What to Do When You and Your Spouse are Falling Out of Love

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Focus on the Family

Focus on the Family

Күн бұрын

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@Bienbendecida
@Bienbendecida 4 ай бұрын
I pray for all those who clicked on this video because their marriage is in a rough spot. Lord I ask You to be their Healer. Give them tender repentant hearts that are willing to pick up their cross, deny themselves and follow after You. Let them stand steadfast and firmly planted in the Word of truth. Surround them with encouragers in the truth. Protect them Lord and save these marriages.
@MisterPompey
@MisterPompey 3 ай бұрын
Amen and thank you so much for that 😢❤
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 6 жыл бұрын
It’s not about feelings , those change , it’s about obedience and trust .
@rayc9899
@rayc9899 3 жыл бұрын
So lucky after 42 years of marriage that we still love and attract each other, yesterday we have a date. LOL WOW I'm carefree...
@phelominachiradza4268
@phelominachiradza4268 Ай бұрын
Easier said than done
@matildelove6291
@matildelove6291 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’m looking falling out of love videos on KZbin. What is wrong with me ?
@lesefelix6426
@lesefelix6426 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jwaddell318
@jwaddell318 2 жыл бұрын
KZbin is free therapy!
@amberhynes6445
@amberhynes6445 2 жыл бұрын
@@jwaddell318 im trying to fall Back in love, with my partner.
@irisrodriguez.
@irisrodriguez. 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't know this was this common!
@MisterPompey
@MisterPompey 3 ай бұрын
Nah what’s wrong with the world because it’s more than just you searching and watching
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 6 жыл бұрын
Dates can be overrated , doing life together is underrated.
@ashleygordon7717
@ashleygordon7717 3 жыл бұрын
What she said about “the marriage being an idol” thank you for that !! That’s what I’m doing with my marriage and my husband is SO unequipt for what I need I need to turn back to go out marriage was extremely great then
@cassiegardner7783
@cassiegardner7783 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message thats where Im at now and I'm praying the spark comes back. Its such a scary horrible feeling to be in.
@ashleygordon7717
@ashleygordon7717 3 жыл бұрын
I’m there now ! Any update ?
@lesefelix6426
@lesefelix6426 2 жыл бұрын
It is!
@lprescott131
@lprescott131 Жыл бұрын
Many of us are going through the same thing at this time ,may we be restored to our first love for one another
@rockchalk9078
@rockchalk9078 Жыл бұрын
If you're looking for a "spark" it's bound to fail
@Jennifer.Smart.Selver
@Jennifer.Smart.Selver Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? What helped?
@itsdejalynn
@itsdejalynn 5 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely on time for me. Thank you!
@aikaryna
@aikaryna 3 жыл бұрын
Hi how are you? :(
@amberhynes6445
@amberhynes6445 2 жыл бұрын
Looking deep. I keep getting told a relationship is based on feelings or the spark. Has anyone here ever been in a relationship without that? Have you ever kissed your partner, without feeling anything? Im trying to figure myself out.
@monicanannozi8550
@monicanannozi8550 4 ай бұрын
It's the hardest thing😢ask me....u have to pretend all thru
@Nefertista
@Nefertista 6 жыл бұрын
I’m not married yet but thank you 🙏🏼 for this great example I already shared the video with someone who is closer in getting married God bless you
@XTINCTIONation
@XTINCTIONation 2 жыл бұрын
I got the benefits of this video and thank you, but when he said “next thing I know Ann’s on her knees” my mind went sideways 🤣
@awilliams7796
@awilliams7796 Жыл бұрын
Right!
@lisabug75
@lisabug75 6 жыл бұрын
How the heck do you get on knees in a car??🤨
@MYB1909
@MYB1909 6 жыл бұрын
Jewish Princess i was thinking the same thing lol
@anagomes4422
@anagomes4422 4 жыл бұрын
not literal, just express praying with humility and faith
@RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light
@RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light 3 жыл бұрын
On the seat
@markcost547
@markcost547 3 жыл бұрын
He said he got out of the car and on his knees
@michelleburton7684
@michelleburton7684 2 жыл бұрын
@amber5518 Same. Then I thought maybe they drove one of the huge old Buicks that had a seat as big as a couch in the front and back. Lol, so there's plenty of room to take a knee.. unless it was figuratively speaking, they got on their knees mentally humbling themselves?
@Midnightcrimefiles
@Midnightcrimefiles 3 жыл бұрын
2021 and 21 years of marriage and I am done. There is nothing left.
@BeingBetter
@BeingBetter 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. Mine is getting there. I'm so heartbroken.
@Skylaralfred
@Skylaralfred 5 ай бұрын
@@BeingBetterI’m only 11 years in, no one is cheating but this marriage is falling apart.
@BeingBetter
@BeingBetter 5 ай бұрын
@@Skylaralfred I'm sorry. I'm still married but it's challenging.
@Skylaralfred
@Skylaralfred 5 ай бұрын
@@BeingBetter alright. Truth be told ,the spark is gone. All that’s left is commitment .
@14yoohoo2007
@14yoohoo2007 6 жыл бұрын
😭 please tell me how this works when there’s an unbeliever in this equation? I’m suffocating within in my loneliness. Please pray for my marriage. Through my weakness I am on my knees praying to God, but how can this work if my husband doesn’t humble himself to God much less us.
@iamnainai
@iamnainai 6 жыл бұрын
That may well be one of the hardest things a spouse has to walk through in a marriage because it takes humility but, the onus is on the believing spouse to walk in obedience, prayer and trust in God. Sometimes we make our spouses our idols which I have been guilty of before - but God wants to supply All of our needs. Remember God knew beforehand what your marriage story would be and He works it all out for your good. Ultimately he uses every trial to transform us into the image of His Son so we can count it all joy when we encounter such difficulties because God uses it to produce character in us if we do all things as on to the Lord. There's a book called the Empowered wife which is so practical in explaining how we can play our parts as wives and watch God take care of the rest. Praying for you !
@lizarm8741
@lizarm8741 6 жыл бұрын
Day D My parents were not walking with the Lord when they got married. My mom went to a dying church because she grew up there and God told her she needed to go to a better church or my faith would never grow and we would die there spiritually. That was the day her life turned around and I am so grateful that she trusted God enough and was Bold enough to walk on this journey alone with her child, me. She grew in her faith but my dad did not. For the entire time I lived at home he never wanted to go to church or be Christian. I could tell it was such a struggle for my mom. After he got laid off right before I moved out, things started turning and changing in their house. She had been praying for him fervently this whole time, 20 some years. Today he has gained his faith and is so involved with his church. It takes time and prayer, patience and your personal growth with God. God still wants you to follow how he wants you to treat your husband which is not just for you but also your obedience and trust in God. It is your faith and relationship with God that heals ❤️
@lahniandgem8302
@lahniandgem8302 6 жыл бұрын
Trust in God
@tomluna1201
@tomluna1201 4 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat except it’s my wife. She can care less about Christianity. She thinks she is too smart for religion. We are the most opposite people you can think of. We go days without talking to each other and avoiding one an other. The only thing we can agree is that we stay “married” for our kids. Other then that we would have been long gone.
@googlecritic2773
@googlecritic2773 4 жыл бұрын
Day D How is your situation going now?
@melkerner
@melkerner 7 ай бұрын
Well, rather than discuss it, my wife decided to simply withdraw, withhold all affection but yet still wants attention, act of service and words of affirmation - hasn't kissed me or touched in 8 years.
@rebeccastephens6087
@rebeccastephens6087 3 жыл бұрын
The ad on this video was for a divorce Attorney... 😭 No! Targeting those who are at a low moment and are vulnerable.
@river5235
@river5235 Жыл бұрын
He’s not clueless. You’re not commenting how he needs
@estherilewis
@estherilewis 6 жыл бұрын
So good.
@true2selfwithJuliya
@true2selfwithJuliya 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!
@AldapesExpress
@AldapesExpress 27 күн бұрын
How do you do all of this with a baby that not a years old yet
@mercykitti6659
@mercykitti6659 5 жыл бұрын
That's me,how I repent Lord,I have made my marriage an idol, forgive me father.
@reviccam657
@reviccam657 3 жыл бұрын
I‘m crying…
@ogechifaith4466
@ogechifaith4466 2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him
@donyailhoffman5638
@donyailhoffman5638 3 жыл бұрын
I needed too. See. This thank u both SOO. Mmmcch
@justatouchofblush-velma
@justatouchofblush-velma 4 жыл бұрын
Ugh I don’t have it in me anymore to make anything work
@kingkang6877
@kingkang6877 4 жыл бұрын
Don't give up
@sarahbill3085
@sarahbill3085 4 жыл бұрын
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@traciannveno
@traciannveno 2 жыл бұрын
What a comfort. Praise Jesus and Mother
@jameskeno2393
@jameskeno2393 3 жыл бұрын
Prayer should be #1. Amazing having a wife that can’t share anything with! Then what?
@zuluwarrior1263
@zuluwarrior1263 2 жыл бұрын
Well this wasn’t the answer I was looking for
@ad03dh
@ad03dh 2 жыл бұрын
Probably Bc she was doing everything and he was taking advantage of her
@vitalenergy3595
@vitalenergy3595 3 жыл бұрын
❤️‍🔥
@mychaelsmith6874
@mychaelsmith6874 2 жыл бұрын
There's no way this is real.
@ArtbyMagic
@ArtbyMagic 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. Weirdness.
@martinklass8331
@martinklass8331 2 жыл бұрын
This is creepy....
@vitalenergy3595
@vitalenergy3595 3 жыл бұрын
🤦🏾‍♀️I’m sick of this blah blah blah
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