What's the Difference Between a Bad Boy and a Player?

[@yourfuturedocburenbeiya]

She never even let the guy speak!! That's what's wrong with females!! They don't listen. SMDH

[@jlyzntf729]

Why does that women has to ALWAYS cut people off!!!!!😡

[@norm1815]

Cause she is an insecure skinny lil BITCH

[@Jackie-qu4jk]

Julie Zhou I know it's so irritating

[@because0011]

She's right A player wants u to be good to him A bad boy tells you where he stands

[@cmtp33]

I love the concept of the male panel but I hate how Bethany cuts them off. Like he said "I am a man your not, I know how we think" men sometime arent rational but its nice to see where they are coming from. But how can we if she is cutting them off every 2 secs

[@Carissa99Xo]

That guy's problem is that he desperately wants to be a bad boy, but doesn't even freaking know what it truly means.

[@BlueSky-qv7cd]

Being a bad boy is just an attitude, and being a player is what that attitude gets you in regards to relationships.

[@Jackie-qu4jk]

If you're gonna ask questions about MEN, let the MAN in the room explain. Obviously women are curious about the difference between these two kind of men, but when an actual man tries to explain you cut him off and listen to the women bcuz she dated one. If the point was to share your experiences with those men, why bring the guy up there just to warm a seat and watch the women rant about their guy troubles? If you want answers and don't want to make the same mistakes, shut the hell up and listen when you have a chance to hear from a MAN talk about other MEN. women can only give their side of the story. Just like we know how women work more than men do, they know how men work more than we do. It's so irritating to watch her bring people on the show just to interrupt them and get her point across.

[@ChaoticButterfly]

Seriously? Having dated and being engaged to a "bad boy," I have to agree with him, and he should've been allowed to talk. Bad boys usually _love_ women, at least in my experience. They can be hard to lock down, but if you manage to do it, they can be wonderful. T-T Players like easy-access vaginas.

[@ckreeses13]

How can she be so sure he's wrong if she never lets him say anything?!

[@BGriff-]

This is why people will never learn. They already have all the damn answers. Why is this guy even on the show?

[@AdjowaaGrace]

Seriously so annoying!! would loved to hear him talk!

[@martha9938]

She Nailed it!!

[@ken9566]

the host keeps cutting them off....who hurt you

[@BGriff-]

Who nailed it? The guy who we didn't let answer or the woman who was allowed time to complete her thought (and I completely agreed with and already told her that she nailed it)? HMMMM Tough one.

[@freshangel1]

Nah - *she nailed it* The player is sweet and sensitive and unfortunately doing it to not just you but other women too, the bad boy treats you bad and you take it because some people don't know their self worth or actually self-loathe. The former buys you perfume and chocolates brings it over and tells you _"something came up"_ therefore he has to leave you unexpectedly for the 5th time in a row and the bad boy shows up to "hang out", looks at you and tells you _"you should have picked a better dress because the one you have on makes you look fat, are you even making an effort?"_ The only confusion may be that these two traits can co-exist

[@brettbjornson]

Steve didn't even get a chance to fully say his definitions...brutal!

[@lovelaughpink09]

i would have liked to hear his perspective!

[@cjc5265]

I don't really get what the definition of a "bad boy" is, per se, but I'm guessing it's somewhere along the lines of the confident, sexual alpha male, yes? So if that's the case, I would agree with the guy on stage. I don't think guys who have "game" as bad boys or whatever go out of their way to put women down. In fact, I think a lot a guys do the opposite, and tell a girl what he knows she wants to hear lol.

[@sentry4270]

Bad boy is an alpha male but he doesn't care about leading and does his own thing, bad boys don't put women down but they are blunt and speak their mind, what she's describing is toxic men/ controlling men

[@hernandezn1976]

She nailed it... HARD!!!

[@MymiiMylene]

she got the right definition tho. A player will be kind, will act like he really cares and everything. thats why he's a PLAYer. he loves to play with other. he goes from left to right. a bad boy, for me, is really an attitude. he will look a little rock and roll, he dont care, he's more "in the face". like, not that he wont treat a girl right, but, he doesnt care, if he want to dump you he will. and thats it. D= U know in the movie The Breakfast Club. the punk one. he is a great definition of bad boy. When the girl ask him about all the girl he's dating, he told her straight and im pretty sure the "girls" are aware of it.

[@Killerkeller-r6j]

Mymii Berard how can you make a statement when he never got to speak? She cut him off and basically made him a fool.

[@lolalani224]

is it possible to have a player in a bad boy ? coz this dude switched up on me from player to bad boy

[@Killerkeller-r6j]

She cuts him off, she’s yelling, she makes fun of him I would hate to be on her show. I bet he felt hurt, he must have felt some pain after made a fool on.

[@bgraves8149]

That guy hit on to something that was DEAD ON.. "are you the guy or am i the guy" steve harvey even said girl are getting stupid advice from other women. Listen to the guy for once. He was about to tell yall valuable information.

[@bustahowie322]

She wants a bad boy who opens the door and pays the bill 🥴🥴🥴

[@jessetuominen4941]

So what's the difference ?

[@shadinu]

No bethenny! Let your guests talk for once. I only subscribed to you coz Ellen tells us how good you are to women and how you say it straight but damn you never let anyone talk. I felt sorry for the guy. He is being genuine and REAL and talking about US and NOT the rock stars and the royals coz we are neither. He was trying to relate to US while the others weren't. No wonder women get hurt all the time, they DON'T LISTEN!! Getting more and more disappointed with this show :( it's sad :(

[@CBabeey]

Can beth shut up while they guy tries to talk? Like honestly...

[@IamMeDuhh]

CBabeey Beth haha classic!!!

[@indigobeauty1]

Bad boys are too lazy or just don't care enough to hide their game. Players get their high from manipulation and how mentally superior they are than you. Anyways, I wish she had let the guy say his point.

[@entrepreneurking8162]

Never get dating advice from women

[@belleamourphed1111]

This guy that i met in a business setting just hugged me randomly super tight & long 1 day. I thought it was so weird. He just bear hugged me 🙃 He also has a gf. so I was wondering if he did that to try to make her jealous BC my lip stick hit his shoulder too. Guys play play all day 🖕🖕🖕

[@Natefunk49]

exactly there's no set formula for bad boys,players,pimps,and hustlers,it's just to what degree they work your ass! and the best defense,is keep your eyes open,your legs closed,and don't fall for the okey doke!!! and in doubt drop out

[@Natefunk49]

did you watch the show? she dated him

[@MrMooremelody]

maybe the hosts can be quiet and let the man finish his sentence.

[@chevysmooth4523]

Sounds like a personal problem don’t blame the guy because he has options all this internet u ladies have options too

[@sarahtigirl15]

I normally like her but she was kind of mean to the guy by not letting him talk.

[@HekaFOF]

But who is going to nail Bethenny?

[@XF990]

Love beth and and andrea

[@rhtdm4me]

This was ridiculous. I hope bethenny or the producers read this because u treated him like he is Jason ur husband. You can't talk over people like that. You wouldn't even let the guy talk, deep down he probably felt insulted. I think producers need to have a talk with you about this type of behavior. I am ur fan but what's right is right.

[@lovelaughpink09]

why is she so angry at him..? like she's actually yelling at him damn!

[@emmanuellesun1]

hehe typical the guy tries to talk and the women already finished and came to their conclusion and he s left with his mouth open...Just like in the bedroom the guy finishes and comes and the woman is left with her mouth open like wt heck happened hahaha bad boys and players who cares as long as they re good in bed

[@Ambrolysha]

Bethenney I love you but you were really ticking me off this segment. You NEVER let the guy talk. But with what he was TRYING to say I would probably agree. I think bad boys are dangerous and push limits and want you to do everything your parents are against. But they can be exclusive. Players are smooth and suave and will make u feel like the only woman when u are one of many. But bad boys can ALSO be players.

[@hdhh0]

They are never giving the man a chance.

[@zaaw5626]

I love u bethenny but sorry she didn't 'nail it' she only told you what you

[@thatshitcrazzy]

let the man talk !

[@zaaw5626]

I love u bethenny but sorry she didn't 'nail it' she only told you what we already now.. U should've let him talk ...

[@GriBlanco]

I agree... Bethany is too annoying when she interrupts her guests! Let the damn guy talk!!! It irks me!!! Ughhh!!

[@jessetuominen4941]

Ok

[@zaaw5626]

Know*

[@waynebrown7031]

All I can say is that he didn't get a chance to talk or speak his mind but then the lady on one side wanted to get into a man's brain just to see how a man thinks that's not right I'm not a bad boy and I'm not a player I don't think like a player I'm just a normal all day everyday guy and have two things that they speak about when it comes to a grown woman they don't really make sense so why the hell do they still have to talk about guys anyways when they should be talking about themselves about how they started this cheating game it's not the guys that cheat it's the so-called females that have the money that wants to have time with other guys because they don't want to spend time with their men because they think that they are so-called boring I'm sticking up for the guy because he does have the right to speak oh well like they say you win some you lose some

[@Natefunk49]

again, that's fine for you but my comment was'nt for you,it was for Ambrolysha

[@jojohanponplandeehanponpla8549]

there is a girl that calling me a player even im not a player

[@aasthasinhaclips1984]

N how can you tell u r not

[@curiouspanda95]

Look I like her show and the segments, but she has to let her guest finish talking. After a while nobody will want to come on the show anymore because you are so stubborn and rude. I mean she brings them on her show for a reason. If she doesn't want to hear what they have to say or hear another opinion than she has, she shouldn't even bother getting them guests on. I get that this is her show and she wants to be the "boss", but still. Love the show, but don't like her attitude towards guests.

[@LilC2000]

This show is good but stupid at the same time...

[@akumasin9067]

bad boy who lovers will never cheat /players is cheat with girlfriend sleep with other different women

[@Gamer-Artyom]

WTF LET THE GUY TALK YOU DIDN'T EVEN LET THE GUY TALK AND YOU WANT TO COMPARE WHAT!

[@KayBaby4eva]

i only heard one side so this video makes no sense...plus i would prob agree with the guy cause i didnt agree with the woman

[@fakecrime]

Rude, Bethenny. What's the point of having someone else on your show if you're going to do all the talking?

[@xox102]

That guy don't even know what he is talking about

[@rgchrono]

Looks like Bethenny is into both. LOL! and she has to learn to listen to learn. -_- The man knows what she is talking about, this is why women fail to understand how men are. Because you do not listen to other men! who know how men are. -_- Women never listened to other men, who are men and are more experienced to see players and bad man. SEE! this is why a lot of good men don't get listened to, when we tell our female friends or female coworkers that the certain men they are dating are either bad or playing them. CAUSE! you listen to your female friends and you don't listen to men. -_- Annoying.

[@Natefunk49]

he's a wannabe,did'nt know what the hell he was talkin about,come on Bethenny trying to get a boost on his career,like he's the next Dr. Phil Al Bundy had more game!

[@tanya6805]

Cringe worthy voice

[@yummdiddy]

yuck this show is just a hot piece of garbage

[@jojohanponplandeehanponpla8549]

there is a girl that calling me a player even im not a player