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@NKO_lindo
@NKO_lindo 2 жыл бұрын
it's kinda nice to see that everyone hates something about themselves, makes it feel like it's human to not think your perfect
@Drakavio
@Drakavio 2 жыл бұрын
We aren't really, but there is people that think they are
@scooopable
@scooopable 2 жыл бұрын
Why would it be "nice" to see someone hating a thing about themselves? I see it as upsetting. To literally hate something about yourself, in most cases is pretty sad.
@NikolaiWowe
@NikolaiWowe 2 жыл бұрын
@@scooopable just poor word choice. They mean it's validating. As in no one is alone in it.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
The ability to critique ourselves is one of our strongest assets. The real shame is the people who choose to give up on being the best version of themselves.
@tophat7735
@tophat7735 2 жыл бұрын
@@scooopable most people hate something about themselves. Someone who doesn’t have any dissatisfactions is incredibly rare. But we forget that. So seeing other people admit what they are insecure about is comforting because it reminds us that the vast majority of people don’t feel perfect, just as we don’t.
@user-ji6wm8bn2e
@user-ji6wm8bn2e 2 жыл бұрын
i honestly wish the guy in the purple shirt who dropped out of college to be in culinary school at 3:30 the best. just because you didn’t get your phd like your family members doesn’t mean you’re worth any less!! the most important thing is you choosing what you really want and what will make you happy and if that’s culinary school, you already won. genuinely wishing you the best and i hope you’ll make it in the future!!
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 2 жыл бұрын
Same, I am more proud of him for setting his own path, one that opens doors for other family members who don't fit the conventional ways of schooling He should wear it with honor and pride
@toniodejimi3905
@toniodejimi3905 Жыл бұрын
Yeah! Culinary school is a win in itself. He could be a future pastry chef.
@Ljounieh
@Ljounieh Жыл бұрын
I loved how brave he was to pursue his dream
@amormaia
@amormaia 2 жыл бұрын
I can definitely resonate with a lot of these. It’s sad that society has such a significant impact on how we view ourselves.
@stretchkitty21
@stretchkitty21 2 жыл бұрын
Lol I relate to too many.
@artemuycaro
@artemuycaro Жыл бұрын
Just want to (respectfully!) point out that you *relate* to something/someone, or something *resonates* with you. You resonating with something means that thing feels some type of way about you. Hope this helps anyone who mixes up these words, easy mistake to make
@brownskinbeauty.
@brownskinbeauty. 2 жыл бұрын
"I'm short so I feel like people don't respect me." I felt that. I'm 5'1 and 125 pounds, most people see me as a child sometimes because of my small frame. Now that I work in the medical field I feel like people under estimate me even more because of my size and age.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
I had a friend in high school who was equally as short. Loved her company very much! Please know you are valued by your peers.
@aromlaa7066
@aromlaa7066 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way and have had girl friends who would constantly make fun of it
@clairedolman4950
@clairedolman4950 Жыл бұрын
That totally resonates with me. Im 5’2 and am severely underweight, and people don’t really take me seriously, and sometimes I think people think I’m a child.
@daveenduhok4578
@daveenduhok4578 Жыл бұрын
I think being short and petite is not very talked about because there aren't many people who are so short that get bullied for it and people mostly are insecure about being "too tall" or "too big" but they don't know how it feels when you are 20 and get mistaken for a child and people don't respect you or take you seriously.
@ForAncientKingAndElvishLord
@ForAncientKingAndElvishLord Жыл бұрын
Yup me too
@jigmatdolma3968
@jigmatdolma3968 Жыл бұрын
"my teeth'' says that with the prettiest smile
@calgabrielzeroday
@calgabrielzeroday Жыл бұрын
ong
@luci_20128
@luci_20128 3 ай бұрын
fr i would die to have that teeth
@vector_vector__
@vector_vector__ 3 ай бұрын
She just didn't wanted to admit anything , that was most obvious lie u could see 😂
@Amor_y_Alma
@Amor_y_Alma 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing others share their insecurities helps reassure us that we're not alone 🥺 We just can't let the insecurities win, but fighting them is often hard.
@taetaeforever7658
@taetaeforever7658 Жыл бұрын
I agree, it feels like I'm not the only one who is dealing with some of my own insecurities. Everyone has some kind of insecurity.
@Ashicakez3
@Ashicakez3 Жыл бұрын
The 22 year old woman who said she feels like she hasn’t done enough in her life so far made me feel so seen. I’m the same age and I also feel like I’m so behind in life because other people the same age as me are already so talented and skilled, have travelled lots, and are already getting married and having kids. I know everyone has their own path in life and there is no set age where you must do something, like getting in a relationship, starting a career, etc. But it’s hard to stop comparing myself to others
@simonecrook6317
@simonecrook6317 Жыл бұрын
This is the exact things I struggle with and you are not alone! Especially in the day of social media, it is hard not to compare ourselves to the highlight reel that is Instagram, but you got this ❤️
@VideoGuy232
@VideoGuy232 Жыл бұрын
Get off instagram and social media. Watch less television, read more books
@d_4918
@d_4918 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, you're 22. Your adult life has barely started and you've probably got another six decades ahead of you. You've got PLENTY of time left to achieve things.
@monSoun121
@monSoun121 Жыл бұрын
me too!
@mimik222
@mimik222 Жыл бұрын
ME TOO! I’m 21 and I’ve felt this way since I was in high school. It’s so frustrating
@purepsyc
@purepsyc 2 жыл бұрын
3:40 Dude, please do not be ashamed of going to Culinary School. Some people out here hella educated and can't make a descent healthy meal. Be proud of what you are doing. I respect you.
@DaiKozui
@DaiKozui 2 жыл бұрын
This video was extremely comforting in an odd kind of way. More specifically, the guy at 2:28 made me feel seen and less alone in my insecurity. I'm also a gay black man and I grew up in an ultra conservative Christian household. So as expected, I developed a lot of internalized homophobia growing up. I was especially insecure about the sound of my voice because I felt it sounded too feminine. I also had insecurities surrounding my mannerisms and perceived masculinity in general. I was afraid that people would perceive me as girly, weak, a coward, sissy, punk, and et cetera because of the femininity that I sometimes displayed. However, it's taken a lot of years and a lot of self-love to no longer be insecure about those things. I still have a long way to go... But it feels good to know that I'm not the only one who's insecure about that...
@nanaakuaaddai4080
@nanaakuaaddai4080 2 жыл бұрын
It's difficult to not care what other people think of you when you know for a fact that you're being watched and judged.
@moehashim8442
@moehashim8442 2 жыл бұрын
I've learned that being able to laugh at yourself, and taking things easier can heavily impact how you view yourself. Especially throwing yourself out of your comfort zone constantly. It definitely helped me realize that majority of people aren't as judgmental as we think they are, they laugh with us and relate to us.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
Keeps everyone in check, it has its advantages
@monejohn9973
@monejohn9973 Жыл бұрын
Lies😅 Some of us really don't give a fuck what people think about us.😊
@georgemunro9640
@georgemunro9640 5 ай бұрын
It is hard not to care what people think I'll admit that but you should learn not to don't let someone's opinion affect your are people's opinions gonna matter when you're dead? Why does it matter when you're here. Trust me it's something I've had learn how to do I'm the black sheep drug addict of the family because obviously worst things haven't taken place in the family oh there's quite the history I'll leave it at that
@billbernstein4484
@billbernstein4484 2 жыл бұрын
In about 95% of these cases people's insecurity stems from the fact that their self image is defined by those around them and the feedback they get from them. There is no internal measuring going on. When your self-image depends on other people you will never be satisfied or secure. Security comes from an internal assessment, both good and bad.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
That's a lie. You cannot be shamed for something you are not already ashamed of yourself.
@lotusflores
@lotusflores 2 жыл бұрын
@@TryingtoTellYou I agree with you, but I also agree with Bill. You can't feel ashamed of something that you never feel ashamed of but let's say others keep enforcing something about you that you never had an issue with but because you get the same message about yourself repeatedly , now an insecurity is being created, making you feel like you need to worry about this thing that you never even thought about in the first place. I think both of you are correct.
@DA-js7xz
@DA-js7xz 2 жыл бұрын
@@TryingtoTellYou wrong. Plenty of people aren't self aware and need to be told about their actions. Like how you're trolling multiple comments here.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
@@DA-js7xz Wrong... er? Even those with autism are self aware, they are simply slower to the uptake. I had a friend in primary school who had a learning disability and I constantly had to console him because of the bullying he received.
@bluebirdredrobin6827
@bluebirdredrobin6827 2 жыл бұрын
Self esteem is a misnomer. You can’t just “love yourself” into having positive self esteem. External stimuli is entirely responsible for how we view ourself unfortunately.
@kevinsundelin8639
@kevinsundelin8639 2 жыл бұрын
This was oddly calming. Nice to hear people talk about things that I'm insecure about too.
@ddangerous
@ddangerous 2 жыл бұрын
1:36 her hair is GORGEOUS
@almaschine
@almaschine 2 жыл бұрын
I was so insecure today after scrolling trough social media too much… so I really needed this video today, thank you 🥰
@hermunkulus
@hermunkulus 2 жыл бұрын
Friendly word of advice: stay off of it. It’s superficial and gives off a false image. It’s not worth getting your self-esteem damaged by something unrealistic (I.e influencers). Be yourself and do what makes you happy.
@Katie0007-d1e
@Katie0007-d1e Ай бұрын
Yeah, social media is full of fake things
@ricarda7954
@ricarda7954 2 жыл бұрын
the fact that people who seem fucking beautiful to me have insecureities about the way they look realy comforts me. like, i don`t want anyone to feel insecure, but at the same time it realy shows me that you don`t have to like everything about yourself to be seen as beautiful by others.
@pastelcloudskai
@pastelcloudskai 2 жыл бұрын
I felt relieved that others also feeling insecure about their personality. I feel it is too big, or not empathetic enough or can make others feel uncomfortable constantly. Which makes me feel like I’m making mistakes with how I treat others. And ask myself if I’m truly being respectful and so on.
@iftuabdurahman9567
@iftuabdurahman9567 2 жыл бұрын
the guy that said “i droped out of college to go to culinary school” is something i’ve never even thought of to be bad. culinary school is still school you still need a good gpa, scholarships, financial aid and stuff like that to get into a school. everyone is smart in different ways.
@BizarreAvenir
@BizarreAvenir 2 жыл бұрын
For some reason I always thought of physical things about me when i thought of insecurities, so it was quite mind blowing to hear people mentioning mental insecurities... Yes, yes, I HAVE THAT TOO
@amormaia
@amormaia 2 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder to everyone that you are beautiful in your own way & that ‘societal norms’ & ‘beauty standards’ are detrimental & most importantly fake. Being able to accept yourself as you are is the most powerful thing you can do.
@cristian-bull
@cristian-bull 2 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is beautiful, if they were, the concept would be lacked of purpose. I accept myself as a non beautiful person whose looks some people find cool, which is fine. calling myself 'beautiful' would feel both, a bit delusional, and like giving up to the external pressure to feel that way.
@amormaia
@amormaia 2 жыл бұрын
@@cristian-bull I see what you mean. I could’ve clarified it more. I meant beautiful as more than just the physical aspects and more so the entire makeup of a person. Basically what makes them the ‘whole package.’
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
Beauty standards actually help drive us to stay fit, healthy and desirable so....
@nolansbi3046
@nolansbi3046 2 жыл бұрын
we need to stop telling people they'fe beautiful when they're not coz it's only emphasizing the importance of being beautiful. sometimes we just need to accept we're average and that's okay.
@crazguykwan8955
@crazguykwan8955 2 жыл бұрын
@@TryingtoTellYou they can be a positive or negative drive. But also that opens up people's willingness to judge you unnecessarily. We have all done that.
@SuperMustache555
@SuperMustache555 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to watch a behind-the-scenes video about what it’s like to edit these
@eliocosmos
@eliocosmos 4 ай бұрын
The best way I found to not care what people think is sympathy. More often than not, what people judge about you is what they secretly judge about themselves. Once I realized that their judgments were a reflection of how they saw and felt about themselves, it made me sad for them because I've been there.
@sbrosier2383
@sbrosier2383 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 28 and severely balding. I always wore hats in public. Once I discovered shaving my head it boosted my confidence significantly (saved money too on haircuts). I still get a little self conscious when my hair grows past a certain length
@Treesloan25
@Treesloan25 2 жыл бұрын
I loveee bald guys. Glad your confidence has boosted.
@joonpaii751
@joonpaii751 2 жыл бұрын
bro. i can relate to the guy @ 2:36 so much. i’m a black female, but people have told me that i wasn’t black enough. because i really enjoy k-pop and anime, and i have been told that i’m trying to act white because i like those things. how? this is just my personality. and people in my school used to say “you’re a white girl in a black girl’s body” because i personally don’t say the n-word and i don’t really talk with a blaccent, so that makes me trying to be white?? this is just how i grew up talking, i don’t know what you want from me.
@esteban9716
@esteban9716 2 жыл бұрын
i resonate to a lot of these insecurities and it is kind of comforting/(sad) to see i'm not the only one who feels like this
@Ghxstgvrl
@Ghxstgvrl 2 жыл бұрын
That advice hit me in my heart. This is something I’m struggling w right now, hard.
@Ghxstgvrl
@Ghxstgvrl 2 жыл бұрын
God I love this channel. This channel has done so much for me and this world, and no one even knows that fully yet. I’m gonna make an impact like this. Somehow. Some way. Just don’t know what it is yet
@nanaakuaaddai4080
@nanaakuaaddai4080 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ghxstgvrl I can relate. This channel and jubilee create content that makes you realise that there are other people going through the same shit as you are. You are not alone.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
The advice to gorge yourself out of depression or to throw profanities at anyone who has a word of criticism for you?
@doriseee
@doriseee 2 жыл бұрын
This people are BRAVE, I could NEVER even tell my best friend my biggest insecurity talk more of saying it on camera
@Iamjocelynsilva
@Iamjocelynsilva 2 жыл бұрын
"The only person that can tell you something TRUE about yourself is YOU." YES!
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
looks at stupid comment confusedly
@Manvir.
@Manvir. 2 жыл бұрын
@@TryingtoTellYou you mean your own?
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou 2 жыл бұрын
@@Manvir. Um. How does one comment in response to a comment they have not yet made?
@Molr026
@Molr026 2 жыл бұрын
3:41 culinary school is passion, do what you love!! I do the same
@rudygarcia5546
@rudygarcia5546 2 жыл бұрын
Even though he dropped outa college, he's still on the road to success because he's still learning, hes going to cullinary school. You don't need a college degree to be successful
@a1yssaa
@a1yssaa 2 жыл бұрын
“at 22 i feel like i haven’t accomplished enough in my life” 🙃🙃Girl
@mitschnel607
@mitschnel607 Жыл бұрын
0:26 "my teeth" she says with a smile out of a toothpaste commercial
@gh0stingsims815
@gh0stingsims815 Жыл бұрын
0:15 is so gorgeous omg i can’t even
@Diesense
@Diesense 2 жыл бұрын
Im not really insecure about anything other than my voice but it’s pretty wild to see how much being self conscious about what you sound like can impact your social and communication skills
@kellydahlman-oeth3016
@kellydahlman-oeth3016 2 жыл бұрын
I was riddled with insecurities as a kid and a young adult, but the older I get, the less I care what others think about me. I know that's probably not universal, but I'd wish it for everyone. Chances are, if someone think's I'm trash or the best human in the world, they're wrong.
@stretchkitty21
@stretchkitty21 2 жыл бұрын
Statically that's true for most. Self confidence goes up with age
@kayfaith5058
@kayfaith5058 2 жыл бұрын
I always get insecure when people ask me where I work and if I went to college. I got over my image insecurities because I realized most people don’t care what you look like.
@izzybv
@izzybv Жыл бұрын
"Coming off bubbly and people thinking i have no brain up in there." I almost sobbed because this resonated so hard with me
@______yawn6419
@______yawn6419 2 жыл бұрын
I've come to the conclusion that everybody has their own fears and fights of varying sizes they deal with- even the coolest person you know, you're not the first to have them and you're definitely not any lower than everyone else for having them, accept what you can't change and deal with what you can all while saying to yourself that you're trying and you love yourself for that.
@crossiant271
@crossiant271 9 ай бұрын
My biggest insecurity is also about my personality and my English. I have always been struggling with making friends my entire life, and as an immigrant who moved to the US when I was 14, I always feel my English is not good enough to become indistinguishable from the people around me. Due to the lack of social interaction, I never really got to make many friends who actually spoke the language. I just let every growth opportunity slip away, avoiding putting myself out there as much as i can.
@mzzwerg3156
@mzzwerg3156 2 жыл бұрын
0:25 "My teeth" wtf what is supposed to be wrong with them?😂
@de4612
@de4612 Жыл бұрын
Hey, don't judge them. It takes courage to admit insecurities.
@causeimmortal
@causeimmortal Жыл бұрын
1:34 "i just speak how i feel" i'm not sure if this person's insecurity is that since there's not much context but it's interesting that they point that out because as a very shy and quiet person, i generally look up to people who are outspoken and say what's on their mind. maybe to these kinds of people they might be insecure about it and while i can't completely understand it since i'm not like that, to me, i admire that a lot. of course there's a difference between saying *anything* that could potentially hurt other people and being outspoken but as someone who overthinks a lot and has a difficult time expressing myself, i really do admire these types of people. i know there are some people who like shy people for various reasons and i respect that, but it can be hard to see my shyness as anything other than weakness, especially when it has affected my life in many ways
@chrisr393
@chrisr393 2 жыл бұрын
4:46 There's something so ironic about people with insecurities giving advice on dealing with insecurities. Like, if your advice doesn't work for you, then why are you giving it? lol
@daniazara7076
@daniazara7076 2 жыл бұрын
1:35 girlll girl aww I really do relate to this so much and it's so sad to feel that way Feeling lonely when you're not even alone is the worst feeling in the world
@jillsarah7356
@jillsarah7356 2 жыл бұрын
Very relatable. I care waaaaay too much what others think of me/how they perceive me. I gotta work on that
@captainwatercress
@captainwatercress 2 жыл бұрын
“The only person who can tell you anything true about yourself is you” I’m holding onto this one 💜
@DA-js7xz
@DA-js7xz 2 жыл бұрын
Except that a lot of people aren't self aware and don't realize how harmful they are toward others. In those cases, others are more truthful than ourselves.
@megangomezaddams
@megangomezaddams 2 жыл бұрын
It's strange because I'm so incredibly negative toward myself about my physical appearance (from face to knees and everything in between) but when I hear other people talk about their insecurities, I'm instantly like "Oh never! You are stunning, my god! Don't ever think that."
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@ruffey1748
@ruffey1748 2 жыл бұрын
You're 22! You have so much time to live a life you love 💛
@simonecrook6317
@simonecrook6317 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@frogchair
@frogchair 2 жыл бұрын
Such a wide range in answers! I was certainly expecting the body shame, but the concerns about personality caught me off guard! I always love these videos because they show me different perspectives! I’ve always had a personality that people enjoy, and I kinda figured most people have good personalities but sometimes you just gotta get to know em first. I didn’t realize that was insecurity for some folks! ❤❤❤
@alexlachapelle9065
@alexlachapelle9065 2 жыл бұрын
Okay loved this. now I wanna hear everyone’s thing they love about themselves most for some positivity 💖
@PbnJAMilah
@PbnJAMilah 2 жыл бұрын
This video made me emotional. I feel so seen ❤
@JP-hj1il
@JP-hj1il 2 жыл бұрын
Love seeing humans showing their humanity. Let's celebrate each other.
@reginamcadory674
@reginamcadory674 Жыл бұрын
This shows the beauty of us all. Different physically and emotionally. But yet we all have our issues.
@Marcusiri
@Marcusiri 2 жыл бұрын
3:15 : “Anything you do they will tear you down for it” 💯 📌 I started living for myself when I realized this
@DA-js7xz
@DA-js7xz 2 жыл бұрын
Others can say true statements about you as well. A lot of people don't actually realize how abusive or manipulative they are until someone else identifies situations.
@drawingnya7154
@drawingnya7154 2 жыл бұрын
The guy who drop out of school to go to cooking school is an accomplishment
@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041
@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041 2 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for someone to talk about being insecure about their intelligence! That and being short, I feel like it's harder to be taken seriously
@Iexpedite1
@Iexpedite1 2 жыл бұрын
I always felt like an imposter. I was highly successful in my chosen career. I was highly respected by my coworkers. I always felt like I wasn’t as gifted as others perceived me to be.
@awafatimakane2505
@awafatimakane2505 Жыл бұрын
It's nice to see others also feel insecure about their personality(I don't know if that came out right). Most people talk about physical insecurities, so it feels nice to see it.
@user-qt5dq8mg6w
@user-qt5dq8mg6w 2 жыл бұрын
omg the "too emotional and sensitive" girl made me wanna cry
@spongebob8157
@spongebob8157 Жыл бұрын
1:31 I highly doubt her “personality” got her fired. She probably checks her horoscope daily, and disrespected her boss, thinking that’s just her “big personality” in her zodiac sign. 🤡💀
@absoljuice
@absoljuice Жыл бұрын
crazy to see people insecure about what other people think about them and how they perceive them because thats just something that never crosses my mind
@j3s333
@j3s333 2 жыл бұрын
This actually helped me in a weird way… thanks :)
@zerocool_42
@zerocool_42 8 ай бұрын
How others perceive me. Any time I’m in public and I hear people laughing I automatically assume they’re laughing at me
@bela-sofia34
@bela-sofia34 2 жыл бұрын
I feel insecure because I don't have family and anyone to rely on. Makes me feel like a stranger in a strange land.
@Littlemilkdud
@Littlemilkdud 2 жыл бұрын
0:26 thats crazy cause before she said that i was thinking “wow she has nice teeth”💀
@niles8102
@niles8102 2 жыл бұрын
I want to party with all these people. They all seem so fun.
@katl8825
@katl8825 2 жыл бұрын
it's sad that the absolute majority of these insecurities come from how others see us or have made us feel in the past :(
@BrianThrives
@BrianThrives 2 жыл бұрын
The guy who's going into culinary school: the economy's changing. A PhD isn't worth what it used to be worth, and it doesn't set you up the way it used to. I think it's smart not to saddle oneself up with debt just for the sake of a piece of paper that has a lower chance of paying for itself as time's gone on (unless you're getting into a specific profession, of course).
@kalanilarsen6112
@kalanilarsen6112 Жыл бұрын
The ultimate take away is insecurity is an inevitable human trait. Change the things you can, accept the things you cannot. It's that simple and If you can't manage that prepare to be unhappy for a very long time. I'm speaking as someone with insecurities from both past traumas and not.
@carendestiny
@carendestiny 2 жыл бұрын
Sucks to relate to most of these insecurities!!! Although I would say I’m MOST insecure about how much I talk. I vividly remember being told I’m very annoying as a young child by my family members and I feel like I will hold that in my heart forever.
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Interstellar.1
@Interstellar.1 2 жыл бұрын
I'm short and skinny and as a young adult I get treated like a dumb teenager and completely disrespected by much older adults or even those around the same age as me. Its almost a daily thing of everyone treating me like a child when I'm a fully functioning adult. I get carded for anything and even at the movie theatres, the workers start accusing me of having a fake id when it's my real drivers license. I hate looking so young, life is hard with people constantly making comments about it I'm very insecure about it
@TheBrenanas
@TheBrenanas 2 жыл бұрын
The moment you stop caring what everyone else thinks is the moment you start to appreciate what you might have felt insecure about. I was always incredibly insecure about my speech impediment. I still can be at times. However, I now speak openly about my speech impediment and take pride in my voice because it comes from me and no one else. Anyone who thinks their judgement can now affect me will be sorely mistaken. I respect myself, my voice, my speech impediment, and no one will ever be able to take that away from me.
@taylor1042
@taylor1042 2 жыл бұрын
I love all the Greys Anatomy merch people were wearing 😂
@miyakofifty
@miyakofifty 2 жыл бұрын
4:38 ngl this is kinda true
@nt_partlycloudy21
@nt_partlycloudy21 Жыл бұрын
I think I really needed this video. I’m glad I’m not the only one that has certain insecurities .
@hilary6349
@hilary6349 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been insecure about my 5 head since high school😭but over the past years I’ve just embraced it and I’m learning to love it
@kevinmenjivar1888
@kevinmenjivar1888 2 жыл бұрын
I have insecurities about my weight, my cheeks, my chin, my belly... However, as much as I know these insecurities are originated by extremely unhealthy social beauty standards, I feel like is not the society what's making me feel insecure, but myself. I don't like my body as it is right now, whether the reason is originated in society's beauty standards or not. It's kinda ingrained, like that lady said, in all of our minds. And since I want to look a certain way, I feel like I won't be enough for myself until i get there. No matter how many people say my belly looks cute. I honestly don't talk about my insecurities too much, and that's why I'm bringing it up here. I'm curious. Am I the only one who feels that way?
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 2 жыл бұрын
Omg same!!! I feel this way completely. It started from a young age. I think what also made me feel insecure is being constantly compared to my twin sister and not being desired by a lot of people. So on top of the dislike I had for how certain parts of myself looked- bcoz those parts got me into situations where I was bullied (like my weight and the scars I had on my legs from mosquito bites)- I battled with trying to change them so that I get desired more and that i appeal to what people liked about my twin. It's still ingrainrd in the back of my mind even when i go shopping. And it's just making me feel sad a lot
@kevinmenjivar1888
@kevinmenjivar1888 Жыл бұрын
@@charmainephasoana6850 sorry, I didn't read this before. But same. I feel undesired, and that tops over my own insecurities to make me feel even worse
@CarTalesCrew
@CarTalesCrew 2 жыл бұрын
So the cosincese is that we're all insecure about various things. We can get through it as a human race, we're all we got
@kaylarosespace
@kaylarosespace 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely my teeth. It’s the thing that people see first when you open your mouth. It’s a hard thing to overcome.
@deluxedbn6453
@deluxedbn6453 Жыл бұрын
0:22 Made me think if lumpy space princess lol
@jahnellrichards6231
@jahnellrichards6231 2 жыл бұрын
My biggest insecurity is my skin. Hyperpigmentation and very bad intertrigo. Oh and acne. It is difficult and costly to try and get rid of.
@GlupShiddo
@GlupShiddo 2 жыл бұрын
I love Cut so much ❤ such beautiful people always.
@Wikaa3322
@Wikaa3322 2 жыл бұрын
I'm the combination of 70% of them (in case of insecurities)
@juliana-om3bn
@juliana-om3bn 2 жыл бұрын
the girl at 4:40 is so beautiful
@5ar.s955
@5ar.s955 Жыл бұрын
04:21 GODDESS
@SS-cu8se
@SS-cu8se 2 жыл бұрын
My biggest insecurity is my jaw but it’s not worth it for me to go under the knife and get surgery. The risk of life long pain isn’t worth it. I’ll just have to deal with a weak chin. Oh well, I still bagged me a man! Lol
@cleetus_
@cleetus_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@miketython8055naww 😂😂
@UNF4lR
@UNF4lR Жыл бұрын
i can relate so hard with the not feeling smart enough and im 20 i feel like i haven't accomplished anything and that im scared i wont have anything to tell my future kids other than it all revolves around trauma everyday.
@qrpcoaching8198
@qrpcoaching8198 Жыл бұрын
It doesn’t have to be that way. You said it yourself: you “feel” you haven’t accomplished anything. So you either have a low self esteem or you compare yourself to someone very successful in something. In both cases there are ways to change your view on things.
@finallygoated2361
@finallygoated2361 Жыл бұрын
Why do u want kids? Are u a 10/10? U have a nice smile? Or a nice job so your kids can have a good education and good genes
@cheery625
@cheery625 2 жыл бұрын
I kept saying "oh and that too! " for the rest of the video
@craigdax
@craigdax 4 ай бұрын
The fact that i am 41 with no family or house of my own. I feel like i am not man enough for a woman because i don’t have that macho confidence that every man has. And i know girls love men who are ambitious and confident. Sooo basically i feel like i am not good enough for anyone.
@ChrisTheAspergerGuy
@ChrisTheAspergerGuy 2 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised nobody mentioned body hair. That's my biggest insecurity. It's very excessive, ugly, embarrassing, not to mention messy and itchy. I have to get painful and expensive full body waxes every few months just to keep it at bay. Luckily, there's less hair regrowth each time, but it's still a problem. It's also been one of the main things keeping me sexless and single. Hell, when I was in school, I even wore long sleeve shirts and jackets during the warmer months of the school year, which often wasn't comfortable. And whenever any part of my body showed that had hair on it, I'd get made fun of. I have good reason to be insecure about this.
@gardennormie2859
@gardennormie2859 2 жыл бұрын
That's terrible and I feel the same way about my body hair even though I'm a boy. I wish the world wasn't so against having things that are natural and common but I hope we can both overcome this
@ChrisTheAspergerGuy
@ChrisTheAspergerGuy 2 жыл бұрын
@@gardennormie2859 It's not so much the world. I just don't like it on me. I look and feel so much better when I'm smooth.
@gardennormie2859
@gardennormie2859 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy not gonna lie it does feel nicer to be smooth
@Mastabuilda212
@Mastabuilda212 2 жыл бұрын
Its an inheirently human thing to have insecurities. Everyone has something they wish they can improve upon I'm sure of it
@dmtdreamz7706
@dmtdreamz7706 Жыл бұрын
His mind and heart were flooded with extraordinary light; all torment, all doubt, all anxieties were relieved at once, resolved in a kind of lofty calm, full of serene, harmonious joy and hope, full of understanding and the knowledge of the ultimate cause of things.
@Katie0007-d1e
@Katie0007-d1e Ай бұрын
2:02. I like that hairdo
@alirezaee955
@alirezaee955 16 күн бұрын
To have all those insecurities at once is killing me😂😂🤦🏼‍♂️
@MikeOrkid
@MikeOrkid 2 жыл бұрын
As I have gotten older I've learned to let go of all that shit. If it's something you don't like, why don't you like it? Are you comparing to false standards? We're all individuals and that's what makes us special. I'm tall, lanky, mid 30s and can't grow facial hair, bad feet, still have bad skin, connective tissue disorder, and the list goes on. Ya know what, that doesn't define my character unless I let it. But at the end of the day, you do you.
@Imayanokoji
@Imayanokoji Жыл бұрын
Being short insecurity >>>>>>> any other insecurity
@yournewstepdad6_68
@yournewstepdad6_68 2 жыл бұрын
Letting myself be vulnerable around my family & friends! Because I don’t want anyone to confuse it with weakness!
@sarahminton4111
@sarahminton4111 Жыл бұрын
3:11 I feel this so much
@MRJLS15
@MRJLS15 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the honesty enjoy all of them
@scoobie8amg
@scoobie8amg 2 жыл бұрын
Physical: My acne and giant forehead worsened by my receeding hairline Personality: That I dont fit in and people dont like me or that I'm not respected/taken seriously
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 2 жыл бұрын
The personality one is me omg
@Ecfotografy
@Ecfotografy 2 жыл бұрын
To the lady with the thick calves= 😍😍
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