What's Wrong With R. Kelly, Chris Brown, Diddy...

[@CamJames]

man of my word.

[@SocialMediaCurrency]

💯 ❤

[@poweronetwothreetrust1627]

Actual question to u is of your video. why do Diddy and R. Kelly hurt women? Have you read any of R. Kelly and indictments not just from the media the courts transcripts not just what the what Media says but what the cross examination is. In all RSK cases? Lust is a Sin against GOD but is it criminal when it comes to RSK I can’t speak for Diddy? They didn’t find any CP in the Robert Sylvester Kelly Cases? I need evidence & facts not your emotions. There was no evidence that RSK was involved in of domestic violence in his cases? That was a man that testify on Robert’s behalf, said that when his Girlfriends would enter the house in Mr. Kelly would always greet them with a smile and take off his hat 🧢 and they would come sit down and would play the piano for them? I am not here to support any of these people more bad behavior I don’t agree with any man having more than one wife? Because that’s what Are God say? R. Kelly committed sin against GOD Lust is not criminal because if it is well you need to lock me up first and then you need go after the GAY Community and all the record executives of Sony universal records AMC Warner Bros. everybody needs to go to prison come on man. Your next video should be titled why do Hunter Biden and Dr. Dre hurt women? Do you research my great channel?

[@taleiabowers9774]

I appreciate you and your content so I subscribed. I agree with most of your viewpoints except removing/deleting the abuser’s art. I don’t consider that celebrity worship. Standing outside a prison with a Free R. Kelly sign is absolutely disgusting because he is guilty and deserves to be locked up where he can’t hurt any young women anymore. However, I associate some of his music to my past experiences . I sang I believe I can fly in school and as you said it’s in Space Jam so I’m never deleting that song. I wish is another song that helps me deal with grief so it’s staying in my music library. Now he does have sexual music that sounds like he’s singing it to underage girls and those songs don’t hit the same for me anymore so those songs I absolutely skip and don’t enjoy the way I used to when I didn’t know if the rumors about him were true or not. I have and will always separate the art from the artist because if we were alive when Beethoven and Mozart were around, they could have committed crimes that didn’t get reported because of their fan bases but we will never know. We have access to 24/7 news and the internet so we can get every scoop and hot topic now so if we throw away every piece of art because the person is trash then we might as well give up music and movies because trash people are always gonna be trash. Lastly, what I just said is not saying that I condone their trash behavior. If they commit crimes, lock them up with the rest of the criminals but I’m not deleting the art that I have associated to positive memories.

[@SocialMediaCurrency]

@taleiabowers9774 thank you for sharing this 🙏✌🏾💛💯💫

[@AcappellaTidbits]

Oh, even worse where I am. The black people around me defend R. Kelly and victim blame and blame the parents. But with Diddy, their homophobia makes them solidly against him. It's gross.

[@lowwastehighmelanin]

That's wild, they're both terrible.

[@maybemablemaples2144]

Yup

[@Jamellii]

R. Kelly made good music it's hard for lotta people to let go of that and realize it, diddy was just an executive who engaged in gay activities

[@TyraHigh]

@@Jamelliiumm were you born in the 00’s? Diddy was “all up in the videos” had verses in many songs that are cemented in rap culture and was a very visible pop figure up until 2012. Far from just an executive especially for elder millennials. Stage performances, songs and videos from bad boy were littered with Puff features. In 98 when I saw bad boy on tour Puff was the air brush images people took photos in front of.

[@Darth_Bateman]

Have kids, multiply. Don't make the same mistakes your parents did.

[@hitopstl]

What's really scary is finding out that art you like/liked may even have been INFLUENCED or inspired by the terrible things the creator has done. Obviously this is based on the timeline of their career vs. abusive behavior.

[@CamJames]

that was the worst part when it comes to R. Kelly

[@Keepskatin]

Because the women they date and mate are mostly Good diggers and floozies who'll do anything strange for some millionaire's chain or change. Why do prostitutes have pimps❓🤔

[@lowwastehighmelanin]

That messes me up the most as well. It's some truly cursed stuff out there.

[@SolomonJamesOutdoors]

Yeah same with Bill Cosby too

[@jbmp1390]

It's SO IMPORTANT that we acknowledge that things like this (R Kelly, Cosby, Diddy, Weinstein, Epstein etc) are not simply isolated incidents. They are in fact related to greater CULTURAL issues, by which I mean American culture in general. As a whole we are still a country that is very much engaged in Patriarchy and misogyny at the highest levels of our society. And the conscious and unconscious encouragement of rape culture is something that all of us men NEED to think about as well. If you think life is somehow easier or safer for most women, I suggest you go talk to some of them about what they deal with and have to be potentially worried about on a daily basis.

[@CamJames]

100% agreed. We gotta step up to the plate and move the culture

[@fawnieee]

I live in UK and trust me, this isn't just in America. It's everywhere in the world.

[@Darth_Bateman]

This guy is right. . . . . :( As a guy, this isn't convenient for me to address or deal with. . . . . . But when my friend told me how when she walks into an uber and gets the name, license plate and face of the driver and makes sure somebody knows where she is. . . ? And my estranged sister started getting tracked by an airpod not even days after a guy threatened to grape her. . . . . I realized something. . . . . The feminists were right. For context : My experience with feminists were awful in College. I was demeaned, humiliated, made a punching bag for shit that happened in their past, silenced inn online spaces, called a littany of names and these people who were feminists were not good people. They were still right. and that's a bitter pill to swallow. So I thought. I mean, do I have to be friends with somebody or like them for them to be worthy of being treated like a human being? Do we have to treat social politics like a friend group? If I think of it as a duty then it becomes easier to put my ego to the side and just help women out, yknow? Here's the bitter pill : We hurt people who happen to be women and when women bring it up, we get immature and reactive and make somebody else's pain about us and treat women the way white people treat black people. With that fragile - you're bad for calling me bad because "Not all Men". Also, for clarity? I'm not perfect. Sometimes I forget. Sometimes my ego comes back into focus after I spend too much time identifying with my mind. Then I remember what happened to Junko Furuta and realize "Not all men" has no real world value.

[@poweronetwothreetrust1627]

@@CamJames I challenged you man to read the R. Kelly indictment and it’s court transcripts from 2008 2021 2022. Do you believe Michael Jackson was a pedophile do you know a man by the name of Demetris Smith?

[@smartypants261]

@@Darth_Batemanso meaningful and beautifully said. wow.

[@CalebCalvin]

Get this man to 100k subscribers

[@clementinelives]

8.6k away 🙏🏾

[@Praisethesunson]

@@CalebCalvin this time next year he'll be at 1 million

[@Oscarnodwannabe]

Yes!!

[@jevinday]

I can only subscribe once though 😢

[@CamJames]

grateful for the love y'all. KZbin is actively trying to shut me down right now but i'll keep going.

[@AlexBonteAHB]

Men need to hear these lessons from other men. Thank you for all the work you are doing and your courage

[@jevinday]

I agree. It seems like our culture has completely shifted away from taking about empathy, especially as it applies to manhood

[@CamJames]

thank you for your support, it helps us keep going!

[@Stressymessy]

i agree! Check out a ted talk by Jackson Katz "violence against women" where he talks about how important it is that men hold men accountable

[@MeeYeeWeeWee]

Very refreshing to see this video after hearing the gross response to the announcement of the Chris Brown doc.

[@gaillewis5472]

Nah, they all did it. When the accusations started to fly, I bristled, blanched and believed it. An acquaintance's father, a so called pillar of the community got locked up for 40+ acts against children. It took a while to catch him since the Nice Guy veneer held up with the parents. Please believe your kids when they are afraid of someone.

[@marissapriceheals]

"When your primary objective is to be successful, to be recognized, it's easy to see everyone as a tool to be used to further your desires." I had to run this back! THIS. So true 💯💯💯

[@CamJames]

thanks for watching! I appreciate your work too 🥂

[@vanitylagail]

📍

[@VoyageHER]

Hey girl hey 🤣

[@marissapriceheals]

​@@VoyageHER Mimi!! 🤣 Heyy!! 🤎

[@uncanny_mac4660]

This is sorta why i thought after the Kendrick and Drake beef, some people were like "Oh, Drake is gonna be dropeed by the label because everyone is calling a pDf FiLe!" and i always thought that was a weird reaction because as the past has shown, His label wont care until actual video proof is revealed or a judge/jury says he's guilty.

[@gangsta8929]

One thing I learned watching Scooby doo is humans are the real monsters

[@awijntje14]

So good to see someone capable of talking about these matters. Thanks for keeping things real.

[@CamJames]

always.

[@PrincessDianaJ]

The number of people blaming R Kelly’s victims is disturbing.

[@gangsta8929]

I hate leaving two comments but that ending deserves it. Yes on so many levels. First, a fundamental societal disrespect of women very much fuels this. How many rich and famous women are caught doing stuff like this? I can’t think of a single one (although I’m sure it happened one time it does not happen with this frequency). Notice how sex crimes are the only crimes where we doubt the accuser. No one ever accuses Target of falsely accusing shoplifters. There’s no conspiracy that people were trying to “take down” Bernie Madoff. Second, you hit the NAIL ON THE HEAD bro: no one sees themselves as the villain! What does a sex trafficker, warlord, and cartel member have in common? A story about how they are actually the victim. A story about how everything they do is justified because of something that happened to them. This toxic self pity is one of the most dangerous feelings people get, because it can be used to justify almost anything. We have all had bad things happen to us, some more than others, and it’s terrible that those things happened. The minute a person starts using these events to justify their own actions empathy goes out the door. All you did was let the darkness consume you.

[@AcappellaTidbits]

I think Gaiman is the one that hurt so badly, his writing is why I write and HOW I write. But I worship no celeb, talented people can be bad people. That's something we gotta accept. You punish the culprit, enjoy what you enjoyed and move on. And thank you for the monster vs human thing. People wanna have these people separate from them but you cannot do that. All are capable of cruelty.

[@onlyinsomniac]

Wait WHAT. I wasn't aware of that at all before this. His books were such a huge, formative part of my youth and really reached me when I was at my loneliest. That being said. I am not surprised if those accusations are true.

[@AcappellaTidbits]

​Yeah. Assault allegations. Apparently when he'd do workshops it was an open secret that you warn women off of him because he was a groupie picker. Which isn't bad in and of itself but he would, apparently, take advantage of the power imbalance and admiration. He was a big part of my youth and fiction and that's not a bad thing. I'm still a better person and writer for it. Unfortunately, life is messy like that. ​@@onlyinsomniac

[@Sanjovalentine]

You speak powerful truths about the Black community! It’s this kind of constructive criticism that will push our community forward. These abusers who hide amongst us weaken our progress and collective strength. NO AMOUNT of talent makes sexism, racism and homophobia okay.

[@CamJames]

🎯🎯🎯

[@poweronetwothreetrust1627]

Stop saying the black community we have a problem in our society period? Like illegal immigrants we have a huge problem with sex trafficking has nothing to do with RSK?

[@irreversiblyhuman]

The speed with which i stopped caring about R Kelly is only matched by the speed of light itself, when i heard about the facts. We need to give a shit about women more. All genders tbf

[@jewelljoyner3723]

I've seen this abuse my whole life around black men

[@poweronetwothreetrust1627]

So only black man abused women let me ask you a question so I wanna bring up R. Kelly have any of y’all follow any of the R. Kelly cases? Do you know a man by the name of Demetrious Smith and Barry Hackerson?

[@cecilebraillie4471]

"We need to give a shit about women more" sounds like something the first enlightened caveman would have said to his peers

[@TinaMcCall.]

THANK YOU! "I don't LOVE anyone I don't know personally." - CamJ To do so would be to devalue that emotion, the object, and yourself. - Me

[@jevinday]

"try empathy before cinicism" this is the most important thing you said in this video

[@msdiva]

I've been watching your videos for the past few months. This one made me subscribe to your channel. I teach HS african american studies. My husband mentors african american teenage boys. I told him to show them your video. Our boys need to understand at an early age what defines con$ent, abu$e & how to respect women. Thank you for this excellent video.

[@CamJames]

Thank you for letting me know this. It makes a difference for us to know when our message resonates. Glad to help educate the youth ☀️

[@JacksonMade_Music]

PHEW hot off the presses! Can I getta “AYE”!

[@ricopena2053]

Wonderful analysis of celebrity and corruption Cam. I will watch more of your videos 🤙🏽

[@sarah30932]

I appreciate so much you saying that these people aren’t monsters- we as humans ALL have the power to do wonderful things and horrific unspeakable things, and I feel if we were more honest about that we could start making the world safer.

[@Draqua]

Really appreciate the discussion of how social mores/educational plays into this. Abuse does not occur in a vacuum, it takes a society that instructed some people to believe they could act against others consequence free, and groups of people willing to permit those actions. Crucially though, we must be able to discuss abuse maintaining individual culpability: a delicate balance.

[@lyssa8026]

Very well put, once again. The nuance in your video is appreciated.

[@gojosatoru__]

i stopped celebrity worship when a bandmen i liked said something very… tone deaf during the BLM protests. as someone w adhd its so easy to slip into celebrity worship when i have a hyper fixation. but that literally shocked me so bad at a teen. like it finally occurred to me that that person was far more flawed than i realized and then it clicked- people in hollywood are still human. they don’t change just because we decided they were important. they were flawed before and unfortunately we give them platforms and rooms and POWER and it only makes things worse over time.

[@allisonjasne]

**sees new Cam James video** **clicks immediately**

[@CamJames]

would love to know what you think after watching 🫶🏾

[@allisonjasne]

You're always spot on with a formula that adds up to a terrible thing (unfortunately). Curious on an episode about school sh**ters

[@GillianRosheuvel]

Yo!!!!

[@Newa113]

Another great concise informative video that challenges a persons POV. It was a great point about asking the women in your life if you’ve ever made them feel uncomfortable. It’s something I’ve never thought about doing before.

[@CamJames]

amazing takeaway, sounds like the mission was accomplished

[@Stressymessy]

There are predators in every community, we shouldnt act so shocked when celebs are revealed to be predators but i think that outrage and denial is emotional projection from people who don't want to hold the predators in their own community accountable.

[@Jehanansi]

I think patriarchy is still very important to keep in the conversation solely because it is as detrimental to men as it is to women the kicker being is that we are wholesale blind to this fact because of the patriarchy in question. Think about how normalized vilonce and abuse of men towards other men is. How our culture has deemed one of the only true ways to be a man is to commit acts of violence. How boys hitting each other is just seen as "boys being boys". What bothers me is how many cases of assault have been thrown away because the man in the situation did not seem themselves worthy of obtaining that justice. And how that lack of closure means that most likely they'll vindicate themselves in the abuse of others. The topic is very deep but since I can only feel empathy for the women affected and not literally put myself in their shoes. I think it's extremely necessary to take the call from inside the house. Because the normalization of male on male abuse has some of the most horrific implications that explain why people Diddy and Kelly were allowed to roam as free as they did for so long.

[@CamJames]

Yeah i didn't intend to completely divorce patriarchy from this issue, they're connected. It's just deeper than a one word summary

[@Jehanansi]

@@CamJames I get that, I’ve been working on a couple essays myself and I understand why certain things need to be left out to save time. I just wanted the comment here for other watchers you did a great job (as always) for what you discussed and how men with explicit power operate and not just men in general. I hope you do get the time to delve into the self destruction men induce through those values, but I am an extremely satisfied subscriber nonetheless

[@CamJames]

an excellent suggestion

[@lowwastehighmelanin]

Another solid one. Man's climbing to F.D. Signifier levels. I love your work, Cam. Like you, I don't love anyone I don't know. It's the only way to avoid parasocial attachment.

[@AleciaRenece]

💛💛💛 Thank you so much for this. Can't wait to get into it.

[@CamJames]

thank you for your support as always!

[@feetindagrass]

I seriously doubt that any of them don't know it's wrong. So I'm left with, "they don't fear repercussions." It's the WHY of that I'm most interested in but I realize that kind of content hinders monetization.

[@Eden519]

THANK YOU!!! People who do heinous things are not monsters. They are regular people (mostly men) who happen to act on desires many others (men) have but may not act on. It’s a deep deep problem not limited to the few that get caught.

[@averydaily]

The way she says "Robert" gets me everytime

[@CamJames]

me too lol

[@Tavieme]

I had a hard time clicking on this video, but I’m glad I did. As a survivor of sexual assault from the time that I was five years old, I have just learn to believe people when they say that something has happened to them because when my abuse was discovered at 15, my father blamed me not the 45-year-old man who started assaulting his daughter at 11 but me my 15-year-old self his friends and my stepmom openly made jokes about it, I’d love to blame it on the baby boomer generation, but we all know that’s a fallacy second and deviant is in every generation .So while others may see these men and feel nostalgic and feel sad, I have no problem muting them and never again listening to their music or watching their movies . Thank you for having this conversation. I know that it’s not easy and you are appreciated baby bro.

[@asbeautifulasasunset]

I'm so sorry you were violated. May you heal in every way. Too many have been hurt but so many are not broken. The strength, courage, wisdom and grace of women is built-in. ❤

[@Tavieme]

@@asbeautifulasasunset Thank you 💛

[@theothesir]

One thing I've learned in life is that people are capable of anything. But at the same time, I'm learning to make sure I use discernment and active listening to the best of my abilities. I've seen predators masquerade as prey to reel well-intentioned people into nonsense. All in all, I see where you are coming from. And yes, I can separate the art from the artist because, as a person who writes poetry from time to time, I know how words can move people.

[@DanteBC]

Thank you for your work, Cam. This is the type of content I open KZbin for. Speaking of fame, I wonder what helps you to stay grounded from the sweet and corrupting taste of fame and blind fan admiration (like, from the time of your music career or later, as a KZbin creator, or someway else...)

[@CamJames]

I gotta remember where i came from and what I'm here to accomplish at all times. It helps that I've already seen money, so i can't be corrupted. Fame has nothing to do with who i am when the lights are off, so it never gets to my head.

[@BlancOtaku]

To quote The Doors: "Women seem Wicked when you're alone"

[@MikeydeLaraCovers]

Spectacular work, my man... Vulnerable, real, speaking truths that are uncomfortable to both men and women (which shows how true they are). Just powerful stuff.

[@CamJames]

Thank you for real, this is a dope compliment!

[@MrHammer2088]

Ego is the enemy!!

[@daddyteddy85]

I dont understand why parents would send a child to stay with a grown man at a Flava Camp😢😢

[@robbiep.5497]

You've done it again, Cam! Great job!!

[@CamJames]

thank you for being here 🕺🏾

[@mizsevenoneeight685]

These men have resources, access and connections that allow then to confidently believe they’ll have immunity & a green light to treat women the way a large segment of men truly WANT to treat women! Money manifests the worst proclivities in those mentioned, because 1) power corrupts and 2) these guys continuously need greater extremes to get them high.

[@joeshmoe0136]

10:30 Thank you! I hate when men describe abusive men as monsters and will do anything to distance themselves. No, these abusers are men and we as a society need to recognise. You're average abuser is not the boogie man, he may not look evil or scary, hes likely to be the most charming person in the room, the person everyone is drawn to. Thats how grooming works, thats how abuse is perpetuated.

[@randyallaway4085]

Man, subbing to your channel was a damn good decision. Stoked to see you almost hit 100k. You've got some really insightful takes, man.

[@CamJames]

thank you for being here my guy. i appreciate you!

[@MariW32]

Excellent video, i really like the way you covered the varying aspects and the combination that would drive their behaviors. That combination in the midst of systems that support it is so so dangerous.

[@CamJames]

thank you sincerely

[@badbabybear1]

Sadly, over the years I've learned people can be cruel, egotistical and shield themselves from reality and consequences to get what they want. Give them power and that all becomes exaggerated. Totally agree we shouldn't idolize entertainers. We're thankfully getting to a point where our culture is turning away from that as we gradually learn about how awful some celebrities can be. This video had some hard truths about flaws in male and human behavior I have to examine in myself.

[@CassieWilliams135]

This is fucking beautifully done and I just can’t overstate my appreciation for your work.

[@CamJames]

I'm glad someone appreciates it lol, thank you 💜

[@debraswintonspears]

Thank you for breaking it down and including non celebrity men.

[@TirraOmilade]

Dang!!! You brought such an insightful perspective! Thank you! 🙏🏾 ❤

[@ladynikkie]

6:30 keep in mind but very few people remember this the reason jodeci broke up was two of them were arrested for sexual assault and it wasn't KC and JoJo. I remember hearing that on the news when I was a child

[@Fogghorn_Legghorn]

Appreciate your work! This is a powerful message that needs to be listened to, pondered, and discussed right now. Also, on a technical point, I liked the background. You demonstrate again that when you have something to say, you don't need a fancy studio set.

[@CamJames]

thanks for the feedback! always trying my best to resonate

[@KingDeeba]

you're a legend bro, good take

[@davidlaush180]

Remarkable video once more, Cam! Keep up the great work. Different area but similar subject-having to face the reality that people I looked up to growing up in the video game space turning out to be horrible people has been rough. Same with some artists I always enjoyed listening to, it's not easy! I think why people jump to defending these people comes a bit from nostalgia but also a sense of denial that the figures they looked up to could act in such awful ways.

[@CamJames]

we have a special job in that we can create things that reach the depths of someone's soul. that's tough to shake when allegations come to light...if you're in too deep

[@chipdiamond5104]

Great video. This is actually really interesting!

[@MU80k]

Been binge watching this channel. Great content. Keep it up

[@CamJames]

Will do! Thanks fam

[@DerrickJReacts]

"I love you too, by the way" is my favorite Cam line in the history of Cam lines

[@lilascharmante2712]

Everyone has talked about these abusers and I thought that everything has been said but you actually bring up new and valid arguments. I can see that you put a lot of thought into your content. You captured my attention the whole time!

[@CamJames]

this means a lot to me. thank you for seeing the effort, I'm never here to rehash what others have done.

[@gallen2101]

I want to adopt this young man as my virtual son!!😊 Informative, Facts, Insight, Intelligence etc. You are the G.O.A.T. to this 70 year old lady 😅 Thank you so much for shedding light

[@jevinday]

He was literally talking about parasocial relationships in the video 😂

[@BluejThompson]

My grandma has a saying “once a man is condemned to death, he’s DEAD” there is absolutely no defense of the heinous actions these men (and some famous women) have committed. GET THEM OUTTA HERE!

[@louisachalarca6494]

And a lot of our fathers and brothers are these men on a scale from normalized abuse to the worst

[@doshpits]

statistically speaking wom3n abus3 childr3n more.. so what of them?

[@salvadormuro7346]

13:17 damn didn’t think I’d be called out but thank you for doing so. I will ask.

[@rod3121]

i love the video and hope one day you consider making some longer format vids for us old heads

[@purplesky99876]

Just wanted to drop a comment and a like for support as I'm not really in the best headspace to watch this video, celebrity culture, internet addiction, etc are taking a toll on my spirit. But thank you for speaking up about stuff like this.

[@CamJames]

Of course, thanks for the support!

[@dadaguiar]

thank you for talking about this

[@CamJames]

you're incredibly welcome

[@iheartlreoy8134]

Saw the title before work, wasn’t gonna say anything but I’m glad someone did 😂

[@CamJames]

always tweaking, that's the job

[@dcDOC19]

Good stuff bro, keep up the it up!

[@louisachalarca6494]

I really hate the reaction of people as if they’ve always knew they were ahead of anyone they don’t like anything and they support women by hating a celebrity it’s tiring as a survivor

[@CamJames]

that shit is obnoxious

[@mayedean9578]

People seem to take it personally if you talk about their fave celeb. In the blk community I've noticed that a blk celebrity taking a public L, whatever gender that blk celebrity is; his or her demographic will defend it to try to prevent that demographic looking bad on the world stage. We're obsessed with escapism and interwin it with our self esteem and worth and when that escapism collides with the real world in a Diddy, R Kelly sense its hard to deal with and you see the excuses and defenses.

[@seand67]

Great job Cam

[@TyMarie92]

This video was too short. 😮‍💨

[@julcarras]

I have been loving the work you put in. Really interesting stories with important perspectives. I’m curious about the decision to use the classic looking, reporter-in-the-field microphone. Is this technical? Like you prefer the quality from it. Or is it creative? There is something nostalgic about it for me. Maybe it’s just so you have something to do with your hands? Appreciate you!

[@CamJames]

Mostly a creative choice. The quality is better than my shotgun mic i started with, but i made the decision to stand out as a journalist this way.

[@mbuvito]

Last point ‼️ It’s important to ask and it’s okay if you were wrong. I think our society is at a point where people want to always be perfect. But if you made a mistake, apologize, move forward and do better.

[@MikeLHunt916]

Very well done !!!👍🏽👍🏽

[@Madkalibyr]

Mo money Mo problems was the first cd I ever bought. A cd single in a cardboard cd slip.

[@CamJames]

worthy first

[@daddyteddy85]

This video needs part 2 and 3

[@Skeletors_Closet]

Men that are habitually successful don’t accept loss very well.

[@tiffanymcdaniels5652]

I'm glad you mention the KZbin gender war videos. I'm sooo sick of 'em showing up in my algorithm 20v1🙄🙄

[@johnchedsey1306]

Another person who comes to mind is DeShaun Watson and his series of abusive behavior towards massage therapists. The saddest thing is that certain football fans overlooked it because they thought he could help the team win. And he got a massive guaranteed contract in the process. It's one thing to overlook a celebrity's behavior if they kinda happen to be rude or a bit of an ass. But there's lines that some cross that should result in instantaneous shunning by society.

[@cecilebraillie4471]

if I was baptized with a stupid ass name like DeShaun, I'd have psychological problems too

[@Family63936]

Awesome ❤

[@jonahblock]

Lots of people hurt women, some of them just happen to be famous

[@jameslink8]

I know I've made people uncomfortable. I'm weird, have really anxiety & social anxiety & anti social. So I don't have to ask

[@CamJames]

it may help to ask anyway, so you can tweak as you go. transparency is rarely a bad thing

[@jameslink8]

@@CamJames my therapist said the same thing & the few people I've kept in touch with from Job Corps & places I worked at before my accident have asked why did pretend to be a thug at Job Corps & why was I so quiet at work, because I'm a weird, nerdy stoner & proud of it now. That's cooler than wanting to be a thug or being super quiet all the time

[@juanvaldez7279]

You have a genuine vibe.... Stilll😅. A level of self reflection that we should aspire too.Thats why you are getting the fast love.

[@kaptynssirensong2357]

Let the channel binge begin!

[@ladynikkie]

3:59 As a black person I take it very seriously! I took it seriously since that first trial of his I was more confused and upset that they couldn't find the victim and come to find out the victim was one of his singers he signed on his label Sparkle that was her niece. And it sickens me that people would defend these sickos but when s*** hit the fan they want to jump ship and play victim one prime example was his ex-wife Andrea Kelly she was so accustomed to living a certain lifestyle but until it got bigger she wants to boo hoo and say he hurt me what about the girls in the 90s those are the only true victims I feel sorry for. I'm just tired of women who allow these men to abuse them cheat on them and do God knows what because they have money but they don't leave them because they're so used to living a certain lifestyle they don't want to leave that. If that were me I would be packing I don't care if you're the richest man in the world if you're going to abuse me or any young girl I would tell my ass off I don't give a damn if you give me a billion dollars to keep me quiet I would burn that billion dollars 😤

[@danielponder690]

And it's not just mainstream entertainment culture. Classical music world has people like Robert King, Philip Pickett, David Daniels who abused and took advantage of their position.

[@cecilebraillie4471]

never heard of any of those, except for James Levine, which isn't even on your list

[@danielponder690]

@ yes. Him too. For some reason just the early music people are who came to mind when I made this comment. It’s definitely way more than those four in classical music land.

[@Langenbacher]

Thank you for addressing this issue as a man!

[@ce7406]

Why Does He Do That? by someone called Lundy covers this topic youre so right its all about entitlement and fundamental lack of respect for the victim . great vid

[@AlzhinSon]

13:36 I don't agree with that statement. They do not believe they're '' nice ''. They know what they're doing is fugged up, that's why they didn't broadcast it to the world and they had to be exposed for the world to learn about it. You can't believe you're being nice when you force yourself on someone who tells you no, probably cries, is left in a bad state when you leave. You can't believe you're a nice person when (allegedly, I heard that about Diddy) you tell that person that they have to hide for a few days so their injuries get to heal before they're seen in public again, when you beat people, threaten them physically and financially so they keep their mouth shut. You do all that because you know you're not a '' nice '' person and because you know that the public finding out who you truly are would be catastrophic for your brand.

[@CamJames]

There's degrees of "nice". They may disassociate their treatment of victims from their general demeanor.

[@justanoman6497]

I think this is more likely to be "bottom up" in that a portion of people just have the tendency, but only those with power can exercise it and only those that are famous are made widely known. It's not like domestic violence is not a serious concern in all sector of society. It's not even just men. Just that men and women do so differently, with women leaning more toward the psycological side that is harder to quantify and prove.

[@agoj925]

Great video!

[@sovcitwatch]

Only artist I "loved" was chester bennington. But if it came out that he was an abuser, that would change pretty quick.

[@iroquoispliskin4347]

far less talked about was the inquisition done in Mexico witch was considered brutal even for 1600s standards

[@nonancyz3757]

Thanks!

[@MirrorSurfer]

Top notch as per usual. As a yut, I never understood celebrity worship. It always had this cultish veneer to it that just didn't sit right.

[@tadroid3858]

I grew up listening to Bill Cosby records. I had them all and still know many of the bits by heart. It was very difficult for me to believe his private life was as abusive as it was. But it was.

[@ayemiksenoj5254]

One simple truth about why men like this abuse is: because they can. Black women are not protected anywhere near enough to pose a threat to wanna be attackers. Until there is automatic punishment... unfortunately it'll just keep happening.

[@Preen59]

"famous yet".... Don't you act like that was unintentional. 🤣 Another sensational video, man. Love it.

[@CamJames]

thank you man. every word i say is on purpose lol 😂

[@Preen59]

@@CamJames haha, man I wish you all the success. When your very first video popped up and I watched it, I went to look for the rest. I was shocked to see that they didn't exist yet. You're a natural and I hope content creation is lucrative for you, because people like you can definitely make a difference.

[@CamJames]

thank you for saying that. It's either a good job or bad job depending on the day 😂

[@Preen59]

@@CamJames we're kinda culturally wired to make note of negative stuff.. I feel like it's important to acknowledge the other side. As a white guy from Australia, I really like taking a look at the perspective of someone who isn't 'like' me. Echo chambers are way too difficult to spot in the age of social media.

[@kedate1979]

Great video.

[@CamJames]

thanks for watching!

[@omiethamsia9009]

as a woman i agree with this whole heartedly! but you made me cackle when you said chris brown is one of the greatest pop stars of all time. like were u being serious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@CamJames]

i was. From a purely objective standpoint we can talk numbers. Then there's the talent discussion which only a few performers in history can exceed.

[@seconddemo35]

Chris Brown is gifted. Can’t deny that. Has he made poor choices? Yup. Two things can be true at the same time.