What To Do After You Get Her Number

[@lightnbubbly]

Very true. The texting without asking for a date is ridiculous after awhile. Ask for the date gentlemen.

[@mattykay1137]

CandyAppleRed I would if I didn’t get blocked or reply too me

[@mercpindi5522]

Haha you women give the number but you dont even talk back. We make so much effort to come to you talk, get your number. Then you complain we are single asf. You girls r acting expensive that's all

[@rangergains3614]

How long should you ask for a date after you got her number?

[@mercpindi5522]

@@rangergains3614 the sooner the better. Text her 1 or 2 days after you get her number then ask her out.

[@kevindavis4709]

Or you could just be a player and enjoy playing women. Get their numbers give them to the retail stores when they ask for your number 😂😂😂😂😂

[@RKNGL]

This is probably the best video I've seen on the subject! Still very relevant in 2024.

[@sergiobonilla8345]

They love great poetry,the longer it takes is simply the rewatd

[@Nolaperu]

I can't believe this only has around 300 views. More people need to watch this. Great and important advice.

[@kevindavis4709]

Exactly but most of the time the very good stuff don't get noticed as much. Good thing is least more for us 🙂

[@kevindavis4709]

It's like this It's somebody that's really interested in you they're going to go through the deep end to get to know you.

[@davityeranosyan7988]

thanks very valuable, will try

[@thelegionary07]

Craig, I kinda feel like you're 95% right on this one, rather than 100%.. I tend to meet most of my dates on dating apps (because I'm busy, and not in love with the bar scene), and a lot of times, it's the girl that actually wants to initiate a conversation about my job, my interests, my hobbies, favorite tv shows/food/etc... It's hard to ignore those texts, and jump right into setting up a date. I definitely agree with the whole waiting to get back to her. Like say she takes 15-20 min to text, you do the same, maybe even go 30-45. The point I'm trying to make is, the setting up of the date right away thing doesn't always work, and sometimes women interpret that as "too forward". I think your advice here is spot on for a girl you met at a bar, where you maybe had that initial "feeling out" process with that person. Not so much for one you met on a dating app. I really think you should do a similar video to this, but for girls you match with on dating apps. I think it could be a good video. Trust me, I've been dating this way for years, and even the hottest women on there wanna converse a bit to get to know you. Setting a date by text #4 comes off as a bit needy IMO. Trust me, I've done this, and it was an immediate ignore, or sometimes an unmatch. The key is to always play it cool though.. Never pressure, and always keep some mystery. Thanks again for your work Craig.

[@JasonJarred]

thelegionary07 I agree - If somebody hits me up on an app I wanna chat for a while first and hit it off by text so I feel comfortable to meet up in person. I’d ignore somebody if they asked me too quickly to meet up - I wanna feel safe and comfortable first that they’re not gonna pressure me or have expectations if we meet up

[@Harlowe79]

I've been watching a lot of your videos over the last couple of days and agree with your advice. Often you have a perspective that I hadn't thought of. However...that "going out, have fun, hook up" line, I hate it. I've heard it elsewhere, too. It reduces the other person to a commodity. And it comes off as self-serving. Which you tell people not to do in the breakup vids. Sorry to point out the tiny spot on the sun, but that line is like nails on the chalk board.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

When you are first getting to know someone that is the goal. Hooking up is what causes human beings to bond and then move on to something meaningful. Our brain releases bonding hormones. So it's good advice ;)

[@Harlowe79]

So are you saying get to sex as quickly as possible?

[@ronaldwilliams9635]

Just got the girl I like number today😁 I'll wait 3 days, then contact her and get to know her, take things slow, I feel she is a special one so I will play my cards right, she showed interest in me already, it's up to me to show her I really to start something special with her. Be a man💯 wish me luck yall 😁

[@rangergains3614]

Hey how did it go?

[@hoggdatsouth]

Get that special one out you head bro.

[@RKNGL]

4-years late here but how did it go?

[@hilario3439]

How did it go dude?

[@rajharell]

Good stuff Craig.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Thanks

[@samuelrochester2825]

Mostly agree with everything Coach Craig said, except you should always text a girl straight away, especially if you get the number at night. This will mean she has your number and know's who you are rather than texting her days later, remember me I'm that guy...

[@mercpindi5522]

Yes one day after is good

[@joshcourtois9556]

I've tryed this and it worked for me. A couple times..... Damn how do you know this craig?

[@jannielsantiago1940]

another awesome video

[@gregquick1542]

58 year old man that is a widower. Some good advice.

[@Dad_Brad]

My ex’s house was technically off the market, but the sign was still out front.

[@jetgeo4]

lmao

[@LiLgPnoy15]

Dating apps are garbage. All apps are garbage. Do it old school, go up to a person you are interested in!!

[@eXeLtheking]

So, I met a girl out in public and asked her on a date the next night. She agreed and met up with me. Good convo I and all that. That night I asked for her number (on the date) got it and she said text her so she had mine. I said “Hey it’s _” and then she never responded. I’m guessing it was a soft let down?

[@supertrashgamergirl2690]

If she said to text her so she had your number, she probably just didn't respond because all that was is so she could have your number. You might have tried to ask about a second date and if she ignored that then forget about it

[@ravagekyle7368]

if she was really intrested in you, you could almost say anything and she would respond. she most likely thinks she could do better. no offense. after 5-6 years of dealing with douches she'll be saying why aren't there any good men anymore. not your fault man.

[@blankearth5840]

Me: “How about we get together Wednesday?” Her: “depends if I’m feeling better, going through something I don’t want to talk about.” What I should have said: “Okay, well how about we get together on a day when you know you’ll be feeling better? What I actually said: “Okay no problem give me a call when you’d like to meet up.” …Not sure if I did this right.

[@raulcastillo9600]

i would say those are roughy the same responses just worded differently

[@sergiobonilla8345]

Chat with her,compliment her hair,dress and you have to take your time so you can study her

[@dzhonnikihirin4006]

And what will she be doing for me ?

[@nielsdaemen]

6:30 He just wants to rent the house for a day.

[@showtimechrist1036]

Great video

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Thanks!

[@sergiobonilla8345]

Reward

[@mattykay1137]

I get numbers Then I get blocked once I say hello 😩

[@yukiflows1819]

Matty Kay deadass bruh

[@mercpindi5522]

Haha numbers mean nothing Before I used to think it's all about the numbers. In reality its all about the date. Bringing her to the date is really hard ...

[@kevindavis4709]

You want to have fun? You ever buy anything on credit? You noticed how they always ask for a number? If you want to have fun give the credit people random women's number. I know I sound like a deuce 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nathansawicky6333]

Lol you know how many times i got a girls number on tinder and then ghosted after like 2 texts back and forth. What I learned is to just text them a week later after being ghosted and they often respond and act like it never happened.

[@5wayss]

what if the person is from out of state?

[@mercpindi5522]

How patient bro

[@mercpindi5522]

@Bili Pivac number means nothing I cold approach many girls. When you approach them they think I am weird/creepy...even if they do give me the number they might reply to one or two messages then nothing. Very hard to get a date from a random girl....

[@mercpindi5522]

@Bili Pivac your right its better to move on. People say join clubs you can meet new people there. I think its better than cold approaches....did you ever get a date from a cold approach?

[@mercpindi5522]

@Bili Pivac older girls you mean like milfs lol in the late 30s.

[@mercpindi5522]

@Bili Pivac you are right. All the ones I got numbers of I texted them not called them. The new digits that I get in the future will see if call vs text makes any difference. Girls lie too much when your taking their number they say will hangout later they change their minds.

[@jorgesoto7124]

💪100

[@marianmarian1714]

Too much headache why are you bringing this to yourself bro

[@lindenwheare722]

Women are just so damn complex it drives me crazy

[@servant8052]

Why too long bro... cut these down to 10 mins and get rid of the fluff.

[@hugorivera385]

TOTALLY..WAYYYYY TOOOOOO LONGGGGGG.....& WHY ARE YOU LOKING AT YOUR LAPTOP ALL THE TIME...

[@raulcastillo9600]

@@hugorivera385 u cant be serious… he looks at his computer cause thats where he has his notes and information regarding the video. lmao like how a teacher has a powerpoint they look off of when teaching? like that lol, it is lengthy but it is filled with lots of answers to many scenarios that help people who need it. grow up