What To Do If You Feel ABANDONED or REJECTED by a Specific Person?

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@sarandeepkaur2561]

I just began crying uncontrollably when you said to tell these lines to the inner child ''I'm here for you" "I'll never leave you" and I literally hugged myself and I realized all these years I have been rejecting myself and abandoning myself and never really accepted or appreciated myself ever and I felt the hurt from all these years dissolving slowly and I still have a lot to let go but I'm happy I've finally begun to accept and love myself. Thank you so much.

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. Beautiful.

[@dreamgirlzen7350]

Going through the same thing ❤️🤗

[@AmericaTru]

omg same

[@thefashionschool.]

same❤️

[@shawnjesseman664]

I swear I manifested your channel, Shelly. I had told myself "I choose to get unstuck and I choose to see things differently" and I immediately found your channel. Your guided meditations have seriously opened me up and left me in tears. I know that manifesting my ex back is done and she is on her way.

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad you’re here✨

[@lloydtaylor1075]

She already yours

[@johnpowell2634]

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[@johnpowell2634]

Whatsapp me

[@johnpowell2634]

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[@ChristineSetTheScene]

Did anyone else start crying like a baby when she said "I have got you and I am never ever gonna leave you

[@ErikaK]

It is so powerful when we connect with our inner child. Life perspective changes completely the moment we start loving ourselves ♡

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. So beautiful, so true. 🙏

[@Vanilove653]

Hi.... I'll share my feelings. This video is about abandon and rejection but I'm confused here. Coz I had a wonderful relationship with my Love and whatever I believed was happening. Now all of a sudden he started listening to others and feel them right in everything but he doesn't listen to his heart. Lately I had a fight with someone who is like a family member to him and me. She made me wrong in his eyes and all my good intentions she made it feel like I wanted bad and that I'm wrong. We had a fight in anger where she was raising her voice and I said something in anger where she felt like i wanted her child to be dead. But i never wanted anything wrong with anyone. I said things in anger which i didnt mean but she came to raise her hands on me and gave me badwords. She made me wrong in his family's eyes as well. He trust her so much that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. He thinks only I'm wrong. I explained him everything told him the truth also but I don't know why he doesn't believe me. I'm feeling very sick and I'm having sleepless nights and I can't eat well. I don't know what to do to prove myself right and make him trust me the way we were before.

[@stevec3892]

I’m 53 and still haven’t got over my high school sweetheart breaking up with me lol I can’t handle any rejection to this day . Even when I know they’re no good I go into a deep anxiety when I get rejected

[@vhayashi7369]

Same experience with my ex from highschool. 17 years. Cheated on me left me with babies to raise. I can't handle any rejection either. I've been rejected so many times by family and friends.

[@DopeQueen23]

I bursted out in tears doing this. I didn’t realize how I was feeling deep down.

[@ShellyBullard]

💙🙏

[@jazz0219]

I held myself and said the affirmations once with you, and I could already feel the feelings of rejection dissolve almost instantly... I felt more calm. Definitely going to keep doing this for myself. Thank you!

[@ShellyBullard]

Wonderful!Glad it was helpful! Thank you for letting me know. I know you're brave.😘

[@anacorkery1989]

I was recently dumped, I knew it was because of my own fear of rejection and I manifested this. I am now living in the end because I know he will return by doing this. My biggest battle is my negative thoughts in the "how will it happen" your videos are helping so much. I tried to get the free email for sp but still havent recieved. Thanks for your great content

[@evanjazzista]

Any update?

[@patricialiardi3782]

I love how you can hear kids playing in the background during this.... Takes me right back to my childhood.

[@MsKingwa]

Lovely videos, thank you for your work ❤ It occurs to me that the fear of abandonment people have in intimate relationships can also be present in the relationship with money. It then becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy of lack of abundance, that continues to reveal itself.

[@meowmeow1stgen668]

Shelly this is so amazing. This is one of my biggest hurdles in my mental diet and I feel this is really healing.

[@ShellyBullard]

It's huge.

[@JoViiisss1087]

This video literally made me tear up 😢

[@kharenc5118]

I feel so hurt today and i was looking for a video to make me feel good and i found this. Thank you Shelly this helps me a lot. I had tears while watching this. Thank you 💗💗

[@ShellyBullard]

you're so welcome. Glad you found the video.

[@muzh_]

I was brought to so many tears doing this. It really is life changing and something I will continue to use. I truly appreciate you✨

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. This is a very powerful practice!

[@xtinamagwaza82]

It feels like we are all going through this collectively. Bless you, I needed this so much. ❤️

[@kellyannnoonan2674]

This makes so much sense to me. When I was 7 yrs old I had a stroke, this was in 1976, so my mum stayed near the hospital but wasn’t allowed to stay with me, I remember so clearly feeling frightened and lonely. I cried into my pillow once because I had to be a “brave little girl”! Other things have happened to me along the road to where I’m now that have left me feeling the same. Please take care of the inner child. I wish you nothing but peace, love and happiness in your lives. ❤️🙏

[@faith_9677]

This is actually working for me. I'm pretty much consistent now, after a relatively short time that I've been watching your videos. I find I love your work. 💗

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you 🥰🙏

[@Jodi..]

I think I've manifested your channel... I needed to hear this today. Thank you so much 😘

[@ShellyBullard]

You're so welcome!

[@slavibelaj6074]

Thank you Shelly for this amazing healing video! My inner child still needs a lot of love and attention. ❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. So glad it resonates. Shower your inner child with love! It'll do wonders in your life.

[@GreyKelleigh]

This video is 3 years old but just came across my feed and it was exactly what I needed to hear. I can honestly say I broke down doing this but I think I felt better afterwards. I’ve always known I’ve had abandonment issues after losing people I loved so deeply and they chose to walk out of my life. Not dealing with that for so long brought a lot of emotions but I’m thankful because NOW I can help myself heal. Thanks so much for this!!

[@ShellyBullard]

So happy you liked it !

[@j12e78]

Thank you, I feel so so so much better now. I cried unstable lately, but now my inner child is happy 😊 I wanna send my love you everyone who struggle with this→💌

[@Muchness11]

Thank you for this, it's one I've been coming back to while I move through recent heartbreak and change this pattern of rejection.💗 As a side note I think it's so synchronistic that we can hear kids playing in the background (along with the omnipresent birds)🥰

[@consistencyiskey_]

3:45 This is beautiful. Thank you so much!

[@fitforfreelance]

This is life changing and I'll never forget this. Thanks a ton

[@valerieb8814]

I love how you’re so straightforward with what you’re saying..short, simple yet I can understand it all very well in depth.

[@BeStillandKnow0000]

i've only encountered your videos today and applying your guidance directly, and i can feel the shift within me, talked about it to my mother and she could welcome her wounded self into love... i'm so thankful. going to apply this to all my triggers. thank you, love.

[@nellynel3027]

Wow I’m so happy you touched on this. I am a client of a confidence coach and for the longest time he was telling me about this practice. I was like eh about it, but THEN when I actually put it into practice holy smokes!! I was afraid to feel those feelings (literally the sensations in my body those feelings produced) because I thought I’d start creating negative things but quite the opposite happened. The more I do this emotional work the more I attract the things I want because when I’m with my emotions lovingly and patiently not trying to make them go away they do dissolve. That emotion then is no longer active in me attracting what I don’t want. It gets cleared and I feel at peace and I actually manifest even more than I ask for. I manifest things in abundance lol a lot of LOA teachers don’t teach this but it’s a game changer. Thanks for sharing this :)💕

[@nellynel3027]

Veronica Isles here on KZbin talks about this. For whoever can benefit from this look up her KZbin called “how can I love myself when I don’t even like myself” something like that. I hope this can help someone out there

[@nellynel3027]

Whoops, Veronica Krestow I mean lol

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. yes yes yes yes yes

[@sarai637]

This is powerful, :-(🥺❤️❤️ it honestly gave me goosebumps when you demonstrated a session. Thank u so much.

[@ShellyBullard]

Wonderful.

[@AvaJadore90]

This was so simple and so powerful! I didn't even know I needed this so much! So thankful for this!

[@ShellyBullard]

AvaJadore90 beautiful. Exactly. 🙏🏼💓

[@leahwolfe1325]

Just following along with you in your demonstration made my eyes swell up with tears. I’m definitely going to make this apart of my self love routine to with my healing process.❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. Perfect response. It means you really let it touch you, which is so beautiful. A practice like this truly will heal a lot.

[@npjm.99]

I need to hear this!!

[@ShellyBullard]

it's a really good video. one of my most important, for sure.

[@takaliteratop10maria]

Shelly God bless you. Love from Greece. ❤❤❤

[@ShellyBullard]

💖🙏🌸

[@psym2896]

Greece is here..

[@ravenel2]

Consoling my inner child was okay, but then I decided to make the strong masculine part of myself hug and console the hurt, damaged feminine part of myself, saying “he’s” going to take care of “us,” and it seemed to work. I really felt my energy shift. I don’t think it’s the inner child who is rejected and unloved as much as it is the inner feminine. Hope the shift stays with me, and hope this idea helps someone. Thank you!

[@sarandeepkaur2561]

Love this idea so much!

[@Afronadian]

I almost burst into tears with this one. Thank you for the reminder

[@ShellyBullard]

You're welcome!

[@ramonajet]

oh my god, so grateful to have found you Shelly. i'm at a critical time in my journey where i absolutely need this. will be diving deep into your videos, learning and trying to change my confusion around LOA, gain clarity and manifest with confidence, without doubt and with total trust.

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful. Yes. Full trust.

[@ramonajet]

​@@ShellyBullard i'm curious to know: although i feel a bolstered up in excitement about manifesting my SP, i feel "the story" sometimes grab me with great force... particularly at my most vulnerable time - when i first wake up in the morning. often in a pool of sweat and anxiety that it hasn't arrived (despite my deep ambition to trust) the story generally goes....(it's been such a long time, i've been rejected so many times, he's still not ready, i'm scared next time he reaches out it'll just be another rejection or something to "prove" i'm a fool/this isn't going to manifest)... ugh, boring!! i feel motivated the rest of the day to "flip the script" on it and simply imagine myself Living in The End, and it's glorious, but at other times the doubt (as I said, in the morning is the worst) is all encompassing. Is this worry a great detriment to the process? Or can I just relax and know "we're in a relationship" and allow those feelings to be part of the unfolding? What are your thoughts here? Thanks Shelly!!

[@charliemaryann1654]

Wow I’ve done this for so long now before this video and it feels amazing. Thank you Shelly for all that you put out. Forever one of my fave coaches on this platform. Will have to book a session with you to discuss my career as a life coach 💓

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful. I'm so happy it resonates for you.

[@k1773ns]

This helped me a lot. The exercise you did definitely brought out some tears. I realized that those words are the words I wish to say to myself, that my sp would say to me, but it should be me all along who is telling myself, I’m here for you, and I love you. Self love is a real challenge but a worthy one. Thank you love, you’re so sweet and I feel your energy thru this video.

[@daboz8753]

This one came up right after the 'nothing is missing' video, as I was feeling a bit of lacking motivation and I find watching your videos really helps with that. Ironically, I was actually in the midst of feeling a bit rejected, and this one came up right after the last video on autoplay...and it was really lovely, you have such a wonderful and easy way to understand and help with all these kinds of things. It really helps me to feel better when I need it, and I appreciate it so very much.

[@ShellyBullard]

I'm so happy this resonated.

[@kelliedizon]

I did this earlier without realizing it. I felt hurt and told myself I loved myself so much lol. Cool :)

[@ShellyBullard]

Love it!

[@mariangelasanchezolvera8654]

looking beautiful!!! I love your message and how you explained the inner child part

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you

[@susidavies]

It is so simple really and it made me cry, realizing how much fear i had fm my father as a child. During saying those lines, I literally saw myself as a child being scared of my dad and no one was there to hug me and make me feel safe. Im now 54 and hv just realized i was avoiding the reality and even my adult self was ignoring the little girl.. i just deeply deeply apologised to my little girl, mentally held her so tight and i swear to these comments sections: i will never ever let her alone. And my father is forgivem as he obviously didnt know any better. I am finally free from the lack of understanding why i feel that way at times in my life. Thank you

[@cosmospray]

Wow this is stunning. Incredible technic I felt a strong powerful warm serenity inside my whole body in 2 seconds, and I wasn't even aware that I ve been feeling this abandonned and bad inside

[@AdhistyKiara]

Hi Shelly, just want to say thank you 🙏 You are such a blessing, my heart & chest feels soooo much lighter while practicing this. Indeed, I still cry now & then, but I am positive that one day my inner child would feel that all of the wounds are finally healed. Thank you! :)

[@emilyhiffax4013]

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to solved my broken relationship problems and it works very fast 🙏🙏

[@emilyhiffax4013]

What'Sapp him 🙏

[@emilyhiffax4013]

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[@arunsood6885]

Hi Shelly love you even if you started that moment for our inner child.. seriously.. thank you so much..I love myself, I praise myself as I didn't give up and still trying to get my SP back..and now I believe I will not get her back as she is with me already

[@traceymitchell3100]

This helps and would like to do more work on myself as I do have BPD and I don’t want it interfere with manifesting my specific person back was we are so twin flames.

[@sherry7347]

I needed this ! Such a great practice. Thank you. Now this is the type of video I find so helpful bc other stuff just makes you feel like you should just persist past the feeling but that wasn’t working. Others will say don’t abandon your feelings but give no instruction. Clearly, if I knew how to do that I wouldn’t be running. So thank you so much for adding in practical tips. Much appreciated.

[@JanineBelle1]

I started to cry as soon as I hugged myself and said the words... thank you so much for this. I struggle every day with this pain of feeling rejected and neglected. I wonder how long this will take for me. I have a lot of childhood wounds. Thank you again and you are a beautiful blessing 🙏❣

[@CocoNubia]

Ive manifested this channel, specifically this video, specifically this topic. I've struggled with this for a while. I asked the universe to help me heal this and this is what I find. 💛 This is so helpful

[@vriti1982]

While you saying those words I had tears in my eyes..

[@ShellyBullard]

💙

[@G0THICA798]

I was about to start crying when you said all those things about ur inner I was feeling all of the hurt and problems I didn't know I was holding to for so long I didn't know it was my inner child hurting Shelly thank you so much it helped me realize all of my doubts and problems were coming from that

[@elizabetharslan3453]

Wow.. I always read about the inner child being wounded but didn’t realize how affected mine was until you started speaking to your inner child. 😭

[@goalsset6495]

Shelly, I had been watching your videos these past few days n everything that u say makes sense to me. Ur way of teaching explaining is amazing.. but this was hearttouching for me. I have issues with being rejected n this made me cry. I will forever be there for myself. Thank you so much Shelly n I intent for life to give you beautiful things for these videos that are touching many lives, like it did mine

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I was rejected by my SP but it was early on in our friendship and I knew if she was my SP in time I would be her SP. So I acted like we were friends and still said hello when I had the chance. I started doing the work to win her over and now I'm manifesting her (did it the opposite way). So now I manifest and let that lead me to the path of winning her over. I think it is slowly working. I can feel it in myself and how she reacts to me.

[@RedRose-un7jd]

This is good aspect to care about inner self.If we cant learn how to love himself,then look for that inner child which is missed so much chances,so many times reject by a people,give love to that child and please that child on every way because IT IS DESERVING,LOVED, WANTED AND WORTHY !

[@kaedence____]

the last 4 or 5 days I was doing so good at keeping in check my thoughts with a mental diet and intentions, envisioning before bed, but something wanted me to look tonight at the third parties profile and saw more of their conversations and it... killed me tonight. I feel so lost right now cause I really thought I was doing so so good. It made me feel like the behind the sceneswas just working in their favor while I was just lying to myself and it really gave my heart a sinking feeling..just don't know where to start right now again

[@remex1479]

u can do this!

[@evanjazzista]

I hear you...! -_- Any update since you wrote this comment?

[@trashcan2926]

This practice is incredible, but also very difficult for me. I have a lot of shame towards my inner child, for being gullible enough to fall for my father’s lies, to lie to my family for him to get away with his schemes that I didn’t understand at the time (he was committing fraud and financially abusing me and my family). But I have to remember, I was a child. I didn’t know any better. Its hard to forgive my inner child, but I will get there.

[@marijohanna3637]

This inner child work is so powerful. It makes me cry every time, even just listening and watching you do it. I never realized I had such strong fear of abandonment. Knowing this will change my life. Thank you so much! 🤗❤

[@shameikar2123]

Would this also help with feeling needy for attention from people in general--not just an SP? For example, feeling unseen in your professional and personal life.

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes, of course! Anytime your hurting for any reason, this will work.

[@biteynibbles8444]

Thank you. This meditation helps me feel real good about myself as my sp neglects me every day.

[@ibrahimharunakuchi5639]

I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back.💢....

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[@Natasha-korol]

Hi Shelly! Thank you! This information helps me a lot! sending love from Russia

[@safinaz127]

I had tears and felt it when it came to "inner child" part and it's amazing feeling to know it. Thank you Shelly may God bless you more and more I am grateful that I found your channel and I subscribed to it now and watching your created playlists with a big smile.

[@safinaz127]

Shelly Bullard what do these numbers you replied mean? ...

[@katrinarichman7761]

Thank you for Being part of my Healing Tribe. I've watched numerous videos and I'm going to continue to watch them. Thank you for sharing. I wanted to share a song that came to my heart after my listen to your couple of inner child videos. It seems to be the perfect song to singing in holding that inner child. Artist is Kari Kimmel. the song Is where you belong. sorry I don't know how to add links and all that stuff🙃

[@CHANNEL__ZER0]

Tears. Thank you. ❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful. Perfect response.

[@anthonyscott16]

Hey Shelly. It's a bit difficult to imagine that you would have ever been made to feel that way because your personality is so warm and inviting. I don't even have an SP, yet I tune in regularly because I simply enjoy the feel of your videos. This seems like a really effective technique though. Thanks and have a wonderful day.

[@ShellyBullard]

Awww. Thank you. Yes, I have an Inner Child, too. I've tended to her greatly, which is why you don't feel a lot of active trauma in me now. :) But trust me... I've done a ton of work! And I haven't always been treated well. However, as we all know... anything that's ever happened to me has been my creation. Now I'm in the driver's seat and attract a ton of love, kindness and affection. Thanks so much for tuning in! I appreciate having you here!

[@empress_enchantress]

And I'm crying. Thank you Shell

[@ShellyBullard]

Supreme Glit Extreme Glow perfect response. You’re welcome. 🙏🏼✨

[@monikajadhav2359]

You look so pretty ❣ lots of love from India ❤

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you!

[@jessz444]

Amazing, thank you so much for sharing this! It will truly come in handy!

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes, it will! Glad you liked it.

[@cyberaga20]

This was so incredibly beautiful thank you for presenting this video to us x

[@111coolone]

Ohhh I’m excited for this one 😬

[@ShellyBullard]

M I’m Glad!

[@tarunsaxena6636]

Hi Shelly, just want to let u know that whenever i watch ur videos it heals me some way and also the way u smile and explain things easily, thank you so much for making such videos and solution. God bless you. It's not just video and u r doing great work.

[@yaarahaim6143]

Amazing Video. Thank you Shelly🧡

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad you like it.

[@lefuleseleNkopane]

Yes i just want to start a new relationship by just feeling his being distant. Its soo painful. It affects me even with clients i feel they might reject be before even doing the work. Thank you for this. Its soo amaizing

[@ShellyBullard]

You're welcome!

[@pnkcloud]

Wow...so powerful. Thank you for sharing 💟

[@jennyquezada9644]

I love your hair😍

[@starbrightangela]

You are so beautiful and nurturing Shelly, thank you x

[@ShellyBullard]

You're welcome!

[@silviaanelli8955]

Thank you❤ this video came to me at the right time! You're an Angel! Love from Italy❤

[@SE-yt5yd]

So true I truly feel panic inside of my body!! I have all the time stomach pain

[@iam7688]

11.1k subs! Yay! I'm married with him!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes!!

[@mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613]

Thanks! I really needed this for my specific situation. 🙂☺

[@ShellyBullard]

Wonderful. I'm so happy it resonates.

[@faithvaleriebravo5444]

Thank you Shelly. Just bump into your channel and i felt so blessed. I really needed this right now. I felt comforted. Thank you so much. God bless.

[@Martin-ty5iy]

What Shelly teaches here is vitally important. Your inner child is the Lord of scripture and should be respected as such. Scripture says to "love the Lord (your inner child) with all your heart." "Seek ye first the Kingdom of God (your inner child) and all things will be added to you." Neville taught the virgin Mary of scripture was your inner child, Who, without the aid of any man, when impregnated with your desire, in the fullness of time shall bring forth a son (the thing wanted.)

[@Anwelei]

Thaaats actually blasphemy. And wrong and misses the entire point of the Bi le. But the Bible does say to take control of one’s thoughts and that whatever a man thinks, so he is, so that is correct.

[@michellecrocco2588]

Love this!!!! Perfect timing ❤️❤️

[@TaylorSwiftGleek]

So healing💕

[@ShellyBullard]

I'm so glad

[@sanjeewanibeligala792]

Wow, this made me so released🥺❤

[@Lisa63832]

What a powerful message xxxxxxxxxxx

[@MsKingwa]

Lovely videos, thank you for your work ❤

[@Mar-wk8ch]

I love you. Your video helping me... in this moment... thank thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! from Peru

[@MJ-ud1ud]

Hi babe! Thank you so much - I love this!I will use this to help myself to consistently live in the end.Continue to stay gorgeous! :)

[@1hazelx]

I’m so thankful for you. I am so thankful 🥲 for this. 🥰

[@aditiray2184]

This is great, thank you so much, Shelley! Aditi Ray.

[@VintClarkTCA-]

Bless your voice love..🌹✌️🌻🌷🌸 Soooo soothing💝

[@sallywalker9854]

This is so beautiful Shelly.

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you.

[@loveisreaal]

Thank you, Shelley.

[@ShellyBullard]

You're welcome.

[@mitranimukherjee4844]

U are beautiful Shelly! As a girl I too want to knw to manifest beauty like u!

[@abidashah4943]

Bless you love your videos. Voice of a angle heart of gold love always💖😘😊👌

[@WILDFLOWERlove004]

Amazing thank you, just discovered you, very happy to have done so :) 🙏🥰

[@JohnM...]

Anyone else dreading Valentine's day?....

[@wingardiumleviosa5514]

Holy cow...showed up exactly when I needed it!

[@Mezzie1957]

That’s exactly what happens to me with my boyfriend when we get in a fight I feel like he’s gone for good… Or I start comparing myself to other women… Wow I really need some help to love myself and know that I am just as word is anybody else