What To Do When You Run Into A Woman Who Rejected You... Lesbian Dating Advice

Have you ever run into a woman who rejected you?
If you’re a queer person, it’s almost inevitable that you will.
Because the queer community is super small and interconnected - and the longer you’re out, the more you run into the same people over and over.
Rejection stings.
Being around someone who rejected you can be extra intense because it brings out whatever insecurities and fears you already have about “not being enough” and about ending up alone.
But fears are lies.
I have four simple rules you can follow anytime you run into someone who rejected you, and in this video I go through each of them one by one.
Let me know what you think in the comments below!
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[@Filcaj95]

I really do appreciate all that you do, keep up the good work ^_^

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you, that means a lot 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@verified_pig]

This is actually very useful! I wish I heard it sooner!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you so much! 🙏🏼💃🏻

[@katrinatipple6672]

I been running into this alot of women has rejecting me I am a lesbian but I am disabled as well it sucks not finding some one that will accept me for me

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Rejection is very upsetting, but it's an inescapable part of life when dating women. Everyone who dates women gets rejected, because women are picky. Try not to take it personally and try not to let it discourage you. This world is full of lonely women who are looking to connect, and as long as you keep putting yourself out there and growing as a person, there's no way you won't eventually find someone who's a good fit, and they will accept you for exactly who you are. 🙏🏼

[@katrinatipple6672]

Agreed I am even good looking and still get rejected by them I think there is something wrong with them maybe they see me as a threat

[@camilleanderson7755]

I am so happy that I found this video. I recently just has a rejection and it does not feel good. I have been trying to move on from it but it has made me second-guess myself.

[@camilleanderson7755]

I also have not had a girl friend since 2010.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I had many long dry spells, too. But being single is just a a temporary phase in your life, not a permanent condition. As long as you keep growing as a person, putting yourself out there to meet new people, and avoiding wasting time on women who aren't capable of connecting the way you need, then it's only a matter of time before you connect with someone you can build a real relationship with.

[@camilleanderson7755]

I am so happy that I have ran across your video. I also thank you for your response. Yes, I have to try to stop letting rejection hold me back. Right now I should be very happy at the age of 48 and I have turned my life around by losing weight of 200 pounds now I am 170 and I lift weights four days a week plus cardio so that part of my confidence is there but I do need to work on the things you mentioned in this video. Thank you

[@jordanamichellegutman]

It must have taken an extraordinary amount of discipline and dedication to lose that kind of weight. If you can do that, you can do anything you set your mind to! I hope you keep setting audacious goals (across all realms of your life), and you'll amaze yourself with what you can make happen. 💫💥💫

[@RiseofTaitoShirei]

Any success stories of your clients?

[@alexanderv4609]

Good rules, but what if we often attend the same dance school and party. Should I invite her to dance, what I used to do before? Otherwise I will need to ignore her, which is not nice.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

If she is ignoring you, then it wouldn't be impolite (or "not nice") of you to also withdraw your attention from her. It's best not to pay more attention to her than she is paying to you.

[@alexanderv4609]

@@jordanamichellegutman Thank you for your answer. So if it means I should not initiate anything first. It makes sense. However she normally comes with her sister. No attention to her sister would look strange, and paying attention to her sister, but not to her, would be even worse I gess = )

[@jbsang54]

I get soo tired of 'looking'.. I hanen't had a girlfriend since 2010! Lol... any suggestions? I am in the older bracket...60's...

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Use the dating apps. HER, Hinge, Bumble and any others you've heard your friends using. And check them all at least once a day, so you never miss a connection.

[@andreascott5429]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[@jordanamichellegutman]

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[@jeanettelopez1090]

Thanks 🌈

[@jordanamichellegutman]

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[@yesiamabnormal]

😍

[@jordanamichellegutman]

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