that we can see) or nail extensions for any of the ladies. Bravo

[@TheKingsGuard-c6g]

Manuella was caught off guard with the plant care routines. 😂

[@winnienambejja904]

Barbra❤❤

[@ritahkedi4863]

I shall maintain the girl friend outlook....taking notes!

[@zaweddevictoria5172]

ahh Bev am with you on that coffee and being awake its like a proper sleeping pill...